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I know people don't like new things, but we're just curious because we know you love dysfunctional relationship drama, obviously. And many of our new listeners on the Second date feed right here. Thank you so much for being here. Don't realize that we actually do a full, full hour of brand new content every day. A full show. That's not all second dates. We do another segment that is very relationship drama heavy and very loved. Yeah. Yes. Totally beloved. That's called Awkward Tuesday Phone Calls. And that's whenever you have a relationship issue and you need our help making a phone call. So on Sundays, just for this month only, we're going to try it out, see what you guys think. If you like it, if you don't like it, let us know in the comments. I think you're going to love it. I mean, if you like the second date, you're going to be obsessed with Awkward Tuesday. Yeah, they. I mean, sometimes they're more dramatic. Yeah. Cause it could be anything. Yeah. Truly. Truly. I could call Brooke, tell her I stole her wallet and I want to come clean about it. Oh, wait, did you. Oh, by the way, we should have a talk after this. Okay. All right. All right. Here it is. Here's your awkward Tuesday phone call on a Sunday, just for you. We're trying it out. Listen up. I never want to tell the listeners what they should and shouldn't do in their personal lives. I feel like a but is coming, but I do every once in a while. Okay. Yep. Because I have to warn them if something bad's going to happen. Okay, that's good. And that's why today I'm telling all our listeners, do not go to a certain book signing in New York that's coming up soon. Cause there is 100% chance you or someone you know will fall madly in love and leave your significant other. Oh, boy. That is a bold statement. People. Listen to me. I have no idea who's at the book site. How do I Know this. Cause that person is at the center of our awkward Tuesday phone call. And I just looked them up online, and Oof. You're going. You're. That is a spicy meatball. We'll let you know. That was a sloppy meatball. Yeah, we'll let you know who this glamor puss is when things get awkward. Next. It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward. Tuesday phone call. When you're in a relationship, is it okay for your significant other to have a crush on somebody else? You know, it's something you should work through together. I think it's okay. But could probably happen. I mean, it depends on who it is, right? Like, if it's a celebrity crush, that's probably fine, but if it's one of their co workers, that's a little bit messy. Yeah. Now, Brooke, I'm your co worker and also kind of a celebrity. Yeah. And your crush. I think this is dangerous territory that we're getting into here. You are not my crush, Brooke. Are you saying I'm your crush? Who's the word crush? I don't have one. Oh, it's Alex. I'm sure you don't. I see what we're getting at. Anyway, let's not focus on Brooke and the craziness going on in her head. Let's talk to Connor, who's worried that his girlfriend may have a little bit of an unhealthy crush. Connor, welcome to the show, man. Thank you. Hi, Connor. How long have you been dating your girlfriend? So we've been dating for a little over a year now. Okay, do you know her name yet? Yes. Vanessa. Vanessa. Vanessa. Okay, so what's going on? Why are you so concerned? Okay, so we moved in together a little while ago, and she decided to buy a peloton for our place. And, yeah, it's Peloton, but we don't. He obviously doesn't ride. Oh, Brooke, you've had one for a month. Stop talking. I thought they bought a pelican for a second. Whatever. It's her thing. I don't even know how to pronounce it. Okay. She's been really, really into it, you know, I thought was great. Yeah. And, you know, bonus for me, she looks amazing riding the bike in her workout clothes, you know, Nice. It's a good view. But noticing she seems to be really into one of the instructors who's a guy, and she's always taking his classes, and who cares? I'm sorry, I got to step in on this one. Like, the peloton Instructors are all incredibly sexy. Yeah, yeah, there isn't one on there. I haven't found a uggo yet. I mean, have you? Well, I don't think they would hire an ugly person to be doing it. Wouldn't be a good advertisement for their company. Yeah, like hot and fit, right? Yeah. Do you know which guy it is? Connor. I honestly can't remember the guy's name, but like, I get it. I mean, he's really good looking, you know, he's obviously in shape. He's got like the sculpted arm, the perfect hair, you know, the whole. Sounds like two people have been checking out this Pelton instructor. So what's the problem? Why is that an issue? Well, I see her doing his ride and she has like these googly eyes going like she's biting her lower lip while she's doing it. I thought maybe she has a little crush, you know, which is totally fine. You know, I'm not that insecure. Like we all have crushes, but lately it's getting kind of weird, so. What do you mean? I found the trainer guy's social media, whatever his name is and poor she follows him. And I noticed she's like every single one of his posts. Okay, when, when we hang out, she'll bring up things he said. She'll be like, oh my God, you know, I was taking a ride today and he said, this isn't that funny. I mean, like stuff that you say when you're like really into someone or like dating them. Yeah, she's not dating the peloton instruct who's virtually on a screen. I mean, yeah, his fan page isn't like the best way to get to him either. Yeah, like, she obviously just really likes his classes. I mean, a lot of these, like in the classes I've taken, they're all about motivational and live your best life and a lot of like good energy and stuff. Right, but like, is that a healthy behavior to be kind of obsessing over somebody and riding your peloton naked and stuff like that? He did not say that. Yeah, you might start only going for peloton trainers. Oh, okay. No, not your boyfriend. I don't know how far the obsession goes. I came home one day and she was watching one of of his glasses. Like she wasn't working out, she wasn't wearing any of her gear or anything. She's just standing there holding her coffee watching the guy work out. Okay. Wow, that is so funny. Is that funny? I don't know, Brock. What if you keep up with your Husband doing that? I don't know. I could see where you'd feel a little weird about it. I mean, that's pretty extreme. It's one thing to, like, constantly take the classes, but, yeah, the extracurriculars. To go find them, to just watch them casually. That's different. Yeah. Like, it's supposed to just be workouts, but you're not obviously, like, actually worried she's going to cheat. You're just concerned that this is a little over the top and it hurts your feelings. What are you feeling? I mean, I don't know, to be honest. It's weird to say, but I am getting a little bit jealous. And I want to talk to her about it, but I don't want to be, like, the jealous boyfriend. Right. Yeah. It would be a hard conversation to bring up. You have a crush on the guy on the screen. Wow. You love him, don't you? Yeah. No more working out. Okay, so you want us to call your girl girlfriend here and you want to talk to her about this obsession that you think might be going a little too far? Yeah, I. I definitely need some help. And to get to the bottom of it. Hold on. You say get to the bottom of it. Do you mean you want it to stop, or you need her to explain her feelings about him? Like, what's the solution? Maybe both, depending on what she says, I mean. Okay, we don't know what the solution is then. Okay, yeah, I mean, I at least want to understand where she's coming from. If I'm just imagining this or. I mean, for me, it seems over the top as of now. Okay, I can see that. All right. All right, well, so we'll think about this. We'll play a song, we'll come back, call your girlfriend Vanessa for you, and we'll give her an ultimatum, saying it's either him or it's me. That is not the advice. We'll come up with better advice. I am curious who should pick. We'll come up with something. We'll do it right after this. With your awkward Tuesday phone call. Hold on, man. It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward. Tuesday. Tuesday phone call. All right, we're just getting our sweat on for the on for Tuesday phone call right now. I get it. We're gonna push through together, guys. Okay, everybody, I know half of you are feeling the pain. Yeah. The pain of this segment. Cause it's not very good. But we're gonna get through it together. All right, the new you starts today. Connor. Connor, this is your moment. We're gonna call your girlfriend and tell her. You know what, honey? Your obsession with your peloton instructor, it's not healthy, okay? We want a healthy relationship. Are you with me? Left, right, left, right, Push. Whoa. Connor, you with me? I'm ready. Okay, okay, okay. I don't know. I'm feeling the energy. That was good. I was hoping. But that's okay. You have a second career in your future, Jeffrey. Yeah, I just gotta get in physical shape in order to do it for that tired me out. Yeah, I know. 32nd classes with Jeffrey. Yeah. If you're just joining us, we're in the middle of an awkward Tuesday phone call where one of our listeners, Connor, wants our help to reach out to his girlfriend, Vanessa. They've been together for a year and she's been a little bit obsessed with her peloton instructor lately. A lot. Yeah, because he even came home one day and found her just watching videos of him not even working out, just drinking coffee and enjoying the visuals. But, Connor, hopefully we can help get things right for you. Are you feeling all right? Are you ready to hear some advice? Oh, yeah, I think I'm ready. Okay, Brooke, what do you got for him? Well, I think you have totally valid feelings, Connor, but I. I think you would even admit this is a pretty ridiculous conversation. Okay, those are two totally different things that you just said. Your feelings are valid, but this is stupid. No, you didn't say stupid. I said ridiculous, like silly. And I think that you need to lean into that. Okay. I mean, if you admit in the beginning this is a really ridiculous thing, I'm about to bring up one, it'll let her guard down so she's not so defensive and it makes you sound less like, accusatory, you know? I mean, it doesn't seem that ridiculous with all the things that she's doing. I just mean, like, the conversation of, like, you have a crush on your peloton instructor is pretty silly conversation. Brooke, I know this is probably going to sound ridiculous and stupid, but that advice was bad. Oh, Jose. What do you think? What should Connor do here? The only thing I'm concerned about is, like, usually in these awkward Tuesdays, both parties kind of have an idea, right? Of like, the issue at hand. But it sounds like she has no idea what's coming. Like. Oh, yeah, for sure. Good point. I just think maybe kind of ease into it. But don't be too aggro. Don't be too aggro. Yeah, no, I'm going to be diplomatic about it. Okay, okay, be diplomatic. Don't be too aggro. Ease into it. Know that this is ridiculous, but also, at the same time, it's really important. We're so good at it. I feel like you're being. Is that clear? Is that clear, Connor? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, I feel ready to make this call. Here we go. Good luck, man. We're going to be here ready to jump in if we feel like you need a little bit of help, but we're going to dive in. Number. Let's do it, man. Good luck. All right. Thank you. There's something to it. Here we go. This is gonna be a quick phone call. Hello? Hey, babe. Hey. What? I didn't know this was you. What's up? Oh, nothing. I was just calling to say hey. How your day's going? Well, I just finished a ride, so I'm so hyped. Oh, you worked out today. Yes, I did. My 30 minute hit. Right? It was so good. Oh, my God. Okay. Did you use that. That one guy? What? Alex? His name is Alex? Yes, obviously. He's so good. Yeah. Huh. I was. I was kind of hoping to talk to you about that, actually. Talk to me about what? What's going on? Like, this Alex dude. I feel like maybe you've been a little into him lately. What? Wait, what? Like you've just been kind of. You've been kind of obsessed with him. What are you talking about? He's my peloton. He's Alex? Yeah. I don't know. You just like, you take a lot of his classes. He's like super motivational. He gets me to like, get my done when I'm at work. Like, he's amazing. He's motivational. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Okay. But like, when you're working out, you just have like this look in your eye. I don't know, it's weird. What look? What look in my eyes? Like you're trying to seduce him through the camera or something. Like I. Oh, my God. Like I'm trying to seduce. What are you talking about? Are you joking? No, no, I'm not. I'm not joking. If I was staring at some girl every single day like that, I mean, you wouldn't like it, would you? Listen, this is a fitness instructor. I have to look at him so I know what to do. What about like the other day when you were just standing there, you know, watching his video, like, not even working out. Babe, are you, like, serious now? Yeah, I'm serious. You were just standing there smiling like a giddy schoolgirl. Okay, first of all, I Was trying to find this incredibly motivating quote that I wanted to film and send to Erica, who, you know is my best friend, who's having a horrible time right now because this guy is so inspiring and motivational. Yeah, I see the motivation and I see the sculpted arms. Like, oh, he's got everything. I know. What do you want me to tell you how sexy you are? You're so hot. This is stupid. Like, what is Alec? I mean, I don't get the sound that he gets. I mean, what about that sounds you make while you're working out? The noises. What are you talking about? What sounds are you talking about? Ew, the noises. The noise. Workout sound noises. I'm working out. You're working out. Watching Alec, you're like, stop, stop this. Gotta stop it now. I actually like the noise. Dude, I told you this was gonna be ridiculous. Who is on the phone? Con. Hey, what's up? It's Alex. No, Vanessa, you're on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeff in the morning. Oh, my God, I am dying. We're doing some laughs. We've been listening in on this call. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Don't be embarrassed. It's fine. Yeah, this is just. We're doing an awkward Tuesday phone call with Connor because he's been a little bit jealous. Jealous? A little insecure. Seeing you with Alex, apparently. Although I. You do seem to have a very strong connection with Alex. I have tried to get Connor to take classes with me and he won't do it. And now I understand why. But, yes, I have a strong connection with my peloton teacher, Alex Toussaint, who's super hot. Yeah, you have a strong connection. Yeah. Okay. Oh, my God, Connor, you cannot still be mad. I mean, it does sound like she really, really likes this Alex guy, but it doesn't sound like in the way that you were worried about. No, it sounds like they're connected at the groin. That's what it sounds like. That's what you took from this Connor? That's what you heard her say? Babe, I don't even know him. I mean, granted, he does have a book signing in May, but in New York that. I got tickets for us. You can come. But I don't. Dude, it's not like she's inviting you into, like, a threesome. She's not hiding any of this from you, Connor. This isn't like a hall pass situation. Yeah, and I. Yeah, like, you're telling me you wouldn't use a hall pass on this guy and you not like, you know, he's gonna be in New York and stuff. Like, that's so weird. Not really, though. I didn't realize that this was, like, upsetting you that much. But I need you to know that, like, you don't have to worry about anything. You can't see me. He's just super inspiring and he has to New York or whatever. Right now you're just giving off insecure. She gave you your answer. You asked and she said you have nothing to worry about. Now it comes down to trust. I gotta just trust it's not her problem anymore. It's your problem now, is what Jose saying. I actually think it might be a good idea, Connor, if you went with her to New York and met Alex in person. And that might put you at ease a little bit. Dude. And then you fight him, bro. I was thinking he'd get motivated to take a class. But either one. Or you can all. Yeah, you can all make those noises all together. Khan, like, listen, he's just super motivational and inspiring. So if you see me looking, nine times out of ten, I'm trying to find a quote that I want to put on my vision board. Okay? Yeah, I know exactly what you're trying to find. Like, oh, my God, this is exhausting. Yeah. I cannot. I love him, but I cannot fix this. Like, he's going to be like this. Connor. It's not very attractive right now. All right, Connor. Yeah. This is, like, obviously a highly emotional thing. And we're doing this on the radio right now. You need to let it sit for a while and marinate. And I think you're going to see that it's not as big of a deal as you think it is. If she would have said something different. This is bull. Because, you know, if I were doing this to a girl, you know that I was watching and I was like, following her schedule around the state. I think that somebody needs a bottle and a diaper and a nap. She tried to give you sympathy. I'll tell you. Nobody changes a diaper like Alex does. 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