This episode dives deep into the messy realities of adult friendships—why they fail, how boundaries shift as life changes, and the kinds of people Jocelyn and Jade are done entertaining in their circles.

The conversation kicks off with a side story about boundaries and communication—how marriage, kids, and busy schedules force people to be stricter with their time, and how flakiness or poor communication can strain even solid friendships. From there, Jocelyn introduces her list of five types of friends to cut off:

The Drama Dumper – The friend who constantly unloads their same self-inflicted chaos and never changes anything. At some point, venting turns into emotional labor nobody signed up for.
The Diva – Everything is about them, even when it’s your moment. They crave attention—good or bad—and would absolutely wear white to your wedding just to steal the spotlight.
The Non-Accountable Friend – They disrespect people’s time, flake on plans, and never admit when they’re wrong. These are the people who leave you waiting, then get mad when you stop tolerating it.
The Too Attached/Too Detached Friend – Both extremes are unhealthy. The overly attached friend who shows up uninvited (even at your partner’s house!) is suffocating, while the detached one disappears for months and only reappears for the party life, offering no real depth.
The Two-Faced Friend – The one who talks badly about you to other friends in the group. If they gossip about someone else to you, you know they’re doing the same behind your back.

They also throw in a bonus category:

The Favor Friend (aka The Scrub) – Always asking for money, rides, clothes, babysitting, or favors but never reciprocating, even when it’s something small and free.

Throughout the episode, Jocelyn and Jade mix in personal stories, humor, and some Reddit-inspired commentary about how adults struggle with friendships. A big theme is how people avoid difficult conversations with friends, even though they’ll do it in romantic relationships or with family. The hosts argue that friendships are relationships too, and they deserve honesty, accountability, and investment.

The episode closes with a call for listeners to reflect on their own circles: stop calling acquaintances “friends,” be honest about what you’re willing to tolerate, and don’t be afraid to let go of people who don’t add value to your life.

Timeline:

00:00 Unexpected Gossip

01:00 Marriage and Boundaries

03:19 Communication in Friendships

11:35 Top Five Friends to Let Go

12:27 The Drama Friend

13:43 The Diva Friend

15:19 Owning Up to Mistakes

18:50 Too Attached or Too Detached

35:08 The Favor Seeker

39:55 High Standards in Friendships

40:57 Political Differences in Friendships

43:39 Weekly Reddit: Ending Friendships

44:58 Moral and Ethical Differences

57:19 The Importance of Communication

01:18:13 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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5 Types of People We Are NOT Willing to Befriend ANYMORE | Ep 39

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