Summary of Episode: "Mia Robertson on Being Upset with God: ‘Why Did He Make Me This Way?’ | Sadie Robertson Huff"
Release Date: August 6, 2025
Introduction and Relationship with Phil Robertson
In this heartfelt episode of the "WHOA That's Good Podcast," host Sadie Robertson Huff welcomes her cousin, Mia Robertson, for a profound and inspiring conversation. Mia delves into her close relationship with her late uncle, Phil "Pep Phil" Robertson, sharing cherished memories and the unique bond they shared during their childhood.
Mia reflects on Phil's respect for her cleanliness and dedication:
[02:51] Mia Robertson: "It was just that I was very clean, and I loved to clean. And, like, Pep Phil knew that Memo K was kind of a hoarder, and so I would be like, let's clean it up. And I feel like he saw that, and he was like, yes, he respected me."
Singing and Worship with Phil
One of Mia's most treasured memories involves singing with Phil during his final days. She recounts leading worship songs at his funeral, which brought immense peace and comfort to everyone present.
Mia shares the emotional experience of singing together:
[06:27] Mia Robertson: "We sang so many songs, but one that really stuck out to me was, like, the day before his death. And we sang 'Surround Us, O Lord.' He just was holding Mama K's hand the whole time, and it just meant so much."
She emphasizes the power of worship in expressing gratitude and finding peace amidst grief:
[08:23] Mia Robertson: "We were just kind of a prayer of, like, please like, don't keep him here. Like, we want him to be with you. So I just felt so much at peace."
Choosing to Stay at Camp: Prioritizing Faith and Service
Mia discusses a pivotal decision she made to cancel her dream trip to Ireland and London in favor of staying at summer camp as a counselor. This choice was driven by a profound sense of being needed and called to serve her community locally.
Mia explains her inner conflict and ultimate decision:
[16:33] Mia Robertson: "And then everyone started getting sick at camp and they're like, Mia, we need you every day. I was like, okay, feeling like I'm needed here. Like, I'm actually needed here."
She highlights how various signs and personal experiences reinforced her decision to prioritize her role at camp over traveling abroad:
[18:56] Mia Robertson: "Feeling like I'm needed here. Like, I don't need to go chase like something for myself in another country. When the Lord is calling me, right here in Calhoun."
Overcoming Personal Insecurities: Cleft Palate and Bullying
A significant portion of the conversation revolves around Mia's personal struggles with cleft lip palate and the bullying she endured as a result. She candidly shares her journey from insecurity to self-acceptance, heavily supported by her faith and supportive family.
Mia reflects on the impact of bullying and her path to healing:
[24:08] Mia Robertson: "I put Bible verses, like, on my mirror. How we're like, I'm beautiful and wonderfully made. I was created in his image."
She emphasizes the importance of a strong support system, highlighting her sisters' roles in reinforcing her self-worth:
[28:33] Mia Robertson: "They got on my phone and put it on there, and it's still there every day at 4pm it reminds me."
Deepening Faith: From Anger to Prayer
Mia discusses her initial anger and confusion towards God regarding her condition, revealing a transformative shift through persistent prayer and a deeper relationship with Him.
Addressing her past feelings of anger:
[32:29] Mia Robertson: "Prayer has changed my life. I could talk about it forever is so crazy."
She describes how integrating prayer into her daily routine fostered gratitude and a peaceful perspective, alleviating her frustrations:
[35:06] Mia Robertson: "Prayer has changed my life. We pray every day. It's like, little things, like, thank you so much for doing this."
Mia articulates the profound impact of prayer on her mental and emotional well-being:
[35:06] Mia Robertson: "The power of prayer is so, like, I don't have to try to question. It's just like, oh, yeah. I have peace about that."
Advice on Self-Love, Confidence, and Relationships
Throughout the episode, Mia offers valuable insights and advice to listeners, particularly young women grappling with self-esteem and relationships.
Encouraging self-affirmation and self-love:
[29:15] Mia Robertson: "Start speaking that truth. That's when you start to go, I'm at peace."
She emphasizes the importance of maintaining high standards in relationships and not settling for less:
[53:20] Mia Robertson: "If they say, like, one thing that's kind of like, I'm out. Because especially, like, what's inappropriate about women or just inappropriate in general?... I'm holding on hope."
Mia shares her approach to dating, prioritizing meaningful connections over superficial attractions:
[55:06] Mia Robertson: "I'm not gonna be here."
She discusses the value of patience and trusting God's timing in finding the right partner:
[54:49] Mia Robertson: "No shaker. He does have qualities that really make sense. And I feel like I was so much more, like, easily annoyed."
Closing Reflections and Family Support
In the concluding segments, Sadie and Mia express mutual pride and appreciation for their supportive family, underscoring the importance of a strong familial bond in personal growth and overcoming challenges.
Mia expresses gratitude for her family's support:
[58:39] Mia Robertson: "I literally, like, I just love our family so much. And it's like, you don't know, like, oh, they're like the glue now."
Sadie echoes this sentiment, emphasizing the profound impact of family and faith in their lives:
[60:14] Sadie Robertson: "You got the best brothers, the best sister-in-laws, and they lucked out, too."
Notable Quotes with Timestamps
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Mia Robertson [02:51]: "Pep Phil knew that Memo K was kind of a hoarder, and so I would be like, let's clean it up. And I feel like he saw that, and he was like, yes, he respected me."
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Mia Robertson [06:27]: "We sang so many songs, but one that really stuck out to me was, like, the day before his death. And we sang 'Surround Us, O Lord.'"
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Mia Robertson [24:08]: "I put Bible verses, like, on my mirror. How we're like, I'm beautiful and wonderfully made. I was created in his image."
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Mia Robertson [32:29]: "Prayer has changed my life. I could talk about it forever is so crazy."
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Mia Robertson [53:20]: "If they say, like, one thing that's kind of like, I'm out. Because especially, like, what's inappropriate about women or just inappropriate in general?... I'm holding on hope."
Conclusion
This episode offers a deeply personal and inspiring look into Mia Robertson's life, highlighting her resilience, faith, and unwavering commitment to self-love and service. Through her honest reflections and heartfelt anecdotes, Mia provides valuable lessons on overcoming personal struggles, maintaining strong family bonds, and fostering a meaningful relationship with God. Listeners are left with a sense of hope and empowerment, embodying the essence of the "WHOA That's Good Podcast."
