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Beauty in Battle Podcast
Hosted by Jason Benham, Tori Benham · EN
Beauty in Battle is a high-energy conversation for married couples to help you energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you. In this podcast, Jason and Tori Benham share the stories of their relationship and the practical ways they turned conflict and quarrels into passion and purpose by leaning into their struggles rather than trying to avoid them. As a result, they discovered that fighting together drew them together. Their message is clear - you don’t need to stop fighting; you need to start fighting … the right way. When you and your spouse choose to no longer fight against each other in a personal battle but alongside one another in a spiritual war, the results are amazing as you begin to recognize your God-given purpose together. Laced with practical insights and easy-to-follow steps, our discussions will help you discover:* The number one relationship killer and how to stay away from it. * How to combat negative thinking toward your spouse. * The one key that will magnetize you to your spouse and your spouse to you.* How to win your love back when “you’ve lost that lovin’ feeling.”* Why there was a wedding crasher at the first marriage in history and how he showed up at your wedding too. We all fight. The question is, will you discover the beauty in battle? We're here to help you do just that!
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Managing Conflict Through Curiosity
2w ago00:22:37Tap to summarizeContact UsConflict isn't meant to divide you—it's meant to connect you. In this episode, discover how replacing assumptions with curiosity can help you uncover what's really beneath the conflict and build a stronger marriage. Enjoy.
Transcribe →Four Relationship Killers
4w ago00:26:26Tap to summarizeContact UsDr. John Gottman, one of the world's leading marriage researchers, identified four behaviors that predict relationship failure. He calls them the "Four Horsemen." In this episode, we'll unpack all four and show you how to overcome each of them. Enjoy.
Transcribe →Overcoming Anger In Marriage
Jun 1000:28:11Tap to summarizeContact UsAnger isn’t the problem—it’s a signal pointing to something deeper. In this episode, we uncover four root causes of anger in marriage and share practical, biblical ways to address them. Enjoy!
Transcribe →Three Rules For Relationships
May 2600:23:39Tap to summarizeContact UsHealthy relationships are built on the right rules. In this episode, we unpack three powerful principles that can transform your marriage. When couples stop fighting for position and start fighting for connection, everything changes. Enjoy.
Transcribe →Using The Johari Window In Marriage
Apr 2900:34:25Tap to summarizeContact UsMarriage isn’t just about happiness; it’s about transformation. In this episode, we use the Johari Window to show how your relationship reveals blind spots, uncovers hidden struggles, and deepens intimacy. You're gonna love this one!
Transcribe →Getting To The Heart Of Your Man
Apr 1600:27:20Tap to summarizeContact UsLadies - how do you truly get to the heart of your man? In this episode, we unpack a powerful example from Abigail’s interaction with David in 1 Samuel 25 and reveal five simple but impactful ways to speak to your man’s heart. Enjoy.
Transcribe →Getting To The Root Of Anxiety
Mar 2600:41:46Tap to summarizeContact UsAnxiety in marriage doesn’t just show up—it has roots. In this episode, we walk through a simple four-step framework to help you identify what’s really driving anxiety. When you get to the root, you can respond with clarity, support your spouse better, and move toward lasting peace together.
Transcribe →Anxiety's Three Damaging Effects
Mar 400:32:47Tap to summarizeContact UsIn this episode, we unpack the three damaging effects of anxiety and how it quietly takes control. Understanding these patterns is the first step to breaking anxiety’s grip and learning how to respond with clarity, courage, and faith.This episode is based on our newely released book: Unshakeable: A Proven Plan To Crush Anxiety, Defeat Overwhelm, And Conquer The Fears That Freak You Out. Grab your copy HERE.
Transcribe →Dealing With Anxiety In Marriage
Feb 2300:34:20Tap to summarizeContact UsAnxiety doesn’t just affect individuals—it impacts marriages. In this episode, based on our new book Unshakeable, we talk about how to deal with anxiety together as a couple and the three-step process to set you free. Peace in marriage is possible—and it starts with becoming unshakeable together.Grab a copy of UNSHAKEABLE: A Proven Plan To Crush Anxiety, Defeat Overwhelm, And Conquer The Fears That Freak You Out
Transcribe →The Power Of The Pivot
Feb 200:32:44Tap to summarizeContact UsHow you respond to pain determines whether you stay stuck or step into strength. In this episode, we explore two keys that help couples process emotions and drawing closer together at the same time.
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