Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

Episode: The Stephanie Show (RHOM Recap)
Date: August 14, 2025
Podcast: iHeartPodcasts

Episode Overview

This episode dives deep into Episode 10 of The Real Housewives of Miami, focusing on the highly-anticipated "Stephanie Show" and the cast trip to Spain. Hosts Teddi Mellencamp and (Tamra or stand-in, “Dolores” in transcript, possibly a guest co-host) recap all the drama, fashion, and shifting alliances, especially the impact of newcomer Stephanie on the group dynamic. The ladies also share personal anecdotes about minimalism, plastic surgery, travel, and the intricacies of Housewife social politics—always with their trademark candor and humor.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Opening Banter: Cars, Houses, and Hoarding

[03:45–08:22]

• The episode starts with lighthearted personal updates: travel plans (Teddi going to Ireland), car accidents, and jokes about luxury lifestyles:
  • “Should I pull up with my Birkins and my Rolls Royces? ...That seems to be the trend here today, is that.” —Teddi Mellencamp (05:00)
• Both hosts discuss not being very materialistic compared to other Housewives, and joke about flexing with their sweatsuits rather than big homes or fancy cars.
• Dolores mentions she prefers having multiple small houses rather than one huge one, and is “frugal” despite being able to afford more.
• The conversation shifts to decluttering and hoarding:
  • “I have too much clothes and too much stuff that I never got rid of... It’s hard to get rid of, not because of sentimental value, but it’s really good stuff.” —Teddi (06:16)
• Dolores sells her old clothes on eBay with the help of her daughter Sophia, highlighting generational differences in resale platforms.

Housewives Spending Habits & Mindsets

[08:23–09:29]

• When not filming, they both spend less on clothing:
  • “You just don’t buy the shit you buy when you’re filming.” —Dolores (08:23)
• Teddi shares about seeking “minimalism” after feeling “a slave to my things.”
• Brief discussion of cosmetic procedures, specifically hand and knee tightening (Renuvion), showing their openness and lack of shame in sharing beauty tips.

RHOM Episode 10 Recap: "The Stephanie Show"

The Spain Trip Kicks Off

[14:27–15:41]

• The Miami ladies head to Spain, with half flying on Stephanie’s luxury private jet and half flying commercial. This sets the stage for onboard FOMO and divides.
• Debate over the correct pronunciation: Seville vs. Sevilla, with Alexia insisting on the Spanish.
• Dolores, a former visitor to Seville, is excited to compare her experiences with the show.

Private Jet vs. Commercial Feels

[15:21–16:24]

• Stephanie, Larsa, Julia, and Adriana take the jet; Marisol, Kiki, Gertie, and Alexia go business class, “no pajamas.”
• The fashion on the jet is outrageous, with Stephanie’s outfit drawing comparisons:
  • “She’s just freaking hilarious... I don’t know if you remember the Doodle Bops... and I’m like, what is she wearing?” —Dolores (16:14)
• Both hosts joke about whether they’d be allowed on in their sweats:
  • “Don’t invite me because you know what? …You don’t know how I’ll show up to my flight today.” —Teddi (16:34)

Materialism & Envy in the Group

[28:29–29:13]

• The “private jet girls” get massively upgraded, including a Chanel gift-strewn suite for Stephanie.
• Larsa, left out, tries to play off her far smaller room as “so beautiful.”
• Honest reactions to wealth disparities surface:
  • “It’s rough when you’re around that and you’re like, yeah.” —Dolores (29:01)
  • “Is there a difference between jealousy and envy?” —Teddi (29:13)

Lisa’s Chronic Tardiness & Group Resentment

[24:25–26:36] and [46:40–47:29]

• Lisa misses the private jet due to lateness, a recurring theme:
  • “Yes, the girl is late. Yes, it’s in her tagline, she is late but worth the wait.” —Dolores (24:44)
• The group, especially Stephanie, begins to turn on Lisa now that the “new girl” flags it:
  • “She’s always been this way. But now all of a sudden because somebody new comes in, it’s a novelty that they’re all going to follow… It’s becoming the Stephanie show.” —Teddi (25:12, 25:42)
• Lisa’s disregard for group communication causes annoyance.

Stephanie's Impact: Shifting Friend Alliances

[26:40–33:41]

• Stephanie, the “newbie,” is aggressive and “polarizing”—dividing opinions among cast and hosts.
  • “She has this very strong personality. I think the girls are caught a little off guard. I haven’t seen a good argument…” —Teddi (25:46)
• Julia quickly tells Alexia she’s being talked about behind her back, stirring early conflict:
  • “Didn’t even let the girl, like, walk in and say hi to everybody.” —Dolores (29:47)
• Debates over whether the jet conversation about Alexia was “talking behind her back” or just regular group dialogue.
• Stephanie feels “betrayed” by Julia for exposing private jet conversations:
  • “I felt like I was in a safe place to speak freely… On my private jet, I brought you on my private jet. And then you’re gonna go and, like, do something like that?” —Stephanie/Teddi paraphrasing (31:38, 31:45)

Table Showdowns: Stephanie vs. Alexia

[39:06–42:34]

• Marisol revives tension, prompting discussion about whether Stephanie is judging Alexia or stirring drama.
  • “She doesn’t know them well enough to have those conversations yet.” —Dolores (39:48)
• The dinner argument between Stephanie and Alexia reaches new levels:
  • “Alexia tells Stephanie she can’t come in the group and change the dynamic and Stephanie Snaps back: ‘I can change the goddamn dynamic if I want to.’” —Dolores (40:52)
• They agree to disagree and “move on”—a rare RHOM feat.
  • “They did not agree with each other on a lot of things, but they moved on from it. And both of them said, I hope it’s… we really did move on from this.” —Teddi (42:12)

The Role of Money & Buying Friendship

[42:34–43:28]

• Alexia accuses Stephanie of “buying friends with her riches,” a charge the hosts partially validate.
  • “I think a little bit, yes. But I also think that Stephanie likes to show off what she has, but not in a bad way. She’s sharing it with her friends.” —Teddi (42:52)
• Stephanie isn’t a “girlfriend girl”; she’s used to relating mainly to her husband and not group friendships.
• Both hosts identify with preferring to be homebodies with their family vs. socializing with big friend groups.

Character Insights & Housewife Dynamics

Julia’s Role: Stirring the Pot

[32:18, 44:53–45:55]

• The hosts note Julia is being particularly messy and “thirsty” in her efforts to gossip and play both sides.
  • “If you’re gonna be a shitster, Julia, own it. Don’t pretend like you’re just wanting peace and have fun…This is not Julia’s season.” —Dolores (45:55)

Gertie’s Satisfaction & Group Alliances

[46:22–46:30]

• Speculation that Gertie is quietly pleased that tensions have shifted away from her and toward Julia.

Lisa’s Arrival & Ongoing Group Tension

[46:40–48:53]

• Lisa eventually arrives, acting nonchalant and not apologizing. The group calls her out, but the hosts point out Lisa has always been this way.
  • “Are you late to every scene?... No, never. No, I want to get it over with so I get there quick.” —Teddi & Dolores (48:08–48:20)
• They joke that when people suddenly nitpick someone’s old habits ("Lisa 101"), it usually means someone new is driving the bus: “Well, because Stephanie doesn’t like it.” —Teddi (48:39)

Personal Updates and Reflections

[50:45–54:44]

• Dolores (or Tamra) updates on her packed social calendar—weddings, Big Bear, Eddie’s grandmother’s 100th birthday.
• The hosts touch on the emotional impact of recent health crises (notably Teddy being in the hospital) and the differing group support for various Housewives:
  • “I’m going through, like, the hardest time of my life, and all they do is talk behind my back. I just don’t… Except for Heather. Heather was on the phone with me. Heather was crying with me.” —Dolores (54:44)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Housewife Flex:
  “Should I pull up with my Birkins and my Rolls Royces? ...That seems to be the trend here today, is that.” —Teddi (05:00)
• On Housewives & Shopping:
  “You just don’t buy the shit you buy when you’re filming.” —Dolores (08:23)
• On Julia stirring the pot:
  “It’s just unnatural... Trying too hard. It just is giving. Thirsty, Thirsty.” —Dolores (32:51–33:01)
• On Stephanie’s personality:
  “She has this very strong personality. I think the girls are caught a little off guard.” —Teddi (25:46)
• On group infighting:
  “They did not agree with each other on a lot of things, but they moved on from it. And both of them said, I hope it’s… we really did move on from this.” —Teddi (42:12)
• On group materialism vs. being real:
  “I don’t know if it’s jealousy. ...But it’s still rough.” —Dolores (29:13, paraphrased)
• On Housewives accountability:
  “Bravo fans don’t. Bravo fans do not like a liar. They don’t like a phony. They don’t like somebody who says they’re doing something, but they’re doing something else.” —Teddi (46:06)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• [03:45–08:22] – Hosts’ personal updates, lifestyle and minimalism talk
• [14:27–15:41] – RHOM trip begins, cast flight drama
• [24:25–26:36] – Lisa’s lateness and group reaction
• [26:40–33:41] – Stephanie shakes up alliances, Julia gossips, hosts debate loyalty
• [39:06–42:34] – Table showdown: Stephanie vs. Alexia, powerful argument and rare resolution
• [42:34–43:28] – Money, gifts, and question of “buying friends”
• [46:40–48:53] – Lisa finally arrives, gets called out, group dynamic shifts
• [50:45–54:44] – Real life reflections, health crisis storyline, and group support (or lack thereof)

Episode Tone & Style

Maintaining their signature mix of brutal honesty, friendly banter, and Housewife-insider knowledge, Teddi and Dolores/Tamra offer both comedic and heartfelt perspectives on fame, friendship, and reality TV drama. Their tone is candid, direct, supportive to each other, and always ready to call out BS—making even the uninitiated listeners feel part of the conversation.

Summary Takeaway

This episode recaps a pivotal RHOM girls’ trip packed with luxury, drama, and seismic shifts in group alliances—sparked mostly by outspoken newbie Stephanie. Teddi and Dolores expertly dissect the cast’s changing dynamic, the pitfalls of Housewives social rules, and how envy and ambition fuel on- and off-screen conflicts. Listeners gain a behind-the-scenes view not only of the show, but also of what it really means to be a Real Housewife, on and off camera.

Next week: The hosts will be recapping two episodes of Miami due to schedule shifts, promising even more drama and analysis.