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Aisha Roscoe
Aisha I'm Ayesha Rascoe, and this is the Sunday Story from Up first, where we go beyond the news to bring you one big story. Over the winter, NPR's Dia Hadid was reporting in Syria. Rebel fighters had just overthrown the brutal dictatorship of Bashar al Assad. In her weeks of reporting, Diya discovered something shocking. It wasn't just men and women who were imprisoned by the Assad regime. Children were also taken and many remained unaccounted for. Today on the Sunday story, what happened to the disappeared children of Syria? Dia Hadid brings us the story from her reporting in Damascus after the break. Stay with us.
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Aisha Roscoe
This is a Sunday story from up first. NPR's Dia Hadid joins me now to talk about her reporting from Damascus. Dia, I know you were sent to Syria in the chaotic weeks following the Assad's regime's fall. How did you come across this story about missing children?
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Dia Hadid
Aisha As I was seeing what was happening in Damascus, I couldn't stop thinking about the children. I'd covered conflicts like this for so long, and I knew there'd likely be a large number of kids in orphanages whose parents had been detained or even disappeared during the civil war. And I kept thinking what was happening to them now. And let me tell you, this was hard for me. I have two young kids. So stories about vulnerable Children really hit home, and I try not to take too many long trips away from them. So for this assignment, I felt like I needed their permission. So I told them, I'm going to Syria so I can meet little ones who don't have a mama. So is that okay to give your mama to some other kids for a little while? And my girls agreed.
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Aisha Roscoe
That's very sweet of your girls.
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Dia Hadid
So I began calling groups that care for vulnerable children, like unicef, the Red Cross, other big organisations that run programs in Syria. And one group I reached was SOS Children's Villages. That's an international aid group headquartered in Austria. It has branches all around the world, including in war zones. And a spokesperson for them told me they were coming to terms with a revelation that was shaking the organisation. The Damascus branch had secretly taken in children whose mothers had been detained by intelligence agents. And this revelation was triggering a lot of anger in Syrian society.
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Aisha Roscoe
Well, I mean, and rightfully so. How did you investigate these allegations?
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Dia Hadid
Well, after getting this tip, me and producer Mirna Rashid, we went to other orphanages across Damascus, and we asked, did intelligence agents force you to secretly take in children? And what happened to those children?
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Aisha Roscoe
And what did you find out?
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Dia Hadid
Well, it was really hard to get answers at first. Orphanages did not want to speak to us. The situation for felt so uncertain. The Assad regime had just fallen at the time, and people online were accusing them of collaborating with the former regime. But as we investigated, we finally met an official at the Ministry of Social affairs who also wanted to know the answers. You see, the Ministry had been overtaken by rebels who formed an interim government, and Syrian families were asking them for help to find their children. So this official helped us by calling up orphanage directors and telling them that they had to talk to us. He requested anonymity through this process because he wasn't meant to be speaking to the media, let alone helping us.
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Aisha Roscoe
Did you manage to speak to any parents whose children were taken away?
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Dia Hadid
Yeah, we spoke to one orphanage director who wanted us to hear from the detained women themselves. So she connected us to a couple of mothers. One of those women was Suqayna Jbawi. We reached her at her home in a village in the southern Syrian province of Daraa. That's where the uprising against the regime of Bashar al Assad first erupted. She was keen to chat. So, Aisha, this is what Shbawi told me. She says that in the fall of 2018, Syrian security forces turned up one day and they dragged her and her daughter Hibbeh from their home. Hiba was just two. Xbawi believes they were taken hostage to pressure her husband's brothers to surrender to government forces. That was a pretty common tactic at the time because the brothers had joined the uprising against the regime. Jabawi and Hebba were driven to holding cells run by the air force intelligence that was one of the most feared and violent arms of the Syrian regime. Guards pushed her and Hebba into a cold, dark cell with about six other women and their children. Nearly all the women's cells also held children, but the conditions there were not conducive to stay. Jabeu says they were only allowed to use the bathroom three times a day, not enough for little kids. So the mothers procured a bucket for the children to use as a toilet, and they emptied it out whenever they could. There was never enough food. An egg once a week, 15 olives twice a week. Plain yogurt every four days, sometimes jam. Boiled rice one day, boiled lentils the next, boiled potatoes after that. Shbaui says she gave Heba her share so she'd stay alive. But still her daughter was losing weight. She became infested with lice. And she says 20 days after she arrived, prison guards banged on their cell doors and told the women, get your children ready. It was Cha. The women were asking, why do they want the children? And even now, years later, Shbalwi cries as she remembers this. One woman who'd been detained for a while told them, say goodbye to your children now, because they're going to take them away. Don't make a fuss or they'll put you in solitary. But some women wouldn't let go. So the guards came in and took their children by force. Zhibawi drew Heba into her lap. She put her arms around her and hugged her. She said, you're going to a better place and when this ends, you'll be with me and I'll hug you. Shabawi hoped that was true. She prayed, oh, God, protect her with your watchful eye that never sleeps. As the months went on, Shbawi watched more mothers come into the cell and she watched them have their children snatched away, including newborn babies. She says pregnant women detained alongside her were taken to hospital. When they went into labour after birth, the women were returned to their lockup with their babies. They were allowed to nurse them for a few weeks, and then the guards took the babies away. It was a fate spare we feared as well, because when she was arrested with Heba, her two year old, she was also a few weeks pregnant. But after almost eight months of detainment, and weeks before she was due to give birth, she was finally sentenced and she was shifted to a notorious prison called Adra. She still doesn't know what her crime was, but in prison, she was told she'd be released soon, and she was given one phone call. So she called her sister and asked if somebody could pick her up. And she told her sister, heva isn't with me. I don't know where she is. Shberwi returned to her village heavily pregnant. Her husband by that point, had abandoned her and married another woman. This happened a lot to women who'd been detained. When they were freed, they weren't greeted as heroes. They often faced immense stigma over the possibility that they'd been sexually assaulted while confined. Shbaui jokes that it would have been better if her husband had died in a Syrian prison so she could tell their kids that he was a martyr. It was Beawi's brother who began the search for Hevar. He heard that she might be in an orphanage, and so he went banging on their doors across Damascus. And after three months of running around, the intelligence agency that had detained Sperwi, finally returned Heber to him. Sperwi was in their village waiting. She'd just given birth and was recovering. And then they arrived. She says when she saw her daughter, their reunion was bittersweet. Sh says she came to her girl and asked her, do you remember me? And Hea replied, mama. She says, I hugged her in my arms and I saw her. But as the days wore on, Heba grew distant. She screamed when Shbawi tried to bathe her, feed her, dress her. It was like she blamed her mother for their separation. But Tsukeina Shbawi, at least, was one of the lucky ones. Her daughter came back.
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Aisha Roscoe
So, Diya, I just want to interrupt you here. Do you have a sense of the scale of this? How many children were being taken away from their mothers like Hiba?
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Dia Hadid
I'm not sure we'll ever be able to get an accurate count, but a respected monitoring group, the Syrian Network for Human Rights, they estimate some 3,700 children remain missing after they were detained during the war by Assad regime forces. And based on our own investigation, we were able to confirm that at least 300 children were taken away from their mothers while they were being held by the Directorate, including one baby girl who died while she was in the care of an orphanage that was just in Damascus. We weren't able to reach orphanages in other parts of Syria at the time when we did our reporting, and In Damascus, children were handed over to four orphanages and care centres. Intelligence agents ordered them to keep the children's existence a secret. The practice became so common that orphanage workers even had a name for these kids. Security Placement Children. Mm.
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Aisha Roscoe
Security Placement Children. It sounds so bureaucratic.
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Dia Hadid
Yeah. And just like they were handed over by intelligence agents, days, weeks, months, even years later, intelligence agents took the children back. Orphanage directors presume the children were given back to their mothers once they were released from detention. And that did happen. Like Heber Zhbawi, who was returned to her mother, Skaina Zhbawi.
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Aisha Roscoe
But these children aren't orphans, as you know. As I understand it, as you know, these are children who still had mothers and in many cases, also fathers who were still first.
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Dia Hadid
Aisha. It's important to understand that an orphan in Muslim majority countries like Syria is not a child who's lost their parents, it's a child who's lost their father. And often children are handed over to orphanages because the mother can no longer support them financially or because if she'd like to remarry, her new husband may not want to raise what conservative society sees as somebody else's kid.
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Aisha Roscoe
Okay, so it sounds like Syrian orphanages were always pretty full of children, sometimes abandoned by their own parents. But then there was this shift during the civil war. They started taking in children whose parents had not given them up, but the parents had been forcefully detained by intelligence agents.
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Dia Hadid
Yeah.
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Aisha Roscoe
Dia. How did people first come to know that these orphanages were taking in children this way?
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Dia Hadid
Yeah. The fates of these children, of detained mothers first bubbled to the surface through the activism of one man, Hassan Al Abbasi. Al Abbasi is a Canadian Syrian engineer who lives in Canada, and he's been searching for his sister, Rania Al Abbasi. She was taken by assad forces on March 11, 2013, alongside her husband and their six children, from Dima, the eldest at 14, to Lean, who was two years old at the time. Rania's relatives believed that her decision to give food to families displaced by fighting at the time made her a target. Rania very quickly became one of the most prominent women held by the Assad regime. That's partly because of Al Abbasi's activism and partly because Rania was a national chess champion in Syria. The U.S. state Department still advocates for her release. And Hassanal Abbasi keeps trying to find clues to his sister's fate and of her family. Sometimes he uploads old home videos of Rania's daughters to sad music just to remind people that they're maybe still out there. Then. Last year, after the Assad regime fell, Al Abbasi made a remarkable claim that aired on a popular Syrian opposition television station that he was told by an anonymous friend that Rania's children were being hidden in an orphanage. Al Abbasi says he sent friends to ask around the orphanages immediately and he began to cast out on the Damascus branch of the SOS Children's Villages. Al Abbas's claim was picked up by other Syrians on social media, who began accusing the orphanages of human trafficking. As this unfolded, SOS Children's villagers issued a statement. They acknowledged that their Damascus branch had taken in security placement children over a period of four years until the charity's headquarters found out and ordered their Damascus branch to stop. The regional director, Tom Malvert, who's a Swedish national, told me they're trying to rectify the situation now as much as they can. We will do everything to open the books and the records and we want to contribute to tracing children and families. SOS Children's Villages has trawled its records to find 139 children who'd been placed there. But they can only confirm that 21 Syrian children were reunited with their families as of this April. Malvit says he believes the staff were operating under extreme conditions. They were trying to do their best by the children who were appearing at their doorstep. And after Malvett's statement, multiple orphanage directors spoke up to defend the work they continue to do in Syria. These orphanages, however imperfect, have played a vital role in Syria, particularly through the civil war. They remain one of the only places that vulnerable kids can receive care. From our interviews with orphanage directors, patterns emerged as to how these placements happened. Agents delivered the children in white vans to the orphanage. They came with a paper listing the child's first name and a demand to keep the child's existence totally secret. And one institution appears to have obeyed that order to the letter.
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Aisha Roscoe
When we come back, DIA visits a crowded orphanage that took in the children of detained mothers. Stay with us.
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Aisha Roscoe
We're back with NPR's Dia Hadid and her story about the missing children of Syria.
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Dia Hadid
The Life Melody Complex, or Tajammar Lahn Al Hayat, is a gated complex. It's perched on a hill overlooking Damascus. Syrians appear angriest at this orphanage more than any other. That's because it was once sponsored by Asmal Asad, the wife of Syria's former ruler. She used to visit the institution, cameras at the ready to show her with orphans. She was photographed alongside a longtime board member, Nada Al Khabara. We met Al Khabara on a winter's day. She walked us through the orphanage. She wanted to show us how well they care for the children. There's about 400 boys and girls here, from babies to women in their early 20s who have nowhere else to go. We met toddlers who were warmly dressed, watching cartoons in other rooms, babies nap two or three till cottage. There just wasn't enough room for all the babies that had been abandoned here. As we walked, Al Khabra proudly told us she's familiar with all the children in the orphanage. She laughed and said she even arranges the circumcisions of all the baby boys. Muslim boys are expected to be circumcised. She paid for the weddings for the older kids. She was really proud of that. She pulled up one video on her phone of one of those weddings. But Al Habra says she only found out that intelligence agents were delivering children to the orphanage after the Assad regime was toppled. She says that's because she didn't spend any time in the administrative building where children were handed over. She was with the children in the main building, the orphanage, and she says she didn't notice some of the children suddenly arriving or leaving. But Life Melody Complex actually did keep records of the security placement children who were transferred into their care. Copies of those records were handed over to the new interim government. An official showed NPR a list of 45 children who were placed there by intelligence agents. That official told us there was a stack of pages an inch thick, filled with other names of other security placement children who were cycled there over the years. But the official didn't show us that stack of papers. The officials spoke on condition of anonymity, fearing retaliation from members of the former Assad regime. They said, my life is worth the price of a bullet. During this investigation, I visited every single orphanage I could find in Damascus to figure out if there were patterns to these children being hidden away. One of them was Al Mubarra Nisaiya, which is on a busy Damascus road. Here, the director kept detailed records of the 50 children who were deposited by intelligence agents inside. Director Ran Al Baba is chatting to some colleagues. When I met her in December, compared to what we heard at the Life Melody Orphanage, Al Baba was sharply aware of the transfer of security placement kids into her orphanage's care. Over bracing Turkish coffee, she tells us the first time an agent came knocking with a baby boy to hand over. She didn't believe it. She tells me, I even asked for the man's id. I said, how do I know you haven't kidnapped these children? Al Baba tells me this man looks at her and says, you're asking me for my id. Do you understand who I am? And Al Baba says, it began to sink in. Saying no to the Air Force Intelligence Directorate would be a death sentence. She says. They would have put us through their human minsa. They would have made us hamburgers or kebabs. Al Baba says when the children arrived, they were sick, thin, dirty, infested with head lice, like they'd just come out of prison. And they were distraught. Al Bava says in her orphanage, for the first week, they isolated the kids with a caregiver. They called them house mothers, and the house mother would offer the kid new clothes, a pink pyjama or a blue one. Do you want a toy? What do you want to eat today? Fries? She says they wanted the kids to see they were cared for. But Al Baba says she was not at peace with the arrangement and there were limits to what she could do. She says she had to turn away relatives who came to her orphanage looking for their missing children. She had to obey. We end our interview with Al Baba. She tells me she hopes she was worthy of the burden that God made her carry. It's at this moment I look out the window and see a man lingering outside. He's clutching his mobile phone and looks nervous. I ask Al Baba, does he work here? Al Baba peers out the window, no, and she invites him into the office. He walks in and tells Al Baba that his Children went missing. And in 2013, with his wife, she'd been detained by forces loyal to Syria's former ruler, Bashar al Assad, as she was trying to get to hospital because she was nine months pregnant. He says for a long time, he believed his wife and kids had been killed to punish him because he'd refused to provide information about rebels operating in his area. He pulls out his phone to show her pictures of his kids. There's Muhammad, 7, Islam. She's 5, Yousef, 3. His name is Hani Al Farah. And in December, 11 years after they disappeared, he saw the social media buzz about children hidden in orphanages. And he began hoping just maybe his children were alive. Maybe they'd been hidden in an orphanage, maybe this orphanage. Al Baba says she's sure his children weren't placed here. But just in case, she asks for his wife's name, the children typically came listed under their mother's names. Al Baba shakes her head sadly, not here, sir. I wish they were. I would have given them to you. But she tells him, you mustn't give up hope, sir. We took Hani Al Farah's details and we met him a few days later in his tiny apartment in a working class suburb of Damascus. It's up a few flights of narrow stairs and Al Farah is holding his youngest son from his second marriage. Hello, habibi. We sit in a room that feels like a cubbyhole. During the years that he tried to find his wife and children, he angered the Assad regime soldiers who manned the checkpoint in his area. They detained him and ultimately shifted him to a lockup where he was tortured for hours every day for three months. He says he was strung up from a ceiling, beaten and starved. After that, he began to hope that his wife and children were dead, rather than experience the depravities of detention under the Assad regid. And that includes well documented cases of rape of women, men and children. Al Farah says his friends urged him to move on, marry a good woman, make a new family. One of his friends set him up with his sister and they fell in love. He calls her his everything, his mother, his father, his friend. He now has three sons with his new wife. The youngest is baby Muhammad, about a year old. He squirms on Al Faraz lap and toddles off to examine a drainpipe. But even as he cuddles his youngest son, the hope of finding his older children and first wife won't leave him. He says he even asks his current wife, what will you do if I find my first wife, he tells us. My new wife lost her brother during the war and she understands the pain I'm feeling. And she told me, if you find your first wife, I'll put her in this eye before that eye. It's an Arab saying that means I'll honour her. And his sons, especially the oldest, know that something isn't right. His oldest son is eight. Now. He's aware of the world around him. He keeps asking about his older half siblings, particularly his sister, Islamic. She was five when she disappeared. In a photo Al Farah keeps on his phone, she's sitting in a garden. Her sandy hair touches her tanned shoulders. Al Farah is crying. He takes a deep breath and says, praise be to God and continues. My sons ask me, why don't you get her? Why don't you find her? And I tell them, I swear I'm trying.
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Aisha Roscoe
Thank you so much, Deah, for this reporting and for shining a light and being a voice for the missing during this time of so much uncertainty.
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Dia Hadid
Thank you for listening.
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Aisha Roscoe
That's NPR international correspondent Dia Hadid. This episode of the Sunday Story was produced by Justine Yan. It was edited by Jenny Schmidt and Vincent Nee. Maggie Luthor mastered the episode. The Sunday Story team includes Andrew Mambo and our senior supervising producer, Liana Simstrom. Irene Noguchi is our executive producer. I'm Aisha Roscoe. Up first is back tomorrow with all the news you need to start your week. Until then, have a great rest of your weekend.
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