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Kate Lister
Hello my lovely betwixters. It's me, Kate Lister and you are listening to Betwixt the Sheets. And in case you just wandered in off the street and have no idea what goes on around here, I have to tell you, this is an adult podcast spoken by adults to other adults about adulty things in an adulty way, covering a range of adult subjects. And you should be an adult too. And if you're not, then be off with you. We don't need you getting upset while the rest of us are enjoying ourselves. For everyone else, on with the show, don't mind me betwixters. I have just hopped over into the Garden of Eden to see what's what. I'm actually quite peckish and the fruit is looking pretty good around here. I mean, what could be the harm, right? Well, it turns out, quite a lot of harm indeed. Far from an apple a day keeping the doctor away, Eve picked one and then the whole of mankind was plunged into chaos and women were blamed for being thrown out of paradise forevermore from an apple.
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Kate Lister
And the fact that it was Eve that did this, that it was a woman that did this, took on a hell of a lot of meaning in the centuries to come. Because only someone who was weak willed and easily led would be stealing apples. At least that was the idea that took hold, particularly in the medieval period, amongst many other theories. So let's grab some more apples and find out more.
Professor Ruth Karas
What do you look for? A man?
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Kate Lister
You're supposed to rise when an adult speaks to you.
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Boss needs by just turning a knob and pushing a button. Era now. Era now. Yes, social courtesy does make a difference. Goodness, my beautiful dad. Goodness has nothing to do with it.
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Kate Lister
Hello, and welcome back to Betwixt the Sheets, the history of sex scandal in society with me, Kate Lister. A very happy new year to all our old and new listeners. Hello, we're very glad to have you here. Who knows what 2025 holds, but we can always rely on the past to provide stimulating, fascinating and downright naughty entertainment. Take the medieval period, for example. This is a time that we often think of as being dominated by the Catholic Church. A hell of a lot of thou shalt not went on. Or did it Just because the church was saying, behave yourselves, does that mean that everybody did? Why did they think of sexual desire as a particularly female trait? How were sexually transmitted infections thought of and treated? And is there any way that we could consider them a progressive, even sex positive society? Well, joining me to find out more is Professor Ruth Karas, author of well, freaking loads of books on medieval sex, but author of Sexuality in Medieval Europe, Doing Unto Others. There is nobody better to help me find out more. Pilgrim badges and wimples at the ready. Betwixters. Let's do this. Hello and welcome to Betwixt the Sheets. It's only Professor Ruth Karas. How are you doing?
Professor Ruth Karas
I'm very well, thank you. I'm delighted to meet you after having followed your work.
Kate Lister
Are you kidding me?
Professor Ruth Karas
Yeah.
Kate Lister
I followed your work for years. You are like an academic superstar in medieval sexuality and medieval sex work. I've got everything you've ever written. Honestly, I'm so thrilled to be talking to you today, I really am.
Professor Ruth Karas
Well, thank you.
Kate Lister
Can I ask as a start off, what brought you to study medieval sexuality? Because honestly, you're such a big name in this field.
Professor Ruth Karas
Actually, I was inspired by a professor that I had when I was, I think, in my second year at university, John Boswell, whose work, I'm sure you know, and the first thing I ever wrote on sex work in the Middle Ages was an essay for his class on the early Middle Ages. And that would have been back in 1976, 1977 or thereabouts, when you were.
Kate Lister
Researching this in the 70s, because the field of the history of sexuality is. It's quite vibrant now and there's more and more people entering the field, more and more work being done. But in the 70s, when you started studying medieval sexuality, did you get a lot of resistance around that? What was the field like at the time?
Professor Ruth Karas
When I said this started in the 70s, I mean, I was an undergraduate then. This was just one as. I mean, I wasn't sort of identified as a researcher in that area when I started doing it, seriously, which would have been the mid-80s, I got an awful lot of nudge, nudge, wink, wink. Yes, not so much. This isn't a real subject of study, at least not to my face, although I expect there was some of that there in the background.
Kate Lister
It still gets a lot of wink, wink, nudge, nudge. Like people aren't quite sure where to put their reaction to this when you tell them what it is that you study. Is that what it was?
Professor Ruth Karas
Yeah. And, you know, cracking jokes about it, doing experiential research or, you know, identifying with their field of study. And they would say, well, do you do that, Ruth? You know, yeah, like that.
Kate Lister
But your work has been so formative when it comes to studying not just sex work, but sexuality in the medieval period. When you first started researching this, what sources and documents were you drawing on? Because it was a relatively new field of study, or were there other scholars who were working that you were able to talk to?
Professor Ruth Karas
There were some other scholars. A lot of people in the field of literature.
Kate Lister
Yeah.
Professor Ruth Karas
Not that many historians. I was using largely court records. There are a lot of people who work on court records for different kinds of things, but were very welcoming of somebody else starting to use this kind of source. And let me give a shout out here. The article that I'm probably best known for was about Eleanor or John Reichner, who was probably trans sex worker in the late 14th century. And the way I discovered that was that Sheila Lindenbaum, who was a professor of English literature, said to me, oh, you know, I was reading through these London court records, you know, this case. And I was reading through the London court records by using a calendar. So it was sort of a printed summary of the records that had been published in 1927. And the case she referred me to, all that was in the calendar was two men convicted of immorality. And I was working on sex work. And so I was looking for women.
Kate Lister
Yes.
Professor Ruth Karas
And so I said, oh, well, this is if it said a man and a woman, I would have looked at the case. But this said two men. And I said, okay, this must be some other kind of immorality. I mean, I wasn't really thinking about same sex relationships at that time. She put me onto it and she said, I looked at it because I was interested in the use of space in late medieval London. I'm not doing research on sexuality. If you want to go with it, do whatever you like with it. And so I took that and sort of said, oh, well, maybe I should be thinking about male sex workers also. Or, I mean, I was thinking of Reichner at that time as a male sex worker. Now, I don't think it's at all clear, but another scholar who was not working in the history of sexuality, but who took this seriously as a field, who was feeding me information, what was.
Kate Lister
That like when you looked at that case and you sort of put two and two together? Hang on a minute, hang on a minute here. This is Eleanor Riker suddenly becomes John Riker with this really lurid story. Was there a moment where you were like, oh, my God, this could be a trans sex worker from the Middle Ages.
Professor Ruth Karas
This is the part that's a bit embarrassing because when I published this, which I think was in 1990 or 1991, along with a colleague from English literature, we called the article a Transvestite Prostitute in Late Medieval London. And I would not use either of those terms today. I mean, I would say a trans or possibly trans or gender fluid sex worker.
Kate Lister
Yeah, but I mean, at the time.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yes, right. I mean, I was, I. We're not all prisoners of our vocabularies, because if we were all prisoners of it, then things would never change. But it's hard to think outside the terms that are current at the time that you're writing.
Kate Lister
When we're thinking of the medieval period, what chunk of time are you thinking of when somebody says medieval?
Professor Ruth Karas
Approximately 500 to 1500. But people have different start and end dates depending on which part of Europe you're talking about, or indeed if you're talking about another part of the world. So 500 to 1500 are nice, round, arbitrary dates.
Kate Lister
It's a thousand years of history, like, give or take. So if you're looking at something like sex and attitudes to sex, I mean, apart from the acts themselves, which have remained fairly consistent over. Over history, have you found that attitudes around sex can be called consistent within that chunk of time over a thousand years? Or do they change dramatically, radically? Is there anything that you could be called characteristic of medieval sexuality.
Professor Ruth Karas
One thing that is relatively stable across that period is that all sex outside of marriage is bad.
Kate Lister
Yes.
Professor Ruth Karas
There was always an attitude that all sex was bad that emanated from monastic life. Monks and nuns were supposed to renounce all sexual activity. They took vows of chastity. And a lot of the writing that we have about sex from the Middle Ages comes from a monastic context. And therefore we get perhaps a distorted idea. To the extent that they were talking to each other and not to the laity, we're hearing only about monastic sexuality. And to the extent they were talking to the laity, it's not at all clear that the laity were listening to them. But is that the only way to salvation through renunciation? And not only renunciation of sex. Renunciation of delicious food, you know, you were supposed to eat only what was necessary to keep your body alive and not get great pleasure from it. Renunciation of comfortable clothing and bedding. I mean, the monk or the nun was supposed to live an ascetic life in all respects. So is that the only way to salvation? And the saying was that virgins get a hundredfold reward in heaven, widows a 70 fold reward in heaven, and married people a 30 fold reward in heaven. Marriage was not as good as virginity, but it was good.
Kate Lister
Yeah.
Professor Ruth Karas
Augustine said it's not a lesser evil, it's just that virginity is a greater good. And Augustine was the most popular author of Middle Ages. Even though he's writing at the very beginning of the period, he's very widely read. If you sinned within marriage, which is to say, if you had sex within marriage, that was not for reproductive purposes, that was okay. That was not a mortal sin. You know, if you did it just for pleasure and you confessed it and you did a penance, it was not that big a deal as compared to if you did it outside of marriage. But sex outside of marriage was officially condemned through the Middle Ages. That doesn't mean that it didn't happen. But I think there was a major change in attitudes towards sex within marriage that comes in the 12th, 13th century. Several things happen then. One is that marriage begins to be officially considered a sacrament. There hadn't been sort of a formal sacramental theology around marriage, marriage up till that time. The other thing is that there are people around who are espousing a life of purity and renunciation of sex, not within the monastic context. And they get labeled as heretics, really. And yes, I thought they would have.
Kate Lister
Been really into that. They'd have been going, well done.
Professor Ruth Karas
No no, no. In fact, there's a story told again by a monk of a man who was trying to seduce a woman, and she refused. And she told him that it would be a sin for her to have sex with him. And so he denounced her as a heretic on the grounds that, you know, she was anti sex. And the people who were known to later historians as Cathars, although that's not what they called themselves, but a group of people, largely in the south of France, although elsewhere in Europe as well, who, as far as we can tell, believed in renunciation of the flesh, and they are condemned as heretics. And so then the church starts saying, no, we think sex for reproduction within marriage is really a good thing. And there starts being a lot of talk about nature and the natural. And talking about nature and the natural can be a way of condemning some activities as unnatural, but it also can be a way of saying, you know, well, what does nature do? I mean, nature is for reproduction. Every spring, the animals are reproducing and the plants are reproducing. You know, the birds and the bees are reproducing, and people need to be doing it, too. And so there's still this ascetic strand, and that renunciation is the best, but there is also a strand of thought that says, you know, marriage is good, reproduction is good, sex is good, sex is good when it's for reproduction. And this attitude that it's good was the case all along. For example, in Jewish culture, there's a very interesting book by a scholar called Jeremy Cohen about the Bible verse, be fruitful and multiply.
Kate Lister
Okay?
Professor Ruth Karas
And how it was interpreted across the medieval period. But even before the medieval period, I mean, he really covers it for millennia, how that verse is interpreted in Christian and Jewish culture. And in Jewish culture, it's an absolute commandment. I mean, men were supposed to have the duality of that commandment, be fruitful and multiply, like it's two different things. They said, well, what could it mean by using two different words for the same thing? And in biblical interpretation, whenever there's a redundancy, they'll say, well, that must be because it has two different meanings. And what they interpreted as the meaning of this was you needed to have at least one male child and one female child. And so a man or a woman should not renounce sexual activity until they sort of done their duty, obeyed the commandment by having one male and one female child. And that's why if a man died and he hadn't had children, this is back in Biblical times. This is not in medieval times where the Jews did not practice polygamy, but in biblical times, the woman was supposed to marry the man's brother and the first son and first daughter she had with her husband, brother in law would not be her new husband's children. They would be considered her first husband's children. And his brother was sort of doing the obeying the commandment of being fruitful and multiplying on his brother's behalf.
Kate Lister
There are a lot of conflicting messages here, Ruth, aren't there? Like you might just be the medieval person walking around trying to work out what it is you're supposed to be doing. Here is you've got one hand, you've got things like that in the Bible, like go forth and multiply, get on with it quicker. If you can't do it, your brother will. And then on the other hand, you've got Augustus going, let's really try not to have sex, I suppose, if you, if you have to. All right. And then there are so many conflicting messages. How do we start to understand if any of that translated to the general populace? Because just because church leaders are saying something doesn't mean that people were listening, that it had an impact. How do we get to what normal people were doing?
Professor Ruth Karas
It's hard to know what normal people were doing. I mean, we know they were having children, we have, you know, inheritance records and so on. And obviously the population of medieval Europe did not disappear, but by the later Middle Ages, we have not necessarily sermons that were preached. I mean, we don't have recordings, but we have handbooks for preachers that give, like, little stories to tell in your sermons. And I love that. The one that I really like is, I think it's a priest who has a vision and the angel shows him his congregation and some of them are shining with halos on. And he says, those are married women. How come they're shining with halos on? Why isn't it the celibate people who are, who have the halos? And the angel tells him, you know, these are women who had sex with their husbands in order to bear children. And when their husbands died, you know, they remained chaste and they also did lots of good works, they did charity in the community and all these things. And so they are the ones who have fully obeyed God's commandments more than, say, those who renounced sex but weren't kind to their neighbors or various other things. So that's what's being preached to the laity in the later Middle Ages, because it was understood that eternal chastity was not for everyone. You wanted to encourage your congregation to live a life as God commanded, You know, as a layperson.
Kate Lister
They also have this, again, another contradictory narrative to this one. They have this very, very powerful right, women, behave yourselves. You can have sex with your husband, but then you're gonna stop when he dies. And behave yourselves. But they also have this narrative that comes through that women are insatiable sex maniacs who can't be trusted. I think the first time I ever learned that was through your work, actually, as I think I was in my ma. How do those two things fit together? Why did people in the Middle Ages think that women were more highly sex than men? What was the rationale for that?
Professor Ruth Karas
It's really hard to say. Why? I can tell you the rationale that they gave, which is sort of a story used to dress it up. But it was. I mean, the story of Adam and Eve that it was Eve who had tempted Adam with the apple. It's basically because women are weak.
Kate Lister
Weak, yeah.
Professor Ruth Karas
It's not that men don't also feel desire like women, but men are stronger and more able to control it. Therefore, Adam might be considered just as guilty as Eve because Eve was the one who tempted him and instigated him into eating the apple and disobeying God, but he's the one who was stronger and should have known better. So it's sort of based on women's weakness, really.
Kate Lister
It's this really strange one when you see it cropping up. Is it the idea that men were just as horny, but they could control themselves? Or was it the idea that women were naturally more desirous? I think it's a very male fantasy, that one. They look, lads, they just can't help themselves. They'll be all over you.
Professor Ruth Karas
I think the idea really was that men were stronger, men were more rational.
Kate Lister
Yeah.
Professor Ruth Karas
And therefore they were in a better position to control their desires.
Kate Lister
Yeah.
Professor Ruth Karas
The way I think of it is up till the 13th century, the line was, women are more sinful than men because of Eve and so on. And from the 13th century you get. And women are also inferior and weak and stupid because they've rediscovered Aristotle. And that's what he says.
Kate Lister
And he says it. Yes, he says it a lot, you see.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yes.
Kate Lister
And then St. Jerome turns up. Oh, God, yes. St. Jerome.
Professor Ruth Karas
St. Jerome, you know, is when he says all these terrible things about women. He's writing against marriage there and his relations with. He had a couple of pen pals who he wrote to a lot, a rich Roman widow who basically supported him and then her daughter. And he was always polite to them and told them what to do. He mansplained a lot of things to them, but he gave them. He always spoke in a respectful tone and he respected, you know, the choice of chaste widowhood and so on. I mean, of course he did. They were supporting him. That was their philanthropy. But when he wrote about, you know, how horrible and dangerous women are, he is writing two men about marriage and he's saying, don't get married because, you know, women are temptresses and will do all these horrible things. It had a considerable effect on women, I would say. But he wasn't writing two women there. He's writing two men.
Kate Lister
I'll be back with Ruth after the short break.
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Kate Lister
If I could throw you a curveball because it's just something that I've been looking at lately. Was there any sense of menopause in the Middle Ages that you can think of? Because the only real thing that I can find about it is St. Jerome, who chips in with something along the lines of I can't paraphrasing now, but it's like, oh, because menstruations ended, you are now no longer spiritually a woman and you can basically look forward to a contented life of croning or something. And sounds like him, right?
Professor Ruth Karas
There are commentators about this again on the question of sex within marriage and how you should do it only for the sake of reproduction. Well, after You've passed your reproductive years, which is more obvious than in women, than in men. Is it still okay to have sex within marriage? And the answer was, yes, it is, because God is all powerful. And if God wanted you to have another child, he would cause you to be fertile when you're having sex with your husband. And therefore, as long as you're open to the possibility of having another child, if God wants you to, then it's fine to have sex after menopause.
Kate Lister
Ah, interesting. While we're on the subject of medieval understanding of how the body works, kind of menopause stuff, erections fascinate me, what the medieval people thought of erections, because that ties into their understanding of aphrodisiacs as well.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yes. And it also ties into the idea of fertility. I mean, you'll see little men with erections running around in the margins of, say, the Bay of Tapestry.
Kate Lister
So many willies on that. It's unbelievable.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yes. And I found in one of the volumes of court records from medieval Paris that I was looking at recently, there's one page where it's full of dick pics. You know, the person is just doodled them. And it's not because there's anything on that page that is a warranty. Yeah. It's just that the scribe got bored.
Kate Lister
We've never changed.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yeah. So they made a really strong connection in the Middle Ages between impotence and infertility. I mean, we know today, I mean, there are men with perfectly healthy erections and perfectly healthy sex lives who nevertheless are infertile. I mean, they have a low sperm count. But in the Middle Ages, it would not. I mean, they didn't think of that. You know, if the man was capable of having sex, then it was the woman's fault. If, of course, if they didn't have children. And there are, in fact, a marriage could be dissolved if the couple were incapable of having sex. And so, I mean, I see this in the court records that I'm looking at now, and a number of other people have written about this. If one partner complains that the other is unable to have sex, then experts would be called in to testify. And sometimes these are doctors who are called in to examine, but in some cases it's midwives who are called in to examine the man. And in some of the cases in York, there are sex workers who are called in to examine the man, and they're supposed to fondle him and dance around naked and so on to see if he can get direction. Then they. They describe what happens and it's really quite funny.
Kate Lister
Could you imagine that's your entry point into history is a court record where they called in a bunch of sex workers to try and help you get it up and you failed.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yep.
Kate Lister
That. It's the humiliation in it. Why were they doing that? Like, because that when from a modern point of view, that is objectively, it's hilarious. It's a completely mad thing to be doing. They must have had a reason for this. Why wouldn't they just accept the wife has turned up and said, look, guys, I like him, but he can't get it up. Why do they have to subject it to this? Right, I'll tell you what we need. We need a midwife, a priest and a sex worker here immediately.
Professor Ruth Karas
That was one of the few ways you could get out of a marriage you didn't want to be in.
Kate Lister
Oh, yes.
Professor Ruth Karas
So if the woman says, I want out of this marriage, my husband is incapable of having sex with me, and she also would say, and I want children, that's part of the formula that you more or less had to say. And he says, no, that's not true. That's how they find out the truth. If you couldn't prove something like that, you couldn't get the marriage dissolved. You could get what they called divorce, but it's more like what we would call a judicial separation. You didn't have to live together, you'd have the property divided, but you still had to, as I say, render the marriage debt if the other member of the couple wanted it and you didn't have the right to remarry. So if you had been pushed into a marriage that you thought was a mistake, claiming that you were unable to consummate the marriage would be a way of getting out of it. But you would never have the couple sort of agreeing to go into court and say, oh, we have been unable to consummate this marriage, because then if you were sort of labeled as impotent, you would never be able to marry anybody else either.
Kate Lister
Right.
Professor Ruth Karas
So only one party is going to be making that claim.
Kate Lister
Have you ever found any records of a man bringing a woman to court saying that she can't have sex? Oh, you have?
Professor Ruth Karas
Yes. And there's a very interesting case that Shannon McSheffrey found recently. I don't know whether she's published it or not, of a woman or, well, someone who was considered to be a woman, married as a woman, but who may have been intersex. And there are a number of cases. They're much rarer. Than women claiming a man's impotence. But they're saying that the woman was unable to be entered, basically, and that again, she would be examined by doctors or midwives to see whether that is the case.
Kate Lister
And am I right in thinking that they understood an erection to be full of air, that that was kind of like inflated, like a pneumatic penis?
Professor Ruth Karas
That I don't know, because I've read.
Kate Lister
That they believed chickpeas were an aphrodisiac for this reason, because they thought that foods that doth provoked wind, that windy foods was an aphrodisiac.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yes, they did think that windy foods were aphrodisiac. I'm not sure that that's because they thought the penis inflated.
Kate Lister
Why would they think windy foods would make you horny? That seems like the least horny kind of food to me.
Professor Ruth Karas
Well, it has to do with the balance of the humors, the four bodily humors. So color, yellow bile, black bile, and blood. And, you know, they had to be in proper balance. But men were thought to be more controlled by blood. That is sanguine. The four sort of personalities you get from it are sanguine, if blood is dominant, melancholic if black bile is dominant, choleric if the yellow bile is dominant, or phlegmatic if phlegm is dominant. And the idea is that to be healthy, you want to have these humors all in proper balance with, you know, it's going to be out of balance a little bit. And that's what dictates your personality type.
Kate Lister
And farting can help this.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yeah. And the balance also corresponds in various ways to the different elements of earth, water, wind and fire. And so you would eat windy foods for get you in balance. This is sort of what they got from ancient Greek medicine.
Kate Lister
God love them, God love the ancient Greeks. But what about something like STIs? Because now we are. We're very on that. We've got public information programs and it's part of sex ed curriculums at school. But in the Middle Ages, what kind of sexual diseases would they. Was syphilis just towards the end of that particular period. But what was their understanding of sexually transmitted diseases?
Professor Ruth Karas
They knew you could get diseases. You can read through catalogs of diseases of the sexual organs. They refer to something called gonorrhea, but it's the Greek word. Gonorrhea means a discharge from the genital area. That name was given in the modern era to a particular disease caused by a particular pathogen. But it wasn't understood that way in the Middle Ages, it was just a discharge. And they understood discharges not to be so much caused by contagion because they didn't understand germ theory. They understood them to be caused by overindulgence. For example, there's a 14th century English poem trying to discourage people from having sex with sex workers. And it says, one reason is that measles, M e s L E s have sex with them. And that word could mean lepers, people with Hansen's disease, but it could also mean just anybody with a rash. I mean, because they didn't have a clear diagnosis. You don't want to have sex with a sex worker because somebody who has this unspecified disease has already had sex with them. And the implication is that it's therefore going to be contagious. But I'm not sure they understood it in that specific way. Rather, it's just they're in general filthy because a filthy person has previously had sex with them.
Kate Lister
We should talk about sex work, because your research in this area has been absolutely, well, transformative. It was in your work that I learned about lavenders. That was one of my favorite sex worker medieval facts ever. Tell us about that one for anyone who's not familiar.
Professor Ruth Karas
So a lavender is a laundress. The word comes from the Latin word for washing. And the reason the plant is called lavender is because it was used to make laundry smell good. There was a strong connection between washers and sex workers, and possibly because people who did washing handled dirty clothes and intimate items. But more likely, I think was because that was who came into your house. And particularly for houses of men, monastic houses, they might have men as their servants, but for some reason it was always women who did the washing. And you get this in regulations for medieval colleges within universities. Be sure that the person who does your washing is an old woman. And it may be also that that was something that either sex workers supplemented their income by doing washing, or washers who tended to be poor supplemented their income with sex work. And that was sort of the stereotype.
Kate Lister
And they came to be known as lavender, didn't they, sex workers?
Professor Ruth Karas
Well, they came to be known more commonly as spinsters. I mean, spinster is a woman who spins.
Kate Lister
Yep.
Professor Ruth Karas
And that was understood already in the 15th century to be the equivalent of a woman who is not married, because that woman who's not married has to support herself. And that was often how she did it, by spinning. But you also will occasionally see an equation of spinsters in the sense of women who spin, or single women as sex workers. Any woman who wasn't married could be suspect.
Kate Lister
I'll be back with Ruth after this short break.
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Kate Lister
I was reading a book recently about attitudes to sex in medieval Germany, and I'm not going to attempt to pronounce the word because it like it took up the entire page, but there was a word there that they used for these single, independent women, and it translates to women who earn their own bread. And that was their name. And it was also they were regarded with suspicion and local towns were passing laws about them and like, be careful of these women in your house. And it was that they were of independent means and they were associated with sex work too.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yeah, well, it was an accusation used to essentially keep women in their place. I mean, you see that today too. And there's a difference between a formal accusation and just an insult. Yes, that's why in the book I wrote, I often translated the Latin word meritrix not as prostitute, but as you know, when we say sex worker, we use that phrase because we want to give the person respect as a person doing a particular job. But when they use the Latin word meritrix, which in some cases should be translated as sex worker. But often they weren't using it to give women respect, they were using it to give women disrespect. I mean, if someone uses the word whore as an insult today, it may have a technical meaning of a woman who has sex for money, but when people use it, they just mean, you know, a woman who is sexually inappropriate or a woman who I wish to insult.
Kate Lister
And what were attitudes to women who really. And men who really were selling sex. Because it seems that attitudes to sex work were very different from our own modern understanding.
Professor Ruth Karas
I mean, the range of attitudes was not very different from our own. I mean, on the one hand, you have, you know, these are members of our community, these are women, or in some cases, men, although we have a lot less information on that. These are people who are members of our community, and this is how they are earning their living and they're entitled to the pay for their work. And on the other hand, you have the church teaching, no, these women are sinful and they're filthy and they don't actually, you know, have a right to anything. There's a whole discussion about this in the University of Paris in the 12th century about should a sex worker be given her wage? And the answer that they come up with is, well, yes, if she's agreed a price with the customer, then it's his obligation to pay it. Unless she's wearing makeup.
Kate Lister
Oh, my God.
Professor Ruth Karas
Because if she's wearing makeup, that means that she has committed fraud or deception by making herself look more beautiful than she actually is, and therefore he's been defrauded. He doesn't have an obligation to pay.
Kate Lister
That's just. I just imagine just large groups of men sitting around in meetings day after day, coming up with this stuff.
Professor Ruth Karas
That's the thing that, because the medieval church is, you know, required all men in major orders to be celibate, and because a lot of boys left home at a pretty early age to be educated, you have this group of men who haven't been around any women. I mean, they haven't been around their mothers and sisters since they were quite young. They haven't been around any women except laundresses. I mean, that's a bit of an exaggeration. I mean, some of them would have had landladies, some of them would have, you know, come into contact with other women, you know, who are selling things in the market and so on, and at the top levels within monasteries or universities. Those in charge would certainly come in contact with women philanthropists and donors, but for the most part, they've not led a home life with women since they were quite young. And they basically use women to think with. I mean, some of these people, Peter the Chanter and his circle, are the ones who I was talking about who were sort of theorizing about sex work, and they theorized about a lot of practical things, but they're talking about a sex worker getting paid is part of their theorizing of what is fair in the market. And they're actually talking about the market because they're located within the university, but it's in medieval Paris. They're in a major city, they're coming in contact with the market, so that's why they're thinking about these things. But there are also just a lot of discussions about various things in texts from the medieval universities where they're using women to think with. They're not talking about real women. What is it a woman's obligation to do if a tyrant says to her, if you don't have sex with me, I'm going to kill a thousand people? Should she do it in order to save a thousand lives? And their answer is, she should not do it, because even if she and a thousand other people are put to death, they are martyrs and they're going to go to heaven.
Kate Lister
I would never get to medieval heaven. I would mess this up every. That makes no sense to me at all.
Professor Ruth Karas
No, I wouldn't get to medieval heaven either, for a variety of reasons.
Kate Lister
But, you know, I might get to medieval heaven if I went on a pilgrimage, which the final question that I'm going to ask you, because I could keep you here for weeks asking you questions, but I won't. Pilgrimages. Now, anyone that studied Chaucer's Canterbury Tales or knows a bit about it, there's this idea that the medieval pilgrimage was almost like, you know, Ibiza Club, 18 to 30. And you get those pilgrimage badges and you can get, like, replicas of them on Etsy and things, and they're basically penises and vulvas that people were wearing as badges going to pilgrimages. What on earth was that about? What's your thought?
Professor Ruth Karas
So, I. I don't know that those particular ones were actually pilgrimage badges. They were badges certainly that you could get, but I think those are more, you know, you got the one with the cockle shell on it. If you'd been to St. James or whatever other pilgrimage site you'd been to, the others, I think, are just more like the kitsch souvenirs that you buy in the market. And not necessarily the place you've gone on pilgrimage, but the place that you, you know, you've traveled anywhere, what are you going to, you know, bring back for your mates? I mean, like, you might bring back today. Well, not you, but one might bring back, you know, a teacher with a rude slogan on it or something like that.
Kate Lister
I might bring one of those back.
Professor Ruth Karas
Well, yes, depends what the slogan is. Right. But in the same way you'd bring back this badge as a souvenir. Not that everyone you know who went on pilgrimage was all that holy.
Kate Lister
Were they quite rowdy things? Were they. Was that a reputation well deserved?
Professor Ruth Karas
Marjorie Kemp, the author of the first autobiography we have in English, was going on pilgrimage. She went to Rome and she wanted to go to the Holy Land and the people she was with would not let her board the ship with them to go to the Holy Land because they found her company too unpleasant, because she was praying and weeping all the time. They were interested in enjoying themselves on route and she was spoiling it for them.
Kate Lister
I bet she was. So they were. It was the kind of reputation that I guess they did deserve is that it was a bit of a. Bit of a knees up.
Professor Ruth Karas
Yes and no. I mean, people went for a number of reasons and I'm sure there were some people who went entirely for devotional reasons, and some maybe half and half, and some maybe because it was a good opportunity to see the world. I mean, the biggest mistake people make in understanding the Middle Ages is to think that it was one big solid block of people all behaving and thinking the same way. And it certainly wasn't any more than any other time period. Yeah.
Kate Lister
So as a final question then, do you think that we can learn useful things from the medieval period about sex or do you think that we, you know, we're so advanced now, we're so past it, they can't. There's nothing that we can learn from them.
Professor Ruth Karas
I think one thing we can learn is that any gains that we make in terms of attitudes towards women, attitudes towards same sex desires, you know, attitudes towards just about anything, any gains that we make are fragile because you can see how things in the Middle Ages, you know, you have ups and downs and changes and changes between, you know, the Middle Ages and now. I think we can see some backlashes going on right now and I think we can learn from the Middle Ages that we need to watch out for that.
Kate Lister
Ruth, you have been wonderful to talk to. I'm so glad that you came on. If people want to know more about you and your work, where can they find you?
Professor Ruth Karas
I'm on Blue sky under my actual name, although I don't post there a huge amount. And if they're interested in academic publications, I teach at Trinity College Dublin, and they can go to the webpage there for the history department and there's a link there with a listing of all my academic publications.
Kate Lister
Thank you so much for talking to me. You've been marvelous.
Professor Ruth Karas
Well, thank you for having me. This is a lot of fun.
Kate Lister
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Betwixt The Sheets: The History of Sex, Scandal & Society
Episode: Medieval Sex Myths
Host: Kate Lister
Guest: Professor Ruth Karas
Release Date: January 3, 2025
In the episode titled Medieval Sex Myths, host Kate Lister delves deep into the often-misunderstood realm of medieval sexuality with the esteemed historian, Professor Ruth Karas. Together, they explore the intricate tapestry of sexual norms, societal expectations, and the pervasive myths that shaped medieval Europe's understanding of sex and gender.
Professor Karas begins by outlining the overarching medieval perspective on sexuality, emphasizing the dichotomy between sanctioned and condemned sexual activities. A consistent theme across the medieval period, approximately spanning from 500 to 1500 AD, was the belief that "all sex outside of marriage is bad" ([11:29]). This view was heavily influenced by monastic ideals, where monks and nuns took vows of chastity, renouncing all forms of sexual activity in pursuit of spiritual salvation.
However, within the sanctified bounds of marriage, sex was not only permitted but also encouraged—"sex is good when it's for reproduction" ([16:36]). The mid to late Middle Ages witnessed significant shifts, such as the formalization of marriage as a sacrament in the 12th and 13th centuries. This period also saw the emergence of heretical movements like the Cathars, who advocated for complete renunciation of the flesh, challenging the Church's evolving stance on marital sex for procreation.
A critical aspect of medieval sexual norms revolved around perceptions of female desire. Professor Karas explains that women were often depicted as "weak, inferior, and more sinful" than men, a portrayal deeply rooted in biblical narratives like that of Eve's temptation ([21:08]). This characterization served to rationalize the societal expectation that women control their desires to align with religious and moral codes.
The influence of thinkers like Augustine further cemented these views. Augustine posited that "virginity is a greater good" than marriage, reinforcing the idea that celibate lives were morally superior. This attribution not only stigmatized female sexuality but also portrayed men as inherently more rational and capable of controlling their desires ([22:14]).
Professor Karas shares intriguing insights from medieval court records, shedding light on how sexual misconduct and impotence were legally addressed. One notable case involves Eleanor Reichner, a trans sex worker in late 14th-century London. This case exemplifies the complexities of gender and sexuality during the period, though understanding such identities remains challenging due to the limited historical context.
Another fascinating discussion revolves around the legalities of marriage dissolution based on sexual incapacity. As Kate Lister humorously notes, "imagine your entry point into history is a court record where they called in a bunch of sex workers to try and help you get it up and you failed" ([29:23]). These records reveal the social mechanisms through which individuals could attempt to exit unwanted marriages by proving impotence, highlighting the societal pressures surrounding marital and sexual obligations.
The medieval understanding of human biology, particularly regarding menopause and male erections, is another focal point of the discussion. Professor Karas elucidates that post-reproductive sexual activity in marriage was deemed acceptable under the assumption that "God is all-powerful" and could render a woman fertile if He so desired ([26:48]). This belief underscores the intertwining of religious doctrine with physiological perceptions.
Regarding male erections, medieval Europe viewed them as "full of air"—akin to "pneumatic" rather than biological processes. This misconception influenced their understanding of impotence and fertility. For instance, if a man was unable to achieve an erection, it was often attributed to the woman's failure rather than any physiological issues on his part ([31:46]).
Medieval attitudes towards sexually transmitted diseases (STIs) were intertwined with prevailing medical theories, particularly the humoral system. Diseases like gonorrhea were not understood through the lens of contagion but were instead seen as resulting from "overindulgence" in sexual activities ([35:32]). This lack of germ theory meant that descriptions of STIs were vague, often merely noting "discharges from the genital area" without a clear understanding of their causes or transmission methods.
A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to exploring medieval sex work. Professor Karas introduces the term "lavenders", derived from the Latin word for washing, referring to laundresses who were often associated with sex work. This association likely stemmed from their role in handling intimate and dirty garments, making them convenient figures for societal suspicion ([35:47]).
Furthermore, the term "spinster" emerged as a derogatory label for unmarried women, often implying that they resorted to sex work for financial independence. This stigmatization reflects the precarious position of women who lacked marital support and had to navigate societal prejudices to sustain themselves ([37:48]).
The episode also touches upon the intersection of religion and sexuality through the lens of pilgrimages. While modern representations often caricature medieval pilgrimages as hedonistic escapades, Professor Karas clarifies that "many people went for devotional reasons", though some may have sought the social and worldly opportunities these journeys presented ([45:25]). The use of anatomically themed badges at pilgrimage sites likely originated from later interpretations and market-driven souvenirs rather than authentic medieval practices.
Concluding the discussion, Professor Karas emphasizes the fragility of societal progress regarding sexual attitudes. By examining medieval Europe, we observe how shifts in religious doctrine, societal norms, and individual behaviors can lead to "ups and downs" in the perception of sexuality and gender roles ([47:46]). This historical perspective serves as a cautionary tale, highlighting the need to remain vigilant against potential backlashes in contemporary movements toward sexual and gender equality.
Professor Ruth Karas ([11:29]): "One thing that is relatively stable across that period is that all sex outside of marriage is bad."
Professor Ruth Karas ([16:36]): "Marriage is good, reproduction is good, sex is good, sex is good when it's for reproduction."
Kate Lister ([21:08]): "Why did people in the Middle Ages think that women were more highly sex than men?"
Professor Ruth Karas ([22:21]): "Men were stronger, men were more rational, and therefore they were in a better position to control their desires."
Professor Ruth Karas ([35:47]): "There was a strong connection between washers and sex workers."
Professor Ruth Karas ([47:46]): "Any gains that we make in terms of attitudes towards women... are fragile because you can see how things in the Middle Ages... have ups and downs and changes."
Medieval Sex Myths offers a nuanced exploration of the complexities surrounding sexuality in medieval Europe. Through Professor Karas's expertise, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how intertwined religion, societal norms, and gender perceptions shaped the sexual landscape of the time. The episode underscores the enduring relevance of historical perspectives in informing contemporary discussions on sex, gender, and societal attitudes.
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