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Foreign welcome to a fast comment episode of Ask Aviv. Anything. This is a monumental moment, a true pivot of the war, of the future of Israelis and Palestinians and of Gaza. President Trump yesterday I'm recording on Thursday, October 9th, President Trump yesterday announced that there was a deal. I myself, like many Israelis, didn't get to bed until 4 in the morning because those are the hours in which the announcement was made. And we all tried to understand what it meant and frankly, we were just all too excited and happy at the end of the war, at the end of the torment for the hostages, at the end of the torment for Gazans and the homelessness and the suffering of two peoples locked in to this terrible war. We learn so much about everything that has happened in this moment of truth. We learn who suddenly opposes a ceasefire when there's a ceasefire. We learn how the Americans actually pulled it together to force Hamas to the table through American alliances in a way that, how shall I put it? America remains indispensable even though it's trying not to be. And we learn a lot about what the future of Gaza will look like. I want to get into all of that, and before I do, I just want to tell you that this episode is sponsored in really astonishingly beautiful sponsorship by the Goldstein Family of Muncie, New York, for the refu aslema, the full and complete healing of hostage Omi Gunin and of all the hostages who were in Gaza who came out until now and who will be coming out hopefully by by Monday within three or four days, the Goldstein family writes to us. Romy's name was given to us randomly, parentheses, though nothing is truly random, by one of the hostage sites that sprang up after October 7th to connect those in the diaspora, those who wanted to pray for hostages, with an individual name and face of a specific hostage. I printed it out and Romy's beautiful young face and name was taped to a chair at our dining table. Every breakfast, lunch and dinner, there was rhomi. Every Shabbos there was Rumi. Every Yom Tov, meaning holiday, there was Rumi. We set aside a menorah for her with her family's menorahs at Hanukkah two years in a row. When the Shavuis Cookbook came out from the hostage family's forum, we baked her white chocolate cheesecake, which was great, by the way. We read more about her online, how she loves dance and leopard print clothes, and how she had been a Tsofim leader, a scout leader, and I thought of how much her troupe of girls Must miss her. I saw videos and interviews with her amazing mother, Merav as well, a powerful and articulate fellow Jewish mother. When Romi's name was announced as one of the young women scheduled for release, our prayers were being answered. Seeing her walking out, being embraced by her family, we cheered and cried and we continue to cheer for R. Through multiple surgeries, through what looks like grueling physical therapy, Rumi is prevailing. Rumi and every former and current hostage continue to be in our prayers. Their names are familiar to me as I recite them by my Shabbos candles. They are extraordinary. Every one of them. All of Israel are responsible for one another. Thank you so much to the Goldstein family for their beautiful dedication. Friends, this is a shocking moment. It really is. And one of the shocking things about it on the international stage is the silence. From the silence of the pro Palestinian campaign, we can learn a lot. You don't have to be silent. Even if you don't like every aspect of the deal, even if the deal leaves the full Israeli withdrawal from Gaza to the second stage, even if you have critiques of the deal, the deal ends the war. It ends the genocide which you believe is underway. Why is anything allowed to interfere with that end? Unless you don't really believe that that's actually what's happening, that it's a wanton genocide. They haven't just been telling us lies about what they believe, that they want a ceasefire now that a ceasefire is on the table and the Israelis have not just agreed to it, they've committed to the Americans, to it, and the entirety of the Arab world basically is behind it. Everybody wants it and they can't back it. They can't back it with reservations. All they can do is go silent, frustrated, mourning. They have been telling us these lies, but they have been telling themselves lies about what exactly it is that they support. Because here is the thing. This deal has some serious problems for Israel. It actually leaves the disarmament of Hamas to a second phase. Nobody knows how we get to, how we negotiate that. It kicks the can down the road. Israel's grabbing onto it because the hostage release is right at the beginning. But the things Israel needs from Hamas, its victory conditions are not at the beginning. What this deal is is a perfect win for Gaza. It's the best case for an end of war agreement for Gaza. Gaza isn't just not annexed, not settled by Israel. Those are explicit commitments made by Israel in the Trump deal, meaning Smotrich and Benkvir and all their rhetoric of two years is irrelevant. It's not happening. Everything everyone wanted for Gaza or pretended to want for Gaza. Not just an end to the war, but actual rehabilitation, massive rebuilding. It's all there. No Gazan is forced to leave. And any Gazan who chooses to leave has the right to come back. In a commitment by the Israelis to the Americans, with the backing of the entire Arab world. It's all there. Wall to wall Arab support, infinite money, bottomless sympathy. This is the best case. Future for Gaza. Gaza has a chance now to become what it should always have been. What? A government that wasn't locked into a forever war because of its religion. Because of a peculiar, insane religious ideology that demanded a genocide of the people next door for all time. A Gaza not ruled by such people would have been a beautiful Mediterranean Emirate with natural gas reserves off the coast. That is the Gaza envisioned by this agreement. And Israel is on board. It is the best possible outcome for Gaza. And that's exactly what makes it the worst possible outcome for Hamas. Only Hamas loses here. It may turn out in future that Israel lost as well. Because some of the things Israel needs don't end up happening. We don't know yet. A lot is up in the air. But Hamas loses for sure. Only Hamas is required to disarm or pretend to disarm for long enough for the rebuilding to happen. Only Hamas is required to relinquish authority in Gaza or pretend to relinquish authority for as long as it takes for the rebuilding to happen. Just getting Hamas to appear, to pretend to concede this beautiful future for Gaza took this scale of war. You could hate the Israelis, sure, a terrible war. You can come down on the side of the people who have suffered more. But you really believe, seeing this deal, that Hamas and Gaza have the same interests? Hamas that built the most comprehensive bomb shelter system in all of human history and warfare and didn't let a single civilian into any of those 500 kilometers of tunnels larger than the London Underground in two years of terrible war. You think Hamas itself thinks that Gazans own interests? Long term future interests are the same as Hamas's interests. With this deal, it's no longer possible to pretend that the interests of Hamas have anything to do with a better future for Gaza. They're living out a religious fantasy and they're willing to sacrifice Gaza on the altar of that fantasy. And so the pro Palestinian campaigners, activists, marchers, they're in mourning, they're facing this terrible cognitive dissonance. They are silent at the moment of the thing they have been pretending to want for Two years. It's no longer possible to pretend that the pro Palestinian campaign's interests overlaps with the interests of a better future for Gaza. It really never was about Gaza, about the real people suffering in a terrible war. And I want to be clear, I believe that most of the people marching genuinely believe that's what they were marching for, a better future for Gaza. That's what the decent, well meaning majority, just horrified by images of war, thought they were marching for. But here we are at the end, and the activist core that mobilizes them each time is silent. The activist corps. The purpose of the grand mobilization campaigns turn out not to have been about a ceasefire. It was only ever a campaign to back Hamas. Religious forever war. And it was a religious forever war to destroy my people. There was one genocide being advocated over the past two years, and it wasn't for Gaza. That's what their silence right now actually means. President Trump. What President Trump pulled off here should be studied in the history books. Netanyahu carried out that operation in Doha. The bombing, the Israeli airstrike targeting Hamas leaders in Qatar. And the fallout, first of all, was a failure, right? There was a. There was a French writer who once said of Napoleon's decision to execute a French nobleman, it was worse than a crime. It was a mistake. If screwing it up is worse than the ethical questions, don't screw it up if you're going to do something with that level of fallout and potential ramifications. But there was this strike and it failed. And it destabilized Qatar's own sense of where this conflict was going, because suddenly it was entering Qatari territory. And Qatar went to the United States and Qatar screamed and shouted and said, we have to have protection. And then President Trump did something truly brilliant. He said, sure, absolutely, an executive order promising to come to your aid militarily if you're attacked. Full on protection in exchange for the hostages, in exchange for bending Hamas. Was it a conscious, purposeful, planned, good cop, bad cop routine, as the Netanyahu supporters say? I tend to give credence to that theory because there are too many leaks of anger and tension between Trump and Netanyahu, followed by too many warm handshakes immediately after, afterward, I tend to think. And half the leaks were then denied by. I tend to think that there was a game being played. And by the way, they've done it before, which is why it's not a crazy thing to think that they're capable of it. But maybe it wasn't a good cop, bad cop routine, even if now they're going to try and spin it that way, because why not? It makes them look great. Maybe the frustration, Trump's genuine frustration with Bibi's strike on Qatar was totally genuine. That only makes Trump more impressive because it means he took the lemonade. He took the lemons. Excuse me, an Israeli strike he thought was irresponsible and destabilizing to a close American ally and also a failure. And he made out of it lemonade. He turned it around. He said to Qatar, that's awful, that's terrible. I'll guarantee it never happens again, but in exchange, you give me Hamas. If that's how Trump dealt with those lemons, then Trump showed us, demonstrated, that Qatar has been part of the problem all along. Qatar was not mediating. Qatar was backing Hamas, supporting Hamas, allowing and helping, and sometimes possibly Israeli intelligence believes, telling Hamas to continue the war rather than to end it because it believed it had Israel right where it wanted it. And Al Jazeera was carrying the message to the Arab world and radicalizing everybody the Qataris wanted radicalized. After the agreement with Trump, Al Jazeera pivoted on a dime. No more just wild, insane headlines. They're still covering the war. They're still talking about the suffering of Gazans. But it isn't at that fever pitch that it has been at for two years running. It isn't at an obsessive focus to the erasure of all other issues and wars and questions in the Middle east, even ones larger than Gaza. And so Hamas found itself with the Egyptians, sick of the war, sick of the destabilizing effect the war is having on Egyptian public opinion, very, very keen on a Trump peace deal in which Israel actually commits that Gazans remain in Gaza. We had an episode where we discussed Maryam Wahba, discussed in great detail why, and by the way, convincingly to me, why Egypt actually has a point in fearing Gazans leaving Gaza into Sinai. The Turks eager to shore up ties with America. The Turks are some of the great funders and backers of Hamas and of Hamas affiliated groups all over in Jerusalem and in Gaza. But they're eager to come closer to America, and so they're eager for this war to end. It's a. The war has become a problem inside the radical Muslim Brotherhood access to the Middle east in its attempts to have better relations with the west, with America, stability and moving forward on a whole bunch of policy things. And Hamas was standing in the way. And now Hamas lost Egypt, it lost Qatar and it lost Turkey, and it caved. Folks, Everything that happened today or yesterday could have happened in May. In May, Netanyahu stood up and he said Israel has four conditions. The hostages. Obviously Hamas is disarmed, leaders going to exile and Gaza is demilitarized going forward. Those are the conditions. Those are all in the deal. It could have agreed to this five months ago. Hamas is now going to try to survive. It had no choice but to go to this. It lost Qatar. The Israeli strike on Doha gave the Americans the leverage they needed to force Qatar to actually drop their support, their backing for Hamas. That allowed Hamas to continue the war for all time. The Israeli military entry into Gaza City, the last major sanctuary Hamas had was actually threatening Hamas. Last hiding places, last tunnel system. And now Hamas has agreed. And the whole question now is will it try to survive? Obviously it'll try. Will it survive? It has to let the rehabilitation go forward of, by the way, Gaza, but also of itself, while also keeping other powers in Gaza. Potential power centers. The Abu Shabab militia, but many others. There's one in eastern Khan Yunis. Keeping them down, rebuilding its own capabilities, finding ways to once again and forever leech off Gazan society to rebuild itself. Its food, its, its, its ranks, men, friends. Hamas isn't gone. It still has guns. It's going to try to retake Gaza. It's going to try to return to the forever war because its version of Islam tells it it must at any and all cost to the death of the last Gazan. Gazi Hamad told CNN that three weeks ago, every dead Gazan in this war is a Palestinian success. If my people were led by such leaders, I would hate them viscerally and my people would have fallen long ago. Those who actually want Israel destroyed in the pro Palestinian campaign are also going to back it, or in the Middle east like the Qatari regime are going to back it to the hilt once again. In that future civil war in Gaza where Hamas makes its comeback, there is some significant chance we're going to be right back here in five years. And here's the key going forward. Because the forces that pretended to want a ceasefire but only actually wanted a Hamas victory, they're still there and they're silent now so that they can find their voice again when Hamas tries to make that comeback in six months or in four years. The interim process, not phase one, which is stop fighting, the IDF pulls out, clears itself out of half of Gaza, allows a rehabilitation and rebuilding process to actually get going and begin. All the hostages come out. That's phase one. Phase two is the beginning of the interim process, the actual disarmament, the actual removal of Hamas, a new governorship international backed by the Arab world, a stabilization force of some kind. We don't exactly know the details, but here's the key. The future of Gaza depends on the details of that interim process, of phase two. The interim process has to kill the Hamas aspiration to bring us all back to this point. Five years from now, will an international force, will Arab police forces or stabilization forces, will an international community, will a Muslim world eager to de radicalize Gaza so Gaza can have the great future envisioned in the Trump plan, Will all that come to fruition? Obviously, in the Middle east, the good money is always going to be on pessimism. No, it won't. It won't succeed. And Hamas will be back. But here's my optimism. My optimism now was my optimism two years ago, right after October 7th. One of the first things I was explaining to anybody who would talk to me was that you don't understand Israeli resolve. You don't understand what you have awakened. You just convinced us by the very kind of war you decided to bring on Gaza that you are totally undeterrable. Because the destruction of Gaza you view as your military success, as your great leverage over the Israelis, as the goal, the strategy, the fundamental strategy, rather than the thing to be avoided. Most governments believe that the destruction of their side is the thing to be avoided. You go to war to prevent it. Hamas believes that that is what war is. That's your last leverage. You're not going to defeat the Israelis with tanks and commandos. You're going to defeat the Israelis with the destruction of your own people. I argued that all of it is going to fail. The Israelis have the resolve. They're going to go to Hezbollah. Eventually, they're going to go to Iran. I suspected we were heading into five years of war. Turned out it was two years. But that Israeli resolve. I want to be very clear here. You can love the Israelis, you can hate the Israelis, you can mourn what I'm about to say. But what I'm about to say is a fact. It's a strategic reality. Whether or not you like it, deal with it, plan for it. Neutral, Totally neutral. I happen to think it's a good thing. You could think it's a bad thing. It's still going to be a thing. That Israeli resolve isn't going anywhere. The Israelis are watching Hezbollah like they never watched before. The Israelis are watching the Iranians like they never watched before. No more monsters are going to be allowed to rise. Planning our Destruction and genocide. No more 200,000 missiles buried under South Lebanon. No more eager to set Tel Aviv on fire whenever the Ayatollahs of Iran give the order. No more. The Israelis will never again be fooled by Hamas. The Israelis, not the Arab world police forces or international stabilization Forces or whoever ends up patrolling Gaza during the rebuilding, will be suppressing Hamas. And that gives me hope. Because an alliance where everybody understands their role, the Saudis bringing a de radicalized curriculum because they actually want to push back on the insane warping of Islam that Hamas represents. In their view, they deradicalized their own curriculum in Saudi Arabia and they want to deradicalize the curriculum in Gaza. The Israelis with the intelligence ops to suppress Hamas, America and Europe and the Gulf states with the money, the magnanimity, the sympathy, the yearning to build that better Gaza, to show that the whole purpose of the war, the Israelis also backing that, to show that the purpose of the war was denazification and the rebuilding of Germany and not the destruction of a people. This coalition, because the Israelis will still be doing the hard part, has a chance. Everybody with their specific and unique contribution that no one else can offer, has a chance to detoxify, denazify, de radicalize Gaza. From the idea, from the narrative, from the story Hamas brings, that century old story of the Muslim brothers that has only ever destroyed everything it has ever touched in the Middle east. And that alliance where everybody knows their role and nobody is pretending anymore, has a chance to turn Gaza into that gas rich Mediterranean Emirate that a slightly less genocidal leadership would have made of it. From the start. It's a whole new day. Everything could go wrong. But for the very first time in two years, everything could go right. That's the victory. Thank you so much for joining.
Hostage Deal: A New Day for Gaza, a Bad Day for Hamas
Host: Haviv Rettig Gur
Date: October 9, 2025
In this special “fast comment” episode, Haviv Rettig Gur delves into the historic hostage deal that marks a dramatic turning point in the Israel-Gaza conflict. With the announcement of a ceasefire and major commitments from the international community, Gur examines what this moment means for Gaza, Israel, Hamas, and the broader region. He explores the reactions—from celebration to stunned silence—and scrutinizes the strategic consequences, with a focus on both hope and looming challenges.
The episode begins with Gur’s personal sharing of the raw reaction gripping Israelis after the U.S.-brokered deal announcement.
He highlights the emotional toll of the hostage crisis, describing the ongoing prayers and actions of diaspora communities, exemplified by the Goldstein family, who dedicated days and holidays to a single hostage, Rumi Gunin.
Quote (07:39):
“We set aside a menorah for her with her family's menorahs at Hanukkah two years in a row. When the Shavuis Cookbook came out from the hostage family's forum, we baked her white chocolate cheesecake, which was great, by the way.”
– Haviv Rettig Gur
The broader theme is Jewish collective responsibility:
Quote (09:05):
“All of Israel are responsible for one another.”
Gur draws attention to the striking silence from pro-Palestinian activists now that a ceasefire and an end to hostilities are at hand, challenging the coherence of prior advocacy.
He suggests that true dedication to ending Gazan suffering should manifest as support for, not silence about, this deal—even if it leaves some details unresolved.
Quote (13:18):
“Why is anything allowed to interfere with that end? Unless you don't really believe that that's actually what's happening, that it's a wanton genocide.”
He concludes that activist silence reveals longstanding self-deception about their cause’s alignment with Gaza’s future, arguing that the focus, especially among activist cores, has been more about supporting Hamas than genuine Gazan welfare.
Best outcome for Gaza: Israel commits to non-annexation, non-settlement, massive rehabilitation, and guarantees for Gazans to stay or return—all backed by Arab consensus and international funding.
Worst outcome for Hamas: Hamas is forced to (or pretend to) disarm and relinquish authority, sacrificing its religious-driven forever war and risking marginalization.
Risks for Israel: Uncertainty whether ultimate Israeli objectives—demilitarization, the defeat of Hamas—will be achieved, as these are deferred to phase two.
Quote (16:44):
“It is the best possible outcome for Gaza. And that's exactly what makes it the worst possible outcome for Hamas. Only Hamas loses here.”
Gur stresses this is not a defeat for Gazan civil society, but for Hamas’s radical vision.
Gur gives President Trump significant credit for the diplomatic breakthrough, particularly after an Israeli airstrike in Doha destabilized Qatar, a key Hamas benefactor.
Trump’s executive order granting Qatar military protection, in exchange for pressure on Hamas, is described as a masterstroke—whether as part of a good cop/bad cop routine or deft political improvisation.
Quote (26:28):
“He took the lemons...an Israeli strike he thought was irresponsible and destabilizing...he made out of it lemonade...I'll guarantee it never happens again, but in exchange, you give me Hamas.”
This maneuver exposed Qatar’s role in prolonging conflict, forced it to withdraw overt Hamas support, and shifted the stance of aligned actors (Egypt, Turkey).
Short-term: Hostages released, IDF withdraws from parts of Gaza, and humanitarian rebuilding commences under international supervision.
Mid-term/Phase Two: The disarmament and removal of Hamas is still unresolved; enduring power struggles within Gaza (other militias, potential Hamas resurgence) are expected.
Gur warns that Hamas will regroup where it can, aiming for a comeback and a return to “forever war” against Israel.
Quote (43:45):
“Hamas isn’t gone. It still has guns. It’s going to try to retake Gaza...to return to the forever war because its version of Islam tells it it must at any and all cost to the death of the last Gazan.”
The possibility of renewed conflict in the coming years is real.
Gur contends that Israeli determination, hardened by the past two years, guarantees continued vigilance against threats (Hezbollah, Iran, future Hamas attempts).
Quote (52:01):
“That Israeli resolve isn’t going anywhere...The Israelis will never again be fooled by Hamas.”
This, he argues, is the foundation for optimism about Gaza’s future, provided Israel, Arab states, Western powers, and international stakeholders each play their necessary role: de-radicalization, intelligence, funding, and rebuilding.
On the activist silence:
“They are silent at the moment of the thing they have been pretending to want for two years.” (20:44)
On the best-case scenario for Gaza:
“Gaza has a chance now to become what it should always have been… a beautiful Mediterranean Emirate with natural gas reserves off the coast.” (15:36)
On the role of the international alliance:
“This coalition...has a chance. Everybody with their specific and unique contribution that no one else can offer, has a chance to detoxify, denazify, de radicalize Gaza.” (57:17)
Haviv Rettig Gur’s episode captures a watershed moment in Middle East history, offering a nuanced and forceful analysis of the endgame for Gaza and Hamas. He is cautiously hopeful yet clear-eyed about the region’s dangers, repeatedly emphasizing the potential for both breakthrough and relapse. The episode serves as essential listening for anyone seeking clarity on the hostage deal and what it may herald for Israelis, Palestinians, and the Middle East at large.