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Jen
Good morning, Michael or good afternoon. Or good. That is true. It is the afternoon. I haven't had an afternoon coffee in a long time.
Mike
I need one today. I've.
Jen
I forgot to drink my glow. So this is it. This is what's pushing me through.
Mike
We'll take some armor. Nothing wrong with that. Armor. Coffee. Shut up.
Jen
Coffee.
Mike
I was. Yeah, I needed. It was one of those days. I was tired this morning.
Jen
Yeah. Mike came out to me right before we got here and he was like, slap me. And I was like, feel like this is a trick. But I reared back.
Mike
But you closed fisted. It was hard and it woke me right up.
Jen
Like, what's going on? But anyway, I'm glad you're a little.
Mike
I didn't sleep great last night.
Jen
Yeah, I see the life brought back.
Mike
Yeah, that's good. But, you know, here we are. I got it. You know what? Actually, I do feel better. It was just. It was. Part of. It was you wake up. We've all had those days where you wake up. Got the kids at school. I was feeling just bleh. So I didn't even get my workout in this morning. Which is also part of the problem.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
And then right to it. And then I was in front of the computer the whole morning. And it just puts you in this, like bl. I hate those days. But you got. Sometimes you got to do it. So I'd rather be here. Anyways. This is awesome.
Jen
Yes.
Mike
Thanks for doing this.
Jen
It's a good. So the conspiracy theories. You had a ton. So we're gonna do part two. I'm actually kind of excited about this because I don't know, I felt like I. I was on my period when we first talked about it, and I feel like I was bleeding out some brain cells. I felt dumb. So I'm really. I'm not anymore, guys. I'm good. So I feel like. Okay, wait. So let's talk about periods for a second. Well, why not? This could be a whole episode. But let's just dive into this.
Mike
This is honestly what's on my to do to talk about today.
Jen
Yes. So Mike and I. I actually shared this with him like pretty. Not long ago. Pretty recent. Where I said, okay, here's the deal. I'm not. I'm not on my period. It's my.
Mike
Would you say Mitchie? It's with an M. Mitchy.
Jen
I'm not Mitchie on my period.
Mike
That's the word.
Jen
My patience level. For you to act like you are not able to do something like find ketchup is Non existent. And so we're in normal life. I'm like, oh, my sweet little man. Like, I'm now like, find the gay chop. And Mike goes, I. I remember telling me, telling you that recently, and I was like, I. I Finally, after like, 13 years, 14 years of marriage, I now put that into why I get irritated in certain things. And so, so I've said to Mike, look with your lady eyes if he can't find it. And God bless him, a couple months back, he had the refrigerator open. He goes, okay, I'm sure you're gonna come over here and find it, but I've looked with my lady eyes, and I still can't find whatever it was. And. And I came over and it made me, like, super nice about it. I don't know why, but the communication of you being, like, desperate and saying you. You looked with your lady eyes, like, softened me.
Mike
Part of the problem is that was a good place. Things get moved all the time, and they're.
Jen
They're still in, what, no feet.
Mike
They're supposed to be in a certain spot. And when it gets moved into something and like, since why would it get tucked into the back of the fridge, under the corner, behind the eggs, underneath. It doesn't make any sense, right? It's clearly.
Jen
The thing is, what's wild? This has happened, like, two days ago. It's that one shelf that's eye level. It's like a black hole. I kind of want to crawl into your brain and see what you see, because you'll find things that are higher or lower, but if it's dead smack on that eye level shelf, you can't see it.
Mike
Maybe this is a whole conspiracy in itself that you guys want to talk about. Maybe. Maybe we do it on purpose.
Jen
Do you remember?
Mike
Okay, I'm don't find things on purpose.
Jen
Okay?
Mike
Stop asking us how to find things.
Jen
Well, it doesn't end well for you. It's not like we just never let it go. Okay, I'm outing myself because this was one where I was like, it was borderline, a little. A little aggressive. Do you remember the day I'm sure I was on my period. You couldn't find. I'm serious. It's always something in the fridge. And you were saying, it's not here. And I went over and I grabbed. Say it's the mustard. And I slammed on the countertop and I said, west Point. You went to West Point? And I turned around and walked off. Do you remember that day?
Mike
I actually don't. It didn't have Any impact? Because it happens all the time.
Jen
Can you see Mike? He's like, yes.
Mike
Couldn't find it. Like, thank you for finding it.
Jen
That was probably a time I was on my period.
Mike
Yeah. That's not common, though. You don't. You're not, you're not. But the patience is irritable like that all the time.
Jen
Maybe I'm just starting to identify it because it's just how I started feeling, but I feel like the patience for that kind of stuff is like, when I'm on my period, it's non existent. Like I'm just like, find it, you know, Like, I'm not saying it's a good thing, but I think, well, how.
Mike
What are you going to do to work on that?
Jen
I think I'm going to train you better on how to find crap. And then that. And then that way you can.
Mike
Would you point to Haley?
Jen
She's nodding. She's nodding her head back there.
Mike
Okay, so this is a universal thing you're saying 100%.
Jen
It makes. No. It's like y' all are. Okay. Like, looking unintelligent to find the cat.
Mike
Has nothing to do with intelligence. Do you want to talk about intelligence? You didn't know what phi meant. Last week on Sci Fi. So we can go there. All right. So we can talk about intelligence.
Jen
And all in the words of my friend Alicia, oh, I don't know anything about that dork crap. That's what she goes. That's what I would have said.
Mike
Well, you didn't say it, so there you are. But you know, there's plenty of things.
Jen
Just hilarious.
Mike
But small technical school in upstate New York.
Jen
Okay, I asked for that. I signed myself up to get called out for that.
Mike
A fun fact. May have said it before Jen thought we did. My.
Jen
We already said that in season one.
Mike
College I graduated from was a small technical school. Community college, in fact, is what she told her parents in New York.
Jen
No, no, I said, I think I couldn't remember the name. And I go, I don't know. I think it was.
Mike
I'm not saying again, this isn't like a. Like, I went to West Point. I. I went to the university. I went to West Point. United States Military Academy.
Jen
Super proud of.
Mike
No, but it's not like. No, I'm saying this from a stand. Standpoint. Sure. Thank you for saying that. But there's a. You should say but even with a standpoint, there's. There's like so much history associated to it. There's so many presidents and generals and, and like yeah. You know, if you took a u. S. History class, you generally know what west point is, and that was a.
Jen
Dig, and that was me.
Mike
So I not. I might not be able to find the ketchup on the middle shelf.
Jen
But at least you know it was.
Mike
But at least I know it was. There you go. Knuckles.
Jen
No, no. I. I don't know how I missed that, but I will say I don't have military in my immediate family, so it wasn't something talked about where you guys talk about it a lot.
Mike
On your side, did you study the. The revolution USA I'm sure.
Jen
Like, I remember seventh grade studying. No, wait, that's not Texas history. That would have nothing to do with it. So I don't know when I would have. I'm sure we did.
Mike
Now that I remember the civil war.
Jen
But, Mike, I don't retain that stuff.
Mike
True. You know that with history, it's probably in and out. I don't remember. Not relevant to me.
Jen
Yeah. For the test.
Mike
Makes sense. Yeah. Everyone I. That makes sense.
Jen
But. Yeah. I've never heard of anyone going to even West Point. I don't know a single.
Mike
Like, I don't.
Jen
1.
Mike
One piece of knowledge I don't retain much of is, like, art history. I like art quite a bit.
Jen
Me too.
Mike
Or one thing I have zero retention of. And it is literally. I think I have some sort of auditory issue. I cannot remember lyrics.
Jen
Yeah. Our music.
Mike
I can't even hear them. It's almost like I become completely deaf, y'. All.
Jen
I'm not talking about, like, he doesn't pick up on, like, pop songs. I mean, like, the man probably can't sing all the words correctly to jingle bells. I'm not kidding.
Mike
I can do that.
Jen
Even the not popular parts.
Mike
I could do that. I can sue jingle bells because I. Because it was repeated at chorus, but I can. Yeah. Anyway, long story short, is jingle bells jingle all the way now.
Jen
What?
Mike
Oh, what fun it is a jingle bells, jingle bells jingle all the way of fun it is to have.
Jen
I told y'. All.
Mike
Wait, I know this. Hold on.
Jen
Come on.
Mike
I'm not gonna do this right now because I'm on the spot.
Jen
No.
Mike
Also, I want to single bell. It's not my fault. So like, a hymn I can have, like, how can I have, like, crazy retention reading, but I cannot remember lyrics. It's wild.
Jen
That is. That's.
Mike
I literally think there's something wrong.
Jen
More like crazy than me not knowing what west point was.
Mike
Yeah. But it's not like I want to.
Jen
I would love to know what West Point was, but I just kind of forgot.
Mike
Do you think I don't want to remember lyrics? Everyone wants to remember lyrics.
Jen
Just try really hard.
Mike
Jingle bells I don't. We're not doing. We're off the jingle bell thing, though. That's all people that the audience is tuned.
Jen
What fun it is to ride In.
Mike
A one horse open sleigh it's easy.
Jen
So you just need that one word. But that's wild that you don't know that.
Mike
Dashing through the snow In a one horse open sleigh.
Jen
Next.
Mike
That's.
Jen
What's the next word?
Mike
That's the lyric.
Jen
It's wild. I'm telling you, I've never met anyone. You truly don't know words.
Mike
I do know words.
Jen
And you're so smart. It's like that part of your brain. It's like you use too much of this.
Mike
No, I don't. I. I just. It's. I actually have a harder time and where you probably have an easier time. If you were to put, like, a scientific equation to a song, you would actually remember it. You'd have no idea what you're saying, but you'd be saying it. Whereas I have to have it. If it has music behind it, I'm less likely to hear the words. It actually makes it harder for me to do. Now. Strange. If I hear, like, I'm. I mean, I actually like EDM music, but I listen to music without words.
Jen
Oh, I know. You blare it, like.
Mike
But then I can actually think and study and then I can memorize. But it's like the music and the words have to be disconnected. And when the words become into it, it, like bl. Blends into the actual. Like, what's the. Like the actual music behind it.
Jen
So when I was in college. It's so funny you say that, because.
Mike
That was one, by the way. There. There isn't. There is a syndrome associated to this, just so you know. It is. Yeah, it's like auditory. Auditory deafness. There's like a certain disconnect of it. So. Yeah.
Jen
Well, I don't know if it's a.
Mike
Syndrome or whatever it is. I'm not giving myself a diagnosis. But there is.
Jen
There's something clearly. Sure. Well, so I. Exactly what you said. Memorized by music. I very much have that musical gene. I was a singer. I did musical theater. And. And so what I would do is I would take popular songs that I knew every single word to. And I remember one, my freshman year was Me and you by Cassie. It's me and you Are you ready? Think I'm gonna make a move, baby Tell me how you like it Tell me how you like it. Okay, so I would take those songs and I would be like, you subtract the 7, 2 on the right side, then we gotta drop. I literally would make those songs and I would memorize it. But the problem was, is I would do good on the test and I'd forget it a month later. Do you see what I'm saying? So it's very short retention. My brain. I couldn't remember the long. Whereas, you see.
Mike
But that's not really learning.
Jen
I know you retain more info versus, like, why I can't tell you much about wars, which is not great.
Mike
It's not about me. Yeah, because that's you. It's not just about learning wars. But I think I don't know a lot of.
Jen
I don't remember history.
Mike
Part of it is I do reading comprehension and retention of knowledge. I have a very high retention of it. You do, but it's not. But it's also, I think, partially because I've had to force myself to learn in a way that. That probably was. Weirdest thing is I can actually remember, like, if somebody has a conversation. I. I have no issue with, like, conversational skills or reading things. It's literally just when music is overlaid on it. I think it's a meaning.
Jen
I think it's also like a meaning. Like, you are an intellectual. So, like, in history. Are you telling me that you never found that interesting? Because I think you probably found it interesting. So you listened and then you retained sounds like that.
Mike
I think songs have a harder thing. It's like poetry as well. There's often no. And sometimes there's no actually like, auditory connect to it. It's like a lyric isn't really connected to the next lyric.
Jen
Careful. Because I think a lot of artists.
Mike
Well, they have meaning it. But it's like I said, it's like poetry. Yeah, poetry sometimes itself. There's a. There's a larger meaning to it. But, like, the words don't always connect up.
Jen
A next hot take. What I actually think probably is going on with you is I wonder if the beat is overriding words.
Mike
It does.
Jen
The words are too fast and you hear the beat and you're a very big beat. Beats person. That's why you like the edm. And so your brain is honing in on one.
Mike
Yeah, that's true.
Jen
You're not a very strong multitasker. So I wonder if your brain is Honing in on one thing.
Mike
It's probably. I mean I. I could see something to that because I'll hear the music and then of course I can remember the. The hooks to things like the chorus line, you know, like the things that repeat over. Sure. Yes. What the hook could be.
Jen
Oh, what's the next lyric?
Mike
Oh, that's the. It repeats it.
Jen
See, I don't need to hooking this be. All I need is a track in the back.
Mike
That's exactly right. It's weird thing about Jen is that she'll sometimes start singing songs of songs she hasn't heard in 30 years and she'll say to herself that she'll go, I don't know why I know these words. Not even know. I don't even know the words until I'm singing it. Which is bizarre because your brain's like a computer storing something that has like. And it's just coming out and you have no knowledge of like that prior to the music.
Jen
Well, I think where you have the beat knocks out the words. I think the beat guides my remembrance of the words. So like I'll get two notes. Like, I'm really good at music. Bingo. So we can drop like two beats and I'll be like, I don't. Why can't I think of the song right now? I don't know. I'll think of the song instantly. Jingle bells, like real quick.
Mike
There's something too. I promise.
Jen
Jingle bells.
Mike
I promise you. There's probably some. I. What kind of.
Jen
Where did we get here from? Periods.
Mike
Well, and conspiracy theories. It's a whole different. We have all these. All these things that are going on. Poor night's sleep, to your periods to irritability to. Now auditory. Auditory processing issue. That's what it is. That is what I. That's what. That's what the word I was looking for. So it's auditory processing issue. So who would it would like an audiologist be? The person that would be the one that would know that you Google team. Okay, well, you can do that as we do that. I guarantee you there. There are people out there that are listening auditory processing issues connected to music.
Jen
I'm gonna have chat.
Mike
It'd be music.
Jen
I know I'm gonna have chat. Gbt. Diagnose this. Don't talk because I'm gonna do voiceover. Okay.
Mike
Okay.
Jen
My husband is an extremely intelligent man, period. He went to West Point, period.
Mike
And Goodlo.
Jen
Okay, he's handsome, period. But for some reason he cannot remember a single lyric to any song. Dot, dot, dot. He will recognize the beat and what the song is. But even if he's heard the song for 40 years, he does not know the words period. Why? Question mark.
Mike
Do you know what's weird about this? Before Ghost. Do you know what's weird is I will remember when I heard the song and where I heard the song and the emotion behind the song. I just don't know the words.
Jen
Okay, you ready? Here we go. It's actually more common than you may think. Oh, and it doesn't mean anything's wrong with him. Wrong.
Mike
Well, thanks. Thanks, Chat. You need to be shaming me.
Jen
It comes down to how different brain process and store information. Number one, brain wiring music versus language memory. Some people's brains are wild wired to lock into rhythm and melody more than words. That's what I just said. The auditory cortex processes the beat and tone while the lyrics require language centers like Wernicke's area.
Mike
Yep. That's what it's code.
Jen
If his brain prioritizes patterns over language and music, the feel of the song sticks but not the word.
Mike
That's funny. And I literally just said. I even just said the feel. I know what the emotion is.
Jen
He said attention focus.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
If he's the type that gets absorbed into the sound like the beat, then he may not actually pay attention to the lyrics in the first place. And you can't remember what you haven't decoded.
Mike
It's probably true.
Jen
Part of that memory strengths versus weaknesses. Memory is domain specific. Someone brilliant at math, spatial reasoning and strategic thinking. Thinking might not equally be as strong as verbal recall. Lyrics are not essentially memorization. The same mental muscle as remembering poetry. I don't know. Active passive listening. Many listen around the lyrics. They know the emotion of the tone and they can sing along with or the last word in the line. But the brain hasn't memorized the detail.
Mike
Yeah, that's right.
Jen
That's you.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
Possible learning style quirk. If he's more analytical than verbal linguistic in learning style, words set to music might actually feel like noise rather than meaningful units to memorize. What's funny is the fact that he can recognize the beat so reliably suggests that his muscle memory is strong. His brain just prefers the structure over the words. Curious. It's curious about you.
Mike
No.
Jen
What does he remember? Movie quotes or poems any better?
Mike
No.
Jen
No. Good to know.
Mike
No. Ask, tell it, say no.
Jen
Want me to keep?
Mike
Yeah. Yeah. Because this is great. We're having an on air diagnosis by.
Jen
I'm gonna ask him to diagnose you all Right. Ready? Here we go. Okay. No, he actually can't remember any movie quotes.
Mike
That's not true. I remember some.
Jen
What would you diagnose him with?
Mike
But they're all Arnold Schwarzenegger quotes. But they're all like. I'll remember all like Terminator and Predator and all those quotes. Cuz they're like one liners.
Jen
No, you don't have anything. He just said instead of a diagnosis, it's more like he's got strong pattern recognition and logical memory, but a weaker verbal recall.
Mike
Interesting.
Jen
It's just words.
Mike
It's words.
Jen
That's why you don't remember when I tell you what our schedule is. See, I'm gonna start singing it like this. And then Monday we podcast at one.
Mike
Do you realize remember that that's the exact opposite is what it said literally is like. Literally what we just went through would be the way that you would guarantee pod. Guarantee that I will remember it.
Jen
Please don't say slapping Monday.
Mike
No podcast. So that, that is interesting and it kind of makes sense, but it's like. It's just. It's an auditory processing disconnector issues all that. That is. And it is more common, I think that people think so. Yeah, totally. So I mean literally, we're here to talk conspiracy theories, but since we're on a tangent, who needs this? Yeah. We might as well keep going on.
Jen
Okay.
Mike
Beard or no beard? You like beers? Just in general.
Jen
I don't like men with long beards because it grosses me out when food gets in it. But I like yours. I just don't think when it's long hair, it's not like hygienic like it's hair like on it.
Mike
What if it's like shaped? It's like, like looks really nice. No, that's not your thing.
Jen
Yours is yours technically. Just a short beard.
Mike
It's longer than normal. I mean I kind of. I kind of trim it here. This. I haven't shaved in like three days. I did it on Friday, I just trimmed up a little bit on Friday. So it keeps it like even length.
Jen
I like like rugged clean. Like you right now. It's like he's corporate, but he's a little rugged on the side.
Mike
So you like the facial hair?
Jen
I do love facial hair. I just don't longer past like the chin than I'm a.
Mike
No, I have shaved maybe clean two times. I don't like clean in the last 12 years. I did it during after Covet because when I got told you got. If you don't know During COVID I got that weird alopecia spot. I lost it there. But I also lost a chunk on my face.
Jen
No, I saw a real the other day that was like. The man was like, hey, honey, I shaved and she was packing up a suitcase and it said, be back in two weeks. And that's how strongly I feel about it.
Mike
It's that bad.
Jen
I do not like clean shaving face.
Mike
It's that, like.
Jen
It's your face. Your face is still your face with facial hair.
Mike
I know. It's like. So you don't like the way I look?
Jen
I don't. You look like. No. You look like a baby. Like a million. It takes, like a little bit of the mask.
Mike
But there's a certain point to me. Whereas men age like, you know, you shave down, you drop 10, 8, 10 years off. Like, you know, guys are in their 60s and don't shave.
Jen
I actually think you look younger with facial hair, Mike.
Mike
I disagree with that.
Jen
That's fine.
Mike
But also, at the same time, I. I obviously have preferences facial hair. I was just curious what your thoughts.
Jen
Were, but wouldn't if I said, like, mike, hands down, I do not want you to have no facial hair. If you want me to stay attractive, like, yeah, I'm gonna do that.
Mike
Yeah. So I shaved one time. Berkeley. Remember Berkeley Asked me to shave.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
And I was like, cried.
Jen
Someone cried. That's right.
Mike
She told me, put it back on.
Jen
She was little. I remember that.
Mike
It was. It was at the old house and I came out and I was like. I was like, okay. And then she, like, looked at me and she started crying. I remember.
Jen
Me too. And then I was like, put it back up.
Mike
Put it back on, Mike. I was like, well, good thing is, it'll come back on. It's just going to take a little bit of time. All right, Another hot take.
Jen
Okay.
Mike
Gray, white or brown? Like a dyed beer? Die beer. I don't want diaper.
Jen
I like whatever your face is doing naturally. Yeah, I don't care if you dye it.
Mike
I'm just curious. No, I'm not saying about me.
Jen
It's fine. Yeah, but if you don't. I do not notice that whatsoever. Yeah, I like gray. That's why I married. You know what's.
Mike
You know what's weird? I kind of like. To me, it's almost like the in between is like, where it gets all, like, splotchy. Yeah, I get what I mean. There's no. I mean, no. No issue with anyone dies or air. I've a beard. I've Done it before. I've done it for a wedding and stuff because it does. When it tones it out, it looks fine. It's what it is. It's so funny because obviously Just for Men is a shelf product. So millions of guys do it. That's legitimately to. Nobody talks about it, but it's clearly like if you're in your 50s or 60s and have a fully dark beard, that's not natural.
Jen
What's so funny is he'll come out and he'll like dye his beard and he's like, oh, I look so much younger. And I'm like, bro, literally looks exactly the same to me. Like, I see absolutely.
Mike
Well, no, I don't know. Yeah, so. But I do like it. I think it looks good when it's like white. I kind of like the white look. I think it looks pretty good because it's popping. It's going.
Jen
White's popping right now. You are getting more white. Like. Yeah, quickly.
Mike
What's weird as it is is that my hair has barely any gray in it. Almost 50 years old and I have like no gray.
Jen
You got some gray?
Mike
Barely. For my age, maybe.
Jen
For your age?
Mike
Yeah. I'm 49 years old. I've never. You mean like that's like.
Jen
You got good hair.
Mike
I barely have any gray.
Jen
You have great hair.
Mike
So that's the one thing is, is. But guys, beards usually change first before their hair. But that's so I might be. I might go white.
Jen
I wonder when I'm going to go white. Cuz redheads go white.
Mike
They do. They get just go straight apparently.
Jen
So I'm just going to be a little cotton ball running around.
Mike
Well, your grandpa was red, right? And he was completely white.
Jen
Yep.
Mike
So my mom's. I think my dad's dad had a full head of hair and my mom's hat. My mom's dad, well, he had. My dad's dad had like kind of like the recess receding, but it was still there. And my mom's dad, when he died, he died in his 80s and he had, he still had hair. He was like, it was thinner, but he slaughtered her.
Jen
Well, the good thing is you kind of have a tiny forehead. So even if your hair does go back, it's probably good. It won't be that bad.
Mike
It's like, oh, you look. It's nice.
Jen
He has a normal, A normal sized forehead now.
Mike
So wait, my hair, my hair does actually go to my eyebrows. If you're not looking literally like I have no forehead.
Jen
Neither do I. For a girl I don't.
Mike
That's a bad visual. We have foreheads.
Jen
I really don't have a big. I have a tiny, tiny face. That's why I have to wear a kids medium.
Mike
People are visualizing, aren't seeing the video. Like it's tiny little elf. It connects to my eyebrows and I pull my eyeballs eyebrows right back. And that's actually what creates. Creates the hair. This is Craig. This is an awesome place. Let's talk about it 22 minutes into this and we've talked about episodes. Absolutely nothing is this.
Jen
None of that was planned. That was just off the cop.
Mike
So we've ripped on each other a little bit. We've insulted each other's intelligence. You've dissected my auditory processing issues. Thank you, Dr. Jappy.
Jen
Dr. Jeffy, one more thing. If you had to ask Chat GPT about something, a quirk that I have to diagnose, what would you ask it? That's a good. That's a good question. Wow.
Mike
I don't know if I need to diagnose it. Kind of know what it is.
Jen
What?
Mike
You might have a little stuff.
Jen
What? Adhd.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
Yeah. We all know that. I've had opponents me playing tennis in a league with grown women. And I had someone stop and ask me if I had adhd.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
And she was like, I knew it.
Mike
I'm a goofy youy're just. That's because you're goofy. That's not. That's a totally different thing. Yeah. No, I don't. I mean, I don't. I don't actually. It's funny is I. I don't know if you really do because you get. You bounce around tasks, but you finish things. And the one thing is is that as a sometimes.
Jen
Yeah. I think Haley would disagree sometimes.
Mike
But it's because you got. You're juggling a ton. When you juggle a ton. It's easy to let things kind of drop when you're focused on. And when you get into something, it's like you go really, really deep. Which also is kind of a sign of hyper fixation and hyper focus.
Jen
Yes.
Mike
So that might be a little bit of it as well. But look, I clearly have tendencies on the. On that spectrum as well. For sure. Like 100.
Jen
But I think I'm. I combat ADHD very well because I think naturally, just like from genetics. I do know that I'm a very driven. I don't sit like I want to complete, complete, complete, complete. And even if it's not the stuff I'm supposed to Be completing. Like I make a list and I tell Haley I'm going to do these seven things. I might complete one of those things. But I did four other things that I thought of off the side that needed to be done. I think you know what I'm saying. So like I'm constantly completing. It's just sometimes it's not on focus.
Mike
Sure. I kind of think once you figure out how to manage it as best you can and I think there's natural ways you can manage it as you get older you start to recognize things. I still think it's a superpower. I really do. I think kinda.
Jen
I think it depends.
Mike
I really do because. Because there's so many different things you like want to do and there's so many different things that you're like your brain thinks quick, you're onto something, you move. I. You're. It's spurs creativity. I. I kind of think there's its own form of.
Jen
Of like energy. I really do me like how I have so much energy and I. I mean I do drink. I say I self medicate with coffee. I'm kidding when I say that. But I think it's just a personality.
Mike
Yeah. And there are people that have like really really like debilitating forms of it. That's a different thing.
Jen
That's what I'm saying.
Mike
Totally.
Jen
I think depression. I think some of the times you can ADHD like severe has depression issues and stuff.
Mike
I've never, I've never too deep now.
Jen
Into stuff we don't know about. But you wouldn't ask. There's nothing you can think of. I'm trying to think of something I do that's like ridiculous like not being able to.
Mike
Well I'd be like why does she leave? Why? Why does she leave half empty cereal bowls around the house randomly?
Jen
That's so aged. I haven't had cereal in so long. It's old. You got to get a new one. You got to get a new one.
Mike
Coffee cup.
Jen
Years old coffee cups in the bathroom for sure.
Mike
Yeah. But yeah there was a while that I would just put them in here.
Jen
Like 15 of them.
Mike
We got into the coffee cup. What do you mean you like drop.
Jen
Trowel by the bed and leave it to rot.
Mike
But that's the pile.
Jen
That's the pile before the shower. Like you do have.
Mike
There's two piles but they go in specific piles.
Jen
No, but I have.
Mike
They're not random.
Jen
That's one thing. You have like 18.
Mike
Yeah but mine has a specific spot. I take my shirt and I don't sleep naked. I sleep in underwear. But it's like I go and my stuff goes in that one spot.
Jen
Didn't you used to sleep naked for a nice visual for those who are just for you? No. I'm pretty sure you did at the very beginning. And then we had kids and you're like, this is not okay. Right? Right before I. Yes, maybe I think you did sleep naked, because I was like, honestly, is that normal? Like, I remember questioning that, but I didn't know.
Mike
Like, yeah.
Jen
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Mike
So Haley, we. Afterwards, she was. She popped in on that one, she's like, oh, that's a big one right now. Because there's a whole bunch of funky stuff there.
Jen
What is it? Okay, so enlighten us.
Mike
So the Denver. Denver International Airport was, like, this modern, biggest, most expansive airport that was built. I think it was 2000 when it was built. And I actually remember because I lived in Colorado at the time. Yeah, yeah. It's. Remember, it's a really awful airport to fly out because they have, like, one terminal at the time, they had two things. It was the line. Yeah, we've done it. Because, once again, insane lines. And then everything has a tram, so there's no. You have to go from the main tsa, and then you get into the trams afterwards. So it creates these massive, massive bottlenecks. Similar.
Jen
Is that the one where we were upstairs looking down, and I was like, I have to get.
Mike
And then you got in the wrong line.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
Because you didn't have tsa, and then. So you were in tsa and then they kicked you out of tsa because until recent, you. Until I basically was, like, crying and begging you to, like, please divorce. Go. To get it done. It takes five minutes. Just. You got to go do it.
Jen
Right.
Mike
I remember this.
Jen
It's all coming back to me.
Mike
But you did it, so kudos to you and to Haley for helping.
Jen
I think she might have.
Mike
All right, well, you know, it's a little. A little pressure. A little peer pressure to get you to go do that. Yeah, but that was the one that you were in that other line, and you thought you weren't going to make the plane because I was passed through it. It was. It took you 40. 30 minutes. 40 minutes longer to get through it.
Jen
So what's the conspiracy?
Mike
Well, the conspiracy is that it is a secret headquarters for the Illuminati.
Jen
Wait, really?
Mike
Yeah, really.
Jen
What are the signs? Like, what do they mean?
Mike
All right, they have multiple things. There's creepy murals, which, clearly, I've seen.
Jen
A lot of creepy art everywhere.
Mike
There's some specific ones. They have freemason plaques. They have a massive underground tunnel system.
Jen
How do you know this?
Mike
Because that's been.
Jen
Seen it. Yeah.
Mike
100.
Jen
With your own eyes.
Mike
They have a statue called Lucifer with glowing eyes.
Jen
Oh, that's weird.
Mike
It's a blue horse. Yeah.
Jen
Why? That is weird. Hold on. I'm gonna say Denver murals.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
Denver Airport, even.
Mike
To make it even creepier. They've even acknowledged that they've had issues with lizard people.
Jen
Okay. The mural is weird. Like, I'm looking at one.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
One of the strange art murals at Denver Airport. But what's the. What's.
Mike
Do they just describe it so people that aren't like, you obviously can't see your phone. You're looking at it.
Jen
Well, is it well known art? Because I'm gonna look like a dummy because I don't know art. Okay.
Mike
I mean, it clearly is.
Jen
It's like a girl who looks terrified with, like a killer whale jumping over the side of it with, like a penguin in a box.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
Girls, like, holding the box and then there's like a jaguar and weird eyes with people. It's very. I can't even describe it. There's a sad little boy holding a squirrel. I think it's like a dead girl. What the heck?
Mike
I know there's. It's. Yeah.
Jen
What is that? It's a child.
Mike
And then look this one up and correct me if I'm. I think I remember this, but I think. I think the artist who made the horse, the blue horse there, either died making it or right afterwards. I think that's like part of the whole thing. So there's all these crazy things that happen and, like, symbolism associated to the. The occult and.
Jen
Okay. The Denver Airport blue horse, known as officially blue mustang, named Lucifer by locals. I'm confused. Part of the horse fell on him.
Mike
I guess. So. Yeah. As well. They were. It's. They're making it. So. Yeah, it's quite.
Jen
Was it a statue? Oh, it's a statue. Oh, that's. I mean, it's weird. Why is it there? Why is there a blue horse with red glowing eyes at an airport?
Mike
Right. I mean, those are the things where it's like you have all these things, so.
Jen
Oh, look at it at night.
Mike
Yeah. It's creepy, right?
Jen
Yeah. Why would they do that? Why would they want that?
Mike
That's what we're talking about.
Jen
It's un. Controversial reception, a powerful artistic statement. Others find it unsettling. Okay, so with the. See the Illuminati, I don't know much about that either. It's like a secret club of super wealthy, right?
Mike
Yeah. I mean, it could be wealthy. It could also be like deep state people that control the government, that guide things behind the scene. It's all part of that.
Jen
That's like Beyonce and Jay Z are apparently part of it.
Mike
It. I. I don't know, but I'm sure there's a lot of people that say, anyone in. In extreme power and wealth. Yeah, they would say that's part of it. I mean, I'm sure I'm sure. There's people that would say that, like, how do you get to that? Yeah, I'm sure that's what people would. Would claim that you can't get that way unless somebody, you know, allows you or dictates you to get into that.
Jen
Basically like selling your soul to the devil.
Mike
Maybe. Maybe. I don't know.
Jen
Okay.
Mike
I wouldn't call it that.
Jen
I'd call it the Illuminati is historically fact. Right? There was.
Mike
Yes, there's. There's connections to Illuminati and there's conn. A society that focused on science over religion. And that's where it was. It's not necessarily like the devil is what it would be from my understanding. It's more about the lack of it where us as humans have the ability to control our own destinies. Where like Benjamin Franklin was part of that society. So one of the four founders were country, right?
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
And so that these people were founding it and they were looking at as, you know, this. This mapping things out and guiding the way that our government and country and things would be. Was not necessarily religious driven. It was about a secular way to driven. Driven through man's ability to it. So that was. That was sort of the. The mindset of what it was. Your stomach rumbling?
Jen
Stomach's rolling. Something that makes me think of like us, you know, guiding our own path and creating our own destiny. Isn't that. This is where I kind of don't like the word manifesting because have you heard that's like a trendy word? It's been trendy. Like I manifested this and I'm like, no, you didn't. Manifest could be like just trying really hard and studying and so you made a great. And then you manifest. Manifested it essentially. How do you feel about. Like, I manifested this? Because to me it's like, okay, did you make good choices to get here? Sure. If you want to call that manifesting. Or did you literally just say over and over in your brain that you did it and so it came to be. Do you know what I'm saying? There's like different perceptions on that.
Mike
Yeah, that's.
Jen
I mean that I think manifesting is like a kind of a dumb word. It's like, okay, did you see what I'm saying?
Mike
I mean, where you put your mind, your efforts will go.
Jen
Right.
Mike
You can't. I mean, but there is. Even from a Christian standpoint, there is an idea of not necessarily manifesting things, but about having faith in and praying and bringing towards. And that believing in faith is a Form of manifestation.
Jen
So it's like semantics to you?
Mike
Like, a little bit. It's about how the mindset is. But obviously through Christian mindset is, is that you believe through faith that the power is not in us.
Jen
Correct.
Mike
That the power is a God, but you still go in faith through the belief of it. Right. Like if you don't. But the end state is kind of the same.
Jen
Right.
Mike
Because if you wanted something, you believe it, but you believe and you're giving it to God. And in. In Christianity, it's believe through faith, through action of that faith. That means that you know that you pray, that it's already been answered.
Jen
Right.
Mike
Right. So therefore, that isn't its own aspect. A form of manifestation. I think of manifesting is like meditation on a subject. And that's. I mean, it's, it's. It's. You know, there are people that get real spooked up by the term meditation. But biblically, it talks about meditating. But meditating in the right standpoint.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
And that's meditating in the right area and where you can get super creepy and spiritual. I think you can manifest other things outside. I. I personally believe. I believe there's a spiritual realm. Totally do.
Jen
Right.
Mike
But that's all their podcasts about our faith. I think that's something we should talk about because it is important to us. But I totally believe that you can manifest things out outside of it and that it's.
Jen
I don't. I think God gave. God gives you. He does that you didn't manifest crap.
Mike
No, I'm not talking. I'm talking about from a spiritual realm. If you want to bring in something not of God and not of. Of the. Of an angelic world, you can. You can manifest other things that could deceive you as being good, but it's not good.
Jen
Okay.
Mike
Like demonic. Yes, that's what I mean.
Jen
Yeah. No, I, I get. I'm like thinking like the Ouija boards.
Mike
Sure.
Jen
All that stuff. I don't know. Like, I don't think you necessarily have to have a Ouija board.
Mike
But there is. But there is. Legitimately, if you want to just get from a standpoint of not. Not spooky, not creepy, there's nothing. There is a lot of evidence of a positive thinking and believing.
Jen
Totally. I agree with you on that.
Mike
And that if you're going to manifest something to say, hey, my day is going to be great today, good things are going to happen, I'm going to.
Jen
Have, you know, manifesting. I think of that as just having.
Mike
A positive yeah, but that. But again, because that's about the semantics of what people want to say. It's not like, you know, and people can write vision. You had vision. Like you. I think you division boards in. In your design, right? You put things out to inspire you boards. Vision boards inspire you. Creates inspiration. It puts your mind into something. When you put it down on paper, you start, like, consciously and subconsciously you're thinking about that. So when you do design for your homes and you mood board it out.
Jen
That'S different because it's a plan, and it's the plan that I do.
Mike
But watch. But. But there are times you put. You put it together, and then the next morning you wake up, you're like, no, I'm going to do something that this doesn't. I'm going to do something like, oh, I want to do that. Right? Because your brain's still working. Even if you do something, your brain's still working and thinking about it. And once your plan's done, you're done. I mean, you've gone and designed even the homes and the show. You've gone and like, like, that one didn't look at as good as I thought.
Jen
Usually I'll change it if I see it in person.
Mike
You're like, yeah, it's not quite. I would have thought, let's do something else. Yeah, but there are. But when you start to put the plan together and you think through things, if you're not putting it down on paper, it's never gonna actualize. It's not.
Jen
I don't agree with that. See, I think it's a waste of time. I think that you put things on a paper. I'm talking about your design for the day.
Mike
I'm talking about your designs. You. You guys map things. Of course you can design on the fly. It just happens.
Jen
I already, like, I decided it's it like whenever we're doing the mood board, it's like, I want navy, I want cream. I want. And then it's like, I rarely changed. That was just so we could. Well, if we're gonna get into it. So when I'm designing for the TV show, they have to see these boards to look at the design. Because hgtv, while they have no. They're not designing whatsoever. I'm doing the designing. They still want to know that I'm not doing a lime green cabinet with purple tile. Although they probably would have loved that. They were always like, let's go greasy. Lots of color. And I'm like, my client doesn't want Lime green cabinets. Like, this is real people, like, I. I have to do what they want anyway. I see what you're saying. I just. There's. I think there's different types of people. And some people love the time. Some people love the time spent on like, what my mind. This sounds so mean, but it is. This is my. I'm just letting you guys in. This is like how I think, like the fluffy stuff of like wasting time to like, create a pretty board and be like one day where I'm like, just do it. Just say in your brain, I'm gonna do this and just do. I guess I'm more goal oriented than like, inspired by.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
If I'm gonna do it, I say I do it. I don't need to put on a board. I'm just gonna go real quick.
Mike
Yeah. I would challenge you in this. That that kind of works. There are places and times that it does work in pul. Like there's a little. It's a little more impulsiveness. And that's not bad because impulsive creates like immediate action on it if it's directed in the right place. But then you can also waste a lot of time. And I say, let's say standpoint of we're bringing to. In a business sense, there's a reason why you write business plans out.
Jen
Totally.
Mike
There's a reason why you think through things and you think about the pros and the value. Like, what goal? Like literally simplest thing in business. If you're starting a business, I can tell you one thing. If you're not creating a solution to a problem that doesn't exist, don't do it. And I know it's not like literally anything that's literally any business. If it's like, hey, I'm going to make a coffee shop. And while there's no really lack of coffee, but if you decide that, that this the problem is there's not really good coffee and you go put it directly next door to a Starbucks, you'll get some business. It's going to be hard. No, I think because the solution to the problem, there's got to be a legitimate problem with a legitimate solution. And you can do that in retail, you can do that in restaurants, you can do that in inventions, you can do that. Med tech. There's so many. All these different things that you can do. But that's how. That's as simple as what business is.
Jen
I think. I think if we were to ask Haley, because she is. Knows me in more of a working mindset, maybe in the office hours, more even than you do because she's right beside me. But it takes her a minute to get me to like, sit down and like, let's map this out, or like, plan it out, or like, let's look for pictures of this. I kind of want to push that off and like, do my daily. And I don't think in the moment I'm pushing it off. It's just that for me to just sit and like, stare at her for two hours and like, we've got to map this out. It's not yay for me. It's like, well, hold on. I'm gonna go do the thing that I wanted to do real quick for the day, because I want to do my things that I have on my list. And so I'm like, I don't need to waste time on that. I already know what I want to do type thing when sometimes I don't. But I don't want to give. I. I think that's probably the adhd.
Mike
It's. It's that and it's also the. Probably the way your brain works. I would say that. That if people say, if you had a goal and you wrote these things out and writing things out for free, people like me matters. There are things that I've written out. I have a little 3 by 5 card on the type of man I want to be. That's literally in my.
Jen
On your dress.
Mike
In my dress. What are the things that define you? And I wrote those things out because those are things that reset you in a day. Is like, am I going back to the faith statement I have? Am I going back to the fate of the statement of the man I want to be to. As a husband, as a father, as a business leader, as a friend? Because those are the key things that I have on there. And as a family member, like, those are the things that define it. And if all those things aren't in.
Jen
There, I should have.
Mike
But that's a woman.
Jen
I want to be on it.
Mike
But that's. But that is, that's. But that's called madness.
Jen
But I don't even think to do that.
Mike
But that's not. It's not a standpoint. I. I encourage people do that because you write it out and then you. And it's not like I look at it every day. I'm going to be this person. It's just like, cool. And then Berkeley there is say. It was all. She was like, what is this? And I told her and she's like, oh, it's cool.
Jen
That was Berkeley's very much like you.
Mike
That's really cool. She's like, that's cool. And it's. And it's not. Yeah. So the reason why means like our kids names have a meaning. You're like, that's just this really great sounding name. But the point is, is that I think from a standpoint of it depends on what your. Where you're going with the term manifestation. Right. Self manifestation.
Jen
That's how we got here.
Mike
Self manifestation to me isn't necessarily something that is like super scriptural or super Christian basis because you want to have help. And in my faith, our faith is, is that there's, there's God in there.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
Christ in the center of all these things.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
That is going to support those statements. Right.
Jen
I just think at the end of the day the end statement is you didn't manifest crap. God did that.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
Allowed it to happen. And so. But then again you go back to the realistic side of me as I did all these actions, X, Y and Z to get me.
Mike
But there are plenty of people that aren't believers. A lot of people are listening this thing that aren't believers. And that's, that's great. There's nothing like we want people to listen to. So we have our, our face statements and things and good things happen to people as well. And they will say, well I've written these things out and I've worked my butt off because there is an aspect of, of that it's like about putting it down, taking action, moving forward.
Jen
Do you remember when I came this was like just last year and I was like, I think you asked me like what do you think your gift is? And I go, I don't have a gift.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
I don't know what my spiritual gift is. And you said I know yours. And I was like, like well tell me what it is because I had no idea. And yours was like, yours is faith, like no matter what you will always trumpet with. Yeah, God did that, you didn't do that or whatever. And I truly do.
Mike
Yeah.
Jen
Believe that.
Mike
And without a doubt that is.
Jen
It is because I never stop.
Mike
You have unwavering belief structure on it where it's like that is a, that's a. Again. I actually look at that as a gift because a lot of people like me and I'm. And I do have strong faith aspects of thing but I have an open mindedness aspect of trying to think through things and analytically, you know, believe on it because I have a brain that's not wired to just be like, you know, believe in these things. Whereas, like, if I were to go in, I think I have a very strong sense of discernment. I have a strong sense of.
Jen
Well, I feel like I do too. That's the thing is, like, with my spiritual gift, it's like, okay, do I sound like the person that's just a follower and can get sucked into anything? But I think it's only faith with God, Jesus Christ. Because I'm really skeptical of everything else. You know what I'm saying? Like, to the point of even myself in my life. I know with my brain cells that I've put. I've sacrificed a lot and I've done a lot each and every day. In the hours I have to get where I am today. I know that if I didn't do this, I wouldn't have gotten to that. And if I wouldn't have gotten to that, then I wouldn't got that. And then I wouldn't have gotten the email to come into the show.
Mike
Sure.
Jen
To make a show. I know all those are like staircases, but I also know that God allowed that to happen to me.
Mike
I agree with that.
Jen
And so, like, I feel like it trumps all. So I can sit here and be like, I did all these right. Things and I'm this and I'm that, and that's why I've created this platform or whatever. But I know it could be taken away in one split second. As far. I don't think he's like that. But I'm just saying I. I didn't get here because of me.
Mike
Yeah, well, look, I mean, that's not a conspiracy theory from our perspective. Right?
Jen
Right. That's true. That's its own conspiracy faith.
Mike
And it's. Yeah, but you're, you know, faith and is like, I look into this as. As that God has a plan for everyone, independent of where we are and where we stand in our belief structure.
Jen
Right?
Mike
Yeah. He has a plan for everyone.
Jen
And we can. Even if you don't believe in God, I believe that God made you and loves you. 100 plan for you even though you don't.
Mike
100.
Jen
It's a weird thing to think of because it's like we're putting our belief onto everyone if you think about it in that way. But we also don't expect everyone to believe.
Mike
I do believe. And that's in. Even as a. Even as a. As a believer or Christian. It's not like life is easy and not like bad things happen, because that happens as well, there's all these things that can happen independently and independent of God. And I just look at it as the, the belief of where, where our hearts and lives are going to go and where our, where we go after we pass in this realm and how our journey is going to be completed through him and influence in this world and, and yes, impact and positivity and all the things that we want to, to have. Yeah.
Jen
We really turn this from.
Mike
But I do think, but I think in any independent choice and decision, I think God knows every decision we make. I don't actually believe. I, I, I don't know about this. Here's, here's one right here.
Jen
So hold on. Question. Here's my final question for you because let's reel it back in. I already got the 40 minute signal.
Mike
Because I want to talk, here's something. Can we talk about another podcast actually? Because I do think we, it's, we should probably talk about faith at one podcast, Right?
Jen
Yeah. But not right now.
Mike
No. Because there's something I want to say.
Jen
I don't know if the Illuminati's meeting up in Denver.
Mike
No. This is even hot. This is a hot subject even with Christianity. This is what I want to pin this one for later as well. Do you believe in, in free will or predetermination?
Jen
Both.
Mike
That's a good one.
Jen
They go both hand in hand. I think God made us. Free will. But ultimately he already knows what's gonna happen.
Mike
Does he?
Jen
Yes. 100 Kenny. He knows. He knew.
Mike
We'll talk about that one. This is a good one.
Jen
Yeah. I think both can exist. But do you think that something fishy. Truthfully? Be honest. No funny business.
Mike
Okay.
Jen
Do you think something weird is going down?
Mike
No. I just think they probably. It's much like some marketing campaigns that have recently gone south for, for companies and stuff where they allowed an art director to pick a bunch of stuff out. Art has a tendency to be weird and be provocative.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
And I think that's emotions brings out emotion. And I think some artists have intention and other artists just want to create visceral emotion. And sometimes they do it through really wild, crazy art. And that's one thing art is intended to do. And I think that they're like, probably gave somebody the task and that person was like, yes, I love this.
Jen
Make it weird.
Mike
Let's make it weird. So no. So the DIA was Denver International Airport. They've leaned in on this one, which is pretty cool. And I was teasing earlier but they said like they're doing construction they said, pardon our mess. We have a lizard people problem.
Jen
So what's that? What's the lizard people?
Mike
Oh, Lord.
Jen
People who are half lizard people think that exists.
Mike
Well, that's not real. It's about lizard people have human skin on them. They look like us, but they're actually part of the Illuminati or the occult or the deep State. They're the ones.
Jen
That's not real.
Mike
That's a absolutely real conspiracy theory, Mike. 100 people believe that. They believe a lot of the leaders are actually lizards. Yes.
Jen
That'S real.
Mike
Yes.
Jen
Yeah, People actually think that's true.
Mike
Yes, they do. And whether. Whether they're aliens or whether they were an ancient civilization that has continued to live on, that developed in a. In tangent to the evolutionary pathways of us coming from the homo sapien aspect, that could have been something else.
Jen
I'm done. I'm already.
Mike
And they and themselves that were so much more advanced than us, that they have guided us.
Jen
I just had a vision of me like 90, and I'm sitting there with my friends. You're not there because you're gonna pass away before I turn 90s. Please don't die early. I need you to stay around for a long time.
Mike
I told you, I got 100. That's. That's the goal.
Jen
I prayed.
Mike
I do. I wonder.
Jen
Okay, so two years post your death, I'm sitting on the porch by myself, sad and lonely, and there's like, on the tv, it's like lizard people rediscovered in Aliens. And I'm like, well, that didn't age well.
Mike
What?
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
Hey, look, there are so many things, and there is. This is from a timeliness relevance aspect. There is a. Jesse Michaels is a YouTuber and he has this pretty cool YouTube channel called American Alchemy. So shout out. It's actually really, really cool.
Jen
How do you know this? This. Do you listen to it?
Mike
Yeah, I watch it.
Jen
Like in the car?
Mike
Yeah. Well, yeah, I watch it sometimes at night. I'll watch. You know, I like some YouTube channels, but he has one, and this guy, he's got some really wild backgrounds. Like super intelligent dude and he's like private equity backgrounds, things like that. But this one, he talked about Peruvian mummies and this one, so it's. It's kind of wild, but to make it crazier, so. So Peru in Mexico, they came up with these different things and they're. They had these, like three different type of mummies. The super tiny ones, these middle in between ones, and these other ones that are there. They were mummified in dichimatic earth, which basically dried them out and created this.
Jen
Like, are they people mummies?
Mike
Well, that's the thing.
Jen
People.
Mike
They don't look like people. They kind of look like people, but they have three fingers. So they went down and they did MRIs on these ones. They've proven some more fake that are made from like llama bones probably, or not, or something like a llama. Anyway, there's these, like, smaller ones probably aren't real. But then these bigger ones, they have three fingers and they're fully like. They show the full bone structure cone like heads on them.
Jen
I swear the small ones are fake. Then they probably made no big ones.
Mike
But the problem is, is they've. They know These things are 1700 years old at least. And they're doing with physicians and doctors and multiple scientists are saying like, yeah, we don't know what this is because it doesn't look like the hand was mutilated.
Jen
This is why we just need to live in the moment and chase sales. When malls have sales in stores and be happy about record dropping.
Mike
You want to make it even.
Jen
Let's just live in the moment. Let's be present.
Mike
So they have these three fingers they call tridactyl is what the term they use these. And so these things. And one of them is pregnant. They found an embryo in it. So how do you fake something to that point where it's so like, these are the best artists in the entire world. If they've made something like that to just like dupe people. It's pretty wild. Point is, is like, what. What is that? Like what? Like, it is kind of weird, the fact that they have doctors doing MRIs on these things. And it does look. It's pretty compelling. There's like. I mean, you got to think. I'm not saying I know because I really don't know.
Jen
I didn't know you like conspiracy theories.
Mike
It's not conspiracy. This one's more ancient civilization. That's what I look at. I think that's something. I don't know if that's an alien or something else or maybe a genetically deformed human. It could very well be that. It could be some sort of strange genetic mutation that happened in that region.
Jen
Okay.
Mike
With people, it's possible.
Jen
Question. Since we're going to end the part two of this conspiracy theory, my last question for you is, what is a conspiracy? If you feel comfortable, of course. What is a conspiracy theory? That you actually think that there is legit truth. Like, you would stand on a podium and be like, I think there's some truth here. Are there any.
Mike
Yeah, I think they all kind of connect, I think, personally, because I think it connects to biblical history and biblical mysteries and mythology and of other cultures.
Jen
I don't even know what's coming.
Mike
I. I do think ancient. So I think our. The arc of what people thought our societies had gone through is longer than what we think. I. Meaning that I believe what we have now is technology. Like, if you went. If you went and showed 2,000 years ago, somebody a smartphone, what would they think it is?
Jen
Like a bomb? It's gonna blow up?
Mike
No, they think it's magic.
Jen
Oh. Or that.
Mike
Right. I mean, gosh, what is the. Who's. There's a. There's a quote. Gosh. And I'm blanking on who it was.
Jen
Wait, I'm confused. Do you think that. That smartphones have already existed?
Mike
I think there's alternative technologies that could have existed prior that people found different pathways to knowledge. Biblically. Right. Because we had the flood. So pre flood of Noah, there was an entire civilization.
Jen
Noah had a MacBook.
Mike
No, I'm not saying that. But. But what did they talk about? A lot they talked about. Matt. Like, even. Even in Moses, Moses went to the pharaoh and he threw down the scepter. Do you remember this? So his. His magicians and his people threw down. Basically turned a staff into a snake, and then he threw down his scepter and God turned it into a snake and ate that snake. Meaning that things were.
Jen
Mike. Point is, I was raised in a Christian. I have never heard that story.
Mike
Yeah, that's part. Yeah. Maybe you should reread the Bible because.
Jen
Well, I've never read it cover to cover.
Mike
You never read it? Yeah. Genesis and Exodus. Read those again. They're. They're good. Okay, so that's Old Testament. But things. Post Old Testament, there are things in there. And obviously Noah's even before this. Right. But they talked about Nephilim, which is the giants, the history, which is an. Angels and demons had offspring. This is biblical, by the way. Demons had offspring with humans that created the Nephilim. The Nephilim was a giant, a creature of. Of greater intelligence and larger size.
Jen
This is historical.
Mike
This is not historical. This is biblical. It's not historical.
Jen
Demons are impregnating people.
Mike
That is called the Nephilim. Yes, that is what that is.
Jen
I see how people think this religion is. Wow.
Mike
There's some wild. So then there are a lot of people think those are just myths. Right. Like. And again, they are. And I Think there's, I think there's a lot of myth in it because you're, you're having verbal documentation before it was written down 2000 years ago, because not even 2000, maybe 2500 years, 3000 years ago, when the Scrolls, Dead Sea Scrolls, things that you have, a lot of it was verbal. You tell stories and the way to remember stories is you create stories from it. They have the connection to the meaning behind it. That's the whole point of mythology and all these things. But there's so many commonalities and so they get the long winded way of answer. I think there's something more that was going on. I think that the history shows that there's more going on. And they're finding more and more human remains. Recently they found that they found, you know, Homo sapiens exactly like us. That is now back to 300,000 years ago. So humans been around 300,000 years from a standpoint of the way we look from if you believe in carbon dating and some people say New Earth, whatnot, I'm not going to get into the science of it. I believe there's a longer history that we have because again, biblically, you know, is it. Is it Peter, I'm blanking on that. He says, you know, a day to God is like a thousand years and a thousand years like a day. Meaning that time is different to God. Right. So if you talk about like the actual history, you can't go back and say the Earth was created in one day. Because what is a one day to God? That's an infinite creature, an infinite beating. That doesn't really make sense to me. That's a. There's a little bit more to the.
Jen
Aspect of maybe it doesn't mean a solid 24 hours.
Mike
What is a day? What is it? What is a day to an infinite being? Let's not. Yeah, I don't know. Okay. Anyway, that's a whole other thing.
Jen
Are you gonna ask me what.
Mike
You get it? But you get into these three things. You have three.
Jen
My turn.
Mike
If a human's around 3,000 years, we also know that a cataclysm or something really big happens. Whether it's asteroids that hit the Earth, which we know happened.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
Major volcanoes that explode, which no happen. Floods, which we know happen. So these things we do know happen. And the best estimate, scientists say that happened, they happen once every 100,000 years.
Jen
Okay.
Mike
So if we've gone through three major, almost wipe out the Earth kind of cataclysms that have changed the way we have Cataclysms. And we've. And, and we think about. We've advanced even the last 2000 years. If you talk about, like, let's just use, you know, Christ, the birth of Christ, as the. As the beginning of it from where that was to where we are now. How different is life? Yeah, that's only 2,000 years. What happens in a hundred thousand years?
Jen
No, I'm. I mean, I hear you, right? 2,000 to 100,000. That's a lot of years of doing the exact same thing.
Mike
And if, and if it goes up and down and yes, we've evolved. We've evolved. We've gotten smarter, but we've gotten smarter, maybe in different ways. Point is this.
Jen
I love how you're talking about intelligence and you're wearing a hat that says bro.
Mike
Yeah. So, okay, just a couple more little things in there. They don't even know who built the pyramids. They really don't. I mean, they kind of know. They know Egyptians did, obviously, in Egypt. Yeah, but it is. But a lot of people believe it's a lot older. This, that entire region of the Sahara back, gosh, I think it's like 3, 000 years ago, maybe 4, 000 year goes. Was totally green. It was. It was like. It was like plantation beautiful, you know?
Jen
Were you there?
Mike
Yes.
Jen
That's like Berkeley.
Mike
I don't know.
Jen
That's like Berkeley. The other day, each of our kids. Sorry to break it up, each of our kids have like one question where we're like, are you good? Like, we call them, like, no brainer questions, essentially. And they laugh at it too. But I was telling about a car accident I was in when I was 16, and Berkeley was like on pin, like, edge of her seat, listening to all the details. And then she looked at me, she goes, but did you die? And I looked at her.
Mike
When you got a car accident, I.
Jen
Looked at her and I said, yes, I did, like. And she just looked at me and started laughing. She instantly knew. What did Vaughn. Oh, what the. What did I find? The rabbits. So then Vaughn had his. A couple weeks ago, I found this nest of rabbits. Rabbit bunnies or bunnies, baby rabbits. And I was like, telling them about them being in the nest and covering it back up. And Vaughn was like, again, on edge of the seat, like, listening. He goes, but what did they say? And I said, they said, put me back in the nest. And he instantly started laughing. He meant something else.
Mike
No, he wanted to know if they made a noise. What do they say?
Jen
And it was hilarious. Anyways, so I'm gonna.
Mike
I'm gonna go back to.
Jen
You can talk about this.
Mike
I know. Because I want to close this up and say regardless of the thing. So, like, I think a lot of what we don't believe there is some truths in there and there's a lot of historical things and we don't know. And I think more knowledge is coming up just because the basis of information that comes up, the Internet. There's a lot of crap out there. I think a lot more. I think actually most of it's bs. I really do like real. But I do think there's something going on. There's something going on in the skies.
Jen
Okay.
Mike
I do think there's something going on with ancient history that we're going to prove that that is different than what we did. I think some of those things are connected. And my thing is, regardless of what comes out, I still have my faith. Belief that. That we've been created in God's image and he, you know, he made us. And. And you know, you know, I don't. It doesn't change the standpoint that I believe that, you know, I find salvation through Christ. And that's my. My standpoint. None of that changes. But, you know, I don't, you know, big moon landings, chemtrails, airport, flat Earth. I think flatter. It's complete garbage anyway. So there's things in there that like. Yeah, it sounds wacko. I. I just think it's fun to talk about and I. My thing is, is I actually just want to look at things that actually have scientific back basis to it. I do. Because I've had some weird stuff happen to me as a kid. I can tell. I didn't even get into that. It's things I like in my memory.
Jen
I have these well over an hour. You got.
Mike
Oh, man. Okay. Well, I got. I'm going to. I'm done.
Jen
I'll pause it into a lot.
Mike
You asked me. We talked 22 minutes about periods and beards and. And auditory processing issues. So this is probably. Mark this as the strangest podcast we've done to date.
Jen
It's the most random. It's definitely the most scattered for sure. But that's not.
Mike
Hey, you're the one that started this off on period talk.
Jen
Yeah, this is kind of us. Welcome to our brains and we're unmedicated and we really like living that way. It's a very fun, sporadic life.
Mike
Which one's your. Okay, one sentence. Which one's real conspiracy.
Jen
I feel like this is so controversial. I'M about to say and like some people are gonna hate me. Please take this very lightly because I'm very much like, I don't care about any conspiracy theory and I'm living life and I'm a seven. I'm an enthusiast. Like I'm an eight Enneagram with a wing seven where I'm like, I'm just here living in the moment. So I don't like to think that deep. But it doesn't take a lot to convince me when like government covers stuff up.
Mike
Yeah, but why would they cover stuff up?
Jen
Because I think there's a control there and I don't trust even though like, you know, I have things that I vote for and like I have values of course. And opinions on things. I definitely it does not.
Mike
So yours would be like for me.
Jen
To be like, oh yeah, there's corrupt people.
Mike
So yours would more be like JFK and thinking they did it. Yeah. Like, or like, or involved just like modern day things. Yeah.
Jen
You could sell me.
Mike
So it's funny is. Yeah, I, I, which is. Which of course I agree with it as well because I think, you know, follow the money, you'll follow the decisions and you follow control, money, all those things combined.
Jen
I think when you have that large of a sum of money, I think say you are on target from Satan 247 or just a lot of power.
Mike
Or just super greedy which in this own form of evil. That's. Yeah.
Jen
I mean some would argue like Satan leads us to greed and evil and I think. Or you're just on display or if you're super well known. Maybe not even well known but like if you're faith, like I think a lot of pastors will get it.
Mike
How are children born?
Jen
No, we're not doing this selfish.
Mike
No, I'm. No really, I'm, I'm.
Jen
I thought you meant like the process.
Mike
No, no, no, no, no.
Jen
Yeah. No. Humans are born.
Mike
Humans are born selfish and humans that don't evolve past childhood and adolescence will never grow into an adulthood. And there are a lot of adolescent adults out there.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
That the life and world evolves around them. They care about nothing else. It's what's in it for me and poor me and poor this and yeah. There's a lot of bad things that happen to people and, and for sure, like there are people that man, I pray for them and we, we give a lot to charity. We do a lot of things and it's stuck. And there are people with health issues and things like that. And there are other people in there that just make the world about them and are living in eternal sadness because they can't get out of their own way.
Jen
Right.
Mike
And it's in, you know, and the problem is, is they almost appropriate the real people that have real needs, in my opinion, so.
Jen
Well, and on that note, we need to end. What a great ending note.
Mike
Conspiracy talks are fun. I hope we can revisit this again soon. If you guys like this, put some comments on it later. We'll do it again later. This is fun. We don't have to make every. This isn't a spirit conspiracy podcast, but.
Jen
It'S makes my brain hurt.
Mike
Kind of fun to talk about.
Jen
I mean, it is because you love it. I'm, like, just here and I can give opinions, but I don't know a lot about it. All right, thank you all so much for listening. Remember to follow us over on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, wherever you listen to your podcast. We would love and appreciate rating. Oh, my gosh. I popped on there today. In the ratings are 4.9 stars out of 5 with, like, almost 6,000 reviews. That's in insane. I don't. I had to look. I.
Mike
Do you know how many counts I had to make to get that up? I had, like, it was 55 ever.
Jen
I just want to say thank y' all so much for giving us such high ratings because while, like, it doesn't mean anything at the end of the day, it means a lot to us. Just, like, as feedback for, like, thank you. We. It motivates us to, like, not stop after season two. Like, so thank you.
Mike
Right.
Jen
Very, very nice to take time to.
Mike
Do that in the dms. If there's things that you want to hear us talk about, send it to Jen. On that one, we have the email. Does anyone remember the email?
Jen
Off top of them, you, me, and mike podcast gmail.com and you can email things you want to say, questions, or topics you want us to cover. I. Eventually, this season, we'll do another voicemail read.
Mike
I love that one last one.
Jen
That was awesome. If you can upload voicemails and send it through that email, those all go to my producer and we'll use all of those things as we're doing meetings for episodes and whatnot.
Mike
Well, this one ran a little longer than normal. Thanks, guys, again for listening along.
Jen
Yeah.
Mike
High five. That's awesome.
Jen
Boom. Y' all have a wonderful week. And again, thank you so much for listening. Until the next time.
Mike
We gotta go get the kids.
Jen
Yes, we do. Okay, bye, guys. Thank you. Ra.
Episode 204: How Did We Get Here??
Date: September 17, 2025
Host: Thirteen Media
Hosts: Jenn Todryk (@theramblingredhead) & Mike Todryk
In this wide-ranging and delightfully off-the-cuff episode, married hosts Jenn and Mike Todryk pivot away from their usual structure, bouncing from relatable married-life anecdotes to personal quirks and eventually into the weeds of conspiracy theories and faith. While ostensibly picking up on “part two” of a popular conspiracy theory discussion, much of the conversation detours into fun marital banter, quirks, and big-picture musings on belief, curiosity, and skepticism, before touching base again with ancient history, the Denver International Airport, and the Illuminati.
The episode is lighthearted, authentic, and often hilarious—perfect for listeners who enjoy a spontaneous, realistic window into a married couple’s unfiltered conversations as they debate topics from periods and lost ketchup to lizard people and spiritual gifts.
Period Talk and Patience:
Jenn and Mike open the episode with playful banter about energy levels and Jenn’s “period brain,” leading to a candid discussion on how Jenn’s patience for Mike’s inability to find things (e.g. in the fridge) disappears when she’s menstruating.
Jenn coins the term “look with your lady eyes” for how she searches for things versus how Mike does, and shares a humorous anecdote about slamming mustard on the counter in frustration (West Point/ketchup story at 04:15).
“Find the gay chop… look with your lady eyes.” — Jenn, [02:02]
“I might not be able to find the ketchup on the middle shelf, but at least I know what West Point is.” — Mike, [06:28]
Memory & Auditory Processing:
Mike reveals he has a mental block for remembering song lyrics—even simple songs like “Jingle Bells”—but can recall the beats, context, and emotions around the music.
They conduct a live “ChatGPT diagnosis” to seek an explanation, leading to laughter and a dive into cognitive styles.
“He cannot remember a single lyric to any song… but he recognizes the beat and what the song is.” — Jenn via ChatGPT, [14:11]
“If his brain prioritizes patterns over language in music, the feel of the song sticks but not the words.” — ChatGPT, [15:21]
Mike attributes his skills to high pattern recognition but low verbal recall; Jenn confesses she can memorize anything set to music.
Jenn discusses her preference for Mike’s beard being tidy rather than long (“rugged clean”), and shares a story about their daughter disliking when Mike shaves clean (Berkeley cries when he removes facial hair at [20:00]).
They reflect on aging, going gray, and genetics for hair/beard color.
“No, I do not like a clean-shaven face.” — Jenn, [19:16]
ADHD in Adulthood:
Jenn and Mike discuss findings and self-management of ADHD, agreeing that Jenn tends toward task-switching and hyperfocus but always completes her self-defined tasks—even if not on the expected list.
“You bounce around tasks, but you finish things.” — Mike, [24:00] “I still think it's a superpower. I really do.” — Mike, [25:19]
Household Messes:
They dig into the conspiracy theory about Denver International Airport being a secret Illuminati HQ, referencing weird art murals, Freemason plaques, underground tunnels, and the infamous “Blue Mustang” (aka “Blucifer”) statue.
Jenn is bemused and mildly disturbed by the murals, reading from sources to confirm detail and lore ([31:01]); Mike provides background on the horse sculpture and lizard people myths.
Both agree the art’s weirdness is likely an over-the-top attempt at provocation or publicity.
“Why is there a blue horse with red glowing eyes at an airport?” — Jenn, [32:27]
“They've leaned in… their signs say, ‘Pardon our mess. We have a lizard people problem.’” — Mike, [48:10]
Illuminati Origins & Pop Culture:
Manifestation & Faith:
Jenn expresses skepticism over “manifesting” as a trend, preferring to attribute success to faith and action.
Mike draws parallels between manifestation and prayer/faith in Christian practice, while stressing that, for them, spiritual success is not self-created but God-allowed.
“You didn't manifest crap. God did that.” — Jenn, [43:01]
“I actually look at that [faith] as a gift.” — Mike, [44:03]
Ancient Technology & Biblical Mysteries:
Mike posits that human civilization is likely much older and more complicated than assumed, referencing biblical stories of giants (Nephilim) and ancient cataclysms ([54:26]).
They briefly discuss the idea of ancient advanced societies, Peruvian “alien” mummies, and how myth/history blurs over millennia.
“I think the history shows that there’s more going on… there’s a longer history than we think.” — Mike, [55:56]
Fun with Conspiracy Theories:
Mike engages the fun side of conspiracy culture but remains cautious, emphasizing he only really entertains those with potential scientific basis.
“I just think it’s fun to talk about… I actually just want to look at things that have scientific basis to them.” — Mike, [59:00]
Jenn candidly admits she finds coverups and government manipulation most believable—not because she seeks drama or paranoia, but because she’s “an enthusiast living in the moment” and isn’t easily shocked when stories of control and money surface.
“It doesn’t take a lot to convince me when government covers stuff up.” — Jenn, [61:16]
“Follow the money, you’ll follow the decisions.” — Mike, [61:44]
They discuss human selfishness as a root for much corruption.
“I might not be able to find the ketchup on the middle shelf, but at least I know what West Point is.” — Mike, [06:28]
“He cannot remember a single lyric to any song… but he recognizes the beat and what the song is. Why?” — Jenn via ChatGPT, [14:11]
“You didn’t manifest crap. God did that.” — Jenn, [43:01]
“Faith is your gift… no matter what, you always trumpet with ‘yeah, God did that, you didn’t do that.’” — Mike, [43:43]
“Why is there a blue horse with red glowing eyes at an airport?” — Jenn, [32:27]
“They believe a lot of leaders are actually lizards.” — Mike, on the lizard people conspiracy, [48:44]
“It doesn’t take a lot to convince me when government covers stuff up.” — Jenn, [61:16]
| Timestamp | Segment | |-----------|-------------------------------------------------------| | 01:04 | Introduction to today’s loosely-structured episode | | 04:15 | “West Point” ketchup/marriage anecdote | | 07:51 | Mike’s inability to remember lyrics/Jingle Bells demo | | 14:00 | Live ChatGPT diagnosis on Mike’s lyric memory | | 19:16 | Beard preferences, facial hair stories | | 24:00 | ADHD discussion, hyperfocus, and task-finishing | | 29:03 | Conspiracy theories — Denver International Airport | | 32:27 | Discovery of “Blucifer” blue horse route | | 41:38 | Mike’s 3x5 card “type of man I want to be” exercise | | 43:01 | Jenn: “You didn’t manifest crap. God did that.” | | 48:10 | DIA leans into “lizard people” conspiracy | | 54:26 | Nephilim and biblical mystery discussion | | 59:00 | Mike’s thoughts on which conspiracies can be true | | 61:16 | Jenn: Government coverups are the most believable |
This episode is a perfect sampler of the Todryks’ dynamic: real married talk, spectrum-spanning topics, and easy, often irreverent, always loving rapport. If you want a funny, honest take on how couples actually talk about everything from mental quirks to the Illuminati (with a generous helping of “did you really just say that?”), this is your episode.
This episode is aptly titled "How Did We Get Here??"—a fitting reflection of its charmingly meandering but always entertaining approach, reminding us that some conversations are best when they’re allowed to wander.
Listener tip: For a deep-dive on faith or conspiracy theory, watch for future episodes where Jenn and Mike promise to return to those juicy topics!