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B
Oh, thank you.
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A
Before we get into this journey of the film we're here. What do you remember about the point when you hit sort of rock bottom, when you realized you had to make major changes in your life?
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B
It was a slow motion breakdown. There wasn't, thankfully, a moment when there was a car accident. I didn't get incarcerated. What I remember is a gnawing voice in my head that said, dude, you Gotta do something different. The next decade. I was approaching a milestone birthday. The next decade can't look like this one. So it was loud and clear, and it was strong enough to get me to change my behavior, to think about doing something different.
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A
When you think about the pandemic, why do you think that moment in time is when you had to step away and you had to reassess everything?
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B
Well, I was like so many of us, I was forced to step away. I mean, I was traveling globally for the Facebook journalism project. I was living in New York City and in Wilmington, Delaware, my wife's hometown, where we had just moved with the kids after 25 years here in New York. So it had kind of a crash pad. It wasn't pretty. It was kind of everywhere and nowhere and then boom, no travel, right? I can remember skateboarding in the high school, across the street, no air traffic, no one on the highways, right? And suddenly you're left with basically your own feelings and your own thoughts. And I wasn't sleeping great. And like a lot of Americans, you know, it was like, oh, wow, I can just walk across the street and get a case of beer and, you know, start at 5 instead of 7 or what have you. And it just was a little bit of a slippery slope. But it was that silence. And I was out in New York and, you know, when you live in it, you. You don't always realize just what a high frequency it vibrates at, you know, and you get out and you go, oh, this is different.
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A
When you went back and you talked to people about your memories and you experienced them again, maybe in a different way. What was challenging for you about reliving these memories?
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B
Oh, man. I mean, in a lot of ways, I had lived and relived them many, many times. The night my jaw was broken is a sort of somatic, visual, sort of very, very strong sense memory. And it colors so much of everything. As I say in the movie, you know, walking home after a rock show at 2:00am you know, it gets your attention. So, I mean, in a lot of ways, what was really different and what was really useful is that I was able to gain other perspectives and other points of view and other voices and get a sense of what it seemed like from their angle, because I had only lived it inside of mine. And so those CO signs and that sense from the community that, oh, you weren't alone. This was upsetting to us. We just didn't know what to do with it. Somehow made it feel a little more manageable, you know, a little more Relatable.
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A
When did you decide that you had to go back and relive the past?
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B
That was an almost immediate. I mean, frankly, the diagnosis came in, like, August of 2021. By the spring of 2022, I had figured out, oh, this is what's happening to us writ large. This idea that we're all so easily activated, but we don't know why. We don't have language for our emotions. We don't understand. Fred Rogers would say, the child is still in me, but he's not so still. Right. We don't really have permission for any of that. So I figured out pretty quickly that I was going to grab a camera. You'll love this. I was talking to my brother about. I was like, I think what I'm going to do is literally drive like it's a journey. I know I'm making a documentary. So how are you going to create a through line? I think I'm going to drive back to all the places where things happened, almost as a filmic device. And then he goes, you know what you got to do, dude, you gotta interview mom and dad. And I was like, oh, no. Great creative idea. Great creative idea. But uncomfortable.
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A
Yeah, that's really hard.
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B
Yeah.
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A
I wanna talk about the importance of Fred Rogers in your life. First of all, how did you meet Fred Rogers?
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B
Sure. Mr. Rogers summered in a modest gray shingle house on the edge of Nantucket island, and my mother rented the cottage next door. So Mr. Rogers really was my neighbor. That's the voiceover from the top of the documentary. My mom was renting a cottage. She was a the getting her master's. He, of course, was an ordained Presbyterian minister. They bumped into each other on the beach, became fast friends, as was often the case with Fred. Fred was a connector. And she said, you'll never believe who I met. You've got to come meet him. And I raced out. I raced out.
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A
What from your experience with Fred Rogers helped you in this moment?
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B
Oh, so much, Alison. Above all, I think some of the adages that make their way into the movie, which is to look for the helpers. You know, this is an adage of his throughout his career. When you look for the helpers, you know that there's hope. This idea that there's something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person. Like this awareness that we have an impact on each other, that's real. Again, as I just said, the idea that the child is in a still. Fred gave us permission for that for decades. You know, I don't think most of us really have figured out how to embody that. We really want our childhood to be over. Right? Like, well, it has nothing to do with anything, right? But it ends up. It has a lot to do with how we're wired and how we show up in all of our relationships, first and foremost with ourselves.
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My guest is Benjamin Wagner. We're discussing his new film Friends and Neighbors, where Ben revisits his past to face the events that influenced his experience living with chronic stress and PTSD and how his friends and neighbors helped along the way. We wanted to get you in on this conversation. How do you handle times when you're feeling high levels of stress or maybe even chronic stress? Who is someone you turn to for support? Maybe a friend, a neighbor, a family member? Give us a call or text us now at 2124-339692-21243. Shout out. Someone in your community or neighborhood is doing a lot to make life better for others, to make stress a little easier for the rest of us. How do you go about taking stress off for yourself? Give us a call. 2124-3396-9221-2433. WNYC. You interview your parents, as your brother said, it was difficult because they talk about how they fought. They talk about how they physically fought. First of all, how difficult was it to get them to talk to you on camera?
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B
Not very. To their credit. I asked my dad first, and I had a hunch he would say yes. And my dad's been pretty supportive of our work, both Mr. Rogers and me in this, they both have. And we just, this was just like the third rail, right? Like, like, I think there's a third rail in most of our homes. Right. Like, you can kind of bump up against it, but you definitely don't want to put your hands on it for long. When my dad said yes, my mom said yes short thereafter. And so I sat down with them, each independently, separately, though we cut them into a brief segment at the beginning of the film. And it was deeply uncomfortable, as I suspect is evident. And it's, you know, it's the first third of the film is really me, and the second third is like kind of like the universal bit, like the researchers, the policymakers, films and people in the community. But really what I end up talking about is this part because it's, I think, so compelling and we all can relate to it. Right.
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A
It's so interesting. Like, you sat and you asked your parents very difficult questions.
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B
Yes, I did. This is 25 years, 30 years of journalism where I was like, well, you can't dodge. You got two hours. You know, you got the cameras rolling, you got two camera and a shooter. So you better ask the hard questions. But not fun, not easy, but, you know, huge of them. And it helped me to kind of increase the amount of space I could hold for their stuff, right? And it really just super generous of them to think about what good it was not gonna just do me, but the sort of my kids, the sort of my progeny, if you will, the leg, their legacy. But also they, I think, understood that there was an opportunity to do some broader good here. So really, props to mom and dad.
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A
What realizations did you have about your parents after you sat down and you listened to the interviews again?
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B
Oh, my gosh.
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A
In the moment, you're just like taking it in. After, when you kind of like sit
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B
down and listen to it, in the moment, you're just trying to breathe and stay present and be respons. You can ask the next question. You know, I would. And I've watched it, Allison, many, many, many times since the cut film. The interviews, I mean, above all is that they were young, young people at a time when there were even fewer resources and even less permission to talk about the things that you and I are talking about openly and comfortably right now. You know, these are a couple of kids who went to Catholic school in 1950, you know, early 50s. So there was not a lot of permission. Is there, you know, young kids who got pregnant out of wedlock at a time when that was just not okay, though happening, not in an insignificant rate. So I just. I gained a lot of space and frankly, love for how hard it must have been for them, you know, and then, you know, just to try and think about all the. I mean, you know, we moved my dad. I was induced and my. The next day my dad split and came to Maryland where he was. We were moving the family. The family followed three weeks later. We never really, as you gather in the movie, we never really stop moving, moving. So there was a lot of tumult, there was a lot of chaos. And I gained a lot of appreciation for how hard that must have been for them.
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A
You're a Gen Xer. I'm a Gen Xer. In many ways, it means that we're very independent, but we were also latchkey kids. We kind of left to our own devices.
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B
Yes.
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A
What are some of the consequences of that freedom for you?
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B
Oh, gosh. And I like that you frame it as freedom, because that was the Upside, freedom to get in a fair amount of trouble, I will say. And, you know, the upside was that, right, I'd say I have a lot of agency, a lot of sense of like, you know, DIY can do it myself. All the records I ever put out, I put out myself. These movies we made on our own steam, you know, even the idea that you can knock on doors and ask people for help and, you know, send emails and make phone calls, that kind of sense of like, well, I could do it myself, you know. But I think what I realized making the movie and sort of all the, frankly, therapy around it, because it was happening in real time around the edges and a tiny bit of it happens on the, on camera is just how alone I felt. And that's, I think, the byproduct of the latchkey generation that we don't spend a lot of time talking about. I'm working on a book that comes out next summer and I did a deep dive on lots of these topics, including a deep dive on latchkey generation. You know, there were congressional hearings on the topic at the time. I wouldn't have known that then, of course, there was a lot of concern because a lot of kids were spending a lot of time by themselves. And, you know, I think above all is that emotional residue of like, where is, is everybody? Because here's the kids. You don't have any frame of reference. So you begin to think, I think on an unconscious level, guys, I guess I'm not that important because nobody's here to make dinner or what have you. And, you know, again, to create space for them. Well, they were doing their best. My mom had to work in order for us to be able to, you know, stay in that house and eat our meals and what have you. But I think overwhelmingly it was a big question mark, like, hey, where did everyone go?
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A
You know, one place that people went, you went and found a beer at 13.
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B
Yeah, yeah, yeah. How about that?
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Yeah. How do you think your use of drugs and alcohol affected the long term way that you handled stress? It just push it down the road.
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B
I mean, I will tell you, Alison, I was always aware of the fact that my, my coping mechanisms weren't healthy. I don't know that I thought about achievement as a coping mechanism. I don't think I had that frame on it, but there was rarely a time where I would have too many beers and think, well, that was a great choice. I didn't wake up with Ang and be like, a plus activity dude, you know, what a great set of choices you made last night on the lower east side. But, you know, as it ends up, I got to give credit where it's due. Dr. Ken Brick says to me, literally, after I sort of laid out the story that you see in the movie, he goes, well, all those beers seem like a pretty reasonable response to a fair amount of post traumatic stress. And if you're in pain, you're gonna reach for pain relief. And I just hadn't thought of it that simply. And now I see it so clearly. It's just a little more insid. I don't know, than an opioid. A little harder, a little. Little more available at every corner store, Certainly notably more socially acceptable, but I would argue, pretty darn problematic at scale writ large. And it was just culturally okay. I mean, what did we do after a big video music awards, I took the whole team out and put the credit card down, and we got as messed up. Thank you. Yeah. As loose. As loose as we could. You see me struggling there, but, yeah, it just kicks the can down the road. And I gu. I guess I got that. But it just didn't have the courage to really put a foot down or put. You know, just put a stake down. And I think part of that is because it is wildly socially acceptable to, you know, get a little buzzed or get stoned or what have you. And for me, it just. It just ended up not returning at the same rate that it did. When I was 25.
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A
We got a text here that says, inner child work. It is the way.
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B
Yeah, there's a. That did a lot of inner child work. In fact, the movie poster, as you may recall, is me at age 9, a photo my dad took with a backwards baseball cap with wings on it, which is perfect for a kid who just kept running, you know? But I have a friend, actually, Ann Kubitsky, who's in the film. She does the look for the good project. Ann said to me when she saw the poster, she goes, wow, you really stuck up for that little boy. To the degree that I was like, no, we're gonna make a movie about this. We are gonna talk about this. But, yeah, that inn stuff's really, really important. And again, I just think, again, that gen X thing. Allison, we roll our eyes a little bit. I mean, maybe you don't, but, like, there's a part of our generation, like, whatever, hippie, you know, and it just ends up. It's all real. It's all valid, you know, and it just took me long enough to be like, I can't worry about Whether it's cool or hip, I just got to do the right thing for me and I think it might help other people.
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My guest is Benjamin Wagner. We're discussing his new film, Friends and Neighbors. We want to hear from you. How do you handle stress? Who is someone you turn to for support? Sh someone in your community who's doing a lot to make life better for others. How do you go about trying to handle the stress of others or maybe for yourself? Our phone lines are open. 2124-3396-9221-2433. WNYC. We'll have more after a quick break. You're listening to all of it on wnyc. I'm Alison Stewart. My guest is Benjamin Wagner. We're discussing his new film Friends and Neighbors, where Ben revisits his past to face the events that influenced his experience living with chronic stress and PTSD and how his friends and neighbors helped along the way. We want to hear from you. How do you handle stress? Who is someone you turn to for support? Our number is 2124-3396-9221-2433. WNYC's our Gen Xers are checking in. This text says, after doing therapy to treat complex PTSD stemming from lots of adverse childhood events, my dear friend Tina was newly retired and was available to me, becoming the only caregiver and the power of attorney for my mother. I'm not sure I would have gotten through the first four years without her support and understanding. Signed a fellow Gen Xer. This one says, I love this phrase. When you are in pain, you look for pain relief. As a fellow Gen Xer who is basically an orphan in a large family, I sought pain relief.
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B
It's. I don't, you know, we often don't think of it that way. Right. For me, it was Excedrin, which was also a hangover relief. It was really a gift to hear it. I tell you. That was the reframing that opened the whole. That opened the door for all of this for me instead of because I had carried a lot of shame, right? Like, you know, like, as long as nobody knows, I have three beers every night, like, religiously, we'll be fine, you know, or more. And the fact is it's especially in this town, right? Like you walk down the street and it's just, it's every third establishment is a bar or a liquor store. Right. And so, yeah, it is really very simple when you think of it that way. I think it comes with less shame.
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A
Yeah. Well, you lived in New York for 25 years. And you talked with one expert from New York Presbyterian about how the city, how it can affect your mental state. It's like the city that never sleeps. I think he uses the line, what did he tell you about why a city like New York can be challenging for the brain and the body?
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B
Sure. Zach Mulvihill, Dr. Zach Mulville, who I interviewed right across the street from in the park that my girls learned to swing on the swings and ride scooters. I mean, this whole thing has been such a great homecoming. You know, to put it in brief, what Zach's getting at is the idea that we're living creatures, right? And our imperative really is to live long enough to procreate, right? That's if you really boil it down. We think of ourselves as different from everything else, but we're basically living creatures and we need a circadian rhythm. And in the city that never sleeps, we're not. We're really plugged into fluorescent lighting and we're not connected to the cycle of things, right? Then you add things like stimulants to keep us awake during duress. And then you add things like noise, chaos, screaming, you know, just jackhammering, stuff like that. And you basically just turn up your. Your nervous system a little bit and it stays pegged at a slight higher rate for a long period of time. And your nervous system flips into fight or flight, right? There's rest or digest or fight or flight. It's a binary system. And what happens in essence is you get stuck in a little bit of fight or flight. And that has an impact on your cognitive capability, it has an impact on your immune system. Your body can't really settle. So, you know, I carry a lot of chronic pain, you carry a lot of chronic stress. Your shoulders get, you know, you get all tense and it has a long term effect on, on your organs and so forth. So it can lead to all kinds of disease. So that is the short version, and that's really the short version of all kinds of distress, from adverse childhood experiences onto things like urban stress, the stress of economic precarity, of violence, of career precarity, or what's happening with AI. Will I work tomorrow? All the things, you know, social unrest, wealth inequality, polarization, all of these things. Just turn the dial up a little bit so that we're all in a bit of fight or flight. And then we look for simple solutions. Because in fight or flight, it's really just a question of like, how do I survive, right? That's when you hear survival mode. And then in contrast to that would be how do I thrive? Right. How do I find my way to that? Rest and digest and make space for all these things, first of all, myself. So Zach was. Zach was a gem.
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Let's talk to Victoria, who's calling in from Montclair. Hi, Victoria, thank you so much for calling all of it. You're on the air.
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Oh, hi. Thank you for taking my call. Here's what I want to add to this incredible, amazing conversation you guys are having. I was diagnosed with chronic PTSD with my first therapist, who was a talk therapist. And we spent 12 years together doing some really good work. And then he said, I think you should move on to EMDR therapy, which is this rapid eye movement deep therapy that goes into your subconscious and pulls stuff to the surface that you didn't even know was there. And I've been doing EMDR for the past year and I cannot believe how helpful this therapy has been to me. It's really just reached in and said, let's just get this junk out of here so that you can thrive. And that has been my experience. And I think that these conversations are really important. We should be talking about this stuff every day.
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Yeah, I'm glad that worked out for you. Thank you for calling. This says everything Ben is saying is resonating so strongly. The loneliness of our freedom, pain, the self soothing of Gen X. All true. I can't wait to see the movie. This says, gotta do something physical daily, preferably outside, if not possible inside. When you take care of your body, the only one you have, you are less likely to abuse it later in the day with alcohol and or drugs. What did you find that worked for you?
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B
Well, I just want to double click into both those points and it'll get to that answer, which is, I went to therapy in New York City for, I don't know, 15 years. And it was all talk, it was all cognitive, it was all up here, and it was helpful. But what it wasn't doing is paying attention to the fact that I also had something below my neck, right? This. This idea that so much of psychology or our experience in the world is somatic. A word that I didn't know at all, really. You know, I'd heard it, but I didn't think of it. You know, I did the New York City Marathon 10 years in a row, and to me, I was just carry. It was just my body's job was to carry my brain 26 miles. I mean, that's ridiculous. Like, I'm A system. Right. Like, we are bodies, you know, and so, you know, the caller's point about emdr, there's so much stuff in the body. And emdr, in brief, is a. There's a number of ways you can do it, but it basically bilaterally stimulates the brain and creates a sort of calm state in which you can then go back into some of these more traumatic experiences and sort of re experiencing them in. In a safe way and with a therapist who can guide you through them to sort of, frankly, a different imagined outcome. So in the movie, I animate myself as an adult, in essence, rescuing myself as a boy knocked out on the floor of the parking lot. Right. And carry myself to safety. So the idea is that when I revisit those memories now, I have a different picture of it altogether. Right. And so then it has less of a likelihood of having an impact on my body. That racing heart, the upset stomach, the tightness I would get in my chest, the shoulders, the tight jaw. Not surprisingly, these sub. The somatic embodiments. I mean, again, Gen X guy talking sounded pretty hippie to me a couple of years ago, but it's just. I will tell you, as your caller did, it is so real. MDR has been really, really useful to me as well. And I've done some other interventions that were even more out there, and every one of them has only proven just how much stuff is locked up inside of us.
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You know, in the big picture, you live a pretty privileged life. You're a white, straight CIS male, got
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kids, two kids in brick colonial and leafy suburban Wilmington. Yep.
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So what parallels do you draw for people who don't share your privilege?
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B
Well, I will tell you that my privilege is part of the reason why I thought it was important to do this and to be the guy who said this, because I didn't see guys who look like me saying this. I saw women saying this. I saw people of color saying this. People who had to say this stuff and be in these places first. And I thought to myself, it's still a patriarchy. Capitalism is still. And colonialism and empire are still a thing. Knock on wood. For now. But I thought, like, I got to be one of the people who was out front of that stuff. And to answer your question is one of the reasons why I asked my friend Logan Herring to be in the documentary, because if you can't get to the sort of early bits of Maslow's triangle, if people are worrying about eating, sleeping, education, you know, basic needs, they're certainly not Going to have the ability to think about, well, am I? Well, the good news is most of these interventions to your previous point, just the movement stuff, going outside and getting some sunshine. To Zach Mulvihill's point and your. Your texter's point, that stuff's free and available to everybody, and it can create a perceivable delta change in your experience of the world and give you a little more space to problem solve some of the vexing problems that we all face. But I appreciate you pointing that out, and I am very aware of that.
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This says living in the city also causes a constant state of FOMO in a toxic mix with yolo, especially when you're young and chasing your future. What did you learn about what it takes to build a network of people who can support you? Because it's hard sometimes for people to go to people around them and say, look, I need support, I need help, and the other person might not know what to do even.
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B
Yeah, I would say overwhelmingly, it's a practice. And if I've learned one thing in the last five or six years around all of this stuff, it's all a practice, right? Like, for so much of my life, I was like, well, I'm just going to get great at this thing. It's mastery. It's not mastery, right? And folks who've done yoga for a minute, they understand it's a practice. So, I mean, for me, coming vulnerable to a male friend or, or a network of friends is still a practice, and it's a work in progress, I would say, particularly in where I live now, which I've been there five, six years, but still feels new to me after 25 years in New York, you know, I'm still trying to find those people. The good news is I got some pals who go way back, some guys who can do this stuff, and I pick them up along the way. I have lots of New York friends, some of whom may be listening, who I can count on, and, like, I've always been that connector type. Luckily, that's just a little blessing. But it's a practice, right? Like, I feel like we have such high expectations for ourselves usually. And if I can just give myself a little bit of grace to know that I don't have to be perfect at any of it as long as I'm doing my best and I can own where those gaps are, like where I fall down and say, oops, my mistake, that I can just. Just get a little bit of progress every day.
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What do you want people to understand about the messages that. That are grounded in friends and neighbors when they watch the documentary on PBS apps or on video on demand.
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B
Oh, bless you. I mean, above all, I felt really weird and alone. And it did not take me very long to lift my head up out of my own sort of pity party and realize that I was not all that weird or all that alone. And in fact, the data supports that. This is a real thing right now. You know, men commit suicide at a rate four times out of women, depending on your data. And, you know, Covid data was higher, but, you know, upwards of 40% of the American population report symptoms of depression or anxiety, and that's the reports bit. So if you don't get at the reports bit, it's probably higher. I would argue most of us wrestle with most of this much of the time. So that'll. That you're not alone bit and that you do have some agency and that it's not just the brain and your thoughts. Like, I love this. It's like your thoughts are part of you, but you are the listener. So I have some agency over the part of me that's like, oh, you didn't do that interview well enough, Benjamin, or you didn't get that A plus on the test, or you didn't present well enough or whatever. And I can say, okay, thank you, brain. I did my best. I'm gonna take a deep breath and I'm gonna do as best as I can. On the next thing you know, we're the listener. So we're not alone. We have some agency. And there's lots of little things you can do to chip away and make tomorrow a little something. There really are. I know that sounds a little saccharine. I beg your pardon?
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The name of the film is Friends and Neighbors. You can catch it on the PBS app. It'll be available on Video on demand on May 15th. I believe. My guest has been Benjamin Wagner. Thank you for helping us kick off Mental Health Awareness Month.
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Liberty. Liberty. Liberty. Liberty. Hi, I'm Maggie Smith, poet and host of the Slowdown each weekday I share a poem and a moment of reflection, helping you turn listening into a daily ritual. It's five minutes to slow down, pay attention and begin the day with intention. Find it in your favorite podcast app and make the Slowdown your new daily poetry practice.