Podcast
ADHD with Jenna Free
Hosted by Jenna Free, Canadian Certified Counselor | ADHD Therapist & Coach · EN
ADHD with Jenna Free is a podcast for adults with ADHD who are done surviving their symptoms and ready to start thriving with ADHD without the endless tips, hacks, and workarounds that have never really fixed anything.
Hosted by Jenna Free, a Canadian Certified Counselor (CCC) and ADHD therapist, this show exists to give you a completely different way of understanding ADHD in adults and the signs of ADHD in women. Because the reason you're stuck, overwhelmed, and exhausted isn't a lack of willpower, it's that your brain is running in fight or flight. And once you understand that, everything changes.
This podcast covers the full experience of living with adult ADHD: the real science behind procrastination in ADHD and ADHD task paralysis, ADHD executive functioning strategies that work, why ADHD and perimenopause collide in ways no one talks about, and the honest, solution-focused conversations that most ADHD podcasts aren't having. Jenna also shares her own story, what it looks like to go from chronically dysregulated to genuinely thriving, so you can see that this is actually possible for you.
This show gives women with ADHD, and anyone who has ever wondered whether ADHD can be diagnosed in adulthood, a path forward that isn't about coping harder, but healing.
I'll answer questions like:
Do I have ADHD?
What is ADHD task paralysis, and how do I get unstuck?
Why is my ADHD getting worse in my 40s?
What does ADHD and perimenopause do to your brain?
How do I manage ADHD emotional dysregulation without medication alone?
Why do I procrastinate so much with ADHD?
Why don't ADHD tips and tricks ever work long-term?
What does it look like to thrive with ADHD
Can you heal ADHD symptoms without just white-knuckling through life?
What does nervous system regulation have to do with ADHD?
How do I stop feeling overwhelmed with ADHD?
If you're an adult with ADHD who's tired of the commiseration and ready for a show that believes your life can look completely different, you're in the right place.
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61: How to Stop ADHD Revenge Bedtime Procrastination for Good
1w ago00:28:40Tap to summarizeYou already know you're staying up too late. You've tried going to bed earlier, and it hasn't stuck, and if you have ADHD, there's a real reason for that. This episode is for the ADHD adult who's exhausted but can't seem to stop hoarding the night away. I'm breaking down why revenge bedtime procrastination and ADHD are so deeply connected, what's driving it at the level of the nervous system, and why fixing your night routine won't help much if the real problem is happening during the day. Grab the free ADHD Regulation Guide. 00:00 – What Is Revenge Bedtime Procrastination? 02:29 – How ADHD Dysregulation Fuels Bedtime Procrastination 04:04 – Resentment, People Pleasing, and Saying No 14:20 – Radical Mindset Shift: "I Choose My Day" 23:37 – Easy Bedtime Routines for ADHD: Practical Tips Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/revenge-bedtime-procrastination-adhd Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method clinician certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!
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60: Why ADHD Therapist Training Falls Short and What Clinicians Need
2w ago00:30:54Tap to summarizeYou're a clinician who cares deeply about your ADHD clients. You're giving them solid strategies, and they're still not moving forward. It's not a compliance problem. It's a missing layer in how ADHD is being treated. I'm breaking down what that missing layer is, why most ADHD therapist training leaves practitioners without a clear clinical path, and what becomes possible when nervous system regulation becomes the foundation of your work. Grab the free clinical reference guide, How to See Dysregulation in Your ADHD Clients. 00:47 – Training Gaps in ADHD Therapist Education 05:10 – ADHD, Fight or Flight, and the Nervous System 11:13 – Why Skill-Building Fails Without Regulation First 16:00 – What Changes When Clients Get Regulated 24:59 – How to Spot Dysregulation in Your ADHD Clients 30:05 – A Vision for Making Regulation the Standard in ADHD Treatment Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/why-adhd-therapist-training-falls-short Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method clinician training launching in September Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group
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59: 5 Daily Habits to Stop ADHD Nervous System Dysregulation
3w ago00:17:18Tap to summarizeYou're exhausted from holding your day together with caffeine, willpower, and good intentions, and it still falls apart. If your nervous system feels like it's always one step away from chaos, this episode is for you. Five ordinary things are probably fueling your ADHD nervous system dysregulation without you realizing it. I'm breaking them down one by one, explaining why they keep your system stuck in fight-or-flight mode and what to do instead. This isn't the deep internal work, but it's the best place to start. Grab Jenna's book, The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation, wherever books are sold. 00:00 – ADHD and the Nervous System Connection 01:16 – Caffeine, Stimulants, and Your Fight or Flight Response 04:27 – Why Skipping Meals Makes ADHD Symptoms Worse 07:44 – How Scrolling Soothes Dysregulation Without Healing It 09:22 – The Bathroom Break You Keep Skipping and Why It Matters 11:32 – Why a Lopsided Schedule Fuels the ADHD Burnout Cycle 15:19 – A Practical Recap of All Five External Regulation Tips 16:28 – Why Internal Work Is What Makes the External Stuff Stick Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-nervous-system-dysregulation-habits
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58: How to Break the ADHD Frantic Crash Cycle for Good
May 400:19:33Tap to summarizeYou wake up already behind, spin into frantic mode, then crash. If that cycle feels like just who you are, it isn't, and this episode explains why. I'm breaking down the ADHD frantic crash cycle: what's driving it, why pushing through the frantic phase makes the crash worse, and what it looks like to start healing nervous system dysregulation instead of just coping with it. If you're tired of the roller coaster and ready to get off it for good, start here. And if you're ready to do the deeper work, Jenna's ADHD Groups program is open now for a limited time at https://www.adhdwithjennafree.com/groups. 00:47 – The ADHD Frantic Crash Cycle Explained 02:53 – Why Intensity Leads to Burnout 04:35 – The Problem With "Ride Your High Energy" Advice 06:45 – ADHD Identity and Why Symptom Content Is Keeping You Stuck 13:21 – From Functional Freeze to a Regulated Life 15:09 – Simple Steps to Recognize and Interrupt Fight or Flight 16:54 – The Mindset Work Behind Long-Term ADHD Healing Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/how-to-break-adhd-frantic-crach-cycle Let's stay connected! Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!
Transcribe →57: Why ADHD Paralysis Keeps Coming Back And How to Heal It
Apr 2700:24:57Tap to summarizeYou're frozen, you finally panic into action, you crash. Then you do it all over again tomorrow. If that cycle feels impossible to break, this episode is for you. I'm breaking down why ADHD paralysis keeps coming back no matter how hard you try, why the fixes that seem to work are making things worse, and what healing it at the root looks like. Plus, grab a spot in the free live workshop, Get Unstuck for Good. 02:36 – Why Short-Term Fixes Make ADHD Symptoms Worse 05:38 – Common ADHD Productivity Strategies That Backfire 09:50 – Nervous System Regulation as the Real Key to Getting Unstuck 16:56 – The Long-Term Approach to Healing ADHD Paralysis Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://www.jennafree.com/blog/why-adhd-paralysis-keeps-coming-back Let's stay connected! April 29th: Get Unstuck for Good: Healing ADHD Paralysis at the Root Workshop Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!
Transcribe →EP. 56: Productive Procrastination: How to get back to what matters
Apr 2000:16:32Tap to summarizeWhat if productive procrastination isn't about seeking dopamine or being undisciplined? What if you're cleaning the kitchen before work because your nervous system thinks your work project is a bear you need to run from? In this episode, I break down why you avoid the important task and do everything else instead. It's not laziness. It's your system avoiding what feels dangerous. And every time you avoid, you're training your nervous system that the task is unsafe. Put on your regulation goggles. See yourself as an animal in dysregulation, not someone who's failing. Download the free ADHD Regulation Guide -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Join the free ADHD Regulation Workshop - Get Unstuck for Good (April 29th) -- www.jennafree.com/adhdworkshop Want to dive into this work to reduce symptoms and make life more enjoyable? Learn more about ADHD Groups here -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/groups Get "The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation" - www.jennafree.com/book Connect with Me Instagram TikTok
Transcribe →EP. 55: Are you thriving or surviving with ADHD?
Apr 1300:25:03Tap to summarizeWhat if your ADHD symptoms are being amplified because you're stuck in survival mode? What if the reason life feels so overwhelming is because your system thinks you're in danger when you're actually just... living? In this episode, I break down what's happening in your body when you're in survival mode vs. when you're regulated. It's not just a mindset. It's biological. When you're in fight or flight, your executive functioning goes down, your energy burns out fast, and you're stuck in freeze, scattered, or constant reaction. When you regulate, your capacity expands, symptoms lessen, and you can actually be present in your life. Download the free ADHD Regulation Guide -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Join the free ADHD Regulation Workshop - Get Unstuck for Good (April 29th) -- www.jennafree.com/adhdworkshop Want to dive into this work to reduce symptoms and make life more enjoyable? Learn more about ADHD Groups here -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/groups Get "The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation" - www.jennafree.com/book Connect with Me Instagram TikTok
Transcribe →EP. 54: Spending, Hoarding or Avoiding: The Survival Mode Money Pattern ADHDers get stuck in
Apr 600:14:17Tap to summarizeWhat if your money problems aren't about being irresponsible or bad at planning? What if you're just stuck in survival mode... swinging between spending, hoarding, or avoiding? In this episode, I break down the four money patterns dysregulated ADHDers get stuck in. It's not about budgets or apps. It's about getting out of fight or flight. When you're regulated, you make conscious choices with money. When you're dysregulated, you're either impulsively spending, paralyzed by fear, avoiding your accounts, or obsessively checking them. Download the free ADHD Regulation Guide -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Ready to get back in the driver's seat with money? Join the ADHD and Money Workshop -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdmoney Want to dive into this work to reduce symptoms and make life more enjoyable? Learn more about ADHD Groups here -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/groups Get "The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation" - www.jennafree.com/book Connect with Me Instagram TikTok
Transcribe →EP. 53: ADHD? Emotional Dysregulation Isn't the Problem
Mar 3000:22:30Tap to summarizeWhat if emotional dysregulation isn't the problem? What if trying to control your emotions is why you're still stuck? In this episode, I break down why emotional regulation is just a symptom. The real problem is nervous system dysregulation. Your emotions aren't proof you're failing. They're proof your nervous system feels unsafe. When you stop trying to control the emotion and start regulating your nervous system, everything changes. Download the free ADHD Regulation Guide -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Want to dive into this work to reduce symptoms and make life more enjoyable? Learn more about ADHD Groups here -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/groups Get "The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation" - www.jennafree.com/book Connect with Me Instagram TikTok
Transcribe →EP. 52: Why ADHD Self-Awareness Still Leaves You Stuck
Mar 2300:14:38Tap to summarizeWhat if being "too self-aware" isn't actually the problem? What if you're just aware of the symptom but not the mechanism creating it? In this episode, I break down why ADHD self-awareness still leaves you stuck. You know you rush, procrastinate, and avoid. But knowing the behavior doesn't change it because awareness at the surface level isn't deep enough. True awareness isn't knowing what you're doing. It's understanding why it's happening. When you understand the thoughts, beliefs, and nervous system patterns driving the behavior, that's when real change begins. Download the free ADHD Regulation Guide -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Want to dive into this work to reduce symptoms and make life more enjoyable? Learn more about ADHD Groups here -- www.adhdwithjennafree.com/groups Get "The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation" - www.jennafree.com/book Connect with Me Instagram TikTok
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