”The Skinny-Fat Crisis” — Dr. Amy Shah on South Asian Genetics & The Cortisol Reset

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Podcast Summary: "The Skinny-Fat Crisis" — Dr. Amy Shah on South Asian Genetics & The Cortisol Reset

Biohack-it with Iman Hasan
Date: February 19, 2026
Guest: Dr. Amy Shah

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Episode Overview

This episode of Biohack-it features Dr. Amy Shah, integrative medicine physician, author, and expert on gut health. Host Iman Hasan and Dr. Shah dive deep into why South Asians, despite often appearing "thin," face disproportionate risks for metabolic diseases like diabetes and heart disease—a phenomenon often called the "skinny-fat crisis." The conversation unpacks the interplay of genetics, lifestyle, and culture, explores modern stress, hormonal imbalances, the gut-brain axis, and details Dr. Shah's "Cortisol Reset" protocol to help listeners—especially women—recover from chronic inflammation and achieve real health.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The "Skinny-Fat" Paradox in South Asians

• Many South Asians look physically thin/petite yet have high rates of diabetes, heart disease, and Alzheimer's.
  • Dr. Shah’s family experience: “My dad, about a year into moving to the US was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. And all of his five brothers, the five got diagnosed all at the same time. All thin, look seemingly, you know, healthy.” [01:39]
• Main Causes:
  • Genetics: "Thrifty genes" from surviving historical famines make South Asians more efficient at storing fat, especially under caloric stress or processed diets.
  • Lifestyle Shift: Only a generation ago, diets were minimally processed, rich in fiber, cooked with ghee, and involved lots of physical activity. Modern diets are high in processed carbs and inflammatory oils, with less movement.
  • "It's only been one generation really that this has changed so much." [03:27]

2. Food, Oils, and Protein Deficiency

• Move from ancestral fats (like ghee) to processed seed oils increases inflammation.
• Immigrant vegetarian diets often have low protein and high sugar/starch.
• Oil reuse (common in past generations for thriftiness) creates trans fats and adds danger.
• "Even for me, growing up as an immigrant, the lack of protein in my diet was so crazy..." [04:10]

3. Environment, Culture, & Microbiome

• Environment/lifestyle shapes health more than genetics (~80%), demonstrated by gut microbiome studies on twins:
  "Their microbiomes looked nothing like each other. They looked more like the people they spent the most time with and ate with than each other.” [05:01]
• Microbiome transfer: Who you spend time with (emotionally and physically) directly impacts your gut bacteria, affecting personality, mental health, even athleticism.
  • “Microbiomes jump from one person to another... That's why the gut brain axis is so, so important.” [07:04–09:29]
• Dopamine signals from gut bacteria can be "louder" than your own brain's: “They're louder than our own brain. The dopamine and the signals that the bacteria send are louder than our own brain chemicals.” [09:14]

4. Supplements vs. Food

• In an ideal world, nutrition would come from food, but for certain nutrients, supplements are often necessary:
  • Vitamin D, B12, iron, magnesium
  • "Magnesium, omega 3 and vitamin D...we have good data on that actually could help, especially for women.” [11:01]
• Optimal Timing:
  • B vitamins and iron: morning
  • Melatonin/relaxants: evening
  • Fat-soluble vitamins (D, omega 3s): with food
    “Our body has a circadian rhythm, meaning that day and night matters...Certain vitamins...are best taken in the morning." [11:23]

5. Vitamin D Deficiency: The Paradox in Sunny Climates

• Problem: 80% deficiency in places like the Middle East and among South Asians, despite abundant sunlight.
  • Factors: Sun avoidance, darker skin requiring more exposure, lower absorption in perimenopausal women, modern lifestyle.
  • Quote: “The amount of time you have to be outdoors with a darker skin tone to get adequate vitamin D is a lot more.” [13:28]
• Stress’s Impact: Chronic stress impairs gut absorption, worsening deficiencies.
  • "Because my nervous system was dysregulated...My body could not absorb, even from the sun, the vitamin D that I was actually getting.” [15:14]

6. The Cortisol Reset: Recovery for Modern Stress

• Chronic stress disrupts hormone balance, gut health, recovery.
• Cortisol Reset Protocol (Dr. Shah’s prescription for women post-travel, work stress, etc.):
  • 3–5 days prioritizing nervous system recovery:
    • Sunlight in the morning
    • Gentle activities: yoga/walking, nature instead of high-intensity or aggressive exercise
    • Cut caffeine in half and remove alcohol
    • Eat gut-supporting foods: more protein, more soups/broths
    • Take adaptogens at night (ashwagandha, rhodiola), practice evening mindfulness/meditation
    • Increase sleep by at least 20 minutes/night
  • “The goal is not just what you actually do, the goal is what you don’t do...Manage your nervous system. Almost like imagine you're going on a beach vacation and you have no responsibilities.” [16:09]
  • "After doing that for three to five days...they're like, I want to do this all the time." [18:16]
  • Elite athletes and high performers spend as much time in “recovery” as “performance”
    • “What you're doing for your work and what a lot of women are doing is like an elite athlete. You need that recovery to function.” [18:43]

7. Women, Modern Life, and Chronic Stress

• Women experience more expectations, leading to chronic fight-or-flight states.
  • “We have so many expectations that are placed in us. We have to look a certain way. We have to be in our feminine...Our body's just like, what do you want from me?” [19:00]
• Best advice: Leave 20% of your day unplanned/free for reflection, decompression, and better decisions.
  • “When I started to leave 20% of my day free, I found so much growth...If [the nervous system] is in fight or flight, it cannot make a good decision.” [19:10–20:08]
• Being constantly busy blocks true insight, emotional processing, and healthy decision-making.

8. Hormones, Perimenopause, and Recovery

• As women enter perimenopause, their ability to buffer stress/cortisol drops, so even less intense stressors hit harder.
  • "Our hormones are changing and our ability to kind of buffer that cortisol response is lower. And so you need to do even more to recover than you used to. And that's why perimenopause ends up being a time of major anxiety and mental health challenges.” [23:32]
• The cycle: stress → worse hormone symptoms → worse stress

9. Cultural Roots of Overachieving & Recovery Resistance

• South Asians are socially conditioned to strive for excellence, rarely slow down, and often face pressure to maximize every opportunity—the “immigrant achievement mindset.”
  • “We always are trying to push ourselves to the max. When our genetics are wired to be this way, how do we create that space?” [24:41]
  • Dr. Shah's analogy: You are a pro athlete taking your ancestors’ dreams forward; you must prioritize recovery.

10. The 30:30:3 Nutrition Framework

• Dr. Shah’s practical, evidence-backed formula:
  • 30 grams of protein in your first meal — helps satiety, blood sugar, better food choices all day
  • 30 grams of fiber daily — feeds gut bacteria, supports detox, hormone balance
  • 3 servings of probiotic/fermented foods — ancestral diets always included this, now almost everyone is low
    “People start doing 30, 33...and they will feel better within a week. This should be in our textbooks, given to every woman.” [27:34]
• Culturally: ancestral diets were better; modern industrialization displaced this.

11. Skinny-Fat, Visceral Fat, and Muscle Mass Challenges

• South Asians (and also Latina, Middle Eastern communities) are prone to visceral fat despite having a “thin” frame.
  • “Most South Asians have an issue of being skinny fat, or having fat deposition in places that are really dangerous. Like the stomach.” [30:59–31:08]
• Women of these backgrounds must work harder to gain and preserve muscle; muscle helps with metabolism, hormone health.

12. Period Pain & Hormonal Symptoms as Signs, Not Destiny

• Severe PMS and menstrual pain are not “normal”—they’re signals the body is stressed and nutrient-depleted.
  • "If you have a very stressful month with terrible food choices like bad sleep, pretty much guarantee that your period that month is going to be awful....when I started to add, like, fix my vitamin D deficiency, I added more Magnesium to my diet, added more omega 3s, added more fiber and built up my gut. My PMS almost is like non existent.” [31:50–32:33]
• Hydration is more than water—electrolyte replenishment is crucial, especially with heat or sauna.

13. Top Takeaway for All Women

• "Give yourself that space and permission to think, to process, to be the best version of yourself. Don’t worry about what the world is saying. That way you can step into who you really are and do the things that you're meant to do.” – Dr. Shah [33:31]

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On why South Asians face high metabolic risk:
  “How is it that someone can eat all the sugar and they're fine, and then other people, you know, get diabetes from eating what seemed to me at the time like a healthy diet? ...It's just now I understand that a lot of it is genetics.” – Dr. Shah [01:38]
• On environment vs. genetics:
  "It's like 80% your lifestyle." – Dr. Shah [05:01]
• On the gut-brain axis:
  "Those organisms, let's put it this way, man. They're louder than our own brain." – Dr. Shah [09:14]
• On modern stress:
  "Women in today's society are so chronically inflamed and stressed out, which is why we're having more health issues. Because we're living so out of design of what we're actually able to withstand in terms of stress." – Iman Hasan [19:00]
• On recovery:
  "You are a pro athlete. And a pro athlete to go out there on the field...they have to have recovery." – Dr. Shah [26:17]

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Key Timestamps

• [01:00] – Introduction to South Asian metabolic health crisis
• [03:27] – Generational dietary and lifestyle change
• [05:01] – Environment vs. genetics: microbiome science
• [07:04] – How microbiomes transfer between people
• [09:14] – Gut bacteria's influence on mental health
• [11:01] – Key supplements for women
• [13:28] – Vitamin D deficiency in sunny regions
• [15:14] – Stress and absorption issues
• [16:11] – Cortisol Reset explained
• [18:16] – Recovery as important as performance
• [19:10–20:08] – The importance of leaving 20% unplanned in one’s schedule
• [23:32] – Hormonal changes and need for greater stress recovery in perimenopause
• [24:41] – Cultural barriers to resting/recovering in South Asian communities
• [27:34] – The 30:30:3 nutrition protocol
• [30:59] – "Skinny-fat" and muscle-building differences for South Asians
• [31:50] – PMS as a marker of lifestyle-driven imbalance

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Actionable Takeaways

• Adopt the 30:30:3 (protein, fiber, probiotics) framework for better hormone and gut health
• Treat recovery as non-negotiable: Do regular “cortisol resets”—prioritize sunlight, sleep, gentle activity, gut-friendly food, mindfulness
• Leave schedule space: Don’t book every minute; leave 20% free daily for best mental/emotional results
• Pay attention to stress: Especially in periods of hormonal transition (30s–50s), doubling down on nervous system regulation is key
• Supplement wisely: Focus on vitamin D, magnesium, and omega-3s; consult a provider for personalized needs

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This episode is a must for anyone curious about why “skinny” doesn’t always mean healthy—especially for women balancing heritage, modern stress, and hormonal change. Dr. Amy Shah shares science-based, approachable strategies for reclaiming health through both ancient wisdom and modern insight.

Transcript

[A]

How does somebody know if they actually need a supplement versus just a food?

[B]

Okay, so great question.

[A]

Women in today's society are so chronically inflamed and stressed out, which is why we're having more health issues. So many expectations that are placed in us. We have to look a certain way. We have to be in our feminine. We have to do this, we have to do that.

[C]

Our body's just like, what do you want from me?

[A]

Yes. What is my role here?

[B]

My mom, South Asian, huge community of women. I interviewed her and I said, what did you learn about menopause? She was like, we didn't talk about it. I mean, we didn't know. People start doing 30, 30, and they will feel better within a week. This should be in our textbooks, given to every woman because, well, fecal transplants stopped only allowed for one condition. They were concerned, like, people are gonna. I mean, you could change people's personalities. There's a conspiracy theory that a lot of people think that drug companies didn't want it because.

[A]

Doctor Amy Shah, welcome to Biohack it.

[B]

I'm so excited to be here.

[A]

I love that I'm sitting down with a South Asian woman.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

And we can also talk about all the South Asian health issues that we have as a race that other people can't, you know, kind of relate to at times.

[B]

Yeah, it's really crazy because people look thin, they look healthy, but then they have all this metabolic disease. It's insane.

[A]

I wanted to go straight into it. You and I were just speaking about this before we got on the show. Why are South Asians, even though we're built, so petite and we look thin, have a higher risk than a lot of other populations to diabetes, Alzheimer's, and heart disease?

[B]

Okay, so let me tell you a really quick story. We moved to the United States when I was five years old, and my parents were working really, really hard, and my dad, about a year into moving to the US was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. And all of his five brothers, the five got diagnosed all at the same time. All thin, look seemingly, you know, healthy. Of course, you know, the immigrant struggle had, like, changed his diet from first to. And then probably wasn't as active as he was back there. So there was definitely, like, a. Maybe that was a stimulus. But I remember thinking back then, that was actually the reason that I went into nutrition before med school, because I thought to myself, like, that doesn't make sense. Like, how is it that someone can eat all the sugar and they're fine, and then other people, you Know, get diabetes from eating what seemed to me

[A]

at the time like a healthy diet,

[B]

a healthy ish diet. And it's just now I understand that a lot of it is genetics. And we talked about like some of the theories about why our genetics different from all the famines that we had to survive. So we have more thrifty genes, meaning, like we are just survival. The survival of the people who could live through a famine makes us just much more likely to hold on to sugar and to process it in a different way because we're like really good at fasting and being a part of a famine. And then of course, the dietary changes that have happened over the last 50 years. Like actually when I was. I'm sure you're the same. When I was talking to my family, just it's only been one generation really that this has changed so much. Their grandparents were not eating as much processed sugar.

[C]

Absolutely.

[B]

Were not eating as much processed carbohydrates. They were walking a ton using a bicycle or whatever.

[A]

So working the field, all that stuff.

[B]

It's very, very recent. So it's a combination of genetics and lifestyle change that has happened. But it's really kind of tragic.

[A]

I will go even a step further and say if you just look at the oil that we, our grandparents used to cook in, which was like desiki, which is now known as butter.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And the processed seed oils that now everybody's starting to cook with because they've tried to commercialize everything, make it for profit. Just the fact the amount of oil that we use in our food has made such a difference and it's so inflammatory now to ourselves.

[B]

Absolutely. And the amount. Even for me, growing up as an immigrant, the lack of protein in my diet was so crazy because so my parents were vegetarian when they brought us. And then we incorporated like I incorporated eggs. But dairy, we had dairy anyways. But the lack of protein in that diet and the amount of sugar and starches is insane. And also like the kind of oils, like I remember my grandmother, the way she learned they had very little oil, so they would reuse it multiple times. And that is so bad because every time it's basically turning into trans fats. So yeah, there's a lot going on there.

[A]

How much do you think someone's environment and culture can shape their long term health?

[B]

Oh, it's like, I mean, study after study says it's like 80% your lifestyle. So let me give you an example. There's a study on twins and their gut microbiome, which basically shapes your body and they found that the twins, once they had been separated, living in different houses, their microbiomes looked nothing like each other. They looked more like the people they spent the most time with and ate with than each other. And this is genetically identical twins. So it just tells you how much your environment and the people you spend time with and your food you're eating really shapes the inside of you.

[C]

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[A]

Is it true that people can share each other's microbiome?

[B]

Yes, you can catch it. Okay, so remember that old saying about like, you know, be careful who you hang out with because you'll catch, you know, their personality. Literally that happens because microbiomes jump from one person to another. Like that twin study where they found that, you know, they looked closer, their microbiome looks closer to the people they're spending the most time with because it's not just, it's sharing food, sharing the same space. So if you're around someone who's really toxic and negative and has a horrible personality, you don't want to be around that person because you, they will inadvertently get your bacteria and you will get theirs. And so the more time you spend

[A]

with someone who is positive and happy and optimistic, you're not only mentally, but your microbiome will conform to that.

[B]

Yeah, there are now, studies that show even athleticism. So elite athletes have a different microbiome than just people who are just, like, randomly playing the sport, like tennis, for example. And so there's a company out there that actually sells the microbiome of elite athletes. It's like fecal pills, like, microbiome.

[A]

I had heard about this. Yes. They've stopped doing that now though, right? Or they're still doing it.

[B]

Well, fecal transplants are not stopped. Only allowed for one condition in the US because they were concerned, like, people are gonna. I mean, you could change people's personalities. You can change their hormonal status, you can change, you know, like, it's a little crazy. What can happen if you give someone's microbiome to someone else. And then there's a conspiracy theory that a lot of people think that drug companies didn't want it because what if you could, like, cure people?

[A]

Absolutely.

[B]

And so it's very interesting, the whole microbiome world. But, yeah, I think it's so important to spend time and share food and space with the people you actually want to be like. And it's not just. I mean, it's. We've known this for thousands of years. I've written it in books. But the science is coming out now

[A]

that's insane to see how much influence the people and the organisms that they carry within themselves can have around you. Yeah.

[B]

And those organisms, let's put it this way, man. They're louder than our own brain. So, for example, the dopamine and the signals that the bacteria send are louder than our own brain chemicals. So they can override.

[C]

Override.

[A]

And that's why the gut brain axis is so, so important, because it can really affect how you make decisions. Your mental health. Do you have anxiety? Do you not? How do you regulate your nervous system?

[B]

And then we wonder why everyone is so depressed and anxious. It's because our microbiome is trashed.

[A]

Right. How does somebody know if they actually need a supplement versus just a food?

[B]

Okay, so great question. I think most people, you know, in the ideal world, we could eat it all through food, but we can't. Like, there's. We know for a fact that vitamin D, for example, we can eat. I could eat all the vitamin D in the world, but I'm not going to, like, be able to fix my deficiency through just eating it. I have to take a supplement. So there's definitely cases B12. You know, there's iron deficiency, minerals even.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Like, some people have iron deficiency and, like, their diet does not correct It So it's like you have to. It's personal. Obviously, there's people who have no deficiencies and their diet's fine. And then there's this new thing about certain minerals like magnesium, for example, that people who eat the most magnesium in their diet or get it from supplemental sources, if you get up to 550 milligrams a day, which is a lot, they have slower brain aging. And so figuring out how to get that much through food, it's hard. Yeah.

[A]

So like, it's overwhelming. It's another thing on our plate that we don't need.

[B]

Exactly. And so I feel like magnesium, omega 3 and vitamin D. Those are the three that I can say for sure that we have good data on that actually could help, especially for women.

[A]

And what's the best way to take in common nutrients so they're most effective? Is it a certain time of the day? Is it a certain type of supplement?

[C]

Liposomal liquid, pill?

[B]

Like, what's the way the worst? Okay. Our body has a circadian rhythm, meaning that day and night matters. So there are certain medications that are twice as effective if they're taking at night versus morning. So we really do need to pay attention to when we're taking these things. It's not like, of course, you know, people will say like, you should take it, it's better than not taking it. But ideally, you really want to take certain vitamins. For example, B vitamins are best taken in the morning. Iron is best taken with in the morning. You want to take the melatonin or anything that it's like chamomile in the evening.

[A]

So fat soluble and water soluble is right?

[B]

Right, Exactly. Fat soluble. You want to take it with food. So vitamin D, omega 3s, you want to ticket with food because they're fat soluble. And so I feel like that kind of education needs to be given to people because you're a lot of people are just taking vitamins and not really understanding any of that.

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[A]

Especially in this part of the world. And I remember Gary was saying this on stage. Or is that the YPO dinner? I don't think you were there yet, though. But he said the Middle east population in South Asians, this part of the world is about 80% deficient in vitamin D. Considering we are exposed to so much sunlight and we also have darker skin tone.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

Why is that?

[B]

Yeah, it's so crazy. I mean, this part of the world and in general, I think women tend to have this problem even more, especially women in perimenopause. And we think part of it is because our gut lining, our absorption of vitamin D is lower. And then part of it is, I think we didn't understand that vitamin D is hard to. So we don't spend as much time outside anymore as we used to. And the amount of time you have to be outdoors with a darker skin tone to get adequate vitamin D is a lot more. And so, you know, back in the day when people were farming or biking or walking a lot, you know, you would get a lot more sun exposure. So I always say, actually for my female clients, especially for my South Asian or Middle Eastern, is get that sunlight early in the morning before. So harsh.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

So that you are getting it through your eyes to reset your hormones, circadian rhythms, and. And you're getting a little bit of natural vitamin D from your skin, but don't do it between the peak hours

[A]

of 12 to 3.

[B]

Yeah, exactly.

[A]

Is it true or not? Because I experienced this, this summer, and you're the expert, so you will tell me. So I obviously had a really stressful summer. A lot was going on with work, and even though I spent a ton of time outside in the morning, was getting in natural light, obviously got a ton of color. The summer finishes, I come back three months later and I'm really badly vitamin D deficient. And it's messed up because vitamin D is a master hormone. Messed up all of my other hormones. And I sat there and thought to myself, here I am spending a ton of time in sun, getting in my morning light, all of that. But because my nervous system was dysregulated.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

My body could not absorb, even from the sun, the vitamin D that I was actually getting.

[B]

Think about it. Our whole gut is like a nervous, you know. You know, when you get really nervous, you totally feel it in your gut. It's because there's so much of your nervous system that's there and you can't absorb the things you need to absorb when that nervous system is always on. And I honestly I would suggest this for you or anyone who's listening or watching that is a woman especially like in the age range of like 30s, all the way to 50s is you have to prioritize the cortisol because I call it, you have to do a cortisol reset every time you come back from a trip, every time you come back from a hard work event because your body needs recovery for it to function better.

[A]

And what is a cortisol reset?

[B]

Okay, so it's going to be like three to five days of actually doing everything you can to calm that nervous system. So it's like sunlight in the morning. Maybe it's not the aggressive high intensity workouts, maybe it's yoga, maybe it's walking in nature. And then you're going to cut your caffeine in half. For people who drink alcohol, you're going to cut your alcohol out. You're going to eat foods that really support your gut, more soups and protein rich foods. And you're gonna do things like in the evening you can take ashwagandha, rhodiola things to calm your nervous system. And then you're gonna spend a few minutes every day during this cortisol reset, really taking that time to do your meditation or mindfulness. So the goal is not just what you actually do, the goal is what you don't do. So you're really gonna manage your nervous system. Almost like imagine you're going on a beach vacation and you have no responsibilities. Like you're gonna do that for yourself even though you're home.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

That mindset of like I'm in relaxed mode, not going to get into any, you know, like big arguments or do everything you can to kind of calm your nervous system. So that goes with food but also the workouts, maybe not doing that like high intensity and doing like more nature based because that brings down your cortisol, also increasing your sleep by at least 20 minutes.

[A]

Really? So even just 20 minutes makes a difference?

[B]

Just 20 minutes. Because what happens Iman is like if I told you to go to bed at 8 o' clock tonight and you usually go to midnight, go to bed at midnight, like there's no way you're going to go to bed.

[A]

Right.

[B]

But if I tell you instead of midnight, go to sleep at 40.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know, like you could do it. That's how you can increase the amount of, that's the best De stressor there is is getting adequate sleep and getting some sunlight in the morning.

[A]

And just those two things by themselves can really help reset your cortisol response in your body.

[B]

Let me tell you, after doing that for three to five days, I usually ask people how they feel, and they're like, I want to do this all the time. So it's kind of like. So when you see elite athletes, Right. Or NBA players, they spend as much time, if not more, in recovery than they do. And what you're doing for your work and what a lot of women are doing is like an elite athlete.

[A]

Absolutely.

[B]

You need that recovery to function.

[C]

Yeah.

[A]

I think women in today's society are so chronically inflamed and stressed out, which is why we're having more health issues. Because, and I said this on a podcast earlier this week, because we're living so out of design of what we're actually able to withstand in terms of stress.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Because we have so many expectations that are placed in us. We have to look a certain way. We have to be in our feminine. We have to do this. We have to do this.

[C]

Our body's just like, what do you want from me?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

What is my role here?

[B]

One of the best tips I've ever gotten is that after you do the cortisol reset is keep 20% of your day free. And let me tell you why. When you are booked back to back to back to back to back, not only are you not present, you know, because you're like, oh, Next thing you know, correct. You are not getting time to process the information. Correct. And recover from whatever it is you did. And sometimes you're having a great conversation, say, and you can't finish it because you're on to the next. Right. So one of the biggest thing I learned is, like, in medical school, we were told to pack your schedule back to back. And when I started to leave 20% of my day free, I found so much growth because big things don't come to overwhelm people. You need time to, like, process your nervous system. If it's in fight or flight, it cannot make a good decision.

[A]

But most of us are living in fight or flight constantly.

[B]

And I was, too. And that's why this changed my life, because I'm like, oh, cortisol reset. Amazing. I would do that for three to five days, and then you would come back to your crazy life. And so then I started to add in a few, like, little breaks throughout the day, and it made the biggest difference in the world. A little nature Walk.

[A]

You know, it's so funny you were saying that. So today I was having a really hard conversation with somebody I really care about. And normally I'm such a reactive person. I'm like, that's it. Cut blank. I made my decision because I'm like, I've made up my mind. I thought to myself, but maybe where I'm coming from is because I'm tired,

[C]

I'm stressed, maybe I'm not in the

[A]

right with what I'm thinking.

[B]

That's right.

[A]

Maybe. Maybe I need time and space to really sit, calm my nervous system and feel safe in my body before I can actually come to a decision. You know?

[B]

That's right.

[A]

Because I'm like, maybe this isn't the time to ask me anything serious right now because I don't know what I'm gonna feel. Right. And I started the conversation with saying where I'm coming from. I don't know if this is my final take on things. Right. Because I don't know how I feel right now.

[B]

I'm telling you. Like, if you think of animals, very easy to see in animals, right?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

When they're in fight or flight.

[A]

Correct.

[B]

They're only thinking about survival.

[C]

Correct.

[B]

And they're not thinking, like, planning for next year. You know, like, it is so innate in us when we're in survival mode, to pick the answer that is just the easiest right now to protect just you.

[A]

And sometimes just protecting us and just keeping ourselves safe is not what's meant to be.

[B]

That's right. And like, the biggest answers I've ever gotten is because after I had the call or the meeting or the trip, I kept that 20%. And like, when you're walking in nature and you don't have to rush that next thing, that's when it comes to you, and you're like, this is what I should do.

[A]

And sometimes I think to myself, the threat that we're feeling, is it really external or is it internal? And if it's internal, where is that internal coming from? Where is a lack of safety and security coming from? And my nervous system is just so heightened right now. It maybe is not what I think it is.

[B]

And iman, this is why I think religion and meditation, mindfulness. I think, you know, when you're growing up, a lot of people are like, oh, whatever, you know, but it's a time for people to kind of slow down and maybe go inwards. Because oftentimes when you do that, you come out, you have the answer. Yeah, it's the same thing. You're getting yourself out of that fight or flight, you're getting yourself in a different realm.

[C]

Yep.

[B]

And then you can come back and make a better decision.

[A]

Absolutely. And that's what I was thinking about today is, like, if we just had more regulated nervous system and we could create safety and security in our bodies, then if we're in a position that we're having a hard conversation or something that normally would trigger us, maybe we could have a different response to it because we're able to see things as the observer versus the person who's in the reaction moment.

[B]

Well, and, you know, women especially, not only are we more sensitive to stress, but as we move through perimenopause, 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond, you become more sensitive to stress. So the same amount that it used to take you to feel overwhelmed, it happens sooner with less.

[A]

Overall, I'm at this event, and obviously we planned everything, put this together, but I have to be talented.

[C]

I have to moderate and stuff.

[A]

And I was like, man, I used to, back in the day, run, like, seven days worth of Fashion Week, do Art Basel events back to back to back. And I'm feeling exhausted even faster. I'm just feeling depleted.

[B]

Exactly. And that's partially because our hormones are changing and our ability to kind of buffer that cortisol response is lower. And so you need to do even more to recover than you used to. And that's why perimenopause ends up being a time of major anxiety and mental health challenges.

[A]

Oh, totally. I just had to put myself on hormone replacement therapy because I was like, I'm not feeling like myself, guys.

[B]

Yeah. I mean, this is, like, this is happening. I just think that for women especially, I think we need to be conscious of that. It's so funny. I work with a couple patients, and one of them is a OB gyn, and she still delivers babies. And, you know, and we always laugh because her life outside of the hospital is constant cortisol reset. And that's kind of like you probably.

[A]

Yeah, yeah.

[B]

Like, every time you're not doing what you need to do, you should be working on your nervous system to kind of, like, calm yourself to get ready for that next hit. Because otherwise you're going to be, like, burned out, anxious, stressed all the time.

[A]

Exhaust. I have a question for you, though. Being that we are South Asian, in our culture, there's no such thing as slowing down. And people have all these, like. I mean, I grew up like this. Everything is. You have to be the best at everything. You have to always be an overachiever being meaty, there's no, no space to being mediocre. There's no such thing. And so we grow up not only highly competitive with ourselves, but we always are trying to push ourselves to the max. When our genetics are wired to be this way, how do we create that space?

[B]

Okay, so if you think about it, this is so beautiful. But a lot of us came to a different part of the world. Like my parents brought, came from a small village to the US because they wanted us to have the opportunity. They wanted their daughters to have the opportunity to share something with the world that maybe their moms and their family did not get a chance to do. Right. There's a lot of people where I grew up that wanted to do really big things but couldn't because either they got married and pregnant or, you know, things change, changed in their lives. They moved to their in laws house or whatever it is. So you have this amazing opportunity to share your gifts in a way that your ancestors never were not able to do.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And so it's a big responsibility.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And I think that's what we're feeling is that big responsibility on our shoulders to be like, we need to take advantage of this. But at the same time, you are a pro athlete and a pro athlete to go out there on the field.

[A]

Right.

[B]

They have to have recovery. I mean, they're not gonna make it

[A]

if they didn't have the moments to slow down, rethink, calibrate, and reset their bodies.

[B]

Yeah. And that's the hard part for me and you, I'm sure, is that we don't have a lot of role models. Right. I know that we can say, oh, it's like aunt this or like mom that. You know, most of us are the first in our generation to be doing what we're doing. Yeah.

[A]

I was going to also ask you, what is 3033 and does it work for all body types and people?

[B]

Yes. So here's the thing. When I was really diving into nutrition for women, I noticed something. None of the textbooks had a chapter on nutrition. I mean, there was. We get so little training in medicine. I think it's 80% of people. Patients don't feel like they're getting enough guidance around, you know, diet, nutrition, lifestyle. And so I thought to myself, well, that's so silly. Like, we need to arm people. My mom, South Asian, huge community of women. I interviewed her and I said, what did you learn about menopause?

[A]

She's like, what do you mean?

[B]

She was like, we didn't Talk about it. I mean, we didn't know. And I'm like, after all those generations,

[A]

nobody thought to bring it up. No, but they did.

[B]

She just thought she was going crazy. And all of them thought they were going crazy. Like the mind, body, whatever. And so it's just such a shame that you couldn't even just say, hey, you know what? Change your diet. Maybe, like, you know, you need a little more recovery. And so I thought to myself, what is from everything I know? What is the best kind of advice I would give to any woman who comes to me and asks me, hey, I'm going through these hormonal changes. I'm working on, you know, my hormones, whatever, getting hormone therapy. But, like, what can I do now that's making a difference? And gut health changes within days. I mean, people start doing 30, 33, and I'll explain what it is in a second, and they will feel better within a week. And so I feel like this should be in our textbooks. This should be given to every woman because. And it's just a framework. It's 30 grams of protein in your first meal. Okay, 30 grams of fiber throughout the day, and three probiotic foods. I'll explain each one. 30 grams of protein in the morning is because not only are you getting pro, you're setting yourself up to get adequate protein, but studies have shown that you will be more satiated, your blood sugars will be better controlled, you have better choices throughout the day. So that's 30 grams of protein. 30 grams of fiber. That is what we need to feed our gut. Our gut is starving. 90% of people don't get enough fiber for our gut. So even things like berries and avocados, surprising things, have high fiber chia seeds. And then the three probiotic foods, that's a hard one. Because all traditional societies all over the world, especially Middle East, Asia, had fermented foods as part of their diet. But over the years, as things got more processed, sometimes they're not fermented, they're just pickled and put in the fridge. So the old way of making it the fermented way, before we had refrigerators and processing and all that stuff, that's actually the best way.

[A]

Right?

[B]

So we still have yogurt. So that's a great example of something easy that you can do for probiotics. But a lot of people are not eating any probiotics. And in a day, not. I mean, three is like a stretch for most people, even if it's one spoon.

[A]

Right. It's crazy that so much of Our health issues would be fixed and not be where they are if we stuck to an ancestral diet 100% and how we are ancestrally meant to eat and operate and each one of us different.

[C]

Right.

[A]

Even just you look at some countries, like India and Pakistan, whether you're from the north or the south, depending on how much meat you're expending, supposed to, or you're vegetarian, that can also make a massive difference, 100%.

[B]

And, you know, like, they found that people who lived on the coast, like people in Kerala in India, had much better brain health, you know, because they're eating fish a lot. And so it's like, yeah, it depends on how you grew up. But because of the South Asian kind of thrifty genes and the diet and then the lack of exercise, it's like a death nail.

[A]

I'm telling you, being South Asian, every

[C]

time I gain even a little bit

[A]

of muscle mass, I'm like, man, I'm killing it.

[C]

Because I know I have to work

[A]

so much harder than a friend who's Brazilian or African American. It kills me. To gain that muscle mass 100%. I have to push myself 10 times harder at the gym than somebody else with different genes.

[B]

Most South Asians have an issue of being skinny fat, or having fat deposition in places that are really dangerous.

[A]

Like this stomach. Exactly.

[B]

And that's like something I was even thinking with my family. With the diabetes, there's heart disease. And a lot of them, a lot of people in my family have a lot of visceral fat.

[A]

It's kind of common.

[B]

Yeah, Very, very common thing. And it's very. I mean, it's true with many different cultures. South Asians, also Latina. Yeah. Middle Eastern, all of them.

[A]

I wanted to ask you. Approximately 80% of women experience some form of menstrual pain that's really insanely high. But I had heard a doctor, a really great MD that I know, saying that we should not be experiencing period cramps if we're properly taking care of ourselves.

[B]

Let me tell you this, okay. When I'll give you an example. I see this in myself all the time. If you have a very stressful month with terrible food choices like bad sleep, pretty much guarantee that your period that month is going to be awful. The PMS will be awful. It's just like your hormonal reserve is

[A]

going to be depleted.

[B]

Yeah. And so that makes sense that when you actually eat good food, you're eating, like. I noticed that when I started to add, like, fix my vitamin D deficiency, I added more Magnesium to my diet, added more omega 3s, added more fiber and built up my gut. My PMS almost is like non existent.

[A]

Absolutely. And I think also when you are hydrating correctly, Yes, a lot of us are walking out chronically dehydrated ourselves is not just. And I want you to tell the audience over here, it's not just about drinking water.

[B]

Yeah. I mean, I honestly feel like especially when you're in a hot place or sweating a lot, you need to replenish electrolytes. Especially if you're sweating a lot or you're doing a lot of sauna therapy. I mean, I love sauna therapy for longevity, but you need to replace your electrolytes after you do that.

[A]

Leaving our audience and the women on the show that obviously dive in for people like you and for me to bring people like you on the show and your expertise, we. What is the one piece of advice that you think all women need to implement into their life?

[B]

The one piece of advice I would give is give yourself that space that, like we talked about, like, give yourself space and permission to be able to think and to process and to. And to be the best version of yourself. Don't worry about what the world is saying to you. That way you can step into who you really are and do the things that you're meant to do.

[A]

I am so grateful. I've been trying to get you on my show for 18 months, by the way.

[B]

I'm so happy.

[A]

I'm so excited it happened finally. Even though Saudi Arabia, Riyadh, we're all here experiencing this region together. And I'm so grateful I got to sit down with you. I heard you speak today on a panel and I was like, you're such an inspiration. And the fact that you're South Asian, I'm so passionate about looking into our history and what our women specially go through. So thank you so much, Dr. Shah.

[B]

Thank you for having me. This was so great.