Podcast
Accidental Homemaker
Hosted by Briefly Distracted · EN
Welcome to Accidental Homemaker, the podcast where hosts Matthew Fleischman and Alona Arbell explore the unexpected joys and challenges of family life, parenting, and relationships. Whether you're juggling a busy household, managing the ups and downs of parenting, or figuring out your role in the chaos, this podcast is designed to be your companion through it all.
Matthew and Alona bring humor, honesty, and a down-to-earth approach to every episode, sharing real-life stories, practical tips, and heartfelt advice. From meal planning and managing relationships to tackling the daily surprises of home life, Accidental Homemaker is here to offer relatable conversations that will resonate with your daily experiences.
Join us as we dive into the rollercoaster of homemaking, and discover how to find balance and joy in the midst of it all.
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Emotional Overwhelm, Morning Chaos, and Finding Your Center With Guest Psychotherapist Alina
Jun 8, 202500:46:22Tap to summarizeWe're back—with a guest! This episode of Accidental Homemaker is all about what happens when you're trying to raise tiny humans, manage a household, hold onto your identity and remember to breathe. Joining us is Lin, a psychotherapist, retreat leader, and all-around emotional compass. She walks us through tools for emotional regulation, how to build a simple but powerful morning routine, and why naming your feelings out loud can actually change your day. We talk about: Emotional overwhelm in parenting and homemaking Morning routines for mental clarity (even with kids and chaos) The power of reflection and how to manage overstimulation Gratitude as a tool—not a buzzword Finding your personal release: journaling, dancing, screaming into a pillow, you name it Why emotional tension builds up—and how to stop carrying it into your relationships Whether you're a work-from-home parent, a primary caregiver, or just someone trying to keep it together between laundry cycles and Zoom calls, this episode hits home. Takeaways you can actually use: A 3-step practice for managing emotional overload A framework for quick morning grounding (yes, even if you've got a toddler pulling at your leg) How to express feelings without losing your mind—or your voice Links + Resources: Follow Lin on Instagram: @yours.alinaeve Lin's retreats and workshops: [Instagram Highlights or future link] We'll post her journaling prompts and morning reflection guide in our stories and blog. New episodes drop every Monday. Follow us for more unfiltered takes on parenting, homemaking, and figuring it out as we go. Tags: #parentingpodcast #mentalhealthforparents #momlife #dadlife #emotionalsupport #homemakerlife #parentingtools #morningroutines #gratefulnesspractice #journalingformentalhealth #accidentalhomemaker #selfregulation #stressrelief #workingparents #mindfulparenting
Transcribe →Parenting in 2025 – Milestones & Medication Decisions
Feb 13, 202500:39:42Tap to summarizeWe're back! It's Season 2 of Accidental Homemaker, and we're kicking off 2025 with a candid conversation about parenting in the digital age. From navigating the never-ending chaos of parent group chats to debating when (if ever) to consider medication for neurodivergent kids, we're diving into the topics that hit home for so many parents. 🎯 In This Episode, We Talk About: Parenting Milestones: When kids finally start helping around the house. Bilingual Kids: The reality of raising kids with more than one language. Medication Decisions: The big ADHD debate—when is the right time? New Year, New Goals: What we're aiming for in 2025 (hint: more self-care, less chaos). 💬 Join the Conversation: Have you had to navigate the bilingual learning curve with your kids? Where do you stand on the ADHD medication debate? Is younger better, or should kids wait until they can actively participate? Drop us a DM, comment, or tag us on social—we're here for the real talk! 📢 Let's Stay Connected (No Spam, We Swear) Follow Us on Socials: Instagram: @AccidentalHomemakerPod X (Twitter): @AccidentalHMPod Facebook: Accidental Homemaker Watch More Content: Don't miss our clips and Shorts over at Briefly Distracted's YouTube and TikTok. Explore Lionessa Retreats: Alona's retreats are transforming lives—follow @LionessaRetreats on Instagram for updates! 📖 Read More on Our Blog: Want to go deeper? Check out the blog for extra parenting insights and resources. Read here. 🎙️ Discover Our Other Podcasts: ✈️ Landings & Layovers – Your go-to travel podcast for deals, destinations, and travel hacks. 🌍 Aliyah Chronicles – Real stories from people who've made the move to Israel and what life is like after the journey.
Transcribe →Parenting in the Digital Age- Group Chats, Holidays, and Sanity
Jan 14, 202500:45:09Tap to summarizeIn this week's episode of Accidental Homemaker, Alona and Matthew dive into the challenges of parenting in the digital age, tackling everything from group chats to holiday madness and finding a shred of sanity amidst it all. Join the conversation as they share real-life stories, practical tips, and relatable moments that remind us we're all just figuring it out as we go. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Navigating Group Chats: From class announcements to endless memes—how to keep your sanity and stay in the loop without drowning in notifications. Holiday Overload: Balancing the chaos of family gatherings, traditions, and social commitments while maintaining a sense of joy. Real Talk on Parenting: Candid discussions about setting boundaries, keeping kids safe online, and staying connected as a family. Moments of Humor: Matthew shares an unfiltered moment about standing up for himself (and his family) in a way only he can. Practical Tips: Strategies for managing holiday stress, setting expectations, and embracing imperfection. Why You'll Love This Episode: Whether you're a parent juggling holiday prep or someone looking to declutter the endless chaos of group chats, this episode is packed with relatable insights, heartfelt moments, and a good dose of humor. Check Out the Blog! For more tips and takeaways from this episode, visit our blog: [Link to blog post]. Dive deeper into the strategies we discussed and find additional resources to help you thrive this holiday season. Let's Connect: We'd love to hear your thoughts! Share your favorite moments or questions with us on social media: Twitter: @AccidentalHMPod Instagram: accidentalhomemakerpod Facebook: Accidental Homemaker Don't miss out on the full conversation! Listen to the episode now and join the Accidental Homemaker community as we navigate parenting, homemaking, and everything in between.
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Navigating Family, Holidays, and Milestones
Dec 23, 202400:46:21Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt episode of Accidental Homemaker, Matt and Alona explore the challenges and joys of managing family life during the holidays. From balancing the chaos of family schedules to finding meaningful ways to celebrate milestones like anniversaries, this episode dives into the relatable struggles and triumphs of parenting and homemaking. Whether it's the stress of choosing the perfect gift, creating lasting traditions, or carving out time for your partner amidst the whirlwind of parenting, this conversation is packed with real-life stories, actionable tips, and a dose of humor. You'll hear: The dilemmas of gift-giving and making anniversaries special. Balancing family responsibilities during holiday chaos. Creative ways to keep intimacy alive amidst the hustle. Listen and Learn: 🎧 Tune in now for practical tips and heartfelt advice to navigate the chaos of family life while celebrating the moments that matter most. Check Out Our Blog Want more ideas for anniversary gifts or holiday traditions? Don't miss v for extra tips and inspiration. Stay Connected: Follow us on social media to stay updated, join the conversation, and share your stories: Twitter: @AccidentalHMPod Instagram: accidentalhomemakerpod Facebook: Accidental Homemaker Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who could use a little inspiration in their homemaking journey. Tags: #ParentingPodcast #AnniversaryTips #HomemakingJourney #FamilyLife #HolidayPlanning #PodcastLife #RelationshipGoals
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Celebrating Anniversaries and Rediscovering Intimacy as Parents
Dec 16, 202400:44:08Tap to summarizeEpisode 7: Celebrating Anniversaries and Rediscovering Intimacy as Parents 🎙️ In this heartfelt and humorous episode, Alona and Matthew dive into two essential aspects of life as parents: celebrating milestones like anniversaries and keeping the spark alive in your relationship when little ones are in the picture. From creative anniversary gift ideas to navigating the challenges of intimacy with kids, this episode offers a mix of personal anecdotes, practical tips, and plenty of laughs. What You'll Hear: The Art of Anniversary Celebrations: Tips for creating memorable moments, whether you're on a budget or looking for something extravagant. Navigating Intimacy as Parents: How to prioritize your relationship while managing family life, with insights from Alona's experience as an intimacy coach. Parenting Real Talk: Funny and relatable stories about balancing romance with the chaos of parenting. Why You Should Listen: Whether you're planning your next big milestone or simply looking to connect more deeply with your partner, this episode is packed with inspiration and actionable advice for strengthening your relationship. 🔗 Links Mentioned in This Episode: Check out the blog for more insights and tips: [Insert Blog Link Here] Join the conversation on social media: Instagram: @accidentalhomemakerpod Twitter/X: @accidentalhmpod Don't forget to look for Alona and Leonessa Retreats on Instagram for more information on their amazing Day Retreats and their Long weekend Retreats in Italy #ParentingPodcast #HomemakerLife #RelationshipGoals #AnniversaryTips #IntimacyAsParents #AccidentalHomemaker
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Episode 6: Balancing Bedtime Routines and Parenting Realities
Nov 25, 202400:50:21Tap to summarizeEpisode Overview: In this episode of Accidental Homemaker, Alona and Matthew explore the evolving challenges of bedtime routines for children of all ages. From toddlers who fight sleep with boundless energy to teens pushing boundaries, they share personal anecdotes, practical advice, and reflections on setting healthy family habits. Whether you're navigating the chaos of parenting or seeking harmony in your home, this conversation offers insights, humor, and heart. Key Takeaways: Toddler Bedtime Tactics: How routines like early dinners, bath time, and story time help toddlers transition into sleep. The Tween and Teen Transition: Adapting to the independent schedules of older kids while maintaining family boundaries. Healthy Sleep Habits for All Ages: Tips for incorporating mindfulness and flexibility into bedtime routines. Parenting as a Team: The importance of finding balance and compromise between partners on bedtime strategies. Highlights of the Episode: [00:01:30] Alona recalls her successful strategies for bedtime routines when her children were younger and how they fostered strong family bonds. [00:10:50] Matthew shares his family's current bedtime struggles with a toddler who's both independent and full of FOMO (fear of missing out). [00:20:45] The duo discusses the importance of "room time" for teens and how parents can set healthy limits without micromanaging. [00:30:00] A practical breathing exercise for calming stressed kids and parents before bedtime. Why You Should Listen: Whether you're a new parent managing a toddler's tantrums or a seasoned one navigating a teen's late-night habits, this episode provides actionable advice and relatable stories. Learn how to establish routines that foster connection, independence, and peace for everyone in the household. Call to Action: Check out the blog for more inspiration and actionable tips on creating bedtime routines that work for your family. [Insert blog link here] Tags: #ParentingPodcast #BedtimeRoutines #HomemakingJourney #MindfulParenting #AccidentalHomemaker #ParentingTips #FamilyLife
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Episode 5: Prioritizing Health and Wellness as Homemakers
Nov 18, 202400:43:57Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Accidental Homemaker, Matthew and Alona dive into the realities of balancing homemaking, health, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of prioritizing physical and mental health amidst the chaos of daily life. From fitness routines and meal prep hacks to the benefits of ice plunges and the value of scheduling personal checkups, this episode is packed with insights for every homemaker looking to reclaim their health and happiness. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Alona shares her journey to becoming a certified intimacy coach and the power of prioritizing self-care. Matthew talks about his return to running and gym workouts, focusing on balance and sustainable health practices. The duo explores the challenges of modeling healthy habits for their kids and how to incorporate exercise into a busy family routine. Alona's tips on guided breathing techniques and the transformative benefits of ice plunges. A deep dive into the struggles of homemakers feeling they can't take a day off and why it's vital to refuel your energy tank. Practical advice on navigating health appointments and mental wellness check-ins. Episode Highlights: "Snacks are vital for everyone's mental health." — Alona "Prioritizing yourself doesn't mean neglecting others; it means showing up as your best self." — Matthew A lighthearted yet impactful conversation on how small steps toward health can create big changes. Links and Resources: Guided breathing techniques for relaxation and mindfulness. Alona's retreats: Take time for yourself with these incredible getaways. Fitness resources for homemakers starting their journey. Featured Amazon items: Ice plunge kits, toddler snacks, and meal prep tools. Read more about this episode and find the recipes we discussed on the blog. Join the Conversation: What do you do to prioritize your health and wellness? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram or Twitter. Don't forget to follow us for updates and behind-the-scenes content! Check out our blog for this week's episode: Check out our blog for this week's episode to dive deeper into tips on health and wellness for homemakers, with practical advice and actionable insights. [Read the blog here] Connect with Us: Instagram: AccidentalHomemakerPod Twitter: @AccidentalHMPod Facebook: Briefly Distracted Media Check out other Briefly Distracted Media podcasts like Landings and Layovers for travel inspiration. Tags: #HealthAndWellness #HomemakerLife #SelfCare #HealthyLiving #MentalHealthMatters #ParentingHacks #FitnessForMoms #HomemakingTips #PodcastLife
Transcribe →Episode 4: Adjusting to the Holiday Chaos After Finding Your Routine
Nov 11, 202400:51:25Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Accidental Homemaker, Alona and Matthew explore the challenges of maintaining family routines as the holiday season approaches. Just when routines start to settle, holidays, school breaks, and family gatherings can throw everything into chaos. They dive into strategies for staying grounded and flexible when life's rhythms are disrupted, and they share relatable stories on managing holiday preparations, adjusting screen time, and keeping family dynamics smooth during festive chaos. Key Topics Covered in This Episode: Re-adjusting Routines for the Holidays – Alona and Matthew discuss the importance of staying adaptable and finding new ways to keep routines alive, even with the holiday season's demands. Gentle Parenting Through Holiday Excitement – Practical tips for creating positive morning routines and gentle wake-ups that keep kids excited yet balanced during the holidays. Balancing Personal and Family Needs – Advice on carving out "me-time" amidst family gatherings and festive obligations. Managing Screen Time and Family Activities – How to navigate screen time when kids are out of school and looking for entertainment, balanced with family-focused activities. Anchoring Routines for Stability – Why creating "anchor points" in routines can help maintain a sense of normalcy and reduce stress during busy times. Preparing for Family Gatherings – Insights on maintaining your family values and parenting styles during larger gatherings, especially when other children and family dynamics come into play. This episode is a must-listen for anyone juggling family life with the added demands of the holiday season. Tune in for tips on finding balance and staying flexible as routines adjust to the festive chaos. Want more tips and insights on keeping holiday routines manageable and family life balanced? Check out our latest blog post for a deeper dive into everything we discussed, plus additional resources and recommendations. [Read the full blog here]. Stay Connected and Join the Conversation: If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe to Accidental Homemaker, leave a review, and follow us on Instagram and Twitter for more tips on homemaking and family life. Share your own holiday survival tips by tagging us!
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Navigating Halloween, Parenting, and the Sweet Chaos of Family Life
Oct 31, 202400:50:05Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Alona and Matthew dive into the joys and challenges of Halloween traditions, sugar moderation, and the balance of parenting. They explore themes around homemade costumes vs. last-minute options, managing candy consumption, and establishing boundaries with sweets. The episode also touches on relatable parenting dynamics, from toddlers' attachments to stuffed animals to teaching teens about self-expression and independence. Join Alona and Matthew as they share personal anecdotes and tips on how to handle parenting's unexpected twists and turns with humor and honesty. Key Topics Covered: Halloween Costumes: Discussing the spectrum of costume planning and creativity, from hand-made to store-bought options, and how different families approach Halloween. Sugar Moderation Tips: Strategies for balancing holiday treats with healthy choices, and the humorous challenges that come with moderating sugar intake, especially with young kids. Parenting Dynamics: Real talk on the joys and struggles of raising children at different ages, handling "fairness," and setting boundaries with humor and love. For more parenting tips, relatable stories, discussions, and behind the scenes content, follow Accidental Homemaker on Instagram and X, and check out our blog for exclusive content, including family-friendly recipes and show insights!
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Mastering Time Management and Family Life as an Accidental Homemaker
Oct 25, 202400:43:21Tap to summarizeEpisode Summary: In this episode of Accidental Homemaker, Matthew and Alona dive deep into the everyday realities of balancing time management with family life. They share their personal stories, practical tips, and challenges of juggling work, home responsibilities, and parenting. From setting boundaries with kids while working from home to meal prepping and fitting in self-care, this episode provides actionable insights for homemakers trying to keep it all together. Key Takeaways: Practical time management strategies for homemakers and parents. How to set boundaries with children while working from home. Tips for meal prepping to save time during the week. Balancing family responsibilities and personal time. Managing the challenges of homemaker guilt and multitasking. Follow Us for More Tips and Recipes! Looking for more homemaking tips and family-friendly recipes? Be sure to follow us on social media to stay updated on the latest podcast episodes, blog posts, and behind-the-scenes content: Follow Accidental Homemaker on Twitter and Instagram. Follow Briefly Distracted Media for updates across all our podcasts and content. Check out our Blog for delicious, time-saving recipes featured in this episode and more practical tips to help make homemaking a little easier! Call to Action: Subscribe for more episodes as we explore the real-life challenges and rewards of being an accidental homemaker. Visit our blog for more insights and recipes that will make family meal prep and time management a breeze!
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