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Erika Jayne
And I'm Erika Jayne. Hi, Teddi Mellencamp.
Teddi Mellencamp
Hi. So the trailer came out this week.
Erika Jayne
What'd you think? Be honest.
Teddi Mellencamp
I was pleasantly surprised.
Erika Jayne
Oh, thank God.
Teddi Mellencamp
I know.
Erika Jayne
I was worried. I'm not gonna lie. I mean, I was very worried.
Teddi Mellencamp
I was a little bit worried, too. But it looks good.
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It looks juicy. And I love. At the end, I wanted a hot girl summer, but I didn't get one.
Erika Jayne
No. Rachel. Yeah, she didn't get her hot girl summer. Poor thing. But I think you're gonna like that.
Teddi Mellencamp
Did she expect hot girl summer?
Erika Jayne
Well, she's looking. You know, we all try to be positive about where we are in life. She's going through a tough time, and, you know, I don't want to give it away, but, you know, she's having a hard time right now, and she wanted a hot girl summer. I mean, I think we all wanted a hot girl summer.
Teddi Mellencamp
Me too.
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Erika Jayne
We didn't get it. I mean, you didn't get it. I didn't get it. She didn't get it. So it's okay.
Teddi Mellencamp
But I thought you were great. I could tell that you kind of narrated what's going on, which I always appreciate, which we always need on every cast.
Erika Jayne
You know what? I was confused a lot of times this season. I was like, wait a second. What is going on?
Teddi Mellencamp
Can we talk about the new girl a little bit? Because, okay, not only is she in a bath with money.
Erika Jayne
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
But she's already in the comments. I don't remember if it was Real Housewives of Beverly Hills or who it was. One of the content creators posted a picture of her, and unprompted, she wrote, I've had millions of dollars. I've been a millionaire for years. Something along those lines. And I'm like, who writes that and why?
Erika Jayne
Well, you got to have a good chance to get to know her and see what your true feelings are.
Teddi Mellencamp
Do you think I'M gonna like her.
Erika Jayne
No, I mean, I don't think that. Are there moments where she's charming and sweet? Yes, but I don't know what her over. I only know, and everybody knows this. You only know what you shoot. Right. So you know, like, I don't know what her home scenes look like. Maybe she wins there, maybe she doesn't. I don't know.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, I do know that she lives in Kyle's old house.
Erika Jayne
She does live in Kyle's old house. And we go there.
Teddi Mellencamp
You do?
Erika Jayne
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
And it doesn't have the black and white floors anymore.
Erika Jayne
Right. She changed. Yeah, she changed the floor. She got a lot of heat for tearing up Kyle's old floors. Which, I mean, look, it's her house. It's her right to.
Teddi Mellencamp
She's a millionaire. She can do whatever she wants.
Erika Jayne
I. I did not say that. Like, I, you know, you said that.
Teddi Mellencamp
So she said that.
Erika Jayne
She did tell me that she's the breadwinner in the marriage.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, good for her. Yeah, I didn't see a lot of. A couple of people whom I didn't see a lot of bows.
Erika Jayne
Okay. But she opens the whole thing.
Teddi Mellencamp
Opening the whole.
Erika Jayne
Okay. All right.
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't see her activated at all.
Erika Jayne
Well, this is the trailer. It's not the mid season trailer.
Teddi Mellencamp
True. This is.
Erika Jayne
So this is the opening. So keep that in mind. We don't throw all the cards down right at the opening.
Teddi Mellencamp
Okay. All right. Well, I'm excited. I. I mean, I'm not excited to recap it because you guys know how that goes for me.
Erika Jayne
But you have to, it's your job.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Just as excited as I am to recap this.
Erika Jayne
This one. This reunion. Yeah, this reunion. Which is.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, it's okay. Before we get into the reunion, any new updates with you?
Erika Jayne
I mean, I'm good. Are you ready for Bravocon? It's next week.
Teddi Mellencamp
I am trying to get my. I mean, you have no idea.
Erika Jayne
Like.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yes, you do, you know.
Erika Jayne
Yes, I do. Yes, you like, but I have no idea under the stress that you're under. Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Like when I saw that I'm presenting at like 8:30 at night, I'm like, I don't remember the last time I stayed up.
Erika Jayne
The wedding.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh yeah.
Erika Jayne
The wedding time. You stay up to 8:30. So you can do it again.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, I can do it again.
Erika Jayne
Can do it again.
Teddi Mellencamp
Can I read a teleprompter?
Erika Jayne
Yes.
Teddi Mellencamp
Okay.
Erika Jayne
Yes.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, we'll see. Yes, we'll see. We'll see.
Erika Jayne
Which one are you presenting at the Bravos? Oh, Good. So I can cheer you on.
Teddi Mellencamp
Are you gonna? Yeah. Cause you'll be there Friday night, right? Okay, perfect.
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This BravoCon thing, like, I know the, like, it's great to be part of a show and part of a network that everybody loves and everybody loves the shows. But just so you know, this is a hard gig to work. It's three days of like a lot of energy.
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Teddi Mellencamp
So what are your overall thoughts on part one?
Erika Jayne
My overall parts can. This is true. Why is Tamara not is. Why is Tamara really upset with Shannon? That's what it feels like this first episode. What is that? What am I missing here? What am I. Cause I. And I'm being very serious. What am I missing here? Because the last episode I saw, I know that they disagreed, but it seems like. Did something happen we didn't catch? Or does it have to do with, like, the but Shannon wasn't on the couch conversation?
Teddi Mellencamp
No, that's what I was thinking.
Erika Jayne
So what is this?
Teddi Mellencamp
I think she. My guess. And I haven't talked to her about it, and I know that you guys are gonna be like, I am gonna talk to her about. Ask Erica. I don't talk to anybody about anything right now.
Erika Jayne
So is it. Is Tamara mad at Shannon because she was on the couch? The couch scene with.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, she didn't know that yet, but they saw it. But they don't see it till the end of the reunion, episode one.
Erika Jayne
Oh, well, then I'm mistaken. So Tamara being on Shannon's ass is because. Why. I mean, is it. Did something happen? That's really what I'm trying to get at. Like, what am I as a viewer missing here?
Teddi Mellencamp
I think that it was. She didn't want to be interrupted. She wanted to. Like, Shannon was chiming in every time Tamara was trying to speak, and she just got over it. But it. It started to evolve. Evolve and continue on and continue on and continue on. Yes, but I think she's probably.
Erika Jayne
You know what I feel when I watch Tamara in this first episode? I think she feels overwhelmed and she's reacting a lot to what people are saying. Like, I feel like she feels. To me, it looks like she's overwhelmed and very reactive to anything anyone says.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, I think. Okay, so my. My overall thoughts on part one was Tamara is in 95% of this reunion.
Erika Jayne
Yes. Hold on. I just dropped my sheets. Let me get my. Let me get my thoughts back together here.
Teddi Mellencamp
Hold on. Let me get my thoughts.
Erika Jayne
Okay.
Teddi Mellencamp
Katie does absolutely nothing.
Erika Jayne
Well, yes, I didn't get any answers, but I guess Matt comes out to clarify it. The next one.
Teddi Mellencamp
And that's where we'll get the gifts.
Erika Jayne
That's where we'll get the answers.
Teddi Mellencamp
I thought Gina was very likable.
Erika Jayne
And I liked her dress. I thought she looked very good.
Teddi Mellencamp
Stunning. Even though she said how uncomfortable she was.
Erika Jayne
You're always uncomfortable. That's part of the gig. Yep. If you are comfortable sitting on that sofa, you're doing it all wrong. Nobody should be comfortable on that day or in any kind of dress on a sofa for 10 hours.
Teddi Mellencamp
And Gretchen could send me right over the edge.
Erika Jayne
It was giving toddlers in tiaras.
Teddi Mellencamp
But even the way she talks and it's like. I don't know if. Is it condescending or is it playing?
Erika Jayne
You don't like. I think if I was to speak for you.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
You dislike anything that is not direct.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And you feel. If I were to, like, speak for you, that there's a whole lot of, like, just say what you need to say clearly and.
Teddi Mellencamp
And succinctly and let's get through it.
Erika Jayne
Let's move through it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And I think that you don't like that.
Teddi Mellencamp
And I know, because she feels dodgy to me.
Erika Jayne
Yep.
Teddi Mellencamp
Like, to me. And I know, like, I would rather somebody be overly reactive and say what they're thinking than dodgy and passive aggressive.
Erika Jayne
I got you. Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, it starts off where Tamara talks about what happened this season when she quit.
Erika Jayne
Listen, let me tell you something. Every housewife on every franchise at every moment has said, I fuck this shit. I've had it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And certainly Tamara has been on long enough to say, fuck this shit. I've really had it. We've all had those moments.
Teddi Mellencamp
Andy admits that he did not think Tamara was calmer this season after her therapy.
Erika Jayne
I don't either. I agree with Andy. It's especially in this moment.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. And this. Especially in this particular moment, Shannon feels like she did not get the grace that Tamara got when she was going through the hardest time in her life. And then Shannon calls Tamara Tamara Grudge.
Erika Jayne
If Shannon hit a house and committed a crime, Tamara's just having a breakdown.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Those are two very different things.
Erika Jayne
Here's the thing. I think that's where we're getting at, is, like, every. I don't know. I can't speak for these women, but, like, Shannon hit a house, could have put other people in danger. Blah, blah, blah. Tamara's just blowing up. Tamara.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. She's at her wit's end.
Erika Jayne
Right. That's, you know, not. It's not affecting anyone else. I mean. You know what I mean?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, it's.
Erika Jayne
But camera grudge.
Teddi Mellencamp
I can't believe in 15 seasons, no one thought of that before.
Erika Jayne
I was a little shocked at that, too. And then everybody was like, oh, my.
Teddi Mellencamp
God, I never thought of that. And I was like, how have you never thought of that before? Like, that's an easy one.
Erika Jayne
It is easy. It's not that creative.
Teddi Mellencamp
It's not that granted.
Erika Jayne
Judge, grudge, smudge.
Teddi Mellencamp
Guess what? All those things rhyme.
Erika Jayne
They do.
Teddi Mellencamp
Then Andy asked Heather why she said Tamara's name when asked who she wouldn't share sensitive information with at her sleepover party. Heather explains that it was because of Tamara's inconsistent and unpredictable nature.
Erika Jayne
So why. And I liked the way Tamara reacted to Heather here.
Teddi Mellencamp
I did, too.
Erika Jayne
And I'm curious. Tamara must value Heather's observation or her friendship or something. Like, I don't think she feels as judged by Heather as everyone else.
Teddi Mellencamp
Cause I think Heather understands what Tamara's actually having to do.
Erika Jayne
Yes, she's the. Yes, you're right.
Teddi Mellencamp
I think she knows that.
Erika Jayne
Like, she knows what's really going on here.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. And I think that Heather had a conversation with her earlier in the season, and they talked about it, and I think Tamara did take that in.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. It's nice to see Tamara react to Heather like that, because that's the Tamra that, you know.
Teddi Mellencamp
That's the Tamra that is one of my besties.
Erika Jayne
Right. And that moment there. And unfortunately, when she's reactive, we don't get to see that.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
But that's a nice moment for her because the other moments were very reactive and loud and just like.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, a lot. It was a lot. Then Tamara and Shannon discussed what happened with Tamara's comments about Shannon's dad.
Erika Jayne
I told you.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yep.
Erika Jayne
I can say it, but you can't.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yep. But, yeah, because she's pissed. She made the comments under her breath saying that Shannon didn't care about her dad, only herself. But then they did. Gave us a little flashback.
Erika Jayne
Yep, they did.
Teddi Mellencamp
Of Shannon saying it, not it. She said someone in my family.
Erika Jayne
She did say someone in my family. And I mean, did Tamara know that it was her dad or what did.
Teddi Mellencamp
I'm assuming they probably talked about it.
Erika Jayne
Yes. Shannon gets emotional and says her dad told her two weeks ago that she is the only reason he is still living and he is an older man. And I'm sure that that's hard.
Teddi Mellencamp
I think this is the problem. I know Tamara's trying to make a point that Shannon already brought up her own family's drinking on camera. But this is an issue she's not going to win.
Erika Jayne
I agree with that.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Like, it's. She's not going to win it.
Erika Jayne
Well, you said it, so therefore I can say it. Not really. Yeah, it doesn't work.
Teddi Mellencamp
No.
Erika Jayne
And we said that before. Like, I can say it all I want, but you can't say it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Then Andy brings up the conversation of Katie and the bloggers this season. Katie says she is shocked and pleasantly surprised by all the love she got online after the live detector test episode.
Erika Jayne
Well, you know, you have experience in a lie detector. I mean, I do too. Like on the show. Maybe this is because I'm on the inside.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
I'm shocked that Katie got the online love.
Teddi Mellencamp
I think she got the online love because it felt like everybody was turning against her.
Erika Jayne
But maybe she gave them all a reason to do so. You know, when you're on a show like this, if it. Like, let's assume. Okay, so let's take. Let's assume that she was talking to bloggers. Yeah, I wouldn't like that.
Teddi Mellencamp
I wouldn't like that either. But they all are.
Erika Jayne
Apparently. They all are.
Teddi Mellencamp
I mean, because we just.
Erika Jayne
So why gang up on her when you're all doing it kind of thing?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Like, if you're all doing it, like.
Erika Jayne
Why pick on her? Was she doing it the most? Or is it because she's new? Or is it because she was giving better information? Like, why. Why would it be if everybody does it? And I'm saying right now it's wrong.
Teddi Mellencamp
Because, I mean, I even saw that. I don't know exactly what this is, but there's all these DMs that people are forwarding onto me between Emily and a Bravo content creator.
Erika Jayne
Right.
Teddi Mellencamp
Sharing information back and forth.
Erika Jayne
Right.
Teddi Mellencamp
So it's just like, okay, everybody's doing it.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. It's hard when you're making these shows and you're telling people things.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. I think it ends up.
Erika Jayne
And then you get into a thing where you're like, people come in your comments and they say, hey, I love and support you. And you're like, thanks. Because you don't wanna not answer. Cause then you're accused of being rude.
Teddi Mellencamp
But I don't think Emily was setting her up by having the lie detector test. I think basically, I think this is the sh.
Erika Jayne
The show likes to do lie detector test. And as the audience, the viewing audience, we all know that.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. So let's not production tell me I'm hosting a lie detector and that's what I did.
Erika Jayne
And I'm only. And I love the way that they said, why is it only this guy? And the answer was, because he's one of the few people that will appear on camera. So, I mean, I love the way they cleaned that up. Don't think I didn't catch that.
Teddi Mellencamp
But Emily being like, there's an 86% chance of.
Erika Jayne
And it's not admissible in court. She had her stats down.
Teddi Mellencamp
She just.
Erika Jayne
But I liked Emily's hair.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, I did like Emily's hair.
Erika Jayne
Yeah, Emily's pretty girl.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, she's. She's pretty girl.
Erika Jayne
She's a pretty girl.
Teddi Mellencamp
Then Gina apologizes to Katie for the Asian designer comment that came off to Katie as a racist comment. Katie appreciates Gina's apology. And then Gina wishes she came to her instead of Kiko.
Erika Jayne
Kiki Monique.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yep. Kiki Monique. I feel like Katie made a choice to not bring it up on camera to Gina. Kiki is the one who chose to use the information to make Katie look bad. Because think about it. Katie didn't bring it up.
Erika Jayne
It can go both ways.
Teddi Mellencamp
Should you bring it up? How can it go both ways?
Erika Jayne
Well, Kiki, why would Kiki Mo' Nique go and do this? And who reached out to Kiki Mo'? Nique?
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, she ended up meeting. She ended up meeting with Gina. And was it Gretchen? Yeah, Gina and Gretchen. Okay, so to bring us back, Gretchen asked Kiki Monique to come on the show, and then she needed somebody else to be a witness.
Erika Jayne
Yeah, I mean, I get it. I would, too, if I were Gretchen.
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't think Gina's intention.
Erika Jayne
No, I don't think she had bad intentions.
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't think she had bad intentions. But also, Katie, speak up. This is where you start talking.
Erika Jayne
What would you have liked to have seen from Katie here?
Teddi Mellencamp
It really hurt my feelings. What is your problem with me not wearing an Asian designer? Like, she could have spoken.
Erika Jayne
She underperformed for you.
Teddi Mellencamp
She underperformed for me, especially with who came and sat down in that chair and I interviewed with.
Erika Jayne
Oh, that's right. You had her on this show.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. And she had a big energy and she was funny.
Erika Jayne
But didn't they bring that up, that she has more energy to bloggers she was more interested in.
Teddi Mellencamp
Are you calling me a blogger?
Erika Jayne
No. No, I'm not. You? No, no, no, not at all. I was just thinking, like, someone said she had more energy with others off the show than she does with the cast.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And that's interesting that you would say that too, yeah. So that's exactly what you're doing. Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. I mean, because she had a lot of energy. She was funny. She made me laugh. She was charming. She. All the different things. And then I see her sitting here barely. Barely speaking and barely standing up for herself. I mean, like, you had eight months to prepare for this.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. I mean, reunions are tough. Maybe she got intimidated.
Teddi Mellencamp
By what, Gretcher's dress?
Erika Jayne
No, I think, you know, well, you have a lot to answer for. An entire cast does not want to shoot with you, and they stopped you shooting with them in the middle of the season.
Teddi Mellencamp
That's true.
Erika Jayne
You know, so there's. If I was Katie, I would feel a certain way walking into that room, knowing that people did not trust me, knowing that I was stopped from participating in this show midway, but my ass would have been fighting and cussing. And she sat there.
Teddi Mellencamp
She sat there. And this is also where I wish some of the women would have said to her what we heard in the press, which is that she participates more with online people than she does the cast. The cast. Like, if somebody would have said that to her face, I'm curious what her.
Erika Jayne
Response would have been. Maybe they do. We are just the first episode, she doesn't go away. Right. Like, she's. Does she sit there the whole time? So maybe we're not there yet because her husband does come on the next time. So maybe. And I'm. I am. I am interested in seeing this now. I'm interested. No, I notice. I didn't want to see him the entire season, but now I want to see what he has to say about how many times people called.
Teddi Mellencamp
Where was Slade?
Erika Jayne
Well, I'm glad he's not there. Is he gonna show up?
Teddi Mellencamp
No, he's not.
Erika Jayne
Thank God.
Teddi Mellencamp
Because they would have shown him when they showed Matt.
Erika Jayne
Not necessarily.
Teddi Mellencamp
I think so. I think, like, that's very telling if Slade's not there. Slade does anything to get on camera.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. But I think that there's also been this heat of, why does Slade show up and have to explain Gretchen's side of the story? Why does he constantly have to get involved? And maybe they took that as like a, hey, you should sit this one out.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, that's the point.
Erika Jayne
You should sit this one out because everybody's tired of you.
Teddi Mellencamp
Everyone is tired of him. Then Emily opens up about everything going on with her son. Emily explains that after the show aired, many moms reached out to her to see if Luke possibly had pandas, the bacteria from strep throat that Affects the brain and leads to our brains.
Erika Jayne
We have a friend whose daughter has pandas. Yes. I didn't know about it until our friend. And it's. Apparently, it's really bad.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, it's. It can affect so many.
Erika Jayne
Maybe that's what I mean. I had a lot of strep as a kid. Did you? I had.
Teddi Mellencamp
No, not really.
Erika Jayne
I had a lot of strep.
Teddi Mellencamp
I had a lot of ear infections.
Erika Jayne
Like ear infections and strep infections.
Teddi Mellencamp
I had a lot of ear infections.
Erika Jayne
Do you. Do you know what I had when I came home from Berlin when I had strep?
Teddi Mellencamp
You did?
Erika Jayne
Mm. It was gnarly. That was horrible.
Teddi Mellencamp
I feel like we all got sick there.
Erika Jayne
Mm. Mm. So Luke's gonna be getting laser treatments done on his brain. I didn't know that was a thing.
Teddi Mellencamp
I didn't know.
Erika Jayne
Not that I should, but it sounds intense.
Teddi Mellencamp
It sounds intense. Especially because it's the repetition of it.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. How many treatments it has to do.
Teddi Mellencamp
How many treatments in a row. But I do like when she opens up and she talks about how Shane. You know, she gives Shane a hard time sometimes on the show because he's not as warm and fuzzy, but that's actually what she needs.
Erika Jayne
That is what she needs. But also, that's how men listen. Men. And then she said she didn't get that from him, so she gets it from her girlfriends.
Teddi Mellencamp
And then she names everybody.
Erika Jayne
Except for which one did she not name?
Teddi Mellencamp
She didn't name Tam. She didn't name. Clearly she didn't name Katie.
Erika Jayne
Katie. Well, that.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, that.
Erika Jayne
That we knew.
Teddi Mellencamp
Thankfully, she didn't name Gretchen.
Erika Jayne
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Then I would have been like, what?
Erika Jayne
So Tamara saw her daughter Sydney recently, and Tamara gets emotional about talking about her conversations with her daughter, explaining how special of a moment it was. Okay, so I. They're estranged, right?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yes.
Erika Jayne
For how? For how long?
Teddi Mellencamp
Couple years.
Erika Jayne
Couple years. So maybe Sydney's coming around.
Teddi Mellencamp
Maybe Sydney's coming around. I think having those moments, I think because Tamara had a pretty dramatic divorce from her ex husband, and I think from what I've heard, there was a little bit of allegedly parental alienation.
Erika Jayne
Oh. I see.
Teddi Mellencamp
From one side, I think that, look.
Erika Jayne
Divorce sucks, and there's always.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
Everybody's at their absolute worst.
Teddi Mellencamp
But I do know that it's something that really aches at Tamara's heart every single day of her life.
Erika Jayne
Of course it does. Any mom that's not talking to their kids.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And this happens to all of us, by the way. You know, when your kids grow up, you assume that somehow or another they're gonna magically always be like they were when they're little. They don't. They have their own thoughts, their own brains. And sometimes I myself am like, are you sure you're mine? No, are you sure? Like, are you sure? How can you be thinking so?
Teddi Mellencamp
You're like, how? How are we so sure?
Erika Jayne
How are we so different in this moment right now?
Teddi Mellencamp
But then Gretchen is back on the reunion couch and explains how Slade contributes to her household. He is a consultant and she is.
Erika Jayne
An influencer, but he is on the Liberace Foundation. Now, honey, when I told you. When I telling you, I gasp. First off, I love Liberace.
Teddi Mellencamp
Why?
Erika Jayne
And why? Because he was fab.
Teddi Mellencamp
I didn't say why. I said why.
Erika Jayne
What is Liberace foundation doing and why is slayed on it?
Teddi Mellencamp
Because he has a friend who runs it.
Erika Jayne
But what does it do?
Teddi Mellencamp
And how much time is this requiring?
Erika Jayne
Are you getting paid for this? And if so, why? How? Like, what do you do for the. I don't know.
Teddi Mellencamp
You're consulting the Liberachi.
Erika Jayne
Consulting to do what?
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't know, like, where do the furs go?
Erika Jayne
But what are you directing? I need clarification. The Liberace thing, even Andy, Like, I was like, liberace. First off, Liberace's fabulous. I want all of his furs and his Rolls Royce, and his home in Palm Springs is amazing. But what is the foundation doing and.
Teddi Mellencamp
What is Slade doing? He's listed on the website.
Erika Jayne
Okay, maybe he a consultant. What does that mean? Whenever I hear someone is a consultant, I'm always like, you get paid to do what? Give your.
Teddi Mellencamp
Isn't there normally a word before that, like, isn't it normally, like, I'm a business consultant. I'm an entertainment consultant.
Erika Jayne
You know, I could consult on a lot of shit.
Teddi Mellencamp
I mean, we could be consultants.
Erika Jayne
We are consulting. Right now, I want to know the exact definition of the word consultant. To seek advice or information from someone, it can function as both a verb and a noun. Meaning? It depends on context. Okay, great. Like life. To discuss or deliberate together. To refer to a source of information, as a noun, refers to a consultation or a session of advice. The lawyer offers a free initial consult. Right.
Teddi Mellencamp
But see how it says the lawyer?
Erika Jayne
Right, that's your point? Yeah. There's something like a legal consultant or a crisis consultant or a housewives consultant, which is what we are today.
Teddi Mellencamp
We've given ourselves a reunion Consultants. Reunion consultant.
Erika Jayne
We're reunion consulting.
Teddi Mellencamp
Don't you want to consult with us.
Erika Jayne
I would.
Teddi Mellencamp
I would, too.
Erika Jayne
I would. If I were new, I would seek out my advice.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yep.
Erika Jayne
Instead of trying to talk me. But it's not going to work.
Teddi Mellencamp
I can tell you it didn't work. But then they get back to the bringing up the financial situation. And Gretchen had said in the past that she could not marry Slade because of financial reasons.
Erika Jayne
That's great. I'm glad you didn't.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
But then Gretchen explains that if they had a ceremony to get married with a pastor. Oh. But it isn't a legal document in marriage. But what is common law. So how long have you been cohabitating? Because there is such thing as common law and women. Oh, yeah. So the common law is like 10 years. So he could still get your cash.
Teddi Mellencamp
That's true. But I think he probably has debt. Well, could she get his debt?
Erika Jayne
I don't really know how that works. We need a legal consultant.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, we need to understand this because can somebody please explain to me how Tamara talking about Slade on the show has affected his life more than being arrested?
Erika Jayne
Look, bottom line is when you put yourself on these shows, you're going to get the good and the bad.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And if you've been arrested, people are going to talk about it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
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Teddi Mellencamp
Speaking of talking shit. Sorry. While I was in the restroom, I got a little bee in my bonnet.
Erika Jayne
Oh, okay. What?
Teddi Mellencamp
I got a little reminder of something.
Erika Jayne
What?
Teddi Mellencamp
How is Jen? First seat when we haven't mentioned her one time so far, this reunion.
Erika Jayne
You know what? Come to think of it, all I saw was I liked her lip color.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, I did, too.
Erika Jayne
I liked her lip color. But you're right. Why is she sitting there when we haven't really opened up?
Teddi Mellencamp
Not one thing. The only thing that we got from her is once again, Katie tries to look to her for help, and she.
Erika Jayne
Was not giving it.
Teddi Mellencamp
And she refused to give it.
Erika Jayne
She was not giving it.
Teddi Mellencamp
And then someone even kind of steps in and is like, well, you actually said this. And she was like, oh, okay. Well, anyways.
Erika Jayne
Yeah, no, you're right. Jen has not. Well, again, it's the first episode we'll.
Teddi Mellencamp
See, but you still normally see something of each person.
Erika Jayne
We do not do the seating charts. Okay. Well, we should.
Teddi Mellencamp
We should.
Erika Jayne
You should.
Teddi Mellencamp
That's gonna.
Erika Jayne
I don't know what's going on, but you should do the seating charts.
Teddi Mellencamp
Could you imagine? Hey, Andy, it's Teddy. I just wanted to shoot you a text to let you know that I'm unhappy with this seating chart.
Erika Jayne
I have a long list of concerns, and I'll tell you exactly where I need to sit this year. No. Okay. Andy brings up the rumor that Gretchen brought back to the surface and how the undisclosed person in the affair rumor. Okay. Denied the allegation and insisted that this was a fabrication. Good for you, whoever you are. The anonymous affair person. Good for you for sticking up for yourself.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Heather explains that this is not the premeditated thing, and Tamara interprets Heather to call bullshit. Shannon tries to add something to the conversation, and Tamara shuts her down from talking. This is what. This is the part. Tam, I love you. I love you to death. Obviously, you're one of my closest friends, but.
Erika Jayne
She.
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't. I really. You're right. I don't really understand the Shannon shut down. Shut down.
Erika Jayne
And the constant Shannon, like, getting at Shannon when Shannon.
Teddi Mellencamp
But I guess Shannon was trying to weigh in on everything. She was saying, yes. And were the other women.
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Erika Jayne
I mean, everybody's chatty at a reunion, but for some reason, Tamara is irritated with Shannon more than everybody else. At least it seems that way to me. Whatever. That's why I'm asking, is there something I'm missing? Did something happen?
Teddi Mellencamp
All I know is that Tamara posted a picture in her reunion dress. I think she's with Andy. And she says, who can hold a grudge when you've got to carry the whole show? Or something like that. And I was like, well. Well, she isn't wrong.
Erika Jayne
Andy asked Tamara if she brings up old dirt on people. First off, yes. And so does everybody else.
Teddi Mellencamp
And Andy, don't act like you don't know this answer.
Erika Jayne
Well, that's the whole point, is to get her to say, no, I don't. So you can go, yes, you do.
Teddi Mellencamp
You're proving my point.
Erika Jayne
Come on. Like, this is classic. Don't bait her. Then you know. You know? Yes. Not only does she do it, but everybody does it. You all do it. We do it.
Teddi Mellencamp
While Tamara.
Erika Jayne
We'll do it. I'll do it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Bring up old dirt. She proceeds to bring up old situations, like the night Shannon recorded Vicki.
Erika Jayne
See, here's my point. Then that's when Andy goes, see? You're doing what? Exactly what I asked you. No, I'm not. Andy laughs that Tamara proved his point. And Shannon tries to add something, and Tamara gets to shut up. I think she's just really had it with Shannon. But there is some. Some reason.
Teddi Mellencamp
There are some.
Erika Jayne
Ask her why.
Teddi Mellencamp
I know. I need to.
Erika Jayne
I need to know why. Because I wonder if this gets into, like, the second episode where they just keep going back and forth.
Teddi Mellencamp
Do you? I wish I was allowed. We were allowed to call Tam and just ask her.
Erika Jayne
Just do it. Anyway.
Teddi Mellencamp
Hello. Hey, you're on the pod. Oh, hi, Claude. Hi, pod. And you're with Erica. We have one question.
Erika Jayne
Yes.
Teddi Mellencamp
Is there something that we missed on why you were annoyed at Shannon.
Erika Jayne
Shannon so much in the first episode?
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Erika Jayne
Because she wouldn't let me talk. Every time I tried to talk, she would, like, say something.
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Erika Jayne
Okay. So there wasn't anything other than that. Oh, nothing more than she treated me like shit all season. No, but. No. Okay. Yes, Okay, I got that part. But there wasn't, like, something that I missed because I couldn't understand. Okay, all right.
Teddi Mellencamp
Okay. Every time I was trying to have.
Erika Jayne
A conversation with somebody, she would butt in so I'm like, stop talking. Stop talking. Shut up. Okay.
Teddi Mellencamp
And can you give me the direct quote of what you said on your post? What post?
Erika Jayne
The post with Andy.
Teddi Mellencamp
The post with Andy. Oh, the post. Oh, yes. Let me look real quick.
Erika Jayne
I can't remember anything. Neither can we. Why carry a grudge when you can carry the show.
Teddi Mellencamp
Tagline for next year?
Erika Jayne
That's actually a great one. All right, that's it. I had a question. I couldn't figure out why she was irritating you so much, and I wanted to know if there was something that I missed.
Teddi Mellencamp
It was just her pure presence.
Erika Jayne
Oh, my God. Okay, that's enough. Bye.
Teddi Mellencamp
Bye, Tammy.
Erika Jayne
Bye. Love you guys.
Teddi Mellencamp
Love you.
Erika Jayne
Bye. That's hilarious. It's just her. They've had it with each other. And this is what happens. Like, this is what happens when you've been cast member for, you know, you've been in this. This thing for so long. Get on each other's nerves. All right, well, listen. Gretchen brings up lies Tamara has said about her. And Gretchen and Tamara call each other liars and pieces of shit.
Teddi Mellencamp
This isn't me defending Tamara, but they seem to twist everything back on her. Like, instead of pressing Gretchen about the affair and how she made a question about her own singing into a convo about Tamara singing, calling Slade on camera to get him to dig into it, we were talking about how bad Tamara has been.
Erika Jayne
Well, I think. But that's what you're doing. You know, Gretchen's. Gretchen's point is to say, well, look at all the bad things that Tamara's done. And then Tamara's like, well, actually. So this is a back and forth. I personally don't think there's any resolution here.
Teddi Mellencamp
No, I don't.
Erika Jayne
I don't think there's any. There's no moving forward. There's no resolution. I do not think these women like each other. I think that Shannon and Tamara like each other more than Tamara and Gretchen.
Teddi Mellencamp
I agree. I also think that I haven't noticed Gretchen connecting with anybody else on the cast closely.
Erika Jayne
Well, she was connecting with Katie. You could say. One could say Gretchen and Slade were using Katie and Matt.
Teddi Mellencamp
True.
Erika Jayne
And Jen.
Teddi Mellencamp
But that was before the show started filming.
Erika Jayne
Forgive me. Jen's. Ryan.
Teddi Mellencamp
Ryan.
Erika Jayne
Jen and Ryan. So you remember we did see Gretchen and Slade being friendly with Katie and.
Teddi Mellencamp
Matt and Jen and Ryan before the show started filming. Maybe before she got the job.
Erika Jayne
No, but we saw them on camera together, like, talking.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, that's true.
Erika Jayne
Poorly talking about Tamara. And everybody was saying how Tamra beat up on them.
Teddi Mellencamp
I think Gretchen will talk to any Gretchen and Slade.
Erika Jayne
Anybody that's anti Tamra.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And I think that that's what I'm getting at here is that it's a two person campaign, meaning Gretchen and Slade to come in and befriend anybody that is anti Tamra.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And that's okay. But it runs its course and it can't just be a one trick pony the entire time. Like I said in the beginning, I would have loved had Gretchen come in and been more friendly to Tamara. Try to put the past behind.
Teddi Mellencamp
Try legitimately and then get involved in new drama.
Erika Jayne
Exactly. That would have made it more interesting than you and I sitting here saying, I can't believe people remember 15 year old beef.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
And I'm sure the audience is, like, feeling the same way. Okay. You have bad blood, you have a lot of water under the bridge. You don't like each other. Bad things were said on both sides. But you're here now, so could you fight about new shit?
Teddi Mellencamp
And we have to say Tamara did try not to bring up old stuff.
Erika Jayne
With Gretchen, but I don't think that that was ever. I just get the sense that Gretchen and Slade came in to prove a point and all.
Teddi Mellencamp
They proved that it was annoying.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. The further you push and the more recruits you get. Yeah, it just gets. It doesn't work. Like, come in with your best foot forward. Don't come in like, with a grudge. Yeah, unnecessary Gretchen grudge.
Teddi Mellencamp
Gretchen grudge.
Erika Jayne
Gretcher's grudge.
Teddi Mellencamp
Gretchers.
Erika Jayne
You know you love that. News flash update from Tamra. Shannon's outfit bugged her too. I will say this. Shannon's shoes bugged me.
Teddi Mellencamp
They bugged me too. Were they a weird shape in the back?
Erika Jayne
It felt like a weird shape.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
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Erika Jayne
It felt like a weird shape. I don't know.
Teddi Mellencamp
And I feel like Shannon's worn this before, but in white.
Erika Jayne
Oh, I don't know about that.
Teddi Mellencamp
A very similar type silhouette.
Erika Jayne
I liked Gina's dress. I liked Emily's hair. This is superficial shit. But we're on a superficial show.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
So who cares? You know what I don't like? I have a little bit of beef with Bravo. Why is everybody. Why is the contrast pushed so hard?
Teddi Mellencamp
The pink and red.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. Why are the contrasts pushed so hard?
Teddi Mellencamp
And why did directors.
Erika Jayne
Why is it. Why are the contrasts pushed so hard?
Teddi Mellencamp
I like when they just say things like nude color, but I think it's.
Erika Jayne
In the processing of the. I think it's like an after. It's not in the. The lighting looks like one thing. And then when I look on my. I'm like, wow.
Teddi Mellencamp
I got to say, they didn't get that Beverly Hills filter. They did not get that Beverly Hills.
Erika Jayne
I'm into that because we're all bitching over there. You make me look terrible. Like, and rightfully so. They did not get it. It's something in the contrast or in the lighting. Yeah. It seems it's something weird because you.
Teddi Mellencamp
Notice every single little thing.
Erika Jayne
Everybody's skin is so super textured.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
Everybody's hair. Like, guys, I'm just gonna speak for myself. I'm 54. I need help. I don't need high def. You know what I mean?
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't need high def.
Erika Jayne
We're trying to sell this fantasy over here, and you guys are giving us.
Teddi Mellencamp
You're showing. You know we still get pimples.
Erika Jayne
Yeah, I mean, we do, but I don't need to, like, give us a little.
Teddi Mellencamp
Give us a little gloss. Give us some Kardashian filter.
Erika Jayne
Well, that would just be eyeballs and teeth. I mean, they just blow you right out.
Teddi Mellencamp
That'd be like Gretchen on her Instagram.
Erika Jayne
Oh, I haven't looked. Is it good?
Teddi Mellencamp
Hold on. We need to.
Erika Jayne
Oh, my God.
Teddi Mellencamp
We need to look at this together on this.
Erika Jayne
Okay.
Teddi Mellencamp
No, it's not a gang up because there's only two of us.
Erika Jayne
Okay. Duo.
Teddi Mellencamp
It's a duo. Hold on, Gretchen.
Erika Jayne
I am interested to see. Oh, you said this. What? She blocked you?
Teddi Mellencamp
No, she fought. It says, do you want to follow her back?
Erika Jayne
Shocking. Do it.
Teddi Mellencamp
I'm not sure today is the day. Okay, hold on. I don't. I need one where she doesn't. She's calmed down a bit from when she doesn't show her nostrils.
Erika Jayne
By the way, that blowout's still killing it. That front bang. Yeah, her guy has it laid, I'm telling you.
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Teddi Mellencamp
Dang it. I'm so annoyed.
Erika Jayne
Why? She took off all the hyper filtered ones. Yeah. Don't ask me to do it. That's a charcuterie, Teddy. I know, but what are we looking at her? Does she do a cooking thing?
Teddi Mellencamp
No.
Erika Jayne
She says she's an influencer. What is she influencing?
Teddi Mellencamp
Charcuterie trays.
Erika Jayne
Really?
Teddi Mellencamp
No, Everything. This bag.
Erika Jayne
Let me see this.
Teddi Mellencamp
I know.
Erika Jayne
Oh, I see.
Teddi Mellencamp
You see what I mean? There's no nostrils. Yeah, like, I'm fine with.
Erika Jayne
This is pretty, though.
Teddi Mellencamp
She's a pretty girl.
Erika Jayne
She is a pretty girl. Hmm. Okay, well. Yeah. Code 20 or whatever.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, code 20.
Erika Jayne
So what are you most Excited to see this next episode. What do you want to have happen in a perfect world? What would you like, seriously, like, in a producer now?
Teddi Mellencamp
In a perfect world? I would like to see. Because the way Tamara just was on the phone right now with us, it's funny and light, right? Yes, I would like to see that, Tamara.
Erika Jayne
Yeah, but you know how that is when you get in that room and there's all that pressure and things start coming at you. I do this, too. Like, I'm actually nice. People don't know this, huh? Shut up. People don't know this, but, I mean, I get it, you know, it feels. It's a lot. And yes, I would like to see Gretchen and. Gretchen. My God. Tamara. Lighter and more fun. I'd like to see all of them more light and fun.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, I would like to see all of them light and fun. I think that Gina consistently keeps it.
Erika Jayne
I told you I liked Gina. I told you. I'm glad she's grown on you.
Teddi Mellencamp
She's grown on me this season. Well, I'm sorry it's Slim Pickens around here.
Erika Jayne
It is. But at least there's a little hope.
Teddi Mellencamp
I'd like to see Katie speak. I don't want Matt just to come.
Erika Jayne
In and steamroll and blast for her.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, I don't want that.
Erika Jayne
Right.
Teddi Mellencamp
And then her to, like, put her hand on him and not say a word.
Erika Jayne
I don't like it when the men yell at the women.
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't know. I just overall want.
Erika Jayne
Do you want Shannon and Tamara to make up, or do you care?
Teddi Mellencamp
I think ultimately those two will make up. I think there's room for reconciliation between the two of them.
Erika Jayne
Where?
Teddi Mellencamp
I would not say the same with Gretchen.
Erika Jayne
No, I don't think that's happening. What about Emily and Tamara? Because they get into it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, yeah. We didn't even talk about this.
Erika Jayne
Yes. What do you think about that?
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, another thing that I got pissed off about.
Erika Jayne
What were they even upset about?
Teddi Mellencamp
Okay, so Emily is saying I'm not even on your oh, yeah. Feed anymore. Okay, let me explain how this show works. It's two T's in a pod, and then underneath, two T's and a pod. So we're considered producers. There's a bunch of other podcasts. This being one of them.
Erika Jayne
Yep.
Teddi Mellencamp
Emily's being one of them. When the podcasts first start out, we keep the person on our feed to get them their sea legs.
Erika Jayne
It's brand new.
Teddi Mellencamp
It's brand new. And even though Emily may not be on our feed, which she still Is, by the way. Okay, I'm confused. Emily seems to be, you know, the truth teller, and so I'm confused why Emily would say that she's off our feed when Legally Brunette has been on our feed every other week.
Erika Jayne
Okay.
Teddi Mellencamp
So. Yes, she also has now because the show did well.
Erika Jayne
It was.
Teddi Mellencamp
It's a good show, but it's also. Has been on our feed since the beginning.
Erika Jayne
Right.
Teddi Mellencamp
Emily and I did a podcast together prior to.
Erika Jayne
Okay.
Teddi Mellencamp
And then now she's saying, well, I'm not even on your network anymore. Well, one. Your podcast is. I heart to. You're still in our feed.
Erika Jayne
So she's still under the two T's in a pod.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yes. She also has. She airs at least two times a month on our feed. Okay, so I don't. What was her point in that?
Erika Jayne
I don't know. But then Tamara said, you flop. I mean, oh, my God. We're gonna sit here and just talk about Tamara the entire time? Which is fine. She had a lot to say. But. Yeah. Then what is their beef, though?
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't get why Emily, all of a sudden.
Erika Jayne
What's happening here?
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't know, because I thought she.
Erika Jayne
And Tamara were pretty straight.
Teddi Mellencamp
I thought they were pretty good.
Erika Jayne
I'm confused about a lot of these twists and turns on this shoot day. Are we missing information?
Teddi Mellencamp
I think what we're missing is what we found out at the finale.
Erika Jayne
You mean the couch conversation?
Teddi Mellencamp
The couch conversation. I think the couch conversation has twisted everything. I twisted everything around and got everybody all pissed at Tamara when. Even though I didn't like to see.
Erika Jayne
Tamara walk in with Katie, she's strong enough to walk in on her own. She doesn't need to walk in with Katie.
Teddi Mellencamp
I realize that.
Erika Jayne
Yeah, I would have liked to have seen Tamara walk in on her own.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, I didn't even see.
Erika Jayne
I would have liked that she. You don't need to walk in with Katie. And Katie needs to walk in on her own, too.
Teddi Mellencamp
Katie needs to walk in first on her own.
Erika Jayne
Right. And clean up whatever she's got to clean up, say whatever she's got to say. Tamara's, you know, a lead on the show for a long time, as is, like, Shannon, Heather, you know, I just. I didn't. I didn't like that pairing. I didn't think it fit.
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't think that Katie had some redemption arc here.
Erika Jayne
Not yet. Not in this first episode. Now, I don't know what's coming in two and three, but so far, no.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Erika Jayne
No.
Teddi Mellencamp
So, I mean, I think here's the thing. I thought it was a good episode. It flew by.
Erika Jayne
It did fly by. It was loud.
Teddi Mellencamp
It was loud.
Erika Jayne
But I don't know that anything's okay. So we opened up. Not that anything's supposed to get resolved in the first episode, but I don't know if anything's gonna get resolved.
Teddi Mellencamp
Do you think Andy seemed like, happy Andy or he was like, ugh. You know, sometimes he gets annoyed.
Erika Jayne
Well, I think Andy has the patience of Job and with all of us. Can you imagine, like, that being Andy Cohen and having to sit there with all of these reunions, not just Housewives, but like, all of the other show. To fielding all of these questions and calming all these personalities down. Trying to.
Teddi Mellencamp
Somebody in your ear.
Erika Jayne
Yes. A thousand people talk. I love the way Alex Baskin was. Alex was like, no, I didn't. Good for you, Alex. No, I did not.
Teddi Mellencamp
Alex Baskin just talked in and he said he did not do that.
Erika Jayne
Right. Alex Baskin just said he did not do that. As a matter of fact, he just called me. No, just say he really did not do that. But, no, I think that Andy does a great job of, you know, fielding all of these questions. Obviously, he's got people in his ear, and he's having to control the tempo and the questions of all these women on these couches. That is an exhausting thing.
Teddi Mellencamp
That is an exhausting thing.
Erika Jayne
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
But I thought it was a good episode. I hope to see some shifts in personality for episode two.
Erika Jayne
Yeah. I'm excited to see where the Katie thing unfolds. I do want Jen to speak up. You know, you're sitting there next to Andy for a reason. What is that reason? What was that reason? What was the reason? I need to see her speak. I need to see. Let's see. What else do I think is gonna happen? I'm not quite sure, but I need Jen. I need to hear your voice.
Teddi Mellencamp
I think they're expecting a lot out of Matt and Katie, and I'm probably not gonna get it.
Erika Jayne
I think you're gonna get it out of him. Yeah, I don't think you're gonna get it out of her. I think he's ready to go.
Teddi Mellencamp
He's. He's mad. He's looking for his orange.
Erika Jayne
Well, they always do. These oranges.
Teddi Mellencamp
These oranges. Well, thanks, you guys, for tuning in to another episode of Diamonds in the Rough with myself, Teddi Mellencamp.
Erika Jayne
I'm Erika Jayne, and I am confused about this episode. I mean, I like it, but I don't know. I mean, we're just gonna. Guys, we're just gonna have to see what happens in episode two.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, we're gonna have to dig into some more things and get some more information.
Erika Jayne
If you have any reasons as to why you think I can't believe I'm gonna put this out here. If you have any comments as to why you think these things are happening, Is it the couch scene? You know what I'm calling the couch scene? Is it other stuff? Give us your conspiracy theories in the comments. I'm curious.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, we need to know.
Erika Jayne
We need to know. Thank you.
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Teddi Mellencamp
Is an iHeart podcast. Guaranteed human.
Date: November 7, 2025
Hosts: Teddi Mellencamp & guest Erika Jayne
Note: Tamra is discussed extensively but does not appear as a co-host in this episode.
Main Focus:
A deep-dive, as only Housewives alums can do, into the first part of the Real Housewives of Orange County (RHOC) reunion—Messy friendships, unresolved feuds, cast dynamics, and behind-the-scenes perspectives on what really drives Housewives drama.
This episode is a passionate, unfiltered RHOC reunion breakdown, with Teddi Mellencamp and Erika Jayne reviewing the juiciest moments, analyzing cast relationships (especially the Tamra-Shannon feud), scrutinizing the new cast members, and calling out production tricks and “Housewife behaviors.” Listeners can expect real talk about alliances, dodgy apologies, the pitfalls of reality TV reunions, and questions about who actually carries the show.
A sharp, insider’s take on the RHOC reunion, this episode is an honest, dishy, and often hilarious reality check on Housewives drama, exploring cast fissures, the performative side of Bravo reunions, and the exasperating cycle of old grudges vs. the hopes for something (or someone) truly new.