Join Auntie Kiki (Kiki Astor) on the "Awkward Etiquette Old Money and New Manners" podcast as she uncovers the secrets to a truly timeless existence. This episode dives deep into why the old money aesthetic resonates so deeply and how you can integrate effortless elegance into your home, wardrobe, lifestyle, manners, and even your approach to aging. Inspired by a surprising home tour, Kiki shares practical tips on choosing honest materials, embracing thoughtful editing, and cultivating an attitude that transcends fleeting trends. Learn how to create classic spaces and styles on a budget, conduct a "digital detox," and practice timeless etiquette that makes you—and those around you—feel valued and comfortable. Discover how to live an iconic life that is fluid, intentional, and always in style.

Key Topics Discussed:

- Timeless Elegance: Embracing the enduring appeal of the old money aesthetic.

- Timeless Design: Secrets for creating ageless spaces, focusing on materials and the "Light & Touch Test."

- Budget-Friendly Home: Smart strategies for achieving a sophisticated home without breaking the bank.

- Avoiding the "Time Capsule": Blending eras for a personalized, comfortable, and classic living environment.

- Digital Detox & Analog Living: Cultivating intentional, less-connected daily practices.

- Timeless Entertaining: Classic approaches to hosting and celebrations, including weddings.

- Ageless Style & Investment Dressing: Building a wardrobe that stands the test of time through quality and fit.

- Graceful Aging: Focusing on vibrancy, posture, grooming, and an engaged mind over cosmetic fixes.

- Timeless Manners & Etiquette: Developing intentional, respectful, and fluid social skills.

- Strategic Trend Integration: How to selectively incorporate trends while maintaining a timeless core.

Kiki Astor's Novels Mentioned in the Episode:

- Scarlet Fever (Dark Inheritance series: old money rivalries, haunted equestrian, suspenseful romance)

- Pink Palazzo (historic homes, evolving aesthetics)

- Low Season in St Tropez (1920s design, new materials for classic looks)

- Midnight Blue (forthcoming, perfumery, analog vs. tech)

Upcoming Event:

Santa Barbara Literary Festival, May 2nd & 3rd, 2026. Kiki Astor will be on a romance panel and hosting a workshop on self-promotion for writers.

Connect with Auntie Kiki:

www.kikiastor.com

Mailing List: Sign up on Kiki Astor's website for updates on books, appearances, and more.

Pressing etiquette and old money style questions? Ask Auntie Kiki!

madamexofmontecito@gmail.com

Thank you for listening to The Awkward Etiquette Old Money and New Manners Podcast!