In Episode 5 of A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health, presented by Beem Credit Union, host Jessica Samuels is joined by Mike Gawliuk, CEO of CMHA Kelowna for a conversation on Mental Health & The Holidays. The holiday season brings unique joys and challenges. In this episode, we dive into practical strategies for managing mental health and well-being during a time of heightened expectations, consumerism, and emotional triggers.

Key Topics Covered:

1. High Expectations During the Holidays

The "perfect holiday" narrative: Balancing societal pressure and personal priorities.
Strategies for managing expectations:
- Focus on what the holidays mean to you.
- Delegate responsibilities when hosting.
- Accept imperfection: It’s okay if the ornaments aren’t perfectly placed.

2. Setting Boundaries

Healthy boundaries ensure you protect your mental well-being.
Tips for effective boundary-setting:
- Be clear and kind in communication.
- Examples: "I can join for dinner but not stay the whole evening."
- Remember, boundaries aren’t inherently negative—they’re a tool for self-care.

3. Overindulgence: Food, Alcohol, and Spending

Awareness and moderation are key to avoiding post-holiday regret:
- Spending: Set a budget and stick to it. Consider alternative gifting options, like Secret Santa or giving your time.
- Eating & Drinking: Stay mindful of consumption and its impact on mental health.
- Maintain routines, like exercise, to balance indulgences.

4. Loneliness and Grief During the Holidays

Loneliness is common during the season, especially when facing grief or being away from loved ones.
Ideas to combat loneliness:
- Volunteer in your community.
- Reach out to friends or family through calls or cards.
- Plan small traditions for yourself, like a Christmas Day walk.
Managing grief during the holidays:
- Allow yourself to feel emotions and reflect on positive memories.
- Share your thoughts with a trusted friend or loved one.
- Have a plan for anniversaries or milestones that may trigger grief.

5. Consumerism and Financial Stress

The holiday season amplifies the pressure to spend, especially with Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and gift-giving traditions.
Strategies to manage financial stress:
- Be mindful of spending limits.
- Focus on meaningful, non-monetary gifts (e.g., quality time).
- Prepare for post-holiday realities to avoid the "holiday hangover."

Key Takeaways:

Manage expectations and focus on what truly matters to you during the holidays.
Set boundaries to protect your emotional and mental well-being.
Moderation in spending, eating, and drinking can prevent regrets later.
Combat loneliness through connection, volunteering, and small personal rituals.
Grief can be heightened during holidays—acknowledge it and seek support when needed.

**Resources:
https://www.interiorhealth.ca/stories/10-ways-focus-your-mental-wellness-during-holidays

https://cmha.ca/news/five-ways-to-protect-your-mental-health-this-holiday/

**General Mental Health Resources:**
If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now

Episode 5: Mental Health & The Holidays

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