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This is Wake up to Wealth, a podcast dedicated to helping you change the way you think about wealth. And now, here's your host, Brandon Brittingham.
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Hey, what's up everybody? We are here today on another episode of Wake up to Wealth. I have my good friend super excited about this. It's taken us a while to get here, but we're here today. Leo Pereja, who happens to now be the CEO of exp. Thank you for coming on the show today and taking your time to be with.
C
No, my pleasure. Always, always good time to spend time with friends.
B
So kind of crazy is you and I kind of got in real estate at the same time in very similar circles. And you've had, you know, pretty wild journey, you know, I mean, like for people that may not know you that are listening to this, like, give us the 3 minute of start to where you are now.
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The quick and dirty one is I got licensed at 19 years old. While I was in college, I went on to sell real estate for 16 years. In that journey, I learned a lot, failed a lot. But at one point I was the number one real estate agent in the world for Keller Williams. I sold close to 4,000 homes. The last eight years I was in production, I sold between four to six hundred homes like Love Systems and Processes, doing a lot with a little. During the financial crisis, I did a lot of REO and I saw the market shift with CFPB and Dodd Frank. I started a hard money lending business in hindsight, at the right time in 2012, grew that to a top 20 business in the United States from in the hard money lending space originating north of $2 billion. Learned how to sell debt to Wall street. And while I was building that business, I needed some data feeds. I went on to build a pretty large technology company that became pretty ubiquitous in the United states. North of 80% of every realtor in America had access to the software while I was running the business, exited both those businesses, thought I was kind of done with organized real estate. Thought I was going to go into either private equity finance or tech. Then I got a call from a mutual friend saying someone's going to call you, pick up the phone and turned out to be Glenn Sanford. And now I'm the CEO of the single largest brokerage on the planet, which is a pretty wild ride.
B
So you said a lot in a short period of time. And I don't want to glaze over the accomplishments and the achievements that you've had. Just like how do you reinvented yourself, so to speak. A Few times you've gotten into a few businesses and exited. One of the challenges that I think a lot of people have is their identity gets so held up in something that they're successful at and can't get around that to get into the next thing. So I'm sure it's a ton of lessons. But, like, what are, like, say one of your biggest lessons that you learned of kind of like transitioning to a couple of things and then you've been successful at every single one.
C
So successful is a, is a super, like, finished product. Yeah, word. Right. Because I've had some pretty cool successes, but I've also failed a lot.
B
Sure.
C
And at a bigger scale than most people ever fail. But it's getting back up and kind of swinging for the fences. But the other thing is, you know, I've never been ready. And I think that's like the biggest thing that people get stuck on. Like, I hear so many people say, well, when I'm ready, when this happens, when that happens, it's like. And the best analogy I have for it is like, when you take your kid home from the hospital. The first, the first kid, you're like, wait, I don't, I don't know how to be a parent. Like, is there an instruction manual for this?
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Yeah.
C
And that's how I could. And for most people that had a kid, it's like, oh, I get that feeling where you're like, mortified. You're like, this thing's going to stay with me and I'm going to keep it alive. I don't know how to do that, but you figure it out. And so I went from a college kid to a real estate agent. And I wasn't qualified at 19 years old to sell anybody real estate. And then I became an REO agent. I'd never done it before. And then I was a team leader. And then I started raising money, and then I started building software and I built and I sold debt to Wall Street. There's always a day one. There's always a zero to one process. And what I've learned in my journey is like, you should be paralyzed with fear until you do it. Public speaking is probably the best feeling of that. Statistically, I think it's second to death of fear. But you've done it. The biggest stages I've done, it's 6,000 people. And it doesn't matter how many times I've done it. I get that feeling in your stomach once the 30 seconds and you're in flow, you're good, you're good.
B
Yeah.
C
And I would compare that to everything I've experienced in life.
B
Right.
C
Like there's always a time you don't know.
B
Right.
C
And you get to choose to learn it. Because the cool thing that I feel like I experienced early was exposure to really successful people because I chose to like reach out to them and get into relationship with them. And once you start spending time with people, you're like, wait, they're just like me. Yeah, they, they put their pants on one leg at a time. All those, you know, kind of cliche things. But, you know, everything's learnable. Right. I always say it's like you're not an Olympic athlete. We're not. I'm not attempting to break any records physically or, you know, do brain surgery for the most part. Most things that other humans can do are very learnable and achievable.
B
So I'm going to go back to the private money. Right. Because I. So I think one of the things people get parallel, you know, people get paralyzed with fear. They think things are not possible or limiting belief or whatever. People get stuck there. So you, at a time when I was really unheard of, started selling paper to Wall Street. Started selling your notes to Wall Street. Like, how do you, you know, was that just an idea you had? And the reason why I want you to deconstruct that a little bit is because from the outside looking in, that just seems like, holy shit, this is impossible to figure out or think about. It's very common nowadays. Right, but then it wasn't. I mean, you're kind of a pioneer from that. I think that's where people get stuck of like, I can't achieve this. But you did something very remarkable early on, like walk me through that, if you don't mind.
C
Yeah, no, I actually think I was the first and you know, the cool part of my journey. Like you said reinvention. But from my point of view, it's been very sequential.
B
Yeah.
C
Right. So I was an agent, then I became an audio agent. And I point that out because that was, that was my first progression from like, I'm a self employed service provider, which is what a solo agent is, to I became a business owner, right? Right. When I went from 30, 40, 50 transactions a year by myself, right to 600 transactions. It didn't matter. Like the point that I was selling real estate I think is like less interest, like less important than the fact that I was processing a service with high touch, high deliverables, you know, with KPIs, like list to sell ratio, days in inventory, UPB. All this language that I had to learn that was actually more akin to finance. Right. And literally REO is real estate owned on a bank ledger. Right. And understanding how that went from an asset to a liability. Right. And how they discounted it and how they sold it often, because that actually taught me everything I needed to know for hard money.
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Sure.
C
Right. And then that's when I was talking to, that's where I made all my relationships with REO companies, hedge funds and banks. So I actually, through, you know, happenstance from saying yes and being uncomfortable, I was actually, you know, we're sitting in national harbor in Maryland, but like, you know, eight miles outweighs the White House.
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Right.
C
And I was actually in the White House while CFPB and Dodd Frank were being invented with a room of about 300 people. I was in my 20s, I shouldn't have been in the room. But I went to represent narep, right. For Gary Acosta because he couldn't get to the meeting in time. And I heard them say, you know, we're going to change this ability to repay and all these things. And I'm like, well, you're not going to be able to borrow money ever again to flip a house because a vacant home that produces no revenue, there's no ability to repay.
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Sure.
C
And so when I started lending, doing hard money the way it worked back then, it was basically mom and pop, wealthy folks in a submarket. But I had learned in that previous experience how debt is bought and sold. There's a coupon, there's a yield. I learned all these pieces of it. And I actually just called the same people I knew from REO who did lines of credit to investors. And I said, hey, I can sell you this paper. And it's got a great yield. And they're like, no one will buy paper with that short of a maturity. And what it took was explaining it, pitching it. And the people I convinced to buy my debt, which most people don't know this story, were the people who were early into sfr.
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Yes.
C
So the understood the colonies, the people who were deploying, had raised literally in the last six to 12 months of that time period, 10, 20, 50 million, $100 million to buy houses and couldn't buy them fast enough.
B
Right.
C
And they were sitting on $20 million, but it was earmarked for single family homes. So I said, take that bucket of money. It's in line with your pm. Like your fund mandate says you're going to get a yield on Single family homes. Just park it with me. And I presented it with a tape. And, and it was all relational, you know, I had to sign a bunch of extra paperwork in the beginning, but 612 months down the road, they're like, yo, how much of this can you get me? Right? Then, then it was, I started getting calls from strangers who like, hey, I heard you sold this tape. Can you give me more of that? And now it's a pretty robust, sophisticated market.
B
Yeah, yeah. And then, then eventually you, you sold, you exited from that business as well. Right. And then so you guys got to what, you know, what were you lending A year, you think?
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I think 400, $500 million a year.
B
Yeah. And that in what time period? Like how, how long did it take you to get there?
C
It's like everything else, right? It, some people who are not watching the process say it was like an overnight success. But it's, there's another concept I talk about which I say we're all remarkably average, right. It took about seven years.
B
Yeah.
C
And if you look statistically how long it takes you to scale a small to mid sized business, it's about seven years, Right. Like year one, two and three is an ass whooping.
B
Right. That's where most people don't make it past.
C
Right. Because of that, you're not making any money. You're probably writing checks.
B
Right.
C
And then like year four, you're like, okay, I think I got this then. And then you get your second ass whooping as you scale and you break stuff. And then it's normally like between year five and seven where you're like, oh.
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Okay, yeah, we've actually done something great.
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Yeah, I'm scaling, it's working, I'm making ebitda.
B
Yeah. One of the great points you just made there is you said year one to three, you're getting your ass kicked and you're probably writing checks. I think that's one of the biggest misnomers of becoming an entrepreneur or becoming a business owner that people, oh man, it's going to be easy. I'm going to work for myself. And it's like, that's probably the hardest thing you're ever going to do.
C
Well, what's that famous saying? You trade not having to work 40 hours to work 100 hours for yourself.
B
No doubt. So from there you go into tech again. Just because I think it's remarkable where you, you went from kind of. I mean they're all related to real estate, but you want a different industries. Like, you know, where did you see that you know what I mean? How did you see that and how did you make that?
C
Yeah, so. So again, sequential in, in like the moment, kind of on accident, but you know, looking back on it, it kind of makes sense.
B
Yeah.
C
But while we were building the hard money business, we built our own loan origination system from the ground up. Because there, there is no boom town for hard money lending.
B
It exists now, but it didn't then, correct? Yeah.
C
And so we wanted an API for public record data and we called a bunch of companies and we couldn't afford what they were selling. And funny enough, we participated in a hackathon back in 2015 that Zillow was hosting and the hackathon gave us access to this is national API and Zillow knows the story. My goal was to hit download when I got there and roll out. But they set it up so it was read only. And in 24 hours we hacked together a beta, an alpha of a product with two engineers and we won the whole thing, which shocked us included. And the reason was because we actually sold homes. Like we actually understood the process. And then we got invited to present what we built in an MLS forum like two months later. And all these MLS executives say, hey, you built that, we'll buy it. That seems really cool, like we'll be customers. And you know, just like everything else got really uncomfortable. Spent a whole bunch of my own money up front to build a product. We got some contracts signed. Once we, we had product market fit, we ended up raising $48 million of institutional capital. Built a pretty big business. And then that was another huge kind of learning curve or you know, maturation period for me because like I went from a self employed person to, to a business owner to now this is a growth business, right?
B
Yeah.
C
So this was the like for me that was the first time going from SMB lifestyle business to okay, this is a growth equity business where you're hoping to get to massive scale.
B
Sure.
C
And it's a different business. Technology has different metrics. Steve Case wrote a book, several books, the founder of aol. But he talks about the differences between a small to mid sized business, which is typically a lifestyle business. And I used to be offended when I was categorized as a lifestyle business. And actually now I think they're the best businesses in the world now that I've done all of them, including running a large enterprise like this one. Because a lifestyle business, which is what most real estate agents or investors, you're optimizing for your lifestyle.
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Sure.
C
And that's actually a great Thing, Not a bad thing.
B
No doubt.
C
And, and it, and I actually sit down with small business owners all the time and I'm like, look, the goal is not to work 100 hours a week. Right. You, you may have to do that for a short period of time to stabilize the business and build a system, but the goal is to eventually, again, there's no right or wrong. So I'm, I don't think the goal is to work zero hours either.
B
Right, right.
C
It's, it's to balance, you know, feeling self fulfilled, which is like essential human condition.
B
100%.
C
Right. Like there's, there's all kinds of psychological studies that showed that the industrial revolution was really bad for our mental health because people did the same thing over and over again. Didn't like, get to start to complete something and like supposedly like woodworkers and iron workers who take like a raw material and finish it to a finished product and like deliver you a chair actually get a whole high level of satisfaction. Like I know you do and I do from like buying a piece of dirt, rezoning it and building it into something. It's not only the money, but it's actually fun.
B
Sure.
C
Like, it's creative. Like if that's your gym.
B
Right.
C
Like, I love that. Like, I flipped personally 100 plus doors over here in DC, Maryland, Virginia and Capitol Heights and I loved taking an old busted, molded out property. Make it beautiful. Like, I like the process. It was very creative for me. And so I think the business, when you think of a lifestyle business, it's, it's, it's obviously income optimization, but it's also like, do you enjoy that?
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Yeah.
C
Like, is that fun for you?
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Yeah.
C
Right. And you know when people talk about businesses and they talk about like, what's the best way to build a business? I always tell people, like, have an honest conversation with how you're wired.
B
Yeah. What do you want?
C
Because like prospecting. It doesn't matter what business you're in. Like cold call prospecting works.
B
Yeah.
C
That's like playing in traffic for my DNA.
B
Right.
C
Like, I don't.
B
You don't want to do it?
C
I don't want to do it.
B
Yeah.
C
But for some people it works really. Like, I've interviewed some of our agents who like do it two hours a day religiously and make 400 grand a year.
B
Right.
C
Pick up their kids from school, drop them off at school, are super present with their spouse, like, and they're good with that. That's awesome.
B
That's what they want.
C
But like, you need to figure out a business that works for you, a business model that works for you and just optimizes for how you're. How you're wired.
B
I'm asking two more questions. One that's probably hard to nail this to one, but what do you think? And I always ask everybody this, and I'm always fascinated by the answers. What do you think is, like, one of the. And it could be an ideology. It could have been something specific you did. It could have been anything that you learned. What do you think is one of the biggest mistakes you made in your journey?
C
Well, that's a good one, because I feel like I've made so many. Oh, of course. So this one is. As I've gotten older.
B
Yeah.
C
I actually think about this daily. Yeah. It's to worry too much.
B
Yeah.
C
Right. Like, this concept is especially. I'm a parent now, and my parents are getting older. It's like, we only live, like, in a hundred year spans. Like, think about that. In 100 years, everyone you knew is going to be gone.
B
Yeah.
C
Like, period.
B
Yeah.
C
Like, you will. Like, statistically speaking, none of us know our great grandparents.
B
Right.
C
Right. Like, barely know their names.
B
Sure.
C
So, like, 99.9% of everything that happens to you is literally irrelevant. And when you. Again, that sounds kind of like, you know, depressing. But in the.
B
Think it's legitimate.
C
But in the. In the moment of, like, you're losing sleep at night, like, you're giving yourself, like, actual heartache.
B
Yeah.
C
And stress. And, you know, your brain can go to dark places in those moments. Of course, you're like, it's all good. Right. I don't know if you saw the other day on Facebook, I said, but did you die? Right. It's like. And that's actually the biggest lesson learned.
B
Right.
C
And I guess, you know, I think.
B
That having talked to you a lot and being around you, I think. I think you have a very calm demeanor with the amount of you're dealing with all the time. Do you know what I mean? Like, and you're very calm around all of it. You know what I mean? I think that, you know, I mean, it's like the best analogy I can give people that I coach, and I think that's great. What you just said is, you know, the fourth quarter, you're down by a touchdown, and you put it in the quarterback's hands. You know, go watch Tom Brady, Joe Montana, all the greats, they were always so calm in those situations.
C
So there's a.
B
There's a.
C
There's a couple things that like, are really clear in my head, like, because again, I love psychology. I love how the brain works. I love how we're wired as human beings. So first of all, like, you know, we're a product of evolution and so our brain is wired to keep us alive.
B
Correct.
C
Which means, like, all the stress and all these responses are biological to keep us alive. And, you know. But did you die? Is a really good question. And so one of the things is like, this is the life I chose.
B
Sure.
C
And I actually, I was at dinner with a friend of mine who's very successful developer last night, and he said something, I was like, but this is the life that we chose. You can always choose to do something else. And the aha that I got once was the human experience is problems. Like, I've never met a human being who was completely zenned out and had no problems independent of income and success.
B
Right. Right.
C
So, like a real problem is I don't have enough capital to raise for this amazing deal I locked up.
B
Right.
C
I don't have the right people to handle all the leads I've created.
B
Right.
C
I can't. I can't hire fast enough.
B
Right.
C
For customer service. Because my software is doing this.
B
Yeah.
C
Like, those are awesome. Those are problems.
B
Yeah.
C
You know what else is a problem?
B
That's a great problem.
C
But you know what else is a problem? I can't feed my kids.
B
Right.
C
I can't pay my rent.
B
Right.
C
I like, I can't take care of my parents.
B
Sure.
C
Like, they are both stressful. Of course I choose those.
B
Sure.
C
And I've. And with. To your point about me, it's like at all times there's always a crisis.
B
No doubt.
C
But I've chosen this life.
B
Sure.
C
Because the other one is also a very real tangible problem. But these are the ones I want.
B
No, that's. I think that's powerful. I'm ended with this the way I do with everybody. We call the show Waking up to Wealth. I call it show Waking up to wealth because I think we are all. We've been taught about money wrong. And we've been taught about how to get wealth wrong. So the reason why I bring people on here like you is to enlighten people out there to see and hear what's possible. But to you, what is Waking up to Wealth? And it's whatever your version is.
C
So the thing that I've come to really appreciate because my journey has been very focused around building wealth and creating wealth is I think there's the ultimate luxury is time. So I Think financial independence is something that has always been the goal while going on a wealth building journey. But time. And then I will add location independence, which are newer concepts to me. Right. So like, if you can build a business that doesn't physically require you to be there all the time and especially in a post Covid world.
B
Sure.
C
Right. I think Covid was super interesting because it was a mass experiment on like first. Have you questioned your mortality? Like, yeah, look, we were wiping groceries down.
B
Yeah.
C
And for a second we're like, oh shit, what happens if this is the end? And then I think a lot of people were like, well, I don't want to live here anymore. I want to live over there near the ocean, near the mountains, near my family, near my cousins. Like, so you had a lot of that where it's like, you know, at this interesting phase of life, like, I'm traveling like four months of the year with my family. Yeah, right. I just came back from Europe for a month. I'm going to spend next week, six weeks in the west coast. And so like, for me, it's not only like the financial independence was always the goal, but like having enough time to do the things that I want to do with the people I want to do it with. But also like the location independence is a really cool one for me now and again. It's also the phase of life I'm in. I'm 10 years from now, I may want something like maybe I want to be closer to my kids and their kids one day. Right.
B
So yeah, absolutely. Well, man, I greatly appreciate you. You dropped all kinds of gems, which I knew you would today. I know how busy you are, so taking the time to get on the show with us is greatly appreciated. I know my audience will appreciate it. And if you don't pay attention or follow this guy, find him on social media. Pay attention to him, follow him. He's a wealth of knowledge, super successful and lucky enough to call this guy one of my. Thanks, brother.
C
Thanks for having me, bro.
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Wake Up to Wealth Podcast: Reinventing Success with Leo Pareja
Episode Release Date: September 30, 2024
In this compelling episode of the Wake Up to Wealth Podcast, host Brandon Brittingham sits down with Leo Pareja, the CEO of EXP Realty, to delve into Leo’s remarkable journey through the realms of real estate, entrepreneurship, and wealth-building. Their conversation offers invaluable insights into reinvention, overcoming fear, and achieving financial independence.
Leo Pareja brings a wealth of experience to the table, having navigated multiple facets of the real estate industry with remarkable success. From obtaining his real estate license at 19 to becoming the CEO of the largest brokerage on the planet, Leo has consistently reinvented himself, embracing new challenges and opportunities along the way.
Leo Pareja’s Journey:
Brandon Brittingham kicks off the conversation by acknowledging Leo’s extensive list of accomplishments and his ability to continually reinvent himself across different industries.
Leo Pareja shares, “There’s always a day one. There’s always a zero to one process” (03:13), emphasizing the importance of embracing the unknown and continuously learning.
A central theme in Leo’s narrative is the role of fear and failure in his success. He candidly discusses how fear initially paralyzes but ultimately propels growth.
Notable Quote:
“You should be paralyzed with fear until you do it. Public speaking is probably the best feeling of that. Statistically, I think it's second to death of fear.”
— Leo Pareja 03:44
Leo emphasizes the necessity of stepping out of comfort zones, comparing entrepreneurial challenges to the learning curve of parenthood: “There’s always a time you don’t know… And you get to choose to learn it.”
Leo delves into his transition from being a real estate agent to a business owner and then to leading a large enterprise. He outlines the sequential growth of his ventures, highlighting key strategies and lessons learned.
Hard Money Lending Business:
— Leo Pareja 04:54
Technology Company:
Scaling Timeline:
“It took about seven years. Year one, two, and three is an ass whooping... year five and seven where you're like, oh, we've actually done something great.”
— Leo Pareja 11:00
The conversation shifts to the broader concept of wealth, where Leo redefines it beyond financial metrics to include time and location independence.
Ultimate Luxury—Time:
“The ultimate luxury is time. Financial independence is the goal, but time... and location independence are newer concepts to me.”
— Leo Pareja 22:07
Leo shares his personal lifestyle choices, balancing business growth with personal fulfillment, such as traveling with family and envisioning a future closer to his children.
Leo reflects on his journey, highlighting the critical mistake of worrying too much, which can lead to unnecessary stress and hinder progress.
Key Insight:
“99.9% of everything that happens to you is literally irrelevant... when you're losing sleep at night, you're giving yourself actual heartache.”
— Leo Pareja 17:57
He advocates for focusing on what truly matters and maintaining a calm demeanor amid crises, drawing parallels to how successful athletes handle high-pressure situations.
The episode concludes with a profound discussion on the true essence of wealth. Leo emphasizes that wealth is not just about accumulating money but also about having the freedom and flexibility to live life on one’s own terms.
Leo Pareja’s Definition:
“The ultimate luxury is time... having enough time to do the things that I want to do with the people I want to do it with.”
— Leo Pareja 22:07
He underscores the importance of building businesses that offer financial and location independence, allowing individuals to pursue their passions and maintain a balanced life.
Brandon Brittingham wraps up the episode by praising Leo’s insights and encouraging listeners to connect with him on social media for further knowledge and inspiration. The discussion leaves listeners with actionable advice on embracing fear, learning from failures, and redefining what true wealth means in their lives.
Closing Thoughts:
“Have an honest conversation with how you're wired... optimize for how you're wired.”
— Leo Pareja 16:39
Connect with Leo Pareja:
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