B (12:24)

Your article in today's Wall Street Journal is spot on. It shocks me how many of these kids think they can disagree with an order and get listened to. They don't get it. They're being paid to do a job, and how they perform will directly affect their continued employment. I've had them be 30 years old and younger. When I told them they were no longer employed, they were first shocked and then started arguing. Incredible. The arrogance.

A (12:43)

Here's another one.

B (12:45)

I talk to employers. I watch the young employees. I see one in 50 that I.

A (12:52)

Would want as an employee. They want money. They dislike the idea of having to work. They were never taught the value of an earned dollar.

B (13:01)

They have very little responsibility showing up.

A (13:05)

But they all want breaks and raises. All right. To these two people, again, I say thanks for, you know, not challenging the data, which I would is rock solid, by the way. You know, I've observed this, as I've said, I've observed this kind of, you know, this dynamic that's being described here. But you know, the point of my article, I want to be very clear was not to criticize Gen Z. The point of this article was to point out a phenomenon, a cultural economic phenomenon, which is that businesses are looking for one kind of person and the people showing up are a different kind of person. And there needs to either be a bridge built or something needs to happen to address this. Okay? Because that's a big gap. A 98% gap is something that we can't all go oh well about. So I wasn't passing judgment on Gen Z with this piece at all. I was simply stating a phenomenon. That's my job. All right, let's talk about the second bucket. This is the bucket that I would call. Old people have always complained about young people. This is nothing new bucket. All right? And there were lots and lots of messages to the Wall Street Journal to this effect. Try to remember that people said the boomers and millennials were unemployable as well. This article could have been written anytime by any generation. The youth are always bad, according to older folks. Here's another one. You might as well have picked up.

B (14:30)

An article from 20 years ago and.

A (14:32)

20 years before that and 20 years before that, all the way back to the time of Socrates and slapped a new date on it. I roll my eyes at this kind of hackery that caters to the get off my lawn generation. I suppose this is true that oldsters have always complained about the new stirs. I guess that's always true. Maybe when I was coming up and along that behind closed doors the oldsters were complaining about my generation. I do think a couple of things. There's a magnitude issue going on here. Magnitude. Maybe in the olden days there was a gap with 50% of the newsters coming along. That 50% just were so disconnected from the values of what was being sought. But 2% is a very, very remarkable piece of data. So I think that that's one thing. It's a magnitude issue 98% are presenting without the values that hiring managers are looking for. Only 2% are. Maybe this is as old as Socrates, but I think it's a size issue. But here's a second issue, and it's big, and that is that jobs are going away. Okay, with AI, maybe some jobs are going to replace them, but we don't know where this economy is going. And so if you've got this magnitude of a problem and business may not be able to absorb it because the economy is changing so much, it kind of puts a certain urgency on this data that was not present 10 or 20 years ago when the economy was steadily, the GDP was steadily growing, except for some bad years here and there. You know, Gen Z is saying it's a really brutal job market out there and it is because of what's going on with AI, companies are hiring more slowly because they don't have visibility. And then you put this 2% number up against it. That's where this argument, like, yeah, she's just an old boomer complaining about the youngsters kind of falls apart. That's my reply to this, this very large, I might add, bucket, which is just stop complaining about the young folk. They're going to grow up. Maybe they will. All right. Then there was a third bucket. And I got a lot of this in my DMs on Instagram and there was a, a bit of it on the Wall Street Journal. And basically, to sum it up, this bucket was Gen Zers themselves saying, essentially, don't blame Gen Z for this phenomenon, you oldsters, you bummers, you ruined the world for us. And we're just responding in the only way it makes sense. So in other words, look, this is your bed and you now got to go sleep in it. That's what we're hearing from people who are in Gen Z. I got a DM on Instagram and it upset me so much I deleted it. So I can't. We can't read it to you exactly, but let me paraphrase it. And basically it said, stop writing these horrifying articles. I think it said that essentially to start, it was, I was arrested, so I hit delete. It says, your generation gave us climate change, school shootings, terrorism, racism, LGBT hate. You did this to us and now you want us to live by your values. No, thank you. I think I've captured that pretty well. And I'm. Okay, I'm processing that. Before I comment on all of this bucket, let's hear from some others who wrote me about it. Here's one from a 23 year old from Los Angeles who wrote me an email. I think achievement and scope should be.

B (17:58)

Top values for all generations.

A (17:59)

But is work centrism a realistic top value for anyone other than, like, hiring managers? I'm excited to build a career and I've been raised to believe that work.

B (18:09)

Is work and not necessarily my passion. I know the importance of work, but.

A (18:13)

Work centrism seems void of meaning or fulfillment. All right, before we go on, let me just comment on this one. I think this person is basically saying, how can work centrism even be a value? And it is. I was giving a lecture the Other day in class and I had in a guest speaker a person who been in business her whole life and she had just taken the values bridge and she pointed out to the class that work centrism is her top value. It's in my top five values. I know this strikes a whole generation is very odd that you could just love work and that work could have meaning and fulfillment. So I want to push back on this Gen Z' er who shares some values that I have, but also says get out of here on work. And that's really generationally different. I love Gen Z and the changes they are making in our work, culture and society. It's radical and needed. They question the status quo and make their own paths and are very stubborn in doing so. A culture less focused on performance and achievement might be a negative for investors and profits, but it's a positive for humanity in general. Not saying profit or performance is a bad thing, but there is a balance. No one dies happy they spent their life achieving more. People want fulfillment and meaning, not financial growth at any cost to their actual lives. Okay, I have to push back on this. I have to push back on this. I hate the line that everybody always has, which is no one is ever on their deathbed saying, I wish I worked more. You know what? I might be on my deathbed saying that. I mean, I don't like the presumption that everybody's on their deathbed saying the exact same thing. Okay, you know, I wish I'd been with my family more. Some people, yeah, but this is the whole thing about values. Values are choices and they're not for you to impose on anybody else. So here we have a person saying, you know, no one wants to, no one dies wanting they achieved more. I don't know. I think my husband died wishing he had kept on achieving. I mean, if achievement is a top value and it truly is a top value, you may very well be on your deathbed wishing you were achieving more. So don't put your Gen Z doesn't want us to put our values on them. Don't put your values on me. And then people want fulfillment and meaning, not financial growth at any cost. Well, that's not exactly true because lots of people have affluence as their number one value. And who are you to judge if they're not hurting anybody? So this presumption that Gen Z's values around self care and voice and balance should be shared by everybody is just as doctrinaire as telling us that we shouldn't have the values that we have. So I kind of push back on this. Gen Z has every right to their values. What I don't think anybody has a right to is to tell any other generation what their values should be. But we should all accept that there are consequences to our values. There are consequences to my values. I saw my kids less than they probably would have liked. All is forgiven. But every value has consequences. And if your values are self care and voice and helping people, then maybe there's going to be a consequence that you're not going to also have maybe the wealth that you want somewhere in your list of values. So there are trade offs in life and I don't think we should be mad at each other about the trade offs. But if you also want to have a meaningful high paying job, whether or not you can hold fully express the values you have, it's a question you have to grapple with where you end up. I don't care. Not my business. But it is a question to grapple with. All right, the fourth bucket was about blame, blame, blame. And the bucket was who's to blame for this phenomenon. And well, it's a big wide net that everybody cast. A lot of people blame parents. Then there was the blaming of education and then finally the blaming of government or politicians. Let's hear from some of the finger pointing people who responded to my Wall.

B (22:07)

Street journal piece achievement 61% wish they had less of it in their lives. The consequence of a generation of parents giving gold stars and trophies to everyone just for showing up. People crave honest feedback. An entire generation has been let down by not giving it to them.

A (22:25)

Okay, so that's the very typical of the comments blaming the parents. Parents coddled their kids. The thinking goes, they never made them work hard, they never made them understand there were consequences. And now you've got kids who are, who want to, you know, take care of themselves and lay around and blog about their personal lives and then they wonder why they can't get jobs. So a lot of blame on parents. It's possible. It's definitely possible. I mean, but you know, parents aren't the only thing that raise you, friends, raise you, raised your culture, raises you, society and your times raise you. But I'm not going to take parents off the table. My kids are not Gen Z. I definitely had an impact on them and their values. But I think one thing that most parents don't do is even talk to their kids about values. And if parents are to blame, parents are going to be the ones holding the bucket anyway. Because what's going to happen is the kids that they raised to not want to have high achievement are going to be needing their help financially to live in this world. So if parents reaped it, they're going to sow it. All right, here's somebody else blaming education.

B (23:35)

No surprise here. The younger generations have not been STEM and have not been taught the realities of the physical or economic world. They have been indoctrinated to believe that the wonderfulness is derived from liberal fantasies. They have been declared by liberals to be the most educated people in history because they have been awarded college degrees. As in every everybody is a winner, just as they were taught as children. But most degrees are useless in reflecting practical education. Further, due to the destructive appearance of social media and constant video gaming, they are socially incompetent. What could they possibly offer someone that is trying to create and market products and or services? The only thing that they are good for is an education as determined by other educators demanding that they be able to regurgitate their indoctrination or the government.

A (24:16)

All right, I don't agree with everything in this comment, but I certainly agree with some of it, and that is that education is not very practical these days. And in my classes at nyu, they are taught a lot of and look, NYU is a fine, fine business school, and they're taught a lot of theories about leadership and about managing. And then they come into my class on managing with purpose and I'm like, let's just take off the gloves here and talk about what it's really like. And I think that it's very important that they learn the theories that they do. Their education would not be complete without it. But I'm very happy to be there and say let's talk about what it's really like when somebody screws up at work and you have to let them go the right way. And let's talk about how hard it really is to hire and fire properly and everything else that's messy about really being in business. And I think that just in General, K through 12 education does not do a good job of giving kids language to talk about what they should do with their lives. So I'm not like breaking any news stories here by saying that education is kind of a mess. Whether or not it's the reason for this dynamic that we're seeing, it's going to be right along there with parents. I mean, something caused it. So let's throw education in while we're at it. And then finally we have some people who blame social media, video Games has been making people socially incompetent. And this is the territory that my esteemed and colleague John Haidt, who I truly revere, writes about in the Anxious Generation. He has incredible data. Hard to argue that social media and gaming have not played a role in where people find themselves today. And then there's people who just sort of blame the economy writ large. And I spoke to this a little earlier when saying jobs are going away with AI and they basically say this is happening because jobs are going away and they're throwing up their hands and, and saying why should I fight and change who I am to go after jobs that don't exist anyway? It's a very meta blaming but they basically say that almost the Gen Z has no choice in this matter. They're just responding to gigantic economic forces that are out of their control. And you know what? All of the above may be true. And again, I didn't write the article to sign blame or responsibility. I didn't. That's not my area of expertise. My area of expertise, such as it were, is to help people identify their values, their aptitudes and their economically viable interests and in doing so create lives of design, create lives that they want to live, that make them feel exquisitely alive in a very tough time in a very, in a very complicated economic environment. You know, that's my lane and I'm staying in it. I'm not going up to the lane where I say and now I want to explain why the world is the way it is. But I can and do have data that says, hey look, this phenomenon's going on. Hiring managers are looking for these three values and Gen Z has these other values over here and there's only 2% overlap. The fact that that number and the size of it is making people so rattled is even more data for me. It makes me want to dig deeper into our data. But I'm not, I'm not here to address the root causes. I'm only here to help individuals get to their area of transcendence to their purpose. That's, that's, that's my, the role I'm playing in all this. And it was a little bit, you know, this week it really felt like a little bit like please don't shoot the messenger. And I think that this is the last thing I want to talk about which is kind of this firestorm, this, you know, being at the center of people just coming at you left, right and center with strong opinions and, and then there's sort of people like, who come out Sort of like my academic credentials and ask, you know, isn't she just the wife of Jack Welch? Why would we ever listen to what she had to say? I was like, well, okay, you know, I've done some other things in my life, although I'm very proud to have been Jack's wife, you know, I have the credentials to have conducted this research. And so there's always a number of people who even just come at me that way, you know, and it actually made me think about this thing I've done with becoming you, which is I put myself in a certain place in the conversation where people end up talking about me and they talk about my work. And I didn't have to write this article. It's not like I was stupid. I understood that this article with this data point was going to certainly cause conversation. And I even, you know, the day before it came out, we knew it was coming out, I actually said to my team, buckle your seatbelts, don't read the comments. And so I knew it was coming. But there's a value called luminance, and that's the desire for fame to be known. And for me, it's kind of a moderate value. It's not like I, I don't, I, I'm. It's not a peripheral value. It's not like I don't, I want to, I don't want to be off the grid. I like being part of the conversation. It's one of the reasons I admire, say, Martha Stewart so much or Oriana Flachi, as these were women who, who were willing to take with a certain kind of fearlessness, take the, you know, the shit that comes with saying, I have an opinion and I have something I want to say. And when you stand up in male or female and say, I have an opinion, I have something I want to say. You have to be ready for people to say, I really disagree with you. And I don't like the fact that they say, I disagree with you and I hate you. I just think we all should stop saying that. I think part of what the values bridge language does is it allows us to say we have different values. Let's see if we can build a bridge between our understanding of them. I mean, that's part of what I want to do. But I think that if I'm going to keep doing with what I do and people are going to keep talking about it the way they've been talking about it, there's such a big upside to that, which is it's really exciting. It's wildly gratifying, you know, to have people say to you, your work really matters. I love what you're doing. But you know, what comes in with that is that people always say crummy things, too, you know, And I come to peace with it. I'm doing this thing. I believe in this thing. And actually a wonderful thing happened towards the end of the day when I was feeling kind of overwhelmed. I got this message. I want to read it. It's from a person who I actually know because I gave a speech to her organization and she wrote me saying this. Susie, comments received on your Wall Street Journal opinion piece today confirm my belief and personal experiences that in one's professional life, one, it's never easy to be out on the leading edge or here, substitute bleeding edge due to the ferocity of the comments. And two, those who feel most threatened tend to be the most condescending and hurtful and actually more accurately, snarky in their comments. Susie, take them all as compliments. You hit a nerve and are pushing the boundaries. So I'll take that. I'll take being on the leading edge. I'll take them all as compliments. And I think that's where I'm going to land with this. And actually, when you are in the process of becoming you, you are stepping out of your comfort zone by definition, and you are kind of on the leading bleeding edge of becoming you. And there are going to be people who come for you, and they're going to be people who challenge you, and they're going to be people who are threatened by what you are doing and discovering about yourself. And either you're in or you're out. Either you believe in you and what you're doing or you don't. And so I'm going to hold myself up as kind of a case of a person who finally got the courage to do something scary and what I believed in. And I'll take it. I'll take it. You know, that number is 2%. I say a lot of other things that make people uncomfortable. Go ahead me all you want. I'm ready to talk. I'll see you next week. I'm Susie Welch, and this show is produced by the amazing, amazing and fabulous Mikey Robley, Aliza Zinn, Issa Lampson and Hallie Reiner. 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