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Todd Friel
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Jimmy Hicks
That is a bit above average.
Todd Friel
Now here's your host, Todd freakishly Tall. Friel.
Friel, this is Wretched Radio. You're looking at your computer screen. You're looking at your cell phone screen. I know it. I just know it. And I know you see wretched things. Would you please Forward them to ideaetched.org and you can also text freely at 877-282-2337. What's on your mind? What's wretched? What's your question? Common conundrum or snark? Send it, would you?
Jimmy Hicks
I've got.
Todd Friel
That got a little snarky at the end.
Jimmy Hicks
I've got all of those questions, comments, conundrum, snarks.
Todd Friel
Let's do. Let's do. No, no, no, no.
Jimmy Hicks
I'm talking personally. Oh, did you. Did you just have two pairs of glasses on you?
Todd Friel
Maybe I couldn't find the other pair. I put them on.
Jimmy Hicks
They were.
Todd Friel
We had. We had one at home the other day. Like, it was some. I don't even know what it was, but I think you'll relate to this. Anyway, something was put where it absolutely shouldn't be. And it was like, how did that get there? It was sort of like when one day Mrs. Friel said, I found a kitchen towel in the freezer the other day. What is happening here? What is what? 877-282-2337.
Jimmy Hicks
All right. This is a question from Dylan. Todd. What does the Bible say about when we die and when Christ returns? Is there a wa.
Todd Friel
Wow, that's so weird that that question was asked.
Jimmy Hicks
I was.
Todd Friel
I was talking to a buddy about that in the lobby of church on Sunday.
Jimmy Hicks
Oh, really?
Todd Friel
Yeah, that's. It's a great question, because when you. When you read the accounts of judgment, it appears to be like, at the end, you know, like Revelation 20, 21 to it. And when it all wraps up, we see the Great White Throne Judgment. Pretty certain it is Revelation, chapter 20. And there's an interesting detail. There's a separation of sheep and goats. Hmm. Wait a second. Does that mean we'll be at the Great White Throne Judgment, where people are judged for their sins? Well, hold that thought just for a moment. Scoot back to Romans, chapter 14. What do we see? The judgment seat of Christ. What is that Judgment seat if it's not the Great White Throne Judgment? Hold on, scoot over to 1 Corinthians 3, 4. And we read something that we call the Bema seat judgment. And it's quite clear in that context that that is a judgment of works for believers. So when is all of this going to happen? And then to the specific point, what about those who have died before that happens? Where are they? Did they get judged? It's really a great question. Here's how I've sorted it. I suspect other people have different opinions, and that's okay. They can be wrong. So here's my take on the deal. I think that there is going to be one big judgment for Christians and believers, for unbelievers. They will be judged for their sins, will be judged for our works. I think that that will happen at one time in the culmination of human history, before eternity begins. And that means the Bema seat judgment is just another descriptor of that judgment. The judgment seat of Christ is just another descriptor of. And I think ultimately it will happen when the sinners are judged and damned. We will be judged and be rewarded. They'll be judged for their sins. We get judged for our works. Now, I appear to be begging the question, and this has nothing to do with Alistair. What about people who have died before us? What about all of the saints who from their labors rest? Who the by faith before the. What a great hymn. We're singing it this Sunday at Chur. To be talking about the communion of saints. If that only rings a bell, it's probably because you haven't said the Athen or the Apostles Creed for a long time, which talks about. And I. After the Trinitarian confession, I believe in the universal Church, the forgiveness of sins, the communion of saints. Ooh, there's an. There's an understudied subject that is glorious in all of its applications. We're going to be singing that Hymn Sunday morning. Because those saints who went before us, they're waiting for us. Where are they waiting? Well, they're with Jesus is where they are. Because you're absent from the body. Present with the Lord, Paul, he was in a tussle with himself. I want to stay here and be with you, but I want to die and be with my Lord. All of that means that when you die, prior to the great white throne judgment, prior to Jesus return, I believe you either go to and I'll use this word because I do think it's helpful. A holding place hell and a holding place heaven. You will be with your Lord. You will be with him instantly upon death. So that means some form of judgment will have been rendered. But I think that judgment was rendered in eternity past when God elected you and about 16 other verses. Your salvation and your eternity was determined already. And so I think that you're going to be with the Lord. That final wrapping up that judgment, that's going to happen when the Lord determines. I think that that's the timeline. And I think it makes sense in that God makes it clear. There's probably four or five, six, seven verses that God is going to judge all men. He's going to render unto every man that what he has done. And again, unbelievers sins, Christians works. But everybody's going to get judged. And you say, well, what about the sins of Christians? Aren't they going to get judged? Yeah, they were on the cross. So no matter how you slice it, judgment will be thorough. Jimmy, you agree with my timeline or are you a heretic?
Jimmy Hicks
I think I do agree with you.
Todd Friel
I think maybe it's okay. Hey, you disagree? This is a perfect opportunity for you to express yourself. 8, 7, 7, 2, 8 2, 2, 3 3, 7.
Jimmy Hicks
All right. This is from Kyle. Interesting text he sent in. Todd, I tend to hear so much about demonic influence on us and in the world today. When I read verses in Ephesians about spiritual warfare, obviously, hey, it's biblical and true. I know that. However, why don't we talk as much about angelic influence?
Todd Friel
Oh, we should.
Jimmy Hicks
Would it be right to say that they have an equal influence?
Todd Friel
I don't know if it would be right or wrong because we don't get percentages in the Bible. What we know, though, there is a distinction. There are a lot of distinctions. But the angels are messengers of the Lord. They are sent to take care of us. They're sent by God on particular missions. Do we get any sort of inkling that they're roaming around just Kind of working by the playbook mostly, but running their own plays, I don't see that taking place. I see them being commissioned and going specifically by God. Demons. I don't know how Satan operates the system. I do know that it is an organized system. There's a hierarchy system. I think we see that in Ephesians, chapter 6. But who has more influence? I would say that it's not the role of the angels to influence us positively and encourage us and equip and empower us toward holiness that belongs to the Holy Spirit. I see that the angel's role is limited to serving us. I'm not sure I can think of a verse, and it would seem to come into contradiction with the primary role and work of the Holy Spirit being our sanctification and pointing to Jesus Christ. So I would say that the demons probably have more influence. Now the question is, how do they do it? Guess what this is, Jimmy.
Jimmy Hicks
What is it?
Todd Friel
I was sent a free grace. Broadcaster, the subject. Well, maybe you could. Can you read that in there? Can you see that? What?
Jimmy Hicks
That says spiritual warfare.
Todd Friel
We'll do this next week. The old dead guys, they did focus on, in fact. Okay, I don't even know that I agree with this, but please don't tell Thomas Brooks, because the rest of his stuff in this collection of I guess they were sermons about spiritual warfare was really good. Jimmy, do you know where my glasses are? Oh, wait, there. They're both on my head right now. All right, this is what he said. I don't know that I agree with this. Beloved and our dearest Lord, the scripture. Oh, here it is. I'm sorry. Christ, the scripture. Number two, your own hearts. Number three, and Satan's devices are the four prime things that you should be first and most studied and searched. I don't know that I agree with that because it's sort of speculative about the way the demons do their work. I know Satan prowls around like a roaring lion. I get it. He tempts us in some way, shape or form even. That can be a little bit sketchy as to how that works. But Thomas Brooks said, no, you really need to be studying Satan a lot. I think we should be aware of his wiles and we'll do that next week. I think we should understand his limitations. I think we should understand how to battle spiritual temptations, what actual spiritual warfare looks like and what it doesn't look like. But I. I think that we want to be studying Jesus. That's what we want to be studying. Because that's what the Bible all points toward. So I think that it's pretty safe to say he is our primary focus. Do we study Satan? Yeah, I don't think nearly. However, to the same level, I With all due respect to Thomas Brooks, but don't tell him I disagree. This is Wretched Radio,
Jimmy Hicks
so we decided to run the gospel through a Focus groove and they loved the part about love. Then came the notes. Sin sounds a little bit harsh, so they suggested we call it Personal brokenness.
Todd Friel
Hell.
Jimmy Hicks
Well, that's a big negative. Maybe spiritual separation, saying Jesus is the only way? Well, that's just intolerant. You have to make him one of many meaningful paths. And the call to repent and believe, that just raises a little bit of friction. How about like and subscribe? We thank them for their time and kept the message if you're done rounding off the edges, Witness Wednesday here at Wretched Radio will help you share the real Gospel, a holy God, real sin, a just wrath, a crucified and risen Savior, and a clear call to repent and believe. And will do it kindly, clearly and without the sales pitch. It's Witness Wednesday on Wretched Radio. You can listen to your heart's content@fortisplus.org
Todd Friel
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Jimmy Hicks
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Todd Friel
Books of the Bible Philippians was written by Paul from a Roman prison. It is often called the Epistle of Joy for its encouraging tone. In this letter, Paul encourages the Philippians to live in a manner worthy of the Gospel by steadfastness and humility in Christ and cheerful obedience to God, who is working in in us to bring about his good pleasure. This is Wretched Radio with Todd Friel.
Let's hear what's on your mind. This is Wretched Radio. It's the day we love for you to participate by sending whatever you think is wretched and questions. Yep, fair fire away. Comments Disagreements? Can it be anything that you think might help the body, that might correct the talk show host, which to date it has not been needed. But should you think your delusion that I need correction? Feel free. They're always welcome. You won't be judged. 877-283-37 this is from Stephen.
Jimmy Hicks
Todd, you mentioned.
Todd Friel
You know what, Jimmy, I have to tell you, I'm having to make a decision in my life, okay? I'm just. Maybe I should limit this decision. I'm thinking about never being sarcastic again.
Jimmy Hicks
I don't know that you could do that.
Todd Friel
Okay, I'm serious. Okay, so I'm trying to set up a meeting for today between four individuals, right? And I know all of them pretty well. But I received a text back from him and he said, hey, today isn't great. Can we do it tomorrow? Well, the other three fellows we can all meet today, but he can't meet till tomorrow. So I said, I'll check with the other guys. And not to guilt you, but the three of us can make it this afternoon at 5. But if you absolutely can't, don't feel guilty. We're happy to dance around your schedule in acknowledgment of your superior importance. So don't feel guilty. Not for a single second. See, and I'm just wondering. I'll never hear from him again. I just. Maybe texting isn't the ideal communication form for sarcasm, but you feel free to do it anyway. To 877282, 2337 this is from Stephen Todd.
Jimmy Hicks
Recently you mentioned fasting, which most Christians probably have never even heard preached about. One question I have how long should one fast One day, many days. Is there anything that decides the duration?
Todd Friel
Okay, this isn't intended to be snarky, but this is to answer your question. Why do you ask that question? And I think the answer is because the Bible doesn't tell you. So it's like, well, how am I supposed to know how to do this? And I think that points us toward our understanding of the priority of fasting. I don't see it as being really high on the list. I don't see it even mentioned in Acts, chapter two. I don't see those cited really in the New Testament as spiritual disciplines. The only text that I can think of in the New Testament, okay, Paul did some fasting as part of a bow. And Jesus mentioned it when he said, when you fast, don't do it like those guys. Now, he didn't command it when you do it, didn't give any details. No prescription, no duration. He just said, when you choose to do it, don't do it in a showy manner. So the answer to your question is you can fast or not fast. You can fast for a day, half a day, ten days. Do you. You. You make it up is what I'm. Was what I'm saying to you. Because we simply don't have a biblical prescription. And I would also. Just one. Well, maybe two encouragements, but at least one encouragement. Make sure you're clear on why you're doing it. Theologically, there's a fine line here when it comes to fasting. Does it move God? Well, yes, in a predetermined sense, but it doesn't move him really, because of performance. So you got to be careful that you don't think that there's some sort of mystical power in fasting, because God could have every single. Right. You fast for two weeks, and God could say no. So make sure you understand what it does and what it doesn't do. I think fasting is mostly for your sake. More so now. Does. Does. Does it have got to be careful how you even say this. Does it have any sort. Does God recognize it in any way that's safer? Does God recognize it? Yes, he does. But it's. It's. It's. It's not a supernatural bullet that gets God to do whatever it is that you're seeking for him to do. And most importantly, it doesn't earn you any merit. Jesus earned all of that for you. Jimmy, when was the last time you fasted?
Jimmy Hicks
Honestly?
Todd Friel
Yeah.
Jimmy Hicks
Last year.
Todd Friel
Okay, yeah, tell us about it.
Jimmy Hicks
Well, I'm not. So you're not supposed To.
Todd Friel
But I asked. That's different. Not asking. You didn't walk around going, look at me fast. Okay, then better. Okay, so you can keep your crowns. What might be a way that somebody would fast, in your personal experiential opinion, without telling us what you did?
Jimmy Hicks
So fasting, I mean, it's, it's, it's. I mean, I don't really know any other way to do it. Way too. I guess you people do fast from social media, things like that.
Todd Friel
Sure.
Jimmy Hicks
But I mean, me personally, I did the traditional thing. You fast from food, you fast from that type of thing. And the reason that you do it is to get closer to God.
Todd Friel
In what way? What does that mean in your prayer life?
Jimmy Hicks
For me was for my prayer life to get closer to God, to be more reliant on him, especially during that time of hunger. That's the way I understand it is instead of going and relying on food to sustain you during that period of time, you're relying on prayer and you're relying on your relationship with the Lord.
Todd Friel
Okay, so it's edifying for you.
Jimmy Hicks
Yes, absolutely.
Todd Friel
Is how you said. Yeah, there. I eat social media. I, I've seen people, you know, from a particular food. Okay, you're. Would you like to know how bad of a popcorn aholic I am? Fasting from popcorn would be like a big deal. It would be like I've cut back to one bag a night. And I'm not talking about the little ones that you see at the quick trip on the end cap. I'm talking about a bag, like a Costco bag of popcorn. Don't judge me. Don't judge me. You have things too. I'm just telling you, Popcorn. You could just put a feed bag in front of me and I would just bury my face in it all day like a truck. Give me a trough of popcorn, nothing but butter and salt and I'm good. You know what's going to be the main staple food in heaven? Popcorn. That's what I'm telling you. 8 7, 7, 282233 7.
Jimmy Hicks
But, but now you're apparently going to be fasting from sarcasm.
Todd Friel
Jiffy Pop, Jiffy Pop. Here's some more sarcasm. I can't remember whose bit this was. Jiffy Pop, Jiffy Pop, the magical treat. As much fun to make as it is to eat. You know, it really wasn't that much fun because if you weren't burning your hand on that heat conducting wire handle, your face could be disfigured when you poke the bag of steam with a fork. Magical tree. 877. Popcorn.
Jimmy Hicks
But no more sarcasm.
Todd Friel
And sarcasm, they gotta go.
Jimmy Hicks
You're growing as a person.
Todd Friel
Look at me.
Jimmy Hicks
This is from Vinny. Hey, Todd. If someone wakes up and their 401k is gone and they're sad about it, is that sinning? I think we have biblical precedent that we can mourn and should mourn at the loss of a loved one. But if God is sovereign and God gives and takes, what are we sad about if he takes away our money?
Todd Friel
Yeah, it's mourning with hope. For instance. They seem to be contradict, contradictory. But the Bible doesn't see them as enemies. Yes, you're sad. Yes. What did Solomon say? There is a time for weeping. There's a time for laughing. And so understanding God's sovereignty doesn't remove the sting of something painful. Nor does it mean we shouldn't have any joy. Because that's what it would mean on the other end of the spectrum. Well, if I can't be sad over a calamity, I shouldn't be really happy over something that was beneficial. And that just doesn't seem right. Nor is it biblical. So if you lose your 401k, are you sinning? And the answer is dunno. Maybe, maybe not. You've been saving. You've been putting money away. It got wiped out. It got stolen. There was embezzling. And can you be sad about that? Of course you can. Now, Jimmy, I just. I need to get into character here, okay?
Jimmy Hicks
Okay.
Todd Friel
I'm going to do a dramatic presentation of what it means to sin when you discover your 401k program has been depleted. Okay, I'm going to die. God hates me. The future. I might as well put an end to my life because there's no sense in living. I'm never going to survive. And I'm going to die of starvation in a box on the street and people are just going to think I was fasting, but I was starving because I didn't have a 401k program. Okay, I think we get the point. You can be sad. Just don't sin in your sadness if you're for. In fact, this is an opportunity to genuinely understand the sovereignty of God and truly believe his character and his promises. If you're. This is safe. This will sound hard, but it's better to say this prior to the 401k imploding than afterwards. But if your 401k gets totally wiped out for whatever reason, I know who the culprit is. God. Jimmy, could you turn off your microphone. I know who the culprit is. God. It's his money. He gave it to you. He can take it away anytime that he wants. And because we know that he only does things for his children and never to his children, we can rest that what the Lord has ordained is always good. And yeah, we can be sad because it is genuinely a painful thing. But simultaneously we can say it is good that I was afflicted. It is good that my 401k plan was depleted. Why? Because then I understood the precepts of the Lord. This is Wretched Radio.
Jimmy Hicks
And it's now time for your daily Fortis news break, a production of Fortis Institute Accountability was the word of the day on Capitol Hill, where Representative Nancy May Walz exposed government incompetence during a hearing with Minnesota Governor Tim Walz. The subject a staggering 34,000% increase in autism program spending in his state, from 1 million in 2017 to 343 million in 2024, much of it tied to fraud linked to the Somali immigrant community. Wallace couldn't answer basic questions about the numbers, first claiming he wasn't governor in 2017, then admitting he couldn't recall 2020, 24 figures either. Mace pressed him pretty hard. Are you governor of Minnesota or not? Was her question. Walsh snapped that he wasn't there to be her prop, but her closing shot landed the hardest. Thank God you're not the vice president, and I think a lot of us would say a resounding amen to that. Speaking of accountability, President Trump showed Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem the door on Thursday after a series of scandals involving questionable deportation ad contracts worth over $200 million. No one blamed Trump for approving them. Trump told Reuters that he had no knowledge of the deals. The contracts were awarded using limited competition to a company incorporated just days prior. Oklahoma Senator Marqune Mullen, a former undefeated MMA fighter, will take over as DHS secretary effective March 31. The FDA, meanwhile, is rolling out cash bonuses for scientists, scientists who complete drug reviews ahead of schedule. Commissioner Marty Macary pitched it to the staff with the line usually everyone loves money. The agency has already lost 20% of its drug review workforce, dropped its longtime requirements of two clinical trials for new drugs and deployed AI tools that staffers say hallucinate confidently. On the cultural front, an overwhelming 83% of Americans support federal age verification for pornographic websites, according to according to a new poll. The support cuts across party lines, with House lawmakers debating legislation that would force Big Tech to verify minors can't access adult content without parental consent. Half the states already have such laws, almost exclusively Republican led, I might add. And when Louisiana enacted theirs, pornhub Traffic dropped almost 80%. Rather than comply, the site simply shut down in states with verification requirements. That tells you everything you need to know about what their business model actually does depends on and finally, a BLM chapter founder in Lake County, Illinois went viral after getting into a fist fight with a female colleague after she demanded money for cigarettes and accused him of blowing donations on gambling. Both ended up with busted lips. Neither pressed charges. The woman told officers she didn't want to see a black man go to jail. You honestly couldn't write a better script if you tried. That wraps up today's Fortis News break. I'm Jimmy Hicks. If you want more, you can handle Fortis Global plus, or you can sign up to become a Fortis Insider for exclusive daily content. Both of those things can be done right now@fortisinstitute.org and don't forget, you can also subscribe to Fortis News on your favorite podcast app so you can get these updates sent to you every single day. And until tomorrow, go serve your king.
Todd Friel
God has given the many gifts for the building up of the body. One gift is teaching the spiritual ability to explain and apply God's Word. A teacher studies to gain knowledge of the Bible, is equipped with wisdom to understand it, and is gifted with the ability to explain it to others so they can grow in God's truth and apply it to their daily life. This is Wretched Radio with Todd Friel.
Hello. It is our sincerest desire that you would discover something that you deem to be wretched like and if you would be kind enough to send it into ideaetched. I'm trying to rid myself of sarcasm. Okay?
Jimmy Hicks
That's what that is.
Todd Friel
This is Wretched radio trying to be more sanctified. Wait a second. I could actually make the argument it is more sanctified to be sarcastic because you know the Bible has sarcasm. Jesus actually used a bit of sarcasm. In fact several times he used Paul woofed up and I just heard on Sunday Eric is doing such a bang up job with our survey of Isaiah in Sunday school. I wish I had written down chapter and verse but it was sarcasm in Isaiah. So Jimmy, I've decided to have a change of heart. I'm no longer going to fast from sarcasm to be more sanctified and more biblical. I'm going to increase my sarcasm that's being more biblical. See what I did there?
Jimmy Hicks
That didn't last long.
Todd Friel
877-282-2337.
Jimmy Hicks
This is a text from Anonymous taught us struggle with overthinking. How would I go about overcoming this?
Todd Friel
Yeah, I would want to know more details, so I don't want to say something that might hurt more than help. So let me just talk about overthinking, if you will. As a general concept, there's no rules about overthinking. Probably the best rule of overthinking is that you tell yourself, I've just been spending too much time on this. That's probably a pretty good judge that you're overthinking something or your family tells you, settle the issue, let's move on. Or you've made a decision and then you go back and revisit it. You make a decision and you go back and revisit it. At some point, you are crossing a line into what could be sinful territory. Let me explain that. Typically when somebody overthinks something, it is a version of scrupulosity where you just have to run the play over and over and over again. At some point, it could demonstrate a lack of trust in God or a lack of trust in God's granting facilities to you, meaning he's given you a brain. He's given you a body, meaning the body of Christ. He's given you a Bible use that. Make a decision having followed biblical precepts for godly decision making, trusting that you are being faithful to him, and then you pull the trigger. And you do move on. Because if you keep going back to revisit it, then you're not trusting the faculties that God has given to you, or you're not trusting God himself, or you're not trusting people who actually are wise in the situation and have given you every valid reason to make a particular decision. So you want to make sure that this overthinking, you got to have some sort of measurement for it. I think the aforementioned, you're kind of making yourself a little bit agitated. Your family, or you're just. You're just singing the same song, repeating it over and over and over again. Yeah, you're probably overthinking something. Make sure it's not a lack of trust and make sure there's another sin territory. The second biggie that's typically connected with scrupulosity is you think that you have to be in control of everything and everything has to work out. Now, there's a ton of tentacles to that. For instance, it could be pride, it could be control, it could be not wanting to look bad. If you make a bad decision. So make sure that whatever is causing the repeat thinking isn't in the territory of I'm playing the divine because I've got to figure this out. So it's resting and trusting in God, his word, the people he's put in your life, the faculties that he's provided to you. And then you stop thinking about it. Now, you didn't maybe want all of that and you just wanted, well, how do I stop thinking about it? Well, if it's a sin, that's a great place to start. Because now what you need to do is repent. If you are sinning in your scrupulosity, then you need to repent of that. Now, here's the great news. The Lord loves to hear those prayers of repentance, and he loves to provide the power for you to overcome those sin patterns. So you ask him for his help. You ask God's people to hold you accountable. You figure out when it is that you cross that line into scrupulosity and you have a conversation with yourself self. You're overthinking, you're not trusting the Lord. You've got pride in this situation. Whatever it is, Lord, I repent of that. Help me to stop this. I'm going to stop this thinking now. And then you're going to probably have to at least initially work on some tactics for literally changing the tune. You'll have to make some definite, just some really earnest efforts to just change what you're thinking about. Might I suggest you memorize particular Bible verses so the next time you find yourself running the play over and over and over again? Stop. All right. Titus, chapter three, one four. Okay, that's. I'm just going to recite that to take your mind off of the repeating of the same information over and over and over again, should it become something that is more debilitating for you, really encourage you. You can do two things. First of all, scrupulosity, the OCD is probably the DSM term for it. We used to call it scrupulosity. There are biblical counseling resources for that very subject. And you should know, you ain't weird. Let me tell you, this is super common. So this ain't like flaky land. This is a very common human malady. Biblical counseling resources or find yourself a biblical counselor@biblicalcounseling.com to help you walk through it. If it's really tripping you up on a regular basis, call in the supports, start with materials, call in a biblical counselor, talk to your elders and Let the church do for you what the church is designed to do, and that is to help one another. Oh, you got something.
Jimmy Hicks
Speaking of biblical counseling resources.
Todd Friel
Oh, yeah, what am I forgetting?
Jimmy Hicks
This week's episode of Transformed. How would I know this is about religious scrupulosity?
Todd Friel
No way.
Jimmy Hicks
It is.
Todd Friel
He finally did it.
Jimmy Hicks
He did.
Todd Friel
Oh, that rascal. I've been on him for this because it's been on my mind a lot. Oh. So I asked Greg Gifford, would you please do something, because I run into this so regularly. Please know this is. It can be sinful. It doesn't have to be sinful thing, but it can be a sinful thing. But what you need to know is it's not like I can't tell anybody about this because they're going to think I'm weird. I'm just telling you, there's so many folks that battle this all the time. Don't feel ashamed to ask for some help because there's plenty of it. There's a lot of power available to you, and you should have Nothing but hope. 877-28-22-2-337.
Jimmy Hicks
All right. This is a text from Anonymous Todd. If a couple divorces due to adultery, is the offending spouse able to remarry according to scripture?
Todd Friel
Jimmy.
Jimmy Hicks
What?
Todd Friel
You know I can't answer a question like that.
Jimmy Hicks
Yeah, you need more information.
Todd Friel
It's too complicated.
Jimmy Hicks
Go to your elders. That's right. It's. But it's on. That's a.
Todd Friel
That is the answer. Yeah, that would. Would just simply be doing you a disservice by just firing shots without any information. I don't know what the target is. So encourage you. Sit down with your elders. 877-282-22-337.
Jimmy Hicks
All right. This is from Anonymous Todd. How can I help a friend of mine see through the deception of Deliverance Ministries, she continues to go and insists she has demons attached to her. I refuse to believe this. The Holy Spirit is greater in us, is greater than the devil. We're saved, chosen, and his possession. And I know we struggle with the flesh, but I don't think we can be possessed. And I don't really know how to talk to her.
Todd Friel
Yeah, well, she said attached.
Jimmy Hicks
Yes.
Todd Friel
Okay. Does that mean influencing or does that mean actual occupation? Because if she means occupation, she's wrong. Here's the Pythias line. The Holy Spirit does not have roommates. That's the the end. But if it's influence, I wouldn't argue with. She could have demons influencing her. We're going to be talking about that subject, at least to a degree. Next week, courtesy of Thomas Brooks and Spiritual Warfare. It was a free grace broadcaster book. These nice folks send it to me every quarter and I read it. It's just Puritan collection on a particular subject. So we'll, we'll talk about it to a degree. So maybe ask some qualifying questions. Do you mean that they influence you or do you mean that they're controlling you? Or do you actually possessing you and dwelling inside of you. And then you can break it down and encourage her. Great news. You can't be occupied by a demon if you're saved. So if she claims she's occupied by a demon, well, I'm going to have to take her at her word and make sure she understands the gospel and that she actually has the Holy Spirit dwelling in her. So evangelism in most of these situations is usually frontline. But then if it's where she feels like it's influencing, take her through the Bible to show how the Bible deals with the subject. Because the Bible doesn't. We aren't preoccupied by the devil. I don't see now we've got a lengthy chapter in Ephesians, chapter six on spiritual warfare. We also see that James brings up the subject and talks about the roaring lion that prowls about. But I don't see a biblical obsession with Satan. I think that's unhealthy. And I don't think that we see all of these modern day spiritual warfare tactics that are made up outside of the Bible because the Bible makes it really, it's just over and over again when you read through the full armor of God, your weaponry when it comes to dealing with demons. It's not bibbidi bobbidi boo. It's not incantations, it's not holy water. It is the word of God, period. This is wretched radio.
Jimmy Hicks
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Todd Friel
Hermeneutics Hermeneutics is the art and science of interpreting scripture. One key principle of hermeneutics is the analogy of Scripture. If God is consistent and the Bible is God's word, then the Bible is consistent. We can then use scripture to interpret scripture, understanding less clear verses in light of clear verse verses. This is Wretched Radio with Todd Friel.
Better than a fleece. This is Wretched Radio. Jimmy, I just got a sign.
Jimmy Hicks
You got a sign?
Todd Friel
Yeah, I got a sign that my sarcasm is ordained, it is approved, and I'm going to keep using it to full measure.
Jimmy Hicks
Okay?
Todd Friel
My buddy texted back. He's meeting us at 5. So there you have it. I got a sign right from God. Yep. Got to be careful with that. Got to be careful with how you understand God's sovereignty and his dense. Because God could have had my friend Meet me at 5 Despite the text, not because of it. Having said that, that does not mean I don't give credit to God. When good things happen, I can be mindful of both of those things. When something happens to you, see it as what it is. It's a blessing. And you can praise God for that. But don't read deeper into it like, well, that means I'm supposed to go to that university. No, no, he's. He doesn't communicate that way to you. He communicates to you through the word. So regarding my sarcasm, how do I know if it was right to send a sarcastic note or not? Well, if you wanted to walk through the steps, it would be that I study the Bible on sarcasm. When is it used? How is it used? What is the motivation for using sarcasm? At least the right motiv? What would godly people tell me if they saw the text? Would they go, yeah, that's funny. No, everybody. No, people will get that. That's. Clearly you're just playing or you know what? It's coming across a little. You're cutting with a serrated edge. I think you need to back off on that. That's how you make a decision about stuff. Not by reading Providence any deeper than thank you, Lord. Ideaetched.org or text away to 877282, 2337.
Jimmy Hicks
So this is from Douglas. Todd. Does the Bible or did the Bible predict the current events happening in the culture right now, and if so, can you give me an example?
Todd Friel
We're going to find out when the Lord wraps it up because we're in the end times. We're in the church age. These are the end times. But I think most of us, when we think of the end times, it's like, are we talking next Tuesday here? Like, it's really getting imminent, it's getting closer? Well, we know, of course it is getting closer, but it's like, are we right there? Are these the signs, the portents that we read about in the prophecies in the Bible? And the answer is, I don't know, because I'm pretty certain every generation could read the signs of their times and say, I think this is it. Yet so definitively any particular sign? Gog, Magog, natural events, whatever. Are are these things, signs that it's going to be like really, really soon, and none of us can say until it actually happens because nobody knows the day or the hour. Jimmy. I just. Somebody told me there's a guy, he's got his own little cult going on and he predicted the definitive return of Jesus. Oh, yeah, 2036.
Jimmy Hicks
That's soon.
Todd Friel
Well, it gives you a decade to make as much money as you can before you're wrong. Because he will be. Unless God providentially has ordained that happens to be the end, but he will be returning. Not because of the prophecy. Frankly, anybody who says that they know the day or the hour, they don't know their Bible, because nobody does. And I want to be careful that I, I don't want to be unwise about these signs because look, you could make a really strong case. What's happening with Israel, the reconstitution of Israel as a state. Whoa. That has some serious eschatological implications. What. What's going. What. Even, even what we see with the ability of communication via social media, it's like, okay, that could play a role in this. We see the movement of nations, we see what's happening in the Middle East. And a lot of these things would indicate this could be, and I affirm that it could be. But ultimately we simply don't know until it actually happens. 87728. Jimmy, did you see, by the way? I think it was the Washington Post. They did a lovey dovey piece on the Ayatollah, the dead Ayatollah.
Jimmy Hicks
Yeah, yeah, yeah. New York Times did too.
Todd Friel
Oh, hold on a sec. Somebody. I don't know if this was Babylon B or who sent this to me, but this is one of those instances where you get a text and it's like, well, that's funny. It listed all of the different news networks and how they're reporting about the attack that's going on in the. I'm so sorry, but I got a bunch of these texts. This one was Babylon B. It's. It's a picture of Satan with his little horns, and he's got a clerical robe on, standing in front of what appears to be a high church altar. And it says, I found where I belong. Headline, Satan joins Episcopal Church. That's old news. He joined that long time ago. Then the, the other one that was sent, Mandati Mandani getting nervous as Trump keeps assassinating Muslim dictators. That's kind of funny. But this, this is the one that I thought was like, yep. Don't think that your news outlet doesn't have some sort of perspective or bias. Right, wrong, or indifferent. So Fox News reporting on Operation Epic Fury. Trump strikes Iran in perfectly executed military operation. The New York Times beloved statesman grandfather gone before his time. That would be not too far. Newsmax. All earth bows before he rescues us from oppression. Dear glorious Trump. What's Ms. Now? Is that the new MSNBC?
Jimmy Hicks
I don't know.
Todd Friel
Death of Khomeini could spell disaster for Iran's trans population. Cnn. Iranians mostly mourning Ayatollah's death. You know, they don't want to be too one or this or that. This is what's in I n small I small in.
Jimmy Hicks
Oh, I don't know.
Todd Friel
Well, then it wouldn't make any sense to any of us. Npr innocent Ayatollah was the greatest civil rights icon since George Floyd.
Jimmy Hicks
Wow. That's.
Todd Friel
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Jimmy Hicks
All right, this is from Devin. A text. Todd. I run a organization.
Todd Friel
Oh, no, no, wait, hold it. There's one more.
Jimmy Hicks
One more.
Todd Friel
Yeah. No, it's got to be Christianity Today. The gospel legacy of the Ayatollah and why Christians should grieve his death. That hurts. Sorry.
Jimmy Hicks
From Devin. Todd, I. I run a small charity organization that helps homeless people with clothing. And many of the people I speak with from my church about helping homeless people immediately start talking about how programs such as the one that I run en continue to be homeless. I understand their point of view and can see why what they're talking about. However, I also believe we're called to clothe those in need. What's your point of view on the matter?
Todd Friel
Yeah, I can understand their argument, but what I have to do is go straight to the clear teaching on compassion and mercy ministry and that we should do all that we can. Remember, I do believe there is an ordo armor amore. That there is a. There's circles of love. There's also circles of charity. There's circles of kindness. Even that circle, I think even to a degree, applies to other Christians. I believe that we are uniquely called to serve some Christians more than others. Let me explain. The Christians that we are particularly called to serve are the ones with whom God has providentially placed us in the context of the same local church. Then I think I can help maybe people in churches outside of my church, all the way to around the globe. But I think we have a particular duty to one another. Now, having said that, I think the Bible is clear. We should do what we can to what did Jesus say is a sign of the faith. It's not something that earns your salvation. Sorry, Mr. Talarico. This is not something that gets you to heaven, which is what apparently he believes and is Same thing with Reverend Rigby, his pastor in Austin, Texas, that salvation is incumbent upon clothing and feeding. Well, first of all, those verses weren't written to the government. Second of all, they're written to say, this is what Christianity looks like. You visit people in prison, you clothe people who are naked. You feed people who are starving. And so I would say I understand your concern. And you know what? I thank you so much for the input because I'm going to examine how it is that we make sure that we're not doing that, because there is a line between helping and enabling. And I'm going to try to make sure that we don't cross that line. But I'm not going to let that danger keep me from doing what the Bible clearly commands. And that is charity. No, personal charity. We give from the heart. Government giving is not charity. Government giving is taxation and money redistribution. The Good Samaritan. It is about our hearts towards strangers. It's our hearts toward those who have been wounded and are hurting and are needy. It's not about starting another welfare program. It's not about taking from one to give to the other. And so they're twisting of Scripture, which the Washington Post doesn't seem to have any difficulty with. Nordic CNN or MSNBC or NPR or pretty much any liberal network. But we shouldn't let them get away with that. Giving is supposed to be done in response to, and it starts with the family of God. Doesn't mean that we don't help strangers. Doesn't mean that we don't help those, even as far as overseas as we can. But our first priority is to the brothers and sisters with whom you are doing life in the context of your local church. So thank them for their input. Tell them you'll watch the line, but you're headed back to the streets. And thank you for doing so. Until tomorrow, go serve your king.
Episode: Mailbag Friday: Christ’s Return, Spiritual Warfare, & Homeless Help
Date: March 6, 2026
This Mailbag Friday episode of Wretched Radio features host Todd Friel and co-host Jimmy Hicks fielding listener questions on pressing theological and practical issues in the Christian life. The conversation is lively and honest, alternating between biblical depth, playful banter, and Todd's trademark sarcasm. Topics include what happens when we die and at Christ’s return, the biblical understanding of spiritual warfare, fasting, handling disappointment with material loss, responding to deliverance ministry claims, helping the homeless, and dealing with overthinking and scrupulosity. Listeners are encouraged to think biblically, seek the church’s wisdom, and hold charity and sound doctrine in proper balance.
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The episode masterfully blends theology, wit, and practical Christian counsel. Todd and Jimmy remind listeners to seek biblical wisdom, avoid easy formulas for life’s hard questions, and trust God’s Word above personal opinion or cultural trends. The show’s tone alternates between playful and serious, always striving for clarity, orthodoxy, and spiritual encouragement.
“Until tomorrow, go serve your king.” (52:36, Todd Friel)