Rob Dayton sits down with Dani Sumner, host of the A Holy Mess Podcast, coach, and recovering alcoholic whose story is marked by anxiety, deep suffering, and radical transformation. After decades of battling anxiety, depression, and addiction, Dani shares how Jesus helped her shift from running from herself to finally coming home to who God created her to be.

This conversation digs into the real work of renewing the mind. Dani unpacks how compassion for yourself is often the first step toward real healing, why confession and community break the power of shame, and how changing the lens you see your circumstances through can completely transform your life.

From surviving dark seasons of suicidal thoughts and addiction to learning how to sit with others in their pain without Christian clichés, Dani offers a powerful reminder that the abundant life Jesus promises does not come from escaping suffering but learning how to walk with God through it.

If you have ever felt stuck in anxiety, shame, victimhood, or painful circumstances you cannot change, this episode will challenge you to ask a better question: How might God leverage this moment for good?

You’ll hear:
- Why anxiety and depression often have spiritual, emotional, and physical roots
- How Dani went from decades of anxiety to helping others renew their minds
- Why learning compassion for yourself unlocks compassion for others
- The hidden power of confession and why healing happens in community
- How shame keeps people stuck in victimhood and how to break free
- Why changing your perspective can transform even painful circumstances
- How asking better questions invites God into your situation
- Why suffering can actually grow deeper gratitude and empathy
- How daily practices help retrain your mind, body, and spirit

Journal Prompt
What circumstance in my life feels painful right now, and how might God leverage it for good?

Links
📘 100xLife Info → https://100xlife.com
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🎙 Dani Sumner → https://www.danisumner.com/

Chapters
00:00 Welcome to the 100X Life Podcast
00:37 Meet Dani Sumner and her story of anxiety and healing
05:15 From addiction to sobriety: Dani’s turning point
10:21 Why compassion for yourself is the first step to healing
16:04 Changing the lens: how perspective rewires behavior
20:14 Breaking shame through confession and community
24:08 Seeing circumstances differently through the lens of Jesus
30:06 Learning to walk with God through suffering
34:52 Mind, body, and spirit: addressing the whole person
38:02 Dani’s coaching work and invitation to healing

If It’s Not Good, God’s Not Done | With Dani Sumner