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Gia Giudice
Dirty Rush, the truth about Sorority Life with your hosts, me, Gia Giudice, Daisy.
Jennifer Fessler
Kent, and Jennifer Fessler. All right, you guys. So we have the Bachelor himself, Bob Ginny. I will say this before we start. I have never had more people. Say say hello to your guest for me from me. Yes. You are well loved, my friend.
Bob Guiney
That's very sweet. Thank you, my friend. I appreciate hearing that.
Jennifer Fessler
Of course. So, first of all, Bob, you went to Michigan State.
Bob Guiney
Yes.
Jennifer Fessler
And what fraternity were you in?
Bob Guiney
I was an ATO at Michigan State. Epsilon. Ate a chapter.
Jennifer Fessler
Okay.
Bob Guiney
Back in the day.
Jennifer Fessler
Back in the day. Well, back in the day, I don't know if you called it pre gaming, which is what we're gonna talk about, because I certainly didn't. And now all my kids talk about is you didn't either. You're younger than me. But it actually gets on my nerves a little now. But we're still gonna talk about it that whole term. All right, so tell me a little bit about how you all, quote, unquote, pre gamed back at Michigan State.
Bob Guiney
I'm assuming that means pre partied.
Jennifer Fessler
Yes. Right.
Bob Guiney
And so, you know, that's what I call. That's what we probably called. It was pre partying. So, yeah, I mean, you know, it would basically be like before you went to a function or before you went to a game or before you went to. I mean, when I was living in the frat house, it was probably before I went to class. You know, we would just, like, saddle up and have a couple cocktails, turn on some music, get kind of in the zone, I guess. You know, you'd be basically kind of picking up on, you know, getting yourself in the mood to party a little bit.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Bob Guiney
And so, yeah, I just did it yesterday. I went to the Detroit Lions game. I invited all my friends to a restaurant that was right nearby, and I had some clients with me and some friends, and I'm like, hey, we're pre partying over here, so come join us.
Jennifer Fessler
You know. Pre partying? Yeah. I have a hard time saying pre gaming, too. I don't know.
Charity Lawson
Why?
Jennifer Fessler
I just feel like it's all the young kids. Well, you're a young kid, but so I am not.
Bob Guiney
I am not a young kid at all.
Jennifer Fessler
How old are you?
Bob Guiney
54.
Jennifer Fessler
Get that. Are you kidding me?
Bob Guiney
Yeah.
Jennifer Fessler
What do you know about pre gaming? You're old like me.
Bob Guiney
I pre partied.
Charity Lawson
That's what I said.
Jennifer Fessler
You pre partied? 54. Damn, boy.
Bob Guiney
I think I'm actually older than you. Probably.
Jennifer Fessler
I'm 57, so I don't think so.
Bob Guiney
Oh, okay. Yeah, you look fantastic.
Jennifer Fessler
Well, so do you. All right, back to the subject at hand. Anybody ever get crazy before? Do you remember any times where you were pre gaming, pre partying and nobody made it to the actual party or you didn't?
Bob Guiney
Oh, I've been that guy. I mean, I think, I think, you know, you know, you can get, you can get yourself going a little bit too much at the pre party and by the time the actual party begins, you're so, you know, you pre partied your way into full on post party.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah, no, totally. 100%. You didn't make it to the party, right?
Bob Guiney
Yeah, yeah, so have I. I probably never missed the party, but I definitely have had some friends who have, you know, where they just get all sloppy and you're like, oh, buddy, you do not want to, you know, put yourself in this situation right now. You're looking out for your friends when you're pulling them out of the party. Right.
Jennifer Fessler
But especially when you're at a frat or a sorority, right?
Bob Guiney
Yeah, yeah. You don't want to make a fool themselves, especially if there's a girl there that they like or whatever. And the last thing you want to do is make a fool of themselves and, you know, miss the opportunity to make a good impression.
Jennifer Fessler
You're good. You're a good man. Tell me, what music were you listening to? But do you remember? Because I don't, I don't remember.
Bob Guiney
But you know, my musical tastes haven't really changed all that much from then to now. I mean I was, I'm sure I had journey on. I always have journey going and everything.
Jennifer Fessler
After my own heart. Yep, yep.
Bob Guiney
I actually I'm. I'm raising my kids to be the same way. I have a six year old and a four year old and they literally were. Yeah. Yesterday. They're like, why is it don't stop believing playing? I'm like, it will.
Jennifer Fessler
I love. That is so. Yeah. I mean, because we're almost same age then it's music that could get you like pumped, right? It wasn't Absolutely.
Charity Lawson
Yeah.
Jennifer Fessler
It wasn't the ballads necessarily.
Bob Guiney
It was a fun era.
Jennifer Fessler
Right.
Bob Guiney
So there was a lot of great stuff back then. I mean, I don't know if you were like echoing the Bunnyman and don't.
Jennifer Fessler
Know who that is and all the.
Bob Guiney
People, but I got introduced to them in college and they had some great, you know, upbeat stuff. And then I'd mix it in with my classic rock favorites and put together a fun playlist. I literally make a playlist for everything. Like when I go golfing, I. I'll have a golf play. I go boating, I got a boat playlist. Yeah, that's almost more important to me. I am that guy.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Bob Guiney
It's all about the mood to me and it's more important to me than the, Than the party itself.
Jennifer Fessler
Did you ever meet, speaking of the mood, did you ever meet like a special woman, a special girl at a pre party?
Bob Guiney
Yeah, I mean, sure, I'm sure I have.
Jennifer Fessler
You can't even remember. There were so many. You're like, more interested in your playlist.
Bob Guiney
Long time ago.
Jennifer Fessler
I get that. Do you miss the chaos and togetherness of a pregame? I could ask you that question. But you already told me you're still pre gaming yesterday to this day.
Bob Guiney
Yeah, I just did it yesterday and so I'm not missing it today. In fact, I am the opposite of missing it. I'm regretting it. I get that exhausted. And I wish that I wouldn't have pre gamed. See now at my age, what I.
Jennifer Fessler
Forgot is the game.
Bob Guiney
The game becomes the pregame becomes the game.
Jennifer Fessler
Me too.
Bob Guiney
And then I've also like, I gotta have an espresso martini or five in there because I need the energy now. Where back in the day that probably would have put me through the roof, but now I like to have an espresso martini because I feel like I can still have a cocktail, but it gives me a little more energy to do something.
Jennifer Fessler
I never drink them and maybe that's the issue because I can't pre game. Better be at 7pm because 9pm I'm headed right into REM. I'm not like, I can't.
Bob Guiney
You should try it.
Jennifer Fessler
Espresso.
Bob Guiney
Really good.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah, I just like, they're like dessert.
Bob Guiney
Well, I used to. I think they used to be. Now I feel like they become a little bit more of a priming the pump type of beverage.
Jennifer Fessler
Right? What did you say?
Bob Guiney
Priming the pump.
Jennifer Fessler
Priming the pump, baby. You are a frat boy. You are still a frat boy.
Bob Guiney
Oh, I'm Sure.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. It's so great. I love it. I love it. So I have a question. I wonder if you can remember any of this. Did your pre games ever turn into full blown emotional therapy sessions? It's an interesting question. I don't remember ever getting deep at a pregame.
Bob Guiney
No, I mean, I'm, you know, it.
Jennifer Fessler
Was just all about what boy is here?
Bob Guiney
We. Yeah, my buddies were more about, let's, let's have some cocktails, let's have fun. Yeah, it really wasn't that. That wasn't the time. Don't get me wrong. Later in life, I wouldn't say a pre. A pre party would turn into that, but you know, later in life it's a post party might turn right there, you know, and for me, you know, my father just passed away not too long ago.
Jennifer Fessler
I'm so sorry.
Bob Guiney
Literally. Thank you. I mean, it's two years now or three years now, but my, my buddies brought him up last night because everyone just loved my dad so much and, and that, that was. I guess that kind of was a little bit of an emotional moment at a. At a pre party, but it was like a happy emotional moment. It was like, you know, oh, he was the best, wasn't he? Oh, man, we love him. We miss him. Let's get back to our cocktails. You know, so it was. We paid homage and then we got, you know, we got right back after it.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. I'm getting to the age myself where drinking a lot is always going to turn into weeping. Probably.
Bob Guiney
Yeah, you do both.
Jennifer Fessler
Right? Just getting nostalgic.
Bob Guiney
Napping and weeping, napping and weeping.
Jennifer Fessler
It's perfect. That should be a book. All right, listen, thank you for coming on. You're a doll.
Bob Guiney
Yes, thanks, Jen.
Jennifer Fessler
What a charmer. You and I have to pre game sometime soon. I would love it, but no game. That's all I can do is a pregame. No game, then we're going to bed. Exactly.
Bob Guiney
Call the game, Rem. I like it.
Jennifer Fessler
Thank you. Thank you, my friend.
Bob Guiney
Have a great day.
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All right, you guys, guess who we have? We have Mercedes and Jonathan from the Bachelor. Hi you guys.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Hey.
Jennifer Fessler
Okay, so you were both in involved in Greek life. So Mercedes, you went to Iowa State.
Sophie Cunningham
Yep.
Jennifer Fessler
And what sorority were you in?
Gia Giudice
Delta Zeta.
Jennifer Fessler
Delta Zeta. Okay, Jonathan, you went to Chapman and you were in Fiji. Fiji, Yep. And just for our listeners, that's Phi Gamma Delta.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Yes.
Jennifer Fessler
Right. Yeah. Okay, well, listen, we're talking today about pre gaming and I was talking to Bob guinea and I was saying like back in the day we did not use that term and now I just. If I hear it one more time, it will be one time too many. But we didn't we just went out and before we went to the game, we all just hung out at the Sammy house.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Hey, you wanna have drinks before the drinks?
Jennifer Fessler
I guess. But it wasn't like a thing. Like you have to like. I feel like now you have to pregame.
Gia Giudice
It's part of the night for sure. It's definitely like. Okay, so where are we pregaming? It's like always like it's part of the night.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
There's also post gaming too.
Jennifer Fessler
There is?
Gia Giudice
Yes.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Oh yeah. As we go, like the party's loud and obnoxious and then you go post game where it's like chill and you can have like a nightcap.
Jennifer Fessler
Ah, see, I would dig that way more than probably the pre gaming or the party. Tell me like what it was like though in your house, Jonathan, before, I mean, while you were in college. Like, what was it?
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Well, you always too. And we were talking about this off camera actually is you always pre game the pre game too, because pregames where you go and you like actually get to like talk and like mingle with people. So you want to have, you want to have the edge off a little bit. So usually when I was getting ready, I'd be in the shower, I'd have one of the guys just throw me a drink and I just have a drink in the shower while I'm getting ready for the day.
Jennifer Fessler
A little sad, but I mean, I.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Guess it was honestly great vibes in college. Great vibes.
Jennifer Fessler
Really?
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Oh yeah.
Jennifer Fessler
Maybe I'll try them.
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Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
You have like a white claw in the shower.
Jennifer Fessler
A white claw in the shower.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
You know, you go take like a bubble bath and you have like a glass of red wine with you.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
But you're getting ready to chill out.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. You got an issue, John. We'll talk about that another time. Just kidding, just kidding. What about you, Mercedes?
Gia Giudice
Um, yeah, I feel like at Iowa State it was very much a party scene. So we were always pre gaming and the same thing. Like the girls would get together before the actual pre game. Because when you go to the bars or like the party or whatever, it's loud, it's obnoxious, and everyone's just kind of like dancing, vibing and not really having conversations.
Jennifer Fessler
Right.
Gia Giudice
So you would take the edge off at the pre. Pregame with the girls and then go with like the big group of guys and girls, mix, talk, whatever, and then go to the party.
Jennifer Fessler
I mean, it definitely makes sense because I know it is like before maybe you hit the party with both sexes, you do want to, like, get your flow on?
Gia Giudice
For sure.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
You also don't have the confidence. You do as an adult.
Gia Giudice
Yeah.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Back in college, you're like, all right, we're going to talk to girls, take a couple of drinks. You still don't talk to girls, but at least you have the drinks in the system.
Jennifer Fessler
Do you guys ever either. Either one of you have a signature pre party drink?
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Now that I'm older. Espresso martini for sure. To make sure.
Jennifer Fessler
Oh, my God. That's just what Bob just said. That.
Gia Giudice
Except I drink mine with tequila.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. Espresso martini with tequila.
Gia Giudice
Yes. Game changer.
Jennifer Fessler
Why so good?
Gia Giudice
I don't know.
Jennifer Fessler
Okay, for all you little ones out there, get your. Get your tequila in your espresso martini. What about music, guys? What. Any favorites, things that you were listening.
Gia Giudice
To, like, in college or. No.
Jennifer Fessler
Pre gaming. Like, was there just stuff that got you pumped up? Do you remember anything?
Gia Giudice
I'm trying to think of, like, it's.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Probably always rap, honestly.
Gia Giudice
Yeah.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
In college for sure.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Bob Guiney
Really?
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
It was either that or, like, you have friends that are, like, into the oldies and they think it's, like, really sick. And then you kind of get on board with that, too. Like, they'll play like Billy Joel and everybody's singing along. And that's also kind of a vibe.
Jennifer Fessler
Too, so that's my vibe, actually. Yes. Do you guys.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
It's like, really, really old.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah, exactly, honey.
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Jennifer Fessler
The truth hurts, but it's the truth. What about country? And this is. Now I'm off the topic of pre gaming, but you guys. Cause I know, like, now I feel like a lot of colleges, the kids are listening to country music.
Gia Giudice
Yeah, I love country music.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
I grew up on country.
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Gia Giudice
Sykes, Jinx.
Jennifer Fessler
Have you guys ever met before?
Sophie Cunningham
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Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Like twice.
Jennifer Fessler
Three times. Yeah, I like it. What were the nights to go out at your.
Charity Lawson
Oh, God, like, Wednesday through Saturday.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Yeah, we had wine Wednesdays. We went to the bars on Thursday. Friday, Saturday were house parties. And then Sunday, if you're watching the game, you could have day drinks, but then you kind of just chill out.
Jennifer Fessler
Got it, got it. What about shots? Are you guys. Were you fans of Shots or. Because I know for me that never ended well. Yeah, shots. Did you try to pace yourself?
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Classy. Like shots. It was like, you take polls.
Gia Giudice
Yes.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
You just take the bottle and you just take a pole from.
Jennifer Fessler
Everything has to have a new name.
Gia Giudice
So what we did, going out, we would take water bottles, like plastic water bottles and fill it up with vodka and we would Take that into the party and just. Yeah, just take pulse out of it.
Jennifer Fessler
I mean, crazy sexual. So now you're taking a poll. That's what this world has turned into, Literally.
Gia Giudice
And also, if I did that now, I look back on, like, that time in my life. I'm like, how the hell did I survive? Like, I, I, if I did that now, I would be like, not okay. The next day, I would be on my deathbed.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
I, I will say, most subtle flex ever. I still have yet to have a hangover ever.
Gia Giudice
Wow, you've never had a hangover and.
Jennifer Fessler
You start in the shower.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Yeah.
Jennifer Fessler
Maybe that's the key.
Gia Giudice
It's the key. The shower is the key.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
I don't know what's wrong. I don't know how that's even possible.
Jennifer Fessler
Amazing. That's something to be proud of.
Gia Giudice
Yeah, that is.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Do you guys waste on me that I don't really drink that much?
Jennifer Fessler
Oh, you know, no.
Gia Giudice
All right.
Charity Lawson
Yeah.
Jennifer Fessler
So you guys starting with the white club. But do you ever, like, you ever hear liquor before?
Gia Giudice
Beer liquor before?
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. In the clear. So do you ever follow those rules?
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
No.
Jennifer Fessler
No.
Gia Giudice
I'm like, such a. Like, I feel like I start with, like, espresso martinis now and then, like, I might have, like, a glass of wine, and then we'll go into, like, liquor and then maybe a beer at the end, which is like, damn, she's crazy.
Jennifer Fessler
She messes it up. Nice.
Gia Giudice
That's like a big night out. Okay. That's like. I'm, like, out from, like, six to.
Jennifer Fessler
Do you guys still pregame?
Gia Giudice
Yes.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. Like you, you say, okay, before we go to Jingle Ball, we have to pregame, probably.
Gia Giudice
Yeah.
Jennifer Fessler
But for sure.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
Well, it's few and far between, though. I don't, like, I don't go out that much anymore, but if I'm going to actually go out for, like, a night, and I know I'm going to have, like, a good night.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
I'll pregame it.
Jennifer Fessler
Because. Is it also just that you want to get, like, the espresso in? Is it kind of like just. Or just.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
I don't know if I'm having, like, a full night. I'll probably just start with, like, some seltzers, and then I'll have an espresso martini or something to get the vibes up and then. All right, I have, like, a tequila soda.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. Yeah.
Gia Giudice
I feel like my pregame now, like, sometimes the girls will get together, but sometimes we're, like, also so last minute. So maybe it's just like having a Glass of wine while I'm getting ready?
Jennifer Fessler
Okay.
Gia Giudice
You know, I feel like that's my period.
Jennifer Fessler
All right, so you guys meet me at what room? What's your room number? I'll meet you at the Petite before Jingle Ball.
Gia Giudice
Well, I'll pregame.
Jennifer Fessler
I'm gonna get the espresso. Marti, I'm just in the lobby. Thank you guys for coming on.
Gia Giudice
Of course.
Jennifer Fessler
Thanks for having us. I'm seeing either one of you hooked up.
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
What do you mean?
Jennifer Fessler
Oh, see, I don't even. I can't even talking. No. You have a boyfriend? Girlfriend?
Jonathan (Bachelor contestant)
I don't, but she has a date later, so.
Gia Giudice
Yeah, I have a date tonight.
Jennifer Fessler
I'm not. I'm not into it.
Gia Giudice
Jingle bell.
Jennifer Fessler
I like Johnson. No, I don't approve. Excuse me. Thank you for coming in, you guys.
Gia Giudice
Of course.
Jennifer Fessler
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Jennifer Fessler
All right, guys. So now I'm joined by yet another beauty. Hi. Charity Lawson. Hello. Hi. So you went to Auburn. What sorority were you in?
Charity Lawson
I was a Sigma Kappa.
Jennifer Fessler
Very nice. And did they pre game back at Auburn University when you were a Sigma Kappa?
Charity Lawson
Oh, I fear we got down.
Jennifer Fessler
You did. I want to hear.
Charity Lawson
I want to hear.
Jennifer Fessler
What did that look like for you guys back in the day?
Charity Lawson
Honestly, I'm like, I'm so grateful because I'm like, I feel like I went to college during, like, the prime years where, like, pre gaming and like, parties before, like, going out to bars were, like, super huge.
Jennifer Fessler
Right.
Charity Lawson
And so everything that we did, like, always required, like, a pregame.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah. No, it's funny. Yeah. Because I was talking earlier to, you know, Bob guinea, also from the Bachelor. So he and I. He's a little bit older. Not as old as me, but this is like a new term for us, pre gaming. And now it's like, all I ever hear. Yeah. No one. We sometimes had a few drinks before the party, but now it's official. Like, you have to have a pregame. Right.
Charity Lawson
It's always like a little pre party before the function even really begins. And that's why it's very, like the whole word pacing yourself that. That came from pregame.
Jennifer Fessler
Really?
Charity Lawson
Like, you don't. Yeah. Like, you don't really want to get too crazy until you get to the party. So it's like, it's all like a system.
Jennifer Fessler
Wow. So were you good at that pacing yourself?
Charity Lawson
Oh, I mean, I learned. Eventually started starting off.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Charity Lawson
As a. As a freshman sophomore, you're. You're easing yourself into it. But, yeah, I got. I got the hang of it pretty quick.
Jennifer Fessler
Well, tell us, how do you. How do you pace yourself at a pregame?
Charity Lawson
I mean, for me, I'm someone who's, like, very small, and so it's like, you really, like, I. I knew the type of drinks that I wanted to have. I was very, like, like, particular about, like, not letting other people, like, obviously fix my drinks as just safety measures. But also it's like you just, you know, you have to, like, keep tabs of, like, okay, how much, you know, alcohol you might be pertaining to.
Jennifer Fessler
Be a long night.
Charity Lawson
It's a long night. So I would start off always like, you know, you come in with one drink and then usually, like, a couple. I don't say a couple of minutes. Like, usually 30 minutes in. Like, you should be on your second drink. And then obviously, like, there's always shots, so you have to, like. That's when it really gets tricky because I'm like, at that point, it's like, you've got to keep tabs of how many shots you take in charity.
Jennifer Fessler
I feel like you should write this down. Like, this should be in a handbook somewhere, because so far we talked to quite a few people. Nobody had these instructions for us. I love it. You save a lot of people a lot of mess.
Charity Lawson
No, exactly.
Jennifer Fessler
Right.
Charity Lawson
It really is. It really is a system, I'm telling you. But, like, you know, you have the nights where some nights you just, like, you know, you get too carried away, but you learn, I'm telling you. At least I learned my lesson the following morning.
Jennifer Fessler
Right.
Charity Lawson
I was like, I don't ever want to do this again.
Jennifer Fessler
So, yeah, I heard a lot of. We had a lot of our guests say espresso martinis are the answer honestly for me.
Charity Lawson
Yeah. Because people say, like, obviously it's like the espresso that keeps you up.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Charity Lawson
But I. I like. I do it when I start to get sleepy, which is probably bad, but I'm like, that's like, that's the only time I drink espresso martinis.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Charity Lawson
I never. I never start off with them. I only do it when I'm like, oh. Like, I still have maybe like an hour or two left in the night, and I need to, like, I need to perk me up. Right. That's when I do it. But I mean, they're great. It's a great drink all around. But for me, I'm. I'm. I'm a Little bit opposite on that.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah, No, I never did that either. We didn't. We didn't have things like that back in my day. Or like Red Bull and vodka. Do you do that? Is that what you drink it with? You drink it with vodka, Red Bull.
Charity Lawson
I hated it. I'll be honest. It's not my. I mean, it's not my. It's not my cup, so.
Jennifer Fessler
Well, okay, so tell me if you can. Like when you were pregame and in college, like, any particular kind of music you guys were into?
Charity Lawson
Oh, my gosh. It was like. That was like the prime. Like, I feel like. I mean, it's crazy because I'm like a lot of the artists that was like, really popular then, I feel like, has kind of fallen off a little bit. But like Travis Scott, like, that was like such the era that everybody like.
Jennifer Fessler
Right.
Charity Lawson
Love Travis Scott. Like every time you go to pregame, like, one of his songs are playing. He was just really huge between. I mean, I was in College from 2015-28, 2019. So like, during that time. Yeah, right. Like, it was just huge. I wasn't really big as big into like EDM or house music then, but, like, it was starting to come up and it was becoming a little bit popular then too.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah.
Charity Lawson
So that's kind of when I got like my start of listening to that type of genre of music. But honestly, you just want something that's like, obviously going to keep you up, right?
Jennifer Fessler
Correct.
Charity Lawson
Like, it was very loud, but like very. Just like, you know, a good beat is all you need.
Jennifer Fessler
Do you feel like the pre games were sometimes more fun than the actual game? I don't mean a football game about. But I'm just saying, like, whatever. Party. Yeah.
Charity Lawson
Oh, yes. Well, I went to Auburn, so. And like at the time when I was there, we only had like, it's such a big school and a big, like college. College campus. But in terms of like the like nightlife and like social life of it, it's like, yes, there are sororities, there are fraternities, but like going out to bars and stuff, we didn't have many options. We had like maybe a total of like five bars.
Jennifer Fessler
Right.
Charity Lawson
That and right. At some point you like, eventually rotate through all of them. So it's like, yeah, people just got. We had to be creative and like house parties or just like pre games became the thing.
Gia Giudice
Right.
Charity Lawson
And usually like after a football game or something, depending on the time, we always, like, played football. Our, like slots were like, earlier in the day and that worked out so if you had like a 3:30 game, we would then, like, go back home. And like, most people were like, okay, like, we might go out, but it's like, there was always like, a little flyer going around of, like, oh, we're having, like, a party, a pre game sometimes. Sometimes we called it kickbacks.
Jennifer Fessler
Just like, relax and chill beforehand.
Charity Lawson
Right, right. It's like a. More like chill term for like, it's still a party, but it's like we're just gonna be vibing it out and see where the night takes us.
Jennifer Fessler
Right, right. We're trying to get specific with. With our guests today just for fun. But, like, did you have a signature pre gaming drink?
Charity Lawson
I was a big at the time, during college, was a big vodka girl. So anything with vodka, usually. Like, I learned early on, too, that I just. I mean, for me, it works quicker just taking shots. So I was less of, like a mixing girl. I was like, just give a shot, let's go. And yeah, so I was a big vodka girl until I had just a. Not a great experience. And then I.
Jennifer Fessler
Tell me, tell me about it. What was the not great experience?
Charity Lawson
It always happens. I mean, everyone goes through, like, the experimental journey of, like, you know, liquor. In college, for me, it was vodka. And I remember. Oh, my gosh, it was. I think it was one semi formal I had. And I. I don't know what I was on. I was feeling, like, really bold, and I was like, yeah, I can conquer the world. I cry anything. And I had. I mean, if I say the number, everyone's gonna be like, yeah, no, you need to, like, be hospitalized.
Jennifer Fessler
They say it, but I have on.
Charity Lawson
No, it's crazy.
Jennifer Fessler
We all have that number. Shots.
Charity Lawson
No, 12 shots before my semi formal. And I was like. I don't even think I, like, kept count, but that's what, like, my friends were saying. I ended up going to the semi formal.
Jennifer Fessler
You were still able to make it? Damn, girl.
Charity Lawson
No, I know, but I listen, I crashed very early once we got there because we rode on the back of, like, one of the guys that was driving his, like, pickup truck. That's also not legal. God bless.
Jennifer Fessler
Right after 12 shots, I a little bit want to puke right now. Go on.
Charity Lawson
Exactly. So I think it was the car ride for sure.
Jennifer Fessler
Shots for sure. But go on. Yes.
Charity Lawson
That's.
Jennifer Fessler
Yes.
Charity Lawson
So I got to semi formal, and I was like, no, I need to go to the bathroom. And like, my best friend at the time, she, like, came with me and of course, you know.
Jennifer Fessler
Held your hair.
Charity Lawson
Yes. Held my Hair. I did the solid rusty hook is what we called it. So I just had to like. I was like, I need to. I need to get this out of my system.
Jennifer Fessler
I'm learning. Wait, I'm learning so many good terms. So what does that mean? What's rusty hook? Just puking in a toilet.
Charity Lawson
Yes. But sometimes you have to like kind of help you gotta jump, put your.
Jennifer Fessler
Finger down your throat kind of thing. Yes, I get the hook part. Why is it rusty?
Charity Lawson
I don't know. Well, it's because it's like no one wants to do that. Yeah, you shouldn't.
Jennifer Fessler
You shouldn't be.
Charity Lawson
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Jennifer Fessler
Right. Okay. And did you still have a night?
Charity Lawson
No, I did not. Yeah, I was done. I was like, no, I'm going back home. Which really sucked because my date was really sweet. He was like, do you want me to come back with you? And I was like, no. I was like, no, please have the time of your life. I'm going to go lay on my couch. And so my friend, she took me back home and then after semi formal, they all like came and checked on me. It was. I had great people in my corner, but I just was like, after that I was like, no, I. I don't know what I was on. I was doing too much. I was feeling too, like.
Jennifer Fessler
You are not alone. I want to say that everybody who we've spoken to has actually, you know, been there, done that, including yours truly. Thank you very much. So do you still pregame?
Charity Lawson
Definitely way less. Yeah, it depends, like if I'm with like a good group of friends. Like we were just at Zach and Katie's wedding two weekends ago in Austin and we had like a bunch of people with us. So. Yeah, like, if it's a social setting that requires that, we'll usually keep it very cute and mild. But yeah, a pregame is always nice just to jump start the night. But wait a second.
Jennifer Fessler
Zach and Katie were on with us just a little while ago. They're adorable. And they said they had only very few people at their wedding. You guys must be very close.
Charity Lawson
Yeah. So they invited. Yes. So it was a few girls from our season because we were all in Zach's season and then Joey and Kelsey were there and I'm trying to think other couples, like Susie was also there. So it was just like a good blend, but it wasn't a bunch of bachelor people.
Jennifer Fessler
Yeah, that's what they were saying. I love that.
Charity Lawson
Yeah, it was really sweet.
Jennifer Fessler
Okay, I'm sorry because this is off subject, but how close did you get. Were you a runner up? How close did you get to Zach?
Charity Lawson
I was. No, I was. Yeah, top four so made it to hometowns and then I got the boot after home.
Jennifer Fessler
I can't believe you guys all ended up though loving each other and being friends. So great.
Charity Lawson
Oh we had such a good group of girls. I'm like I'm forever thankful for that because it makes experience that much better.
Jennifer Fessler
Okay listen well I hope you all pre game together soon. Maybe one day me and you will do 12 vodka shots and get in the back of a pickup.
Charity Lawson
Never again.
Jennifer Fessler
Never again honey. Believe me that ship has sailed for me as well. Charity. Thank you love.
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Episode Date: December 8, 2025
Host: Jennifer Fessler (guest-hosting for this ep), with appearances by Gia Giudice, Charity Lawson, Mercedes & Jonathan (The Bachelor), and Bob Guiney (The Bachelor)
This lively episode explores whether being in a sorority or fraternity sets you on a path to TV stardom, while serving as a sprawling oral history of "pre-gaming" in Greek life. Former Bachelor stars, including Bob Guiney, Charity Lawson, Mercedes, and Jonathan, along with host Jennifer Fessler, share candid and often hilarious recollections about Greek life, party rituals, and the art of "pre-partying." It’s equal parts nostalgia, insider advice, and gleeful storytelling—peppered with age-gap jokes and generational surprises.
"Now at my age, the game becomes the pregame becomes the game." (08:14)
“Post party might turn right there...my father just passed away...my buddies brought him up last night because everyone just loved my dad so much.” (09:21)
"Usually, 30 minutes in, you should be on your second drink. Then, obviously, there’s always shots...that’s when it gets tricky...keep tabs of how many shots you’re taking." (25:17)
"12 shots before my semi-formal...I crashed very early...did the solid rusty hook." (30:12 – 31:06)
"You don’t have the confidence you do as an adult. Back in college you’re like, alright, we’re gonna talk to girls, take a couple drinks. You still don’t talk to girls, but at least you have the drinks in your system." – Jonathan (15:49)
The tone is light, self-deprecating, and full of generational ribbing. The hosts and guests swap funny, sometimes cringeworthy college stories and party lessons with the affectionate hindsight of people who (mostly) made it out alive. There’s lots of laughter about aging, misadventures, and pre-gaming being the real “main event” as you get older.
Summary:
This episode offers a candid, immersive view into the culture of pre-gaming in sorority/fraternity life across generations—full of confessions, teachable moments, and Bachelor Nation inside jokes. While it never delivers a simple answer about whether Greek life makes you famous, it shows how these rituals create community and, sometimes, reality TV storylines.