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Teddi Mellencamp
2 Ts in a pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamara Jud. Hi, guys. Welcome back to another episode of the twat Seat. Today we have Sally from Southern Charm. I'm super excited. I don't think that I've ever met Sally. Have you met her in.
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In person?
Dolores
No. Was she at BravoCon?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, I would imagine she was in Bravocon.
Dolores
I just. I. I don't know why I hear in my head when I say Sally. Sally sells seashells by the seashore.
Sally
Like it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Just because she was. She was raised in South Carolina and then she moved to Charleston a few years ago after landing an impressive job in Spinal Robotics.
Dolores
That's very cool.
Teddi Mellencamp
That's very impressive. So I need to hear more about this and I also need to hear about Craig. So can you bring her in?
Dolores
Yeah, but Sally. Okay, we'll talk. You're going to get a little dolo 101.
Teddi Mellencamp
But did you know that she was also on the Bachelor? I do.
Dolores
I do. She was on the Bachelor and she was supposed to. What was she supposed to be on something else, but then was it this? Oh, where is she? Sally. Hey.
Sally
Hey. Can y' all hear me?
Dolores
We can hear you.
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Dolores
Pretty. Like I know or nothing. Y' all are beautiful.
Tamara Jud
Talk.
Dolores
We're gonna talk. Sally and Sally.
Ad Sponsor Voice
Sally.
Sally
I think we need to.
Ad Sponsor Voice
For sure.
Teddi Mellencamp
How are you?
Sally
I'm good. I'm good. It's been a little brutal out there for me recently, but.
Ad Sponsor Voice
Has it?
Dolores
You mean like.
Teddi Mellencamp
You mean like in social media world?
Sally
Yeah.
Dolores
Tell us. What?
Sally
Trying to stay off of it. Ignore it.
Dolores
That's the only thing you can do. It's not going to find you unless you look for it.
Sally
Exactly.
Teddi Mellencamp
Sally. I've been watching the show. We recap it. I don't know why Anybody would have a problem with you.
Sally
I appreciate y' all so much. I was watching one of Yalls clips, and y' all had my back, talking about me and Vanitas issues. Yeah. And it's just the way that they're, you know, making it out to be is just annoying to me. But I also am watching it, and I'm like, what am I doing wrong?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Dolores
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Again, I do that about myself all the time.
Sally
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Is it me?
Sally
Which sometimes I am like, why did I say that? But, you know, it is.
Dolores
That's okay. Just be yourself. You can never go wrong with being yourself. And. And that's fine. And I haven't seen anything thus far that you've done so totally terrible.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, other than making.
Dolores
Except for liking Greg. Like Walt, which I'm gonna say maybe not nice things.
Sally
That's same.
Dolores
Okay.
Sally
Because that is.
Dolores
We're on the same page with that. And I like him. Yeah, but you're in a. You're in an OR all day with hot doctors.
Sally
Yeah, well, Greg's hot.
Dolores
He's hot. But you have a lot of. You have a lot of people around. You work in a hospital.
Sally
Yeah. And like, that's. That was, like, the depth of it in the beginning of the summer. I thought he was hot. I didn't know him. Like, he looks great.
Dolores
He is. We all thought he was hot. Right, Tim? At. He had a.
Teddi Mellencamp
He had a little bit of glow up after he broke up with.
Sally
Yeah, right. For sure.
Dolores
Yeah. He's got it.
Teddi Mellencamp
A lot of my friends will be like, oh, Craig is so hot. And I'd be like, huh.
Dolores
Really?
Teddi Mellencamp
I never really looked at him like that. And then the new season came out, and I'm like, oh, he is pretty hot.
Dolores
His hair looks great. He's got a really cute house. Really nice house. He's really cute with his dog. He's got a dog, right?
Teddi Mellencamp
Does he.
Dolores
Is it a cat?
Sally
No, he used. He had a cat with Paige.
Teddi Mellencamp
Are you saying he has a pussy?
Sally
Yes.
Teddi Mellencamp
That was your.
Sally
Also.
Teddi Mellencamp
Sorry.
Dolores
No, I mean.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, I know you can't say.
Dolores
We're not here to shit on Craig. We're here to talk about you.
Teddi Mellencamp
No, I know that you can't say much because the season just started, but this whole love triangle really has me intrigued.
Sally
Oh, gosh. I know. And it's. It's. The way it's playing out is frustrating to me just because everyone's like, oh, my gosh, Sally, he's not that into you. You're, like, so obsessed with him. And I'm like, you're only seeing bits and pieces, Right. And also, they're showing me flirt with Craig, but they're not showing me flirt with, like, Corey. And like, everyone else, I'm, like, not just going after Craig. I'm flirting with everybody. I'm single. Good.
Dolores
I love that you're doing that.
Teddi Mellencamp
Now, I have seen a few people say, like, well, you're not a girl's girl because Vanita doesn't like him, so you shouldn't.
Sally
That is the most frustrating thing to me in the world because Vanita comes to me with all of her secrets, and we're so close. Like, she trusts me.
Dolores
So you're still close, right? You're still close? Yeah.
Sally
I mean, I'm frustrated with some of the things I've seen that she's said, because I'm like, why would you say that when you didn't feel that way really about me? Because you know that I am a girl's girl for you. And, like, it just frustrated me because last year she was with JT and I hated him. And I warned her, just like she's doing with me and Greg, and I warned her over and over again. And then he tried to blackmail me in front of everyone. So he personally, like, attacked me in front of the whole group. And she still wanted to be with him. And I was like, you know what?
Dolores
On camera?
Sally
Yeah. But they didn't show it.
Dolores
Okay, well, it wasn't on camera then.
Sally
You see a little bit of him coming after me, but not to the extent, because we are.
Dolores
I mean, this is the first time hearing this.
Sally
Well, he came after me a little bit last season, and you saw a.
Teddi Mellencamp
Little bit of it.
Tamara Jud
Yeah.
Sally
But then they didn't change.
Teddi Mellencamp
He came after everybody.
Sally
Oh. He was like, I have all these receipts and pictures of Sally. I'm gonna throw them up on the tv. And, like, even production kind of shut it down. They were like, we're not doing that.
Teddi Mellencamp
I'm actually glad not to see him.
Sally
Yes.
Dolores
I'm glad that they didn't do that. I mean, right?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. No, I'm glad they didn't do that. You know, there I had mixed feelings about JT Because I felt like last season he really moved things along, and he was the one that caused most the drama, so I thought that we might miss him. But so far, the season's been really good.
Dolores
It's really good.
Tamara Jud
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Not missing. Not missing at all.
Sally
Nobody misses him.
Teddi Mellencamp
Do you think he's. Do you see him? Do you ever see him around here?
Sally
No. He has Pretty much all of us blocked. And he moved, I think, to, like, Bali or something.
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Sally
And, like, just went off the grid. So.
Dolores
Eat love prey. He's gonna do a little bit of that stuff. Sally. Of course I put eat first. Sally, let me ask you. So I'm this story, you know, hearing this poor puts us such a different light on how I feel about what happened with you and Vanita. Because, you know, you should have probably said that, right? You should have had a sit down with her and said to her, this happened last year, the same exact scenario, and I was okay with it. And we're still friends. So why is it different now? Why is it double standard?
Sally
And you do see a little bit of that coming up, I hope. I mean, I don't know how you don't know.
Teddi Mellencamp
Well, you have to get your receipts ready for the reunion because you have a strong argument there.
Sally
Exactly. Because I told her, I was like, look, if you like him, I'm your girl. I will try to like him for you, and I will support this relationship.
Tamara Jud
Right.
Dolores
Well, dance at your wedding if this is what you want.
Sally
Exactly. And I was never trying to date Craig. Like, I wasn't like, I want to date him. I was just having fun hanging out with him.
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Teddi Mellencamp
I don't see anything that bad between Craig and Vanita that she has to make it out like he is the devil.
Dolores
That was my question. Tamara, you took it right out of. So can you explain to us, can you clarify that for me and Tamara what's like this visceral.
Teddi Mellencamp
Why can't she move on?
Sally
I, I, I don't know. I really don't. I didn't really understand it and that's why I was kind of being like light hearted about it.
Dolores
Okay.
Sally
In the beginning.
Dolores
That's understandable. See, this is very enlightening.
Sally
Yeah. Because I'm like, Craig said stuff about her on Watch what happens and just kind of wrote her off. Right. But she also said negative things about him. So they both were talking shit about.
Dolores
What did he say about her? Was it like so damaging?
Sally
He said he didn't want to be associated with her anymore and he just kind of was like, I don't want to be friends with her anymore. Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
That's mild. And Bravo world.
Dolores
Listen, we'll take that all day long.
Sally
Yeah. And like I have Vanita's back in all of this especially because, you know, she ends up being right about a lot of stuff. However she, I don't think she went about it the right way. Yeah. So. And we'll see.
Dolores
I mean she half did, she half did about some things. Like it started out but then it seemed to like kind of snowball. I feel we have a little bit to go. Of course. How many episodes are we in now?
Sally
Four, I think.
Dolores
And how many all together?
Sally
I think 15.
Dolores
Okay. So we have a long way to go to all play out and I know that you can't talk a lot about it, but we could talk up to now. So it's very, I, I'm happy to know that it was something. She was in the same predicament last year and you guys are still friends and.
Sally
Yes.
Dolores
Yeah. So, okay. So she, it's not worth fighting over that one guy.
Teddi Mellencamp
Didn't we just See on Instagram that she's dating possibly or been rumored to be out with Carl.
Sally
She has been out with Carl. Yeah.
Dolores
Nice.
Teddi Mellencamp
I love Carl.
Sally
Is super sweet. I think that they would actually be a good fit for each other. I've met him a few times and I really like him. And she deserves a good guy.
Dolores
Oh, my God.
Teddi Mellencamp
Your guys's crossover is crazy.
Sally
I know.
Dolores
It is, right?
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Right?
Teddi Mellencamp
It is.
Dolores
But you know what? I think that your whole cast and their whole cast can be on each other's shows. You remind me a lot of each other.
Sally
Yeah, I would agree with that because I'm friends. I've gotten to know Jesse and West. I've met Sierra, who I think is awesome. But yeah, I mean, I think that they're all great. And I love Amanda. I think she's awesome.
Dolores
Oh, I really love them all. I love. Even, like, when they're not getting along, I still love them all.
Sally
Yeah. Yeah. That's a great show.
Teddi Mellencamp
Is there anybody on that show you would date?
Sally
Probably not.
Dolores
Probably not.
Sally
I mean, I'd like, played a little bit with, you know.
Tamara Jud
Yeah.
Dolores
Who?
Sally
One of them, but.
Dolores
Oh, you can't say that, Sally. You have to go tell us.
Sally
No, west came to Columbia. He, like, had, like.
Dolores
Yes, I know.
Teddi Mellencamp
I love West.
Dolores
I love Wes, too. I was saying it in a tongue in cheek matter.
Sally
Yeah, he's great. And we hung out at Bravocon and.
Dolores
It was not the game, Tamra. He's.
Teddi Mellencamp
The way he dresses and everything, it's just.
Dolores
It's just a cute mess.
Teddi Mellencamp
He just speaks to his own drum, like.
Dolores
Yeah, he's so cute. His person, he's very nice. His person, he's so nice. You know why? You know what? Like, makes girls melt. That he does. I'm gonna tell you. I know because I. I watch everything.
Teddi Mellencamp
Did he make you melt, Dolores?
Dolores
No, but he listens. Like, he's very attentive when you're talking to him. Right, Sally?
Sally
Yeah, I would agree with that.
Dolores
At the end of the day, we just want a little kindness, gentleness. And he's really. He doesn't look like that. Like, he's a football player guy, but he. He. When he comes off like that, you're like, oh, I see. I get why the girls like him.
Sally
Yeah, he's very genuine.
Dolores
Yeah.
Sally
Like, if you're hanging out with him, like, all of his attention is on you. You see what I mean?
Teddi Mellencamp
Isn't he a Midwest boy?
Dolores
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Missouri or something. Kansas City.
Sally
Kansas City.
Tamara Jud
Yeah.
Sally
Odd. Yeah.
Dolores
Isn't it so easy? Isn't it just so easy. Why can't boys just. Just get it?
Sally
I know, I know. And there's the McBee dynasty. They're all from Missouri.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yes, yes.
Dolores
And there's the Cowboys.
Sally
I've met all of them, and they're amazing too, so.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, I love them. I funny fact. Like, my assistant lives in Missouri, and his mom and dad went to high school with McBees.
Dolores
Oh, that's so. So cute.
Sally
Luke.
Dolores
Luke is their producer.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, Luke, his first time. The producer that produces our show, Orange county. He's doing McBee right now, and he.
Dolores
Used to produce Housewives. He's a good producer.
Sally
Yeah. Yeah, I think it's a great show.
Teddi Mellencamp
So are you dating anybody currently?
Sally
I am not. Sally was. I was like, a little bit.
Dolores
And then was he like, I want to know?
Sally
I mean, all the guys I choose. You would be. I mean, everyone is like, sally, what are you doing? No job, no car.
Dolores
Sally, I. Sally, you are. We have to talk. Like, I couldn't wait to get you on here.
Sally
You guys, it's bad. Wait, Charles did.
Dolores
I don't care. Like, you can't tell me you're in a hospital around these young doctors coming out of residency doing spine surgery.
Sally
Feel like they're all taken. Like they're all married, engaged.
Teddi Mellencamp
No, because they're the good guys. Are the good guys taken up pretty quick?
Dolores
Listen, Sally's not looking.
Sally
I was engaged to a neurosurgeon, though. Did y' all know that? No.
Dolores
I know you were engaged and you called it off.
Teddi Mellencamp
Is this the one? Is this the one you were engaged to when you were gonna do the Bachelor? Right before the Bachelor, and then you. Oh, no.
Dolores
So why'd you call it off? I just wanna know.
Sally
He cheated on me.
Dolores
They cheat, like, 25.
Sally
25 days before the wedding. 30 days before the wedding.
Dolores
How'd you find out?
Sally
The girl DM'd me on Instagram. And she was like, hey, girl. And I knew it was coming. I was like, I already know where this conversation.
Teddi Mellencamp
Did you have, like, a gut feeling? You just didn't want to be in denial?
Sally
Yeah, because you.
Teddi Mellencamp
That.
Dolores
Was it in a. Was it like a relationship or was it like a drive by blowjob kind of thing?
Sally
Yeah, it was like that.
Dolores
I shouldn't have said that.
Sally
No, please.
Dolores
There's a difference. Yeah, both is bad, but one's. One's emotionally involved and one. He's just a pig.
Sally
And, well, I think he was doing it with, like, others too. So I was just like, I don't want Any part of this.
Teddi Mellencamp
So why would he want to get married if he was wanting to act single?
Dolores
Did he think he was cool for the first time? You know, they're in school forever.
Sally
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Probably because I feel like they're like teenagers or like college when they're getting out of res, like doing all that work and, you know, I mean, it's years and years, and then by the time they're 40, they're out and they have money and then they just want to play.
Dolores
Yeah, timing is everything, Sally. But what they don't know, and they're so stupid. They could be so smart and they're so dumb. Number one, they're never smarter than the girls. That's number one. They always get caught. They're not slick and it's just such a waste. Look what he lost. But, like, you can't go from.
Teddi Mellencamp
Give me a social media. Let me go after him.
Dolores
Camera will rip.
Sally
I don't even know what he's up.
Dolores
Right. His balls off. Camera will kick his. Like, he'll be so sorry he did that.
Sally
I mean, look at. After he did it, I like, went on four TV shows. He's probably like, what the hell?
Dolores
Oh, you know what he's doing? He's sitting there with whoever he's with now, and he's going, yeah, I did.
Charlotte
I was a kid.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, my God.
Sally
That's exactly.
Teddi Mellencamp
I have a question for you. How do you juggle your job with filming?
Sally
Filming is very. I mean, my job comes first, and they know that once the hospital calls me, I'm like, locked.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Sally
But, yeah, there. I mean, if I have a case, like if there's some scenes that I. We were filming and the hospital called and I was like, I have to go. And no matter what we're doing, like, I have to leave. And they respect it, and they're very. They're very good about that.
Teddi Mellencamp
Can you explain to me exactly what you do?
Sally
Yes, I would love to, because everyone thinks I'm claiming to be a doctor. I'm not a doctor.
Dolores
No, no.
Sally
So went to the medical sales college, specialized in the spine. And then I got this job right out of college. So I've been doing it for almost nine years. And I control a robot for the surgeon. The surgeon is still doing the operation, but I am sending the robot to different trajectories in the spine where screws go and all of his instruments go down. My robotic.
Teddi Mellencamp
Wow, that is insane. And you don't have to have a medical degree to do that. You just have to be trained in this.
Sally
Correct. It took me about two years before I was extremely comfortable with, you know, doing all the surgeries. Now I, I just show up and I'm like, you know, I'm confident in whatever we're doing, but I'm, I'm standing right next to the patient. I'm not scrubbed in or anything, but I'm in. Yeah, I'm fully in the surgeries.
Teddi Mellencamp
So do you meet the patient before or. No?
Sally
Sometimes. I mean, I'm mainly at Children's Hospital now, but I start in the hot. Like sometimes the patient will like roll in and just be like, hi. You know, say hi to everyone. But they're already kind of like loopy by the time they get back there. But I'm not like going to patients rooms and meeting them and talking about surgery. Right, right.
Teddi Mellencamp
I was just wondering if there's ever a incident where a patient was like, wait a minute, aren't you.
Sally
Oh, yeah. No, not yet. Some of the doctors, which is funny in like the hospital, they'll be like, hey, can I get a selfie for my wife?
Dolores
That's so cute.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh my God, that is so funny. I, I figured it was something with a pharmaceutical sales training that you've gone through.
Sally
It's technically medical device sales.
Teddi Mellencamp
Medical device. Okay.
Sally
I don't sell anything. I just try to get my surgeons to use the robot that you train them.
Teddi Mellencamp
Do you ever train them? So medical professionals so they can do it or do you. They. Okay, yeah.
Sally
So I will fly sometimes the conferences where we have labs, or I'll go to a lab and I'll work with a surgeon and train other surgeons or residents on how to use the robot.
Dolores
Wow, that's so interesting. You know, I'm a surge tech. Sally.
Sally
Are you?
Dolores
Yeah.
Sally
Oh, my gosh. I didn't know that. That's awesome.
Teddi Mellencamp
I just like to get lots of plastic surgery.
Dolores
That doesn't need robotic. That's about four instruments. Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
What's next?
Sally
But I'm very obsessed with my. I'm. I'm very obsessed with my job, if.
Dolores
I ever should be. Because it's so interesting. It's. Well, how long is a surgery typically for you?
Sally
Because I know it's sometimes it can be anywhere from like four hours to eight.
Dolores
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
So no, I have the most respect for you because a lot of people get on Bravo and. And then they quit all their daytime jobs and they're just making money on Bravo and let's face it, you can get paid very well. The longer you're on. And then when the show's over or they get let go, they're like, oh shit, I have no. I mean, this is very true in the housewife world. Like a lot of housewives don't have a backup plan.
Sally
Yeah, yeah. And that's my surgeon, actually one of my surgeons. He's always like, you're not going to leave me, are you? And I got that. I literally got this tattoo for him because I'm like, I now I can't go anywhere. It's a little robot. Oh my God.
Teddi Mellencamp
How cute.
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Max this is Sophie Cunningham from Show Me Something. Do you know the symptoms of moderate.
Dolores
To severe obstructive sleep apnea, or osa.
Sally
In adults with obesity? They may be happening to you without you knowing.
Teddi Mellencamp
If anyone has ever said you snored.
Sally
Loudly, or if you spend your days.
Teddi Mellencamp
Fighting off excessive tiredness, irritability and concentration.
Dolores
Issues, it may be due to osa.
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Teddi Mellencamp
Could you see yourself doing any other Bravo show, like Vanderpump Rules, Below Deck, anything like that? Well, below deck would be impossible because you travel too much and you have to work.
Sally
Yeah, well, I mean, I don't know if the opportunity ever presented itself like I thought I would, it would be amazing. You know, I love the show Traders, which Dolores Hero.
Dolores
Yeah, I was on.
Teddi Mellencamp
I was on season two, Tamara was.
Dolores
On and I was on. But then, you know, you are going to have to give your job. Like Traders. You could be there from a day. You could be there for a month and some time. So that's not some. That's something you'd have to actually take away from your job. But. But I think you're established enough in your job that you could do that now.
Teddi Mellencamp
But regardless if you were there a day or 30 days, you have to take a whole 30 days off. Right. Because even if you.
Sally
That's less than I took off for the Bachelor, so.
Dolores
Oh, so.
Teddi Mellencamp
So you could do that?
Sally
Yeah, yeah. They. They were very supportive of. I mean, you know, they were. The surgeon that I was with worked at that hospital that I worked at. So everyone was just felt bad for me. They were like, go, go to the Bachelor.
Teddi Mellencamp
What made you decide to try out for the Bachelor? To go on the Bachelor? We obviously know that you didn't go through with it, but what I actually.
Sally
Ended up getting back with him after that whole experience. And that's why I left because I was so in love with him. I was like, what am I doing here? So I am Getting a lot of hate also because everyone's like, she's so thirsty. She's been on all these shows. And I'm like, all of these shows fell into my lap. Genuinely, what do you care?
Dolores
They're jealous.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah. Don't listen to that. Because I'll tell you right now, any.
Dolores
One of them would take that job.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yes. Any one of them would do that. The reason why they're doing that is because they're jealous and they can go.
Dolores
Off as far as it's not.
Sally
You can't buy me to talk to you guys.
Dolores
Yeah, listen. It's not attainable. Like, you can't buy into it. You know how many housewives. You know how many. A lot like money people with private planes, billionaires, they can't buy into being on these shows. You have to buy luck by chance, by the grace of God.
Sally
Yeah.
Dolores
Get on it and be not. Never take it for granted. And the worst thing you can do ever is let the chatter outside of the show get to you.
Sally
Yeah.
Dolores
Because you don't even know who they are.
Sally
I know. That's what I'm working on right now.
Teddi Mellencamp
And the mean ones are always allowed.
Dolores
You have. Right. And they're usually like, I don't got Sally, you know what? My whole Instagram is number one now, right now. The monks and their dog. Number two.
Teddi Mellencamp
Do you know, she probably doesn't know about the monks. You know about the. The monks that are walking, Sally. Oh, my gosh. She has people.
Sally
I'll stalk you.
Dolores
So there's a whole group of monks that decided to come out of seclusion to walk for peace. They started in November. They're walking from, I think, Houston, and they're walking across the country on foot with their dog all the way to Washington, D.C. some of them have no shoes. They're just stopping, praying, just sleeping, and they get up and go the next day. They don't have food. They only have what you give them. They're not allowed for. To ask for anything. I'm obsessed. I'm dying. I want to go.
Sally
I need to go look that up.
Dolores
Instead of looking at.
Teddi Mellencamp
I'll send it to you on Instagram.
Dolores
Yeah. Sally, instead of looking at all the shit haters, why don't you look at good stuff like that, like dogs saving dogs.
Teddi Mellencamp
So, Sally, me and Dolores were talking about New Year's resolution. Neither one of us really do it, but there's always, like, a goal. And if there's any goal that we could do, it would be to, like, put our phones down and not Live our life on social media and look like Sally.
Dolores
Yes. And look like you.
Sally
Thank you, guys.
Teddi Mellencamp
I'm too old for that.
Dolores
But you and your bikini on the beach playing football stuff.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, my God, I was dying.
Dolores
I'm like, why is she there? She should be in St. Bart's on a yacht.
Teddi Mellencamp
So I'm telling you, don't you worry about what any buddy saying, because the normal, sane people that are watching the show, they're not saying that. And I remember going, normal people. Yeah. Last year, two years ago, I had a really bad season. I got death threats. I got all kinds of stuff.
Dolores
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
And I met with somebody at Bravo and they told me, you know What, Tamara? It's 3% of our viewers that are making those comments. 3%.
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Sally
That's so true.
Teddi Mellencamp
So don't let those 3 percenters upset you.
Sally
Yeah.
Dolores
Anyway.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah, yeah.
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Dolores
Go look at the monks. Go. Go work on that.
Sally
I'm gonna look at the monks.
Teddi Mellencamp
Do you watch any other. Do you watch Housewives at all?
Sally
I am going to get into it, but I need to know. So my best friends. I have, like, six best girlfriends from college. They're obsessed.
Dolores
Well, yeah, the college girls are our best friends. The sorority girls, when they show up, they're so fun. I always point them out. I'm like, college friends. Right. Cause they're having a good time.
Teddi Mellencamp
So what? They watch it and you don't.
Sally
They watch all of them. And I'm just now getting into, like, watching Bravo and. Because I'm always watching some stupid, like, Grey's Anatomy over and over and over again.
Dolores
Yeah, well, it's your field now. You're. Now. This is your field, too.
Sally
So. But I just don't know which one to start with.
Tamara Jud
What?
Teddi Mellencamp
Bravo?
Tamara Jud
What.
Teddi Mellencamp
Is there any problem shows that you do watch?
Sally
Just. I've only seen Summer house and the McBee dynasty.
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Teddi Mellencamp
So you're busy actually working, so you.
Dolores
Want to watch oc?
Sally
Like, where do I start?
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, God.
Dolores
I would say start season seven for New Jersey.
Sally
Oh, so I don't need to start season.
Teddi Mellencamp
Oh, I think the earlier seasons were so different. I mean, if you want to, but you'd have to have a lot of time to do it. 19 seasons. Yeah. I would start in the later seasons.
Dolores
Because it's relevant to the cast that's there now.
Teddi Mellencamp
Salt Lake City is a good one.
Dolores
Oh, Salt Lake City is good. And, you know, it's not that many.
Teddi Mellencamp
Seasons, like six or seven right now, is it?
Dolores
That much I didn't even know But I would start Salt Lake within the past when Jen Shaw went away. What was that, three seasons ago?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yeah.
Dolores
So I would. Yeah. So we could. Tamra, I'll text you or I'll. I'll DM you where to start. What? But, you know, you gotta, like, do it.
Sally
I'm going to. I don't have work for, like, a week because. Well, I have a case tomorrow, but after that, I'm done for, like, a week. So I'm gonna get into some shows. Yeah.
Dolores
Okay. You'll learn a lot from us.
Tamara Jud
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
I don't want to take up too much of your time, but I do want to know, is there anything that you can tease for the upcoming season that you won't get in trouble?
Sally
I think you'll see. Hopefully you'll see my opinion on Craig change very drastically.
Dolores
Oh, wow.
Sally
Yeah.
Teddi Mellencamp
Like I said, I have a question.
Dolores
Is a bad task. What? Your friend Charlie.
Sally
Yes.
Dolores
How. How are things now?
Sally
I mean, things are good. Things are good.
Dolores
Okay.
Sally
Yeah. I just. I feel, you know, it just. It was harder for me just because I was the one that kind of just like, brought her into this friend group and introduced her, and I felt, like, a little bit stabbed in the back at times, and I think maybe we'll see that. But it was more about me and her friendship more than it was about Craig, if that makes sense. Once I brought her into the whole group, things started to shift between us, and it just hurt my feelings, and I was like, why is this happening? We had such a good friendship before.
Dolores
Yeah, well, Sally, you haven't been friends with her for a long time, right? No, it's been a good time, but not a long time.
Sally
Not a long time.
Dolores
So, you know, moving forward, you know, we're older. Tamara and I are older. We've had a lot of experience with friendships, and you really can't be that disappointed because there's not a lot invested there. Right.
Sally
I agree.
Dolores
Maybe you could be a little bit surprised, but not, like, it's not a game changer for you. You guys aren't childhood friends. It's not years ongoing. You bonded over being a little wild.
Sally
Mm, I agree.
Teddi Mellencamp
Which is fine.
Dolores
Yeah, it's fine.
Teddi Mellencamp
It's fine.
Dolores
But there's. There's some people that you trust a hundred thousand percent, and there's some people you trust in different ways with different things.
Sally
Yes, for sure.
Dolores
Nothing against Charlie. It's just. I feel like the. Just the friendship that my. My. Well, right. Tamara, do you know what I'm trying to say?
Teddi Mellencamp
Yes, I mean, I think that both Dolores and I are coming from a place where we just look at you as our child and we just want to give you a big hug and be just like. Don't let those people upset you. You're way love all that. Think about everything you have. You're so established, your career, you're on bravo. You have everything that everybody wants. So just keep it up. Just keep pissing people off. I love it.
Dolores
And it's better to not to be in no relationship than in a relationship.
Sally
With the wrong person, especially one with no job. So.
Dolores
And oh, don't ever let me hear that again. That's the most disgusting thing I ever heard. Don't you dare.
Teddi Mellencamp
And boys, I'd rather you be with JT than a guy with no job.
Dolores
I'd rather you be. Listen, honestly, I just want you to be with the right guy. And remember, boys lie. Remember look at your shirt and remember that.
Sally
Boys, they just sent me like three sets I've been wearing every day. My family, you know, I was the.
Dolores
First one to buy them. They don't send me shit.
Sally
So maybe they'll listen to this and send me shit.
Teddi Mellencamp
I know I used to buy them for my daughter all the time.
Dolores
I bought it for myself. I still buy, I go, I get nothing.
Teddi Mellencamp
Not appreciated. But thank you so much Sally for taking the time.
Tamara Jud
I know that.
Dolores
Thank you Sally.
Sally
Thanks for all yalls advice. Seriously. It was.
Teddi Mellencamp
Yes, we're always here for you.
Dolores
We are. We've been through it.
Teddi Mellencamp
Have a great Christmas.
Sally
Merry Christmas holiday.
Teddi Mellencamp
Happy holiday.
Sally
Bye guys.
Teddi Mellencamp
Bye.
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Date: December 29, 2025
Hosts: Teddi Mellencamp & Tamra Judge
Guest: Salley Carson (Southern Charm)
In this episode of “The Twot Seat,” Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge welcome Salley Carson from Southern Charm. The conversation dives deep into Salley’s reality TV journey, her career in spinal robotics, navigating drama on and off camera—especially regarding Craig and Vanita—and how she maintains her career amidst the pressures and opportunities of Bravo fame. The tone is candid, supportive, and marked by signature Housewives sass.
Hosts' Final Words:
Tamra & Teddi repeatedly remind Salley—and listeners—that only a tiny fraction of viewers are truly negative, encourage leaning on real friends, and give practical advice for navigating reality TV world with humor and perspective.
For those unfamiliar with Salley Carson or the current Southern Charm season, this episode offers an honest, behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to navigate both reality TV and a high-stakes medical career.