Bawdy Storytelling – Episode 51: “With Risk! in Brooklyn 3”
Date: December 5, 2018
Host: Dixie De La Tour
Special Guests: Kevin Allison (Risk! Podcast), Jamie Brickos, Fancy Feast, Reformed Whores, JC Cassis, Josh Nova
Theme: Pervert
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Overview
This electric, hilarious, and heartfelt live episode fuses Bawdy Storytelling with the acclaimed Risk! podcast, hosted by sexual folklorist Dixie De La Tour and her “redheaded pervert” counterpart Kevin Allison. Taped in Brooklyn, the show is a celebration of radical honesty, kink, sexual adventure, and the power of telling the stories most people are too shy to share. The night includes bold storytelling, original songs, burlesque, community moments, and lots of laughs — all with a sex-positive, inclusive spirit.
Main Segments and Key Discussion Points
1. Opening, Banter, and Theme Setting (00:00–06:13)
- Kickoff: Kevin Allison opens with an a cappella version of the iconic “My Vagina Is Eight Miles Wide,” instantly setting a raucous, accepting tone.
- Host Banter: Dixie and Kevin riff on their friendship, their mutual admiration, and the thrill of collaborating in Brooklyn. Both hosts proudly embrace their pervy personas, describing themselves as the “Traveling Wilburys of perversion.” (03:01)
- Theme Reveal: “Everyone we invited to be on the show is [a pervert], and we hope you are, too.” – Kevin Allison (03:15)
- Preview: Promises a mixed evening: stories, original songs, a “bango” (sexy bingo), and prizes. Reformed Whores and other performers are introduced, setting up for a wild, playful live show.
2. Songs & Musical Comedy: Reformed Whores (06:13–08:51)
- The musical duo Reformed Whores open with tongue-in-cheek country numbers about sexual desire, risk, and modern dating anxieties — “I wanna find a man and tear him apart / Or maybe make love with a girl at Kmart.” (06:53)
- Social commentary is weaved in: “There are plenty of people who have asked me if I like to get down ... but in this day and age, you gotta be picky. ‘Cause one out of four has an STD.” – Fancy Feast during song (07:07)
- The songs are laugh-out-loud funny, setting an inclusive, anything-goes vibe.
3. Kevin Allison’s Story: BDSM Lessons & Learning (08:51–20:37)
- Hookup Story: Kevin shares a candid story about matching with a dominant trans man named Mike, highlighting nervousness and curiosity about new sexual experiences.
- Education & Consent: Mike is upfront: “I do not call it my vagina. I call it my front hole. And if you want to play with me, you are going to have to get up close and personal with that realm.” – Mike, as quoted by Kevin Allison (12:26)
- Comic Mishaps: Kevin recounts learning about kink, BDSM, and water sports—often hilariously: “The second time I did water sports, it was with a guy who I was not aware had had asparagus for lunch ... I hurled him across the room like the girl in The Exorcist.” (15:01)
- Emotional Turn: After a rough BDSM scene, Mike shifts to gentle aftercare and sex education, walking Kevin step-by-step through intimacy with a front hole.
- Wisdom Shared: “People make way, way, way too big a deal about the whole idea of getting an erection ... when in fact, none of that is necessary. I just had the most fascinating, the most unforgettable ... the most hot time with you right here, so don’t you worry about that at all.” – Kevin Allison (20:05)
- Quote to Remember: “I’ll try anything twice.” – Mike, as quoted by Kevin Allison (14:03)
4. Story: Jamie Brickos and the Perils of (Not) Negotiating Fantasies (23:07–41:23)
- Nostalgia: Jamie waxes poetic on picking up men in bars “before Grindr and Scruff.” The art of sexual adventure was improv, unplanned, and sometimes delightfully unexpected. (23:07)
- Role Play & Consent: Shares past stories of complying with lovers’ kinks: fisting, water sports, priest/teenage-boy role play—“I told you, I’m a people-pleaser. If you want me to pee on you, I’ll pee on you, just don’t pee on me, OK?” (28:46)
- Main Story: Hopes for a real sexual connection with “Brian,” who wants only to replay a locked, childhood fantasy: a reenactment of walking in on “Little Jimmy” humping a pillow. Jamie follows along, but is left sexually unsatisfied as Brian reenacts the scenario and then abruptly leaves.
- Thematic Insight: “I wanted to say, what about my fantasy? ... But then of course, I didn’t tell him. I didn’t negotiate beforehand.” (39:34)
- Crowd-pleasing Closer: Jamie concludes with a raucous call for mutuality in fantasy play: “I want him to fuck me, and when he fucks me, I want him to call me Little Jimmy while I scream College Chris.” (41:06)
5. Burlesque & Body Acceptance: Fancy Feast’s “Gluttony” (45:14–59:37)
- Setup: Fancy, a sensual burlesque star, is hired to play “Gluttony” at a high-end immersive party themed after the Seven Deadly Sins.
- Fatphobia & Reclamation: She faces internalized shame around being “the monster” of gluttony: “For those who can’t see me, I am fat. And the idea of being gluttony is something I have tried to escape my entire life.” (45:57)
- Transformation: After initial rejection (offering cake to skinny, body-shaming partiers), she reclaims the moment by devouring cake sensually in public, turning herself from “invisible” to the room’s center of erotic attention.
- Notable Quote: “Not everyone gets to be a princess. Some people are going to be monsters. And it’s a very generous act to be a monster for somebody.” – Fancy Feast quoting her mentor, Rosewood (46:51)
- Empowerment: “I realized that I got paid to be at a place they had to pay to go to ... Sometimes it is very generous to be a monster, and sometimes it is a very generous thing to feed one.” (59:38)
6. Mid-Show Banter: Lost Stories & the Ice Dick Song (60:53–72:09)
- Kevin’s Interlude: Kevin recalls “lost” kink and dominatrix stories, including one about a dominatrix who shocked a Hasidic client so badly his “eye popped out,” and another who traumatized a Christian client with an “ice dick” (cold stainless steel dildo from the freezer) (64:53–68:09).
- Musical Comedy: JC Cassis and Josh Nova perform the original pop anthem “Ice Dick” about men who give the “cold shoulder”—“Why you giving me the ice dick? You got an ice dick and one day it’s gonna melt!” (68:58)
7. Community, Reflections, and Listener Letter (72:09–end)
- Community Love: Dixie shares a moving letter from a listener, Bob, expressing what Bawdy means to him as a life-affirming, sacred space for the misunderstood. (72:40)
- “When we dare talk about our sex lives, when we say we shall be seen, we must be seen. We are opening ourselves up to intimacies much deeper than mere romance.” – Bob (73:04)
- “That stories about fucking and the people we fuck connect us, audience and storyteller, in truly profound ways that guide us to our best selves.” (73:58)
- Call to Action: Dixie closes with heartfelt reminders to rate, share, and attend live shows to keep sex-positive storytelling alive.
Memorable Quotes & Moments
- “We’re the Traveling Wilburys of perversion.” – Kevin Allison, on his partnership with Dixie (03:01)
- “Not everyone gets to be a princess. Some people are going to be monsters. And it’s a very generous act to be a monster for somebody.” – Fancy Feast (46:51)
- “People make way, way, way too big a deal about the whole idea of getting an erection ... when, in fact, none of that is necessary.” – Kevin Allison (20:05)
- “If you want me to pee on you, I’ll pee on you. Just don’t pee on me, OK?” – Jamie Brickos (28:46)
- “Sometimes it is very generous to be a monster, and sometimes it is a very generous thing to feed one.” – Fancy Feast (59:34)
- “When we dare talk about our sex lives ... we are opening ourselves up to intimacies much deeper than mere romance. This is a sacred, divine, knee-buckling place.” – Bob, listener letter (73:04)
Timestamps for Major Segments
- 00:00–06:13 | Opening banter, theme, host introductions
- 06:13–08:51 | Reformed Whores musical set
- 08:51–20:37 | Kevin Allison’s story: “Try Anything Twice”
- 23:07–41:23 | Jamie Brickos’s story: negotiation & fantasy
- 45:14–59:37 | Fancy Feast: burlesque, gluttony, reclaiming the monstrous
- 60:53–68:09 | Kevin Allison’s lost stories & the legend of the Ice Dick
- 68:09–72:09 | JC Cassis and Josh Nova perform “Ice Dick”
- 72:09–end | Listener letter, community, closing reflections
Tone
The episode bursts with irreverence, radical vulnerability, raunchy humor, and profound connection. The language is unfiltered, life-affirming, and both comic and poignant; nothing is too taboo, and every experience is met with curiosity and empathy. Dixie and Kevin make everyone — from seasoned kinksters to nervous newcomers — feel at home.
Summary Takeaways
- Sex-positivity means honoring every story — from the weird to the tender, the hilarious to the humbling.
- Negotiation and consent are vital to sexual satisfaction.
- Bawdy Storytelling is more than just entertainment; it’s a community of witness, liberation, and shared humanity.
- Sometimes, being a monster or a pervert is the most generous, loving thing you can do.
- The show is a joyful challenge to shame, stigma, and silence around sex.
“You are making this planet better by shepherding these stories to your audience.” – Listener Bob (73:50)
Listen if you crave:
- Candid, unashamed stories about sex, kink, and identity
- Laughter, music, and community
- Sex-positivity and radical vulnerability
- Live show energy and unforgettable moments
Next Ep Preview:
Dixie promises to tell her own story in the following episode — the story “why I do what I do,” promising more depth, humor, and heart.
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