The idea that men need respect while women need love has been treated as gospel truth in the evangelical world. Best-sellers have been written based on it; it informs almost every marriage sermon. What if it’s not true? Using data from our marriage survey of 7000 people, we show how reality is very different—and what this means for how we should talk about marriage!

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Take our marriage survey yourself as a date night!
Our synopsis of everything wrong with Love & Respect (with other posts and podcasts linked in the bottom)
Our open letter to Focus on the Family
Jonathan Pokluda clip
Female Influencer clip #1
Female influencer clip #2
Josh and Jana Howerton
Josh Howerton “Give him a crown”
Steve Gaines’ sermon on respect

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Episode 266: Demolishing the Love and Respect Dichotomy Definitively (with Data)