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Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler
Hosted by Taylor Chandler · EN
I help people break negative relationship cycles by shifting from Insecure to Secure Attachment.
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Love is Blind Pre-Reunion Breakdown (Season 10)
Mar 1100:33:49Tap to summarizeMy Love is Blind Season 10 Pre-Reunion Breakdown.Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Reattach Course: https://payhip.com/b/rdBRF00:00:57 Alex00:03:23 Ashley00:08:16 Chris00:09:36 Jessica00:12:02 Connor00:14:17 Bri00:16:55 Devonte00:19:25 Brittany00:21:17 Jordan00:22:29 Amber00:22:49 Mike00:23:45 Emma00:26:11 Kevan00:29:19 Tyler 00:30:30 Keya00:32:01 Vic & ChristineThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →The Disempowered Man - Entitled Woman Dynamic (this is what Kevin Samuels exposed)
Feb 900:28:46Tap to summarizeThe Disempowered-Man and Entitled-Woman dynamic is a problematic pair, where the man sinks into a powerless role and the woman takes over. The masculine frame has broken down. The woman tries to become the man she wanted from the beginning.The catastrophic breakdown of relationships and family in America is layered. One of the major issues is the absence of healthy, present father figures. Men without role models to help guide how they lead themselves and the family has left an enormous void. We also have social-cultural issues such as media glamorizing divorce; weaponoization of the legal system; pedastalizing the woman’s experience, while dismissing and degrading the man’s experience — and more.If you’re caught in this dynamic and you need help breaking and correcting this pattern as an individual or couple, complete my interest form. From there, I’ll reach out to schedule a consultation.👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08LWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/⏰ Timestamps:00:05:48 Intro to the Disempowered Man & Entitled Woman00:10:13 Red Pill Rabbithole00:11:41 Drained but can’t complain00:15:35 Where does this dynamic come from?Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →The Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic: Doing Too Much and Feeling Like You're Not Enough
Feb 200:21:22Tap to summarizeThis is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship.We’re not blaming the person “doing less” or sympathizing with the person “doing more” — I’m pulling the veil back so you can see the inner workings of what’s happening in this dynamic and I’m giving solutions for what to do about it.Mentioned videos —8 models for Self & Relational Development: https://youtu.be/tLHS3kaacgoSER Model: https://youtu.be/mOwCXoETFxc👩🏾🏫 Conflict in Couples Workshop: https://taylorchandler.as.me/schedule/7f693168/?appointmentTypeIds[]=88471947👉 Interest form to work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L💻 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/⏰ Timestamps:00:00:38 What are Relationship Dynamics?0:02:37 The Capacity Problem00:04:28 Three domains of capacity00:11:24 Solutions for the O-U DynamicThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 2026 (Short and Sweet)
Jan 2600:12:56Tap to summarizeYou know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me.For a few years of my practice I almost solely helped people shift from insecure to secure attachment. I even had a group class called Reattach. Now YOU can do Reattach at your own pace. You can get the class and the exercises that have helped hundreds of people get a grip on their attachment and make positive changes.Head to my website to grab it and if you need additional help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me through my interest form or email: Taylor@iamtaylorchandler.com👉 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/👉 Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L⏰ Timestamps:00:00:40 What is an attachment style?00:02:06 My therapy journey with attachment 00:06:25 The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic00:10:00 Cycles of learning but not actingThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →2026 Foresights about Dating and Relationships: Critical thinking, sharper discernment, and a return to courtship
Jan 1900:44:50Tap to summarizeHey y’all, I’m giving my foresights on what I think we’re going to see this year of 2026 in the dating and relationship lane. Just my thoughts! I’ll give a brief overview in the beginning of what we’ve seen in recent past.Check out the timestamps for the points and click the link below if you’re interested in working with me:👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L⏰ Timestamps:00:01:17 What we’ve seen in the recent pasts00:09:32 What’s coming down the pipeline00:09:45 Polarized Daters00:12:02 Echo chambers up, engagement down00:15:28 Turning away from relationship influencer culture00:27:42 Sharper discernment00:28:37 A return to courtship00:39:46 Learning and un-learningThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →Renewal of the Mind Pt. 3: Mindset
Jan 1201:05:24Tap to summarizeThe final part of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mindset. I’m talking about 5 core aspects of Mindset in a way that makes it easy to understand and take action on. The more positive core aspects you have, the higher quality of life you will have — and when you maximize those positives, it gets even better. In this lane of personal and relational development, you get better options (so you’ll marry better), you’ll be more likable, better energy… an overall high vibe. Everyone wants it and when you set your mind to it, you’ll get it.👉 Work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L⏰ Timestamps: 00:04:44 Mindset00:15:25 Benefits of the Right Mindset00:30:29 Talk about the 5 Core AspectsThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →Renewal of the Mind Pt. 2: Mind Control
Jan 500:32:23Tap to summarizePart 2 of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mind Control. I’m expanding on this principle: the quality of your thoughts directly affects the quality of your life. Mind control is a skill that is more important now than ever (if you don’t do it, someone else will do it for you). I have 3 mechanisms for you to activate to heighten your degree of influence over your life. ⏰ Timestamps: 00:56:00 Thoughts are running us00:08:56 Mind Control is a skill00:10:30 Awareness is the starting point00:13:35 Living beneath you00:22:15 Three Mechanisms to ActivateThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →Renewal of the Mind Pt. 1: Identity
Dec 2900:34:10Tap to summarizeThis is for people who are determined to separate from the noise and shift to a higher level. In this episode, I’m talking about Identity, the foundation of a Renewed Mind. As we grow, we have to keep upgrading our system — and the internal system is where it all starts. This is the first of a 3-part series. Next up is Mind Control and Mindset.⏰ Timestamps:00:02:09 Principle: Quality of Thinking Determines Quality of Life00:05:30 Identity00:12:45 Transcending Group Identity00:15:07 Supporting Bible Verses00:30:25 Roots and Fruits⏯️ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glHH9JBbo_I&feature=youtu.beThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →Dating in a New Season (Intentional Dating)
Dec 2200:35:49Tap to summarizeIf you’re a man or woman intentionally dating or want to start dating that way, this one is for you. Rather than focusing on how rough it is out there, let’s talk about what you can do to make it a whole lot better. I’m also sharing a bit about what started my journey to intentional dating (which takes about the first 8 minutes).FitnessPurposeSpiritual DisciplineSexual DisciplineLifestyleRelationshipsPetsHomeTimestamps:00:03:08 Dating in Atlanta and transitioning to intentional dating00:10:22 Eight Areas of Focus for Serious Dating00:12:00 Fitness00:14:20 Purpose00:17:44 Spiritual Discipline00:20:41 Sexual Discipline00:24:05 Lifestyle00:28:00 Relationships00:31:42 Pets00:33:03 HomeThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Transcribe →It's a New Season (and I need to talk about Jesus, again)
Dec 2100:27:17Tap to summarizeI have a major update for you. I know this isn't going to fly with some people, and I've wrestled with this myself, but I know what I need to do. I'm ready to share it with you.In this video, I'm talking about:1. The answer to your pain (relational wounds -- from family, marriage, exes)2. Restructuring my business3. JesusThank you for your support! Work with me: Interest FormWebsite: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
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