Adam Carolla Show Episode Summary: Dean Del Rey + Titus Welliver
Release Date: April 17, 2025

Introduction

In this episode of The Adam Carolla Show, host Adam Carolla welcomes comedian Dean Del Rey and acclaimed actor Titus Welliver, known for his roles in Bosch and Rough Light, among others. The trio delves into a range of topics, from personal struggles and career insights to societal observations and personal losses.

Dean Del Rey’s Stand-Up and Career

The show kicks off with Dean Del Rey discussing his latest stand-up special, “5836”, available on YouTube. Del Rey shares his meticulous method of tracking his numerous sets, highlighting his dedication to his craft.

Dean Del Rey [03:15]: "I kept writing them in the notes on the phone."

Dean emphasizes the importance of consistency and record-keeping in comedy, contrasting it with Adam's admitted lack of the same habit.

Personal Stories: Growing Up in Poverty and Paper Route

Del Rey opens up about his challenging upbringing, detailing life on a paper route to support his single mother. He reminisces about the stigma of government assistance and the camaraderie among his poor friends.

Dean Del Rey [07:33]: "People would be like, you gotta go to Cantor's or you gotta go to Greenblatts. And I was like, you gotta go to high school. Government sandwich."

The conversation shifts to Adam’s own experiences with a paper route, underscoring the generational differences in handling poverty and responsibility.

The Costly Nature of a Litigious Society

Adam critiques the modern litigious culture, discussing how systems intended to provide aid often become breeding grounds for deceit and exploitation. He draws parallels between contemporary issues and personal anecdotes about tax deductions and business practices.

Adam Carolla [50:17]: "Nobody who is successful doesn't have instances of this somewhere sometimes, and oftentimes they're unaware of it because they have accountants that are doing stuff."

This segment highlights the irony of advocating for accountability while being ensnared by the very systems that undermine it.

Environmental Impact of Dogs: A Comedic Take

The trio humorously debates reports suggesting dogs are harmful to the environment. They mock the studies and express skepticism about environmental campaigns targeting pets.

Dean Del Rey [54:15]: "They kill."

Adam further satirizes the notion, comparing it to blaming pets for environmental degradation while humans remain the primary culprits.

Tribute to DJ Jed the Fish

Dean Del Rey pays homage to his friend, DJ Jed the Fish of K Rock, who recently passed away at 69. They reminisce about Jed’s influence on the Los Angeles radio scene and his vibrant personality.

Adam Carolla [66:53]: "And I had a great afternoon with him. He was a funny, quirky guy with an infectious laugh."

This heartfelt tribute underscores the deep personal connections formed through shared passions and professional environments.

Grief and Personal Loss: Titus Welliver’s Experiences

Titus Welliver shares his profound personal losses, including the deaths of his siblings and late wife. He discusses the complexities of grief, the importance of memories in keeping loved ones alive in spirit, and the challenges of coping with such tragedies.

Titus Welliver [85:14]: "Nothing, no matter what, nothing prepares you for any of that stuff."

Adam reflects on his own experiences with loss, emphasizing the universal nature of grief and the coping mechanisms that vary from person to person.

Philosophical Discussions: Memory, Existence, and Human Ingenuity

The conversation evolves into a philosophical exploration of memory's role in keeping departed loved ones present in our lives. They also marvel at human ingenuity, likening massive construction projects to ant colonies rebuilding anthills.

Adam Carolla [79:36]: "If you really break it down, it's not like you see your sister or your friend. You don’t see him every day."

This segment highlights the resilience of the human spirit and the intricate balance between technological advancement and emotional fulfillment.

Societal Observations: Passivity vs. Action

Adam and Titus critique the growing societal passivity, observing how people today are less inclined to intervene in confrontations compared to previous generations. They discuss the impact of a litigious environment and shifting masculine roles on interpersonal dynamics and community responsibility.

Adam Carolla [112:35]: "We need men back involved in saying, look, there's a role."

Titus echoes these sentiments, advocating for a return to proactive engagement and responsibility as pillars of a healthy society.

Closing Remarks

As the episode concludes, Adam invites listeners to check out Dean Del Rey’s stand-up special and previews upcoming segments featuring Titus Welliver discussing his role in Bosch Legacy. The episode wraps up with reflections on legacy, memory, and the enduring impact of personal connections.

Adam Carolla [144:43]: "Always a pleasure. Until next time..."

Notable Quotes:

• Dean Del Rey [03:15]: "I kept writing them in the notes on the phone."

• Adam Carolla [50:17]: "Nobody who is successful doesn't have instances of this somewhere sometimes, and oftentimes they're unaware of it because they have accountants that are doing stuff."

• Titus Welliver [85:14]: "Nothing, no matter what, nothing prepares you for any of that stuff."

• Titus Welliver [93:45]: "He'd be wild."

This episode offers a blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep reflections, providing listeners with an intimate glimpse into the lives and thoughts of Dean Del Rey and Titus Welliver.