
Hosted by Penny Plautz · EN

I had a birthday last week. There was cake. And a rollercoaster of emotions I hadn't expected. In this episode, I go somewhere I've been avoiding — into the little deaths nobody acknowledges, the silence around menopause, and the irony of aging well. This is the conversation I wish someone had started with me at forty-five. Consider this me starting it with you.

What if love isn’t missing—just showing up in places we weren’t taught to look?In this episode, I share a story that begins on a dating site and ends somewhere entirely different. It’s about redefining connection, finding ease instead of effort, and discovering that the most meaningful forms of love often arrive unexpectedly.Also… there are boots.

I received a generator I didn’t order.Amazon said I could keep it.What happened next made me question whether anything that shows up in our lives is random.

Our cars don't just transport us. They carry us.So when I found myself at the car dealership being asked, “What would keep you from buying a new car today?” my answer defied logic.It was purely sentimental.Because essentially what I heard was, “Are you ready to let go of the car that carried you here today?”At that moment, I was not. No amount of persuasion could help me process that fact. I had to come to terms with it in my own time.

In the African bush, attention is a matter of survival.In ordinary life, attention is creation.In both scenarios, what you notice shapes what you become.Learning to track my attention showed me the truth. And then it gave me a choice.I could keep rehearsing endings, or I could start tracking what brings me back to myself.Loss would no longer be the only trail I follow.So I’m learning to track life again.Because tracking invites something wilder and more honest to reveal itself to me.

In this reflective conversation, Penny Plautz shares her experiences from the tumultuous year of 2025, exploring themes of resilience, community, and personal growth. She discusses the unexpected challenges that shaped her year, the importance of embracing vulnerability, and the transformative power of connection. As she looks forward to 2026, she encourages listeners to recognize the gifts that come from hardship and to cultivate supportive communities.

This year unraveled me in ways I didn’t see coming. I kept asking the question I was afraid to answer: “Are we there yet?” What I’m discovering is that maybe arrival was never the point. Maybe becoming is.

So many of us find ourselves in situations we couldn’t have imagined a year ago. This is why I created Architects of the Unknown. Not to avoid ambiguity. But to work with it. To look at what we’ve been taught to fear, like the dark side of the moon, and discover its untapped potential. To do so with a community of others who are going through similar upheaval and uncertainty.

From grade school to grad school, we’ve been handed maps: how to go from here to there, step by step. What if the map for what’s next doesn’t yet exist? What if you’re meant to build it?You know better than anyone what you want your life to be. You know your preferences, your capacities, and your deepest longings.This episode explores what it takes to be an Architect of the Unknown.

What if homecoming isn’t just a parade or a dance, but a personal pilgrimage — back to the self that’s been waiting for you to return?