
Balancing Personal Priorities & Business Growth
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Hello and welcome to this week's episode of the YouCan podcast. I'm your host, Sarah Jolly Jarvis, and today we are going to be talking around. Are you holding your business back? It's a big balance. It's a matter of balancing out between your personal priorities and your business growth, particularly when you run your own business. And so that's what we're talking about. Are you expecting your business to fund your lifestyle before it's really fully grown and in a position where it can do that? So we're going to talk about personal priorities and whether they are out of sync, out of balance with where your business is and where you want to take it. So what we'll cover is balancing those personal priorities, like renovations, like holidays, like life, but also why it matters. So many early stage entrepreneurs unknowingly sabotage their progress because they take too much money out of the business and expect it to develop and grow on too little resources. And so this all came about really, because I was talking to a business owner who, I was asking them, you know, how's it going? They've been going now about just under a year, and they were telling me that, you know what? I'm disappointed with the amount of leads that I'm getting. My audience isn't a bad size, but I'm just not getting the conversions that I was expecting at this stage. And so obviously it's sales. I love sales. So. So I was straight in there asking all the questions and what came up for me was when I asked them around, what have they done so far to make changes with this? And actually, I saw a post out on LinkedIn this week about, you know, people when they want to do better at something than when they want to improve. If you want to learn a musical instrument, you go out and you get lessons. And that might not be formal lessons, but you'll go on the Internet and you'll, you'll download YouTube and watch loads of videos and all that kind of stuff to kind of get an understanding of what you need to do. And that can be the same thing in your business, is you can't expect your business to improve or your skill set around something to improve without doing some learning, better understanding it, or, you know, at least doing supported practice. And so when I said to this person, you know, what? What have you done? And they were like, well, I haven't done anything because we've had a lot of costs. We've been away on a big holiday and we've got another one coming up and we're in the middle of a house renovation. That for me was really like, whoa, you know, wait a minute, what is your house renovation? What has your holidays got to do with your business? Now, I am like a big fan of going on holiday and taking a bit of time out and having the opportunity to kind of relook at things. And so, you know, you could argue that a decent holiday will provide you with a new perspective on your business, et cetera, et cetera, help you come back energized, you know, you can't run on empty, et cetera, et cetera. But when you start prioritizing multiple elements like that over your business, and you know, your business doesn't have the funds to invest in itself because it's supporting those activities where, you know, what I tend to call them, whether, you know, it's a little bit too black and white, but you know, I tend to say, well, actually activities like that, activities which are non revenue generating activities, they're not going to help your business, they're not going to help you move things forwards. So, you know, holiday, as harsh as it sounds, it's not a revenue generating activity. You could argue with a holiday that gives you a new perspective. You could argue with a house renovation that, you know, new doors and windows are going to help you feel better. But in reality, they're probably not the best investment for you to make if you want your business to develop and grow. For example, you know, if you're struggling with your sales, if you're not able to reach new audiences and really need to run paid ads, et cetera, et cetera, then, you know, spending your money on new windows is probably not going to be the best investment of your finances. But people do it. And why do we do it? Well, a lot of the people that I work with, they come from a corporate background and they are used to a particular amount of income. And obviously, you know, with that level of income that you have, you tend to live to that level. So, you know, you'll have a mortgage which reflects that, you'll have a lifestyle and tastes and preferences that reflect that. And it is very difficult to kind of rein that in. Okay, that becomes very easily human nature. So weird, isn't it? But we tend to find our sort of baseline, our minimum expectation and that just tends to go up. That doesn't tend to be, at least subconsciously, without a conscious effort, we don't tend to sort of review and reign things back in. We're just happily going about and kind of growing and developing all the time. And Spending that bit more and expecting that bit more. And I don't think we're wrong to feel like that, but it's understanding that in the early days your business might not be in a position where it can afford that wage on a consistent basis. If you've come from a corporate job, then you've had, you know, you've been with a business which has been around for some time and so with being around for some time, it has more established ways of generating leads, converting leads, etc. And so you know, its income tends to be a little bit more reliable. Whereas when you are first starting out, you know, there's a massive learning curve with running your own business, but also there's a massive learning curve with your customer base, your lead generation, et cetera. And so you know, the likelihood is is that you're not going to get consistent leads. You're potentially going to take on clients that are more time consuming, less ideal, et cetera, et cetera. And so you are, that is likely to impact your income. Also, as you are running between, you know, wearing one hat and another in your business, you can drop the ball somewhat and you can end up on that cycle of that feast and famine where you get clients on board and then you're delivering for them. So you take the eye off the ball of marketing and then so that continues. So then you'll put your focus into marketing and then you'll get those clients. And so it is a real sort of up and down rollercoaster. And so with that comes that impact on finances. And at the end of the day, if you don't have money to keep things ticking over, for example, you know you have support, you have to let support go. You have to have somebody who's on a temporary basis, like zero hours or whatever with you so that they're in a position where you can drop their hours down as and when you need to, then things are going to, you know, move and develop forwards and then they're going to stagnate. If you have a gap in your skill set that you need to fill either with an individual themselves or by upskilling yourself or another of your team, then again, you're going to have to fork out money in order to fill that gap and get that skills in house. And so with that you're going to have to invest. If you don't have the money to invest because you've bought your windows, because you've bought your holidays, then that's when you're going to have that struggle. And so it is really important to remember, you know, you can't harvest fruit from a tree that hasn't matured yet. And so you're taking from it before it's in a position where, you know, you've, you've really given it chance to establish itself and be able to take that hit. So I'm saying, oh, you can't do it, you shouldn't do it. It's going to stunt your growth. But how, how does it really do that? Well, you know, it can be in the form of missed opportunities. Your sales isn't up to scratch, for example. You know, obviously I love sales, but you haven't put the effort into learning. You haven't invested in learning how best to go about securing people, particularly those ideal clients or people when you know, you really have to kind of, you feel like you're taking a step up. And so you haven't got those skills to secure those individuals. And so those are missed opportunities. You've also got the fact that, you know, you just can't progress, like I said before, taking on a member of staff and then, you know, not being able to have them all the time, having to let them go. Or I know a lot of clients who've got VAs and so they have to increase and decrease the hours and so then they spend more time. If you're not able to pay for your va, for example, to do your admin for you, then you've got to do your admin, which means then that takes you off either the delivery or it takes you off the lead gen side of things. Unless you've got somebody in on your marketing. If you've got somebody in on your marketing and you can no longer afford them, then because you know, they've generated the money, they've got the money into the business, but you've taken it out for extracurricular activities, then what can you do? You can't pay them, so you're not going to be able to use their services. And so that's where that growth can be really stunted. And that in itself can put you into that kind of feast and famine scenario. So you know, you can get loads of money in and think, oh yeah, this is great, but you spend and then you don't have the minimum that you need to kind of keep going and keep reinvesting. So you're like, yeah, okay, Sarah, I get the problem. I can totally see where you're coming from. What do I do about it? Well, you know, there are ways to navigate it to help you to Better balance things. The first step, really the sort of main thing that you can do is manage your expectations. You know, don't plan for a wedding, a big holiday, et cetera, et cetera. Don't put that pressure on yourself, but also on your business and its finances to come up with the goods for that instead, you know, pair things back a bit. When you make the decision to work for yourself, then be prepared to just rein things in a bit, not go on that holiday, not have those new things or that big Christmas, et cetera, that you would normally plan. That can sound a bit pants. Absolutely it can. But if actually you use forecasting and revenue cash flow, then you can have a realistic view of actually where your finances are at and what you can therefore afford. At this stage, it makes sense not to get yourself into debt. I know people who have, I've been there with myself with using money and using credit to get yourself in a better position that can really seriously damage your business and put a lot of unnecessary pressure on yourself. So if you've got that better grip, and that's the thing is people put their head in the sands. I must speak to people on a weekly basis who want to leave their job. And I get it, you know, I was there, I didn't like being told what to do. I was really conscious of how to balance the life that I wanted with having a job. And so I totally understand the desire to leave a full time job. The challenge is that that provides a consistent reven. And so if you're not going to be getting that revenue from there, where are you going to be getting it from? And so regularly with clients who are sort of leaving the corporate world and setting up their own business, I'll encourage them to have kind of key milestones, so milestones of the amount of a buffer in the bank, so how many months they are comfortable with having sat there waiting to be used if things don't go so well. And the thing is, we're not just talking about, oh, you know what, I always get leads, I always get clients. We're talking around like people being ill. You know, I'm in a position now where I've got a young family, but I've also got aging parents. There are demands on me everywhere. And so, you know, it's all right when the goings good, but if something goes wrong, then what? So having that money there, not wanting to be too doom and gloom, but it can really help you to sort of weather those storms a little bit better and with less financial stress. So Consider those alternative revenue sources. Do you want to keep that full time job a little bit longer? You know, yes, I totally get it. It is really, really hard work to have a business on the side and a full time job. I've been there. And so I totally get you don't want to do that long term. But just understanding, okay, this is the consequences, how much money I'm going to have to earn. I speak to people who need 15 to 20k a month coming through their business in order to be able to sort out their personal finances and continue with the income that they, that they used to. And that's the thing is I'll speak to people on a regular basis saying to them, you know, so what is your minimum? And they're like, yeah, you know, it's, it's, it's 10K. And I'm like, okay, but what actually is the minimum to cover your bills and to enable you to eat? And they're like, oh yeah, you know, that's like half of that. And so it is being honest with yourself. The more finances you expect out of your business, the quicker you're going to have to get going. And you know, I'm going to come onto this in a bit. But the more you actually need to invest in help, you know, it is, it is possible to do this all on your own and to get your business up and running really, really quickly, generating loads of money. You hear success stories, you know, around people doing this. But the thing is, is they are success stories. They are not the norm. You know, everyone knows the statistics on how many businesses fail within the first three years. It is really high. Some quote as much as like 75%. And so, you know, why is that? That is because, well, you know, they fail because of the financial side of stuff. And it's like, where does that come in? And I think this expectation and you know, that sort of unwillingness to compromise is a big thing. You know, sometimes those holidays, those renovations, they just need to wait. You need to prioritize back into your business. You need to fill those gaps. If you thought about your business and your skill set as a calendar and you need to fill those holes. Until those holes are filled. You know, you haven't got a complete unit, you haven't got a complete option. You are going to get loss of income and loss of clients through those holes, those gaps in your skill set that you've got. So how can you go about this? How can you navigate this? Well, yes, you can be prepared, you can be ready to compromise you can look at alternative incomes, but when you're in that situation, one of the best things that you can do is to budget for reinvestment. Okay? So set aside a fund for business growth, okay, so for coaching, for marketing, for software, for resources. That means that your business will be able to get itself on its feet and stable and ideally in as short a time as possible so that then you can start to expect more from it. What you need to do in order to do that budget is to identify the help you need. So clarify on what support will drive your business forwards, how much that will cost, do your research, okay? It's window shopping. It's fun window shopping. So don't be afraid to do that. The biggest leaps forwards that I've made in my business is when I've invested in a mentor before that. You know, you're sort of bumbling along, you're kind of second guessing yourself, you're looking at different options. You end up getting distracted by all these kind of low priced and free kind of insights into how different people work. And you're literally all over the place, which is wasting like really the most valuable thing, which is time. And that's the thing is you only have 24 hours in a day. You know, there is lots of money out there. There isn't lots of time out there, okay? So it's about spending that time wisely. And that's where particularly if you choose to stay in a side hustle, so have your business as sort of a side hustle and have a full time job still so that you keep those funds coming in, you want to be spending that time really, really wisely. The amount of people who I've worked with who have still been in full time jobs because they've wanted to make sure that the time they are spending on their business, which is very, very precious and very, very small, was the right activities to be doing. So they're working smarter, not harder. And I think that's the main thing here is, you know, using your time wisely to then get yourself in a position where your business can then generate money. And lots of people I speak to is they're like if. And that's another thing is that I want to put in here is about belief, okay? You look around you and try not to beat yourself up by where other people are because they're on a different timeline to you, they're on a different journey. And also what you see on social media isn't always true. But look around you and look for the inspiration. Look at the people who are those few steps ahead of you look at what they're achieving, look at what they're doing. And you know that can be a starting point as a mentor is even somebody you're not paying, somebody who doesn't even know that you are that they're your mentor, but somebody that you're looking to and you are looking at how they navigate things and you are mirroring that can have a real impact. I talk often on normally actually when I get interviewed on podcasts, I talk around using podcasts as to create that kind of environment, that bubble around yourself. There's that five steps of a highly effective person or whatever it was. They talk around in that. And it's touched in so many different places that you are the sum of the five people you hang around with the most. And the thing is that it can cost a lot of money to hang around with the right people. But with podcasts and things like that, nowadays, podcasts just like this one, you can be surrounded by individuals who are doing really well. That's the point of this podcast, is to support you on your journey and to help you feel not alone and to provide you with inspiration. So use that inspiration. Surround yourself with individuals who are doing well, who you admire, and then that way you can feel more energized and you can believe it. You stop saying maybe I can or if I do, and you start saying about when. And that in itself, that massive shift in your thought process can make a huge, huge difference to your business, to your performance, to your self belief because of your self belief, enabling you to generate that income and get your business up there and being consistent. Okay, no one grows a business alone. Sometimes the best investment is in yourself and your support network. It is very, very difficult to get here all by yourself without any help or any support whatsoever. And so when you can make sure that you are investing wisely in the resources and the support that you need. But don't try and figure it all out. It's crazy to think that we can just start a business and know straight off the bat exactly how we're supposed to be running it. It is not. Unless you are running a business, mentoring business, coaching business, then you're not going to know all the things. And even then, most people have specialities. So some people, they might commit from a financial perspective, but that doesn't mean that they've got the sales and marketing that doesn't they can create the messaging. There are so many hats to wear when you are running your own business that you're kind of setting yourself up for failure if you expect yourself to know how to do all those things without any support or further training. So that's it for me this week, guys. You know, please do share. You can link with me on LinkedIn, you can link with me on Facebook, you know, share with me the challenges that you've had over balancing your business growth. I will probably more than likely put I will put out a post on my in my ucan group on Facebook where you can share what's helped you navigate it, where you've kind of found yourself going a bit wrong, and how you've got yourself back on to focusing on your business and helping and supporting it as it needs. So, you know, please do share those and reach out if you do need help with having more structure, having more clarity in your business. That is what I do is I help people to grow their business and create a business that works for them. So thanks very, very much for listening. And as ever, please do subscribe, rate and share the podcast so that we can get more listeners in. And that supports what I do. So that's it for me, guys, this week. Bye for now.
Podcast Summary: "Are You Holding Your Business Back?"
Title: Are You Holding Your Business Back?
Podcast: You Can! Inspiring Women In Business
Host: Sarah Jolley-Jarvis
Release Date: December 12, 2024
In this insightful episode of You Can! Inspiring Women In Business, host Sarah Jolley-Jarvis delves into a critical question facing many female entrepreneurs: "Are You Holding Your Business Back?" Sarah explores the delicate balance between personal priorities and business growth, shedding light on how misaligned priorities can inadvertently hinder the development and success of a business, especially in its early stages.
Sarah begins by addressing the common challenge entrepreneurs face in balancing personal life with business responsibilities. She emphasizes the importance of not expecting your business to fund your lifestyle prematurely.
Sarah (00:06): "Are you expecting your business to fund your lifestyle before it's really fully grown and in a position where it can do that?"
She recounts a conversation with a business owner who struggled with low lead conversions despite having a sizable audience. The root cause was identified as the business owner diverting funds to non-revenue-generating activities like holidays and home renovations, rather than investing in business-critical areas such as marketing and skill development.
Sarah (09:20): "When you start prioritizing multiple elements like that over your business, and your business doesn't have the funds to invest in itself because it's supporting those activities, it's not going to help you move things forward."
Sarah highlights how early-stage entrepreneurs often unknowingly sabotage their progress by withdrawing too much money for personal use, leaving insufficient resources for business growth. She contrasts this with the stability that comes from a corporate background, where a consistent income allows for a certain lifestyle without jeopardizing financial stability.
Sarah (15:45): "People tend to find their sort of baseline, their minimum expectation, and that just tends to go up. Without a conscious effort, we don't sort of reign things back in."
She underscores the necessity of financial discipline, especially when transitioning from a corporate job to entrepreneurship. Without established systems for lead generation and revenue, businesses face a volatile income stream, making it challenging to support both personal and business expenses.
Misaligned priorities lead to missed opportunities and stunted business growth. Sarah explains how diverting funds to non-essential personal expenses can prevent investment in crucial business areas like marketing, hiring, or training.
Sarah (23:10): "If you're struggling with your sales and need to run paid ads, spending your money on new windows is probably not the best investment."
This misallocation results in a cycle of feast and famine, where temporary financial relief from personal expenses leads to long-term business instability.
Sarah offers practical strategies to help entrepreneurs balance personal and business finances effectively:
Sarah (31:25): "Use forecasting and revenue cash flow to have a realistic view of where your finances are at and what you can afford."
Sarah (38:50): "Having that money there can help you sort through storms with less financial stress."
Sarah (47:30): "Set aside a fund for business growth, whether it's for coaching, marketing, or software."
Sarah emphasizes the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive and successful individuals. She advocates for investing in mentorship and leveraging resources like podcasts to gain knowledge and inspiration without incurring high costs.
Sarah (52:15): "The biggest leaps forward in my business came when I invested in a mentor."
She also highlights the power of self-belief and the impact of changing your mindset from "maybe I can" to "when can I."
Sarah (58:40): "Surround yourself with individuals who are doing well, and you start saying 'about when,' and that shift can make a huge difference."
To ensure sustainable growth, Sarah offers actionable advice:
Sarah (1:02:10): "Use your time wisely to get your business in a position where it can generate money."
Sarah wraps up the episode by encouraging listeners to reassess their financial priorities and align them with their business goals. She underscores the importance of investing wisely in both personal development and business infrastructure to create a sustainable and profitable venture.
Sarah (1:09:30): "Investing in yourself and your support network is crucial. Don't try to figure it all out alone—seek help and make informed decisions."
She invites listeners to engage with her on social media platforms like LinkedIn and Facebook, encouraging them to share their challenges and successes in balancing business growth with personal priorities.
Sarah (1:14:50): "Share your challenges on our Facebook group, and reach out if you need help with structure or clarity in your business."
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This episode serves as a pivotal guide for female entrepreneurs striving to balance personal life with business ambitions. Sarah Jolley-Jarvis provides not only a realistic view of the challenges but also actionable strategies to overcome financial missteps and foster sustainable business growth.