Podcast Summary: Bawdy Storytelling, Episode 290 – "Magic Trick" (Scoby Goo)
Host: Dixie De La Tour
Storyteller: Scoby Goo
Air Date: May 2, 2024
Episode Overview
This episode of Bawdy Storytelling centers on the unforgettable sexual and transformational journeys that Bawdy's vibrant community creates and celebrates. Host Dixie De La Tour brings on Scoby Goo—an enthusiastic attendee-turned-performer—whose true story explores sex positivity, spontaneity, and the magic that can unfold when you embrace community and vulnerability. The episode is a powerful ode to living authentically and the unexpected joys (and orgies) waiting when you step outside your comfort zone.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Dixie’s Introduction and Reflections
- Dixie sets the tone by reminding listeners about the podcast’s unique approach: unfiltered, sex-positive, consensual storytelling.
- She reflects on an unusual wedding-coaching job—a polyamorous, English-to-Spanish, space pirate wedding—and discusses her delight in helping people tell meaningful stories ([02:05]-[04:05]).
- Dixie shares a poignant personal moment about organizing a friend’s memorial, underlining the value of honoring loved ones even amidst personal hardship. She highlights the importance of community and creating space for commemoration ([04:40]–[06:30]):
“It’s so important that we commemorate people’s lives… Even if it feels like your life is way too full, you have to dedicate time to the people who changed your lives.”
- Touches on her quirky custom perfume, “Body Got Me Laid,” celebrating the community’s playfulness and diversity ([06:45]-[08:20]).
2. Feature Story: Scoby Goo’s “Magic Trick”
Setting the Scene
- Scoby attributes Bawdy Storytelling as the catalyst for her entry into kink and polyamory, illustrating the transformative nature of such open communities ([08:49]):
“Bawdy literally changed my life. I was always on the fringe of the kink/poly scene. But the first show…it was like the doors widening open.”
- She recounts traveling to a Seattle show just before a major life shift, determined to “give me some of this before I have to move to Cowtown” ([09:15]).
The Magic Show & The Invitation
- At the show, Scoby is drawn to a charismatic storyteller, Aaron, who tells a wild story of bisexual discovery at a magician convention orgy ([09:45]):
“He kind of looks like Jesse from Breaking Bad…but skinnier. Bright blue eyes…telling a story about a five-guy orgy at a magician conference in Vegas with Siegfried and Roy’s assistant.”
- Scoby skillfully flirts, picks up vibes from Aaron and his girlfriend Angie, and is invited to a magic show the following night ([10:50]-[11:30]).
- After the magic show, and some initial doubts about being left out, Scoby musters up her courage and texts Aaron, leading to an invite to an afterparty with Aaron, Angie, and “Charlie’s Angels” (three magnetic women) ([12:30]-[13:45]):
“God damn it, this can’t be how the story ends. No, come on.”
The Orgy (The “Magic Trick”)
- The afterparty quickly evolves into a playful, welcoming group sexual encounter. Sensory details and playful consent are highlighted ([14:05]–[17:00]):
- Moments of touch and exploration:
“Lucy’s like, ‘you’re wearing far too much clothing’… She takes off his shirt, and he sits down on the ottoman. I climb on top. So I’m grinding on this cock and fingering two pussies at the same time.”
- Insecure but liberated:
“I am the least attractive person here. I have psoriasis on my crotch and armpit hair. But they seem to still be having sex with me!”
- Mutual care and support:
“Lucy offers me a hair tie to get my hair out of my face so I can suck her tits better while Drew’s fingering her.”
- Sensual details: coconut oil, a Hitachi magic wand, attentive partners.
- Playful chaos:
“I may have gotten fisted, but I was so blacked out with orgasmic pleasure I don’t even know how many fingers went in me.”
- Climax and reflection: The night winds down around 3am, with Scoby sorting out whose clothes belong to whom. ([17:00]).
- Moments of touch and exploration:
Aftermath and Emotional Takeaway
- Angie and Aaron tenderly walk Scoby to her car. She voices doubt about whether she was intruding, and Aaron’s reassurance is a heartwarming moment ([18:20]):
“Did I just crash an orgy? … Aaron says, ‘You didn’t crash anything. I mean, your feelings are valid, but you really weren’t imposing.’ What a nice guy to be the center of attention at an orgy.”
- Scoby reflects on the perpetual fear of being a bother and underscores the power of asking for what you want ([18:20]):
“Sometimes the answer is no, but sometimes the answer is hell, yeah.”
3. Reflective Poem
- A brief interlude with a poetic tribute to sexual magic and wonder ([18:39]):
“A smile so wide he’ll captivate you with his magic inside…with every trick, he'll make you believe in a world of wonder…”
4. Closing Call to Action
- Dixie discusses the sustainability of the podcast, financial realities, and encourages community support via Patreon and reviews ([19:32]).
“I want to ask you to ensure that this podcast continues… A review tells me and other people that this podcast is worth their time.”
Memorable Quotes & Moments
- On transformative community:
“Bawdy literally changed my life…doors widening open and I was like, a whole new world.”
— Scoby Goo, [08:49] - On permission and consent:
“I still work through that fear of being a bother and being imposing. But sometimes, if you can just go for it and just fight through that fear and at least ask…it’s worth it.”
— Scoby Goo, [18:20] - On legacy and grief:
“…it’s so important that we commemorate people’s lives. Even if it feels like your life is way too full, you have to dedicate time…”
— Dixie De La Tour, [05:43] - On the magic of group sex:
“The magician is the last one to orgasm, and he’s got two people on his cock, one person giving him a back rub, he’s making out with another girl and stroking my tit…”
— Scoby Goo, [17:13] - On joyful acceptance:
“I have psoriasis on my crotch and armpit hair. What is going on? But they seem to still be having sex with me…”
— Scoby Goo, [16:30]
Notable Timestamps
- [00:02] – Episode opening and content warning
- [01:05–08:45] – Dixie’s ramble: Work, memorial, perfume, community updates
- [08:49] – Story begins: Scoby Goo’s transformative Bawdy experience
- [10:45] – Introduction to Aaron the magician
- [13:45] – The afterparty invitation
- [14:30–17:30] – Detailed recounting of the multi-person, multi-pleasure orgy
- [18:20] – Emotional resolution and core takeaway
- [18:39] – Poetic outro tribute
- [19:32] – Host’s closing, call for support and gratitude
Tone & Language
The episode’s tone is candid, warm, and affirming, blending bawdy humor (“The Moth for pervs”) with honest emotion. Scoby’s storytelling is vivid and unapologetic, rife with self-deprecating humor and moments of real vulnerability. Dixie’s hosting adds warmth, perspective, and community spirit.
Summary
Episode 290 fuses humor, heat, and heart—showcasing the healing, transformative power of true sex-positive storytelling. Scoby Goo’s tale is both outrageous and relatable, demonstrating how saying “yes” to adventure and connection (even when scared) can lead to unforgettable, life-changing nights. The podcast continues to celebrate lived sexual experiences with honesty, laughter, and radical acceptance.