Watch What Crappens Episode #3125: Southern Charm S11E05 Part Two – “Pool Intentions”

Hosts: Ben Mandelker & Ronnie Karam
Date: December 18, 2025

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Ben and Ronnie dive into part two of Southern Charm Season 11, Episode 5, affectionately lampooning the cast’s Memorial Day pool party and the ongoing toxic-yet-endearing dynamic among Craig, Shep, and Austen. The hosts dissect the mundane logistics, petty conflicts, and subtle machinations among the cast, with their signature brand of affectionate ridicule and sharp improv. Expect affectionate Bravo shade, witty banter, and delicious dissection of Charleston’s finest mess-makers.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Grandma’s Infamous Cake

• Ben laments the tepid, ultimately unshown climax to the highly-teased cake storyline, noting, “I just felt like there was so much buildup about that cake… and then we just never see how it turns out.” (01:28-01:50)
• Ronnie riffs on southern grandma names, joking that a “plain grandma” can’t be trusted to bake:
  • “Let me tell you one thing. I don’t trust a Southern grandmother who’s not named Meemaw, Mimur, Mimi, Mama, Gigi, Gammy, Greg, Gray, Goom Goom, Bling, Ping Pong, Plonk, or Pong Pong.” (01:50-02:09)
• They both conclude the cake storyline is a metaphorical dud and just “not a good cake.” (02:39)

2. Craig’s Pool Party Planning Skills

• Setup for the party is full of failings: no umbrellas, questionable drink machines, little help from Jack the assistant (“Think ahead, Jack. Jackerson.” – Ronnie, 03:06)
• Ronnie: “You have a big backyard party and there’s no umbrellas. Hello. What are they gonna hide under, your Slurpee machine?” (03:06-03:13)
• Craig’s slapdash attempt at pina coladas in the frozen drink machine is mocked mercilessly:
  • “You will not make a pina colada. And I will bet my life on it.” (Ronnie, 03:36)
  • “We got an email from someone saying, could you be nicer to Craig? … Look at this man ruin the art of the pina colada and then tell me to be nicer.” (Ronnie, 04:04-04:20)
• Ben admits some Craig loyalty, “I wear my Sewing Down South sweatpants all over the place because they are incredibly comfortable.” (04:27)
• Tangent: Ben gets a mystery pizzelle maker, which he assumes will help him make stroopwafels. Ronnie: “Heated rivalry was boring and stupid. Free pizzelle maker—now that’s hot.” (05:42)
• The hosts agree: without Paige, Craig’s hosting skills (and the party) noticeably suffer.

3. The Core Toxic Trio’s (Craig, Shep, Austen) Relationship Drama

• Shep and Craig discuss the tension with Austen, with the hosts noting their cycle of fights and reconciliations:
  • “They just take turns... who are we gonna get this year? Let’s just rag on them the whole year until we break them down.” (Ronnie, 07:36)
• Ben: “They are kind of like a really compelling trio. I mean, they are so toxic to each other, but they always come back.” (07:54)
• The hosts break down the jealousy, projection, and codependency:
  • “Craig, who needs the most coddling on this cast, is now complaining that Austen needs coddling... classic projection.” (Ben, 11:12)
  • Ronnie: “You're supposed to invite over to hot tubs to cheat and then not tell anybody about it. That's the kind of friend group we're in.” (09:13)
• Ben analyzes Austen’s strategy to avoid Craig's party so he can return to Charleston for the real Memorial Day weekend: “It’s quite damning that he’s seeing Audrey on like non-prime days.” (11:44)

4. Party Guests, Gifts, and Oysters

• Notable early departures and functional gifts:
  • Vanita brings towels—“which was very nice.” (14:16)
• Charleston traditions and nostalgia are lampooned:
  • Ben: “Adult Memorial Day parties look exactly the same as when we were kids. Especially exactly the same.” (16:52)
• Hot takes on oysters:
  • “Give me six of them, and then just take me to the hepatitis clinic.” (Ben, 17:25)
  • “One adage that will always be good is, don’t have raw seafood at Craig’s house in blazing hot heat.” (Ben, 17:55)

5. The Molly-Vanita-Sally Vagina-Gate

• Gossip about Molly’s “rejuvenation surgery” ricochets among the cast:
  • “I'm very open about things I get done, but like, I just don't want to tell the entire world that I got my labia cut off.” (Molly, 22:25)
• Vanita’s attempts to play reality TV star come under affectionate fire:
  • Ben: “It’s so fun watching Vanita really try to do the reality star thing this season… doing the fake accountability thing.” (21:43)
• The trio circles around blame, accountability, and “fake” apologies.
• Ronnie: “No one’s labia is room. Yeah. Watch out, everyone.” (23:17)

6. Vanita, Sally, and the Friendship Triangle

• Vanita and Sally’s friendship hits bumpy territory over Craig:
  • Vanita: “You make it very hard being on your side when you’re on the side of someone I don't like.” (29:15)
  • Ben criticizes Sally, “I do feel like Sally is being kind of a shitty friend to Vanita about the Craig thing.” (29:55)
• Ronnie: “It’s kind of hypocritical, this whole thing. Whole thing. It’s hard to be on her side with this whole thing.” (29:33)

7. The Sad, Strange Memorial Day Pool Party

• The hosts note the boredom and awkwardness, highlighted by Shep’s annual Speedo appearance (“I need Lisa Kudrow to come in, dress like a cupcake, and just go, ‘I didn't need to see that.’ No one needs it.” – Ronnie, 30:59)
• Shep’s George Washington wig + Speedo is lampooned.

8. Craig and Madison’s Heart-to-Heart

• Madison gives Craig advice to talk about his feelings. Craig launches into a surprisingly self-aware monologue:
  • “I know I’m struggling, and I don’t know how to not be the fun guy at the bar… I shouldn’t equate not drinking with not being fun, but in my head, I don’t know if I believe that.” (Craig, 32:19)
• Ben calls out Craig’s “pop culture therapy speak": “People like Craig are so savvy about saying the right kind of stuff that... they've picked up from pop culture and all to, like, what you're supposed to say in that moment.” (33:45)

9. Late-Party Debrief and Submissive Charlie

• As guests dwindle, Charlie ends up running errands for the core group—Ronnie: “Why are we ordering Charlie around? … Because she does whatever we tell her to.” (37:11)
• The infamous pina colada machine never delivers: “You didn’t follow the instructions, Craig. It's a delicate ratio of ingredients.” (37:11)
• Brief speculation about a Craig/Sally hook-up, left cheekily unresolved as the hosts sign off.

Memorable Quotes & Moments

• Ronnie (on grandma names):

  “I don’t trust a Southern grandmother who’s not named Meemaw, Mimur, Mimi, Mama, Gigi, Gammy, Greg, Gray, Goom Goom, Bling, Ping Pong, Plonk, or Pong Pong.” (01:50)

• Ben (on party setup):

  “We will give Craig his due for the things he's due for. His arms look better than ever. He looks great. But he's failing on the party throwing front.” (04:27)

• Ronnie (on the trio):

  “They just take turns. It’s like they’re a three-person Housewives cast every season.” (07:36)

• Ben (on Sally’s role):

  “I do feel like Sally is being kind of a shitty friend to Vanita about the Craig thing because Craig was mean to Vanita.” (29:55)

• Ronnie (on Shep in a Speedo):

  “I need Lisa Kudrow to come in, dress like a cupcake, and just go, ‘I didn’t need to see that.’” (30:59)

• Ben (on the perils of summer oysters):

  “Don’t have raw seafood at Craig’s house in blazing hot heat. Don’t do it.” (17:55)

• Craig (pop therapy):

  “I know I’m struggling, and I don’t know how to not be the fun guy at the bar… I shouldn’t equate not drinking with not being fun, but in my head, I don’t know if I believe that.” (32:19)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 01:28 – Grandma’s cake storyline & Southern grandma names
• 03:29 – Craig’s haphazard party setup ("Get some shade, Jack!")
• 04:04 – The pina colada machine disaster
• 07:23 – The toxic trio’s friend-group dynamics
• 15:02 – Vanita’s towel diplomacy and “adulting” up the party
• 17:25 – Oysters in the summer: bad idea at Craig's house
• 20:27-23:17 – Vagina-gate confrontation (Molly, Vanita, Sally); “exploited my vagina”
• 29:15 – Sally & Vanita’s friendship on thin ice
• 30:59 – Shep’s Speedo tradition roasted
• 32:19 – Craig’s therapy-speak & Madison’s “be vulnerable” chat
• 37:11 – The never-frozen pina coladas; ordering Charlie around
• 37:54 – Hints of a possible Craig/Sally hook-up

Tone & Style

• The episode stays true to the hosts’ irreverent, mocking-yet-affectionate tone, peppered with improvisational character voices, jokes about Bravo tropes, and meta-commentary about the show’s storylines.
• They bounce between genuine analysis and sharp lampooning, always with a conspiratorial, inside-baseball tone for Bravo superfans.

Quick Takeaway

This recap delivers a full-bodied roast of Southern Charm’s pool party disaster and fraught interpersonal drama—highlighting the show’s blend of low-stakes feuds, Southern pageantry, and reality “star” attempts at authenticity and shade. The Watch What Crappens boys serve up exactly what fans crave: affectionate snark, Bravo in-jokes, and plenty of laughs at a party nobody would actually want to attend.

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