Episode Overview

In this episode of Busy Mom Talk, we sit down with Dr. Vanessa Myers, a new mom of twins and recent PhD graduate, to talk about what it really looks like to balance motherhood with higher education. From strategically planning her pregnancy during her PhD to navigating the unexpected challenges of a micro-premature birth, Vanessa shares an honest and powerful look into resilience, adaptability, and the realities of doing both. This conversation is for any mom who feels like she’s juggling everything at once and wondering how to make it all work.

Key Topics Covered

The Reality of Balancing a PhD and New Motherhood

Vanessa walks us through how she intentionally planned her academic timeline around starting a family, and how that planning helped set her up for success. But even with preparation, she shares how quickly expectations can shift once babies arrive—especially with twins.

When Plans Change: Navigating the Unexpected

The early arrival of her twins at 26 weeks brought a completely different experience than expected. Vanessa opens up about the emotional and physical challenges of a NICU journey, and how she coped during one of the most difficult periods of her life.

Time Management and Working in the Margins

From writing her dissertation during nap times to learning how to prioritize what truly matters, Vanessa shares realistic strategies for getting things done in small pockets of time. This is not about perfection—it’s about progress.

The Importance of Support Systems

A major theme throughout this episode is the role of community. Vanessa highlights how family, friends, and support networks played a critical role in helping her manage both motherhood and academia.

Mindset, Resilience, and Letting Go of Expectations

Vanessa reflects on the mental shift required to navigate both roles. From letting go of rigid expectations to embracing flexibility, she shares how mindset plays a huge role in surviving and thriving during demanding seasons of life.

Final Thoughts

This episode is a reminder that there is no “perfect” way to balance motherhood and big goals. It’s messy, unpredictable, and deeply personal—but it is possible. Whether you’re in school, building a career, or navigating a new season of motherhood, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, supported, and inspired to keep going.

Dr. Vanessa Myers' Birth & Postpartum Experience With Twin Micro-Premie Babies