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Hey, it's Raj and Noah. And we're back with a new season of Am I Doing It Wrong? The show that explores the all too human anxieties we have about trying to get our lives right.
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Because we're still doing a lot of stuff wrong.
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But who isn't? That's why each week we're talking about the topics that we could all use a little helping hit with. Whether it's making new friends as an adult, managing our emotions, or even dreaming.
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We'll be talking to experts in their fields who are definitely doing things right. So the rest of us can be a bit wiser and a lot better equipped to handle whatever life throws at us.
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Subscribe now and listen to new episodes of Am I Doing It Wrong? Dropping every Thursday starting January 1st, wherever you get your podcasts.
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Thank you. Wow, look at that. Well, this is Bulgari. This is Chanel. This one is so tacky.
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I love how tacky Jennifer Tilly is. I would like. It's amazing how I find it gross with Amanda, but I find it hilarious with Jennifer. I don't care.
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She's like, guess what? Well, you'll never guess who made this. Chanel. It's the one of a kind, I guess.
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The thing is, it feels like with Jennifer, it feels like she put some effort into researching this stuff, learning about it, sourcing it, getting it, owning it. Like, it has. It has, like, the pedigree of, like, someone who is a collector and an enthusiast, as opposed to someone like Amanda who's like, I saw something that was expensive, and I bought it and I put it on, and I'm wearing it and I'm telling you about it. Right? Like, it. There's. There's a sense of Jennifer, of, like, pride and joy. This industry curated this. There really is. There really is. And. And in a way, that also is what makes Rachel Zoe, when she does go shopping, it's. It is more fun to watch than, like, someone else going shopping, because for her, it really is kind of like, this is her get down, and this is. This is her quote, unquote art, right?
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So I think that's fashion, as opposed to some lady from Oklahoma with a fanny pack walking in and just buying something that says LV all over it. That's what it is. Yeah.
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Las Vegas. That's where I'm having my egg houses. Did you use the agency?
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I put six eggs on the double zero. Wish me luck.
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Does that count as eight eggs, then?
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Double zero?
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Yeah, it's a roulette bet. So Sutton's like, well, after spending some time with Amanda, I have some reservations, because Amanda's coming in. She's like, hi, how are you, everybody? She's kind of doing. Kyle's like, hi, how are you? All kind of thing to everybody. And Sutton does not like this girl. I have some reservations. Really? Because you didn't have reservations when you were planning that trip. Airport, restaurant, force her. And so. And I think she is much more calculated than I thought. I squint, I squint, I squint, I squint.
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But also, says the woman who's, like, actively always trying to become Kyle Richards bestie, and she's complaining about someone being calculated, and that's, like, Kyle's the queen of that. Okay, so then, of course, now here we have arrived at the let's see what everyone is wearing section. So, like, like, look at my Kelly bag. Look at my Kelly bag. Look at my mini Kelly bag. And you know what's so funny, Ronnie? I'm sure you were looking for this, too, but we guested on Amy Odell's podcast Back Row, which will be coming out soon. And Amy Odell is a fashion writer, and we talked about fashion on the Real Housewives. And one thing that Amy informed us of, which, of course, we didn't know, because as we've Mentioned before, we're not fashion gays is that you're not supposed to have your nice Hermes bags unclasped and unbuckled. So now I noticed and these bags were all flopping all over the place.
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All of every single one of them. It is funny because she's like, why are their bags always open? And I was like, I don't, I mean I never really thought about it, but yeah, I noticed the same thing in this scene. Like every bag is just falling open, flopped open.
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And I was like, now I can't not see it. And it's so funny to me. Big floppy open Hermes bags.
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And Dorit bought an $11,000 mini Kelly and she's like, I bought it for.
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Me birthday cause I just signed a Libra deal. That's book in French or Spanish. Who knows?
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Who knows really? Probably both. Dori, you have $5 to your name and you spent the first money from your advance on an eleven thousand dollar purse. Girl, you gotta start worrying about them. Kids, come on now.
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I know, I know, by the way. So I, I, of course I was like, got paranoid that I was misstating something. So I, I googled are Hermes bags supposed to be open? And the first thing that comes up is something on Reddit, which is a shot of Bethany Frankel of all people holding a bag. And someone says, I just need to know other people's opinions here as I will never be able to own an Hermes bag. So I have no idea. But is the clasp open like a look? Are they difficult to lock shut? Because I see so many celebs posing with them open. It drives me nuts. And apparently they are very difficult to open and close.
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And that's, yeah, that's what Amy was telling us on the show, that they're notoriously difficult to open and that that's why people did it, remember? Because I was like, well, why? That pisses me off about expensive things. It's like, oh wow, here's her $15,000 bag. Good luck closing it like you're $15,000. It should be like electronic. It should be hooked to my brain where I say close my purse and then it closes. Like why are things more terrible when they're more expensive and more of a.
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Pain in the ass?
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You know, I just don't get that.
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I would like to try to open one one and close it and then I will be the final judge on how hard it is because I mean, I can see it being stubborn, but I would also like to know, I need, I would like to source An Hermes bag and be like, 11 graces, please. Thank you.
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Yeah, go get yourself an 11 grand bag.
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I'm just gonna touch it and see how it goes. But you know what? It makes me think of? You know what? And it makes me think of something that I actually think of all the time almost every single day, which is the shot from a few years ago when Dorit filled a teapot from the snout. Remove the spout, not the snout from the spout, instead of the top. Remember when she did that? And why are you doing that? You don't remember?
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Instead of the top? What do you mean? Like, she was putting the water into the little tiny hole instead of the big hole.
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Yeah, she had the front. Do you remember that? Okay, and here, that's funny. Here's why, here's why I think about. Because there are times when I am refilling my, my, my tea kettle and I, you know, the, the spout is open, and sometimes you think I could just angled this whole thing so I just refill it right like that, like Doritos, but I'm like, that's so lazy. The least I can do is close that spout and open the top part and fill it up from there. Like, that's, it's, that's all I have to do. And so when I think of the Hermes bags with like, Dorit and Bethany just leaving them dangling open, I was like, you can't do the simplest thing just to close them up.
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Well, apparently it's not simple because there's entire articles written about it and now multiple podcasts talking about it.
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So it just speaks to a pattern of behavior with Dorit. First the tea kettle, then the Hermes bags.
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But I like that Dorit has seeped into your personal life like that over the years too. Like, it's been a thing that's, that's been going on for years. And I love that for Dorit because she's talking about how impactful her book is. Like, you didn't even need to write a book. You've affected Ben's life to this point just from filling a tea kettle.
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I mean, I, I, I can't, I can't believe you don't remember the tea kettle moment. There's actually a thread.
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There.
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I just did a search for Dorit teakettle to show you a picture, and there is a thread on Reddit. There's a picture of Dorit filling the tea kettle from the spout, and the headline is, was Dorit ever likable? Like, this is such a obnoxious way to fill a tea kettle. But the truth is that a lot of people. When she did that, a lot of people admitted that that's how they fill their tea kettles as well.
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And then it became like, a thing. Like, how do you feel your tea cattle? Let's vote. We're putting up a poll. Sorry.
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Yeah, I really. I took this weird place.
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Interesting. Interesting stuff. So Sutton's like. She's proud of Dorit, I guess. Or she's pretending to be because she's like, new Sutton because she's had a therapy session with Reba. So she's like, well, you know, I think when you get divorced, it's important to have ownership in your life that's not connected to a man, and that's really amazing. And it's important. It's important. So congratulations to. Great.
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It's.
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And that it's important to have ownership of something that's not connected to a man, but is about a man instead. Unburdened on shelves in April. So then everyone's going, book deal, book.
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Deal, book deal, book deal. You know, it's so nice to get support from these ladies. Like, fina lamente. That means at last in some language. I'm not. Not sure.
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File me nails as soon as possible. They're getting really, really long, I think probably.
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Who cares?
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So they come back to the party, and Natalie is the first one to sit with the tarot card reader. And the tarot card reader is like, wow, someone needs a blanket. Oh, my God. How did you know?
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I'm a psychic, babe. I'm psychic.
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Someone get her a blanket.
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Okay. Oh, my God, look at this card. There's a man on it. And Natalie's like, who is this? Is this boyfriend? Do I need a boyfriend? He looks like an artist. Oh, my God. Well, it's so funny because he looks like he's from Brooklyn. I mean, come on. This is crazy. You're reading my mind. I'm like, natalie, you're giving her all the answers. Like, let's ixnate on the ooze clay. Okay.
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Yeah. And also, I like that they're looking at the actual card. They're like, oh, my God, in this card, he looks like an artist.
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It's like.
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It's the drawing on the card. So they laugh. And then Erica is asking Dorit.
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She's like, so did she go off again? How about that? Who's going to write the book?
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And she's like, I did.
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It's a mother, daughter, du.
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A what?
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Mother, daughter, du.
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I don't Know what you're saying. It's a mother and a daughter.
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All right. Yeah.
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So Amanda's like, oh, like a ghostwriter.
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She's. Well, a co author.
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Ghostwriter, sure.
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Whatever. Whichever term you'd like.
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And she goes, yeah, well, I just sat down and wrote. Yeah, I just, like, sat down and wrote my book, so.
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Well, it's more for time. You know, all the things I do. Let me list them. You see how long it's taking.
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And Amanda's like, well, I just, like, wrote my book, so. I mean, who doesn't just write their book?
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Yeah.
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You know what I mean? Like, you know what I did? I, like, sat down and I wrote. That's crazy.
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It's almost.
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You want to write a book? I was like, sure. So I wrote the book. Like, she just keeps going and going.
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She goes, so? Yeah, Dorit is like, well, you know.
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I have a ghostwriter. It's more for time.
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And Amanda goes, well, I just wrote my book.
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Oh, well, you must have had a lot of time.
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I was like, okay, the season has come to life at long last. That was such a great line when she said, you must have had a lot of time. Ooh, I love that prickly dorit moment. And so Erica's like, I'm happy for.
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You that you wrote a book all by yourself. I did not. I use Brian moylan.
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And dorit definitely will not because she's an idiot. Let's face it, she can barely count to three without getting distracted.
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But if dorit wrote it herself, it would never come out. Let's.
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Let's be honest, okay?
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For someone who claims to be an author, she sure doesn't know how to read the room.
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Mm.
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Hey, it's Raj and Noah, and we're back with a new season of Am I Doing It Wrong? The show that explores the all too human anxieties we have about trying to get our lives right.
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Because we're still doing a lot of stuff wrong.
A
But who isn't? That's why each week we're talking about the topics that we could all use a little helping hit with. Whether it's making new friends as an adult, managing our emotions, or even dreaming.
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We'll be talking to experts in their fields who are definitely doing things right. So the rest of us can be a bit wiser and a lot better equipped to handle whatever life throws at us.
A
Subscribe now and listen to new episodes of Am I Doing It Wrong? Dropping every Thursday starting January 1st, wherever you get your podcasts.
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And for the first time ever, we're going to have full video episodes on YouTube, because as long as there are things to get wrong, we're going to be right here to help you, too.
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Them better. Love y'. All.
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Guys, guys, guys, Is that food over there? I think I need something to eat. Guys, let's. I want to talk about hats over there. Come on, it's two tens. Let's. Let's, like, let's chill out, everyone. Yeah, everyone, let's get food.
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Okay, so Amanda's like, okay, well, tell me about this co author thing, Kyle, because, like, it didn't even occur to me to not just sit down and write a book. I mean, my God, she's like, I think it depends on the writing style. Yeah, because, like, I mean, I guess I'm a writer then, because, like, a big part of my job is, like, writing before I wrote the book. Oh, my God, Amanda, congratulations. But if only people who could actually write wrote biographies, there would be nothing in that section. It would be like, five bucks. Writing is something that people work at to get good at, and people like Dorit are not that. So if you ever want to know their story, you're either going to have to go to Instagram to look at all their pictures, or you're going to have to have them tell that story to somebody who can form a sentence.
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But also, her marveling at the idea of a ghostwriter is. First of all, it's. It's a lie. She knows what a ghostwriter is, but it's obviously she's trying to flex. But, like, you're 30 something, whatever. You know what a ghostwriter is, you know what it's there for. You have a book. You've heard of it. You were probably offered one when you wrote your book. Like, let's not be an idiot here, okay?
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Also, your books are extended bullshit pamphlets on manifestation, which is just like copied from 90 million other pop psychology bullshit books that have come out before you. It's not like you're writing Grapes of Calm down over there. I've seen your website font. Okay? Author.
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So she's basically like, yeah, I never even occurred to me to like, just like, not sit down and write my book. I mean, I guess I'm a writer. Like, a big part of my job was just like writing before I wrote the book. Like, I was a writer. And that's why I just never occurred to me. And they're just like this girl. So Erica, Rachel, and Dorit are now huddled in a corner talking about Amanda.
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And Erica's like, oh, I wrote my book. I wrote my book.
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Okay, well, you had a lot of time on your hands. Remember when I said that before? I'm saying it again now because it was such a good diss. This. This. You've been dis by Dorit.
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But, like, why are we one upping our mediocrity achievements? You know? It's like, wow. Like, I wrote a book that no one's gonna read. No, I actually wrote a book that, like, who cares? Like, who reads?
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Yeah, I'm like a New York Times best selling author.
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Yeah. And I'm like a two time New York Times bestselling author. Like, why are we one upping? Why is she at one upping so many people? Okay, how many a bestselling author, Kyle? I don't tell anyone. I mean, I just told you guys after you said you wrote one time. I said I was a two time bestselling author. Like, whatever. I hate those.
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So they're all high fiving Rachel. And she's like, like, Amanda, like, are you okay? Like, what? Like, isn't there something in your brain that, like, blocks you from saying something like that? Like, you don't need to put someone else down to lift yourself up.
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Well, you on Bravo. Yes, you do, actually.
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That.
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That is true. So Now Sutton joins. I mean, literally, like almost the entire cast is standing in a tiny pack in the corner gossiping about Amanda, which is so funny. And Rachel is like, oh, my God, isn't this the best? Oh, my God. Look, look.
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Look at this.
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It's caviar. Look at this caviar. Isn't this the best way to eat caviar?
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It's.
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It's row. Row Caviar.
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Yeah. We put Row over here and then we put Wade over there, and then we just spend the dinner watching them fight.
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Did you know that this caviar is like a best selling author? Didn't even have to brag about it. It's crazy. As a new girl, when I opened.
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This caviar, I told it, congratulations. I'm a two time best selling author, but good job.
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I die, you know, like, as in, like, I don't like what she said about the book, okay? As the new girl in town, like, that's fucking bold. But, like, tell me what she said about you. Tell me. Tell me something goes. Okay, well, Amanda thinks, Dorit, that you're talking too much about the divorce and that it might come back to bite you.
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She said that? She said it.
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She said it.
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She has a lot of time on her hands.
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And Dorit's. Sutton's like, and then she said she's worried about you talking too much about PK being a.
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Alcoholic.
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Terror said it. Okay? I said it. And so we see a flashback of Amanda being like, yeah, like, oh, no, Amanda, when she was with Dorit saying, oh, yeah. I'm praying for you to read after everything you told me. I hope you get good sleep, you know, and I hope you have good vibes. And her being like, oh, thank you, Manda, dearie.
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No, that is so kind. That is kind of you.
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I had lunch with Amanda several weeks back. No fish sandwich, I'd like to add. And she never expressed any single word about any of those concerns. So it's pretty odd that now she has a different opinion when my back is turned. Very odd indeed.
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And so then we would come back to the party and she's like, for.
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The record, I didn't out pk. He did that by being a flagrant, insane, over the top poster boy, poster child for alcoholism.
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Full blown. I didn't out him. I would never, ever, ever discuss it without his approval. I specifically said, pk, I'm going to call you a full blown egoholic on television.
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He loved it.
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He loved the idea. Absolutely loved it.
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Pk, if you don't want Me just to call you a full blown alcoholic. You have the next 3 seconds to respond to this email. 3, 2, 1. I will take that as a yes. It's okay. See, I approved. I got approval.
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Finally comes. Yeah. Kathy finally comes, and Jennifer is sitting down for her reading, and they pull a card for her and she's like, oh, my God, this card has not come out the entire time. It's one of my favorites.
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Is it Chanel?
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No, it's a picture. It's called the Empress. See, look, it's an empress. Isn't that nice? Empress.
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She's pregnant and she's sitting cross legged in the grass.
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And Jennifer's like, oh, well, maybe she had one too many pizzas. Not pregnant with possibility. Of course. I'm not pregnant, I can tell you that much. I am hungry, though. Is there pizza here? This lady has told me I'm about to eat one.
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Well, look at this.
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Oh, my God. Here's another one. As a lady on this card who's blonde, what do you think about that, Jennifer?
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This one looks like my friend Saturn. She's wearing a pink and holding a cake just like satin. Oh, does she have one where she's holding the head of the decapitated head of an assistant who didn't bring her the proper round ice cubes and is now talking her in gay bars?
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So Jennifer says that, like, Sutton is her very good friend of 18 years. And the psychic is like, do you feel like, you know, is she. Is she someone you feel like you can lean on a little bit? And Jennifer's like, she sort of does this prayer hands. Like, yes, it's so true.
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And meanwhile, don't you think that the psychic. I was getting the vibe that the psychic was like, oh, here's a blonde lady.
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She's like, oh, yeah. Session and Sutton took. She's wonderful. She's been my friend of 18 years.
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I felt like this lady was like, this. This blonde lady's about to come for you, you know? Yeah. Jennifer is just like, no, we're friends.
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Everything's great with Sutton.
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So sudden. Meanwhile, has interesting things to talk about. She's like, guys, did you see when we were on the plane and Bose's peanuts went everywhere and Kathy's. What? Peanuts? Oh, peanuts. I thought you said penis. Where's bows? Anyway, And Amanda's like, oh, her egg retrieval was Wednesday. It's funny because it's just like she. When I got my egg retrieval, it was on a Tuesday. So it's just like one day earlier in the week. I don't know. Just a little bit better. Better day in the week.
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Satin. I had my cards done, and the card came up that looked like you, and she was wearing a pink dress and holding a cake. And I said, this is Sutton. And then the card. Said card was kind of mean to me. But, you know, I take it because the card was going through a very hard time, and I support the card. So where's the cake? Do you have a cake? Please have a cake. Do you have a cake? Satin.
D
So sun's base. Like, can we talk? So they go over to talk. She goes, okay, so I have to talk to you about this, because my feelings are super hurt. I talked to Kyle, and Kyle told me that you said, I'm always the one stirring up trouble, and that's why Garcelle doesn't want to be friends with me. And we. By the way, we see a flashback to this in about a second where Jennifer does not say any of those words.
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She doesn't say that at all. What are you talking about? Kyle didn't even say that. I mean, Kyle. Kyle was an. For running straight to you to tell. To tell on Jennifer, but Kyle told it at least somewhat. Truly, Sutton's just making stuff up.
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She's like, oh, Sutton, I didn't say that.
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Well, that's why Garcelle didn't want to be friends with me.
E
Really? No, I didn't say that.
F
And so we see Jennifer saying she doesn't like to be snapped at for no reason. And all of her friends give Sutton a pass because she's so fragile, but it's just too much. And that's one of the reasons Garcelle left, because it's always all about Sutton.
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So Jennifer's like, well, I felt like I needed to leave the room because I felt like, why am I here if I can't speak? And he. I was venting a little bit, and I don't remember exactly what I said, but maybe it was similar to what I was feeling. And if I had it all to do over, I would say, where's the cake? You were holding the cake in the card.
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And basically, Jennifer says that, like, after Garcelle left, she started to re examine her own relationship with Sutton. And, you know, she sort of had this feeling of, like, you know, like, I would never speak to Sutton in the way that Sutton spoke to me. And so it was, like, really unfair that she spoke to me in that way, which is a very fair feeling to have. So Sutton's like, well, it just took.
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Me back to the Past took me.
D
From Brown to Strack, and because I've just been really trying so hard not to be so reactive. I just. I don't want us to mess up. Okay? Yeah. Listen, Sutton, I. I really appreciate that you're trying really hard not to be so reactive, but, like, that's why you're on this show. Please be reactive. That's what I need from you, Sutton. I need you to be reactive at all times, because that's my pleasure zone.
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Well, and also, Sutton, you were reactive in that moment. You were rude, you were shitty. You snapped at everybody, but you snapped at your best friend and upset her. And she's being honest with you and telling you that now, and you're still not apologizing. You're forgiving her. Like, what the. Like, come on, man, you are in the wrong. Apologize to your friend. You know, and sure, Jennifer was in the wrong about talking about it, but Jennifer is apologizing, and so it's just like, okay, you're forgiven. Let's just let that go now. Like, oh, no, no, no, no. Yeah, Something needs to get her together, because that's not cool.
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So. So I'm saying I have started to do work on myself, and. But in Sedona, I snapped at Jennifer, and I should not have done that. And I need to take a minute to breathe. Or as my mom would tell me, count to five. Yeah, that's right. That's.
C
That's what the.
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That's what you pay thousands of dollars for for therapy.
C
Count to five.
D
So Jennifer, Jennifer, she's choked up. Like, she clearly is. You know, she's uncomfortable with confrontation, clearly. And they base. They love each other. They hug.
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And Jennifer's like, I'm really sorry, and I'm going to do better, but. Because I want to be a ride or die.
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And she's like, well, we are that mainly, you know, we're just. We're best friends. So come on. Come on. So they go, I like that.
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Jennifer called it.
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I want us to be a ride and die. That's what we're going to be. Going to ride together, and we're going to die together.
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We are. Come on, baby. Movie star. Come on. You're not going to get an apology form from me, but come on. I like to see tears.
C
That was fun.
F
So we go back to Dorit's reading, and Dorit's like, oh, for someone who.
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Needs a ghostwriter, I'm sure getting a reading, Amanda. And so she's like, don't be afraid. Tell me everything. Anything, even if it's bad or what have you. Pk, full blown.
C
Is there a card for Pringles?
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So. So the psychic gathers her tarot cards and a car just flops out by accident. And it's like, is it. I don't know. I don't know. You did tarot, right?
F
I don't know.
D
Was that the death card or the swords card or whatever it was?
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It was the Seven of Swords or something, like, sticking out of a brain. And this. This is like, the only drawing we've seen that's not like some lit, like, beach read cover.
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And it's.
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It's just like an open brain with, like, seven knives stabbing down into it. She's like, oh. Oh, my good.
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What does that mean? Oh, the sword sticking out of a head.
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I believe this is the noise, roughly, that was coming out of her eyeballs in that moment. Young ladies, welcome, welcome.
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I'm now officially getting the impression that this lady doesn't know what the fuck she's doing. Because every time she picks a card.
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She'S like, this is a blonde lady.
F
So there's a blonde lady. There's a blonde lady in the. Oh, look, there's a man on the card. I see a man coming into your life. Like, she's really bad. And this one, there's swords sticking out of the head. And she goes, well, it's, I guess an ending. Like a hard ending. Yeah, there's. There's knives sticking in the brain lady.
D
But also, like, a lot of, like, that's still pretty generic, I have to say. Later in the evening, when we have the Valley Persian style, there's a psychic on there who does some very good work. Like, she's giving specific details about choreography from childhood. And this lady is like, meals you've eaten within the past seven days, haven't you?
C
I did. How did you know that?
F
So you digest food? No. So now it's time for dinner. Everybody gathers around the table, and Rachel's like, oh, my God. Speech time. Wow. Hot girl. Summer, Am I right? It better be started. Like, thank God I keep, like, 600 candles on hand because, like, otherwise, death. Okay, enjoy your food. Like, I'll enjoy watching you eat it.
D
By the way, I'm missing Bose right now. But she did call me and give me permission to share the news, which is she was upgraded to presidential suite. Yeah. Great news in Vegas. Great news. She spent a lot on the table.
F
She's got, like, eggs happening. And she also got three of the Audrey 2 monster on the Little Shop of Horrors machine. And Won like a hundred dollars. So it was pretty cool. They're like, oh, yay.
E
Yay for bows.
D
She has a yard long right now with Margarita. She's having a great time. So she got. We do have an update, which is that Bose was able to get two eggs and they'll be test commercials.
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Here comes one right now.
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So now the women are, like, talking and serving themselves and everything, and they're learning about. Natalie's talking to Amanda. And Natalie's like, so where are you from? Amanda's like, I'm from Oklahoma, but I moved to Montecito in 2017 because I'm the money queen. And I basically, like, wrote so many books up there because I'm like, really talented. So, yeah, you're welcome for knowing me.
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Yeah. So Amanda's like, don't forget I need a reading. And she's like, yeah, I had a feeling you might say that she was. What are you psychic to the psychic? So Amanda's like, yeah, I've been to psychics. I've been to energy healers. I've been to intuitive guide. Like, yeah, I've stolen everything from them. I'm Amanda Francis.
C
This.
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I'm like, woo, woo. Everybody knows that. Everybody knows I'm Amanda Francis.
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So.
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Oh, go ahead.
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Angie pulls a card that's, like, next to. It's a woman near a money tree. And Amanda's like, money tree? Like, talk to me about this money queen. You know about the money queen. That's me. That's me. So Angie's like, You are a manifester times 100. Do people say that to you a lot? She's like, I write books. I write books on manifesting for a living. Like, I wrote a book called Rich As. That's so hilarious.
F
And so Angie's like, oh, my God, this is amazing. I'm so psychic. And she goes, so are you a medium as well? And she goes, I mean, sometimes, but I can't really control it. But depending on exactly what you want me to say, I could do that. She's like, so do you feel anything on me? She goes, no, no, I can't. She goes, that's okay. My child died. I was like, oh, my gosh. So then she tells her that this is the anniversary of her child's death, and she was hoping this was a moment that the child would come through. And she's like, okay, can we just go back to the cards? Look, the poor lady's like.
D
And she's like.
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She's like, count to five. Hey, wait a minute. You stole that from my mother.
D
I was impressed that Angie the psychic did not try to like her way through being a medium. She was like, yeah, you know what? I'm on camera. I'm just gonna say, no, I'm not feeling anything. But this was actually quite sad because, well, of course, the day is inherently sad for Amanda and the. And everything about it is sad, but it is sad when she, you know, she. Considering that she's really into all the woo woo. She's talked about how Eddie is constantly having these moments where. Where he feels Zion and she never feels. It never feels Zion. And she's like, really trying to have these moments to feel Zion and she can't get there. And I was like, that's so sad. That's like really, really, really, like, heartbreaking.
F
So then back at the dinner table, Kyle's like, so, did you talk to Jennifer Sutton? What happened? Did you talk Fucking Kyle. My God, give it a rest.
D
Jesus.
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So stuck. What? She didn't remember saying it. Kyle's oh, so you think I made it up? She's like, no, not necessarily, but, you know, we can talk about it in front of y'. All. It was. I was kind of gutted and my breath was taken away.
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And Jennifer's like, well, we're making a mountain out of a molehill, actually, which I don't.
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You know, it's like she's visibly uncomfortable.
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Are you calling me a mole? Are you saying I'm a mole? Am I a little rodent? Is that what you're trying to say. She's like, well, I just.
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I remember things, but, like, I don't remember what they were, but, like, because I'm always very protective of you in our friendship, it wasn't me being like, oh, what a right. You know?
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And so Kathy's like, what's going on down there? Is it about Bose's penis?
E
Nothing's going on. Kyle was asking us about a thing, and then it got quiet, and then people started coming up. Am I making things worse? I don't even know. America's like, no, you're not making things worse. Oh, God, somebody do something in this goddamn party where all the dicks were supposed to paint. Jesus. Jesus Christ. And Rico, speaking of context, about things flowing out of moods, because I think you're going to be fine, Jennifer. Whatever.
D
So now button on your fight. Your fight is done now. That was nice.
E
I want to get your take, Amanda, on the discussion of my divorce, because I heard you had concerns about the way I've been speaking about the father of my children.
D
Well, Kyle and I spoke a little bit about how it could make your situation harder with the custody. So that's basically it. God's like, yeah, where did you hear this, by the way? Where'd you hear this? You did. Like, can we get mad at someone else? And of course she's like, I heard it from Sutton. So something's like, what, huh?
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What, huh?
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And Amanda's like, what day was this, by the way?
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Where do you think it. Because it doesn't matter what day it was. If it came out of your mouth, would it be different on a Tuesday.
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Than it would be on a full blown nickel hoolig D?
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Amanda's like, can I be really, really honest? Zion died three days, three years ago, and I'm just hanging on by a thread. And everyone's like. And then Kathy goes, is that your dog? She goes, my son. And then it cuts the commercial, and I was like, oh, my God.
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Is that your dog?
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Oh, my God, oh, my God. So we come back and she's like, no, that's Kanan's twin. And everybody's like, oh, my God, Holy shit. And Rachel's like, oh, my God, I had no idea. And Sutton's like, oh, my God, no.
E
What?
F
How did nobody know? And so everybody looks distraught. I mean, like, completely mortified, you know, and they don't know what to say. And so there's a big, long pause, and Dorit just goes, wow, I'm sorry.
E
You know, that it landed on a day like this. Maybe we'll have the conversation again right now. But I'm just curious because having an opinion as someone who doesn't know me.
F
My sitation or me husband and actually said to me that you thought about me and you prayed for me. And she goes, yeah, but that was all true. I have been thinking about you because you're going through a hard time. And I think that day, Dorit just doesn't give it up. I was cringing my butthole.
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I was like.
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I was like, oh, my God.
D
She's like, so she's like, I think I agreed with Kyle. I don't remember having very many strong feelings about it other than agreeing with you, Kyle, which was great. I love that she actually did this because, you know, Kyle. Kyle was happy to have Amanda, you know, take all the heat. And so it's like, let's. I don't really recall. Like, I don't really recall. And so we see a flashback of one week earlier and Colin, Amanda are talking about the divorce and. Cause, like, she's clearly very upset. Cuckoo cacao, am I right? I mean, PK says, like, he's actually been an angel. And Dorit is like, crazy. And Amanda is like, yeah, but bringing it all to her friends over and over. Is that very wise? Because, like, it worries me. So we see that, like, Kyle was just as guilty as Amanda in this situation.
F
Kyle was more guilty because she was the one bringing it up. Amanda was just commenting on what Kyle was saying. Right. As far as I can. So anyway, Dorit's like, oh, so you.
E
Do you think you hijacked Kyle's thoughts, who is new me for 10 years and made it your own thoughts? Is that maybe what you did?
F
And Kyle's just like, oh, she's just, like, looking away, doing that, Kyle, like, awkward. And Amanda's like, so do you think it's fair to bring this to me when I just shared what I'm going through today? Like, this is a hard day. My kid died.
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And she goes, well, listen, you can say that.
F
I'm like, oh, no, Dorit. No, you're doing it again.
C
No.
D
Yes.
C
Yeah.
D
Yeah. I mean, like, it's. Once this. Once this card has been played, you. It's kind of like, you know, this is like saying we're postponing the game. There's thunderstorms. This baseball game has been postponed until Tuesday.
F
You know, like, and from the other side, you can. You know, from the other side, of course there is the argument, like, bringing up your child's death in, like, a petty argument on housewives to, like, as a blocker is maybe not that tasteful. Okay. And then saying, like, my kid died. Okay. You know, everyone deals with things in their own way, but the fact is, even if you think it's a card and someone shouldn't be playing that card and it's not fair, etc. Etc. It is still a card. You don't. With. That is the car.
D
That's one of the cards. Just don't do it.
F
Like, what's wrong with you?
D
A hundred percent. A hundred percent. So, I mean, I have to. I have.
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I'm.
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I. When Amanda said it, I 100% believe this is something that is consuming her. I also felt a little cringy because the cynic in me felt like she was trying to kind of say, stopping this conversation. Right. But like, you said, whether.
F
What?
D
For whatever reason that it came up, it is like. It is a hard stop at that point.
F
Yeah.
D
I'm gonna drive this car through the wall.
F
She is really just like. She says, listen, you can say that. And she goes, yeah, you're not very.
E
Amanda. I'm not trying to be anything other than conversational. And if you're not ready to have this conversation, it's fine. I respect your wishes 100%.
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And she's like, yeah, I was saying it could make a custody hearing more complicated. Oh, so we can have the conversation because I'm happy to, like, oh, no. Oh, my God.
D
Just stop, please. She's like, I just want to go home.
C
Okay, so then we should have the conversation another time. How about in about 30 seconds? Okay, I'll count down, and then are you ready? Then that's what I'm hearing.
D
And Amanda's like, no, no. So Amanda gets up now. She. Amanda's, like, crying. She's totally distraught, and she's like, thank you, Rachel. You're a wonderful hostess. Rich's like, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I didn't know. And Amanda's like, I just. I just want to go home and hold Eddie and, like, talk about what today is. So she goes out, and Kyle, of course, follows her, and he's like, well, that's great timing.
C
She didn't say anything at all.
D
So Amanda, like. Like, I'm not the bad one. You're the bad one for not warning me that you were going to be pulling that card on me today. Oh, my gosh.
F
So. So she says that Amanda shared at Jennifer Tilly's party that she had lost a baby, but they didn't know it was today, and if she had known, she wouldn't have said anything to her. Yeah, but she did say. And you just kept going, you dummy.
D
Yeah, I don't believe that for a second. You 100 would have. So Amanda's at the. Like, at the front door about to leave, and. Cause like, oh, I hate seeing you leave like this before you get into a fight with Sutton. O God. And Amanda's like, I just should be with my family right now. Then Kathy joins. She's like, hi, honey. Everyone feels really, really, really bad. And Amanda's like, only one person should feel bad. Do so, Kyle. They're all, like, consoling her. So Kathy's like, wait a second. We're gonna fix this. So she goes back and she's like, I'm gonna get to read.
C
Hold on.
D
Dorit, get over here.
F
So Amanda's saying. She came at me accusatory with a very attacking style of energy. And the second I explained what was going on, that should have ended it, which, I mean, good point. So at the dinner table, Erica's like, oh, God.
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I mean, I knew about the kid, but geez, I didn't know it was today.
F
And so they're feeling bad, and then Kathy is like, listen. She's like, I think you should go in there and talk to her.
E
She's like, listen to me, Kathy. I respect it's the anniversary of her son's death, and I don't need to have any conversation with her.
F
She goes, just go and be the bigger person. We're not forgiving anything. Just go ahead and do it. I mean, we're talking about a death. Death of a child and possibly a dog. I wasn't really sure. I didn't hear the whole thing following.
D
I really zoned out after I asked that question.
F
So I just kept thinking about my own dogs. God, I love those. I love my dogs.
D
So Dorit. Dorit walks out to see Amanda, and she hugs her, and she's like.
C
She's like, oh.
D
And she tries to, like, wipe away a tear, and.
C
And Dorit's like, amanda, Brenda, I'm so sorry you're going through this right as.
D
I was trying to ask you a.
C
Very important question, and I didn't know, obviously, you didn't say anything. And as a mother, I can't think of anything worse in my life, just so you know. But again, just a reminder, you didn't say anything. Okay? So don't touch.
F
Don't touch me right now, please. Just please don't touch me right now.
C
Okay. Well, it was a nice gesture. I Think a lot of people would have been very complimented to be touched by a future best selling author. But if you want to be unburdened on books shelves in April by my finger, then that's fine.
D
Fine.
F
But like I told you, my kid died and you kept going like really strong. So.
C
Well, which I said I respect and I.
D
And.
C
And you continued the conversation.
F
Yeah, because I was trying to get what you were saying though.
C
Okay, but I don't want to have the conversation right now. I want to respect the fact that you don't want to have the conversation. I would like to have a conversation about how you don't want to have a conversation, but you don't want to have a conversation about how I want to have a conversation about how you don't want to have a conversation.
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Conversation.
C
Do you understand?
F
Yeah, but like you very. I don't think it's true because you wanted to go at it out there after I told you what I was going through and you did keep going. So like, if someone told me their kid died, I definitely would have just like given them a hug. So.
C
And she's like, well, okay, well, I apologize that I didn't. But I just came out here right now to give you a hug, so why don't you go and Good night, Amanda.
F
Yeah. And so like, okay, bye. And she leaves and Rachel just looks around. She's like, oh my God, Fox.
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And like the end.
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Yeah. Wow. It was definitely. It was so cringe worthy. But I also love that, like, I love a cringe worthy moment on one of these shows and made me happy. Made me excited, by the way. Moment. I also really enjoyed that. I feel like we totally missed. There was one moment where Sutton was eating caviar and she got on herself. She's like, now I've got caviar all.
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Over me and I don't have a cocktail party.
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Rachel, you don't even have cocktail napkins.
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Napkins.
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I loved her like mini meltdown about the cocktail napkin for Rachel Zoe that was.
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But I do, I do, I do wear the cocktail napkins. Where's me? Where's me?
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Date: January 23, 2026
Ben and Ronnie dive right back into their signature, affectionate skewering of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, picking up midway through Season 15's sixth episode (Part Two). The episode focuses on luxury bag etiquette, the ever-escalating Housewives book wars, emotional revelations at a tarot party, and a cringe-fest dinner discussion that manages to be both hilarious and devastating. As always, the hosts balance biting commentary with genuine empathy, lampooning Bravo drama with their inimitable rapport.
Sutton vs. Jennifer — Friendship Fallout:
Amanda’s Grief and the Dinner Table Debacle:
Aftermath: Attempts at Comfort and Reconciliation
| Timestamp | Quote | Speaker | |-----------|-------------------------------------------------------------------------------|-----------| | 02:22 | “It’s amazing how I find it gross with Amanda, but I find it hilarious with Jennifer.” | Ronnie | | 05:34 | “Now I can’t not see it—big floppy open Hermès bags!” | Ben | | 07:13 | “Why are things more terrible when they’re more expensive and more of a pain in the ass?” | Ben | | 13:00 | “Oh, well, you must have had a lot of time.” | Dorit | | 16:58 | “Your books are extended bullshit pamphlets on manifestation… it’s not like you’re writing Grapes of Wrath. Calm down over there.” | Ronnie | | 21:34 | “Maybe she had one too many pizzas. Not pregnant with possibility. Of course. I’m not pregnant, I can tell you that much. I am hungry, though. Is there pizza here?” | Jennifer Tilly (via Ben) | | 27:18 | “I’m really sorry, and I’m going to do better, but… because I want to be a ride or die.” | Jennifer | | 36:38 | “Is that your dog?” / “My son.” | Kathy / Amanda | | 39:29 | “Once this card has been played… this is like saying we’re postponing the game; there’s thunderstorms.” | Ben | | 43:56 | “Don’t touch me right now, please.” | Amanda |
Ben and Ronnie’s signature blend of sarcasm, affection, and cultural reference is present throughout:
This episode of Watch What Crappens is a perfect encapsulation of the show's tone: lampooning the high drama and consumer excess of Bravo’s Real Housewives, while not shying away from heavier, genuinely affecting real-life moments. If you missed the actual RHOBH episode, this recap delivers both the laughs and the gasps—with plenty of quotable lines to spare.