Uncensored Renegades: Why we need to embrace failure with Kory Marchisotto

Summary

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Uncensored CMO: "Uncensored Renegades: Why We Need to Embrace Failure"

Host: Jon Evans ("Jonny Boy")
Guest: Kory Marchisotto ("K Boss")
Date: January 26, 2026

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Episode Overview

In the premiere of the "Uncensored Renegades" series, Jon Evans and Kory Marchisotto dive head-first into the concept of failure — why it’s stigmatized, how it’s critical for growth, and the role it plays in leadership and business success. Sharing personal stories, cultural perspectives, and leadership lessons, this fast-paced 20-minute episode explores why openly talking about failures supercharges learning and innovation.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Social Stigma and Branding Problem of Failure

• [00:42] Jon notes how rarely people discuss failure, referencing a venture capitalist who asks potential founders about their biggest flop — and if they don't have one, the meeting ends.
• Kory: "I actually love the word failure... Why does failure have a branding problem?" (01:39)
• Jon: “Everyone swarms around a success and claims it as their own... but the moment something goes wrong, it’s like a bomb has been dropped... ‘That wasn’t me.’” (02:47-03:26)

2. Learning from Failure: The Black Box Analogy

• Jon shares the story behind his internal company seminar titled “My Most Epic Failures,” inspired by the book Black Box Thinking by Matthew Syed.
• In aviation, crash black box data is shared industry-wide, significantly reducing future accidents: “There’s a close correlation between the more information about failure they give away and the reduction in airline crashes, which I thought was brilliant.” (04:29)
• Demand for Jon’s failure storytelling far exceeded expectations, and he found people were desperate for “permission” to talk about their own stumbles.

3. Failure as Foundational to Success

• Both Jon and Kory highlight that every significant success was preceded by key moments of failure and self-examination.
• Jon: “The end of the meeting, I said my five biggest successes immediately followed those failures. That’s the thing we forget, isn’t it?” (06:19)
• Kory: Shares her company’s new employee onboarding process, where C Suite tells personal stories, and how new hires always ask about failure stories.
• Kory (citing Billie Jean King): “Failure is feedback.” (07:13)
• Uses the skiing analogy: “The beauty of skiing is the pause and reflection on the lift... What did I do right that run? What did I do wrong?... At the end of the day, you’re a much better skier, and the progress is tangible.” (07:29-08:16)

4. Lessons from Elite Performers: Tennis & Football

• Jon highlights Roger Federer’s statistics: Federer has won 80% of matches, but only 54% of shots — the tiniest edge separates “the greatest of all time and being a kind of circuit player.” (09:54-10:12)
• They discuss the relentless repetition behind success (like David Beckham practicing free kicks alone after training), emphasizing the labor behind triumph.

5. Cultural Practice: Celebrating Failure in Teams

• Kory describes her leadership practice at ELF of regular “wins and fails lightning rounds”:
  • The focus isn’t on the failure itself, but on what was learned.
  • “Your failure might be somebody else’s win, because you caught them before they were going to make the same fail… and we celebrate it among our team and we celebrate it in our company.” (11:24)
• ELF’s transparency and open discussion of mistakes are credited as key contributors to company success.

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Memorable Quotes & Moments

• Kory: “Nothing good happens when fear is in the driver’s seat.” (21:53)
• Jon: “In desperate times, [failure] set me up for the success that followed.” (06:26)
• Kory (on feedback): “‘Failure is feedback.’” (07:13)
• Jon (on company culture): “Permission to talk about failure is one of the most valuable things you can give someone.” (05:28-06:19)

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• [00:42] — The stigma and avoidance of talking about failure.
• [02:47] — “Success has many fathers, failure is an orphan.”
• [04:29] — The “black box” story and learnings from aviation failures.
• [06:19] — “Five biggest successes immediately followed those failures.”
• [07:13] — Billie Jean King’s “failure is feedback” and the importance of reflection.
• [09:54] — Roger Federer: winning 54% of shots, the edge of greatness.
• [11:24] — ELF’s lightning round on wins and fails; team transparency.
• [13:02] — Jon’s detailed story of the juice brand relaunch disaster and turnaround.
• [16:25] — The learning: “This job was the other 90%... I was in charge of quality control for the first time.”
• [19:05] — Kory’s biggest failure: her first investor meeting at ELF, making a forward-looking statement accidentally.
• [21:53] — “Nothing good happens when fear is in the driver’s seat.”
• [22:37] — Coaching others through failure: “We are tough in victory and gentle in defeat.”

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Personal Failure Stories

Jon’s Story: Juice Brand Meltdown & Turnaround

[13:02—16:36]

• Left corporate safety for a private-equity scale-up with huge ambitions and minimal team support.
• Relaunched the brand in a frantic 16-week sprint (normally 18 months’ work).
• Catastrophe: mold found in juice bottles after launch during an epic heatwave, requiring a complete recall in peak season.
• “We lost a third of our entire business. This wasn’t just someone else’s money. This was my life savings, private investment; I was a shareholder.” (14:24)
• Painful but transformative: forensic root-cause analysis led to 96 documented learnings. The company became the fastest growing soft drink in the UK for two years after.
• Key learning: “I was used to being responsible for about 10% of what happens on a brand... This job was the other 90%.” (16:25)

Kory’s Story: Investor Meeting Fiasco

[19:05—21:53]

• Early at ELF, thrown into her first U.S.-style investor meeting, immediately broke the cardinal rule against “forward-looking statements.”
• CEO calmly handled it, then called her out later for losing her authentic voice due to fear: "Where is the person I hired... you’re a robot."
• CEO’s advice: “When somebody asks you a question about the future, you just tell them a story about the past.” (21:38)
• Transformation: Kory learned to manage fear, reclaimed her confidence, and now thrives in investor relations.

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Leadership Lessons

• "Failure is feedback." True learning and improvement require honest self-examination.
• Leaders must create safety to talk about failure; this inspires openness, faster learning, and strong cultures.
• The margin between top performers and “good-enough” is often the willingness to learn from the 46% lost points, not the 54% won.
• “Tough in victory, gentle in defeat.” — A leader’s response to failure should be supportive, not punitive; people know when they’ve messed up.

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Notable Quotes & Attribution

• Kory Marchisotto [11:24]: "Your failure might be somebody else's win, because you caught them before they were going to make the same fail and, and we celebrate it among our team and we celebrate it in our company."
• Jon Evans [13:02]: “I did everything... I was the Twitter handle, I was the designer, I designed our logo... But we relaunched and within about a week... mold was growing inside the bottle.”
• Kory Marchisotto [21:53]: “Nothing good happens when fear is in the driver's seat.”
• Jon Evans [22:37]: “We are tough in victory and we are gentle in defeat.”

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Conclusion

The episode makes a compelling case for why failure should not only be normalized, but embraced and leveraged as a core growth driver — for individuals, teams, and entire organizations. Both Jon and Kory model vulnerability and reflection, illustrating how honest dialogue about failure is the secret sauce behind future wins.

Cliffhanger: Next time, Kory might share the story of getting fired from Chili's...

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Transcript

[A]

Welcome, ladies and gentlemen, to Uncensored Renegades. This is a new show that I'm launching with Corey Marchisoto, and we're going to be focusing in on leadership, and we're going to be doing that in a new format, which is the two of us tackling one topic for 20 minutes. So shorter than a normal show, but super focused and with the absolute rock star that is Corey. I know you're going to love this. Now, if you want to make sure you get this every single week, please do go and subscribe to Uncensored Renegades in your feed, and then you'll never, ever miss an episode again. But without further ado, let's get into it. Here it is. Welcome to the show. I'm Jonny Boy.

[B]

And I'm K Boss.

[A]

Okay, let's get into it. One feedback I get on my podcast from so many people is the fact that I talk about getting fired, because apparently we don't like to talk about things that go wrong. And actually when I do or I have guests like you that are very open about, you know, journey they've been on, it gets such a positive response. I thought, why don't we, for our first episode, talk about failure? And it kind of reminds me of this. I met this incredible venture capitalist guy called Shlomo, and he had invested in loads and loads of companies, and I was captivated by his view on business and the talent he hires in the role. But the first thing he does is he asks someone to tell them about a big failure that they faced. And if they can't think of one, the meeting is over. Because he said, if you've not confronted failure and cope with it and gone on, you are not in a position to be a startup founder and get backing. And I just thought, wow, man, that's pretty cool. So I thought we should talk about failure.

[B]

Can we just start with the word? I actually love the word failure. What? What? Wise failure has a branding problem?

[A]

It does.

[B]

It's a great word. We should celebrate failure.

[A]

Yeah. Do you know the comedian, UK comedian, Jimmy Carr?

[B]

I don't.

[A]

He is like, he's one of the most successful comedians. He is hilarious, right? He sells out massive stadiums. He's on, like, TV Saturday night. He is one of the most famous comedians ever. I heard him being interviewed on a podcast and he said, I have failed in a thousand pubs before. I made someone laugh. And basically what he just said, I worked harder at figuring out which jokes did not work. And he said, I told a thousand jokes in a thousand pubs. And I found the one and I just repeated that one and I just said, no one knows. Like, no one talks about the thousand jokes you told that didn't work, you see? So I thought maybe we could talk about a thousand jokes that we've done that haven't worked.

[B]

And why do you think that is, though? Where did we have this turning point that the thing that actually creates the success, the conditions that have to be true for success to happen, which is the failure, somehow became something we're afraid to talk about.

[A]

I think there's some. There's some social stigma around it, isn't it? Like, everyone wants to be seen to succeed and no one wants to be seen to have failed. And therefore we kind of disassociate ourselves. I mean, there's a phrase, actually, my. My. My boss, Clark from Britvic from way back, one of the most inspirational people I've ever worked for, he said. He said to me, johnny Boy, success has many fathers. Failure as an orphan. And I thought that, damn it, man, you're. You're completely right. Everyone, like, swarms around a success and claims it as their own, don't they? But the moment something goes wrong, it's like a bomb has been dropped and the scene's been cleared and like, oh, that wasn't me. That wasn't me. You know, and everyone's dusting, you know, dusting it off.

[B]

You know what I just took away from that story that they called you Johnny Boy. There's your nickname.

[A]

There we go. K Boss. Do you know what? Funny enough, actually, right, I started a new job a few years ago. The last proper CMO job I had, right, I was working for British company in drinks, Lucasade, Ribena, Suntory. And they had this brilliant idea that in our. In our kind of customer satisfaction, sorry, employee satisfaction survey, there was one negative thing that said the C suite are too distant from, you know, the employees. And so Tracy, our HR director, had this amazing idea. She goes, we're going to do this learning festival. And this learning festival was going to be delivered by the C suite for everybody on a different topic, right? So the CFO is going to do, you know, how to do a P and L, and the sales director how to sell, right? I just started that week, right? So they didn't have a title for me. So in the kind of post that went out, it just said, meet John. I'm like, come on, I'm not that interesting. I'm not going to hold a room for an hour to go, hey, I used to love skateboarding. You know what I mean? Well, I like heavy metal. I mean, that's going to be a bit weird, but I was on holiday and I just read this incredible book called Black Box Thinking by Matthew Syed. And basically the insight in it is when a plane crashes, they remove the black box. But they don't just learn from it in terms of the airline that by law they have to make that publicly available for everyone in the airline industry. And you look at the fatalities with air crashes over time and there's a really close correlation between the more information about failure they give away and the reduction in airline crashes, which I thought was brilliant. So anyway, I was so inspired. I phoned, I found IHR director said, Tracy, I've got it. My title is going to be My Most Epic Failures. Anyway, it sounded good while I sat there, sat there on the beach. When I arrived, the. My particular kind of event had been oversold four times.

[B]

You oversold an internal company event about failure.

[A]

I know they were thinking, who is this new CMO that's turned up? This is going to be wild talk about his failures. But do you know what? It was really revealing because I remember there was one guy that worked in sales, this tough kind of 6 foot 4 guy, he was in tears. And what I absolutely did not realize was that at the time there was an investigation into something quite serious that had been going on and different departments were blaming each other. A bit like my friend Clark's failure's an orphan type thing. Everyone was disavowing any responsibility. And I'd walked in and said, yeah, let's talk about our biggest failures. And this guy's like, I don't believe I have permission to do that. And he just got really. And everyone got really emotional. But I remember the little twist in my story at the end, which you'll probably guess is that I went through my five biggest failures. And then of course, the end of the meeting, I said my five biggest successes immediately follows those failures. Because what I learned, you know, in kind of really desperate times, set me up for the success of follow 100%. That's the thing we forget, isn't it?

[B]

And those are the greatest things we can teach people. It's funny you just said that because in our company we have a new employee onboarding every six months and all of the C Suite independently has one hour with all the new employees. And our CEO always tells us we have to tell the long story. And people actually really love coming to these integration moments with the C suite because we get personal, we talk about our journey. How did we get here? What are the things we learned along the path? Why did we choose this place?

[A]

And.

[B]

And it's actually really special to have those moments where you completely shed your title and you just talk human to human, and then you start to get a sense of what do people really care about through the questions they ask. And they always, inevitably go to. Tell me about a time that you failed, because there's something about the C Suite where people just think you can only be a bunch of success stories. So I think it's pretty amazing that we see the same thing. And actually, I spend a lot of time with Billie Jean King. And for those of you in the audience who don't know who she is, she is the goat not only of tennis, but of equality. She's really an equality champion, and she has a line that I absolutely love. And she says, failure is feedback. And when you think about that, especially as a tennis champion, every time you fail, you think about what happened and how do I make those tiny little adjustments. And when I think about a sport that I love, which is skiing, the beauty of skiing is the pause and reflection on the lift that takes you back up to the top. You can't get back on another run, and it's like your black box story unless you get on the lift and you ask yourself, what did I do right that run? What did I do wrong that run? What are the little adjustments that I need to make? And if you do that all day, at the end of the day, you're a much better skier, and you can see it. The progress is tangible. So taking the time to pause and reflect like you did, to say, what are my five biggest failures is actually how you get to the success is through those learnings.

[A]

100. Talking to tennis. I think I heard this statistic about Roger Federer. I mean, one of the most insane.

[B]

Can I just tell you that I'm in love with Roger Federer? Could we just talk about. I mean, come on.

[A]

The guy's a dude. He's just so smooth, isn't he? He just looks unbothered, like nothing's gonna bother him. And yet he just turns up and looks so graceful.

[B]

And it's the grace in which.

[A]

It's the grace, isn't it?

[B]

Oh, he's just beautiful to watch. It's like the craft of tennis on display.

[A]

And. And, you know, people talk about natural talent, but I bet you anything he works hard. It's like David Beckham, you know, kind of England captain back in the day, that could score These incredible goals, free kicks from long distance. And when you actually dig into it, when he. When they trained on the pitch, he would spend another three hours after everyone had gone home just doing the same kick over and over and over again. So for the one moment under pressure when everyone's watching and it's on you, he's done the work. So that when he takes the shot, it's in the back of the net. And that, I think, is something that people don't realize about this, is you have to repeat the failures again and again and again until he gets the successes.

[B]

Okay, between Roger Federer and David Beckham, which one are you choosing to have dinner with?

[A]

Oh, I think I'd go Beckham. I think I'm probably Team Beckham here.

[B]

I am so Team Federer.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Okay, this is good.

[A]

All right.

[B]

But you are getting to a stat. Tell me the stat. Cause now I'm intrigued.

[A]

Yeah, the stat is wild, right? So, like, if you. If you think of Roger Federer, he's won 80 of the matches in. In his career. So you then ask yourself, how many of the shots has he won? And you might go, oh, well, I assume he's probably won 80 of the shots. I would.

[B]

Maybe it's like 75.

[A]

Yeah. It's going to be close, right? 54.

[B]

What?

[A]

54. So they're like, probably the greatest male tennis player of all time. Right. Has only won 54% of the shots he's taken. And you're just like. But that. That marginal difference, that marginal, like being 54%, not 46%. That's the difference between being the greatest of all time and being a kind of circuit player that's in the top 1000, but not the top one.

[B]

That's incredible. And again, here we are, we talk about the 54% of shots that he won and not the ones that he didn't. Exactly. So let's talk about failure. What's your biggest failure? And most importantly. So I do this actually, with my team. We're called the mlt. And for Princess Bride lovers, that's a mutton, lettuce, and tomato. And for those that have never seen the Princess Bride, it's the marketing leadership team. And we do a wins and fails lightning round. And what I love about that is we don't get to spend too much time on what was the actual thing? That's the quick part. The thing we spend time on is what did you learn from it? Because your failure might be somebody else's win, because you caught them before they were going to make the same fail and, and we celebrate it among our team and we celebrate it in our company. And I think one of the reasons that ELF is so successful is we actually embrace failure. It's not a dirty word, it's not ugly language. It's not even something that we put a border or a boundary. We just openly blurt it out. Like, man, you raise your hand instantly I totally screwed this up immediately. And those moments create the conditions by which we can all collectively learn from each other's failure. So I'd love to start by hearing yours. I've got so many that I could do this all day long.

[A]

Well, I was going to say it's quite a long list I have to narrow down. The one that I think sticks in my memory and kind of gets a visceral response is I'd spent about 15 years in soft drinks working in big corporate companies in relative safety, right? I'd done lots of innovation, I achieved lots of things, had lots of failures as well. But I took a really big bet and I decided to go into private. A private equity backed and not a startup, but a small company that was scaling up, right. And when I joined, they gave me 18. No, was it? No. 16 weeks to completely relaunch everything in terms of new packaging, new design, new flavor ranges. Move us from. We're in the food service sector into into grocery sector right now that isn't possible, right? Because if I go back to my previous experience, that would have happened over 18 months, right? Because there's annual listing cycles, that kind of thing. So I, I fast tracked everything, like everything. I was parallel doing taste testing, stability tests, pack designs, everything, everything, you know, trade presentations, all of it. I was just. And by the way, it's just me as well, right? Because it's a tiny company. I was everything.

[B]

What a fun project.

[A]

I was the Twitter handle, I was the designer, I designed our logo, I did the staff, you know, briefings, I did everything right? It's literally, it was wildly funny. I loved it and I had no meetings, I had no meetings at all. So I could just get on and do is brilliant, right? But we relaunched and within about a week of relaunching, we started getting loads of complaints. And it was a juice brand and it was the hottest summer we'd had in the UK for a very long time and mold was growing inside the bottle and we started getting five complaints and ten and one hundred and a thousand and literally the complaint tracker was just like going off with alarms and everyone was sending the stock back and I Had my heart in my, you know, like, what's, what's happened? And we, me and the CEO went down to the warehouse and we started opening bottles and there was mold growing under the packs that we were using. And you can imagine how horrible that looked when you go for a juice in the morning and there's like mold floating in it. So we had to recall everything. And by the way, we just, we just got ourselves into loads of new customers. And the first thing I had to do with all our new customers, go, you know, I've just sold you on this amazing dream of this new juice brand that does all this and does all that and going to have to withdraw the stock. We had to shut the line down in the hottest summer when soft drink demand is at its highest and we had to turn everything off for about six months.

[B]

How do you recover from something like that?

[A]

Well, we, we lost a third of our entire business. Now, bear in mind, this isn't just someone else's money. This was my life savings and it was also private investment and I was a shareholder of the company and one of the board of directors, right. So it was. And I remember the moment I sat there on the pallet of soft drinks with Gary, the CEO, and we looked at each other, said, have we just destroyed it? And we just had this emotion. It was just kind of felt like him and I going, have we actually destroyed this thing? Now go forward a year. And what I learned in that, why I went through, I uncovered 96 learnings because I did a forensic analysis from beginning to end. I broke everything down, water supply, ingredients, supplies, everything, Right? For the next two years, we were the fastest growing soft drink in the whole of the uk, of any drink in any category. And we won awards and we smashed it. I don't know if that would have happened had I not been forced to really understand how you make a juice brand, how you distribute it, how you manage the shelf life. It was very technical. What had gone wrong in terms of the.

[B]

Was it a compatibility issue?

[A]

It, it was basically the source of our caps. They were, everything was, everything was aseptic. So it was very carefully controlled and it was a brand new production line. We also launched a new production line as we launched the new brands, right. But the one thing that was externally supplied, that wasn't made in house, was the cap and they were stored outside and it was picking up, kind of picking up an infection floating in the air sort of thing. And anyway, it was the. We, we eventually isolated the problem and you could correct for It. But it's one of those things that I, I wasn't an expert on aseptic production lines. I didn't know this stuff because I'd come from corporate life where all the production is someone else's problem. I don't know, I don't think about product, you know. You know, is production. Okay. And suddenly now I'm in charge of the, you know, quality control and customer complaints. And then so I, the lesson for me there was I was used to being responsible for about 10% of what happens on a brand. The marketing bit. Right. This job was the other 90%.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And I was completely, you know, incapable of learning anything. So I became an expert on how you make a juice in the uk. But actually that set us up for world success.

[B]

Yeah. I think most people don't recognize the complexity of a supply chain. And we have a. You were talking earlier about your C suite teaching classes, if you will. We did. For our 20th anniversary of ELF, we took our entire employee base off site for a big company wide celebration. And one of the things we did was have each person teach a class. So our CFO taught a class called what the ELF is ebitda, our chief people officer did getting cozy with equity because every ELF is a shareholder and the lines were out the door to get into these classes. And our head of supply chain did a class called the life of a $2 eyebrow pencil. And that class was so popular because it tracked from inception to. To a consumer hands. How many touch points does this thing have to go through? And we sell it for $2. It's almost like an impossible mission, if you will. And I think that's actually something really interesting for, you know, marketers have a tendency to be pigeonholed. I don't even know what marketing means, to be totally frank. And when you ask a thousand people what does marketing mean to you? You're gonna get a thousand different answers. The most important thing is to have a holistic view of things because it's the interconnectedness of it all that makes it. I run innovation so I have to be very close to the supply chain. And when you think about the stability testing, the compatibility testing, and you always want to move faster and cut down your timeline so that you can move a trend to market as quickly as possible. But there are steps you just cannot miss. So one of the things that we learned how to do is concurrence, instead of waiting for one step to be complete before you get to another step, move things concurrently. And that's how we're able to pick up speed. But one thing goes wrong in stability testing. And for the audience, if you don't know, I mean, you've gotta put things in extreme conditions, like a lip gloss has to be tested at minus 40 and blazing inferno to see if it's gonna change the juice. And as you're talking about with the.

[A]

Mold and accelerate, pretty thing accelerates it.

[B]

Yeah. And it goes through torture testing. And in those moments, you've got timelines, you've got shelves you've gotta get on, you've got commitments you've made. And there are so many places this thing could break down and fall apart.

[A]

All right, so I've done my failure. Corey, come on. I am dying to hear about yours.

[B]

So I did get fired from Chili's, but that's not the failure I'm going to talk about today. Write that down and you can ask me that next time. Okay, we're going to come back to that. The one I want to talk about is a couple of months into ELF One of the reasons I took the job was because there was so much about it that was new for me. And one of the biggest things I had never done before was work with the investors. So I had always worked with publicly traded companies, but they were publicly traded in different countries. So this, this was my first U.S. publicly traded company. And part of a C suite job is to talk to investors. So that's a big scary move for me. And I'm always excited about big scary moves and leaning into the discomfort. So about an hour before my first investor meeting, I got brought into the training room. And for one hour, you basically get trained on all the things you can't say. This is very serious. You're a, you know, officer of the company, the whole corporate stuff. I'm like, great, got it. I could follow rules. I got this, I got this, I got this. And then we go into. Immediately after that, I go into my first investor meeting. It's our cfo, our CEO and one of our biggest investors. She right out the door, hits me with the first question, and the first question I make a forward looking statement.

[A]

Oh, no.

[B]

So if anybody.

[A]

Which is price sensitive, isn't it anything.

[B]

About a publicly traded company, rule number one is you cannot make trying to.

[A]

Get you to make that. They're desperate to try and find out.

[B]

And it was so bad that the CEO had to put his hand on her hand with the pen and the notepad and cross out what she wrote and said, I need you to strike that from the Record. My heart sunk into the bottom of the well. I went sheet white, and I did not speak for the rest of the time. I was petrified. And you know me, I'm gregarious, I'm talkative. I love telling stories. I love telling stories about what I love to do, which is my job. So the next you know, we walked out of that meeting. I was so apologetic. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. I got a big F on my report card. The CEO didn't even care. He didn't give me an F. He's like, let's go. We're gonna come back at this again. You've got another meeting later this week. Fast forward through a series of investor meetings. He calls me into his office, and he goes, where are you? And I'm like, what do you mean? He goes, where is the person I hired every single one of these meetings. I'm bringing in my rock star cmo, and you're a robot. And I got so emotional because I knew it. I was hiding behind my fear. I let fear get in the driver's seat. So I was creating my own string of failures. Every single one of these meetings was another failure on top of failure, on top of failure. He was like, time out. What is going on? And I'm so grateful for that. And I think leaders can really learn a lesson from that. When you see somebody spiraling like that, just hit the timeout button. Hey, what's going on? This is not like you. And he gave me one piece of advice that literally changed the game for me. He said, I'm going to make this very easy. When somebody asks you a question about the future, you just tell them a story about the past. And I was like, that's it. From that moment on, now, I love being in front of investors. I could talk about this all day, every day, and it's like, my favorite thing to do. But I had to go through that string of failures to really learn those little tricks. And I also had to learn for myself. Nothing good happens when fear is in the driver's seat.

[A]

Do you know what I love about that? Is your CEO's response to you. That is so powerful. I met the England rugby coach after England had just won 15 consecutive games, a record ever. And I got to interview him. And I said, like, what's the secret of success? And he said, we are tough in victory and we are gentle in defeat. Because he said, when you've faced a big setback, you know exactly what you've done wrong. You don't need to be reminded in that. You need to be reminded of how great you are when you've just won a game and smashed the opposition. You are probably overconfident and vulnerable to failure. And I just thought. And he's dealing with these, you know, hardcore, big burly guys, ultra competitive at the biggest stage in the world. And I just thought that framing was absolute genius.

[B]

Brilliant.

[A]

Right? I think that's us done on failure, isn't it? Can we talk about some successes there?

[B]

Next time I'll tell you about how I got fired from Chili's.