Bawdy Storytelling – Episode 19: Bottoms Up
Release Date: February 23, 2017
Host: Dixie De La Tour
Featured Stories: Sam Solo, Bexie Stark
Episode Overview
Theme:
This episode, titled "Bottoms Up," celebrates Bawdy Storytelling’s 10-year anniversary by diving into stories centered on butts—from anal play to wrestling to the wild serendipity of how submission, pleasure, and self-discovery can intersect. Dixie De La Tour curates two standout personal stories, each highlighting unique "bottom" experiences in candid and hilarious detail.
Key Discussion Points & Story Breakdown
1. Introduction & Theme Framing
[00:55]
- Dixie celebrates reaching episode 19—“Aren’t you proud of me? I am sticking with something.”
- Reflects on 10 years of Bawdy, its origins, and suggestions that led to this theme.
- Notes her hesitation for an 'anal' theme: “That’s a lot of poop... But then it occurred to me... ‘bottoms up’ means so much more.”
- Interprets "Bottoms Up" as:
- Anal play
- Drinking
- Submission/dominance
- Interprets "Bottoms Up" as:
- Introduces the opening song, "Bend Over Baby and Let Me Drive" by Buck Naked and the Bare Bottom Boys—relating this to both sexual and musical San Francisco history.
2. Story 1: Sam Solo – Wrestling with Submission
[03:16 – 13:58]
Sam Solo’s Background:
- Fetish model and sports fan. Shares the unique overlap of fetish and sports.
The Gig:
- Booked for "Ultimate Female Grappling", local wrestling-themed fetish site.
- “Big shout out to Jeff, who runs that site.” [03:41]
- Reminisces about wrestling as part of Southern culture and how the physical closeness makes it easy to see the appeal as a fetish.
Comic Contrast:
- Describes the dojo: “Bro posters... never surrender, never quit. Pain is weakness leaving the body.”
First Match Nerves:
- Wears “teeny, tiny little blue shorts... not exactly an imposing figure.”
- Opponent: Mistress Kara, described as “Xena–Warrior Princess” with “murdery eyes... thighs like my waist... biceps like my thighs.” [05:36–06:17]
- Reality hits quickly: “Luckily... not enough time to back out because pretty much I was in a headlock fairly shortly after being introduced to this person.” [06:29]
The Match:
- Sam’s face planted in “side boob.”
- For nearly 10 minutes, Kara dominates: “Mistress Kara taught me the true meaning of the phrase, ‘like a rag doll.’” [07:45]
- “She’s just killing me... red splotches, like bruises. My rib, I think, actually was injured for a little bit.” [08:59]
Turning Point:
- “She gets my entire lower body... wrenching. I’m flat on my face. Just hoping it’s almost over.” [09:25]
- Kara says:
- Quote: “If you want me to let you go, say ‘please, Mommy, stop dirty.’” —Mistress Kara [09:54]
- Sam: shocked, embarrassed, aroused, submits: “Mommy, please stop.” Mistress Kara laughs.
Aftermath & Reflections:
- Learns this playful domination is common in wrestling fetish scenes.
- Shares further anecdotes (wet willies, spankings, impromptu submission holds).
- Takeaway: “She knew the exact right thing to put me in my place. And I really, really liked it.” [13:47]
3. Bawdy Community Commentary & 10-Year Anniversary
[14:18 – 17:07]
- Dixie discusses recent anniversary events, including “Bawdy Slam” and “Bawdy Got Me Laid.”
- Highlights how storytelling and community lead to unexpected connections, even new businesses and relationships.
- Reflects: “Bawdy creates community.”
4. Story 2: Bexie Stark – Butt Virginity & the Crusader of Justice
[17:07 – 33:05]
Early Obsession:
- Childhood surrounded by Harlequin novels.
- Grew up with the mantra: “Stick it in your butt”—her catchphrase, despite being a self-admitted “butt virgin.”
- Quote: “I had never stuck anything in my butt... but I was living a fucking lie.” [19:53]
Chasing the Myth:
- Grows up in the South where “Christian girls take it in the butt before the vag ... because Jesus loves the hymen.” [18:42]
- Consults gay men for butt sex tips, convinced it’s a mysterious process (“shower? prayer? rain dance?”).
- Multiple steady boyfriends ask for anal, but she preserves it as her “butt sex pedestal.”
The Night of Destiny:
- Moves to SF, still a “butt virgin.”
- Goes out, meets “the most eligible bachelor”—a Harvard Law grad she pegs as a douche.
- “He’s probably gonna be wearing khaki... says ‘I only use Uber.’” [21:37]
- Stops paying attention until spotting “his big case” on the front page of the San Francisco Chronicle:
- Quote: “Oakland Man Exonerated from Life Sentence. This motherfucker got a dude off of his life sentence on a Friday.” [22:20]
- Impressed, she stays as her friends leave.
Sexual Escalation:
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Turns intense and passionate: “Like we both just got out of prison.”
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Bedroom is a “Harvard man's lair” (mahogany, expensive mattress).
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He’s aggressive; she tries to be a pain slut.
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When he says, “I want to stick it in your butt,” it instantly works:
- Quote: “Those are the magic pass... he fucking said the words.” [26:08]
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Her logic for consent:
- “I've got a lot of lube, and you're gonna regret it if you don't do it.”
- “Okay. Case. Fucking. Closed.” [26:37]
The Experience:
- Over-lubed: “You could have probably driven a Mack truck into my ass and I wouldn’t have noticed.” [27:26]
- No searing pain, just full—“like when you have a food baby, but in your butt.”
- Surprised to enjoy it and even orgasm: “I just came from butt sex. This is just... so much is happening.” [29:14]
- Newbie anal warning: “Tries to cross-pollinate... you can’t just put it out, pull out of your butt and put it in your [vagina].” [30:10]
- Morning-after: calls friends with the news.
- Gay best friend: “How big was it, girl?... Call me when you get a big one, then you’ll know why I’m a top.” [31:35]
- Texts: “BUTT SEX, BUTT SEX, BUTT SEX.” [31:45]
- “Did the butt strut all the way home.” [32:47]
5. Bawdy Epilogue – Silicone Buttholes & Sex Community Humor
[33:27 – 41:21]
- Dixie shares a story about a couple who hand-make “balloon knot” silicone buttholes and gift hundreds at Bawdy shows—“You look like you need an asshole. Would you like a little ass?”
- Discusses their custom “vajankle”—a foot with a vagina in the ankle.
- “If my house ever burns down, the one thing I’m carrying out is my vajankle.” [36:22]
- “I was credited in Vice magazine as the person who made the vajankle go viral.” [36:44]
- Encourages listeners to attend live shows and celebrates upcoming anniversary events.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
| Timestamp | Speaker | Quote | |------------|------------|-------| | 05:36 | Sam Solo | “Everywhere you looked, it was just like this bulging, glorious, glamorous, powerful figure... just the most murdery eyes.” | | 09:54 | Mistress Kara (via Sam) | “If you want me to let you go, say ‘please, Mommy, stop dirty.’” | | 13:47 | Sam Solo | “I was really surprised that she knew the exact right thing to put me in my place. And I really, really liked it.” | | 19:53 | Bexie Stark | “I had never stuck anything in my butt... but I was living a fucking lie.” | | 26:08 | Bexie Stark | “He says, ‘I want to stick it in your butt.’ ... Those are the magic pass... he fucking said the words.” | | 26:37 | Bexie Stark (quoting lawyer) | “I've got a lot of lube, and you're gonna regret it if you don't do it.” | | 29:14 | Bexie Stark | “I just came from butt sex. This is just... so much is happening.” | | 31:35 | Bexie Stark (gay best friend) | “Call me when you get a big one, then you’ll know why I’m a top.” | | 32:47 | Bexie Stark | “Did the butt strut all the way home.” |
Relevant Timestamps
- 03:16 – Sam Solo wrestling story begins
- 13:58 – Sam Solo story ends; transition to commentary
- 17:07 – Bexie Stark story (butt virginity) begins
- 33:05 – Bexie’s story ends; outro song "What What (In the Butt)" and host post-script
Tone and Language
The episode keeps a playful, irreverent, and deeply sex-positive tone—equal parts confessional, comedic, and community-driven. Both storytellers (and Dixie as host) expertly blend humor with vulnerability, delivering anecdotes that are explicit, relatable, and memorable.
Summary
Episode 19: Bottoms Up explores how stories about butts—from competitive submission wrestling to long-anticipated anal sex for “justice”—encapsulate growth, release, surprise, and belonging. With Dixie’s stewardship and a blend of unforgettable storytelling, Bawdy continues to be more than “The Moth for pervs”—it’s a vital space for sexual folklore, laughter, and the celebration of growth (and buttholes).
Recommended For
Anyone who loves real, unpolished stories about sex, kinks, and learning to embrace new experiences—with lots of humor, heart, and maybe some lube.