Death in Dubai: 1. The real Mona Kizz

Summary

World of Secrets – Death in Dubai: Episode 1, "The Real Mona Kizz" (BBC, September 15, 2025)

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Brief Overview

The season premiere of World of Secrets delves into the tragic and controversial death of Mona Kizz (Monica), a 23-year-old Ugandan woman who fell from a tower block in Dubai. The incident, caught on camera, goes viral and sparks a social media frenzy driven by lurid rumors and hateful commentary—casting Mona as the face of the "Dubai Porta Potty" scandal. This episode moves past the sensationalism to explore who Mona really was, her family’s quest for answers, and the impact of online misinformation.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Family’s Discovery of Mona’s Death ([01:38]–[03:45])

• Rita, Monica’s sister, receives the news via relentless phone calls:

  “He asked if I knew what had happened and I said no. He asked if I had seen the news. I hadn't. Then he said Monica had died.” –Rita [02:44]

• The caller, who had earlier helped Monica move to Dubai, sends Rita a shocking video allegedly of Monica's death.
  • Description of the disturbing video circulating online
  • Rita's horror and confirmation that the woman in the video looked like Monika.

2. The Viral Rumors & “Dubai Porta Potty” Myth ([04:12]–[05:46])

• The death is instantly seized upon by TikTokers and YouTubers, who accuse Mona of being involved in the “Porta Potty” scandal (wealthy men paying women for extreme acts).

  “Mona became the face of Dubai Porta Potty... These rumors are out of control.” –Ryan Seacrest [05:07]

• The family and host describe the immense shame and hate poured on Mona online, with the story spun out of context and fact.

3. Mona’s Life Before Dubai ([10:41]–[13:15])

• Family interviews at the rural Ugandan family home paint a vivid picture of Monica as lively, creative, and loved.

  “She deserved [the name Karunji, meaning beautiful] because she was beautiful, really... whenever she's at home, everyone is happy to see her because she has vibes.” –Rhona [11:10]

• Monica dreamed of more than the limited prospects at home, longing to change her family's circumstances.

4. Monica’s Aspirations and Journey Abroad ([13:15]–[21:27])

• In Kampala, Monica transforms—training as a makeup artist, changing her style, gaining new friends, and following influencer culture online.
  • Rita expresses concern about Monica's shifting values and her fascination with social media and celebrity lifestyles.

    “She used to tell us stories... I personally had no idea who these people were. Also her friends... jazzed about life abroad. She was tempted to go make more money than she can make here.” –Rita [14:57]

• Monica obtains a job opportunity in Dubai via a man who arranges her documents, pays for her travel, and assures the family of her safety.
  • The family throws her a big farewell party.
• On the day of her departure, Monica leaves home emotional but hopeful, promising to return support for her sick mother.

5. The Glitter and Gaps of Monica’s Instagram Life ([23:32]–[25:45])

• From Dubai, Monica posts glamorous content—clubbing, luxury settings, and changing appearance.
• Rhona notes visible changes in her, including apparent use of skin-lightening and unexplained bruises.

  “For being in abroad or for being in UAE, her lifestyle changed and even the color of her body changed... I think she was not the one who was controlling the Internet and social media things.” –Rhona [25:00–25:28]

• Family grows increasingly worried, particularly after a tearful, emotional voice note from Monica. It's the last message Rhona ever receives from her.

6. Online Misinformation and Social Media Attacks ([26:23]–[29:17])

• The video said to show Monica's fall is proved to be fake—actually filmed months earlier in Russia, involving a different woman.
• Similarly, graphic videos used to shame Monica online are also not of her. Nonetheless, the damage is done:

  "She deserved that... She died. She loved money too much..." –Rhona quoting online comments [28:19]

• Host Renaco reflects on the impact:

  “Monica can't rest in peace because people online are tearing her to pieces.” –Renaco Salina [28:41]

7. Community Grieving Without Closure ([29:45]–[32:02])

• The family and community hold a memorial, but her body is never returned to Uganda.

  “We never had a burial ceremony... we can't see the body. We can't find anything.” –Rita & Rhona [30:37, 31:55]

• The grief is exacerbated by unanswered questions; Monica’s mother is especially devastated.

8. Seeking the Truth—Family’s Investigation ([32:04]–[35:54])

• Rhona and Rita refuse to believe Monica killed herself, suspecting foul play.
  • Rhona: “She will never kill herself. That's what I know. Because she was a strong girl.” [32:34]
• The mysterious “friend” who arranged Monica’s move uses a phone registered to a different name (a woman), raising suspicions.
• Rita’s persistent calls finally lead her to Monica’s employer in Dubai, who is unhelpful and soon cuts off communication.
  • Rita saves his number as “killer.”

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Rumors and the Internet:

  “She was accused of being a Dubai porta potty, getting paid to be a human toilet.” –Renaco Salina [05:00] “These rumors are out of control... Are they not ashamed?” –Renaco Salina [05:26, 05:46]

• Family’s Faith in Monica:

  “She deserved that name because she was beautiful, really.” –Rhona [11:10] “She will never kill herself. That's what I know. Because she was a strong girl.” –Rhona [32:34]

• On the Pain of Unanswered Questions:

  “I can't get her... Sometimes I feel I want to call her. Then I remember it's no longer there.” –Rhona [32:04] “We can't see the body. We can't see anything. We can't find anything.” –Rhona [31:55]

• On Social Media Cruelty:

  “Monica can't rest in peace because people online are tearing her to pieces.” –Renaco Salina [28:41] "But no need to comment something that you don't know. You don't know she was doing those things that you have been saying." –Rhona [28:46]

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Timeline of Important Segments

• [01:38]–[04:07] — Family is informed of Monica’s death; graphic video circulates
• [04:12]–[05:46] — Internet hysteria: Accusations, “Dubai Porta Potty” trend, media onslaught
• [10:41]–[13:15] — Monica's early life: Family account, dreams for a better future
• [15:29]–[21:27] — Monica’s preparations and departure for Dubai
• [23:32]–[25:55] — Monica’s life and changing persona in Dubai documented via social media; family expresses concern
• [26:23]–[29:17] — Host debunks main viral videos; Monica’s memory attacked online
• [29:45]–[32:14] — Mourning without a body; family's devastation
• [32:34]–[35:54] — Family’s private investigation: dead ends, suspicion, and heartbreak

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Tone & Storytelling Style

• The episode balances investigative rigor with emotional storytelling; the host maintains sensitivity toward Monica’s family, determined to challenge online narratives and reveal the human story beneath the scandal. The language frequently echoes the family's grief, resilience, and search for justice, while scrutinizing the power of social media to distort tragedy into spectacle.

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Summary Takeaway

"Death in Dubai: The Real Mona Kizz" introduces a complex, provocative story that goes far beyond the tabloid headlines and viral rumors. By foregrounding Monica’s family, uncovering the falsehoods behind viral videos, and documenting a family’s relentless search for answers, the episode challenges listeners to question what they accept as truth, especially in the age of social media.

The episode ends with the family—and the listener—left with urgent unresolved questions: What really happened to Monica in Dubai? Who was responsible? The investigation is just beginning.

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[Renaco Salina]

Episodes of World of Secrets are released weekly wherever you get your BBC podcasts. But if you're in the uk, you can listen to the full season right now first on BBC Sounds a heads up before we start. This podcast includes discussion of suicide and some disturbing events. I'll give you some details of support organizations at the end. It's early morning on May 1, 2022, and Kampala, Uganda's sprawling, bustling capital is waking up. Rita's closed the curtains shut out the sun. She's trying to have a lie in her. Phone rings and she quickly silences it. But it r again and again the same number. Reluctantly she picks up. On the line is a familiar voice.

[Rita]

He asked if I knew what had happened and I said no. He asked if I had seen the news. I hadn't. Then he said Monica had died.

[Renaco Salina]

Five months earlier. Rita says this man helped her sister Monica move to Dubai, got her a job, arranged her travel, promised Rita that she would be safe. But now he's calling to say she's dead.

[Rita]

I felt sick. I didn't believe. I asked how she died. He was like, I'm going to send you a video. They shot while she was dying.

[Renaco Salina]

A few minutes later, it arrives. It's shaky phone footage of a white tower block. There's a figure of a woman balancing on a windowsill. And to warn you, it's really unsettling.

[Rita]

You could see the woman at the top of the building. There were parked cars and other people at the bottom. I was so scared. Then I saw the woman shouting and then she jumps out of the window. I saw it and I just believed that it was Mon.

[Renaco Salina]

This same video is being shared far and wide online.

[Rita]

A Ugandan woman died instantly after she jumped off the tower in Dubai that is United Arab Emirates.

[Ryan Seacrest]

You can hear the screams of everyone who witnessed it.

[Renaco Salina]

The woman in the video stands there for a moment and thinks about things and then just lets go and falls. TikTokers and YouTubers are saying the woman who falls, Rita's sister Monica, who they're calling Mona Kiz, is caught up in something terrible.

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[Renaco Salina]

Mona Kiz was a beautiful young woman from Uganda. She was enchanted by the glam and glitz of Dubai and the Instagram influencer thing.

[Ryan Seacrest]

Mona and her friend were forced to do terrible sexual acts and some of them are unspeakable. And it was all filmed and released on the Internet.

[Renaco Salina]

Rita's sister is accused of being a Dubai porta potty, getting paid to be a human toilet.

[Ryan Seacrest]

I never had heard the term Dubai Porta Potty, like en masse until the Mona Kiz story. She became the face of Dubai Porta Potty. A Dubai Porta Potty is a woman, usually an Instagram model, who gets flown out to Dubai by a rich Emirati who pays them to do horrible, horrible things.

[Renaco Salina]

Okay. It's recently come to light that people.

[Ryan Seacrest]

Are going to Dubai.

[Renaco Salina]

People are going to Dubai to get pooed on. These rumors are out of control. Every few months, another model or influencer or even random women in Dubai get accused. Currently, the going rate is 30 to.

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[Rita]

All for money.

[Renaco Salina]

Money that disappears. I'm actually flabbergasted. Are they not ashamed? It's the shame of appearing in a Dubai porta potty video. The story goes that drove Mona to take own life. It's everywhere. The Internet is ripping her apart. There's such an outpouring of hate, ridicule and shame. Everyone's weighing in on her story with their own version of who she was. I find Monica's Instagram. She's riding a quad bike in the desert, on dance floors in Dubai clubs, posing at the beach. Monica is striking. She's slim and tall, with sparkling brown eyes, arched eyebrows and high cheekbones. But I also noticed something else. In a photo uploaded less than three weeks before her death. There are bruises on her neck and face. This is World of Secrets Season 9 Death in Dubai. From the BBC World Service, I'm Renaco Salina. Episode 1 the Real Mona Kids. Hi. Hi. Can you hear me?

[Rhona]

Yeah.

[Renaco Salina]

Okay, great. Yeah. Thank you for taking my call. I'm on a call with a woman who I noticed commented a lot on Monica's Facebook, so I got in touch. She's called Rona. She's very wary of me, but has agreed to talk.

[Rhona]

Like, I want to know why you would like to follow her. You know, it's very difficult to talk.

[Renaco Salina]

To someone that you. The phone line isn't there. Great. It's hard to hear each other, but I've got to earn her trust. So I. I'm really trying to understand what happened to her. If you. If I send you my name, you will see a bit of my work and what I do. So I do a kind of investigations into issues impacting Africans and people of African descent.

[Rhona]

Let me try to search you.

[Renaco Salina]

I send Rhona some of the stories I've done. A week later, she gets back in touch. She wants to talk again.

[Rhona]

I tried to scan the photos on your Facebook page to get the investigation about you.

[Renaco Salina]

Rona's the first family member I speak to, and eventually she'll introduce me to Rita, the sister who got that phone call in the middle of the night with the worst news a sibling can hear. But for months, it's just Rhona and me. Hey, can you hear me? Is it clearer? We talk over the phone a lot. She's beginning to trust me.

[Rhona]

I don't know how can I explain to you, but I have too much pain in my heart.

[Renaco Salina]

Then she shares her biggest fear.

[Rhona]

I feel like someone pushed her from the building to town.

[Renaco Salina]

Rhona doesn't think Monica jumped. She thinks someone made her fall. It's over a year since I started speaking to Rhona, and I'm finally on the way to meet her at the family's farm outside of Isinjiro in western Uganda. This is where Monica grew up. Look at these massive rolling mountains and rows and rows and rows of banana trees. So lush. This is really the kind of place that you can live off the land. A lot of the houses here, I notice, are powered by solar energy. I'm on the way to meet Monica's family, hoping that Mona is going to introduce me to everyone. It's the longest, winding dirt road where the car in front of us left us, like in a mist of red dirt. After six hours on the road, in the distance, I can see the bright blue roof of a farmhouse high on the hilltop. When we pull up, Rhona rushes out to meet me. And she's not alone.

[Rhona]

And this is the place. Yeah, this is our home.

[Renaco Salina]

It's a really hot day, but up here on their family farm, a cool breeze shimmers the trees. Rona's in her mid-20s, her hair braided and tied in a low bun. She's in a long, flowing blue dress. I can see the resemblance between her and Monica. What does the family call Monica?

[Rhona]

It's Monica, baptized from the church, but she had another name called Karunji. In our language, it's Karunji, but in English means beautiful. And she deserved that name because she was beautiful, really. So I feel like whenever she's at home, everyone is happy to see her because she has vibes. She'll be there praying, the children, greeting everyone.

[Renaco Salina]

Rhona's actually Monica's niece, but they're so close in age, she calls her sister.

[Rhona]

We grow together, we eat together, we pray together. She was like my sister. She was there for me, I'm there for her.

[Renaco Salina]

Most of Monica's brothers and sisters have stayed here on the farm, building their own homes, not far from their mum. But Monica wanted something different.

[Rhona]

Person. She was so creative. So I thought maybe one time, one day, Monica, she would change something in our family.

[Renaco Salina]

After attending school in the village, Monica moved to the capital to live with her older sister, Rita. Kampala is a bustling metropolis with bars and clubs where boda bodies motorbike taxis roar up and down the hilly streets. It's totally different from Essenjiro and Monica loved it.

[Rita]

She was a single girl who had just moved to the city, so she was excited. When she moved to the city, she bloomed.

[Renaco Salina]

RITA SPEAKS LUGANDA so someone else is voicing her words.

[Rita]

There are no jobs in the village. Village life, it's all about digging, grazing, getting married. And she didn't want marriage. She didn't do it because she saw us. Her sister's married life full of suffering she always wanted, she always had bigger dreams.

[Renaco Salina]

In Kampala, Monica starts training to be a makeup artist. She gets a job in a salon. Her look starts to change. In this clip from her Instagram, she's dancing in her room in a baby pink dress and huge shades, lip syncing to an Afrobeats classic with braids down to her bum.

[Rita]

She loved wearing jumpsuits and trousers. She paired them with high heels. Long nails were her favorite. They were her signature look.

[Renaco Salina]

In this clip, she's at a party. The place is packed and she's surrounded by girlfriends. Rita's happy that Monica's making friends, but not so sure about her sister's new lifestyle.

[Rita]

What I know is that those famous clubs are attended by rich people's kids who tend to be spoiled. When she started going out, she began acting like a wealthy person. She would suggest that I rent a more expensive house. She even wanted someone to wash her clothes for her. It felt like she had forgotten her roots.

[Renaco Salina]

And her social media starts to change too. In her early posts, she's baby faced. In one caption, she says, I'm beautiful and black. A year later, she's posting bikini pics. A year after that, twerking clips. She's posting more and more. Like almost everyone I know is probably spending too much time online. Rita thinks social media is where she first got the idea to leave Uganda.

[Rita]

She liked being on her phone too much. She used to see all that on social media. You know, American celebrities like Kim Kardashian. She used to tell us stories of how this person bought a house or did this or that. I personally had no idea who these people were. Also her friends. They jazzed about life abroad. She was tempted to go make more money than she can make here to look after her sick mother to be buying her medicine.

[Renaco Salina]

Their mum has been sick for some time with high blood pressure and the treatment is expensive.

[Rita]

She always wanted to set up a business for us and to build her own house. Those were her dreams.

[Renaco Salina]

A few months after moving to the city, it seems those dreams might finally come true. She's been out to a bar with her new friends and comes home super excited.

[Rita]

She came with a very big bottle of alcohol, a very big bottle. She might have been ashamed to be seen with it. And she told me, sis, I met a rich friend. Let's drink. She told me she'd got a friend who paid for everything and that she's going to work in Dubai. I even have videos that we took that evening. We were drinking, playing music and dancing with the kids. We put Sosa on our heads and started banging them.

[Renaco Salina]

Once the initial excitement wears off, Rita goes into elder sister mode and starts asking questions.

[Rita]

I said, you know that you need a lot of money to do so. And she said, no, I won't put in any money. She told me confidently that her guy.

[Renaco Salina]

Was helping her because she says, this friend is going to pay for everything. Rita says Monica was excited, telling her he'd promised her a job in a supermarket in Dubai.

[Rita]

I asked her, do you trust the people taking you? She said that she trusted them because they were her friends.

[Renaco Salina]

Rita says Monica's talking to this guy a lot, but Rita's never introduced to him. Looking back, she thinks he might have been trying to avoid her. They do speak a couple of times on the phone. Rita never gets his name, but he manages to make a good impression.

[Rita]

He was well mannered in speaking. He seemed nice. I saw his picture before. He was tall, handsome, with chocolate brown skin. And he also carried himself like a gentleman. He looked to be a fellow Mnyangkole. I think she trusted him because he was a Mnyangkole.

[Renaco Salina]

They were from the same place, the Ankole region of Uganda. The same people.

[Rita]

He told me that first of all, she's a beautiful girl. She speaks English and she's hard working. She'll be able to work. He said that he takes people abroad and he would get her a job. I thought he was a good man helping his friend to make her life better. I thought he had good intentions. He told me that she'll be fine. He promised that she would be safe.

[Renaco Salina]

Rita says over the next two weeks, this friend sorts Monica's passport and visa and makes all the arrangements for her to go to Dubai. He even gives her money to throw a leaving party. It's the weekend before Monica leaves. The whole family has come together on the farm. A goat is slaughtered and a mountain of motoke, a savory banana with a thick green skin, is peeled. One of Monica's brothers is DJ for the day. He's blaring music from his speakers and Monica's got everyone up on their feet. According to Rona, Monica's knees. This is classic Monica.

[Rhona]

So she was happy. She makes some small, small music and she danced. She was so happy with the kids mother, everyone's siblings at home and some of people in the village.

[Renaco Salina]

Monica, the last of 11 siblings, will be the first of them to travel abroad. The day after the party, she returns to Rita's in Kampala. The sisters are so busy laughing and talking about Monica's future in Dubai, they stay up most of the night. At some point, Rita speaks to Monica's friend on the phone.

[Rita]

I told him, are you planning to take our sister without meeting me first? He assured me that he would come in the morning to pick her up. However, when morning came, he called to say he was held up and he could not meet me. Instead, he instructed me to send her on a border border to a particular beach on the way to Entebbe airport.

[Renaco Salina]

So Rita helps Monica get her bag ready.

[Rita]

Monika cried as she was saying goodbye. She said, I'm going to work. I'll send you money and all will be well.

[Renaco Salina]

Rita waves goodbye as Monica heads off on the back of a boda boda. She's taken to the meeting point, a beach on Lake Victoria on the way to the airport. And that's where that friend picks her up in his car.

[Rita]

When they reached the airport, the man sent me photos of her pulling her suitcase in the security line. I remember she wore black shoes, blue ripped jeans with a black sweater.

[Renaco Salina]

Her eyes looked red, like someone who'd been crying. It was Monica's first time going on a plane, first time leaving Uganda, and the last time Rita ever saw her little sister.

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[Renaco Salina]

Hello mama. I told you. Monica's filming a light show from a balcony. Fountains and fireworks are going off before her eyes.

[Rhona]

So beautiful, you guys.

[Renaco Salina]

She's been living in Dubai for a month now. She's 23 and it looks like she's living her dream, at least from her online presence. In this video, Monica walks around a rooftop terrace, amazed by everything around her.

[Rhona]

The block is full of buzz.

[Renaco Salina]

Buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz. Lights spin across the dance floor of a nightclub.

[Rhona]

Thanks for my requests.

[Renaco Salina]

It's a real vibe. She struts in heels, turning the marble hotel foyer into her catwalk, looking so pretty. When you scroll through Monica's instructions Instagram, she's posing in immaculate outfits with perfect nails behind her rooftop pools or beaches surrounded by dazzling skyscrapers.

[Rita]

See how bright and crisp is the sun?

[Renaco Salina]

But to Rona, something just doesn't look right. We sit on Rona's bed looking at photos of Monica before she left and the ones from Dubai.

[Rhona]

This is the Monika Omone that I know before, but for being in abroad or for being in uae, her lifestyle changed and even the color of her body changed. And here she was black. But when she went there in a few months, she changed her color in brown.

[Renaco Salina]

Rhona thinks Monica might have started using skin lightening products. The thing is, using these controversial products can be risky and they're not cheap.

[Rhona]

Look the way she's looking. Got those kind of presses. Of course, it's money. I can't believe that Monica was affording herself. I think she was not the one who was controlling the Internet and social.

[Renaco Salina]

Media things and Rhona also notices something else.

[Rhona]

If you focus on those videos, you can see sometimes she have crashes and she's walking like someone who have pain from someone.

[Renaco Salina]

On New Year's Eve, just nine days after Monica arrived in Dubai, Rhona gets a voice note from her.

[Rhona]

She was talking while she's crying. So emotionally and feel like there is. That's when I knew maybe Karunji Monica, she's not fine. That was not Monica that I know.

[Renaco Salina]

It was the last time she heard from her. On May 1, Rhona's phone starts going crazy.

[Rhona]

People posting saying that Mona Case or Monica Kalonji has passed away. So I was like, why? I tried to call her phone and he's not going through.

[Renaco Salina]

She watches the video that's being shared over and over. Seeing the girl fall from the tower her, it's horrible. But she also thinks something isn't right.

[Rhona]

I was like, this is not Monica. So why people are saying like this? Then I was like, no, I need to tell them the truth that this is not the one.

[Renaco Salina]

And she's right. In the background of the video, if you listen carefully, you can hear people speaking Russian. I do a reverse image search and trace the clip back to six months earlier. It was filmed in Novosibrisk, Russia. The woman in the video definitely isn't Monica. But there's one thing social media is right about. Monica's body was found at the bottom of a tower block in Dubai. Rhona keeps scrolling desperately looking for information, trying to understand what's happened. And she comes across other videos that people are linking to Monica. One is a graphic video of someone performing Dubai Porta potty. TikTokers and YouTubers are claiming that it's Monica or Mona Kiz as they call her. Mona and her friend were both assaulted and defecated all over on film. The film was then released on the Internet for all to see.

[Ryan Seacrest]

When this happened, Mona was destroyed.

[Renaco Salina]

But you can see the woman's face. It's clearly not Monica. Rhona goes back over the comments people were leaving at the time.

[Rhona]

She deserved that. Oh wow. She deserved that. She died. She loved money too much and she get what she deserved in hell. Oh my gosh, they want to blame her. They want to put on her that she did it. She did it intentionally. She did. She deserved it.

[Renaco Salina]

Monica can't rest in peace because people online are tearing her to pieces.

[Rhona]

Of course they was going to say whatever they want to say. She was selling herself, getting money. But no need to comment something that you don't know. You don't know she was doing those things that you have been saying.

[Renaco Salina]

So there's a video of a woman falling from an apartment building, but it's not Monica. And there's a video of a woman engaged in an extreme sexual act, but that's not Monica either. So why are these videos being linked to her?

[Rhona]

I feel like maybe someone was trying to keep something or to keep the secret. What exactly happened to her or how she passed away.

[Renaco Salina]

Under a marquee on the family farm, the whole community have gathered to mourn Monica. Some of Monica's childhood friends are here. Her schoolteachers, distant relatives and all her baby nieces and nephews. Three priests dressed in black and white robes lead the service. One of Monica's brothers sits close to their mom, his arm around her shoulders as they listen. On the life of Karunji Monica who.

[Rhona]

Died and we don't know the cause of her death.

[Renaco Salina]

This isn't Monica's funeral. Her family don't have her body to bury. They tried to repatriate her remains but couldn't get the money together in time.

[Rita]

We never had a burial ceremony.

[Rhona]

So there is a great.

[Rita]

The grief is so much.

[Renaco Salina]

The pain is so much.

[Rhona]

God knows you knows what you're going through.

[Renaco Salina]

Monica's mom is distraught. She sobs and holds her head in her hands. She calls out to God about the pain of not seeing her youngest daughter. If Monica has really gone, she wants to bury her on the family land next to the white tiled grave where her husband was laid to rest. It's too much. Monica's mum is helped back inside the house to rest. The prayers and singing carry on and people share stories, stories about Monica. There are lots of happy memories. But for Rona, it's also a reminder of the person they've lost.

[Rita]

Don't cry.

[Rhona]

Don't cry. Very difficult. We miss her. We miss her. Please. I'm very sorry. I'm very sorry. Long time.

[Rita]

We are waiting.

[Rhona]

We can't see the body. We can't see anything. We can't find anything. So what exactly.

[Renaco Salina]

Rona then turns and looks at me.

[Rhona]

If you have any ways, please try to. I just want to know what can happen to her, you know, Sometimes I feel I want to call her. Then I remember it's no longer there. I can't get her.

[Renaco Salina]

So I mean it. The family do their best to support each other, but feelings are raw. Their loss is huge. Rona says if Monica was here, she'd tell them not to give up, to keep looking for Answers what I know.

[Rhona]

Or that what I have a proof. She will never kill herself. That's what I know. Because she was a strong girl. She will never kill herself.

[Renaco Salina]

I'm trying to investigate what happened to her. Where do you think I should start looking first?

[Rhona]

I just feel like you should start to look where she was working before. And what happened to her. Exactly where did she go? All those people who took her there, to abroad. What exactly they did to her, those people.

[Renaco Salina]

Rhona has all these questions and Rita does too. In the days and weeks after she got that call, Rita tries to find out who those people are who took Monica to Dubai. Remember, she never got the name of that so called friend. The one who sent her that horrendous video. Who she says paid for her sister to go to Dubai in the first place. Rita becomes obsessed with finding this guy's name. She uses a money transfer service that allows you to send cash using just a mobile phone number.

[Rita]

Before confirming the transfer. The system shows the recipient's name for verification. This allows you to see their name without completing the transaction. But when we tried this, the system showed a woman's name.

[Renaco Salina]

He's using a phone registered to someone else.

[Rita]

That is when I became suspicious. I knew then that this guy was a con artist.

[Renaco Salina]

So Rita still doesn't have his name. But she keeps calling him, asking what happened to her sister. And manages to get one crucial lead. He tells her talk to someone else.

[Rita]

He gave me his boss's number to get more information. It was Monica's boss in Dubai. I spoke to him, but he was a very strict man. He was so tough on the phone. He's also from Uganda, cause we spoke in the. That's how I know he's from here. He told me that she was working in a supermarket as an accountant.

[Renaco Salina]

But he doesn't give her any answers on what happened to Monica. She keeps calling him, asking him to help raise funds to bring Monica's body home.

[Rita]

When I realized that they were playing games, I contacted a newspaper. The moment they saw me on the news, everything changed. The Dubai guy told me that he had seen me on tv and that I should stop doing interviews, accusing me of being a fraud. He said that Monica was not normal and you know it. He did not show any remorse or sorrow.

[Renaco Salina]

Rita tries to find out more about him, digging for information. But he doesn't give anything away.

[Rita]

I tried talking to him again, but he had blocked me.

[Renaco Salina]

She passes me her phone. On the screen there's a number for Monica's boss. A Dubai one. Aretha doesn't know his name but she needs to pick something to save him as a contact. She doesn't know how her sister died, but she holds this man responsible because.

[Rita]

I got his number after Monica's death. I saved him as killer.

[Renaco Salina]

If you are suffering distress or despair and need support, you could speak to a health professional or an organization that offers support. Details of help available in many countries can be found atbefrienders worldwide www.befrienders.org this has been episode one of Six of Death in Dubai, season nine of World of Secrets. Thank you for listening. Please tell people about it and follow or subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Death in Dubai is produced by Ruth Evans, Lee Chung Bondo and me, Renaco Salina. The sound, design and mix is by Andy Fell, the editor is Rebecca Henschke. Translation and voiceover by Diana Luanga. It was a BBCI investigation produced in association with Thread Studios for bbci. The executive producer is Milen Larson and the editor Mustafa Khalili. For Thread Studios, the executive producer was Mao Grease. Alex Farquharson is head of production, Siobhan Ray is the production manager and Chris Jones is the assistant producer. Original music by Hugh Jones. The production manager was Maria Caramello and the production coordinator was Katie Morrison. Many thanks to the BBC World Service commissioning team that is behind World of Secrets. If you're in the uk, listen to the whole series right now. First on BBC Sound.

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