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🎗️You Winning Life🎗️
Hosted by Jason Wasser, LMFT · EN
Most people know something is holding them back. They just can't quite name it.
You Winning Life is the podcast for high-functioning people who are done settling for "fine" — hosted by Jason Wasser, LMFT, Certified NET Practitioner, and Entrepreneur Coach based in South Florida.
With 20 years working with entrepreneurs, athletes (MLB, NBA, USTA), and everyday high-achievers, Jason brings a rare blend of clinical depth and straight talk to the conversations most podcasts are too polished to have.
Each episode pulls back the curtain on the patterns, beliefs, and nervous system responses that drive your decisions — at work, in your relationships, and in your own head. Guests include psychologists, performance coaches, wellness experts, and people who've navigated real transformation.
No jargon. No toxic positivity. Just the kind of honest conversation that actually moves the needle.
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Ep. 188- "Lessons From A Modern Viking" w/Anders Indset
Jan 6, 202501:02:55Tap to summarizeLet us know what you thought about the show!In this thought-provoking episode, Jason Wasser welcomes Anders Indset, a Norwegian philosopher, futurist, and author of The Viking Code: The Art and Science of Norwegian Success. Together, they explore the intersection of consciousness, technology, and human agency, touching on themes such as free will, the illusion of choice, and how cultural perspectives influence our thinking.Key highlights from their conversation:The Optimization Paradox: Anders discusses how society has become fixated on binary decisions, instant reactions, and optimization, often at the expense of deeper understanding and collective trust.Human Agency and Free Will: They examine the balance between individual autonomy and societal programming, questioning how much of our free will we consciously exercise versus what is influenced by external forces.Technology and AI: Anders shares insights from his forthcoming book The Singularity Paradox and discusses how exponential technological growth challenges our understanding of humanity. They delve into the potential of AI to both enhance and diminish human agency and explore ethical questions surrounding its integration into society.Humility and Leadership: Drawing from The Viking Code, Anders outlines the importance of values-based leadership and interdependence, advocating for a balance between individual ambition and collective well-being.Philosophical Inquiry: Jason and Anders engage in a rich dialogue about the nature of consciousness, the limits of human understanding, and the philosophical implications of AI advancements.This episode blends practical wisdom with deep philosophical musings, encouraging listeners to reflect on the role of technology in shaping the future of human experience.Resources Mentioned:The Viking Code: The Art and Science of Norwegian SuccessUpcoming book: The Singularity ParadoxAnders’ website: Anders IndsetInstagram: @andersindsetThe Family Room Wellness AssociatesOnline Therapy and Coaching with Jason Wasser, LMFTCheck out our guests books!Want to learn more from our guests and also see what products I suggest?Wasser's FurnitureHighlighting what's great about buying your furniture from a brick and mortar family business!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show
Transcribe →Ep.187-Be Frictionless w/Ryan Chute
Dec 9, 202401:12:10Tap to summarizeLet us know what you thought about the show!🚀 Join Us for a Transformative Conversation with Ryan Chute! 🚀In this episode, we dive deep with Ryan Chute, an expert marketing strategist and partner at Wizard of Ads®. Our discussion challenges the traditional notion of servant leadership, exploring how true growth comes from aligning values vs. beliefs and creating a frictionless experience in both life and business.Ryan shares powerful insights on the basics of motivation, how healing drives personal and professional growth, and the principles that have shaped his journey in helping businesses achieve exponential success.If you're ready to rethink leadership, master motivation, and unlock your potential for growth, this conversation is for you!🎙️ Don't miss this inspiring interview. Be sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more content like this!Key Points:Shifting from Transactional to Relational:Ryan discusses his evolution from thriving financially in a transactional sales model to discovering fulfillment through relational approaches.Key Idea: Success isn't just about making money but about creating meaningful, value-driven connections.Leadership and Collaboration:True leadership is not about authority but about inspiring others to follow willingly.Leadership involves self-awareness, vulnerability, and collaboration to achieve goals collectively.Key Quote: "The only place we can go to really make this that much more powerful is together."Values vs. Beliefs:Ryan distinguishes between values and beliefs:Beliefs are interchangeable and subjective.Values require sacrifice and are demonstrated through action.Key Quote: "True value is about doing what is inconvenient for you for the benefit of someone else."Gratitude as a Core Principle:Gratitude underpins happiness, success, and meaningful relationships.Key Quote: "Gratitude is the ultimate pursuit of happiness."Friction and Resistance:Friction in relationships and businesses arises from outdated beliefs, assumptions, and survival mode thinking.Identifying and removing friction leads to smoother, more productive interactions.Key Idea: Micro-adjustments and self-awareness can reduce friction and enhance growth.Entrepreneurship as Accountability:Ryan and Jason discuss entrepreneurship as a mindset of complete accountability for outcomes, both in business and personal life.Key Quote (Jason): "An entrepreneur is a person who is entirely accountable for all of their outcomes."The Power of Communication:Effective communication begins with understanding oneself and then connecting with others authentically.Key Idea: Tailoring messages and actions to the individual’s needs creates lasting impact.Coping vs. Thriving:Coping is about survival, while thriving is about self-actualization and growth.The two are not mutually exclusive and can coexist as part of the journey to fulfillment.The Role of Personal Growth:Continuous self-reflection and improvement are essential for eThe Family Room Wellness AssociatesOnline Therapy and Coaching with Jason Wasser, LMFTDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show
Transcribe →Ep. 186-"Strength in Surrender" with Extreme Athlete Matt Dawson
Nov 17, 202400:57:56Tap to summarizeLet us know what you thought about the show!Matt Dawson (“Dawson”) is a M&A investment banker, corporate investor and small business operator turned multi-record holding endurance and adventure athlete; sought-after public speaker; lifestyle/performance advisor; and founder of Dawson’s Peak Foundation. Beginning project Seven for Soldiers in May 2021, Dawson set multiple records by rapidly completing a previously unheard-of number of global expeditions (in a single year), including summiting the Seven Summits (the highest peak on every continent); skiing to a pole (South Pole); traversing a desert (Mojave); and rowing across an ocean (Atlantic). Although he was on track to additionally ski to the North Pole and fly a single-engine plane around the world during this same year, his plans were delayed due to the global pandemic and Russia/Ukraine events.Additionally, Dawson set a new world record in May 2024 by becoming the fastest person to ever cross the Mojave Desert on foot – covering 329.5 miles in 7 days, 8 hours, and 45 minutes (solo and unsupported).Through project Seven for Soldiers, Dawson has exemplified what is possible when we identify a goal and fully apply ourselves. Dawson is an avid traveler (35+ countries); licensed motorcycle racer; U.S. Navy qualified “Expert” with pistol and rifle; outdoor enthusiast; and IFR licensed fixed wing (airplane) pilot (currently training to add multi-engine rating). In addition, Dawson is Treasurer for the Los Angeles Circle of Giving (a non-profit organization serving the community by helping individuals and families that are experiencing a challenging life event); and has served as a Mentor for the LEAP Foundation in Los Angeles, CA.InstagramWebsiteSend us a textThe Family Room Wellness AssociatesOnline Therapy and Coaching with Jason Wasser, LMFTCheck out our guests books!Want to learn more from our guests and also see what products I suggest?The Family Room Wellness AssociatesOnline Therapy and Coaching with Jason Wasser, LMFTDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show
Transcribe →Ep. 185- "Getting Real" with Netflix's Jewish Matchmaking Aleeza Ben Shalom
Oct 9, 202401:05:42Tap to summarizeLet us know what you thought about the show!I met Aleeza around 2002 when we both attended retreats for a Jewish spirituality organization called Isralight. I am so proud of her amazing success as a Matchmaker and her show Jewish Matchmaking on Netflix. Matchmaking Origins: Aleeza's journey as a matchmaker started organically by setting up friends and recognizing matchmaking as her calling.Vision and Goals: The importance of dreaming big and revising goals to align with personal and professional growth.Counterintuitive Dating Advice: Aleeza advocates for seeing potential in every date, going with a mindset of "soulmate until proven not," and normalizing the effort to set up others monthly.Overcoming Challenges: Jason and Aleeza highlight the value of reframing negative beliefs, whether in dating or professional growth, using tools like mindset shifts and persistence.Collaboration and Impact: Both stress the significance of partnerships, mentorships, and creating community support systems in business and personal life.Topics Covered:The journey from informal matchmaking to becoming "The Jewish Matchmaker."Counterintuitive advice, including "Date them till you hate them" and fostering patience in relationships.How belief systems and reframing language impact dating, relationships, and professional growth.The intersection of personal branding, niching down, and entrepreneurial challenges.The role of collaboration, epigenetics, and community support in achieving long-term success.From Aleeza Ben Shalom:“When you build couples, it builds a community, and you build the world.”“Assume that the person you’re dating is your soulmate until proven not.”“Everyone can make a match suggestion—one a month—whether it’s for friends, family, or anyone.”“Slow down to move fast. Break before the curve so you can gas into it.”“Collaboration is your ticket to success; it’s not about competition but about building together.”“How we talk about and describe problems often holds the key to unlocking them.”“I believe we often set goals too small; what we call a goal is really just an action step.”“The worst thing someone can say is yes—because that means you have to rise to the challenge.”“Our belief systems are the biggest hurdles in personal and professional growth.”Recommended Action Items:For Individuals:Adopt Aleeza’s advice: “Date them till you hate them.” Assume potential until proven otherwise.Make one match suggestion a month to connect others, contributing to community well-being.For Entrepreneurs:Reflect on whether your goals are action steps or true milestones. Adjust accordingly.Embrace collaboration and seek out mentors or partnerships to scale your vision.For Personal Growth:Reframe negative beliefs and language about challenges in dating or business.Identify a limiting belief about a partner, colleague, or yourself, and woThe Family Room Wellness AssociatesOnline Therapy and Coaching with Jason Wasser, LMFTCheck out our guests books!Want to learn more from our guests and also see what products I suggest?Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show
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