Bawdy Storytelling Episode 86: ‘Human Buffet’ (Marco Salsiccia)

Podcast: Bawdy Storytelling
Host: Dixie De La Tour
Storyteller: Marco Salsiccia
Episode Date: August 28, 2019

Episode Overview

This episode explores erotic lactation and sexual interests that can, at first, seem isolating or shameful, but become sources of connection, self-discovery, and joy through community. The featured story, shared by Marco Salsiccia—a blind, kink-positive Bay Area native—charts Marco's journey from the childhood seed of his lactation kink to finding an accepting community and living out his fantasies in gloriously messy, celebratory real life.

Key Discussion Points & Story Breakdown

1. Introduction and Recognition (Starts at 01:00)

• Host Dixie De La Tour shares uplifting news about Bawdy Storytelling’s recognition as one of Forbes Magazine’s top five sex podcasts, marking a proud milestone.

2. Introducing Marco Salsiccia (Starts at 09:54)

• Marco is introduced as a non-monogamous, kinky, accessible tech advocate who lost his sight in 2014.
• Notable for his humor and openness, Marco brings a unique perspective to body, kink, and belonging as a blind man in Bay Area sex-positive circles.

3. The Awakening of a Kink: Childhood Impressions (10:54)

• Marco recounts being 8 years old, stumbling upon a late-night TV scene of two women lactating and engaging erotically.
• Caught by his father, feeling confused and ashamed—but the image lingers:

  "But those images, those dripping breasts just stayed with me." (12:05)

4. Teenage Years and Internet Discovery (13:36)

• At 14, Marco dives into “porn on the early internet,” where he stumbles upon lactation categories, realizing this interest extends far beyond procreation and baby-feeding.
• The fantasy remains just that:

  "I realized, well, in order to do that, I'll have to have a partner and have a baby in order to play with this. But I'm 14, that's light years away." (15:35)

5. Adulthood, FetLife, and Community (16:08)

• As an adult, Marco, now blind, uses accessibility tech to join FetLife, the social network for people into kink and alt sex.
• He is surprised and delighted to find thriving lactation communities (ANR/ABF: Adult Nursing Relationships/Adult Breastfeeding).

Notable quote:

"I find that there's a thing called the Milk Munch or a gathering of like-minded people. And it's happening just down the street over at Wicked Grounds, the kinky coffee shop. And I decided to attend." (17:30)

• Marco describes the science and dedication behind non-pregnancy lactation, from fenugreek and domperidone to induced milk supply through consistent nursing.

6. First Experiences: Tasting Milk (19:08)

• Through community matchmaking, Marco finds a non-sexual “nurse” who teaches him how to latch and try breast milk for the first time.

  “Think Quaker Oats oatmeal, the maple brown sugar. Like the last bit of milk at the end of the bowl. It is really sweet, just warm melted vanilla ice cream with a heavy hint of brown sugar.” (19:56)

• He’s “hooked”—but now wants the full, erotic experience.

7. Found Family: The Meetup and Play Party (21:09)

• Through a local chat group, Marco meets others interested in lactation play; a core group arranges a “play party.”
• The gathering is warm, funny, and supportive, with tacos, Cards Against Humanity, and nervous excitement.

8. The Erotic Lactation Orgy (22:17)

• The play party transforms into an all-out lactation fest: Marco narrates the tactile, sensual experience of suckling and drinking from multiple women's breasts, each with unique flavors (fenugreek = maple syrup; Mona = French vanilla custard).

  "She orgasms from nipple play. So she is writhing in bliss just on the bed orgasm after orgasm as we're both drinking her milk." (23:45)

• Spontaneous playful mayhem: milk fights, group “feeding,” and laughter.

  "We start going to see who can go for distance and speed and Liz is able to hit John in the face from across Mona's body and right into his mouth. We start cracking up..." (24:53)

9. Sensual Symbiosis: Beyond the Breasts (25:20)

• Oral sex and further exploration deepen both connection and sensation.

• The flavors—maple, vanilla, milk—are mirrored throughout the room in play and pleasure.

  “She tells me that she feels like a human buffet just feeding all of us at once.” (26:13)

• The group collapses in a “huge, sweaty pile of milky goodness,” laughter and oxytocin flooding in.

10. Reflection: Shame to Celebration (26:40)

• Marco frames the experience as one of catharsis—a reclaiming of a kink formerly steeped in confusion and shame.

• Powerful closing message:

  "I urge all of you out there that if you have an interest that makes you happy or makes others happy...there's a community out there for you. Just find those doors, gather your resolve and push through them." (26:53)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On First Seeing Erotic Lactation:

  "What is this on the screen? ... One, they seem to be enjoying each other. ... There's some fluid, something coming off the tips of the breasts. But I'm just flummoxed. I have no idea...completely paralyzed." – Marco (11:46)

• Tasting Breast Milk for the First Time:

  "Think Quaker Oats oatmeal, ... last bit of milk at the end of the bowl. ... Just warm melted vanilla ice cream with a heavy hint of brown sugar. And I am absolutely hooked." – Marco (19:56)

• On Non-monogamous, Communal Play:

  "Now, Liz takes fenugreek...makes your bodily fluids smell and taste like maple syrup. No, I fucking love maple syrup. So I'm just in heaven just drinking from her." – Marco (23:28)

• Playful Mayhem:

  "We start going to see who can go for distance and speed and Liz is able to hit John in the face from across Mona's body and right into his mouth. We start cracking up..." – Marco (24:53)

• Reclaiming Shame, Building Community:

  "I was able to push open those doors that had been slammed on me all those years ago and wash all that shame away by finding this community..." – Marco (26:51)

Important Segment Timestamps

• Marco’s Story Begins: 10:54
• First Exposure to Lactation (Childhood Memory): 11:05
• First Online Discovery (Teen Years): 13:36
• Finding Community on FetLife: 16:18
• Attending "Milk Munch": 17:30
• First Taste of Breast Milk: 19:08
• Play Party Set-Up: 21:09
• Erotic Play Party Scenes: 22:17 – 25:20
• Reflecting on Community & Acceptance: 26:40

Tone & Language

Marco’s storytelling is candid, humorous, and descriptive, filled with sensory detail (taste, scent, touch), and a tone of self-deprecating warmth and gratitude for acceptance. The episode combines sex positivity and celebration of body, pleasure, and the power of belonging.

Final Thoughts & Listener Takeaway

‘Human Buffet’ is as much about finding family and pride in your desires as it is about the joys of lactation play. The episode argues, with laughter and honesty, that there is a welcoming community for every “weird” or niche interest—and the most liberating step is daring to seek them out.

"If you have an interest that makes you happy or makes others happy...there's a community out there for you." (26:53)

For listeners:
Expect explicit, celebratory, and deeply human storytelling that invites you to examine your own desires—and perhaps kick open a few doors of your own.