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Development Desk—a space where parenting meets psychology, advocacy meets action, and insight replaces the noise. I’m Ana, a school psychologist and mom, sharing what I’ve learned from years inside the system and alongside families. Together, we’ll unpack the why behind the behavior, decode the school processes, and build something strong—one conversation at a time.
From insight to action. From chaos to clarity. This is Development Desk.
Disclaimer: The information shared on Development Desk is for educational and informational purposes only. While I am a licensed school psychologist, this podcast does not constitute psychological services, legal advice, or a therapeutic relationship. The views expressed are my own and do not reflect the policies or positions of any school district or employer. This content is not a substitute for professional consultation with a qualified provider in your state. Always seek appropriate support when making decisions related to your child’s education, health, or legal rights.

In Part 2, Ana and Amanda move into the hard conversations parents don’t always know how to name—classroom behavior, discipline, sensory overwhelm, and when advocacy feels necessary but uncomfortable. They unpack what schools are required to do, why parents often feel brushed off, and how direct, documented communication can change the trajectory for a child. Woven throughout is a candid discussion about screen limits, social media pressure, and how our own upbringing influences the boundaries we set today.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

Many parents are shocked and frustrated when a child has a medical diagnosis of autism but does not qualify for Autism services at school. This episode breaks down why that disconnect exists by clearly explaining the educational eligibility criteria used by schools in Texas, without clinical jargon or DSM language. Parents will walk away with clarity on what schools are legally required to evaluate, what “educational impact” really means, and why a diagnosis alone does not automatically trigger services. The goal is understanding, not dismissal—and empowerment, not confusion.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

In this first conversation of a new parent interview series, Ana sits down with her longtime friend Amanda to talk honestly about raising a middle schooler in today’s world. What begins as light banter quickly unfolds into a thoughtful discussion about identity, safety, values, academic pressure, and the emotional weight parents quietly carry while trying to do right by their kids. Together, they explore how parenting decisions aren’t always about the “right” answer, but about resilience, trust, and choosing the lessons we want our children to carry forward. This episode is a reminder that there is no perfect parenting, only intentional parenting.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

After school is when many children unravel and parents are left wondering why homework feels impossible. In this episode, we unpack what’s really happening neurologically and emotionally after a long school day, and why dysregulation is not defiance. You’ll learn practical, realistic strategies to help your child decompress, transition, and approach homework with less resistance. The takeaway: smoother evenings start with regulation, not pressure.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

What does it mean for a child or teen to become emotionally independent—and how can parents support that journey without pushing too soon? In this episode, Dr. Verenice D’Santiago-Eastman helps us unpack age-appropriate milestones of emotional growth and shares practical tools to help kids name their thoughts, challenge unhelpful patterns, and build their own self-regulation toolkit. From mindfulness to journaling to the right questions at the right time, this conversation will help parents support reflection without pressure.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

In this episode, we sit down with Claudia Flores, a seasoned Speech-Language Pathologist who has spent over a decade working across medical and school settings. Claudia brings a wealth of experience and a heart for empowering families, educators, and students with language needs. Together, we dive into the power of early intervention, how parents can naturally support their child’s communication at home, and why genuine collaboration between parents and teachers matters more than ever.You’ll also hear Claudia’s perspective on what real appreciation for teachers looks like and how small shifts in understanding can make a big difference for every child. You’ll walk away with simple, practical tools to boost your child’s communication skills—and a deeper understanding of how to partner effectively with educators for your child’s success.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

What happens when schools ask for more family engagement — but parents and teachers are already burned out? In Part 2 of our conversation, Dr. Cassie Romo shares real talk on balancing school expectations with family capacity, designing events that actually work for communities, and how to partner with grace on both sides.We also explore meaningful inclusion for students with disabilities and how educators and families can keep the child at the center — even when resources are stretched.This episode is for any parent or teacher looking to build bridges, not burnout.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

Dr. Cassie Romo has sat on both sides of the IEP table — as a school administrator and as a parent of a child with Down syndrome. In this powerful conversation, she opens up about what it means to advocate for your child, the overwhelm parents face in special education, and the communication gaps that often leave families feeling lost.We talk about why your voice matters, even when you feel unsure, and how schools can create more compassionate spaces for parents navigating complex decisions.If you’ve ever second-guessed yourself in a meeting or worried about being “too much,” this episode is your reminder: you are your child’s best advocate.https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

In Part 2 of our conversation with Dr. Ashley Sommerhalder, we dig into the “what now?”—the screenings, tests, and small shifts that can make a big difference when you’re feeling off. We discuss why traditional doctor visits often fall short, how to advocate for yourself when labs say you’re “normal,” and why so many women feel dismissed in medical spaces. Ashley shares one accessible habit that improves mood, hormone regulation, and family connection—without costing a dime.This is your permission to stop brushing off your symptoms. When moms feel better, families function better.What’s one small shift you can make this week to prioritize your health without guilt?https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk

What if your brain fog, fatigue, or irritability isn’t “just parenting”—but a deeper signal from your body? In Part 1 of this powerful conversation, Dr. Ashley Sommerhalder, a board-certified family medicine physician and menopause practitioner, helps us understand the hidden hormonal shifts that shape our mood, energy, and relationships at home. From postpartum changes to perimenopause symptoms that start earlier than most women realize, we unpack how hormones can impact executive functioning, emotional regulation, and parenting confidence—long before hot flashes ever show up.Whether you’re in your 30s or 50s, this episode is a reminder: your health affects your whole household. What have you been chalking up to “just stress”—that might be worth investigating further?https://www.youtube.com/@DevelopmentDesk