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For long-time followers of the podcast, you'll know that the listeners' emails segment was a huge part of Out and its community. With the new visualised format, we didn't want to leave it behind, so l'll be sharing my favourite emails from you, the listeners, in these stand-alone mini episodes every week.

The Out episode Shay refers to in his letter is S1 Ep8: Jude Guaitamacchi.

Enjoy the episode and if you'd like to share your own story, send it to me on hello@outwithsuziruffell.com x

My book ‘Am I Having Fun Now?’ is out in paperback on 28th May, pre-order it here: https://www.waterstones.com/book/am-i-having-fun-now/suzi-ruffell/9781035036905

I’m on tour! Details and tickets here: https://suziruffell.com/tour/

Host: Suzi Ruffell

Brought to you by Attitude magazine and Off The Kerb Productions

Podcast producer: Alma Fournier-Carballo

Booking producer: Dale Fox

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