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Sarah Kaelin
Previously on who Took Misty Copsey? Western Washington was a veritable killing field for young women. I don't think people can even wrap their brains around how many serial rapists and, you know, predators were out running around. It's insane.
Colton Smith
The problem is they had very little to go on. Some room would come up, they'd chase it down, but it was like, it's like swinging at ghosts. That's the problem.
Diana Copsey
They looked at Diana and they said, okay, well, you're a trailer park mom, you're not a good parent, and your kid probably ran away because that's what happens most of the time. And they didn't look and they didn't check and they made some assumptions about mom that were just bogus. And they didn't go down the really obvious roads that they should have gone down right away.
Colton Smith
You know, for years, my mom felt like people thought she was crazy. I mean, every time she would even talk to the Puyallup Police Department, it was like, you guys think I'm crazy, and I'm not crazy.
Sarah Kaelin
From ID and ARC Media, I'm Sarah Kaelin and this is who Took Misty Copsey. I want to gather new information before I sit down with Misty Copsey's brother, Colton Smith. After about a week in Washington, I decide it's time. Even then, it's hard to find a time to meet for a few reasons. First Colton works third shift, meaning overnight. Having worked nights as a cop, I really sympathize with how tough that schedule is. Plus, Colton's a little nervous about meeting in person. Being the one carrying the torch for Misty since their mother Diana's death in 2020. It's a role he's still getting comfortable with. It's a slightly unusual one, too, because Colton was born after Misty disappeared. He never got the chance to know his sister personally. Still, I'm fairly certain he'll be able to fill in a few gaps in what I know so far and helped me develop a clearer picture of his mom, the sister he never got to meet, and the investigation into her disappearance. In the time I've been looking at this case, I have only had two dimensional understandings of both Misty and Diana. Misty was the perfect child and Diana was the distraught, angry mother. But people are never that simple. Even if both of these portraits were completely true, there's still going to be a lot more in the nuance that can help me see their world as it was. And that is critical if there's going to be any chance of solving Misty's disappearance. We meet at a burger spot in Tacoma, and as soon as he walks in, I see the family resemblance. Colton's an intimidating figure at first. He's more than 6 foot 4, but his smile is shy and sweet, with a calm demeanor. Colton tells me he and his mom, Diana, were close.
Colton Smith
It was just me and her against the world.
Sarah Kaelin
For a long time, he didn't know he'd ever had a sister. Looking back, though, there were hints.
Colton Smith
My mom would tell me, like, I wish I could give you a sibling. I wish you had a sibling. I know you're an only child, and that's rough sometimes. Like, I wish you had a sibling.
Sarah Kaelin
I asked Colton when he learned from Diana about what had happened to Misty.
Colton Smith
I would be in bed, and my bed was always close to the living room. And I remember she would talk to her friends about it, like, hey, this is what's going on with my daughter's case. And I wasn't asleep like she thought I was. So eventually I just kind of pieced it together. And the more I heard her talk about it, the more I was like, this is a real thing. Like, this is my family that we're talking about, not just like a TV story or something like that. This is real.
Sarah Kaelin
Once Colton was old enough, Diana told him the full story. They went to events for families with missing children. He remembers Diana putting on a car wash to raise money for Misty's case and says that Diana had a picture photoshopped of the three of Diana, Colton, and Misty, which she framed on the wall. Colton still has it on his mantel. The fact that Diana framed this imagined reality in which her family was whole and she got to live with her two kind of breaks my heart. As hard as she worked to keep Misty's memory alive and to try to solve what happened, Colton says it never felt like he had to compete for her love or anything of the sort.
Colton Smith
My mom never made me feel like she took Misty's case as priority over me. She always made me feel equally as loved as a parent should. Anything I did, anything I had interest in, even if it was just one of those things that you could tell as a kid was just a phase. My mom was like, if that's what you want to do, you go ahead and. And I believe you can do it. That was my mom. I personally feel that that's what she was put on Earth to do, was to be a mom, and I think that's. She just. I wanted to exemplify what it meant to be a good mom.
Sarah Kaelin
Colton was only 21 years old when his mom died. At first, he didn't realize he'd sort of become the last hope of carrying on his mom's lifelong mission to figure out what happened to Misty. Then one day, it just kind of.
Colton Smith
Hit him, if I don't do it, who's gonna do it? I just can't. I owe it to my mom to make sure that at least I try to bring her home, because, you know, my mom had always said, like, after I pass away, the Puyallah police is gonna get what they want, and that'll be it.
Sarah Kaelin
Colton felt he owed it to Misty and Diana to make sure this didn't happen.
Colton Smith
My mom had always said closer when she passed away. At this point, I don't care if somebody is charged. I don't care if they're held responsible. I just want my daughter home. And that's how I feel, too. There's pretty much no idea in my mind that she's still alive out there somewhere. It doesn't add up to me. But, yeah, if we could bring her home and lay her to rest, that would mean the absolute world to me.
Sarah Kaelin
I want to do this for Diana and for Colton.
Colton Smith
I could have had that older sibling to help guide me through things, to help me learn things, and I didn't have that. And it was really frustrating on top of the fact that you see how it affects your mother. And it's just like, this is not right. How could this happen?
Sarah Kaelin
I can only imagine how painful it must have been for him and how his hurt intensified as he started to understand the way the police treated his mom. From the moment Misty disappeared. I've started to gather a better understanding myself, and I have a list of questions for him. There's always been this thinly veiled accusation that Misty really might have run away because home was unbearable, because Diana drank too much, because they fought all the time, that sort of thing. It seems to have originated with the police statements, statements then printed or broadcast by the news media. The police seem to write Diana off as too difficult to deal with, as though that's why they fumbled the ball so badly. I asked Colton how much of this rings true.
Colton Smith
I know that she had always had a little bit of depression and anxiety, even as a kid, but I just can only imagine how much that intensified after this happened.
Sarah Kaelin
It just ruined her, as we all do. She had her demons and battles. He confirms that Diana struggled with alcohol.
Colton Smith
You know, occasionally, like anybody who was in this situation, my mom would drink occasionally, and it probably didn't numb the pain.
Sarah Kaelin
Obviously, this was something Diana struggled with even before Misty's disappearance. Not saying this caused her to drink, but it may have intensified after losing Misty. Reporter Sean Robinson told me that Diana sometimes called him late at night, quote, half in the bag. She'd do the same thing with the police calling to rage at them for doing nothing about her missing girl. Now, the fact that a victim or a victim's family member drinks alcohol even in excess the is no excuse to treat their case any differently. But to be extremely clear, the police's inaction preceded any angry, alcohol fueled calls Diana may have made. The thing is this. Even if Diana had been awful straight out of the gate, that should have no bearing on how the police treat Misty. Misty was a whole separate person, and by any objective view, she was the victim of a crime, period. To essentially punish her in order to punish Diana for what amounts to, at the very worst, bad manners is beyond the pale. I'm sure they didn't see it that way, but I've seen it up close before. Incidents in which police used someone's emotions, even a victim's emotions, as an excuse to justify dismissing their concerns. And in my experience, those someones were always women.
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Sarah Kaelin
I tell Colton that the way the police initially mishandled Misty's case is some of the worst police work I have ever heard about in my entire career. We talked about this in our first phone call. But I have a deeper understanding now, thanks to Sean and Colton, so allow me to share. It starts the moment Diana gets home from her overnight shift on the morning of September 18, 1992, and finds the house empty. As Diana would later tell Colton, she knew right away that something was awry. He can still hear her saying it.
Colton Smith
I just knew. I just knew something was wrong. I could just feel it. It wasn't right. There was just something not right.
Sarah Kaelin
Diana takes the logical first step. She calls 911. The dispatcher tells her it sounds like a runaway and she has to wait 30 days. This is total BS. And luckily when Diana calls the Pierce County Sheriff's Office later that day, this gets corrected. The sheriff's office takes a report, but that's about it. They assign a deputy to the case. He speaks to Misty's friends and tells them to, quote, just call if she calls. Six days later, with no sign of Misty, Diana files a report with Puyallup pd. The Puyallup PD slowly start making moves, assigning Detective Herm Carver to the case. Twelve days after Misty disappears, Carver takes the first meaningful step. He goes to Misty's school with Diana to talk to some of Misty's classmates. Specifically, they talked to two girls in Misty's class.
Colton Smith
A couple girls that didn't even know Misty.
Sarah Kaelin
These were not close friends, just barely acquaintances. One of the girls claims to have seen Misty at a concert a few days after Misty's disappearance. The other says she'd gotten a call from someone she thinks was Misty the week before. Also after Misty's disappearance. But when Diana pressed for any details to corroborate these stories, the girls had nothing.
Colton Smith
My mom is fighting to get these answers out of these girls. Like, how are you? How do you know? Are you sure about this? Like, they couldn't get a clear answer out of these two girls. And they leave.
Sarah Kaelin
These stories scream of what I call main character energy, a common phenomenon in a case like this. Especially when the witnesses you are talking to are kids or teens. People want to feel helpful and important and insert themselves into a case without any basis. Sometimes it comes from a genuine place, other times not. It's hard to say here. Either way, these are 8th grade kids we're talking about. So the point is not about whether these girls should have said what they said. The point is that the detective in the room should have corroborated these stories. Unfortunately, he doesn't. From what I've reviewed and what was previously reported, it doesn't appear he spoke to a single teacher or faculty member either. Instead, he tells Diana, case closed.
Colton Smith
And my mom is told, well, we're taking her off NCIC now because it's very clear that she's alive and well. These two girls wouldn't just say that.
Sarah Kaelin
He removes Misty from the national database where missing persons are listed. To add insult to injury, the detective goes on a local radio show the next day and basically tells the public the same thing. He announces that Misty is, quote, alive and well and adds that Diana knows where her daughter is.
Colton Smith
He went on a radio show even and said that, you know, hey, don't even look for Misty. She knows where she's at. This is just a misunderstanding and she's, she's fine. She knows where she's at.
Sarah Kaelin
By telling the media that she's been located, they've turned off that switch in the public's mind that might have led people to come forward with more tips in those critical first hours and days. According to reporter Sean Robinson's article, this is seemingly the extent of the police investigation for the next two months. At some point, there's a reported sighting of Misty at a truck stop about two and a half hours from Puyallup. Shawn found this in the case files. When the city granted him access, he learned that police didn't investigate this tip. Diana goes to the truck stop and asks if anyone recognizes Misty, but it leads nowhere. Then a new case catches everyone's attention. Four months after Misty's disappearance, a man named Robert Leslie hickey snatches a 15 year old girl off the main street in Puyallup near the fairgrounds. He rapes her, then throws her down a ravine, presuming her to be dead. But she survives. The police catch him. The location and the age of the girl would seem like reasons to ask this perpetrator about Misty. But as far as we know, no one questions him about Misty and whether he might have been involved. Could he have attacked more than once? Could he be a serial predator? The brutality of his attack indicates he is. Most first time rapists do not murder. That is usually an escalation or they accidentally kill their victim and their behavior escalates thereafter. The night that he abducted and raped the 15 year old girl, Robert Hickey reportedly told her that he had to push her off the cliff because, quote, you'll tell like the rest of them. Even if that was conjecture or grandstanding, he later proved himself to be a serial Predator. In 2001, he attacked a woman in her mid-20s in a very similar fashion, even throwing her Down a steep hill. She escaped and he went back to prison. Back in 1993, less than two weeks after Robert Hickey is caught, police get and fail to pursue yet another possible lead. Diana goes on a local TV show to talk about Misty's case. A woman named Tammy calls in saying she saw a girl matching Misty's description walking past a 711 toward the highway around 10pm that night. A detective is part of the show. No one from law enforcement speaks with the woman after the show. A few weeks after that is when they find the jeans on the side of Highway 410. Only then do police begin to actually interview potential witnesses and suspects. They are starting at square one. Five months after Misty disappeared. Five months, and they're still not even pursuing every possible lead. A tip is called into the News Tribune in March 1993. Sean Robinson describes it years later. In short, a man calls a reporter at the Tribune and says he saw Misty get into a car, a yellow Chrysler Cordoba, with a man. He wasn't sure exactly when he saw this, but he believed it was around the time Misty disappeared. The caller gives the man's name and says this man works at a local auto detailing shop. The tipster is a customer at the shop, so he had recognized the man. The tipster says he waited until March to call this in because he didn't know anything about the case until recently. He had left for Alaska sometime after the fair and upon returning from Alaska, he heard about Misty's case. He doesn't give his name or contact info. According to Shawn, the tipster says he's, quote, 98% certain of what he had seen. The reporter who spoke with the tipster calls the King County Sheriff's Office. A detective writes up a report. He writes, quote, the informant said that when the girl he believes was Misty approached the cordoba, she leaned in to talk, but then got a startled look, looked around and then got in the car. Sean reported that King county detectives looked into the background of the man named by the tipster. He was a 33 year old local man with a concerning record. In 1990, two years before Misty disappeared, the man was convicted of sexually assaulting a 13 year old relative. The King County Sheriff's office passed the tip on to Puyallup police. As far as I can tell, none of the original investigators contacted or attempted to speak with the man in question. Shawn left the man's name out of his story because the man has never been linked to Misty's disappearance in any official capacity. Of course, there's one person who hasn't been sitting idly by throughout all this? Diana. Beginning the day after the fair, Diana goes into high gear. Colton retraces Diana's steps for me in more detail than I'd previously known. Among her first phone calls is one to the 18 year old friend who Misty had said she could call for a ride. Reuben Schmidt.
Colton Smith
She called Ruben, said, hey, my daughter told me you were the last person she was gonna contact to get a ride. I told her, no, but is there any chance that she called you? And he says, yeah, she called me, but I didn't have gas, so I didn't go get her.
Sarah Kaelin
Next, Diana tries Trina's house. No answer. She leaves a message on the machine.
Colton Smith
That's when she goes, okay, I'm gonna go to Trina's. I'm gonna knock on the door.
Sarah Kaelin
Trina is at school, so Diana leaves a note asking her to call as soon as she gets home.
Colton Smith
Trina eventually made it home from school, called my mom, asked her, where is my daughter? Do you know where my daughter is? And she says, I don't know.
Sarah Kaelin
Diana calls Reuben again. This time Reuben is out, but someone else answers. His roommate, James Tinsley.
Colton Smith
Reuben's roommate, who claims that he did in fact go pick Misty up that night with his uncle.
Sarah Kaelin
Diana calls again later that day. Reuben picks up. He clarifies, okay, yes, I did go out, but not to pick up Misty.
Colton Smith
He left to go, he claims, to a party.
Sarah Kaelin
Reuben's story keeps changing. Definitely fishy. But hang on a sec. What about this uncle? I've seen mention of an uncle in Sean Robinson's reporting. It was a vague reference. And according to records I've found, Reuben has several uncles. Did she specify which uncle she believed he had left with?
Colton Smith
So she never specified. That was a big source of contention in her own mind for a long time. She couldn't figure that out. She didn't know a name, she didn't know who it was.
Sarah Kaelin
This could be a significant piece of the puzzle. If I can narrow down which uncle from the rather sizable pool of them, it could go a long way towards excluding Rubin or further implication. Either way, it would force some movement. Reporter Sean Robinson told me that through his conversations with Diana, Diana would change her mind about who she felt was responsible for Misty's disappearance. But all this conflicting info from Ruben and the roommate made Diana very suspicious of Reuben. Colton shares notes that Diana wrote in a notebook. She says Reuben stopped by her house several times in the days after Misty disappeared. He was always with friends and he never asked about Misty. He only asked if the cops knew anything yet. Then a few months after Misty disappeared, Diana actually ran into Reuben at a corner store and confronted him like, where is my daughter?
Colton Smith
I know you know where my daughter is. Where is my daughter? And she said that he just panicked, said, I don't know man, I don't know, I don't know. And he just booked it out of that corner store and he ran out to an orange pickup truck. There was an older man inside the truck that was driving. Ruben explained who my mom was and I guess his eyes just widened and they just peeled out of there.
Sarah Kaelin
So she runs into Reuben by chance, but when she tries to talk to him, he completely panics. He runs out of the place, has a conversation animated enough to be obvious from where Diana is in the store with an older guy who it appears, knows at least something about what Rubin is saying. They take off in a hurry in an orange pickup truck. This feels like yet another piece the detective should have at least run down. Was the man in the orange pickup truck Reuben's uncle? If so, which one is this who Reuben supposedly left with that night, according to what Reuben's roommate told Diana, what was so important that when Diana saw Reuben at the store, he so quickly left with this man? What were they talking about?
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Sarah Kaelin
Diana kept all of her work in a giant binder. Colton has it with him. My producer and I start looking through.
Colton Smith
So these are mostly newspaper articles that she clipped.
Sarah Kaelin
It's brimming over with documents, photos, newspaper articles all related to Misty. Oh, is that a drawing of Misty's? Oh, my God. May 1981. So she would be like three.
Colton Smith
Yeah.
Sarah Kaelin
And this is a missing poster.
Colton Smith
This is one of the originals.
Sarah Kaelin
Were you at the old fair on Thursday? Oh, so this must have been, like, right after. And do you think that's Misty Slick's school photo from that year?
Colton Smith
I believe that's one of the last photos she had taken.
Sarah Kaelin
We're looking at a black and white printed page. One of the original missing posters that Diana had printed made within hours of Misty disappearing. At the top it reads, were you at the Puyallup Fair on Thursday? Below that, Misty's school photo and a description of Misty. Blonde hair, blue green eyes, 5 foot 9 inches. At the very bottom of the page, it reads, last seen Puyallup fairgrounds wearing baggy light blue jeans, navy blue sweatshirt, brown suede shoes, baggy light blue jeans. It's really interesting, too, and a little bit chilling to see she's describing exactly the genes that would be found.
Colton Smith
Exactly.
Sarah Kaelin
This poster is printed immediately after Misty's disappearance, months before the jeans are found. This is another indication that Diana accurately remembered exactly what Misty was wearing the night of the fair, not some wishful thinking or false memory created out of desperation. Months later when they found the jeans, socks, and underwear crumpled up on Highway 410, I come across a letter addressed to Diana. Dear Unsolved Mysteries viewer, please accept our apologies for the delay in responding to your story submission. Here at Unsolved Mysteries, we do our best to carefully review each story that our viewers submit through the mail to our offices. Unfortunately, we will be unable to pursue your story. As requested, there are several letters like this. Correspondence between Diana and media organizations trying to get attention for Misty's case. Unsolved Mysteries, America's most wanted. It's clear Diana was trying desperately to get someone to pay attention. This idea that she's, you know, sitting in an apartment drinking herself to death and yelling at cops is just this is insane. Pardon my language, but I get worked up about this. There has been a lot of media around this case over the years in which the police repeatedly disparaged Diana. Sean Robinson's reporting was the only coverage I've seen that was consistently, truly empathetic about Diana's experience in all this. There are a number of reasons, both in the case investigation and in how we tell the story here, that we keep coming back to Shawn's work. It was thorough and it was humane. Looking through the notebook, my producer turns to a photo of a young girl. Not Misty. A girl with dark brown hair, a mischievous grin on her face. Is that Trina?
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Colton Smith
Yep.
Sarah Kaelin
Trina, Misty's best friend, with whom she went to the fair the night she disappeared. The one who said that she left Misty waiting for a bus while Trina walked all the way home.
Colton Smith
It comes out later that that's actually not what happened. The actual story is Michael Reiner came and picked her up and took her home.
Sarah Kaelin
Trina added this detail in her second statement to police. So that means the only two people whose stories are crucial to understand have both changed those stories. We have to talk to Trina. Have to. This all has to be cleared up and nailed down once and for all. I asked Colton if he's ever tried to contact Trina.
Colton Smith
It doesn't seem that she wants to talk to me, and she's not. I think she's trying to move along.
Sarah Kaelin
Did your mom have the sense that Trina's reluctance to speak was rooted in hiding something or in, like, feeling a sense of responsibility and not being able to deal with it?
Colton Smith
Well, I don't know specifically what it was, but I do know that my mom would say from time to time, she knows more than what she's telling us. I know she knows more than what she.
Sarah Kaelin
Colton says he's reached out to her via Facebook and she didn't respond to him. She cooperated with the cops, but other than a short quote given to a newspaper in December 1992, she's never spoken to the media. Sean Robinson tried to speak with her. She twice agreed to an interview, but then backed out. To be honest, I'm highly doubtful that she'll talk to us, but I'm determined to try. After our meeting, Colton sends me Trina's Facebook profile. My producer, Tessa, and I pull it up. Her name has changed. There she is. Trina. Wow. I type her new name into a database I use to find people. I think this is her with actually a different last name. But, yeah, yeah, it's her. Trina. Okay. There are a few phone numbers, an email address and an address about 50 miles north. I consider calling or emailing. Instead, I decide to just go knock on her door. I don't want to ambush her, but I have so little time on the ground here. You never know if people will even get an email or a voicemail. And so few people answer the phone from strange numbers. Anyway, I won't push her. If she asks me to go, I'll go. But I think in person is the best option right now. My producer Tessa and I pack up our gear and get in the car. An hour and a half later, we pull off the highway and drive a few blocks to her street. Oh, shit, we're turning. Soon as we're approaching her house, a car goes by us. I think she just drove by us. Are you kidding me? I'm not kidding you. A woman who looks just like Trina drives past in the opposite direction. When we reach her house, seconds later, there's no car in the driveway and no one answers the door. We're certain we've just missed her. We regroup, go to plan B. We try calling the numbers we'd found. None of them work. Slightly defeated, we drive all the way back to Tacoma where we're staying, and we resort to plan C. I'm just formulating the second paragraph of the this email. All right, it is sent. Now we wait. And now we wait. I hate waiting. So Tessa and I decide to do something I've wanted to do since we arrived. We decide to retrace Misty and Trina's last known steps the night of the fair. So this is Blue Gate, which does kind of appear to be the main entrance. So this is, I guess, where Diana dropped them off? I think so. It's on the main street, Meridian. There are huge metal gates. They're closed right now. Diana dropped Misty and Trina in this spot around 3:30pm Apparently, Diana had agreed to fib to Trina's guardian, saying she would pick them up later that night and take Trina home. So Diana was trusting these two girls to catch the bus and get home safely. From there, Trina and Misty skipped off into the fairgrounds. You can picture it like when it's in full speed. Oh, yeah, the sound and the lights. We don't really know what Misty and Trina did at the fair. The next thing we know is that around 8:45pm Misty calls Diana from a payphone, saying that she missed the bus home. That phone booth. According to reporter Sean Robinson, Is right near the police station. He said the phone booth is like across the street from the police station. Okay. The phone booth, as I understand it, is also right near the bus stop where Misty was supposed to catch an 8:40 bus home. We head that direction. The map says It's a solid 10 minute walk away. So there's Puyallup police. I don't know if that was really 10 minutes from where we last were. It was not close. It's not close.
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Sarah Kaelin
Maybe Misty also underestimated just how far that walk was and that's why she missed it. At least as I understand it now, it's from this area that she calls Diana. Though whatever payphone she used is long gone. And I believe it's from here that Trina and Misty start calling friends looking for a ride. And near here that Trina leaves Misty. The next confirmed sighting is here at the bus stop around 9.20pm this is where a bus driver tells Misty that the Spanaway route is done for the night. There's also the tip from a woman named Tammy who called into a TV show to tell Diana that she'd seen a girl matching Misty's description of walking by a 711 around 10pm we go to check that one out and learn that the 711 is all the way back down Meridian. Basically where we started. This makes me question the tip. I think a sighting at 7:11 at 10pm is kinda unlikely. This just doesn't make sense. Why would she be here? The caller said the girl was heading south on Meridian towards a highway on ramp. And technically it is headed in the direction of her home and Spanaway. But still another 10 or 11 miles away. There have been some swirling suggestions that Misty decided to walk all the way home. But now that we're here, where she would have been making that decision, that just seems rude, Ridiculous. There's no way she would have tried to walk home? No, I don't think so. Either it was either she got a ride or. Or tried to hitchhike. Seems like. Jesus, I can't. She. I don't think that's that kid. From everything I've heard, Misty was a really good, well behaved young teen. By 1992, the idea of stranger danger was really drilled into kids that age. My age, hitchhiking, popular in the 70s and 80s, had become recognized for how dangerous it was, especially for girls and women. We can't be completely sure of course, but I just don't believe she would hitch a ride with a stranger. Tessa and I hop in the car to head home and continue to discuss the possibility that Misty might have tried to hitchhike. It doesn't seem terribly likely, but again, with 14 year olds, their decision making, yeah, skills are not known to be well thought out. You know, I mean, especially if she like had called and couldn't get a ride any other way and she's like, what am I? I'm gonna sleep on the street, what am I gonna do? Is the main thing she's thinking. You know, like kids are always afraid to get in trouble. So the idea of a 14 year old Misty in 1992 hopping into a strange dude's truck is pretty unlikely. No matter how many times I go through it or how many possible scenarios I think through, I keep landing at the same place Misty got someone she knew to agree to come pick her up. And top of that list right now for me is Trina's friend Michael Reiner. I've done some more digging on his history and what I've found makes me realize he's pretty suspicious.
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When Michael Reiner was 16 years old, a juvenile complaint was filed against him. Juvenile records are sealed, so I don't know the complete scope, but based on Sean Robinson's reporting, I know that the juvenile complaint accused him of abducting an 11 year old girl and raping her at knifepoint and using a cigarette lighter to further threaten her. According to the report, 16 year old Michael offered this 11 year old girl a ride in his car. Charges were never filed. This was seven years before Misty disappeared. When questioned by the police, he denied it. Again, charges were never filed. But if Michael indeed abducted a girl and raped her at knifepoint when he was 16 years old, when. This is pretty advanced. There's something else. And again, this is according to Sean Robinson's reporting. Apparently several of Michael's friends told police that Michael was a, quote, four wheeling freak addicted to stump jumping. Some of his favorite trails were the logging roads near enumclaw and Highway 410. End quote. Obviously this could be relevant if it places him so close to the location of the jeans. Plus the locations where authorities found the bodies of Kim and Anna. Remember that question I was asking myself earlier about who might have a reason to be out in this particular direction on Highway 410? Someone who might know about this section of secluded logging room? Well, there's one answer. We know from police notes reviewed by Sean that when Trina told Misty that Michael could give them a ride home, Misty declined. I bring this up with my producer as we're driving home from the fairgrounds. Now, the fact that she didn't get in the car kind of substantiates that, right? Unless she does. Unless she did. Right? This is the mind bending challenge in a cold case like this with so little physical evidence after so many years. There are so many rumors and narratives that have been built around this story. That's the whole thing about these cold cases is you really do have to go back to date one as though it's never been investigated. Because if you assume that anything from the original invention investigation is correct or was vetted carefully, then you're gonna end up with the same dead ends. You can't use the same roadmap and not get lost. My understanding is that Misty didn't get in the car with Michael Reiner, but I don't know. That never happened. What if Trina never told police the full true story. What if Michael picked them both up? What if Michael picked up Trina, dropped her home, then went back for Misty? Or what if Trina lied or held back details in her second statement and he actually picked them both up that night and something went sideways? As we're approaching Tacoma, my phone gives a short buzz a notification that there's an email in my inbox. It's Trina. This can't be right. She writes me to say that she's willing to talk and what's more, that she's more than happy to answer any questions I have. I mean, holy shit. This is someone who has not agreed to speak with Media for an official interview since, as far as I can tell, December 1992. We make a plan to meet at her house the next day. Coming up on who Took Misty Copsey? I don't remember us saying we're going to ride the bus for Misty and I, we knew we were going to call Ruben the entire time.
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Episode 4: Rumors and Narratives – Summary of "Who Took Misty Copsey?"
In Episode 4 of ID’s gripping series, "Who Took Misty Copsey?", titled "Rumors and Narratives," host Sarah Kaelin delves deeper into the baffling disappearance of 14-year-old Misty Copsey. This episode intricately weaves personal narratives, investigative dead-ends, and the haunting persistence of Misty’s family as they seek closure after three decades of uncertainty.
Sarah Kaelin opens the episode by recapping the grim landscape of Western Washington in 1992, highlighting the high incidence of serial rapists and predators targeting young women. She sets the stage for a more personal exploration by introducing Colton Smith, Misty’s brother, who has been tirelessly championing the search for his missing sister.
[01:22] Sarah Kaelin: "I want to gather new information before I sit down with Misty Copsey's brother, Colton Smith."
After a week of preliminary research, Sarah meets Colton at a local burger joint in Tacoma. Despite being born after Misty's disappearance and never having met her, Colton’s dedication is palpable.
[04:30] Colton Smith: "It was just me and her against the world."
The narrative shifts to focus on Diana Copsey, Misty’s mother, whose relentless pursuit for answers was met with skepticism and dismissal by the authorities. Diana's unwavering belief in Misty’s innocence is contrasted sharply with the police's initial classification of Misty as a runaway.
[01:22] Sarah Kaelin: "They looked at Diana and they said, okay, well, you're a trailer park mom, you're not a good parent, and your kid probably ran away..."
[02:14] Colton Smith: "For years, my mom felt like people thought she was crazy."
Diana’s distress was compounded by the police’s failure to thoroughly investigate leads, often dismissing credible clues due to preconceived biases about her character.
Sarah recounts critical missteps in the investigation, particularly focusing on Detective Herm Carver's handling of Misty's case. Early leads from Misty’s classmates were not thoroughly vetted, leading to the premature closure of the case.
[10:37] Sarah Kaelin: "The way the police initially mishandled Misty's case is some of the worst police work I have ever heard about in my entire career."
One pivotal moment was the discovery of Misty’s jeans, socks, and underwear on Highway 410, which Diana immediately recognized as Misty's. However, instead of acting on this tangible evidence, the police dismissed it, further stalling the investigation.
A significant portion of the episode delves into the suspicious activities of Michael Reiner, a local man with a concerning past. According to reporter Sean Robinson, Reiner had a juvenile record for abducting and raping an 11-year-old girl when he was 16—a behavior indicative of a serial predator.
[25:35] Sarah Kaelin: "When Michael Reiner was 16 years old, a juvenile complaint was filed against him... seven years before Misty disappeared."
Reiner's proximity to key locations—such as the logging roads near Enumclaw and Highway 410, where Misty’s remains of clothing were found—places him squarely within the investigation's questionable leads. Despite his troubling history, he was never thoroughly investigated in connection with Misty's disappearance.
Trina, Misty’s best friend who was with her the night she vanished, becomes a focal point of the episode. Initial statements from Trina were inconsistent, leading to doubts about the veracity of her account.
[30:07] Colton Smith: "It comes out later that that's actually not what happened. The actual story is Michael Reiner came and picked her up and took her home."
Sarah and Colton’s efforts to reconnect with Trina face significant hurdles. Despite multiple attempts, Trina remains unresponsive, heightening suspicions about withheld information.
Determined to uncover the truth, Sarah and her team retrace Misty and Trina’s last known movements on the night of the fair. This includes visiting crucial locations such as the Blue Gate entrance to the fairgrounds and the payphone near the police station from which Misty called Diana, claiming she missed her bus.
[35:54] Sarah Kaelin: "The phone booth, as I understand it, is also right near the bus stop where Misty was supposed to catch an 8:40 bus home."
The episode scrutinizes conflicting sightings and tips, particularly questioning the reliability of a report placing Misty near a 711 store at 10 PM—a location roughly 10 miles from her home.
[35:56] Sarah Kaelin: "This makes me question the tip. I think a sighting at 7:11 at 10pm is kinda unlikely."
Despite skepticism towards certain leads, Sarah posits that Misty likely did not attempt to walk home or hitchhike, given her age and the era's heightened awareness of "stranger danger."
In a dramatic turn, just as Sarah and her producer reach a dead end in contacting Trina, they receive an email indicating that Trina is willing to talk. This unexpected development sets the stage for potentially groundbreaking revelations in the ongoing investigation.
[39:39] Sarah Kaelin: "What if Trina never told police the full true story? What if Michael picked them both up?"
The episode concludes with both Sarah and Colton reflecting on the complexities of the case. Colton emphasizes the absence of clear suspects and the persistent uncertainty that shrouds Misty’s disappearance.
[45:41] Colton Smith: "To me, there's no one who was floated as a suspect that we could absolutely rule out."
Sarah underscores the necessity of approaching the case with fresh eyes, free from the constraints of past investigative oversights.
[45:49] Sarah Kaelin: "You really do have to go back to date one as though it's never been investigated."
"Rumors and Narratives" intricately dissects the tangled web of investigative failures, personal anguish, and emerging leads in the Misty Copsey case. Through heartfelt interviews and meticulous examination of past and present evidence, the episode not only honors Misty's memory but also highlights the indomitable spirit of her family in their quest for answers. As new developments emerge, listeners are left on the edge of their seats, eager to follow the unfolding investigation in subsequent episodes.
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This episode underscores the intricate dance between unresolved leads and the relentless pursuit of truth, painting a vivid picture of the emotional and procedural turmoil surrounding Misty Copsey's disappearance.