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A
So what a great weekend for me in New Orleans. We have, like, we have all of our seasons, but I would say that spring is definitely our shortest. There's, like, only two weeks of really great weather in between our winters, which are fine, and our summers, which are brutal. So I feel like this was our first weekend of spring. So I attended the French Quarter Fest this weekend. A lot of really awesome stuff. A lot of really great music groups, DJs, bands, etc. Big Frida was out there showing out, and on top of all the really great festivities and food and good times, there was so many babysitters out there. And, Sid, this might come as a shock to you, but there was a lot of men that were stopping me and telling me that they love the pod.
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B
Oh.
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A
And so that has, like, sparked a little something in me. And I hope that you can just hang in there with me when I do this, but I do want to apologize to the. To the men that listen, to the men that dedicate their time to be a babysitter. We slam you guys constantly like men this, men that. And I'm sure it gets hard to hear, and you guys not only stick around, but a compliment me at French Quarter Fest, please. So this is a big whopping thank you so much to all the men that love and support unsupervised. Hashtag, it's not all men. Thank you men for showing up and complimenting. There was a lot of awesome women as well, but we. We show our. We give our flowers to the women all the time. But, yeah, do you have anything that you want to say to our. To our guy followers?
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B
No, I had a guy stop me. I was out last night and he. He was like, huge fan. It was the bartender. He was a huge fan of the pot.
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A
I was like, oh, so are you down?
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B
Sorry for talking about y' all all the time, but it's necessary character building.
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A
So, yeah, just a little thank you to all the guys that are following.
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B
This is hashtag save this, hashtag not all men. Like you said.
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A
Hashtag not all men. Hit the theme song.
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C
We say what we want and yeah, we say what we feel Sitting tmp of the mix and they be keeping it real on brand, off topic, out of pocket anything you need, they got it why don't you shout when you know they going to block it when it's game time and you know I'm going to block them and we cover everything like harder than us and yeah, we looking down on haters Cause they smaller than us and yeah, my Flow is so damn sick, I be coughing it up. You said that we going flat. Well then I'm calling your block.
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A
Sorry fellas, that was a short lived. Thank you. We're about to get into it, but again, it's not all men, but we were, we were told by one of our friends, Alicia Clark. Shout out to you, honey, that we should watch this cult documentary. I don't know if you guys have been seeing it or hearing people talk about it, but we watched a documentary called the False Prophet and Netflix, yeah, it is a lot.
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B
I think it's true story. False Prophet, I think is the full name.
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A
It is really, really sick. You just honestly watching documentaries like this, it's really easy for me to now comprehend how people get suckered in believing the lies that are told within the government. Because I'm like, on a much smaller scale, there is just brainwashing happening and these cycles of people that just have this understanding that is so, just hurtful to them, to society, and it's just so scary. And the ages of the women involved are, is deeply, deeply, deeply disturbing.
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B
Let's be clear. Most cults are led by men. So the not all men stuff, that's, that's not true. And you know what? It is true. But it's not all men. But it's far too many. And watching, watching this, it was just like, damn, these women were really. You're watching these women and these kids. Even when this lady comes in with her husband to document all this and try to, you know, get this dude Sam out of there. The brainwashing that's taking place, just like when Warren Jeffs was the leader before going to prison, which people got to start also judging the book by his cover because he looks depraved. Right. Psychotic. But you know, they're just susceptible to a new sort of predator to come along. Because the brainwashing is so deep when you're doing stuff for religion because you believe these people are prophets and going to get you to heaven. It's just, it's a, it's a mess. It's sick. But with that said, when Alicia told us to watch it, like we hadn't watched it yet. And I remember I was in my tub on vacation, just soaking and I was like, ooh, okay, so which one of us in the group is most likely to join a cult? Rank from most likely to least. And in this group is me, TP Ahmadi, Alicia and Kia. So the answers were, I mean, do you want to.
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A
No address. I also like to clear up. I Also, like to clear up.
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B
Don't clear up.
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A
No, no. I like to say where I was at. So I didn't realize that this was happening because while Sid was on vacation in her bathtub, like, having the time of her life, I was prepping for a colonoscopy and going through a colonoscopy to, like, hopefully see the end of some of this health stuff I have going on. So not only was I, like, going through some difficult days. Don't make us say. Yeah, no. I then later on was having a conversation, side conversation with Said that had absolutely nothing to do with anything. She was like, by the way, did you see the rankings on, like, the Cult? And I was like, wait, what rankings and what cult? No, it was just our group chat of how our friends voted for us. And like Sid said, it is Alicia Clark and Kia Stokes and Ahmadi and Sid and myself. And I was. And also they weren't voting on, like a name. One person who's most likely. It was a. It was a scale. Most likely the least. Like, everybody was named.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And I was unanimously voted first place for everyone, which is actually insane.
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B
Hey, number one pick. Do like this. Hold up. Number one.
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A
Where's my jersey? I want to hold up my jersey. So, yeah, I was unanimously number one. And there's not too many times in life that I've earned this. This is not something that I want to brag about or anything like that because I just, like, completely disagree. Oh, let me read all fronts.
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B
Let me read everybody's. I said TP Leash Kia, Amadi, then me. Obviously I'm last. But M said TP kia Sid, Amadi, Alicia. Alicia said TP. All these TP's. Words. Kill me. TP key mi Sid. And then herself.
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A
No way.
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B
Alicia's explanation for you? I didn't give an explanation. I was just like pretty self explanatory, I think. But for you, she said, honey doesn't like confrontation, so she'll just get got to avoid upsetting someone.
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A
Okay. That's so sweet.
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B
That is.
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A
Thanks so much, Alicia.
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B
Let me see.
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A
I think I got Marty's right here. I can play what Marty said about me.
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B
Yeah, play Marty's.
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A
Love you so much, Marty. But honestly, it's like deeply disturbing that you feel this way about me. And I'm like, so heartbroken through all my friends. Like, I'm looking at my friend group right now, and I'm like, yo, okay, here we go.
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C
Hey, ladies, here's my reason.
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B
So tp love you down, babes. But you were so nice. And I think that you would think that people are also being very nice, and you wouldn't realize that you guys are slowly forming or you're in a cult.
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A
So the first place is because I'm nice, right? And then Kia's like, oh, you go with the flow. And then we eventually make our way to Sid. Sid not only and babysitters. You know this from, you know, your personal experience watching the pod, But Sid is actively starting a cult. And the question was, who is most likely to do cult shit? Not who's gonna be suckered into a cold.
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B
No, my question was.
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A
No, I said, what was your question?
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B
No, my problem. Who out of this group is most likely to get caught up in some cult?
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C
Yeah.
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A
Caught up in some cult.
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B
That means joining. If I'm starting, I'm not caught up. I'm not caught up. I. I'd be. I started the thing. Caught up is like, oh, you finding yourself in some. No, I run this in my cult. We doing what I say, you know, so I'm not caught up. I know that's hard to hear.
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A
Number one. So hard to hear. I, like, stop bringing up the number one pick thing, too, because I'm like, I'm not excited about my number one pick. I'm actually kind of, hey, number one
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B
pick, you're headed to Utah.
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A
I'm gonna take my talents to Utah. This is the thing. I. I don't think that I would get caught up in a cult. I think I would be able to recognize a cult, and let's just say that I was nice to cult people. Yeah, okay. Let's just say that they invited me to have a sweet little slumber party, and I'm like, oh, my God. The second that, like, weird stuff started to happen, I would gather my belongings, which would be four things, because it doesn't look like people, like, have a lot when they're in a cult. So I'd grab all four pieces of belonging that I would have, and I would disappear in the middle of the night. And they're going to say, what happened? What happened to Sister Teresa? What happened to Sister Teresa?
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B
Ooh.
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A
I wouldn't have. I wouldn't have been there long enough to work my way up to mother.
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B
Okay. Okay.
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A
I still think that I would still be a sister, but I would work my way out of the cult. As soon as people started sleeping with people because you had to or because God told you to, I'd be like, you know what? It hasn't worked thus far, and certainly not going to do it in this smaller now sector of people. And then secondly, there's cults that, like, brand you. If somebody tried to brand me, they're like, hey, I'm just gonna have to stick this hot iron onto your skin. I'd be like, oh, I'm out of here. You know what? I think I would have to go. So I think once maybe I would get suckered into, like, the, oh, let's be nice people and like, whatever. And then once when the cult started really showing itself, I. I don't think that would be in the situation to start, but I would. I would certainly get out of the position of being in a cold. I just don't think that it would be me. I also don't think that would be Alicia. Yeah, I think Alicia would ask way too many questions. I'd be like, you know, we actually don't want her because she's too nosy. We need. She's getting down to the bottom of what this is. We can't have that. So you know what? We've never turned someone away before. But Alicia, you got to go, baby.
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B
We're going to ask you to leave. She. Lisa for me, she said wouldn't really go for it. Would ask questions, but would get distracted by their stories. That she begins to believe them and become one of them without knowing it. The thing about me is I'm not gullible. I'm not believing. I'm acting like I believe it because I'm nosy and I want to get to the bottom of what's going on here. I'm. I'm the lady from the doc. I'm collecting information to get somebody arrested. Or I'll just go completely vigilante and I'll start finding out who else they're doing stuff with and then just. I don't want to say. I don't want to say the people, but.
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A
Oh, my God, I'm just talking about the leaders. Just the leaders.
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B
Yeah, just the leaders.
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A
No, I. I do respect that. When in doubt, if there's a situation where you need to ask a question, just ask. If people think you're stupid, so be it.
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B
In addition to that, we said. We said not all men, but once again, a lot of men. I'm sure a lot of y' all have seen about CNN reporting on the rape academy, where like 62 million men or something have logged on to this website sharing information about how they drug and sexually assault their wives and just really, really depraved in sick shit going on. So we haven't Gotten to our full Decenter Men episode yet? It's, it's about, it's about that time.
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A
It's building.
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B
It might, it might need to be next week, but women have to just be ultra careful. Like, unfortunately, we're probably at a time in the world where like love and having a mate can't be like the highest priority in your life. And that sucks to say, but you have to get to know somebody so well and have such in depth conversations and find out about people's backgrounds and meet their families. Like, you need to be asking the questions that are going to reveal so much to you. And I know that men, women, people lie about their situations, but you got to give it your all to become like a serious ass investigator or just take a chill pill and don't be dating right now because this is a level of insane. I was talking to my mom about it. She was like, you think that is like that many people? I was like, if this is like worldwide, I don't have a problem with believing that. You look at the amount of teenagers that are being, you know, brainwashed by this red pill bullshit that these people push online. And then a lot of those people are trying to like reverse their, their, their like talking points or how they were like propping up Trump. I mean, you look at who's in office right now, there's a rapist in office. So it's not just like crazy to think that there could be so many people who are rapists.
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A
Just, just so everyone has like an idea of how many people. 62 million is. France and the United Kingdom range their populations from 66 to 70 million per country. Thailand and Tanzania both have about 65 million people per country. And South Africa alone has 63 million people in South Africa. These are individual countries. And the amount of men that logged onto this website in just one month could populate those places in these individual countries. That's how many people. And also what's scary about it. And this goes back to, we had a dateline conversation years ago. Like, they. The way that our government and people tried to like paint out what a criminal looks like and who bad people are isn't exactly what it seems like. These are. This is Brad who lives three houses down for you that you know is on some weird. This is Craig who, you know, used to get into weird stuff in high school and now, like, he's just into taking advantage of women because his life never panned out. These are, and it's not a blanket statement. This is a general generalized statement. Either. But a lot of white men are the criminals that we all need to be looking for. Like I said, if you are ever in question, just go check out the majority of Dateline. Dateline are mostly white stories about white murders that are happening in everyone's neighborhood. But we're not talking about it because, you know, it's not scary enough to put on all these bit. We're all scared of black people and we're scared of trans people and we're scared immigrant people. How immigrants. Terrifying, terrifying immigrants. But what really we need to be worried about is the everyday people that are going through mental illness or not. But definitely from my perspective, struggling with mental illness, whether they want to admit it or not, very scary. So make sure that you're. It's the people around you. It's the people around you can also happen to you, just like it can happen to anybody. So we could go on and on about this forever, Sid. But I, you know, I do think that we need to stick to the hashtag it's not all men. And I'm gonna bring up a man that has recently made his way to into my algorithm. I don't know if you saw this, but this is actually a really bright spot for humanity. I don't know how long it's been going on. Again, just settled upon my algorithm. But there's a guy that every morning rides his bike to school with like music or any. Brings us, I guess, kids to school. And along the bike route, you just see kids waiting to hop on. And it's called the bike bus. And all these kids just ride to school behind this guy. And it looks like the cool, like what you think of like a cool 90s movie or early 2000s movie of like kids just like hanging out like back in the day. It just seems like what I would want my child, if I could go back and be a child, I would love to go to school where I could join a bike bus every day.
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B
You definitely would have been in there.
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A
I love it. I love it. Shout out to Keke Palmer. But it's just really awesome. I think that, you know, with everything going on in the world, it's really easy to forget that there are really great things happening. And this bike bus situation just brought a smile to our faces. Having it stumble across our algorithms. And it's just something that, you know, we used to see a lot of when we would come home from school. We would, you know, either like, rush to our homework or like, lie that we did our homework so that, yeah, we would get outside. Because by the time the street lights came on, you had to go back home. The clock was ticking. You didn't have that much time to play. Time was precious and so precious back then. And also you looked for every excuse. Like, you were like, yeah, the street lights came on, but it was still, like, a little bright outside. And your parents were like, it don't. It don't matter.
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B
Yeah. Yeah.
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A
Were you home before the lights came on? You're just kind of like. I mean, close. No, but who's really counting? Like, did you walk outside the second the lights came on or what? Like, you're, like, questioning parenting now, but having this situation where you just see a. Kids being active.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Kids looking forward to going to school. Them, like, waiting on the side of the road with their helmets, all their, like, protective gear on, just, like, willing and ready to join this.
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That's gonna be crazy, like, in 20 years. Like, a memory for them. Maybe not even. Not even 20 for real, but just to be like, dang. Remember when we were part of the bike bus? Like, that's. That's.
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A
And that's what we need more of. And, you know, I. I don't know. I'm sure there's a lot of really great acts of humanity going on in the world and babysitters. If you guys have any acts of humanity, like this bike bus that, like, just feels good. Yeah. Please let us know below. We're, like, looking for things like this because this just. It brings joy to me.
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B
Does. Send it to us. Yes, send it to us. Tag us in it so we can see. But, like, I. I actually had somebody, you know, display such kindness and. Oh, I know.
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A
So was it also a man?
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B
It was a man. Hashtag, hashtag. Not all men.
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A
I know is not all men.
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B
Not all men. Okay, so it's raining.
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A
Tell us about this Prince Charming.
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B
It's raining. The other day, I' I'm driving back to my sister's house, and I'm following my best friend, Ryan. So Ryan text me because she's like, hey, there's a parking spot by me. I'm like, oh, you know, I won't be needed. I won't be needing that. Like, we're on the phone at this point. She text me that, and then I call her. I was like, hey, I won't be. Be needing that. I think my car is about to. To die. Or, like, it would, like, run out of gas. And she was like, what? She was like, is it. Is it pulling? Like, is it starting to pull? And I Was like, well, actually, funny you asked it. Finished pulling. I am at a complete stop right now, and I can see the gas station, like, right on the corner. If I go through the intersection, the
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A
gas station is right there, like, within 100ft.
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Within 100ft less than. Okay. So I'm trying to do all these things. As I feel it pulling, I'm trying to. Cause, mind you, I got a lot of nerve. I got the air on. I'm playing my music loud, knowing my tank is on E. It's been all
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A
that's eating away at your gas.
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All of this eating away at my gas. And I'm like, come on, girl. Like, don't. Don't let me stop right here. It's right there. I won't do this again if you just let me make it to the gas station. I always say that, though, when I'm low on gas. And so I think.
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And so God called your bluff. This time it seems like God reached.
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B
Look, God said, you know what? You need to learn? You need to learn to not do this again. So my car stops. I'm still going through the intersection a little bit, and the light is yellow, about to turn red. So I was about to try to turn, but it really wasn't. I don't know, my steering wheel wasn't like, turn it like that. So then I'm just, like, slowly gliding into the intersection, and then I just stop. Like, I just stop, and people are coming, they're honking, and I'm like, hey, sorry. Just go around. As if they don't know to go around. I'm like, that's my bad. Mind you, it's pouring rain right now. I'm sitting in the intersection. I'm on the phone with Ryan. My sister, my mom are trying to call me because they're like, you know, trying to check on where I'm at. They knew I was going to get gas. So this guy.
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A
Did they know that?
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They didn't know that. So this man is, like, running toward me in the rain. Like, I can't. I don't have my windshield wipers, so it's like drops of rain on my windshield, and I can't really see, but I see somebody coming towards me. And he's my Hispanic hero. This is what?
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A
Hashtag Hispanic hero?
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B
Yeah, hashtag Hispanic hero. This is what I call him now. So he's running over in his all black. He got some work boots on, some shorts. He got his ponytail. I'm like, you know, just so grateful to see a man for the first Time in a very long time. And he comes up to my window. He's like, what's going on? Like, how can I help? I'm like, man, I. I ran out of gas, so if you could help me just, like, push up there. He's like, well, you know, can you put it in neutral? I was like, I actually can't know because I can't start or anything. He's like, whoa. He's like, I only got a few dollars. Like, do you have some cash? I'm like, I don't think I have any. I had a 20. I gave it to him. He runs over to get. To pump some gas into his, like, container or whatever to bring it back. So he's running back, and my best friend has already showed up. So she's in the gas station parking lot waiting. He comes back to me. He's like, all right, pop your. You know, like, open your tank. I'm going to open my tank. And I remember. So my sister, people have been saying, like, you need to get a new car. You need to get this fixed. I don't want to. I love my 2015 Jeep Grand Cherokee.
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A
So I'm going to press the button. Hashtag paid off. That's the best kind of vehicle.
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B
I'm saying, I'm not trying to get another car. So I'm going to press it. And I'm like, my tank doesn't open when I press it anymore. I have to pop my trunk. Now take out this little canister in the back, pull this, like, this, like, little, like, lever thing, and then it opens. So he comes over. I mean, I tell him that, like, I'm pressing the button. I'm like, oh, he's going to close the trunk as I get out the car. And I'm like, no, no, don't close it. I have to pop my tank from. From in there. And as I'm walking by him, he's
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A
like, you're still in the middle of the intersection. In the middle of the intersection.
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B
In the middle of the intersection. He's like, what? I'm like, yeah, I gotta get this fixed, man. Like, my bad. So he comes to walk back there. He's like, how do you do? Like, what are you doing? We're pulling it. It's not working. I'm like, I think I gotta press it again. You pull it while I press it. I press it. He pulls it opens. He goes to start pouring the gas in it. I go to sit back in the car. I'm like, hey, man, thank you so much. For this. Like, I don't know what I was gonna do since she can't push my car because it's in park. He's like, no, you're good. Like, you look like you were obviously in need. Like, I. I was like, let me go help. So he's trying to put the thing in. He's like, it won't. It won't let me insert it into your tank. I'm like, what? He's like, you have anything, like, sharp that I can stick in here? Like, something pointy? All I had was, like. I was like, I have this lint roller, like, if you can use the handle. He's like, that's far too big. And I'm looking around. I'm like, oh, I have a pen. So I give him the pen. He has to, like, jam the pin in, hold it open. I'm like, you need help? He's like, I got it now. So he's pouring the gas. He's like, try to start it. My car also, when I go push to start, it's been taking a while to turn over sometimes. Sometimes it works fine, sometimes it doesn't. So it's not turning over. I'm like, I'm trying, I'm trying. He's like, all right, stop it. He's like, let's try to get it in neutral. So we're push. He's pushing through the intersection. I'm steering. We get to the ramp. It's too hard to get up the ramp by himself. So I'm telling my friend. I'm like, ryan, come here, come here. Get in, like, Hop over me. Get in my seat. Because I'm pressing the brake hard so it doesn't roll back onto him and kill him.
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Oh, my God.
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Ryan hops over me. She gets her foot on the brake. I get out to go start helping him. There's another Hispanic hero is now Eric. My friend Eric is the initial one. And Kukay, I was about to say,
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A
you spent all this time with this band and you didn't get his name? Absolutely. Ponytail, Eric and Kirk.
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B
So now we're all pushing the car up the ramp. Ryan steers us into the spot. We get out to start pumping gas or whatever. But, like, I start talking to him. I'm like, let me get yalls information. Like, I'm gonna pay y' all for helping me. Like, you didn't have to do that. They're like, no, no, you don't need to do that. Like, I would want somebody to stop for me. I'm like, No, I get it. It was, it was very kind. It was nice. Sometimes niceness should be rewarded.
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Absolutely.
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In this way. So I appreciate it. Thank you. While I'm talking to Eric, the original guy, original Hispanic hero the other guy is talking to, I'm finding this out later from Ryan. She was like, yeah, he was talking to me, trying to hit on me. But he also asked, he was like, is this your mom? Mind you, I don't look like Ryan's mom. I don't look like anybody's mom. Nobody ever tells me I look like a mom. I'm like, what? So he was like, is that your mom? Like, no, that's my best friend. So by the time they're done talking, I get his information, then I'm getting the second guy's information. I'm like, okay, what's your, what's your number so I can find you on sale? He's like, you don't have to pay me. He's like, just go on a date with me. He said, you're so beautiful. Mind you, I'm wearing. I look masculine like I do now. I want an honor to the gift. Shut out, honor the gift. I want in honor the gift.
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A
A denim shout out to them.
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B
A denim blue and white set with like a white undershirt like this.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Some J's on and a hat. Not looking. Or maybe I didn't have on a hat, but I don't, I don't look
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like giving straight or mother at all.
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B
At all. So he's talking. I'm like, no man, I'm gonna just pay you and you know I'm not gonna go on a date with you. Like I'm gay. He's like, you gay or you never been with a Mexican man? I was like, I didn't. I never heard of that being a thing. I never heard of that being a thing, but I'm for sure gay. And let me just get your information so I can pay you before I change my mind. So the other guy, we start chopping it up. He's hearing the guy hit on me. He's like, oh, Jesus. Like, chill, man. He's telling him to chill, but I think Kukay is also. I'm like, okay, you, you're a little drunk, I could tell. Like your eyes look a little glossy. Like, you know, just take this money and keep it pushing. We go inside, cuz I'm going to get some snacks. Cuz long day. A long day. Or like long 30 minutes.
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A
Now we're at the gas station, we're
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B
at the gas station. So I'm going inside and my sister and Ryan are waiting for me outside. My sister is also pulled up. She was like, you need a new car. They're waiting for you.
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A
You don't need a new car. You just need to do maintenance on the car that you had. Because clearly there were signs.
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B
No, probably so. But I told her, I was like, well, you got a lot of nerve telling me that I need a new car because. Because earlier that day we went to my niece's poetry recital and Logan did a great job.
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A
Nice job, Logan.
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B
Oh, also shout out to my nephew, sj. It was his birthday yesterday. Happy birthday, sj. Happy birthday, sj. Sweet.
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A
I love.
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B
I know. I love him. So my sister's trunk, she had had a problem with her trunk before that she had to get fixed. So I'm thinking that it's fixed cuz it's supposed to just like you press a button and it opens, but I'm having to manually do it. I'm pulling it up, it goes pop. Like a loud, loud bang. Everybody turns to look in my direction. And mind you, the outfit that I described earlier is the outfit that I had on. So it looks like I'm some crazy, like, potential like, shooter at this children's poetry recital. And it got me to thinking, you know, we've never, as much as they try to criminalize, you know, immigrants, trans people, gay people, we've never had a black mask lesbian be a shooter, a mass shooter. Yeah, I won't even go on that ramp. But Simone, you need to get your car fixed. I need to get my car fixed. Tp, we need to try to get a car.
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A
We need to get a car deal desperately.
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B
Because I don't think I'm going to go get maintenance. I don't think I feel like doing that.
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A
Eric and Kuka, thank you so much for keeping my friends safe out here at a time where it's not all men, but it is men. Thank you for keeping my friends safe and you know, doing all that work in the middle of an intersection in the pouring down rain.
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B
Right.
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A
Also, apologies to everyone that was at the poetry reading. There wasn't a gunshot.
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B
It was just. It was just me. But like, also I stopped picking up Hispanic men because I need them when my car stops in the intersection.
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A
The kindest people in the world right there. So I seem to take a look at themselves and deport themselves, to be honest. But with that being said, I'd like to say that there is a car that I'm Interested in?
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B
Yeah.
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A
I don't know about you, but when we were at the final four, we spent some time at Dahlia Tapas restaurant and boycott bar and the Title 9 Women's Sports Bar. Shout out to Audrey. Audrey is this badass that owns all of them. And Audrey is actually Sid's friend. But we became friends very, very quickly. Like, hit it off immediately. So much so that I got to drive around Phoenix and Audrey's electric Hummer. And we were whipping in that thing, having such a good time. It was a beautiful day. Audrey even took off, like, the roof. That Hummer was insane. Also not as insane as the meal that we got at Dahlia's back to back nights.
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B
It's good every time. I'm telling you.
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A
I think I might need to add some of the pictures from that because that meal was literally to die for. It was so good.
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B
Y' all had you drinking off the plate. I'll send that.
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A
Yeah, the. I had to take a tequila shot.
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B
You didn't have to.
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A
Well, I had to as a part of the experience. And she was like, it's not a full experience unless you do this. I'm not tequila girly.
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B
You're right.
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A
But I was down for the experience. And it was a very spicy tequila shot. Very.
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B
Did you do it again?
- [32:49]
A
No, but I do. That other tequila drink that Audrey was like, you should try this. And I did. And it was honestly not even just like the best tequila drink I've ever had.
- [32:57]
B
Yeah.
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A
It's like one of my top beverages, adult beverages I've ever had in my life. And it was tequila as well, which is shocking. I don't think that I would ever admit that. But.
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B
Yeah.
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A
No. Shout out to Audrey. She put that on my. She put that on my plate. And, man, I really did benefit.
- [33:17]
B
Sure was easy for people to mistake us for. A couple are on our back to back nights at Doll.
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A
Yeah. I mean, I would easily say so it was a two person table and we had like, literally a chef's experience just at our table. And we kept cheersing one another and, like, sharing dishes. Like we had shareables.
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B
Yeah.
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A
So, yeah, I could certainly see how people thought we were together.
- [33:42]
B
Yeah. And, you know, super bothersome to me.
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A
But why? So
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B
I know you saw that. Tick tock.
- [33:54]
A
No, I did see this TikTok. The only reason I saw this TikTok is because it was literally sent to me by every single person that I know.
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B
Mm.
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A
What's really funny, though, is that this I get made fun of for, you know, being in a relationship with you and like dating you and all these like really awesome things that I get accused of. But I do want to set the record straight that two years ago at AU we went on Instagram live and I was actually made fun of by my peers in the. In the women's shelter at AU about saying, yeah, and I'm not her girlfriend. You remember you said, I've had a very. I had a girlfriend for a very long time. And I said, yeah, and it's not me. And I was picked apart by every single person in that room. Come to find out we're now in 2026 and there's still TikToks being made attesting to what I had to say.
- [34:47]
B
This person was bored. They couldn't have. They couldn't have really thought this. They just felt like doing something. So. User 928-462-577 had a caption on screen. Guys, this whole time I thought Sid Coulson and Teresa Plaisance were dating. And this is the sound that is Pl. That is being played too. I was about to sound. So it said 6,500 likes, hundreds of comments, tons of bookmarks and shares.
- [35:24]
A
Wow. Well, I can honestly say that I was a recipient of a lot of those shares.
- [35:31]
B
Some people were like, they're so. They're clearly not a couple. Like, have you seen Amadi on the pod? Like, are you paying attention or are you just looking at us? Look at us right now.
- [35:43]
A
I know. But also, like, this is what I've like come to realize. I'm like, maybe we are conservative gays in the way that we thought. Like, we're not open minded enough to even like see us together.
- [35:56]
C
Right.
- [35:56]
B
We gotta go back to New York.
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A
We have to go back to New York soon. Because, like, I just never. I don't know, like, maybe I can picture it.
- [36:05]
B
I think because we have such a strong platonic bond, I. I guess somebody can mistake that for something else. But that's sick. You haven't said that sick in a while.
- [36:16]
A
Yeah, no, it is kind of sick. It's definitely sick that you think that I would date somebody that like consistently tears me down. They also, this person still builds me up, but there's a lot of tearing down involved, which keeps us young. Well, she keeps it fun.
- [36:31]
B
I mean, there's a lot going on. Maybe we need to get together now because we saw the news. Oh, we saw some other big lesbian news.
- [36:40]
A
Honestly, it's kind of heartbreaking and by
- [36:44]
B
heartbreaking silence actually for it.
- [36:46]
A
Okay.
- [36:51]
B
Oh, y'. All don't know what it is that we were referring to.
- [36:55]
A
Yeah, they do.
- [36:57]
B
They do.
- [36:58]
A
We all do.
- [36:59]
B
Sue and Megan are calling it quits, y'. All.
- [37:03]
A
It's just really sad to see the day Marty sent us a. A tweet saying that the lesbian flag was at, you know, half staff. You know, in honor of this heartbreaking, heartbreaking news. With that all being said, though, I, like, have a lot of respect for Megan and Sue. I think when it comes to publicly dating and having your relationship be a part of the public, you know, sphere, like, people are aware of what's going on. People understand you guys are in a relationship. A lot of people have a problem whenever they go to break up out of that relationship publicly. That people are too far into their business. And I think that it is a business whenever you bring your relationship onto social media or whenever you bring anything onto social media, even Sid's butt cheeks, for example, she was getting unwanted dms, but she put that on social media. So I just felt like you had it coming. If you put something on social media, you then make it the world's news. You're using it as entertainment. And the way that Meghan and. No, no, not at all. I'm actually going to blame you as a victim. Yes. But Meghan and Sue, I think that the way that they're going about the separation that they're having is really respectable. And the way that they've made the announcement and also the way that you can separate in a relationship and still be amicable and have love for one another and respect is really something that we overlook nowadays, especially in, like, high profile couples and stuff like that, sometimes you see things go sour and it goes really, really sour. So the fact that we're seeing them, you know, on a communication basis, just like telling us what happened as people that supported them and their love for years and, you know, just keeping us involved with that decision, I'm sure it's hard, but I respect them for being able to publicly share that as a. As a collective, as a group of them.
- [39:09]
B
Yeah, I know TP said all that, but y', all, the real truth is that we slept with the both of them and that's. That's why they're splitting. They are in love with us now and don't know what to do about it, but we're getting together. So ritp. Well, you know what time it is?
- [39:28]
A
Yeah, because it's not going down between us, but it is going down the DMs, it's going down in the DM it go down. This. This episode is brought to you by Love between Sydney and I.
- [39:43]
B
Okay, so Grace DMed us and said,
- [39:49]
A
oh, Grace, love y'.
- [39:50]
B
All. In the pod, I feel like I have to weigh in on the audio listener situation. I've been an avid audio listener since the pod came out because it makes me literally laugh out loud on my way to work and sets the tone for me to have a good day. However, I was feeling a little wild and decided to give video a try. When I tell you it changed my life.
- [40:07]
A
Whoa.
- [40:07]
B
I mean it craze and entirely in all caps, new dimension was unlocked. I know, I know you always say that the subtle and animated facial expressions, Sid silent laughs and the body language are hilarious and unmatched. Going back and watching the videos, slash, seeing all the visual jokes I've been missing is frying me. I know there's a lot of other audio listeners who've been in my position and listen because it's easier or convenient, but I'm telling y', all, watch the POD in all caps and thank me later.
- [40:41]
A
Wow, Grace, I'm gonna thank you now for saying that. I know it's a big leap as an audio listener to take the jump and get some visuals. Like, you're almost working your way to 3D there. You're 2D now, and, you know, it's a really exciting moment. I do want to say that for all you that like to get your giggles in during your workout and on your ride to work and even during work for all those risky, risky babysitters out there that like to listening with your headphones, that is risky behavior, especially if you're working in a hospital. We've had a few nurses and people being like, yeah, you have me working on the job. Thank you so much. But, Grace, now that you got a taste of the good life in audio, I really do appreciate you, you know, spreading the word, the good word.
- [41:36]
B
And the thing is, Grace, like,
- [41:40]
C
you
- [41:40]
B
know, your name is super appropriate for this because I've been extending Grace to audio listeners, but the truth of the matter is that anything worth having and worth keeping is going to be hard. It's going to be difficult. Audio listeners, we do appreciate y'. All. All we've been trying to impress upon you is that there's a different element and a different, different vibe when you come to watch. At some point, you're gonna have to. You're gonna have to trust us, you know, And I feel like there. There's a lot of. There's a lot of Push and pull. We meet some of y' all in person, and you. You kind of. You say it with a little sass. I'm audio. Yeah, hon, that's nothing to brag about or just keep bringing up. All right? Take the time. Go watch. Because we're also watching you. Okay. When you watch, we have capabilities to see you in your home, wherever you are. So it's both ways. It's not you just watching us. We're watching you. Just trust us. It's a. It's a better experience. We love you almost the same, but it's like when a parent asks, you know, which one's your favorite kid? And they're like, I love them all the same. You can't. You can't. One was either your firstborn, so you have a different affinity and love for them, or one is just better than the others. The other ones cause a lot of trouble. The other one does really well. Maybe in school or in extracurricular stuff. They don't get in trouble. Like, there are reasons for you to have favorites. Let's just. Let's be honest about that.
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A
Okay.
- [43:19]
B
Yeah, we do love y' all the same, though.
- [43:22]
A
No, no, no. With that being said, like, you. You fall in a. In a list of, you know, siblings, and so where do you feel like you fall in favor to your parents? Like, do you feel like you're up there because you're not the firstborn? Yeah. Yeah. And you seem to be the troublemaker. So all the things that seem to be a knock on the other kids, as to why they weren't loved as much as seem to be you. So where do you think you fall in terms of, like, your parents favorites and stuff like that?
- [43:53]
B
I've got to be the favorite. All respect my brother and sister, great people, great parents, great everything. Great siblings to me. But the truth of the matter is I just have more time for my parents, their parents and stuff, so I'll be taking care of my parents. I have no problem doing that. They're gonna go out of this world loving me way, way more.
- [44:13]
A
Oh, my God. Do your siblings listen to our podcast?
- [44:17]
B
I don't know. I'm gonna tell them. I tell them this, though. I'll tell them this in person.
- [44:22]
A
Yeah, no, you definitely do. You're very transparent on how. Where do you think your family is? Very. Like, I put in the work to be number one. I am. Yeah.
- [44:31]
B
You're number one out of the whole grandkids, too.
- [44:34]
A
Yeah. Because I love my grandparents. I spent a lot of time with my Grandparents. But Scotty, like, in terms of my parents, like, Scotty is up there. Like, I don't see it. I love him to death, but I'm
- [44:46]
B
like, it's just two of y'.
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A
All. Yeah. And I'm like, respectfully, I know he's like my little brother, but he's, like, now a grown man, so this is coming lovingly.
- [44:54]
B
Yeah.
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A
I do think that Scotty. I've, like, helped Scotty throughout his life. And when we were kids, it was, like, in the form of, like, making sure that he didn't get caught. And then if he didn't get caught but we both got caught, then it was like, oh, the big. The older one that was supposed to be watching, the younger one got in trouble. Right.
- [45:13]
B
For sure.
- [45:13]
A
So, like, I think my journey of, like, being, you know, the perfect child has, like, I've had, like, a few miscommunications and, like, a few just, like, situations that are kind of unexplainable in terms of me without throwing my brother under the bus. With that being said, though, Scotty's a sweetheart, and he is, like, a handsome young man, so I do think that he does have favor. Like, he's up there. But I really do hope that I am my parents number one and my grandparents pretty much.
- [45:42]
B
Even if he is the favorite, it's like, you helped build that, though, so by default.
- [45:50]
A
Yeah, you're the favorite. Well, thank you for the. Thank you for saying that. I really. I really needed to hear that. Like, my parents are very loving parents. I've never once questioned that they love me ever in my whole life, but love me more than my brother. My mom does say that she loves us equally, but, yeah, that's something moms do. I will say I have two dogs. Okay. I have a 13 year old chip, that we all know and love. And we have sweet little Yammy who's two and a half. Love you, Mantha, so much. With that being said, right now, where we stand in life. I've known chip for 13 years. I've only known yams for two and a half. I would say that my love for them is the same. I have a lot of love for them. I just know Chip differently than I know yams.
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B
Are they gonna hear this?
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A
They don't watch the pod.
- [46:51]
B
Their audio. Their audio.
- [46:53]
A
They're not even audio. Like, I need to. I'm actually gonna start playing at the house after I leave. Like, okay, we got to get our views up, y'. All. Starting with you guys. But, yeah, no, I do love them. Differently, but the same, but differently.
- [47:08]
B
That's how it is. That's how it is. For our audio and video, y' all figure out what you are to us. Who's the favorite? Great up, tp. Love talking to you. My dog babysitters love.
- [47:20]
A
I'm in love with you, Sid.
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B
Y' all know what. Y' all know what it is. If y'. All. If y' all got something you want to share with us. Something kind that happened throughout your week.
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A
Yeah.
- [47:31]
B
Something awesome you saw online. You want us to be in your business and give you some advice. DM us at unsupervised tp.
- [47:39]
A
And as always, and especially now, don't forget to throw kindness around like confetti till next week. Everybody can't wait to see you then or hear you then or you're gonna be hearing us anyway. We out.
- [48:02]
C
Yeah. Yes. Yes. Yeah, we say what we want and yeah, we say what we feel? Sitting tmp of the mix and they be keeping it real on brand, off topic, out of pocket? Anything you need, they got it? Why don't you shout? We know they gonna block them when it's game time? And you know I'm gonna block them? And we cover everything like whoa, who harder than us? And yeah, we looking down on haters? Cause they smaller than us? And yeah, my flow is so damn sick? I be coughing it up? You said that when we gone flat? Well, then I'm calling your blood.
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B
Sa.