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It keeps getting worse.

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Immediately walk in the house. She goes, what did you do?

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My mom told me not to date this guy and he cheated on me with his cousin. Harley, Are you okay?

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My mom is incredibly servant hearted. It's just like the way that she always steps in, especially when these moments when you really need your mom. That's her legacy that I want to pass on to my kids.

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Welcome back to always here. We're your hosts, Abbey Howard and Abbey Howard. And we are here to share the hope in the heart with heart and humor as always.

Summary

Podcast Summary – "Always Here"

Episode: Why My Mom Was Actually Right About Everything

Hosts: Abbey Howard & Addy Howard (plus regular guest/producer Abby Biswell)
Release Date: March 13, 2026

Episode Overview

This episode dives into the lessons learned from their mothers—funny, sweet, a little vulnerable, and full of warmth and gratitude. The Abbys (sisters-in-law with the same name) and their guest Abby Biswell reflect on the advice they took and ignored, how their moms shaped their outlook, and the ways mother-daughter relationships evolve into adulthood. There are plenty of hilarious anecdotes, soft confessions, and genuine moments of appreciation for the moms in their lives.

Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. Opening Story Swaps: Motherhood Fails and Family Chaos

Warmies Fiasco: Addy tells the saga of trying and failing to keep her son CJ’s beloved stuffed "cow" clean, including spinning stories about the toy's "vacation" for the sake of shipping replacements (01:00–03:00).
Stuffed Animal Sentimentality: The hosts muse about the irrational attachment kids (and adults) have to the scent and scruffiness of their childhood comfort items (03:23–03:47).

2. Transitions in Parenting: Letting Go and Growing Up

Binky Drama: Abbey shares a tale of her son independently deciding he’s ready to give up his pacifiers, changing her outlook on when to push or wait for milestones—only to have him take one back later (04:05–06:05).

“I was so proud of him... announced it to all my friends. And then... he wants them back. Honestly, frick.” — Abbey Howard, (06:05)
Dental Wisdom: A frank conversation with the family dentist leads to the realization that the worst consequence of a lingering binky habit is likely just needing braces – “...I put braces on like 80% of the kids that come in here.” (06:48)

3. Conquering Fears & Redefining Adult Fun

Ski Stories & Howards’ Motto: The sisters recount recent skiing adventures, sharing their self-motivational mantra “Howards do hard things” and pushing through fears of speed and heights (08:55–10:22).

“I can do hard things. I can do hard things. I can do hard things...” — Abby Biswell, motivating herself on the slopes (09:13)
Taking Free Will: Addy reflects on her post-pregnancy urge to try intimidating or out-of-pocket experiences—from tennis lessons to long walks for solo treats (13:13–13:53).

4. Fun Facts Segment: “Wow, That’s Crazy”

American Emigration: For the first time since the Great Depression, more U.S. citizens are leaving than moving in—with key reasons including cost of living, remote work, and new opportunities abroad (14:15–15:25).
- Lighthearted banter about citizenship rules, tax obligations, and "pausing your subscription to America" (16:18).
Mega Beds & Co-Sleeping: Internet fascination with the Alaskan King bed (a $3,700–$12,000, 10-foot-wide mattress) and debate about co-sleeping triggers reflection on sleep routines and physical closeness in parenting (22:07–29:27).

“When you’re asleep, how much quality time are you getting together?” — Abbey Howard, on couples sleeping (25:01)

5. Main Theme: “Why My Mom Was Actually Right About Everything”

Confessions of Not Listening: The hosts recount times they should have listened to their moms’ advice and the hilarious (and sometimes cringeworthy) consequences:
- Over-plucked eyebrows/bangs incident (38:23)
  
  “…So then I said, I’m going to cut my bangs. She’ll never notice. It keeps getting worse…” — Addy Howard (38:20)
- Body hair stories, reckless teen driving, ignoring binky/dentist advice, and more.
Times Mom’s Advice Worked Out: Each host lists pivotal wisdom their mom imparted, and how it shaped their lives:
- Abbey: “Don’t feel guilty unless you did something wrong.” (47:03)
- Addy: “Just do it. Why can’t you do it? What’s stopping you?” (49:55)
  
  “Anytime that I would say I want to do blank… well, just do it.” — Addy Howard (49:55)
- Abby Biswell: Financial literacy, unconditional love, and non-restrictive expectations in parenting (64:46–65:58)

6. Favorite Lessons from Listeners’ Moms

A rapid-fire segment shouting out profound or practical mom-isms submitted by listeners:

“Always shower before getting into bed.” — Mara
“You are who you hang around with.” — Vivi
“If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.” — Liv
“Nothing good happens past 11pm.” — Ellie
“Always make and stick to a grocery list. Eat before you shop.” — Grazy (69:33–71:06)

7. Hope and Encouragement for Listeners

The Abbys reflect on generational change, acknowledging the reality that not everyone has a supportive mom, but individuals have the power to break cycles and start new family traditions (71:27–72:35).

“You have the power… to change your family down the future.” — Abbey Howard (72:27)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

“No boy can take a reservation on you.” — Abbey Howard’s mom’s dating advice (53:20)
“I just feel like that I, that’s one I… even now that I’m 27, I still hear my mom’s voice… don’t feel guilty unless you did something wrong.” — Abbey Howard (48:47)
“She never complains, she never expects anything back in return, she just gives and gives…” — Addy Howard, about her mom’s servant heart (62:41)
“If you want to try something, just do it. No question if you can, just will you?” — Addy Howard (50:25)
“You’re free to make your own decisions in your best interest… nobody else gets a claim on your land!” — Abbey Howard (54:08)
“There’s such a freedom in your life when you arrive at that point where the opinions of others don’t affect your life.” — Addy Howard (61:06)

Timestamps for Major Segments

Introductions & Warmies Saga - 00:47–03:47
Parenting Transitions/Binky Update - 03:57–06:46
Skiing Stories & Facing Fears - 08:45–10:33
“Wow, That’s Crazy” Facts - 14:09–21:16
Mega Beds & Family Sleep Habits - 22:07–29:27
Mom Was Right/Listener Confessions - 29:42–37:41
Eyebrow/Bangs Fails - 38:20–38:46
Main Discussion: Life Lessons from Moms - 46:26–62:41
Shouting Out Listener Mom Advice - 69:36–71:19
Encouragement About Breaking Cycles - 71:27–72:35
Food Segment & Recipes - 72:42–74:46
Listener Voicemails (Parenting, Kid Naming) - 75:25–83:16

Tone & Style

The episode is a blend of candid storytelling, cheerful ribbing, and heartfelt wisdom. The hosts’ dynamic is affectionate, honest, and sprinkled with comedic timing—never shying away from embarrassing stories but always landing in a place of mutual support and gratitude. The language is informal, direct, and full of sisterly banter.

Final Thoughts

This episode serves up laughter and tears in equal measure, with comforting reminders that moms shape not just our childhoods but our approach to adulthood—whether or not we always listened in the moment. The concluding message is one of hope: every listener has the agency to carry forward the best of what they’ve received, or start fresh with something better.

Why My Mom Was Actually Right About Everything