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Andy Elliott's Elite Mindset Motivation and Sales Training
Andy Coaches 20 Year Old On MARRIAGE // Andy Elliott
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You go over, talk to her like that? Yeah. No, you don't. You're a liar. Yeah, I do. Yeah. No, you don't. What? No, you don't. All right? I know you don't, because people don't do that anymore. I hate conforming to society. I hate being like everyone else. Look, you're either gonna die a legend or you're not. It's just your choice. And by the way, this would be the hardest thing you've ever done in your life, is to build a great deal. It's the hardest thing you've ever done. Making money is easy. Give him just one piece of advice right now. Is there something I need to know about? Is it just in general? Just in general about how you build your bond so strongly, you know, you can't judge each other, you know? Yeah. I mean, well, the biggest thing is, is that, look, if you want to become somebody. Yeah, okay, cool. Most people want to become somebody so, so bad that they forget that what you have now is amazing. Right. You love your girl. Yeah. Can you record this right quick? No, but I won't give it. But I wear a Washinos. I do other. Yeah. Okay. So if you love her to death and you want to go build something big, you know how much energy it's going to take to build something big. Would you understand? Yeah. You know the number one? The one, you know, the number one reason why most people don't make it? They under. They underestimate the amount of effort that it takes to become great. Yeah. And so. And so you think you're going to have this relationship at home with her and then, like, give 100 at work, bro. You got to give 900. Okay. Okay. How do I articulate that to her? Okay, time out. Okay. You're the leader of your home. Yes. So you don't tell her. You show her. You hear me? Like, dude, listen to me. If you're so inspiring, if you become so great, if you're so magnetic, if you put off so much energy, are you motivating her? You're motivating all these other people all day long. Gotta be great. Gotta be great. How many times you go home and tell her she's great, baby, you gotta be great, baby. I see your potential. I know what you're capable of. I know who you could become. I'm your greatest supporter. I'm your best friend. I'm gonna be there every way, every other way with you. But we're going to the top together. Do you hear me? You go over and Talk to her like that? Yeah. No, you don't. You're a liar. Yeah, I do. No, you don't. What? No, you don't. All right? I know you don't because people don't do that anymore. That's the reason why I got a badass freaking marriage is because people don't do that. You think you do it, but if I were to ask her, does he do that? Does he. Does he motivate you every day? Does he inspire you every day? Does he talk life in you every day? Does he encourage you every single day? Does he motivate you as much as he motivates other people at work? She'd say no. Okay, so what's more important, your job over your marriage? And so there's this little play. It's just a play, okay? You just follow this little playbook, right? And it works. And number one, just be where your feet are. Okay, so what does that mean? When you're at the gym in the morning, you don't think about her. You don't think about work. Work on yourself. The greatest gift you can ever give yourself in your life is the ability to take time and spend on yourself. And you need that. Why? Because you need to bring special energy to your family. You need to bring special energy to your company. You bring special energy to your community. You gotta like you. So in the morning, you got to make sure that when you're at the gym, you're all there. Whether it's an hour, an hour and a half, it doesn't matter when you're there, nothing else matters. Now when you leave that place. My job as a man is to bring special energy in my family. Dude, I want no one else to motivate my family. But that's my job, bro. Listen, there's a lot of noise out there, okay? My wife, I can imagine her saying, if I were to ask, hey, who's your mentor? If I would ask a girl, who's your mentor, is she gonna say you? That's a problem. Dude, listen to me. No one's gonna motivate my kids and my wife more than me. And by the way, this may sound far fetching, like a fantasy. People say, come on, man, get real. No, bro, you're just like everyone else. I hate conforming to society. I hate being like everyone else. Look, you're either gonna die a legend or you're not. It's just your choice. And by the way, this would be the hardest thing you've ever done in your life, is to build a great bank, it's the hardest thing you've ever done. Making money is easy. Why? Because everybody sucks. Nobody really cares anymore. Nobody right now is. Dude, it's never been easier to be great. Everybody's a loser, Everybody's distracted. No one's focusing. Okay? So if you're making money, it's easy. Having a great marriage, oh, my God. That's like the hardest thing. So how do you do it? When you're at the gym. You're at the gym. And when you go to work, guess what? When you kiss your kids and wife goodbye, which, I've got three kids and a wife, so when I kiss them goodbye, my wife trusts me. She trusts me. When I go to work, I'm gonna kick some ass because she married a badass. I don't want to call her during the day and go, hey, baby, I love you. My wife doesn't want me to tell her that I love her. She wants me to show her when my ass gets home at night. So when I walk in the door at night and I walk in that door, guess what? I don't think. I gotta check my phone. I gotta check. No, I was at work all day. I'm a psycho. I know. I emptied the tank. I gave it all I got. All you can do is all you can do. You give it all you got and you take your damn phone and put it down. And then you go spend time with your family. And guess what, man? People say, well, I work all night long. I feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for you. You're going to work all night long. But when you go home and get time with your family, then after that, maybe you can go back to work for a little bit more. You know what I'm saying? But the biggest thing is, you know, I was talking about Ty, is that, you know, be where your feet are, wherever you are, be there. Super important, guys. If you're watching this video right now and you're like, andy, I'm not built like that. Bullshit. Yes, you are. Gotta train way it works. Train or complain. It's your choice. Okay? Every day I train the greatest in the world. You know what I mean? Are you ready to kick some ass and build your legacy and make history? If you are in the description box below on this YouTube video, there's going to be a link. You click on it, enter your phone number, email, full name, and I will personally reach out to you in the next 24 hours. If you're serious about kicking some ass, going to the new level, recreating Next version of yourself, I'm your guy. Let's kill it. But anyways. But did you hear what I said? Just that little piece? Yeah. Did you learn that? And remember what I said? If you treat someone like it's the beginning, they'll never be. That was telling him that. And then also, like, you got to reprove yourself every day. Remember when you first met, right? You're like, you're like, let's say it's a new relationship, but then four months later, you're like showing off work like, like, like this is the most thing that ever happened in the damn world, bro. Listen, my team, when you come out, Scottsdale, my team, bro. It's a day one. When I said you're higher, I said, listen, see the way you feel right now. See this? Like, hey, I'm going to go take over the world with you. I'm going to help you build this thing. I'm going to help you share the pressure. I'm going to give all I got, right? I'm going to be the greatest example around you. I promise you. I'm going to elevate this brand. I'm going to make sure that we build this company bigger than ever. I'll be loyal to you. I'm always going to be with you. You remember you said we always rave about it, he had a crazy operation. Yeah. But I will say, remember you said that to me because in two years from now, right, if I see you winging off that, I should see you getting crazier, not comfortable. Don't ever get comfortable around it, okay? Because I hate that. So that's the same thing with a marriage. Because most guys, it's like, dude, hey, I'm gonna sleep with her. So you win it over. And then you're like, I want to get married. I gotta convince her to marry me, so I gotta win it over. And then when you get with her, you get fat, you get lazy, you get lethargic, you get slow, you get complacent, you get comfortable, you get. They always say comfort's the greatest drug you give a man. Cheap food, consistent casual sex, entertainment. The dreams go to die, you know, no ways. And that's the reason why I would tell you, are you dating? I am Latino. I am find you a crazy ass Latin psycho. That's like, Jackie, she's crazy. Yeah, dude. I mean, but it's a vod that we should. But, but listen, bro, and by the way, I'm not saying it has to be, but I just want to tell you that hey, they're better though, at the end of the day. Well, dude, they just don't put up. No, they don't put over. No. Listen, if you say you're going to be great, you got to be great. You say you're going to freaking, you know, do this. You got to keep your work. They're all about you got to keep your work. And you know, like a lot of these other I don't care if you can get away or not. And then you're like, don't do it again. Jackie's just a cartel. So, like, I need that. I need to know that, like, she's not gonna let. And that was good. So let's eat. Hey, guys. Looks like you made it to the end of the video. You're the true.0001 percenters. Look, I know 1 percenters that can make it halfway through the video, but making it all the way through, you guys are the best. Now here's what I'd like to do. Number one, I want to get closer to you. The fact that you made it all the way through the video, you're like, man, dude, I want to roll with this guy. Okay? So I need to connect with you. Down below there's a description box on this YouTube video, there's a link, it says coach with me, one on one. OK? If you'll go and you'll enter your information, I'll reach out to you in the next 24 hours. You can tell me what you need, help with, what your goals are, and we will crush it together. I would love to help you guys go to the next level in life. You can tell I'm changing my life really fast and I know that you guys want the same thing. I'd love to go with you on that journey. So right now, if you'd like to partner with me, team with me, if you want me to help coach you and push you, Everybody needs a coach, a higher level of accountability to go to the next level. Go to the description box below. Click on the link, fill out your information. I'll talk to you in the next 24 hours. Let's kill it.