Ben (2:01)

Take it to the theme song.

Katie (2:05)

Hit the theme. I busted down to the split

Ben (2:11)

unsupervised.

CTP (2:13)

Unsupervised.

Ben (2:16)

Unsupervised.

CTP (2:18)

Yeah. Yes, yes, yes. Okay. We say what we want and yeah, we say what we feel Sitting tmp of the mix and they be keep been real on brand off topic out of pocket anything you need they got it Watch you shop when you know they going to block it when it's game time and you know I'm going to block them and we cover everything like who harder than us and yeah, we looking down on haters cause they smaller than us and yeah my flow is so damn sick I be coughing it up. You said that we going flat. Well, then I'm calling your bl.

Katie (2:44)

Okay, y', all, we have a really exciting episode today. And as luck would have it, it all falls into one category. Dating, baby. So just take this as a do's and don'ts. Probably more don'ts and do's of dating brought to you by yours truly at unsupervised. So with that being said, I think we should just get into it.

Ben (3:11)

Let's do it. You cover your people, I'll cover. I'll cover mine.

Katie (3:17)

All right, so we're gonna. We're gonna go over to the white side of town first.

Ben (3:20)

We're gonna take it. Take a ride with us.

Katie (3:25)

So we're heading into the NFL, where Mike Vrabel, the. The super bowl losing coach of last season, he's in hot water. He was previously known, I guess, a little bit before this, for being the head coach that would always address a female reporter before taking any of the male questions. Um, and so it was like he

Ben (3:52)

was viewed in, like, a positive. In a positive way.

Katie (3:55)

He was viewed in a positive way. Also. The quarterback that's now the quarterback at. At the Patriots, Drake May was, like, kind of taking his lead and also started answering a female reporter's questions first as soon as he hit the podium. This is about Drake May.

Ben (4:11)

Was it genuine?

Katie (4:14)

I think so, because there's. There's one clip that shows, like, him going up to the podium, and you can't see the reporter, but the male reporter was just, like, ripping off his questions, and he was like, teresa, you can go, Teresa. Teresa's turn, actually. So he was, like, silencing the guy that already started his question to, you know, make this happen. But we're not here to hype him up today. We're actually here to just touch on a few things he's been doing not only in season, but in the off season. Seemingly, Mike Vrabel got caught up canoodling, as they say, with this lovely lady named Diana Rossini. Why are these people important today? Well, because they were caught at this adults only resort in Phoenix. It's called Ambiente Ambiente. Something with ambient ambiance. Right. But this property is an adults only property that boasts about how many proposals they have on property per year. Because it's just like the amount of romance that's supposed to be felt here. It's like one of those places. And so they were secretly photographed dancing, canoodling, lounging by the pool, in the hot tub. All the things. No, Coldplay. Cheating is out that was so last year. Said, yeah, but if they were NFL had coach cheating is all the way in.

Ben (5:40)

Okay, bet.

Katie (5:45)

So, you know, after these pictures were discovered, they both kind of laughed it off, saying that they were on a group trip with friends. But you don't find too many friends just, like, going to this, like, really romantic resort with, like, rose petals and stuff like that. But, hey, the doubt is still there. But then what happened? The Athletic, who. Oh, let's. Let's actually introduce our. Our members of this story. First guy, Mike Vrabel, former position. He used to be the Tennessee head coach. He got fired from Tennessee. He's now the New England Patriots head coach. His alleged mistress is Diana Rossini. She used to be an ESPN Sports center reporter, but she left to be an NFL senior insider and a reporter for the Athletic. And for anyone that is unfamiliar what the role of a senior insider is for the NFL, it is actually someone that just befriends a lot of, like, coaches and players so that they can get inside scoop without, like. And they can, like, spread inside scoop without, like, giving away their sources. Right. So let's ask a few more questions. Is Mike Vrabel married? Yes, he's been married since 1999 to this lovely woman that he met at Ohio State. They were both student athletes. They met. She played volleyball, he played football. Yes, they did get married, and they got married in 2000, and then they had two sons quickly following the marriage. Now, Diana. Diana's been married since 2020 to a guy named Kevin Goldschmidt, and he's an executive at Shake Shack. And guess what? They also have two children. Two sons at that. So they got married in 2020, and their sons came in 2021 and 2022. Why is this interesting, Sid? Well, I can tell you that it was interesting because whenever these pictures were put out on the Internet, the Athletic found it extremely inappropriate and highly unethical to have a reporter, you know, canoodling with its. One of Its main sources, I guess. So they, you know, did an internal investigation. They asked Diana for her, you know, I'm assuming for her phone passwords and passwords to any information that she had. And she turned something in. She turned in her letter of resignation. So she didn't want to turn to those passwords. She didn't want to turn in any of that. She just, you know.

Ben (8:34)

So what, you think that they would

Katie (8:35)

turn in her letter of bread that

Ben (8:36)

she was messing around with more people or just him?

Katie (8:41)

I think they're gonna find a lot more of him. Because these pictures weren't the only pictures that were found. This happened in March. This March of 2026. The first pictures of them being photographed were in a bar in New York kissing in March 2020. March is a huge month for them.

Ben (8:59)

Seems like it's our anniversary. No way. 2020, during the pandemic.

Katie (9:07)

March 2020 pandemic. Kissing in a bar. It was early pandemic. It was March 2020.

Ben (9:14)

Yeah.

Katie (9:15)

So and then January 2024, there was a picture of them getting cozy at a casino. So there's quite a few things that have been happening in the past. And apparently, according to, like, some people on Tick Tock, it was like a known secret. Like people that were in this world kind of knew that it was happening. Spirit86 tweeted, Are you sleeping with Vrabel at. Diana ESPN. So this is before she became an inside reporter. So this was like a thing that was kind of known. So, you know, there was a few signs of what happened. The athletic tried to investigate it. She just resigned. What did Mike do? He was just dodging the media for as long as he can until he came out with this really vague statement like, yeah, I just gotta spend some time with my family and like, work on me. So he. He actually did not participate in the NFL draft, which is a big deal that your head coach isn't participating in the NFL draft because you're cheating on your wife. Because the pictures came out.

CTP (10:28)

What?

Katie (10:28)

Okay, these pictures came out right before.

Ben (10:31)

Be honest. If NFL coaches just stop showing up to the draft cause they're cheating on their wives, would there be any coaches at the draft? Like, he should have just gone to the draft. Which of them are not cheating on their wives? I don't understand that.

Katie (10:44)

I think the timing was so that, like, he was kind of forced to be. Have to speak on it. You know, when you're drafting like these multimillion dollar players, I'm sure you have to like, say something as the head coach. And you know, they just gave him a few days off. And that's like when you get in trouble at school and they're like, hey, you're suspended. Just don't come. I'm like, the suspension was actually. We're all in here working our butts off and they. They messed up at school. And also they don't have to come. That's crazy. So, yeah, he didn't. But as messy as this whole situation is, the messiest part about this situation is that Page Six found this tweet. And also, since this started imploding by itself. It took Diana a few days to actually delete or deactivate her Twitter because there was years worth of like, suspect evidence that she was tweeting, including this tweet that Kati found. The tweet says, keep looking. I keep looking at my almost 4 year old son, Michael. Michael. While trying to figure out who are the best Michaels to ever play and coach in the NFL. Well, there, Diana, that's crazy because I think you know one. And not only are you bold enough to have, like, tweeted this so confidently that your secret was a secret, but now not only is your marriage being questioned, but the father of your children is being questioned. So with that being said, SID Unsupervised is coming to you live with its first report. And guess what, Mike Brable, you are the father.

Ben (12:39)

Well, I don't know.

Katie (12:40)

And secondly, we did, we did get a second opinion. Maury came out of retirement. Oh, he wrote us in. In his own handwriting. Thank you, Maury, for doing all that. But again, you are the father, Mike Rainbow. And I don't know if this whole situation is going to actually make people like this take some time to step back and be like, hey, maybe I need to clean up my life and start doing right by the people that are around me. Or maybe not. But another thing is, is that, you know, we see Diana not having a job anymore, and we see Mike Vrabel with really just three days off. He had a little mini vacation and

Ben (13:23)

not paternity leave years later.

Katie (13:26)

Paternity leave. But they're like, oh, our bad. We didn't realize that you were the father. Take some time.

Ben (13:31)

Well, he kind of, he kind of looks like. He looks to me like he would tell her, like, hey, you knew I had a family. Like, I can't, I can't be there for that kid.

Katie (13:43)

I just, he's like, you get it?

Ben (13:45)

He looks like he would be like, so do you think they're gonna end up together or what?

Katie (13:49)

I don't know. But okay, Diana's husband looks like eerily similar to Mike Vrabel. So I really do feel like also we're gonna have to put a little, A little disclaimer up. I'm sure you guys figured it out, but Maury didn't actually write it. It's just like what we thought he would say.

Ben (14:11)

Thank you so much for clearing that up. Tv.

Katie (14:14)

No, it's like, whatever. Maury got me through the pandemic. I was like, we all have problems, but these people, problems are so Bad. I feel bad for them.

Ben (14:24)

Well, thank you for sharing that with us. We're gonna leave your side of town and we're gonna drive to an area that's being gentrified. But there is still a few. A few of us left. So surely you've heard about Meg Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson.

Katie (14:41)

Yeah, who hasn't?

Ben (14:43)

Super. Well, we're gonna get into, you know, obviously you and I always say, like, we don't know these people. If ever we're talking about really most people, we don't. We don't know them personally. So everything is us just sharing our opinion. But in my opinion, Meg the Stallion, Meg Thee Stallion is just a real ass, Houston, like, Southern just person, particularly black woman. But she's just, you know, she's not everybody's cup of tea. But Meg is also like, what's it called? She's got popularity across lots of different groups, and that's not easy to do. So when she made this story post the other day, you know, the Internet was in shambles. A lot of the Internet, there. There was a side that we'll get to, but most people were, you know, upset for her by the news. Cause, you know, you've just seen a lot of her relationship stuff. People know about her not having her mom. Like, she's just lost people along the way. Just a lot of been sick, a lot of stuff has gone on. And people just want to see Megan win. In her love life specifically, Megan just

Katie (16:01)

seems like a real person that just so happened to become ultra famous and is that ultra talented. And she just seems like the type of person that you want to win because she just feels, even though she's like, again, a huge celebrity, she just feels, like, relatable and cool and down to Earth.

Ben (16:19)

Yeah, 100%. So when she made this post, mind you, I think her and Clay were together, you know, maybe a little over six months or something. We know that she was cooking dinner for Thanksgiving dinner for his family and stuff, and had that online. So they were definitely together in November. I don't know the timeline, let's say six to nine months or something like that. But she put on her story cheating, had me around your whole family playing house, got cold feet in quotes, holding you down through all your horrible mood swings and treatments toward me during your basketball season. Now you don't know if you can be monogamous. Question mark. She said, I need a real break after this one. Bye, y'. All. Okay, the first word cheating obviously grabs your attention. You know, have me around your Whole family playing house. Very interesting. Like, I'll start by saying this Clay may not be. He may not be like a terrible person. Some people are just. They're not good in relationships. Maybe you don't have enough self love. You can't love other people properly. Maybe there could be a lot of things. But she said, I've never dated somebody so kind. She said this in an interview before. I've never date. Dated somebody so kind. This is my first relationship where I've been with somebody who's genuinely a nice person, which makes you side eye everybody. She's been with cuz like, damn. Nobody else was just nice. He makes me genuinely happy. I've just never dated someone like him before. So in my mind I'm like, you got somebody, you know, playing house. Y' all are living together. You're introducing them to the family, to me at our big ages. When you're doing things like that, it sends a certain message, does it not?

Katie (18:21)

You're moving towards something. You're moving towards something. Whenever you're. There are doing things like this, there

Ben (18:27)

are people that I was with that it was like, yo, you're not meeting my family naturally. And it's nothing. It's just like. It didn't get to that point. But it, it didn't get to that point for a reason. Like what I was seeing before then. Oh yeah, like what? I would never take it to that next step because I don't see a future.

Katie (18:47)

You can't be my family. You're.

Ben (18:49)

You're in your mid 30s. You're in your mid to late 30s. Mid 30s. Lock in. Truly. Because you can't, you can't be telling people one thing and then end up. Well, you can. You could tell people one thing and do another, but there's just gonna be scrutiny about it. Especially when you're in a public relationship. But that was one part, so.

Katie (19:10)

And leave it up for people like us to comment on their relationship. So here we are.

Ben (19:14)

Like, who asked these dykes? Well, that's the thing. We can give our honest opinion because we have really no vested interest in the situation. We just are going to comment on straight shit and it's going to be honest. So holding you down through all your horrible. Huh?

Katie (19:30)

We're in the real hot girl shit.

Ben (19:32)

Real hot girl. Holding you down through all your horrible mood swings and treatment towards me during your basketball season. That just irritated me because I can't stand people who are treating like your family and friends bad after a loss. Get a life. You're A millionaire. At the end of the day, if you lost the game, yeah, you're competitive. But to make it. Make you go treat your spouse poorly is looney Tunes behavior. You should never be that locked into anything, especially.

Katie (20:07)

There's really not much that can happen in life, especially in sport, but even out of sport, that somebody else or just, like, circumstances where you just go home and you're just trash to your wife. That's crazy.

Ben (20:18)

I didn't make you miss. I didn't make you play bad defense.

Katie (20:22)

I wasn't on the court and turn your acl. I was.

Ben (20:25)

All right. I was literally there for support. And so I don't know how I'm getting.

Katie (20:30)

I was supporting you through your little shitty ass game. Yeah. How hard do you. How do you.

Ben (20:34)

How do you.

Katie (20:35)

Do you think it is for me to watch you suck? Like, I'm embarrassed. I'm at the top of all these charts, and you can't even hit the backboard. Come on, sir. Dunk. Do we need to lower the rims for you?

Ben (20:47)

You're going in. I'm sorry.

Katie (20:50)

It just really hurts my feelings when people hurt Meg the stallion.

Ben (20:54)

Right? So she said. So you don't know if you could be monogamous. So I don't know. I'm like, was that a. That must have been a. Maybe it was a conversation beforehand.

Katie (21:07)

No, she definitely took. They had a conversation. She found out. She. Women do this really awesome thing where, like, if you say a word, we lock in on that word and we make sure to use multiple reasons why you didn't do this word. Oh, monogamy. That's gonna sit in Meg's head for a little minute. Because you shouldn't have ever brought up monogamy when you were playing house with her. You were clearly in a monogamous relationship. You can't decide after some time. I mean, you can, but it's just. You can't. You shouldn't cheat. That's just the thing. Like, you're allowed to change your mind. You're not allowed to hurt somebody else because you want to be selfish with your emotions and your actions or lack thereof. Really.

Ben (21:53)

I'm hoping Meg's situation, that she's a tearful person and isn't letting these, you know, like, relationships break her down. Because what I do believe is that she just needs to come over to.

Katie (22:11)

To our side.

Ben (22:12)

Yeah. It's already, like, rumored that she's been with women before. Get out of break, girl. Maybe give everything that maybe give everything a break. Maybe just. Maybe just chill For a little bit. Because it also seems time for yourself. Yeah. But it also just seems at this point with how, you know, we've spoken before about. Men are weird in a way that, like, they want to go after you when they know that you've been through hard stuff or they want to come swoop in. But when you tell them about the stuff you've gone through, in her case, people see it publicly. So it's hard to enter a relationship and assume that the other person doesn't know. With most people, it's like you share your past. Somebody finds out about either some trauma, you know, how a relationship was bad before in your hope is that they don't use that against you. But a lot of men will get with somebody that they've seen be cheated on a lot and actually just set them up to do that same thing later. Because, I mean, you were with other people who did it. Almost like they. They stopped viewing you as somebody worthy of love just because other people decided to cheat on you. As a weird. It's a weird mindset. But we also know that men don't like women to just give sex freely either. Because as we know, Megan is a very. She speaks very sexually in her songs. She owns her femininity, her whatever it can. It might be over the top for people sometimes, but, like, it is what it is. Men get to talk about sex, do all this stuff, and there's no penalty. So I'm like, for her. And I think they also enter a picture without having any sort of respect for her because she is so sexually expressive. And it's like, I don't like that. Like, you try to just. You, you. You hear straight women, especially on social media now, talking so much about, okay, yeah, when you want to just have sex with a guy, they're kind of like, like, why you just giving it up? There's like an interlude or like an intro on one of Brent F. His songs. And his friends are like, ah. Kind of when a girl is just like pressing me for it, I'm kind of like turned off. Cuz I'm like, who else you done this with, huh? So y' all only want.

Katie (24:22)

Right back at you. Right back at you, pal.

Ben (24:25)

So you don't want a consenting, like, situation. You don't want somebody to just be like, happy to do what you're also trying to do. Y' all want to coerce people into doing stuff. Y' all mentally are not willing hard, not well at all. It's actually terrifying. But I feel like she's gonna. I hope she doesn't. But, you know, you might run into situations like this constantly, especially with the kind of. I can't even say what the condomin. Because Clay is not nothing like the other guys that she been with on the outside.

Katie (25:02)

But also. I know. I know. I don't know Clay at all. At all. I've known people.

Ben (25:07)

We follow each other, though, so I think he'll probably see this. We'll see.

Katie (25:10)

Hey,

Ben (25:13)

sorry about this, man. It was like, opinions.

Katie (25:17)

Hey, clean it up, Clay, because also, I know you from your younger days, and I know some people that you tried to get at, and the fact that you landed Meg and couldn't actually land Meg is crazy. And, oh, hey, for all the audio people, I just put that l on my forehead for him. But to be honest, I'm with you. Like, I do think that Meg just needs to take a hiatus, and I think she needs to bring it back to 2019 where she had a hot girl summer. I think we need to bring that hot girl summer back out in 2026. We're due for one.

Ben (25:55)

Some good music.

Katie (25:55)

It's been a while.

Ben (25:56)

Gotta be on the way now.

Katie (25:58)

Gotta be. But also, we're all looking at her like people used to look to Taylor Swift after her heartbreaks were like, all

Ben (26:03)

right, I never looked at Taylor Swift.

Katie (26:05)

Come on, Meg. I never looked at Taylor Swift, not one time in my whole life.

Ben (26:09)

I just had to say that I couldn't let that go.

Katie (26:12)

But I know that there's some people that can understand. Yeah, the fact that she would just get dumped and then make an album, and then everybody would just do it, get. Then get dumped again. And then. So Meg do that. Hey, if you got it in you, girl, we would love to a nice little album this summer.

Ben (26:27)

And another thing I was irritated with when Matt got with Clay, you know, people collectively were just confused. It was kind of how people treated when Sierra got with Russell. And it was super annoying because a lot of men, especially a lot of black men, looking at the situation and you deem these women, I guess, unworthy of love because of the type of man that they were with before. So them trying to change something and do something better because it's really crazy. Y' all get on them when they're with the wrong kind of dude, they try to get with the right type of dude, then y' all are still on them. You can't win for losing. But people were calling Clay corny. They thought the situation didn't match, wouldn't work. That's Fine. You can have your opinions about people's stuff, but y' all were calling them corny, a lame, hoping that it doesn't work out. But now y' all are on his side because he cheated on Megan. So what it seems to be is that any attachment to women, specifically black women that are confident in charge of their sexuality, doing their own thing, and really not placing men as, like, the most important thing in their life, y' all take real issue with that, because it was the same when Tory Lane shot her. And actually, there are a lot of stupid women and birds that jump on the same talking points that men had, because all of a sudden, there were a ton of Tory Lanez fans. And I never knew in all my years Tory Lanez had this many Tory. So what it.

Katie (28:04)

Little Tory.

Ben (28:05)

So what it seemed to be is that y' all like to jump on the train of cheaters, abusers, anybody that does women wrong. But then y' all still claim that you're heterosexual. No. You're like, me gay. I mean, you just might be. Or you just have a real hatred for women. And it's honest. It's not associated with your sexuality. But you gotta. You gotta look in inward. I didn't want to trigger you by saying it.

Katie (28:30)

Hey, I didn't want to say it.

Ben (28:33)

But you gotta figure out what that's about, because there was. Go, go, go.

Katie (28:40)

First of all, I want to say this one thing because I saw this thing about rage baiting men. So one thing I want to say about Tory Lanez is that really. How'd it go? How'd it go? Tori, I'm glad that your height has no effect on your confidence. Anyway, the other one was like, oh, big feelings.

Ben (28:58)

Were a little boy. Oh.

Katie (29:02)

But it just. It really does bring something to my head. When I was. I'm not actually gonna say where I was, but I was in a locker room where we shared space with, like, NBA players, and we would share, like, hot tub and cold tub times with them, like, cross with them, like, in certain, you know, aspects of, like, the day. And this one rookie was in the. Was in the cold tub, and he was just talking to us about, like, well, like, we were like, hey, what are your, like, rookie duties? Like, when we were rookies, like, we used to have to, like, pass out the jerseys. Like, what do you have to do? I was mind blown. I was like, yeah, I would do all my duties before I would do this one. So he said that for his rookie duty, he has to take his entire team's second Cell phone whenever they come home from off the road, and he has to make sure that they're all charged by the time that they go back on a road trip again, so nobody's girlfriend or wives find out. So, like, this is, like, the culture that men have, and especially within athletics and especially, I'm sure, within, like, the entertainment world, where you just think that because of the amount of money, about the amount of attention that you get because you are an entertainer, you just get this inflated sense of self, and you really lose. You lose yourself. You lose your identity. And you also, whenever you start plucking, Plucking away at different things that don't matter to you, you lose your integrity for really everything in your life. Just don't, like, just get separated. Like, just. You don't have to cheat. Like, you don't have to be in that relationship. Just, like, do right by people.

Ben (30:42)

Yeah. But. Yeah. Hey, best of luck to them. Not at all. But best of luck to Meg. And bring it on. Bring it on over to the family. Girl, we love you.

Katie (30:54)

Also, Meg, if you need some backup

Ben (30:56)

dancers, my mom was like, reach out to Meg and check on her. Tell her y' all want to have her on the pod. I was like, hey, well, she's got a lot going on for one mama, but I also don't think she's gonna accept the request. And she was like, what? Y' all are both from Houston. I was like, yeah, yeah.

Katie (31:13)

I think that's a really good segue into, like, inviting her to the pod. So, Meg, if you're hearing this, girl, we love you. We would love to have you on the pod. Or if you need backup dancers, hit us up that part.

Ben (31:24)

That part. Anyway, yeah.

Katie (31:29)

I mean, enough about. Enough about men. I think, you know, we. We do our fair share about digging into them. And, you know, it's not always the guys. It's hashtag not all men, but it's also not all women. Which brings us to our next category. Haley Becky. I don't know if anybody's been following this Hailey Beck story, but Haley Beck is this high school teacher that. She's sick. She's a sick high school teacher who say sick.

Ben (32:08)

Stay sick in your way.

Katie (32:10)

Oh, yeah. It's completely sick and uncomfortable that Hailey Beck really put us through all of this. And by us, I mean this, like, boy. Really, like, I don't know. The whole situation is confusing. Once I found myself, like, digging into this story, I had to turn it off because of how uncomfortable it brought me as a person in my own Skin to like actually like watch this on my phone. Like, I was just like, this is so much.

Ben (32:38)

Yeah. Once I saw it, I was like, we definitely have to cover this because we're always talking about male predators and pedophiles and a lot of the problem, there are a lot of women who are predators as well. And women are just better at hiding stuff, I think. And it's, it's not seen as pedophilia and predatory behavior enough because especially nowadays, these kids are so exposed to sexual stuff. And, you know, people aren't having a bang on the floor at their grandma's house to get the TV to stop scrambling because they're trying to watch real sex like I did when I was a kid. They're just logging onto the. They're just getting on the phone and you can get porn and five seconds. So yeah.

Katie (33:20)

And you have a phone at the age of six now. So.

Ben (33:23)

So there's just way too much exposure to stuff on top of the fact that the world that we live in doesn't treat male victims the same when it's, when it's a. A grown woman involved. And I want people to know those are just as sick as the male pedophiles and predators. Like, there's no difference. So we had to cover this absolute

Katie (33:45)

weirdo, this lady, and not only her, but there. She had a co worker as well. There was two weirdos.

Ben (33:51)

She had a co worker. So we're not gonna go through all the text messages. Y' all can look up her name, but just know there was a lot of. She's talking to the boy. And this is very much. It's the, it's the quarterback of the high school. She's talking to him. And it's. You are not only cringing because you know that this is an adult with a child, you're cringing because this hoe is such a loser. Like, I mean, the levels of low self esteem and just living out your glory days of high school that I don't even know were they glory days because one of the soccer players that she coaches, she says she's always talking about how she was popular in high school and blah, blah, blah. Anybody that I know that was popular in high school isn't like going around really chatting about it much, but she said she was constantly talking about it, living out whatever high school was. So this lady is in her mind entering into what she probably hopes is going to be something long term with the boy. And he is dogging her ass, clowning her.

Katie (34:50)

He's Making her, He really can't stand her.

Ben (34:53)

He. Yeah, he's making her pay for compliments. He's making her pay for compliments. She said $5 a compliment. He said.

Katie (35:01)

And he was like, okay, well I need to fill up my car. So gas prices are a little high.

Ben (35:06)

That's exactly what he said. Like gas prices are high.

Katie (35:10)

The compliments were also like your boots, your boots are like fitting to the contour of your leg today.

Ben (35:16)

And it was like, I guess today,

Katie (35:17)

like they don't typically.

Ben (35:20)

He said, I mean my. It's like hard not to laugh at this. The whole situation is disturbing. But we cover other stuff and laugh at the, the ludicrous nature. So like adds a layer of her sickness. You can't even claim that you believe you're in love with somebody underage. This person hates you. They really dislike you, if nothing else. So you're thinking this, huh?

Katie (35:52)

Yeah. You would think in this power dynamic it would be the teacher like having the power and the student just being like, this guy just wanted a bj, I feel like. And he would tell her anything, whatever. Like he would even say like, hey, you're doing too much with this one. This is wild that you feel like this. You're weird. Like, he literally was cooking her so bad. His responses also, there was like a, a written letter that she wrote. And the way that the letter was written, it felt like she was like a giddy little 13 year old writing to her high school, literally her high school crush. And it's so, it's so disgusting.

Ben (36:32)

He was telling her, repulsive. He was telling her cough it up when it came to the, the money, like after a compliment. And he said, and she would send the money and Apple pay and then a text following said compliments. He said, I think your boots are very fitting. They proportion well on your legs. I think your top is cute because of the fray lacy look. I think the hat is fire. Okay. Belt. I see that. And I like your hair straight. Boom. She tried to talk about something else. She said, was that hard for you to be honest?

Katie (37:07)

How many was that though?

Ben (37:08)

That was five. But she said, was it hard for you to be honest? He said, crazy. Cough it up. But this isn't even the craziest part. His family knew apparently because his ex girlfriend got online and she was talking about, you know, like their situation, how the teacher would ask their, her friends about the nature of her relationship. She would start fights between them, like send them to, to get lunch with her, like credit card or whatever. Then they would get back. And she would just say little stuff about stuff to make it uncomfortable when they leave. Like they're gonna have to fight or, like talk about something and create some doubt in the girl's mind. So trying to play like mind games with this young girl, very, very crazy. Very crazy. But then we see that the boy and Haley were talking about this other teacher, Angela Barlaka, who she got caught because her victim's grandmother found an explicit video on his phone. Mind you, Haley is talking to the quarterback about the situation. And she was like, 28, huh?

Katie (38:16)

Yeah, Kaylee's about 28. And this other lady is about 50

Ben (38:18)

years old, 55 or something. And she was like, oh, my God, I can't believe she. She is doing that. Would you like, would you get with her like at that age, blah, blah, blah. And I was like, so you're jealous of his young girlfriend, you're jealous of the old woman. You are psychotic. And you're also trying to talk about the 55 year old as if you're not a pedophile too. It's not levels of it. A pedophile is a pedophile.

Katie (38:44)

Because when the 55 year old caught, she was like, oh, delete my text message. Like, you can't pull those. Like, you're still gonna get caught too. If he's turning in his phone, everything's gonna be in there like hers. And she's yours. You're not exempt, sweetheart.

Ben (38:55)

She's stupid. But have to cover another thing. She's been out with her mother. They, like, people are recording, obviously, in the town. They're like eating outside at places too, because she hasn't been. They haven't been arrested yet for some reason, like, have to still put evidence together, which is crazy to me because I feel like we see more than enough. So they're like eating outside for less, right? I'm like, this is bold. You don't feel embarrassed, like we haven't said it in a while, but bring back shame because you should be having on glasses, a big hat, you know, like large clothes, a hood on, and sitting inside at the back or eating at home. Why are you out in public?

Katie (39:39)

You need a doordash, right?

Ben (39:41)

Why are you out in public as a pedophile? But that takes us to our next segment. Trump claimed that he was. That there was another assassination attempt on his life. And this is crazy. You said this is how many now? How many?

Katie (39:55)

This is the third one over three.

Ben (39:58)

So at the White House correspondence dinner, I'm sure everyone has seen the variety of videos, the POVs. Like, this is an absolute joke, and the acting isn't even good in it. It's. It's getting so disrespectful how this administration is able to behave. And honestly, media for even covering this shit anymore. Like, I know we have to be informed, but actually cut all channels for, like, stop talking about these people. Stop.

Katie (40:32)

It's. It's. Honestly, it's really sick. It's so sick.

Ben (40:37)

It's nuts.

Katie (40:38)

This. The crazy thing is, it's like, they're like, ah, things aren't going our way. We have to make a massive something happen to, like, just convince them that we need to be, you know, building a ballroom and we need to fight Iran and all these things. And they're like, oh, I have a really good idea. We'll just move it to a ballroom that I don't feel safe in. And then we're gonna have someone come in with massive artillery. Like, how that guy got in. Another thing, I'm like, trump, if you actually give a. I was about to cuss. Ooh. If you care about yourself at all, Trump, hire better security. Because out of all the other presidents in years past, there's been not many assassinations since. I don't know, jfk. Like, when was the last, essentially? I don't know. But three on you is kind of wild. And this last one was so poorly done. There's videos of, like, literally, Secret Service, who, again, is, you know, I would say hired to protect the president first, removed the president, like, as one of the last people to go off stage. Then people in the crowd, this really dumb piece of shit named Dana White was there. He was like, whoa. One experience. I wish everyone could do something like this. Wow. What a credible, incredible experience. Dana White. Wow. That's what you expect from a correspondence dinner that Trump's never attended before in his life. And he's been president twice. Never done a correspondence center.

Ben (42:07)

Perfectly normal reaction to not only finding out there was an assassination attempt, but being there and being escorted out like that. That's not a normal reaction. But there were so many videos, like, talking about. I don't know these people's name, but one of them said there would be shots fired later. The videos after where the dude who got killed, his wife, I don't even care about her name. She was leaving out the one who was messing with Jake.

Katie (42:37)

One with all the.

Ben (42:38)

Kurt. Yeah, she was leaving out. She was like, I just want to go home. Like, all the acting was just so bad that I'm like, you know, this feels like an episode of Veep. Like, everything just feels like a joke. This isn't real life, but one of the dudes was using his wife as a shield. What's his name? What's the psycho who's really running everything? Stephen Miller, that Nazi. He was, like, using his wife as he was being escorted out.

Katie (43:10)

He's like, ladies first, ladies first. And, like, the first time he ever, like, Ever what? The first time he ever, like, put a lady first, it was just, like, so he could have a blockade so shots weren't fired at him.

Ben (43:25)

But listen, so the suspected shooter, did you see him?

Katie (43:31)

No.

Ben (43:32)

Okay. Apparently he went to school with J.D. vance's wife, and they were in a video together from, like, 2017 at this competition where they're trying to get, like, some funding or win a prize, but they made this mechanism that does something to a wheelchair, whatever. But the dude looks like Klay Thompson's cousin or some shit.

Katie (43:55)

Oh, no way.

Ben (43:58)

Yes.

Katie (43:59)

The timing. The timing is, like, really bad. Oh, yeah, it could. That could be Claire's.

Ben (44:08)

Whoa. Like, he's one of the Splash brothers. But not a good shooter, apparently.

Katie (44:15)

Terrible shooter. I mean, that was a good one. This is my thing. They also, the funny thing about this administration is they're so quick to make laws when they're directly impacted. Like, we've changed all the billionaire and millionaire tax breaks. We've. Like, we've. Trans people have no rights anymore. Women have no rights anymore. Minorities just have no rights anymore. Like, all these rights are disappearing. But y' all got shot at three times, and gun rights have not been touched at all, much less all the mass shootings, school shootings, all the people that have lost their lives or been injured in this country to gun violence, including yourself, the most narcissistic, inflated human being I've ever seen in my life. Y' all haven't touched gun rights yet. That's interesting.

Ben (45:01)

Even if you didn't really want to touch them, you are such a narcissist. You would ensure that nobody you would have can't hurt you wherever you are. So either better security or no more guns to keep you alive. Unless everything's a set up in a joke as like.

Katie (45:18)

As it obviously is like it is.

Ben (45:21)

Well, I don't know. On a lighter note. Oh, actually, I'm tripping. Take us to my favorite segment. What?

Katie (45:29)

It goes down in the dm. It go down.

Ben (45:35)

Okay, so we got a DM from Naomi. Naomi, shout out to you.

Katie (45:40)

What up, Naomi?

Ben (45:41)

Shout out to you. Thanks for writing in this Is my first DM to people I do not know. Lol. Whether this is red or not, I want to recognize how important the segment on the rape academy in today's podcast was. I'm 22, but started working with sex offenders at 18, help with work release opportunities at an unemployment office for a year and then got an admin job at a court mandated counseling center. They put me through college debt free because I worked so much, but definitely took a huge mental cost. The big thing is these predators are everybody. Like you all said, any type of person you can think of, there's a predator out there just like them. Part of what helped with the job was me being able to say, at least I know who I'm working with. You interact with them every day and just don't know who they are. Definitely important to talk about that aspect and encourage all people, women especially, to be aware and unfortunately take every weird interaction or even friendship seriously and with scrutiny. Thank you for speaking up so honestly, you know, thank you so much for writing in. Like, I think TP and I talk a lot of times and this, you know, goes back to when we even started the pod and we were just like, you know, there are other sports podcasts, but, you know, and we could, we could talk about basketball, we could talk about sports. That's cool. But we wanted to use our platform in a way that matters and that a lot of people don't have a chance to do. And so that means that, you know, we like to stand on, like, our beliefs, our morals, like, speak on what, what matters to, you know, us individually and collectively, what affects, you know, women that we've been side by side with in locker rooms and just honestly, lots of different types of people because we just believe empathy should be a thing that you have. But we want to make sure that we're talking about a wide variety of things so that other athletes feel like they can do that too. We just get put in this category of like, talk about sports, but like, no, this matters. And when we talk about that's going on with this administration, we, we dog a lot, we dog men a lot. But it's necessary. There's a lot of growth that needs to happen. There's also a lot of growth that needs to happen without. Within women, within people at large. And so we're hoping that the topics that we discuss feel meaningful to y'. All. So, like these, these comments, you know, we really appreciate because people don't may not always agree with what we're saying, but we know that we're coming from a position of, of care is there's really rarely malice behind what we're saying unless it's deserved. And, you know, we just want to, we just want to speak about the things that people are being told not to speak about these days.

Katie (48:34)

Absolutely. It's important to be impactful. And Naomi, when you write in and confirm what we were speaking on, it just, it really does mean the world does because these are things that, you know, we've been in sports, so there's a lot of things that we haven't dealt with in like a traditional workplace necessarily. We also played in women's sports where we weren't dealing with a ton of men like this. We weren't dealing with, you know, things that you have witnessed and dealt with at the age of 22 even. So it's really important for us to again, speak on stuff like this, but also for you to acknowledge this is really, really cool. And, you know, we just appreciate you guys listening in every week. Like Sid said, like, we want to make an impact. We want to make sure that like, our, the babysitters are informed and also, like, we like to touch on some heavy stuff and we want to, we wanted to not feel as heavy. And so thank you for following up with this very serious and heartfelt dm. I think you're one for one with shooting your shot and the dms. It definitely worked with us. So thank you for the work that also you're putting into the world and, you know, we just appreciate it.

Ben (49:49)

I got a question for you. Oh, so we, I mean, obviously that dm, we can end on a, on a lighter note, like with, with that said, in the midst of all the darkness in the world, this, they, our producers, you know, put this in here for us. In the midst of all the darkness in the world, what's one piece of hope that you want to leave our viewers with?

Katie (50:12)

I think one piece of hope that you, that you can leave with, like leaving unsupervised, is that if you like what you hear here at Unsupervised, just know that we're gonna use our platform. We're always gonna use our platform to make sure that, you know, we're speaking from our heart, that we're speaking from a place of, like Sid said, empathy. And just know that there are tons and tons and tons of babysitters. Our podcast has been really successful thanks to you guys and there's a ton of like minded people that are right there with you. So for every one person that's walking Away with a different outlook or a different perspective or maybe a same perspective with a little bit more information. And if we miss something, feel free to comment. We love to hear, we love to be challenged. We want, we want to get it right and we want to get it right for you guys. So for one piece of hope that you want, that I want you guys to leave with is that you're not alone and feeling this way, we, you have us, you have the other babysitters and we all are in this space, you know, to make the world a better place and you know, spread joy and laughter and, and you know, hope for a world tomorrow that's better than the world that we have today.

Ben (51:27)

I love.

Katie (51:27)

What about you?

Ben (51:28)

I love that. That's really good that that makes me think we, we need to have a meetup at some point for babysitters, whether it's a live show or something. Because you think like, like you're saying like. Yeah, our viewers are probably like minded in a lot of ways. Cuz we talk about everybody on our pod. We give y' all really our true opinions that we share with our friends and our families. Like this is normal stuff. We. So we don't care about losing a follower because you didn't like an opinion we gave on something because once again we know that we're not saying anything with like, with like ill intent. Yeah. Like we're doing our best to research stuff as much as possible to have it right for Yalls. And we believe in accountability, even if it's for us.

Katie (52:11)

Absolutely.

Ben (52:12)

Accountability should feel uncomfortable. You should feel like you're being challenged and feel the need to grow. And when somebody's calling you out on something that you don't necessarily see, even if it's from a person you don't like, you still gotta leave that day. And you should think about it though, because somebody you could have a teammate you don't like and then they tell you something about something that you're doing on the team though you can't just dismiss it because. Because you don't like them, they might actually be right. So later you should think about it saying that to say, y' all know we believe in accountability, we believe in kindness, we believe in loving one another. We got to get, we got to get our babysitters together in a large way in at some point so people can just mingle. You just mingling with cool ass people. Probably different, but cool.

Katie (52:56)

We should, we should do like. I don't know if there's like an adult way to do Like a summer camp or something like that. But, yeah, get all the babysitters. No, we got crazy fun.

Ben (53:08)

We got to be so fun. No, no, we really need to.

Katie (53:12)

So drop your name in the registration link below. We're gonna make sure we're taking names for our first ever unsupervised summer camp.

Ben (53:21)

Ben and Katie are talking about it in the.

Katie (53:23)

For adults with empathy. I won't even get adults with empathy.

Ben (53:31)

I won't even give my advice. I'll give mine another day. Yours was really good. We can close out on that. Like, I. I enjoy chatting with you today, pal.

Katie (53:41)

No, same.

Ben (53:42)

I always do.

Katie (53:44)

Yeah. I'm gonna miss you so much. Until next week. Like, so much.

Ben (53:47)

We're about. Okay, we're about to get on a phone and chat, but.

Katie (53:50)

Okay, that's gonna be too long. That's gonna be too long.

Ben (53:54)

All right, baby. We appreciate y'. All. Y' all know what it is. If you want us in your business. You got. You need advice on something. You got drama. You want to share with us or you just want to share something amazing that happened during your week? DM us@unsupervised CTP or if there's something

Katie (54:12)

that you just want us to cover. Like, I'm really interested to see, like, what you guys want to hear us

Ben (54:16)

talk to that, too? I want to know that.

Katie (54:19)

I'm dying to know, because, you guys, we're reading the comments. You guys are really funny and interesting. Like, y' all are hilarious. Oh, we got to keep those comments up.

Ben (54:26)

We got to respond to the more we keep saying. We said that we will at different times, but, y', all, it's fun. Charge it to our head, not our heart. We have ADHD and we procrastinate, so it's like, we'll see it, and we'll literally be on the phone, like, did you see this comment? This is funny as hell. And then we just don't say nothing. We're going to do a better job, though. We appreciate y'. All.

Katie (54:45)

And with all that being said, y', all, don't forget to throw kindness around like confetti.

Ben (54:54)

No, no. Are you okay

Katie (55:01)

till next week?

CTP (55:04)

Yeah. Yes. Yeah, we say what we want, and, yeah, we say what we feel. Sitting tmp of the mix. And they be keeping you real. On brand, off topic, out of pocket. Anything you need, they got it. Why don't you shop when you know they gonna block it? When it's game time and you know I'm gonna block them. And we cover everything. Like, who ordered it us and yeah, we looking down on haters? Cause they smaller than us and yeah, my flow is so damn sick I be coughing it up. You said that we going flat. Well, then I'm calling your bluff. Unsupervised. Unsupervised.

Ben (55:36)

Unsupervised. Don't.