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Dr Asad Rafi is a leading psychiatrist who’s assessed thousands of women for ADHD and autism. He’s here to explain how to process a late diagnosis and how to reach your untapped potential. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 01:09 Is it OK for men to talk about female ADHD 03:52 Dr Asad’s most heartbreaking patient 06:50 Dr Asad’s mission 10:14 Alexithymia in ADHD adults 12:10 How to manage ADHD stress and sleep 13:57 ADHD women are the most stressed group on the planet 14:07 Why ADHD women were missed 17:26 ADHD women deserve an apology 20:38 A lifetime of missed opportunities 23:41 Tiimo advert 24:52 The most debilitating ADHD traits (Dysautonomia) 25:38 question 32:11 Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria 37:46 What ADHD overwhelm can look like 40:48 Alexithymia and RSD 43:16 Advice for late diagnosed ADHD women 45:28 Audience questions 49:20 A letter to my younger self Visit Dr Asad Raffi's clinic 👉 https://www.Sanctumhealthcare.co.uk Find Dr Asad Raffi on LinkedIn 👉 https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-raffi/ Submit audience questions 👉 hello@adhdchatter.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/offers/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Pre-order Alex’s latest book about Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria 👉 https://linktr.ee/adhdchatter?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=9ffd8709-06df-444c-9936-c136fbd14d6e Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Khurram is a world renowned, award-winning psychiatrist and author of Explaining AuDHD. He’s here to explain what AuDHD really feels like, how to spot the signs of AuDHD and how to thrive with AuDHD. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 01:31 Is Autism a friend to ADHD? 03:14 The confusing nature of AuDHD 05:02 What makes sense after AuDHD diagnosis 07:15 Dr Khurram’s AuDHD mission 09:39 What AuDHD actually is 15:40 The signs of AuDHD 20:24 What AuDHD looks like from the outside 22:49 What AuDHD perfectionism looks like 25:11 The risks of undiagnosed AuDHD 27:36 Tiimo advert 28:47 Is AuDHD a lonely experience 30:28 How ADHD masks the autism 33:41 Post AuDHD diagnosis emotions 45:27 The link between AuDHD and mental health 47:13 When is an AuDHD person happiest 49:08 The importance of early understanding in kids 50:39 Khurram’s AuDHD item 52:56 Audience questions 55:53 A letter to my younger self Dr Khurram on LinkedIn 👉 https://uk.linkedin.com/in/dr-khurram-sadiq Dr Khurram’s book 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Explaining-AuDHD-Guide-Autism-ADHD/dp/1804369489 Dr Khurram on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/fomosapien666/?hl=en Book to see Dr Khurram in clinic: For an adhd assessment 👉 https://adhdhealthclinic.co.uk/adhd-treatment-options/in-person-adhd-assessment/ For an Autism assessment 👉 https://adhdhealthclinic.co.uk/autism/in-person-autism-assessment/ For a combined adhd and autism assessment 👉 https://adhdhealthclinic.co.uk/autism/in-person-combined-autism-adhd-assessment/ Submit audience questions 👉 hello@adhdchatter.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/offers/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Pre-order Alex’s latest book about Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria 👉 https://linktr.ee/adhdchatter?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=9ffd8709-06df-444c-9936-c136fbd14d6e Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kat Brown is the author of 'It's Not A Bloody Trend: Understanding Life as an ADHD Adult' and editor of 'No One Talks About This Stuff'. Chapters: 00:31 Early memories of feeling different 04:34 Kat’s masking journey 06:32 Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria 18:45 Kat’s ADHD mission 23:42 ADHD diagnosis realisations 31:43 Tiimo advert 35:21 ADHD masking 45:09 Why women have been let down 49:22 Consequence of life without identity 51:34 Our eternal pursuit of love 53:45 What would you say to the bullies 56:09 Kat’s ADHD item 58:51 Audience questions (washing machine of woes) 01:03:58 A letter to my younger self Visit Kat on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/katbrownwrites/?hl=en-gb It's Not A Bloody Trend: Understanding Life as an ADHD Adult 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Its-Not-Bloody-Trend-Understanding/dp/1472148703 No One Talks About This Stuff: Twenty-Two Stories of Almost Parenthood 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/One-Talks-About-This-Stuff/dp/1800182872 Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/offers/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Pre-order Alex’s latest book about Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria 👉 https://linktr.ee/adhdchatter?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=9ffd8709-06df-444c-9936-c136fbd14d6e Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Judith Mohring has over 25 years' experience of clinical and organisational practice having studied medicine at Cambridge. Today, she explains the difference between ADHD and BPD. 00:00 Trailer 03:17 The defining traits of ADHD 04:17 The defining traits of Borderline Personality Disorder 09:19 Is Borderline Personality Disorder genetic 10:57 The differences between BPD and ADHD 16:28 What does extreme BPD look like 17:58 The link between paranoia and BPD 22:03 Tiimo advert 29:56 How BPD affects romantic relationships 37:09 The link between ADHD, BPD and schitphophenia 37:57 The treatment for BPD 39:07 The difference between BPD and narcissism 42:09 Judith’s ADHD item 44:35 The ADHD agony aunt Visit Dr Judith Mohring's website 👉 https://www.adhded.co.uk/ Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/offers/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sarah Warley studied experimental psychology at Oxford University and has continued to train in many game-changing interventions that target the root causes of poor functioning. Sarah is the Founder of The Key Clinic, a revolutionary practice which brings together multiple holistic, drug-free therapies under one roof to help unlock the potential in people with ADHD. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 02:24 Sarah’s mission 07:38 The chemical explanation for ADHD 13:34 How to manage the emotional side of ADHD 15:45 How hearing impacts ADHD 20:03 How to embrace your differences 23:50 How to unmask and find your true self 29:30 Tiimo advert 30:50 How to spot an ADHD adult 36:58 Risks of ADHD medication 38:31 Why unfulfilled potential is a tragedy 41:44 The risks of NOT taking ADHD medication 43:38 The evolutionary purpose of ADHD 49:19 When does masking become a problem 52:20 What is ‘normal’ human behaviour 54:03 Is there anything about ADHD that we don’t understand 57:01 Surefire ways to manage ADHD 58:01 Sarah’s ADHD item 01:00:08 The ADHD agony aunt section 01:03:32 A letter from the previous guest Visit The Key Clinic 👉 https://www.thekeyclinic.co.uk Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/offers/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nick has also been at the forefront of research into the link between hypermobility, pain sensitivity, and ADHD. His clinic, Backbone, brings together clinical expertise across pain, breathing, stress, and neurodiversity to offer holistic, science-led care. Nick Potter has been in clinical practice for over 30 years and is currently based at King Edward VII’s Hospital in London. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 01:46 Nick’s mission 05:51 How to test if you’re hyper-mobile 07:46 How common is hyper-mobility amongst ADHDers 13:54 How to describe ADHD to an alien 16:07 Tiimo advert 19:38 What problems can hyper-mobility cause? 29:12 How ADHD affects the body 38:09 Is the medical community recognising hyper-mobility 39:12 Can hyper-mobility shorten life span 43:22 Nick’s ADHD item 49:23 The ADHD agony aunt section 52:19 3 rules to live by Nick is the author of the widely acclaimed book The Meaning of Pain, now translated into six languages. The book was praised by Sir Elton John as:"The man who taught me how to breathe." Visit Nick's website 👉 https://www.backscience.co.uk/guests/nick-potter Find Nick on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/backboneclinic/?hl=en Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/offers/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Asad Raffi is a Consultant Psychiatrist at Sanctum Healthcare, who's focus extends to the nuances of female brain health, driven by a passion for addressing ADHD, sleep disorders, and addiction. He leverages cutting-edge research and treatment protocols to support patients in achieving optimal mental wellness. 00:00 Trailer 01:34 Why two men are talking about female ADHD 04:23 Dr Asad’s mission in the world of ADHD 15:57 The difference between stress and anxiety 18:07 Unhealthy ways ADHDers deal with stress 20:58 RSD 23:42 Tiimo advert 26:09 How to love yourself despite RSD 31:10 The difference between female ADHD and male ADHD 39:04 How hormones impact female ADHD 52:48 The truth about ADHD and sleep 59:35 The most common ADHD addictions 01:09:32 Dr Asad’s ADHD item 01:11:09 The ADHD agony aunt 01:18:14 A letter from the previous guest Visit Dr Asad Raffi's clinic 👉 https://www.Sanctumhealthcare.co.uk Find Dr Asad Raffi on LinkedIn 👉 https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-raffi/ Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Daniel Weisberg is a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and the Managing Director of CAYP Psychology – an award-winning, independent service supporting children, adolescents and young people across the UK. Daniel has over a decade of NHS experience and a specialist background in paediatric neuropsychology. He holds a PhD in developmental psychology and a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, and has contributed to clinical research internationally. His clinical specialisms include paediatric neuropsychology, developmental disorders, and complex presentations in children and adolescents. Daniel founded CAYP Psychology in 2016, which now has a team of over 100 specialised clinicians working across the UK. The service offers nationwide assessments for autism, ADHD, cognitive and learning difficulties – including dyslexia and learning disabilities – as well as therapeutic support across more than 40 locations and online. Under his leadership, CAYP Psychology has grown into one of the country’s leading independent services for young people’s psychological healthcare. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 02:31 Dan’s mission within the ADHD world 05:24 3 signs of a good Psychologist 11:52 Traits of ADHD that aren’t accepted by the modern world 13:51 How ADHD manifests in romantic relationships (attachment styles) 17:16 The gene that research suggests causes ADHD 20:28 The most common ADHD attachment style 22:05 What causes RSD 25:16 Tiimo advert 26:60 The emotional benefits of a diagnosis 29:36 Why ADHD women and girls were missed for so long 34:07 Common emotions amongst late diagnosis ADHD women 38:03 The truth about ADHD, technology and social media 44:34 Can mobile phone use change someone’s default level of dopamine 47:13 How young can someone become addicted to something 50:50 Dan’s ADHD item 53:03 The ADHD agony aunt 55:03 A letter from the previous guest If you're looking for support for your child, you can contact CAYP Psychology on 0333 242 0824, WhatsApp 07446 502 690, email enquiries@cayp-psychology.com, or visit www.cayp-psychology.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Matt Gupwell is a globally recognised ADHD mentor, who’s work has helped millions of people understand their neurodivergent brains He’s the most powerful voice in the ADHD & Autism space and an expert in all things AuDHD, helping you optimise your ADHD in ALL sectors 00:00 Trailer 03:10 What are your specialties within the ADHD or Autism space? 10:04 Early life ADHD diagnosis VS late life ADHD diagnosis 19:47 Processing a diagnosis: men VS women 22:34 The truth about neurodiversity and loneliness 29:14 Tiimo advert 37:19 The ADHD coping strategy called ‘Cages’ 55:38 The truth about ADHD and grieving 01:02:05 Medication 01:08:26 New ADHD research 01:16:59 The ADHD agony aunt section 01:20:21 A letter from the previous guest Find Matt on Linkedin 👉 https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattgupwell/ Find Matt on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/thinkneurodiversity/?hl=en Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pete Wharmby is a bestselling Author and AuDHD specialist with an emphasis on helping you manage your mental health An award winning expert in the field, he’s on a mission to raise awareness for the struggles experienced by those with ADHD & Autism 00:00 Trailer 02:29 Pete’s mission in the neurodiversity world 10:32 Early memories of feeling different 17:52 How ADHD & Autism can clash 34:57 Tiimo advert 36:32 How people with AuDHD experience jealousy and breakups 44:48 The AuDHD RSD Experience 56:40 AuDHD men talking about mental health 01:09:26 Monotropism explained 01:17:47 Pete’s ADHD item 01:21:33 The ADHD agony aunt 01:28:19 The previous guest’s 3 rules to lives by Find Pete on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/pete_wharmby_books/?hl=en Visit Pete’s website 👉 https://petewharmby.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices