Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background
01:29
Coming Out Journey
03:50
First Experiences and Relationships
07:55
Finding Love and Long-Term Partnership
11:46
Becoming an Author
14:43
Writing Themes and Audience
18:28
Future Projects and Aspirations
21:19

Summary
In this conversation, Blake Allwood shares his journey of self-discovery, from his coming out experience in a conservative environment to becoming a successful author. He discusses the challenges he faced growing up in a small town, his exploration of sexuality, and the impact of his relationships on his life. Blake also delves into his writing career, revealing how he transitioned from being terrified of writing to publishing numerous books, primarily focused on gay romance. He reflects on the importance of authenticity and the lessons learned.

Takeaways
*Blake's coming out story was influenced by his upbringing in a conservative environment.
*He didn't fully understand his sexuality until he was in college.
*Therapy played a crucial role in Blake's self-discovery.
*Blake's first sexual experience was with a man he met at a bar.
*He identifies as demisexual, preferring emotional connections over casual encounters.
*Blake has been with his husband for over 30 years, emphasizing the importance of finding the right partner.
*His writing journey began as a way to help a troubled foster son.
*Blake has published around 35 books, mostly focused on gay romance.
*He enjoys writing stories that offer hope and happy endings.
*Blake's audience primarily consists of straight women who enjoy gay romance.

Bio

Blake Allwood was born in Tennessee, then moved to Missouri after earning a degree in Early Childhood Education from Graceland College in Lamoni, Iowa. He met his husband Shaun in 1995 and they officially married in 2015, once gay marriage was legalized; although they still consider Valentines Day 1995 as their true “anniversary date”. Twenty-two years later (2017), after fostering 12 children together, he and his husband sold their home, purchased an RV and began traveling the country with their two dogs.

Most of Blake’s stories are inspired by the places they have visited in their ongoing travels. His first book, Aiden Inspired, was released in 2019 and he has now written over 30 books. On June 1st, Blake released his latest book, Cleats and Pumps, which is an NFL football player to drag queen star novel.

Blake also writes under the pen name of Adam J. Ridley for his urban fantasy fans looking for stories revolving around gay characters. His first series is The Witch Brothers Saga, starting with Emerald Earth. He will release two new books under Adam J. Ridley this fall.

Contact Info:
Email: Blake@blakeallwood.com
Website: blakeallwood.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.allwood.5
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blakeallwood9/
BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/authorblakeallwood.bsky.social

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