
The 10 Commandments Q+R (E16) — How do modern artistic depictions of God and Jesus relate to the 2nd Commandment? How do we honor aging parents well or honor abusive and dangerous parents? And how do the 10 Commandments stand apart from other ancient Near Eastern law codes? In this episode, Tim and Jon respond to your questions from the 10 Commandments series. Thank you to our audience for your thoughtful contributions to this episode!
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Kuliso
Foreign.
Tim
Hey, John. Hello.
John
Hello. We wrapped up the Ten Commandments series,
Tim
AKA the ten words. The ten words, yeah.
John
And we're gonna do a question response episode.
Jacob
Yep.
John
And hear what people are thinking about.
Tim
Yeah, respond. Turns out there are lots of prickly, complicated, nuanced questions and rabbit holes that we danced around, some of which, you know, I knew or you knew. You can only say so much. You can't say everything all the time. Others just didn't even occur to me. So I'm so glad to hear all yalls questions to help us think more honestly, maybe just after. Just because I spent the morning kind of sorting through the questions. There were a lot, like over 100. And John and I are love to talk about the Bible and meditate on it together and share our learnings with you all. Many of the questions, you know, raised by the Ten Commandments, they're complicated and we're not going to like solve any issues for anybody, but we'll definitely do our best to be honest and try and name what are the issues involved as we meditate on the deep moral and human God centered implications of all these questions. So that's my way of preface. All right, let's just dive in. First question is from Kuliso from Johannesburg, South Africa. And this is kind of a context setting question about where the commands in the Hebrew Bible came from in the first place.
Kuliso
Hi Tim and John, my name is Kuliso from Johannesburg, South Africa. Thanks very much for this podcast series. It's a really fascinating one as it comes at an interesting time for me as my church community has been camped in the Semin series in the book of Exodus. One of the things that I've been personally thinking through is the perspective from other biblical scholars, commentators, critics and otherwise that posit that the formation of the Ten Commandments or the Ten Laws along with the rest of the law codes found in the Torah, is influenced and shaped in part by other ancient Near Eastern law codes, such as the Homo Arabic code. So I was curious, how do these 10 commandments stand unique apart from other ancient Near Eastern law codes? These 10 commandments, particularly the first about Israel moving to becoming a monotheistic nation instead of a polytheistic Nation, or these 10 words performing a very different function altogether. Thanks for all you do. Grace and peace.
John
Yeah, thanks for the question.
Tim
It's a great question.
John
Yeah.
Kuliso
Wow.
Tim
Wow. We could spend a whole series just on those set of questions alone. Actually, in a way, we kind of have spent a good chunk of a series a long time ago on your Question, Khaliso. When we did the how to Read Biblical Law in the how to Read the Bible series, both a video and a whole podcast series, we touched on this very question about the ancient Near Eastern context of law codes, where they came from, how much biblical law codes have in common with them. So, yes, no one can debate. The laws that we find in the Hebrew Bible are similar to, sometimes identical to, laws found in ancient Near Eastern law codes. The Hammurabi Code is exciting because it was the first one that was discovered back in. Pretty sure it was the 1800s. We tell that story in the how to Read Biblical Law. So one way we often think about it, or the way the question gets worded is, well, was the Bible influenced by these other law codes? And I just would invite a bit of a reframing there to say the Bible is an expression of ancient Near Eastern law. These laws are. And it comes from a culture that had lots of conventions and assumptions and a long literary tradition about how these law codes are written. And there's lots of other expressions of the two, the Hammurabi Code, but there's other ancient Near Eastern collections. Allah's of Eshnuna is an Assyrian collection. There's Hittite collections. So more the question is, all of these law codes are an expression that come from the royal courts of these other countries. And what they embody is usually they're connected to a king, like for the Babylonian Code, King Hammurabi. And he first tells a story. This is on the famous statue of Hammurabi, and there's a picture at the top. And as it were, he meets and is enthroned by the sun God, who enthrones him to be a wise king. And then what he says is, he was taught by the gods the wisdom of justice and righteousness. And then the laws are an expression of that wisdom. And then what we noted in that series, and it's super cool. I learned a lot from the Hebrew Bible scholar Joshua Berman. I'd recommend his book called Created Equal how the Bible Broke with Ancient Political Thought. And what he and many other scholars note is that if you look at the actual legal records of court cases, we have some of from some of these ancient cultures. What you'll find is none of those court cases ever quotes from these law codes to legitimate their decisions or to give them authority. Seems like these law codes had a different function that were teaching scribes and the people who worked in the royal court teaching them wisdom. They were like wisdom instruction for how to think justly and righteously. About complicated moral issues. So they were an expression of, like, a wisdom tradition for how to train people. And that is very similar to their function in the Hebrew Bible. But there's also some important differences, too. So that's just one whole thing that's really interesting about ancient law codes.
John
We have examples of court cases, ancient court cases. And when we read them, you're saying we never see in those quotations from their law code.
Tim
And not only are they not quoted from, this is what we noted in that podcast series. And again, I was sharing what I learned from Joshua Berman's book. The decisions that are actually recorded in, like, ancient Babylonian records don't at all align with the consequences or the punishments.
Lukas Petersen
Oh, really?
Tim
That are described in the Code of Hammurabi.
John
Okay.
Tim
So I think it just shows us law codes had a different function than they do in our culture today. Yeah, they were literary compositions designed to train people in case studies for how to think with wisdom and justice about complicated situations. I think the other thing, Khalisa, to your question, is that different cultures can have different moral norms or moral instincts that might on the surface look the same. So you could have a law that's in the Code of Hammurabi that's like copy and paste in the book of Exodus. But what really is the thing that you want to compare between two different cultures isn't the particulars of a specific law, at least in my thinking. It would be rather, what's the conception of reality and of the gods and of what are human beings, and what are the purpose of human beings in relationship to the gods? What's the story behind the law that makes sense of the law, and then compare that culture to culture. And that's where the huge differences between biblical law and, for example, the Code of Hammurabi or other ancient laws come into play. So the fact that the Ten Commandments begin with don't have any other gods before me, that's all part of the concept of the covenant between God and Israel. And I will be your God and you will be my people. And that's marriage, language, song of songs. I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine. You are my people and I am your Elohim. The laws are an expression of an intimate bond between Yahweh and a whole group of people. That is unique. Yes, there were covenants between gods and kings, but to the degree and the level of intimacy that Yahweh is inviting a people into, that's a very unique story. And that is, again, this is, I learned most and best from Joshua Berman on this point. But there's lots of other scholars that have reinforced that basic idea. So the idea that the laws are an expression of wisdom and justice and they're part of how I show love and loyalty to the God who rescued my family out of Egypt and slavery, that's unique. And that as a grounding kind of reason for why I would obey these laws. That's what makes the Hebrew Bible laws stand out in their ancient context.
John
Yeah. To say back then, what I'm hearing you say is the story that the Bible's inviting us into of being all humans, being the image of God and not just kings. And also what you're pointing at, which is God intimately, relationally connecting in a covenant relationship with a people that using metaphors of marriage. That story world is unique, even though it lives within the ancient Near Eastern context using similar conventions. That's very, very unique. And could we also say that the wisdom that you're supposed to find within it is then also you're going to find some things that are comparable, but you're going to find a lot of things that are going to feel in stark contrast.
Tim
Yeah.
John
To the other cultures around.
Tim
That's right. So that's why in this series that we just did on the 10 words commandments, we were constantly going back to what's the bigger story? What's the wisdom underneath the command? And usually that involves exploring the hyperlinks that go backward to the Garden of Eden and then forward into Israel's history to see that what the commands are doing is just inviting you into a view of reality where certain ways of relating to your neighbor just kind of follow logically. If you believe that there's one creator source of all reality, and every human I meet is made in that God's image and all life is an expression of God's goodness and all that kind of stuff. So the differences come in the reasons underneath the commands. I should be less bothered by surface level similarities between Biblical and other ancient Near Eastern commands and more interested in how does the reasoning underneath it compare. Thanks for that question. Okay, there were three runaway winners for the top repeated questions about the Ten Commandments. So I'm going to take them in descending order through the commandments. The number one most repeated question was about the second command about idols. Don't make any idols representing God. Wow. I had no idea this was such a provocative. And so many sides of this question that didn't even occur to me or to you to think about. So let's first hear a question from Janice, who wants to point out an elephant in the room that you and I didn't even notice.
Janice Scott
Hi, Janice Scott, Peachtree Corners, Georgia. Why wasn't the second commandment, elephant in the room discussed depictions of God and Jesus in art, TV movies, even when the art is inspiring, made with the best of intentions and love for God and his Word. For example, the Chosen. I really wanted to hear from the guys about biblically why or why not? Thank you.
John
Mmm.
Tim
So good.
John
Yeah.
Tim
So the elephant of the room is. I mean, not just the chosen, which is a TV series. Awesome TV series about the life of Jesus, but also we happen to do that a lot. Everything that we've ever made at the
John
bioproject, we're visually depicting God and Jesus.
Tim
Yeah, totally.
John
Yeah.
Tim
So what's so funny is when I read this, I was like, oh, yeah. It just didn't even occur to me.
John
I'm thinking, I'm trying to figure out why I didn't smell the elephant in the room.
Tim
Oh, yeah, Usually you do. You have pretty good sniffer, that kind of stuff.
John
I think I know why. For me.
Tim
Yeah.
John
Okay.
Tim
I think I know why, too. But you go, well, we were just
John
really talking about the actual ancient practice of creating idols.
Tim
The statues. Statues, yes. Yes.
John
I can see the connection to, like, film and art and things, but for me, it was disconnected enough that I was just interested in that. The statue of an animal or a creature that represents God.
Jacob
Yeah.
John
And for me, since the conversation was in that world and that was enough, that was interesting enough that we didn't pivot to go, okay, well, now what's the wisdom towards art? And I know there's a lot of conversation around that. We just didn't even step into it.
Tim
Yeah. I think you named one piece that was very similar to mine, which was. We were focused on ancient idols primarily. What matters just as much. Or you could say even the whole premise of don't make an image of God isn't just about the image itself. It's about the context of what kind of image, for what purpose, and what do you do with it. So we're talking about. In terms of the ancient context of the command, we're talking about physical objects that were set up in shrines, temples, like high places that were ritual spaces dedicated as holy, sacred places for a spiritual presence, for a deity, spiritual being
John
to connect with a God.
Tim
And then I go to that, expecting it to be a place where the divine space and my space unite and I offer whatever gifts to the deity. I'm Encountering it, asking for it to use its power on my behalf for my good, or occasionally against someone else for their bad. So that's what's in the biblical author's minds primarily.
John
Right.
Tim
However, you and I did talk about, we read Deuteronomy 4. Moses gets underneath the logic of idolatry when he says, listen, you guys, you didn't see any form in the top of Mount Sinai. And that is imitated by the Ark of the Covenant, which God says is his throne enthroned above the cherubim. But instead of there being a statue, like a humanoid something, it's just an empty space.
John
It's invisible.
Tim
Yeah, invisible throne. Except on the number of occasions that Moses and other prophets did encounter somebody and it was in the form of what they all say. Ezekiel says this, an Adam. I saw something like an Adam riding above the cherubim. So they do see a figure, but they're very hesitant to describe it.
John
And they are never going to create a statue of it.
Tim
Yeah, actually many Israelites did, but they were breaking the command.
John
Yeah, they did that.
Tim
So I think I appreciate the question, Janice, because it helped me remind myself, and it sounds like for you too. What I think the biblical authors are focused on isn't just the making of the image, but it's the purpose of it and then what you do with it. And in those cases, it was all ritual. It's about encountering a transcendent being in and through this physical object. So in my mind, that is pretty different than teaching or explaining and using visual images as illustrations or aids to help understand a concept, which, for example, we're in Explainer educational media. So that's what we do.
John
Yeah. But then you can also see the connection, which is, what's the wisdom? Well, one of the wisdom is let's not distort God.
Tim
Yes.
John
Diminish God, Misrepresent God can combine it
Tim
with the next command about not carrying the name.
John
Yeah. And so if you make explanary content in a way that diminishes God, and then I think we are breaking the wisdom of the command.
Tim
Yeah. Okay, so here's an example of our own experience with the project. So one of our early videos was on the Covenants, and we used the guidance of Daniel, chapter seven, which depicts God as the ancient of days. As a humanoid. Male humanoid. Old guy with a beard. Yeah, the Ancient of Days. So we use that as our kind of figure. And even though he was technically transparent, it was on a white background, and
John
so it looked like a white Old
Tim
man, essentially like a Caucasian old man. And we were hanging with that for a while. It only took a year or two before I was kind of like, yeah, man, I wonder if that was a missed opportunity. But in the meanwhile, one of our artists, actually one of our artists who had made the localization of the video into Spanish, came up with an idea. It was awesome because we had come up with this icon, an image, but of God as a blue arm reaching
John
down from the top, massive hand coming out of the sky, top of the
Tim
screen or side screen. And so we thought, let's remake the Covenants video and then just have the blue hand do everything that the Ancient of Days was doing. And so we remade it. And I'm so pleased that we did that.
John
Right.
Tim
So that was a good learning, because I think we realized.
Janice Scott
Oh.
Tim
Without even meaning it, which is your point, Janice. With good intentions, we used an image. Even though it's from the Bible.
John
Yes.
Tim
That still could just not help us in the long run. Think about the God who is above and beyond all things. So we pivoted and let me push
John
this more, because the wisdom could extend deeper. And if you're telling your church stories about God crafting a sermon, or you're training your kids and you're creating a caricature of God just with words, you're
Tim
creating an image, John. Great. Okay. What you're asking is what the next question that I had selected, Sweet, was all about. From Lukas Petersen in Denmark.
Lukas Petersen
Hey, John. Hey, Tim. In the episode on the second command, you said that the moment you create an image in your mind of it, you're already limiting and containing it because you're reducing it to something that you've experienced. It made me wonder, are we reducing God when we say God is good or God is love? Is this, in a sense, making an idol of God? I'd love to hear your take on this.
John
Love it.
Tim
Yeah.
John
Yes, exactly.
Tim
Is that what you're saying?
John
Yes, exactly. Because we are invited to say God is love.
Tim
Yeah.
John
So obviously, right from the apostles.
Tim
Yeah.
John
Something good about that. But what Lucas, you're picking up on is the same danger is there, of we could then use our language to describe God in such a way that actually diminishes God or changes God. And that's the same danger of the art conversation, which is connected to the wisdom of idolatry. I think it's all connected.
Tim
Yeah, totally. Yeah. Certainly we can misrepresent God visually, and that's part of what the command about no idols represents. But I think you and I both at least came to agreement that our reasons under that were more. It's about what you do with the image, about the ritual practice of. And so on. But you can also misrepresent God with language. How's that related? And what's interesting is false representation through language. It's powerful. It's also a theme in the Ten Commandments, but it's about false representation about other humans.
John
Yeah, that's right. The ninth command.
Tim
Who are made in the image of God. But you can misrepresent people who are images of God, and you can misrepresent God. But the question is, even when we say something that the apostles say that God is love, or what the poets of the Psalms say, God is good, what occurs to any human's mind when they hear the word good or love, and this is your point, Lucas, is that it's the only meaning that can come into someone's mind is based off of what they think the word means from their experience. So in a way, every conception we have of God fails, but some fail in worse ways than others. And some fail not because it's wrong, but because it's just. It's limited. It's not enough. Yeah, but that doesn't mean that it's, I think, wrong. God has revealed God's self in words and in a human person. Right, Right. And in an invisible presence in the spirit. And the person is Jesus. And then the words are scripture, Right?
Lukas Petersen
Yeah.
Tim
So God didn't have any qualms about using words. But then, actually, this is true of any human, too. In fact, this just happened. I was teaching with a pastor's group last week, and none of those people in the room have ever met you. But I would tell a story about bioproject, and I would say, like, oh, John and I. And so I'm representing you. No verbal description of you can ever truly equal you. You know what I mean?
Lukas Petersen
Sure.
Tim
That's true of any person. So even our words can't ever fully represent other people. But that doesn't mean it's automatically a misrepresentation. It just means it's just a small taste. And I guess that for me, that's the difference between language about God. That can be true. God is good.
John
Yeah.
Tim
But the way that God is good is in the way God is good, which is far above what I might imagine. But that's different than an idolatrous representation, I think, of God, which is about representing God in a way that just God is not.
John
Yeah.
Tim
Is that the difference?
John
I think so. Representing God in a way that God is not. Also representing God in a way that God becomes controllable.
Tim
Ooh, there.
John
Containable. So now I've got my little shrine room. I go in on my terms, I ask what I want, I do the thing, or even it's not the thing I want to do. It's a sacrifice, whatever. But I'm going and I'm transacting. And you can do that with words and images. I think you can get into that territory where it starts to really bleed into idolatry. Then there's just the wisdom of let's not misrepresent God, which is also the wisdom of the third command, which you mentioned carrying the name in vain. So I think they're both here.
Tim
Yeah. I read a really fascinating book by a church historian named Mark Sheridan. It was called Language for God in the Patristic Tradition. Patristic meaning in the early church fathers, for the first few centuries of the most smart Christians that were bishops and pastors and writers. Fascinating. And what he noted is that this was a big deal actually in early Christian theology. Right. Language about God, because Christianity was not a centralized movement. It was decentralized and trying to find ways to stay unified. And what he noted is that this was a big struggle. And what many early church pastors and bishops circled around was a line in Deuteronomy chapter 1, where God says that God leading Israel through the wilderness was like a father leading his child through the wilderness. And they grabbed onto that phrase like. And to say, well, if God is willing to liken himself to an experience of human parent and child and say, me relating to you is like this, then that became a little template for just all of our language about God. But a child can think something about his parent, that is true. But what concept does a child really have of what their parents whole life experience is like and where their parents came from? You know what I mean? Like when you're a toddler, you don't know. So something can be an insufficient match between the word and reality, but still be true. Our words can't contain God, but they can still truly describe aspect of God. And that is different than idol statues, which is about control. I want to control the deity and make it work for me. And the idol statue is a means of doing that. Something like that.
John
Yeah.
Tim
Yeah.
John
Lots more to explore there, but thank you for that.
Tim
Yep. Okay, let's see. Ooh. Second most repeated question. We're moving on. We're making our way very slowly through the grammars second most repeated question was about the honor your parents about the fifth command. This was an elephant in the room. And I forget maybe like the afternoon after we went on a walk, you brought this up. Did we talk about this? And I'm like, I don't know if we talk about that. I have a memory of that. Leanne, would you help us notice the thing that we didn't address?
Janice Scott
Hi, my name is Leanne and I'm from Lutz, Florida. I'm a mental health therapist and I find that some of my Christian clients struggle with the fifth Commandment. I wonder if you could spend time with the fifth Commandment from two perspectives. First, a person who equates obeying their parents with honoring them, though the parents may now have limited insight due to the realities of aging. Or two, a person who struggles to know how to honor their parents because their parents have been abusive or dangerous. Thanks so much.
John
I also noticed on the YouTube comments for this video, there was a lot of people talking about how lame their parents were.
Tim
Yeah.
John
And that's just how complicated and hard and it makes perfect sense. I mean, so many screwed up people and we easily create problems in our relationships. And so it's just gonna be very common. You can have parents who are gonna be abusive or dangerous like Leanne mentioned.
Tim
Yeah. And even when you have a good relationship with your parents, it's complicated just because of the history. I mean, you can have a great relationship and still have it. Be hard to get along or hard to make decisions, especially as your parents are aging. So yes, I'm so glad that so many of you asked about this. This is one of those issues where we're just two guys, middle aged guys from the west coast, but we want to wrestle with Scripture. Along with you all. Here are some thoughts just to kick some things out there. One is the Ten Commandments are one expression of divine wisdom about relating to other people alongside many other important guides. Part of the reason why we even did the Ten Commandments is because we're followers of Jesus and we spent a year plus just meditating on the Sermon on the Mount and the teachings of Jesus. So a really formative season for me when I was in pastoral ministry was spending lots of years in Matthew and in the five main teaching blocks of Jesus within Matthew. The fourth one in chapters 18 is all about forgiveness and complicated relationships. And there's that one important paragraph on conflict resolution and that's really key. And so for me, I can't read the fifth Commandment in Exodus and Deuteronomy apart from my allegiance to Jesus as my rabbi and reading them in light of each other. So when Jesus says when somebody's wronged you, and here he's thinking about in the context of the church community, then he says, first of all, you need to forgive them in your heart, but also pursue reconciliation and making the relationship right, trying to make things right with them. And he has a multi step process that he asks his disciples to follow, which the first one is, go towards them one on one, don't talk about them, don't just sit on it, go to them.
John
Which is so hard.
Tim
Oh, it's. Dude, it's so hard. Yeah, it's very hard. But if that can work, that's optimum as opposed to just letting the resentment
John
see or talking around the issue and
Tim
creating or asking all your friends to pray for this person, which is another weird form of avoiding it. So go to them. But he says if they don't acknowledge what they've done to you, they won't even acknowledge it. Then everything he says just takes for granted that you shouldn't ever be alone with that person again. Go back with another person and if that doesn't work, go back with some more again. This is in the context of a church community. And if this person won't acknowledge what many other people, third parties can see, that's not a safe relationship.
John
Create some boundaries.
Tim
Time to create some boundaries. So I think just that principle right there is so deep in my psyche from wisdom from Jesus that applies to
John
your parents as well.
Tim
That's the lens through which I'm engaging with the fifth commandment, honoring your parents first. I think first primary context actually has to do with support, which is what we focused on. That's what Jesus seemed to understand it to mean in Matthew chapter 15. I think the reason why Leanne obedience to parents gets equated with honoring parents is because of how the apostle Paul quotes that quotes the fifth Commandment when he's talking to children in Greco Roman households in his letter to the Ephesians. And you can see how obedience can be an expression of honoring 100%.
John
Yeah. Especially when you're a child in the house.
Tim
Yeah, exactly. Yeah. But the fifth commandment is primarily about, I think, adult children relating to adult parents. And you can think of many circumstances where not obeying your parents in terms of what they say is actually the best way to honor them 100%.
John
Yeah. The example you give Leanne of like a parent who is aging and doesn't understand their limits anymore.
Tim
Absolutely. Yes.
John
And wants Something that's not good for them anymore.
Tim
Exactly. Yep.
John
And there's how do you take care of that parent?
Tim
A thousand different ways that could play out. Also, with parents that are dangerous or abusive, you can think of many scenarios where, gosh, a whole bunch of stories in my mind right now of parents I know who have made the painful decision that their own kids, their grandkids, shouldn't be around their grandparents because of the life habits or the, the environments that it's just not safe. And so those are very difficult decisions to make that need to be made on the basis of other wisdom. So maybe this is a really good opportunity to talk about the wisdom nature of the Ten Commandments. That how one honors one's parents is going to look different in situation. Situation and other wisdom from God, in this case from Jesus, needs to be factored in. You can't just copy and paste any of the commands. Even the Ten Commandments require nuanced moral thinking in light of other parts of scripture and wisdom.
John
Yeah. Because you could use this. Then you could weaponize this command and have someone now be in a relationship with their parents. That isn't healthy.
Jacob
Yeah.
John
You could say, but you gotta obey the command. And what I hear you saying is there's wisdom within the command that we need to take very seriously.
Tim
Yeah. And that is because you could weaponize it in the opposite direction and end up abdicating responsibility towards your parents.
John
Yes.
Tim
And we're back to that point. We've met so many times. Ten Commandments, Sermon on the Mount. How to read Biblical law. The laws are an expression of forming people who are wise. And wisdom is about knowing the difference between good and bad in a particular situation. And every situation is different than any other situation, which doesn't mean it's all relative. You're in a sea of subjectivity. But it does mean that wisdom requires creativity in a context of which element to emphasize, which wisdom to highlight, which things to say. That doesn't quite apply this time because of this set of factors. That is wisdom and the Ten Commandments are pushing us in that direction. So maybe it's that different cultures, different circumstances are probably going to have different patterns. So maybe very strong traditional honor shame cultures, they're going to find the honoring piece really easy, but probably have a real hard time with boundaries, the boundaries piece. And then there might be other cultures that are highly individualistic, not very collectivist. And so it's very easy for people to draw boundaries and maybe too many boundaries. And where I might need to be pushed to Sticking with my parents and obligating myself to them and their needs in ways that might feel uncomfortable to me, that are honoring. So that's wisdom.
John
Wisdom's tricky. Then sometimes you just want to rule.
Tim
A rule would be so much simpler.
Lukas Petersen
Yeah.
John
But of course, there's no rule book big enough for every complicated situation. So the wisdom. And the wisdom also comes from community. And that's part of the Matthew 18 thing, too, is bring people along. Not at first. At first. Go try to work it out. But bring people along. What's the wisdom here? You don't have to be alone in figuring out how to deal with your parents or with any relationship. And it's not going to feel simple, but there's something about, at the right time, bringing in the people and getting that communal wisdom is good.
Tim
Yeah. Yeah. So thank you, Leanne. And for everybody who raised that important topic, there's probably more things about that, more nuances that we're not addressing, but let's at least lean in there. Really. This is from Idols, which raises a whole bunch of things. To honoring your parents raises a whole bunch of things. How about don't kill?
John
Was this the third most.
Tim
The third most repeated question that y' all send in was about all the implications of what that means. Don't kill or don't murder. So, Kyle, you name pretty much all the most complicated, controversial parts of this question that we didn't talk about. So I'll let. Kyle, I'll let you. I asked the question.
Kyle
Hey, Tim and John, thank you so much for taking my question. My question has to do with the commandment of thou shalt not kill. What would be your thoughts on military killing? Thinking about when God commands the Israelites to kill people in a military way as they're conquesting, but then also how that relates to modern militaries today. Could it be possible for a Christian to ethically serve on a military and take someone's life in the form of military combat? Thank you so much for taking my question.
John
Yeah. So, you know, one thing I noticed is this translation, do not kill. Very controversial.
Lukas Petersen
Yeah.
Tim
Oh, totally. Yeah.
John
And I didn't anticipate how controversial it
Tim
was going to be.
John
And I think it's because when you say do not murder, you can be like, okay, well, there's a difference between killing someone and murder.
Tim
Yep. And that is why almost all of our modern translations say don't murder. Yeah.
John
You think that, so smooth it out. But you make this case, which is to say there's. There is actually, if I remember correctly, There is an adequate word for that in Hebrew, harag.
Lukas Petersen
Yeah.
Tim
That's what Cain does to Abel on page four of Genesis.
John
Then there's a more general word which is just any sort of ending a human's life.
Tim
Yeah.
John
But it's specific to humans. So that what we don't have in English is a word that's broader than just murder. It also includes killing a human, but doesn't include, like, killing an animal. Because when you say, do not kill,
Tim
kill what you know, and we talked about that.
John
Yes.
Tim
Like killing plants, killing animals, killing humans.
John
So this is about killing humans. So do not kill humans. If you land there and you're like, that's the way to get to the tension of this command directly.
Tim
And again, just a quick note, just to summarize the discussion that we had. The reason why I was persuaded is just a simple study of the word used in all the other cases that it's used.
John
Yeah. And it's often intentional murder.
Tim
It is used to describe both accidental and premeditated. So we need a word that represents both of those, and that is the English word kill.
John
Yeah. And murder doesn't do that. But in a military context, then you can say, okay, we're not murdering, but we are ending life. And so let's just remove this command from that discussion. But what we've done is say, actually, no, that command is still at the center of this discussion.
Tim
In fact, it has to be.
John
Why?
Tim
The word chosen for this command seems to intentionally provoke the whole set of issues. Right. It's as if the author choosing this word, ratzach, is trying to stir the pot on purpose. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
John
And we talked about this too, that there's all sorts of then situations where we need to wrestle with what's the wisdom for us.
Tim
Yep.
John
And this is a really big one.
Tim
It's huge. Huge one. And, Kyle, you're posing the questions. There's two layers to it. One you're asking about within the Bible, when God commissions people to kill.
John
Oh, right.
Tim
And then there's that. How does that relate to people who are followers of Jesus and then serve in the military or in battle? And how does that. So I want to tease those apart for a second.
John
Okay.
Tim
So when it comes to God telling one of his Covenant partners to kill someone else, I think here we're in the realm of outside of Eden. God chooses not to abandon partnership with humans. Ongoing outside of Eden, God stays committed to humans, even though he knows this is what God says about humans after the flood is. I know that the Heart of the human is just bad. Not only bad, not bad all the time, but it is bad, bent, as it were, from its youth. And there's going to be a lot more violence. And what God doesn't do is say, I'm done with humans. He works with humans as he finds them. And that continues just through the biblical story, which looks to the reader like a form of compromise because God works with murderers. God works with. And even sometimes than if there's, like in the case of Canaanites, which you're talking about, Kyle, commissioning the Israelites to the promised land to kill the Canaanites. Yeah, to kill some Canaanites. And then the actual story of Joshua problematizes it from every possible angle to say, well, what if the Canaanites were more righteous than the Israelites in a given story? What if the Israelites actually become the enemy by betraying? Right, with the Achan story, but the Rahab story, the Canaanites, the hero. So even in the context of God says, kill the bad guys. The one book of the Bible dedicated to those stories, those stories is saying there's no binaries here. The bad guys can become the good guys. Good guys come to bad guys. But you do have instances of God doing that. And I don't know any other way around that. It's just to. You can ignore that part, or you can maybe say, well, since Jesus said the opposite, you know, of that. Don't kill. Rather bless your neighbor, pray for them, and even if they kill you, that's what they're going to do. Don't pick up the sword. Those who live by the sword die by the sword. So Jesus is very clear on that point. So you could hold that contradiction right within the Bible and just say, well, maybe the stuff that God said to Joshua, either God didn't really say that, that was a mistake, that the humans misheard God on that point, or it's an allegory. It just never happened.
John
Where does Jesus say don't kill?
Tim
So there's multiple ways that you would get there. One is Sermon on the Mount.
John
Yeah.
Tim
About when he takes up do not murder, and then he takes it all the way back up.
John
Yeah, don't even have contempt for your brother.
Tim
Yeah, exactly. So already he's like raising away up there. His refusal to use violence as any justifiable means to forward his program for the arrival of God's kingdom would be the other main one. And then his teaching on enemy love and forgiveness.
John
But there's no actual statement where he says don't Kill, Yeah.
Tim
Though when Peter chops off the guy's ear and he says, put your sword back, I could call a lot of angels right now. Those who live by the sword will die by the sword. But you're right, it's not a Ten Commandments style. That's true. But I think the point is that the ethic of Jesus, both that he lived and invited his followers to, seems like a systematic rejection of violence against others as an option for advancing God's kingdom. However, does that address all of the issues that you're raising, Kyle? Every possible issue about war, defense, military. Right. I mean, there's a whole bunch of things that Christians have to think through.
John
Yeah. Jesus never encountered, I don't think, did he encounter a situation where we're told that someone who had to work as a soldier and tell him, like, oh,
Tim
I see, you know, he encountered the Roman centurion.
Jacob
Right.
John
The Roman centurion.
Tim
John. Usually the classic case is in Luke, when some Roman soldiers come to John the Baptist and they say, what should we do? And what he says is, quit oppressing people. Don't extort people for bribes or money and be satisfied with your wages. But he doesn't say, quit.
John
Stop killing people.
Tim
Yeah. So people are like, well, does that mean it's legitimate form? No. The status of people serving in the military in the early church, then there's recorded stories of this. It was very controversial, and bishops didn't all agree on what to do. So let's just acknowledge we're kind of shifting from God commissioning people to kill going into the military question. We haven't quite tied, and maybe that's okay.
John
Oh, well, let me try to tie that up. You're teasing those apart that when we see God commanding humans to kill in the Hebrew Bible, it's related to this command because you're gonna feel that tension immediately.
Tim
Yes, yes.
John
And then you're saying, what is going on in the story of the Bible? Because God is for life, but also God has the right to end human life. Humans are violent. So working with humans in the first place is this weird compromise of working with violent people who are going to create problems. And then when you get into the story of God telling Israel, go into the land and take it, and there's people in there that you're going to dispossess of it and you're going to kill them. That whole thing is so fraught. Like, it's so funny when you think about it. It's just like, oh, man, many people can't follow Jesus because that's in their Bible.
Tim
Yep. Yeah.
John
And you're saying, well, one, let's look at what Jesus says about our position.
Tim
Because the only reason I'm reading this whole Bible is because I'm a follower of Jesus.
Lukas Petersen
Yeah.
John
But even before that you said just pay attention to how the text itself is problematizing it.
Tim
Yes.
John
And so now it's messing with you on purpose.
Tim
That's right.
John
But now let's get to Jesus and how Jesus thinks about violence and power and all of that is instructive. But now we could turn the corner and say, well, what about Christians serving in the military? Right. That's a different question.
Tim
Well, again, to maybe just tie up the Jesus thing to transition back to the military thing, it would just be that the reason I read any of these texts is because I'm a follower of Jesus. And I think to be a historic orthodox confessing Christian of whatever tradition, Catholic, orthodox, Protestant, is to say that Jesus has the pride of central place in shaping my view of God and God's will and that his words are a lens through which I evaluate all of the different parts of the Bible. Now you can overdo that and smooth everything out and just ignore, or you can use that as a way to then engage what's happening in the book of Joshua and divine violence and wrestle with the tensions. But that's how I would approach that question from within. I'm a follower of Jesus, so I'm going to take his ethic. However, how exactly do you apply Jesus own relationship to nonviolence in light of all the questions that Jesus didn't face or didn't raise? Now we're going into that bigger question. And I guess, Kyle, the first thing I need to say is this is a question I was heavily invested in and read and discussed and debated with my friends for years. And I've kind of come to this place where my convictions have evolved over time. I expect they'll keep evolving. And so I almost want to encourage you, Kyle. Like, I don't think you should actually care what my thoughts are, but I want to encourage you to take your thoughts seriously and to wrestle through the issues which every generation of Christians has had to do. I was really helped by. I'll just recommend a couple books because that's my love language. I haven't met you, Kyle. I love it when there's a handful of publishers in theology that do these multiple views books. Oh yeah, there's a great more recent one edited by Paul Kopan by InterVarsity Press called War Peace and Violence, Four Christian Views. It's an excellent collection of essays, each one making a case for four different takes on Christians, military, non violence, pacifism, all of it. It's fantastic. Another great expression of a case for nonviolence, not pacifism, but nonviolence, is a book by Preston Sprinkle called Fight. And he's someone who, as an academic and a pastor, went through a change of his views. And he takes you through his whole journey as to why. I guess the point is it's very complicated because if you're in a situation where it feels like there's moral clarity and defense of someone else involves taking the life of an attacker or a wrongdoer, when you're actually faced with that scenario, which many followers that Jesus has throughout history, like, how do you love your neighbor best in that scenario? It's very hard. This is what Dietrich Bonhoeffer had to wrestle through of whether to participate in the plot to assassinate Adolf Hitler. And his letters, wrestling with it are just heart searching, right?
John
Yeah, yeah. And I'm noticing, though, a very big difference in what you're describing, which is the. With a lot of humility and trepidation, thinking it through and going when and if ever and how, and really thinking that through versus just having a position, which is this is just how God gets things done in the world.
Tim
Right.
John
The powerful have to just destroy the bad guys with violent power. That's just how it has to work.
Tim
That's how God did it in the past, it's how he does it now. And the Jesus story is just kind of like this unrelated blip of, well, he had to die for our sins, so he died. But his whole ethics of non violence and how that happens.
John
But Jesus coming back with the sword in his mouth, Right?
Tim
So the story goes. No, but you're right, what you're painting, a picture is a very common narrative of God, you know, didn't have any qualms taking care of the Canaanites with the sword of Joshua. Jesus will come back with a sword, apparently. Even though Revelation actually doesn't say that. But it's often taken to say that because of the military imagery at the end of the revelation.
John
Yeah, the sword that is coming out of his mouth. Yeah.
Tim
The word his blood is his own on his clothes. But that's a whole other thing. But you're painting a picture of how the Christian case for violence in dealing with bad guys is just a very simple, rhetorically powerful, persuasive force of many followers of Jesus in the world. Today.
John
And I think if that's the place you're in, I feel like we're saying you take a deep breath, let's slow
Tim
down, back up for a second.
John
But if you're in the place where this question comes from. Right.
Tim
Yeah.
John
Now you're treating.
Tim
You're doing the work.
John
You're doing it.
Tim
You're doing the work.
John
Yeah.
Tim
Yes. Yeah. And we noted, even in the context of the laws, just in Exodus, the way capital punishment is in a kind of tension with do not kill. Right. The community. And I read quotes from the scholar Patrick Miller, who kind of helped us kind of focus on this, that in the very act of ending the life, capital punishment of a murderer who ended the life of another human, the community is actually violating the precise wording of the right of this command by killing. So the Bible is giving an honest picture of the contradictions that we live in outside of Eden. And God gets into it with us. He doesn't give us copy and paste rules, but he does invite us to wisdom and. Yeah. Which I think you're affirming, John, as you sense in Kyle's question, the stepping in, the wrestling, the not giving a simplistic narrative of extremes on either or for or against military service. But there's invitation here. And the fact that thoughtful Christians who adhere to the classic confession of faith can land in different places. I think anytime that's happening on an issue, it's worth paying attention. Doesn't mean everybody's right all the time, but I think it does mean that probably every view is sniffing something that is actually true and good, that's worth holding onto, but taken by itself, it could run away into an extreme. There's a pretty small list of topics like that, through church history that just keep not going away. And that's a time to be humble and to lean in, listen to all of scripture and listen to the Spirit in my community.
John
Yeah. That brings us back to this. The meta theme here, the 10 words, they are an invitation to radically reshape your imagination so that you start wrestling with the right things in the right way.
Tim
Yeah. Yeah.
John
And that doesn't create this simplistic kind of simple playbook for life, but it does something very real.
Tim
Yeah, that's right.
John
And at times it's going to be very radical, but it won't always be cookie cutter.
Tim
Yeah. Yeah. And it might look like in the history of the Jesus movement, different communities, different people responding to their issues in their time in ways that look really different from each other. Right. And every one of Them would say, I was trying to be faithful. I was trying to be faithful to God's wisdom and what we felt like we were supposed to do. And what else can we do except just say, God have mercy on us, you know, and take the next step, move forward, wake up tomorrow, try and live out the wisdom of Scripture. Shall we end on another one that maybe is a little more upbeat? Okay, this is a question from Jacob in Ohio.
Jacob
Hey, Tim and John, this is Jacob from Ohio. In listening to your discussion about not stealing, I was wondering if the flip side of that commandment might be like Acts, chapter two, with the followers of Jesus living with all things in common and no one saying that anything was theirs in particular. And also Jesus saying, lend without expecting in return. These seem to me to be maybe the fulfillment of how to relate to our stuff in the world. And I was wondering what you thought. Thank you for all that you do, and God bless you.
John
Thanks, Jacob.
Tim
Yeah, you know, also, I just. Maybe it depends on how those of you listening where you're listening. But there was beautiful bird song in the background of that question. Made me think of Jesus teachings about, look at the birds of the air. Maybe that's what you were doing that morning, Jacob. Yeah, thanks for that.
John
You were flipping it over do not steal. Looking at the very radical generosity of the community of Jesus followers in Acts sharing everything in common.
Tim
Mm. Yeah, we were interested in flipping over Don't Steal to help me become a better steward of my neighbor's stuff.
John
Yeah.
Tim
I'm just now remembering we got there because the way that that commandment is flipped over in the later chapters of Exodus is by commands about, if you see your neighbor donkeys, you know, like, lost, return it to him.
John
Right.
Tim
Which is the opposite of, there's still
John
property law in the Torah in a way.
Tim
Yeah, yeah, that's right. But I think what I like about what you're bringing up, Jacob, is that there could be many ways to live out the wisdom underneath. Don't steal. One of which could be help your neighbor steward their stuff. Another one would be just become less attached to my own stuff. Yeah, yeah. Because why else do I steal except I want to add to my stuff? And so generosity is like just inverting that totally.
John
You can imagine scenarios where that could get out of hand. And you're told, like, hey, follow Jesus here. Oh, sure, you don't own anything anymore. And that's used to control and manipulate and abuse.
Tim
That's probably happened a time or two in church history. And that's people end up in really weird, weird cults and situations.
Jacob
Yeah.
John
But imagine like a group of people living life together where if you encountered them, you just kind of got this impression, like they kind of share everything in common.
Tim
Yeah.
John
In this way that's working. That's really cool to imagine. And it seems like they're living the wisdom of the command.
Tim
I love that.
Jacob
Yeah.
Tim
There is a dynamic in Acts I'm remembering years ago from our Luke Acts series. But when Luke makes that description about the church living in Jerusalem, you know, in the days after the resurrection, it wasn't the season after Passover and Pentecost, which were pilgrimage feasts. So you had a lot of out of town people in Jerusalem.
John
They're hosting people.
Tim
Yeah. So that also is part of that description. Acts is hospitality is a part of that, which is definitely the opposite of stealing because you're inviting people in and you're just like, use up my stuff. So even the story in Acts, while a really positive picture, gives us one way that a group of Jesus followers were living out the wisdom underneath the command don't steal. But there could be many others too. You mentioned Jesus teaching about lending without return. That's also from Luke.
John
And there's proverbs about that too, right?
Tim
Yes. Yeah, many. So what I liked about just your point, Jacob, was when you flip the command, it really highlights. I think one of the main things we wanted to say about the ten Commandments, which is what it means for a set of commands in the Bible to be wisdom from God, which means there could be many possible different ways that we respond to that wisdom and live it out.
Lukas Petersen
Yeah.
John
You used the word creative, and I love that it's wisdom. It's forcing you to be creative. So what is going on in my life where the wisdom of this command is inviting me to just be more creative than I'm being.
Tim
Yeah. Creative take. Yeah.
John
Like push myself in a new direction. That's what I loved about that community that I kind of learned biblical generosity through. There was just so much creativity. It's like, yeah, I know everyone does it this way, but I just thought, what if I did it this way? Yeah, sure. And you're like, you're allowed to do that.
Tim
Yeah.
John
You're allowed to, like, be generous in that kind of way.
Tim
Yeah.
John
And you just suddenly realize, oh, we constrain ourselves for all sorts of reasons.
Tim
Limit our imaginations.
John
Limit our imaginations.
Tim
Yeah.
John
And there's something here. It's just like, let's open up our. The aperture of our imaginations and allow ourselves to be more creative in ways that will feel uncomfortable, but also ways that might end up feeling really fun and exciting.
Kuliso
Yeah.
Tim
You know, when I said that earlier, I just recently been thinking about that line from Psalm 33 about, by wisdom, God ordered the skies. He created the skies by the breath of his mouth, everything that inhabits them. And God's wisdom in creation or creation as an expression of God's wisdom. And what is creation except it's a lot of different things going on, you know, from, like the quantum level. Right. To biological level, to relationships and music and art and water mole. All of it is just creativity. And wisdom is what's used to talk about God's approach towards bringing into being what was not. So, of course, the Ten Commandments would just be an invitation to wisdom, to participate with God in creativity in our relationships to each other. And the 10 is just the beginning. So flipping them, looking at their opposites. So all that to say is that was a big theme in our conversations about the Ten Commandments. And we hope that that is a helpful invitation to all of us listening that really, it's just. It's about waking up tomorrow and just being like, how could I live out that wisdom today? What's going to happen? I don't know. Let's get creative with the help of the spirit.
John
Hey, speaking of the spirit.
Janice Scott
Whoa.
John
Next.
Tim
I see what you're doing.
John
What are we doing after 10 commandments?
Tim
We are doing a mega deep dive into the theme of the spirit of God throughout the entire Bible.
Jacob
Yeah.
Tim
And we made a video many years ago on the Holy Spirit, kind of summarize those ideas. We're gonna make a new one. Yeah. And, yeah. Think about all things spirit in the Bible.
John
Yeah. I'm really excited about that, too. So next week, we'll do another Ten Commandments special.
Tim
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
John
We're gonna interview the art team behind the scenes, but then we'll go into the spirit of God.
Tim
Yeah.
John
So that'll be our next stop.
Tim
I'm really pumped, everybody. Thank you for sending in your questions. So thoughtful. Really appreciate you on this learning journey with John and I.
John
Yes. Thank you. And everything that we make here gets to be free, because so many of you have decided to be part of this and funding it. Thank you for that. Everything that we make is to show that the Bible's unified story leads to Jesus.
Tim
Yeah. Also, this whole podcast is the result of a whole community of very creative human beings, each making their contribution to make this happen. And as always, for the list of all those humans names so we can honor them and their contributions. You should check out the show notes, whatever your podcast viewing technology is. Thank you guys for listening. We love this. We'll keep doing more of it till next time. Yeah, we'll see you next time.
Date: July 6, 2026
In this episode, Tim, John, and the BibleProject team respond to listener questions prompted by their Ten Commandments series. They focus on the distinctiveness of biblical law, the complicated wisdom required in interpreting commands like honoring parents and not making idols, and especially “do not kill” and its application to military combat. The hosts explore ancient contexts, biblical nuance, and Christian ethical dilemmas, highlighting the importance of living out the wisdom of scripture in complex, real-world scenarios.
“The laws are an expression of an intimate bond between Yahweh and a whole group of people. That is unique.”
— Tim (08:20)
Janice’s Question (11:25): Why didn’t the podcast discuss images of God/Jesus in contemporary art and media?
Host Reflections:
Further Nuance – Lukas’ Question (18:34): Is using language like “God is love” a form of limiting or idolizing God?
Notable Quotes:
“Even when we say something the apostles say—that God is love—what occurs...is always filtered through our experience. Every conception we have of God fails, but some fail in worse ways than others."
— Tim (20:13)
“Representing God in a way that God becomes controllable...I think you can get into that territory where it starts to really bleed into idolatry.”
— John (22:28)
Leanne’s Question (25:46): How does one honor parents in cases of aging, abuse, or danger?
Biblical Wisdom:
Memorable Quote:
“Even the Ten Commandments require nuanced moral thinking, in light of other parts of scripture and wisdom.”
— Tim (32:05)
“Wisdom’s tricky. Sometimes you just want a rule…but there’s no rule book big enough for every complicated situation.”
— John (34:00)
Kyle’s Question (35:26): How does the 6th Commandment relate to military combat, biblically and today?
Linguistic & Ethical Nuances:
Contemporary Questions:
Notable Quotes:
“The word chosen for this command [ratzach] seems to intentionally provoke the whole set of issues. It’s as if the author...is trying to stir the pot on purpose.”
— Tim (37:50)
“If you’re in the place where this question comes from...you’re doing the work.”
— John (49:51)
“The Bible is giving an honest picture of the contradictions that we live in outside of Eden. And God gets into it with us.”
— Tim (51:18)
Jacob’s Question (53:03): Is the radical sharing in Acts 2 a fulfillment of "do not steal"?
Reflections:
Memorable Quote:
“When you flip the command, it really highlights...what it means for a set of commands in the Bible to be wisdom from God, which means there could be many possible ways to respond and live it out.”
— Tim (56:43)
“Let’s open up the aperture of our imaginations and be more creative in ways that will feel uncomfortable, but might end up feeling really fun and exciting.”
— John (57:50)
“The Ten Commandments are pushing us in that direction. So maybe it’s that different cultures, different circumstances are probably going to have different patterns.”
— Tim (33:00)
“It’s all invitation here...the fact that thoughtful Christians...can land in different places. Any time that’s happening on an issue, it’s worth paying attention.”
— Tim (51:31)
Conversational, contemplative, and deeply pastoral—Tim and John blend scholarly insight with practical, lived wisdom. The episode is full of humility, civil disagreement, anecdotes, and an invitational, creative approach to faithfully interpreting scripture.