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Lynne Thoman
It's a challenging time to invest with so much uncertainty. How does one of the world's savviest investors see the world now? Where is he investing and what's the most common mistake that he sees investors making? Hi everyone, I'm Lynne Thoman and this is three Takeaways. On three Takeaways, I talk with some of the world's best thinkers, business leaders, writers, politicians, newsmaker and scientists. Each episode ends with three key takeaways to help us understand the world and maybe even ourselves a little better. Today I'm excited to be with John Gray. John is the president and chief operating officer of Blackstone Group, a New York based asset management firm that is one of the largest and most respected financial firms. He joined the firm right out of college, rising to become head of Blackstone's real estate group and then president, helping grow the firm to one of the world's largest asset management firms. John is also the chairman of Hilton Worldwide. Welcome John, and thanks so much for joining three Takeaways today.
John Gray
Lynn, it is great to be with you.
Lynne Thoman
Wonderful to be with you. John. Graduation speeches are usually filled with platitudes and deadly boring, but you gave one of the most memorable graduation speeches I've ever heard at our children's high school graduation. Can you talk about radical amazement?
John Gray
Wow. Thank you. The quote comes from Abraham Heschel and it's in my mind this idea that we have to have a sense of appreciation about life and not just the big things, but the little things. You know, life has all its hardships, we're all going to face setbacks, things are going to go badly. But if you remind yourself constantly about the good things, it could be a cup of coffee this morning or a vista you see on a run you take and you appreciate where you are on this journey. It makes all the difference. And for me, even when I'm frustrated about, God, it's a hard day at work or we had this crisis or I've got a zillion emails but just like, wow, this is incredible, I can't, I'm in Tokyo, jogging around the gardens or whatever it is. And so I try to have that sense of appreciation. And I found that in the tough parts of life, it allows you to get through it. So I'm thinking, how can I feel this sense of radical amazement, this appreciation? And as I said, it's a very valuable tool in life. And I was trying to convey that to the young people as they start on their next step in the journey.
Lynne Thoman
I love that. John Blackstone is all about delivering great returns to investors. What has accounted for Blackstone's growth from under a billion dollars assets under management when you joined the firm to over a trillion dollars today?
John Gray
We never forgot what matters. And I'd point to a few things. First, you mentioned it, which is returns. If you think about our business a little bit like a pizza shop, the store can look great, you can be super nice to the all that stuff's really important. But if your pizza tastes badly, it doesn't really matter. And in our business, it's about the net returns we've got to deliver for customers. And so we're relentlessly focused on trying to find the next place to invest, how to deliver returns, how to add value to companies, because we know that's so important and that's really been the core foundation. The other things I'd say we're a place that is constantly innovating. Steve Schwarzman, our coach, co founder, CEO has this energy and this idea that we have to be entrepreneurs. We cannot sit still in what we're doing. We're always thinking about, again, the new geography, what's a new product, what's a new area of investment. And a firm that brings that kind of creative energy, that dynamism, can continue to grow even as it scales up. I think the final thing is the people. A great firm is able to not only attract but retain really talented people, but also having a culture where people enjoy working together, they're working hard, but they like one another, they feel like they're on a shared mission, they're proud of the firm. There's still, as you can tell, a lot of passion for what we do. And all of that, I think, is the reason why we've been so successful.
Lynne Thoman
John, I know that you love investing and you even spend your weekends reading and reading about everything, including, including potential investments. How do you invest? What do you look for in a business?
John Gray
Well, I guess I'd start with the big picture, which is I often say, what neighborhood is this business in? Because you could buy the best department store chain or landline phone company, but if you're investing in what our older, what you may call buggy whip type of businesses, it's very hard. And so is this an area of the economy that is going to continue to grow. Obviously things like technology or energy and power, some of these areas that have enormous tailwinds, but it could be things like global travel, that is a long term growth business. So start with is this a good neighborhood that this business sits in? And then the Business itself, does it have an excellent management team? You can still buy businesses without, but then you have to make changes. But it is great to buy businesses where they're terrific, dynamic, thoughtful, driven leaders. Does the business have high margins versus low margins? Does the business use a lot of capital? There are some businesses that are good, that have a lot of capital, but a great business, I think about our firm, or you mentioned Hilton hotels. They use very little capital and yet they can still grow. So you love businesses like that. You love businesses with lots of customers as opposed to one customer. You love businesses that aren't as suspect to stroke of the pen. You know, the government changes one law and the business disappears. Is it built on terra firma? Does the business have recurring revenues? And then, of course, what's the price you're paying? Because even a really great business, as we've seen back in 2000 or 2021, in bubbly periods, you can pay too much. But in general, you're trying to find as many of these boxes as you can tick as possible. And, and if you find a bunch of tech and the price is reasonable, maybe you have to pay a little extra to buy the really great business. But we found over time that pays off. And so it doesn't really matter if it's a Japanese pharmaceutical company or it's a piece of real estate in Los Angeles. A lot of the tools, a lot of the things you're looking for are remarkably similar.
Lynne Thoman
You talked about the neighborhood. Can you talk more about the neighborhoods or what you call thematic investing?
John Gray
If you believe that there are powerful trends that are happening, wouldn't it be nice to sort of go to that neighborhood and go to a river where the flow is at your back as opposed to swimming upstream? And so you try to identify big trends. So what are big trends today? Well, obviously our lives are migrating online and AI is going to change so many things that all of us do. So you say to yourself, okay, that's an interesting area. Maybe I'm not best positioned to figure out which large language model is going to win, but maybe I can become the biggest data center investor in the world. Because this migration online and AI is going to require enormous data center capacity. And then there are all sorts of services in and around that and then adjacent to that. Well, because of data centers and because of autonomous vehicles and ultimately robotics, the demand for electricity is going to go up dramatically. So then maybe I should own utilities, I should own companies building new renewables, I should own transmission lines, I should own utility services, electrical equipment, Manufacturing, and then there are geographic areas. India, we've been the biggest foreign investor in real estate and private equity because we've been long term believers in where India's heading. The government DARE is pro growth and building, physical infrastructure, legal capital markets. And so we're doing a bunch there. As a firm, we're thinking about where is that next good neighborhood and when we find it, can we express it in private equity, in real estate, in credit and infrastructure and growth, and then capture the benefit of all the insights we have.
Lynne Thoman
John, how do you invest in uncertain times?
John Gray
Well, it always feels like it's uncertain times. Today it feels particularly uncertain if you think about it almost like the difference between sort of a microscope and then the wider view. I think too often as investors we get so caught up in the thing that's right in front of us and some of these big trends get lost. Recently, obviously the tariffs have created a lot of noise and investors get very cautious. And I've spent a lot of time on the phone and traveling around the globe with investors just saying, hey, take a deep breath, this too shall pass. All sides have an objective to get this thing settled. And when you close your eyes, 12 months from now, will we still be talking about tariffs in the same way? And if we're not, then maybe this is not the most important thing. Now, if you have a business that sources goods from a country that's directly impacted in a material way, yes, you can't say, oh, that's not a big deal. But in general, as investors, we tend to react to the near term things in a very big and profound way. And what we want to do is take them into account, obviously incorporate them into how we're thinking about investing. But think about these longer term trends, the migration of our lives, online use of this technology, robotics, energy needs, where people are moving and so forth, and think about these big powerful trends and think about volatility in a way as your friend as opposed to your enemy. Because what tends to happen is people are super enthusiastic investing in 2000 or 2007, 2021, when actually their risk is the greatest. And they're like, wow, it's great. Everybody's going into this party, I'm going to go whatever. And they lose sight of price and whatever. When price is correct, that's actually when the risk has gone down and people are looking at the world with the glass half empty. That's when you want to be thinking about what can I now do? Because many of these long term trends are going to continue. And now I have the opportunity to invest in a much more favorable basis. So don't get so caught up in the heat of the day, the news headline of the day. And if you do that and take the long term view, you'll be a much better investor over time.
Lynne Thoman
What does long term mean to you? What kind of time horizon do you like to invest over?
John Gray
Well, for us, it depends on the vehicles we're investing in, but most of it is private investing. So it's got a five to eight year time horizon. As you're building portfolios, individual investors, institutional investors should, I think, be thinking in decades, 10, 20, 30 years. Owning things that have the benefit of compounding I think is powerful. One of the great things about private assets is it makes it hard for investors to pull the panic button at the bottom, which is the natural inclination. So in some ways just tying the act of tying your capital up is helpful because it doesn't give you the opportunity to pull it back at the wrong moment. And you get that benefit of long term compounding, assuming you're investing again in good businesses and good sectors over time. So long term approach can vary, but it's definitely measured more in years than it is in minutes or days.
Lynne Thoman
John, can you summarize what makes a good investor and what are the most common mistakes that you see investors making?
John Gray
I think a great investor is a passionate learner. If you think about people who have had incredible track records over time, Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger, I mean, these people are reading constantly, they're thinking about the world. I think you have to be, because the world changes. Because what's a great investment today? You could have bought a taxi medallion in New York City because there was basically a fixed number of taxi medallions for 80 years. More people visited New York, the city grew, they went up every year for 80 years. Uber came along, and in a year or two, they lost 90% of their value. A student of the game, somebody who's reading and watching, is seeing what's happening and trying to adjust. And it's almost like a building in an earthquake. If it's just static, it'll fall down. You've got to have the ability to move. And the way you move is by being a learner, by reading a ton. I find traveling super helpful, being in different countries, different cities, understanding what's on the ground, what's happening, reading actual annual reports or the earnings calls, and going a level deeper than most people. So I'd start there. I'd also say it requires some independence of thought. Because if you always want to be with the crowd, it's hard to outperform, because by definition, you're going to get what the market gets. And so being a little bit of an iconoclast, I think is important. And being comfortable saying, look, everybody says today commercial real estate's terrible. I think it's actually cheap, therefore I'm going to invest. And then, of course, I think you've got to be willing to work. And I think you also then just translate all that work, that learning, that independence of thought into being a high conviction investor. Real outperformance comes from having this conviction. And I would say the hardest part of it, Lynn, is that in the dark moments, to not lose that sort of will and not panic, because you can get yourself pretty dark when things go down and your investors are calling you and saying, hey, you've lost a bunch of money or this, and having that courage of your convictions, that to me is so important through good and bad times.
Lynne Thoman
John, we started out talking about radical amazement. What career advice can you offer?
John Gray
My career advice would be to work harder and care more than other people. People often say, like, how did so and so get so successful? They show up earlier, they double check their work, they really care about what they're doing, they enjoy it. I would say related to that, being passionate about what you do, because it's really hard to work harder and care more if you don't love it and you probably get a sense. I love the intellectual challenge of investing. I love traveling, I love people, and that makes me able to give 110% of what I do. So finding something you're passionate. And then I would say think of yourself as an entrepreneur, that whatever your role is, and it certainly applies at Blackstone, not just to investors, but to fundraising, to finance, to technology, to legal. And what I mean by being an entrepreneur is, hey, I can be an agent for change. We've been producing this report this way for 15 years, but half the people don't read this stuff. It's way too long. Here are the things people need, or there's a way to do this using technology as opposed to just having a bunch of human beings do it. So if you think of yourself as an entrepreneur, as an agent of change, then your job becomes, I think, more fun. And so you work really hard, you, you care a ton, you're passionate about what you do, doesn't mean you don't have bad days. And then you're an entrepreneur and agent of change. If you can put that together, Then I think you'll have a fulfilling career. Doesn't mean every day is good. But when you look at it and sort of step back and say, collectively, wow, I'm learning a ton and I really enjoy this and I'm pouring my heart into it, then I just keep going.
Lynne Thoman
That is wonderful. John, what are the three takeaways you'd like to leave the audience with today?
John Gray
One that I think you really want to be a high conviction investor, that you want to find the things you truly believe in, be it an industry, a geography sector, and then sort of go all in, put more chips on that. Maybe not 100% of your chips, but this idea of you having conviction, domain expertise in an area that to me would be clearly, as an investor, that's my top advice for Blackstone. We just really love what we do. We're really proud of what we do. And I still think this alternatives industry we're in is still in the early stages, even though it's grown a lot. And what it's going to look like over 5 or 10 years will be significantly larger. And then the final thing, I guess I'd say is that optimism is a very powerful force. And I think if you bring to life this level of optimism, appreciation, hey, I can get through this. Then whatever life throws at you, and we're all going to face incredibly hard challenges. You're going to find a way to get through it.
Lynne Thoman
John, thank you. This has been wonderful.
John Gray
Lynn, thank you. Thanks so much for your time.
Lynne Thoman
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Podcast Summary: "The Long Game: How to Build Wealth in Turbulent Times with Blackstone President Jon Gray" (#258)
Release Date: July 15, 2025
Host: Lynn Thoman
In episode #258 of 3 Takeaways, host Lynn Thoman engages in a profound conversation with Jon Gray, the President and Chief Operating Officer of Blackstone Group, one of the world's premier asset management firms. The discussion delves into strategies for building wealth amidst economic uncertainties, the principles behind Blackstone's exponential growth, investment philosophies, and career advice for aspiring investors.
[00:02 - 01:19]
Lynn Thoman opens the episode by highlighting Jon Gray's impressive career trajectory at Blackstone, emphasizing his rise from a college recruit to the firm's President and Chairman of Hilton Worldwide.
[01:21 - 02:59]
The conversation begins with Jon Gray recounting his memorable graduation speech centered around the concept of "radical amazement." He attributes this idea to Abraham Heschel, emphasizing the importance of appreciating both the grand and the mundane aspects of life. Gray explains:
"Life has all its hardships... but if you remind yourself constantly about the good things, it could be a cup of coffee this morning or a vista you see on a run you take and you appreciate where you are on this journey. It makes all the difference." (01:43)
This perspective, Gray asserts, helps navigate through tough times by fostering a sense of gratitude and resilience.
[02:59 - 04:52]
Lynn shifts the focus to Blackstone's growth from managing under a billion dollars to over a trillion. Jon Gray attributes this success to three core principles:
Focus on Returns:
Gray uses an analogy of a pizza shop to illustrate the importance of substance over mere appearance. He stresses:
"If your pizza tastes badly, it doesn't really matter... it's about the net returns we've got to deliver for customers." (03:17)
Continuous Innovation:
Emphasizing the entrepreneurial spirit fostered by CEO Steve Schwarzman, Gray highlights Blackstone's relentless pursuit of new geographies, products, and investment areas.
People and Culture:
A strong, passionate team that enjoys working together and feels aligned with the firm's mission is crucial. Gray notes:
"We're really proud of what we do. And I still think this alternatives industry we're in is still in the early stages..." (17:11)
Understanding the "Neighborhood"
[04:52 - 07:17]
Jon Gray elaborates on his investment philosophy, beginning with the metaphor of "neighborhoods" or thematic investing. He emphasizes the importance of investing in sectors with long-term growth potential. Key considerations include:
Growth Potential:
Assessing if the business operates in a growing sector, such as technology or energy.
Management Quality:
Investing in companies with dynamic and driven leadership.
Financial Health:
Favoring businesses with high margins, low capital requirements, diversified customer bases, and recurring revenues.
Valuation:
Ensuring that the price paid for an investment aligns with its intrinsic value, avoiding overpaying even for excellent businesses.
Gray encapsulates this approach:
"Does the business have high margins versus low margins?... What's the price you're paying?" (05:07)
Thematic Investing and Big Trends
[07:17 - 09:14]
Gray delves deeper into thematic investing, or identifying "neighborhoods" driven by macro trends. Examples discussed include:
Digital Migration and AI:
Investing in data centers and related infrastructure to support increased online activity and artificial intelligence advancements.
Energy and Utilities:
Capitalizing on the rising demand for electricity driven by data centers, autonomous vehicles, and robotics.
Geographic Focus on India:
Highlighting Blackstone's significant investments in India's growing infrastructure, legal capital markets, and real estate, driven by pro-growth government policies.
"If you believe that there are powerful trends that are happening, wouldn't it be nice to sort of go to that neighborhood and go to a river where the flow is at your back as opposed to swimming upstream?" (07:26)
[09:14 - 11:38]
Addressing the core theme of the episode, Jon Gray offers insights on investing during turbulence:
Long-Term Focus:
Prioritize enduring trends over short-term market noise, such as tariffs or political uncertainties.
Perspective Over Panic:
Encourage investors to maintain a broad view, assessing whether current issues will have lasting impacts or are temporary disruptions.
Embracing Volatility:
View market volatility as an opportunity rather than a threat, citing periods like 2000 or 2021 where disciplined, long-term investing proved beneficial.
"Don't get so caught up in the heat of the day, the news headline of the day. And if you do that and take the long term view, you'll be a much better investor over time." (09:18)
[11:38 - 12:42]
Lynn probes Gray on his definition of "long term." Gray explains that for Blackstone, private investments typically span five to eight years, but he advocates for individual and institutional investors to adopt decade-long horizons. The benefits include:
Compounding Growth:
Allowing investments to grow and compound over extended periods.
Reduced Panic Selling:
The structure of private assets can mitigate the impulse to withdraw funds during downturns, fostering disciplined investment.
"Owning things that have the benefit of compounding I think is powerful." (11:44)
[12:42 - 15:07]
Jon Gray outlines the characteristics that define effective investors:
Passionate Learning:
Continuous education and staying informed about global changes and industry developments.
Independent Thinking:
Avoiding herd mentality to identify unique opportunities and outperform the market.
High Conviction:
Making bold investment decisions based on deep understanding and unwavering belief.
Resilience:
Maintaining composure during market downturns and sticking to one's investment strategy.
Gray emphasizes:
"A great investor is a passionate learner... had to have the ability to move by being a learner, by reading a ton... and being a high conviction investor." (12:50)
Conversely, common mistakes include reacting emotionally to short-term market fluctuations and lacking a clear, long-term investment strategy.
[15:07 - 17:11]
Shifting gears to career guidance, Jon Gray advises:
Work Ethic and Passion:
"Work harder and care more than other people... being passionate about what you do." (15:14)
Entrepreneurial Mindset:
Viewing oneself as an agent of change, regardless of one's role within an organization, fosters innovation and fulfillment.
Gray illustrates this with examples of leveraging technology to improve processes, highlighting the importance of adaptability and proactive problem-solving.
"If you can put that together, then I think you'll have a fulfilling career." (15:14)
[17:02 - 18:23]
In line with the podcast's theme, Jon Gray distills his insights into three actionable takeaways:
High Conviction Investing:
Focus on areas where you have deep belief and expertise, allowing for more substantial and confident investment decisions.
"Find the things you truly believe in... have conviction, domain expertise in an area." (17:11)
Industry Growth Potential:
Acknowledge the evolving nature of the alternatives industry and anticipate its continued expansion over the next decade.
"I still think this alternatives industry we're in is still in the early stages..." (17:11)
Optimism as a Driving Force:
Maintain a positive outlook and appreciation for life's journey, which fosters resilience and the ability to overcome challenges.
"Optimism is a very powerful force... you're going to find a way to get through it." (17:11)
These takeaways encapsulate Gray's philosophy on investment and personal growth, emphasizing conviction, foresight, and a positive mindset.
Jon Gray's insights offer a compelling blueprint for navigating the complexities of modern investing and building enduring wealth. By focusing on long-term trends, maintaining unwavering conviction, and fostering a culture of continuous learning and optimism, both investors and professionals can thrive even in the most turbulent times.
This summary is crafted to provide a comprehensive overview of the podcast episode for those who haven't listened, capturing the essence of Jon Gray's expertise and the valuable lessons shared with Lynn Thoman.