Episode Overview
Title: How to Handle Overwhelm When You’re Drowning in Sessions
Host: Brooke Jefferson
Date: October 16, 2025
Podcast: Book More Photography Clients Podcast
Main Theme:
Brooke Jefferson addresses the all-too-familiar overwhelm that photographers experience during peak seasons. She shares practical, proactive strategies to help listeners manage hectic schedules, avoid burnout, and find peace—even when sessions (and editing!) are piling up. Drawing from her own experiences, Brooke normalizes the chaos of busy seasons and provides actionable tips to simplify routines, delegate tasks, and plan ahead, all while encouraging a mindset of gratitude for opportunities in the photography business.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Recognize and Respect Your Capacity
- Purpose: Understanding personal limits as a foundation for preventing burnout and planning better for future busy seasons.
- “This season I want you to treat it like a mirror, okay? It’s going to show you what your true limits are.” (03:32)
- Brooke shares her own challenges, noting her shift from having edit-time at a prior job to now squeezing editing into limited weeknights and weekends.
- Practical Step:
- Take real-time notes on what’s adding stress or slipping through the cracks (e.g., laundry, family meals).
- Use what you learn to set better boundaries and say “no” more judiciously next year.
- “If you’re maxed out and you’re stressed to the brim, then that is a clue for next year. And I want you to make yourself a note right now what those things are.” (05:14)
2. Shift and Adjust Your Routines
- Purpose: Embracing the need for seasonal routine changes—what works in summer may not apply in the fall’s busy workflow.
- “Busy season requires a shift. How you were in the summer is not how you can be in the fall. It just doesn’t work like that.” (07:24)
- Brooke normalizes non-traditional, variable routines within the photography industry.
- Practical Suggestions:
- Wake up earlier or stay up later to fit in editing.
- Temporarily cut back on TV/streaming shows (e.g., “Maybe we need to just, like, cut back on those Netflix binges and save them for our slower season.” (10:19)).
- Dedicate specific days/times (e.g., Saturday mornings) for tasks like gallery deliveries.
- Remember: These are temporary adjustments for the busy season only.
3. Delegate Housework and Personal Chores
- Purpose: Relieving personal stress by enlisting help from family or others in managing household duties.
- “You cannot do it all. You cannot. I cannot. … I used to take pride in doing everything by myself. Yeah. No, in this season, I would love to do none of it.” (13:01)
- Brooke shares candidly about assigning chores to her husband and children (ages 9 and 12) and encourages listeners to do the same if possible.
- Impact: Outsourcing even small chores can significantly reduce stress.
4. Delegate or Outsource Business Tasks
- Purpose: Freeing up time and focus by assigning business tasks—such as editing, email management, or bookkeeping—to assistants or outside help.
- “As a photographer, we’ve glamorized being a one-man or a one-woman show. … I’m not glamorizing that because I think that’s very unrealistic.” (16:22)
- Brooke shares her experience: Reaching revenue goals solo was stressful, and even adding one virtual assistant “takes the weight off of me and it just helps so much.” (17:00)
- Encourages listeners to start with outsourcing just one task to realize the benefits.
5. Batching Tasks for Efficiency
- Purpose: Maximizing productivity by grouping similar tasks to avoid inefficient task-switching.
- “Batching is your best friend, especially in busy seasons.” (18:12)
- Examples:
- Setting aside a block of time to process all emails, then moving on to editing or social media scheduling—without bouncing between tasks.
- “When I’m editing, I’m literally, like, setting a timer for, okay, you’re sitting down for 45 minutes. You’re not getting up. You’re not going to even open the Internet like this. 45 minutes.” (19:53)
- For marketing, batch social media content for upcoming weeks/months during a slower period.
- Takeaway: Batching saves mental energy and helps maintain focus.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
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“If you’re listening to this episode in real time, then you know this is the craziest season of the year. Sessions are piling up, editing feels endless, and it can feel like you’re drowning. Can I get an amen? Not a hallelujah, right? Because we’re not overly ecstatic about it.”
— Brooke (00:01) -
“Pay attention to what you’re able to handle right now so you can set boundaries and limits in the future.”
— Brooke (05:36) -
“It’s okay that we don’t have a—every day doesn’t look the same for us and it’s never going to, and that’s okay. And I just want to normalize that.”
— Brooke (09:42) -
“I used to take pride in doing everything by myself. Yeah. No, in this season, I would love to do none of it.”
— Brooke (13:16) -
“As a photographer, we’ve glamorized being a one-man or a one-woman show. … It’s very rare for you to hit the really big ones … by yourself. Just saying. I’ve done it. And I also will tell you it was the most stressed out I’ve ever been.”
— Brooke (16:22) -
“Batch, batch, batch. Batching is your best friend, especially in busy seasons.”
— Brooke (18:12) -
“Remember those days that you prayed that your business would get bookings … You are getting paid to do what you love. … Protect your energy, adjust your routines, lean on your people. The calmer you are, the better you’ll serve your clients, and the more you’ll actually enjoy this season instead of just surviving it.”
— Brooke (21:04)
Key Timestamps
- [00:01] — Introduction and acknowledgment of busy season overwhelm
- [03:32] — Recognizing capacity; using the season as a “mirror”
- [07:24] — Shifting and changing routines by season
- [10:19] — Suggestions for cutting back during busy periods (TV, routines)
- [13:01] — Delegating housework to family
- [16:22] — Delegating/outsource business tasks; realities of being a solo photographer
- [18:12] — Batching as a tool for focus and efficiency, with practical examples
- [21:04] — Gratitude and mindset: seeing busy season as the “answered prayer” and encouragement to find joy
Final Takeaways
- Overwhelm in busy seasons is universal in the photography industry—Brooke validates these feelings with empathy and humor.
- Proactively noting your limits, adjusting routines, delegating both at home and in business, and batching tasks can all help you thrive rather than just survive during peak times.
- Embrace the seasonality of the work and be intentional about finding gratitude in the busyness.
- Listeners are encouraged to implement at least one strategy right away and connect with Brooke to share their choice.
For more tips from Brooke, follow her on Instagram @brookejanaephoto or visit www.brookejefferson.com.
