Unknown Male Host (14:41)
Let's talk about the big things and let's talk about the little things. This is Wretched Radio. Don't know how, don't know why, I don't understand the algorithm business, but I was looking at some shorts on the thing where you swipe it and wow, is that a potential black hole. I'm telling it's like I could watch dog rescue videos and dog adoption videos to the cows come home and you can just dive. Just Alice in Wonderland. You just go down that hole and you find it hard to get back out of it somehow. There were videos that I thought, ah, this is it. These are the big things of life. They were videos of, of, of. Of women that were basically sharing the test results from a pregnancy test and seeing the dad's reaction. And I went, that's sweet. And then of course, because you know, you watch one of them, then it starts to populate with the stuff that they think that you want to watch because you're like a fish. That's you and I, we're fishes. And they just. The hook with the bait on it, and they just get us right by the lip, and they just tug us in, and we can't stop watching this stuff. The next one were individuals, these couples, typically, that were revealing to the mom and dad, in other words, the grandparents, that they were naming their newborn child after one of them. Oh. Oh, man. Cilla. That was just. And, you know, these, especially the guys, the grandpas that were told, your grandson is going to be named after you, they just lost it. And I stopped and I thought, okay, why? And there's a number of reasons. Obviously, it's an honor. I think for some men, that they have a sense. It's nice to know that the effort that they put into their family, that this is some form of a legacy for that. I think for some men, it's a thought that, hey, in some small way, they'll be remembered, and maybe, just maybe, somebody will name my grandchild, will name their child after me, too. And it made these men just verklempt. And I thought, how delightful is that? Because there are some things that I think precede the decision to name a child after a grandparent. Well, after their parents, really. And that is the family is intact. It's somewhat functional. There's a warm relationship there. The kids haven't ghosted the parents, and the parents haven't run off to Florida to just abandon their kids because it's now me time. Which just both sides of that equation are like, you're missing out on the big stuff. And then I don't know how this happens. There was another set of videos that popped up in my feed, and it was the guys that are standing at the altar waiting for their brides to come in, and she shows up resplendent in white, and the dudes just lose it. And I. I don't know if it's because of the Celine Dion music that they seem to play with each and every one of these videos. I can't. We pick different songs. Okay, here's the other one. It's a John. That dreadful John Lennon song. It's like, really, there's no other songs that we could play besides this to, like, tug on people's emotions. I was able to listen through that to see what was happening in these instances. And I thought to myself, these are the unheralded, unsung big things. Hollywood has very little interest, not no interest, but very little interest in. They don't put their emphasis on these moments that are so profound and rich. And I thought, how do we convey this to a new generation? That's what you're gunning for right there. That's what you're after right there. Those moments, because the world is telling them. Perpetual buzz. It's all about you. Live your life, make sure you're happy. Just 24 7. And with that comes a degree of. I'm trying to think of a better word than selfishness, where you don't invest in those types of moments. We need to let younger generations know somehow to model. That's what you're after. You're after moments that are. That are sweet. You're after deathbed moments that are profound, that are so rich that you are so stirred internally because you've been doing something with another human being for decades. Those are the big things. Career advancement, nice. Gaining some bank, that's cool. Being able to purchase a house, all that very, very fine stuff. But those aren't the big things. The big things are the sweet moments between human beings that have some profound depth to them. Go for those things if you're young. Set your sights on those things now, this is what it'll look like. You have an opportunity. Now, I'm not saying every single decision needs to be made this way, but you have an opportunity to take paths every single day. You can choose to do stuff for yourself. Go running around, never be, be, never be with the parents, never be involved with them. Or you can sometimes at least say, sorry, guys, you go play. I'm going to go be with my parents. They need help with something. I'm just going to drop by now. I'm just going to honor them and, and let them know that I care about them. I'm going to eulogize them by visiting them. Gun for those things. Because I'm telling you, someday, if you don't appreciate it now, you will. Let's talk about the small things. Received an email sent to ideaetched.org Todd I enjoy playing chess, photography, cooking, but above all, I do enjoy reading my Bible. So how does someone who enjoys chess or photography or car building, etc. Keep God at the front of those hobbies? I'm fearful to study chess out of fear of neglecting the word or prayer or his will. I know there are Christian chefs, chef players or artists, but how do I worship God in those hobbies I enjoy? Those are the small things. How do you do those things? In profound ways. How do Those things have significance. Should we be doing those little things at all? That's the question that is being forwarded via this email. It's so important to me, he writes, to understand this, because if it's not, then I'll forsake all those things because God is far more important than anything. That has to be a heart that pleases the Lord, isn't it? Is there any way to make God the focal point in all we do? Hobbies, woodworking, car, rebuilding, chess, art, etc. How does one do this? In all that I do, I want God to be the point I do it that I worship him in, whatever hobby, job, all that I do. That's a question I think a lot of people ask. And I think that if I could reframe all of everything that he was articulating, it is how do I connect my faith to everything. Now this would be an opportunity. Typically a lesser talk show host would plug and promote his new book coming out this fall. Actually it's going to be, I think Pre sale starts September 1st. It's called Go serve your king. And that's really probably the essence of the book, how you connect everything to everything. When it comes to your faith and reality, how are those linked together? And I think that when it comes to the little things, we need to be careful because I do believe that everything should be done to the glory of God. And yet simultaneously, there's no way that you can sit and play chess while pondering the state of first century slavery because you're considering the book of Philemon. You can't do both. And what I hear being reflected in this email is that if I'm not doing Bible reading, I'm not doing something that is connected to my faith. That's wrong. Everything you do is connected to your faith. Everything. No, you're probably not mindful of it most of the time, but the reality is everything you do, the good way or the bad way, it glorifies the Lord. So how do you go about the business of having fun, doing hobbies, taking naps and enjoying cold watermelon on a summer day? How do you do that? And the answer is you live as a Christian. That's it. You're a Christian. Live. Talk to your Lord as often as you want to, which should increasingly be more and more because it's the best conversation you can have. Study his word, be with his people. Now those are specific things that we can be confused with our dualistic minds to say, well, that's the religious stuff. Now what about the other stuff, and I'm telling you, there's no distinction. There's no difference. It doesn't mean that you have to be thinking about the Lord all the time. You should think about him as much as you can because it's the best thought that you can have. But just because you're not doesn't mean that you're not being a believer any more than a parent who goes off to work, who isn't at the moment thinking about their kid who's being homeschooled or doing playing tennis makes them a bad parent. You do your responsibilities, but your life revolves around your family as a parent, ditto with God. And that means if the center of your life is Jesus Christ and everything you do is for his glory, should you pray before you play chess? You can does that mean you have to be thinking about Jesus when you're considering RTA? Bishop 7 I have no idea what I'm talking about. The point is, live your life as a Christian. Don't feel terrible if you're not perpetually thinking about the Lord while simultaneously recognizing the best thought you can have all day is thinking about your Lord. And that is how you live your life as a Christian and glorify him and enjoy him, even in the little things. This is Wretched Radio.